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@rimacalid6557

Жыл бұрын

'On a metaphorical level' it's like subscribing to a separate school of knowledge.

@teddyson4223

Жыл бұрын

👍

@johnnybreezi1053

Жыл бұрын

I love this kind of content from you Dr. JBP. Listening to your lectures about aspects of life has really improved me

@ahmedkhan5620

Жыл бұрын

Salute to you Sir

@CynthiaCampbell0316

Жыл бұрын

Thank you Dr Peterson.

I’ve been married 47 yrs. When I realized we are ONE… it changed everything. If I win an argument and he loses, I lose anyway. Every argument comes down to what’s good for us. His happiness is important to me. My happiness is important to him. I can’t imagine it any other way

@Aureora

9 ай бұрын

this is truly amazing approach. 👏

@anniamarie3809

7 ай бұрын

In a perfect world thats beautiful and the way it should be...but its hard today when men are already addicted to instant gratification and porn, theres no way they can love a woman properly.

@Feezwa

7 ай бұрын

​@anniamarie3809 Pray. And have faith in God's guidance. Let the Holy Spirit work in your life thoroughly. Go to a church you can bare fruit. There are good men and women but they are "hidden" and held by God's hand. Not everyone can see them and reach them. Be yourself the women you want to marry if you were a man. The same applies to men: be yourself the woman you want to marry. Godspeed!

@FLYFISH4x4

6 ай бұрын

👏👏🙌❤️‍🔥

@brandonjohnson1968

6 ай бұрын

​@@anniamarie3809Can't really lump all men in that group.....your literally saying 50 percent of the population is broken and not marriage material. On the flip side though most women have been ran through quite a bit these days, and offer very little in a marriage these days....both sides can do better too....

I have been 17 years in marriage. And the feminist said that you don't need a man is a lie. To me it is comforting to know that you don't have to cary everything on your shoulders that you have that special someone who can help you cary lifes burdens with you. And been married has given me protection and security. Expecially when i have mental illness my husband has been my greatest support and rock i could rely on.

@bryanutility9609

Жыл бұрын

@@stevenbacon5027 male feminists are fake. Female feminists hate what they want and need. Women need a father, brother, husbands guidance & protection in this world. If they don’t have it will go insane. Men need female nurturing and play. Realizing what we need is key to happiness & mental health.

@HiKasandra

Жыл бұрын

Kiitos for your sharing. It helps. Have a good day. X

@dalidzucheredi2495

Жыл бұрын

The feminists who are not crazy say you need a good supporting man.

@mightymouse1005

Жыл бұрын

My late husband and I had the same kind of relationship. I miss him every day. He calmed my anxiety and panic attacks.

@mollesmart

11 ай бұрын

The caveat is the right man, a man who will cherish you, respect you, protect you and love you for who you are.

Married 44 years and have grown children and 18 grandchildren! What a wonderful 44 years!

@maralsahedova4197

Жыл бұрын

Did you work during your marriage?

@ooj100

Жыл бұрын

@@maralsahedova4197 Grown children who have produced 18 grandchildren. I am sure that happened with no “work” from her 🙄

@mollesmart

11 ай бұрын

@@maralsahedova4197 I get where you are coming from. I had to divorce someone who expected me to be a cash cow. I'm never doing that one again. If a guy cannot support you, he does not deserve you.

@karenk2409

7 ай бұрын

Congratulations!

@Samantha-lu1nv

7 ай бұрын

How many times did he sleep with another woman? And how many times did you almost divorce?

"A cord of three strands is not easily broken." Ecclesiastes 4:12

@theryanatomy

Жыл бұрын

Nah, it's pretty easily broken. I don't condone a threesome/polygamous marriage. Yuck. Even with C in the marriage, it is W that typically breaks it. C is fundamentally useless garbage in a marriage, and makes it a threesome. What G ultimately eluded to from that verse is Himself being in perfect relationship, the 3-in-1 - that is pretty narcissistic. Please reread your bible and note that the first thing Eve did after being created is to hangout with the dvl, plot her upgrade process to G status, and manipulated A. This is F nature before consuming "knowledge" and before the fall. Wake up my anti-Christ.

@sonyapetroni6459

Жыл бұрын

Amen

@arisauchida6300

Жыл бұрын

Ecclesiastes 4:9 two is better than one

@patrickfarrell5615

11 күн бұрын

Amen

I married late in my 30s. Before I met my husband all I do is work and work and care about my appearances and eating out. Life was like a roller coaster, it was fun but at the end was sad and lonely once it calm down. Now I’m married and have son, my life is well calm and relaxed, I able to take new challenges like cooking and focusing on someone other than myself, my son whom I love dearly. My husband who teach and support me. I don’t know how other women feel about marriage but for me, Im blessed to meet my husband

@th-bk2qs

6 ай бұрын

💯

@nk4sii

6 ай бұрын

May God bless your souls🙏🏿❤😊

@gardeniah9900

6 ай бұрын

@@nk4sii thank you 😊 may god blessed your souls and love ones

@liannemarie2504

3 ай бұрын

I constantly pray to and thank God for my husband ❤

My marriage is the rock and greatest blessing in my life and I cannot imagine life without my husband and kids.

@TheConqueror009

Жыл бұрын

Because you would be homeless on the streets

@dearbrave4183

Жыл бұрын

@@TheConqueror009 Do women live on the street before they get married?

@sofiabravo1994

Жыл бұрын

@@dearbrave4183 as a woman no I was never on the streets sadly men are though…

@sofiabravo1994

Жыл бұрын

@@TheConqueror009 we get it you hate us women

@winner1264

Жыл бұрын

God bless you Tracey 🙏😊

He doesn’t say it in this video but he often says something he learned from Carl Jung: you are not in it unless the exit door is shut. If you still have the option to pack and go it’s not a marriage.

@mmmppp555

Жыл бұрын

Wtf, no tnx... You understood it very badly, also there is a psychotic nuance in your interpretation.

@AJayQDR

Жыл бұрын

@@mmmppp555 I am pretty sure that’s what he means, he explains it in detail on many occasions, he says if you are with someone but don’t want to get married you are basically keeping your options open and seeing if a better option comes by… marriage means shutting that door, there is no other person and no more searching.

@tylersoto7465

Жыл бұрын

There shouldn't have to be a exit door when you married the right person and if you know this and believe this in your heart and mind , you should be able to take the challenge and devote whatever it takes to make the marriage succeed

@nbo9026

Жыл бұрын

@@mmmppp555 no and no.

@scarletlady3727

Жыл бұрын

Tell that to a woman who’s husband beats her and molests their kids….so theirs no exit door?!

I told my wife that i had shackled myself to someone just as horrible and useless as I am so we could grow as people and she almost went irate. That was not the kind of romantic statement she wanted to hear from me when she asked why I was with her.

@DaveJMorten

6 ай бұрын

😂 This comment is underrated

@Blake4625kHz

6 ай бұрын

Imo u won the internet today LMAO

@angelpilot9081

5 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@pcharm3711

4 ай бұрын

😂

I'm 22 years old, waiting to start studying for a master's degree, and I still simply look forward to doing work and coming home to a wife and a child or two, helping my wife set the dinner table and making sure things are in sufficient order. I really have realised my motivations in life are very simple. I want to provide for the people I love, more than anything. None of that was realised for me had it not been for Professor Jordan B. Peterson. He is actually a hero in my eyes. He has set millions of lives on a trajectory of improvement, including mine. UPDATE: Since the master's degree I was admitted to was the 2nd on my application list, I started to look for a job in software developing instead. And at that, I succeeded. I will start in january and hope you all establish your place in the world. UPDATE #2: It's may 2023, the job's going quite well and I hope everyone has a blessed life. Even those I think have wronged me in the past.

@Milestonemonger

Жыл бұрын

You are going to be a wonderful husband and father some day ❤️

@jpetras16

Жыл бұрын

>Things that will never happen

@lb9817

Жыл бұрын

@@Milestonemonger I pray I will be!

@lb9817

Жыл бұрын

@@jpetras16 Not with that attitude.

@Revitalization4241

Жыл бұрын

@@lb9817 I don't know man, chase your dreams while your still independent, if you get marriad be sharp that your wife isn't cheating on you. Tho i wish you all the good luck

My favorite lie Ive been told is that I'm "not mature enough for marriage" when the entire point is that marriage matures both parties. You're not mature enough? Well now you'll damn well be mature whether you like ot or not. If I desire to mature, don't discourage me from a catalyst for it

Jordan can make literally ANY Topic compelling to listen too

Was absolutely blessed to find a wonderful husband. Through his sacrifice and hard work, I was able to stay home and raise our son. I homeschooled him and maintained the home. We wouldn’t have it any other way. Our son is in university now (close to home) and finding a girl with his same values is challenging! If you’re considering homeschooling, I highly recommend.

@ep5185

6 ай бұрын

I am happy you are happy. I do hope you both know that your life is possible because of sacrifice and hard work from both of you. He is not the only one making a sacrifice, and certainly not the only one working hard. Blessings.

@thecomeaufamily

4 ай бұрын

@@ep5185 thank you. 🥰 I guess we never see work as work when we’re doing things we enjoy.

@Vin-vk5tz

4 ай бұрын

Would you still loved him if he didn’t earn enough for you to stay home? I’m asking genuinely

@liannemarie2504

3 ай бұрын

I'm blessed that my husband works hard so that I can stay home and homeschool our three children.

Great video, love Jordan, My wife is not perfect, I am not perfect, But together, 24 years now. We help each other, get closer to perfect ever day. Marriage is as special as life!!!

@karenk2409

7 ай бұрын

That's the path. Good for you both.

I like that it’s a story about how we are one being when we work together in marriage as a team using the strengths of our “separate” selves to the benefit of our whole self as a married couple. Becoming one flesh even in 2 autonomous bodies where one can have something happen but the other can impact them so much. She impacts the prince in that he suddenly feels devoted to her (his other half) well-being and he impacts the princess in that she cannot stand alone against a world once she sees her potential other half. When one of “us” is weak we lift the other up essentially. We inspire each other to do great deeds.

We've been married for 5 years, together for 10. It is so true that a successful marriage is one where both parties contribute and support the marriage itself instead of just the individual needs. Selfishness, self-importance, immaturity, and greed have no place in a marriage. If you struggle with any of these vices, DO NOT get married until you have resolved these problems in yourself. Through our hard work and the grace of Adonai, my husband and I have been incredibly successful in our marriage and intend to remain strong, resilient, loving, and humble until the end.❤

This is the most truthful and concise definition of marriage I've ever heard, bar none. My partner and I are both severely traumatized people from serious early childhood abuse and neglect. I have yearned for a rigorously honest, fully committed relationship since I was a teenager but I have consistently chosen damaged men who never fully commit in our marriage. My partner and I both love Dr. Peterson and the wisdom he so generously shares resonates with both of us. I can't wait to share this video with him because if anything can penetrate his 10-years-and-counting avoidance to showing vulnerability, despite my unwavering demonstration that I will not betray him, this video, from this source, may provide sufficient proof that my years of sharing my desire for the type of relationship Dr. Peterson describes is motivated by an authentic, loving wish to collaboratively create what is best for our "oneness" rather than a desire to trap or own him or to gain power over him. Please send us your best wishes if you are moved to do so.

The spouse is someone who witnesses your life in a way the individual cannot. By being a part of one's adult life, the two people who choose to be together learn to complete the unity into one.

@adityasangore5323

6 ай бұрын

Yes absolutely true marriage is about witnessing things

55 + years….we’re imperfect but it’s a covenant….commitment! ❤️

Respect the way Jordan breaks the truth for all of us in such an easy way.

Bishop Futon Sheen wrote a book called Three for Marriage- God is the transcendent light that both the Wife & Husband aspire to.

Wish so badly our culture understood the meaning of marriage. It is for life. We grow through things we stick together. We see all the ugly. Not a game you can quit. At some point you will let down your spouse. Be a burden be hurtful. It goes both ways. Never leave and be faithful.

In my first year of marriage and I’m quickly realizing the truth in all he said as time goes by 👏🏾👏🏾

"If you tell someone the truth about you and they don't runaway they weren't listening"

Wow, this video beautifully captures the essence of marriage! It's all about the ups, downs, and everything in between. The way you portrayed the journey, the challenges, and the love shared was so touching. This reminds me why marriage is such a special bond. Thanks for sharing this amazing perspective!"

I love 💕 JP when he laughs at his funny comments that he makes! Just great!

I was pretty scared the past 2 months realizing the marriage I'm in it's uh.. complicated but I thought I was being a terrible Husband and have been rooting out things that have happened to me just to dig and get rid of the problems for her and well with her help of course and More terrified and confused and hurt by the fact that she uh.. knew about these issues.. and I was feeling for the longest time I was self loathing feeling undeserving of her until recently I realized that well.. This.. This is marriage and I'm doing it right, I was scared the terrible things made me undeserving that she deserved so much better which I was telling her the truth I couldn't admit to myself, and she still fucking loves me and wanted exactly *that* to happen for me to grow and become better since I had absolutely nothing that was before her she knew that, if it wasn't for her I would of rode down a terrible path. It's of course not all sun shine for us but boy do we know how to kick a hurricane in the nuts when we are together. Thank you JP for showing me that well.. This is marriage and we are doing it right!

@Dylithia

Жыл бұрын

Same but I'm the wife with all the issues. I'm so glad to see how much Jordan is helping us all.

@geoffreyokrongly916

Жыл бұрын

Your wife saw that you cared about your flaws. Bad husbands don’t care about their flaws, they only look outward and lash out. Congratulations on your marriage. With your attitude, I’m confident that you will make it to the intended conclusion of any successful marriage.

@Lucikalinari

Жыл бұрын

@@geoffreyokrongly916 Wow I didn't see it that way, thanks man! Much love!

Beautiful! I appreciate the way Peterson articulates this dynamic. 👏🏼👏🏼

Go JP! I love this bitter and twisted side of you! The way you kind of explore the topics with the audience and don’t have notes puts your public speaking skills in a league of their own. Even if I don’t always agree with what you’re saying, I can always appreciate your truly masterful use of languag.

This moved me. It is so true.

Thank you for giving us hope..,

For me, that's the coolest thing about symbolism. A fact is true but can represent ONLY one true thing at a given time. A symbolic idea can represent a number of true concepts at once. In some ways it's more efficient at explaining our world than a fact. There are some stories that aren't any longer than a paragraph and contain as much truths as full text books.

Wow, thank you for changing my mind on marriage.

0:55 7:04- can’t leave, you are one, but that’s good because you can tell each other the truth (reveal/share literally everything about yourself, that’s intimacy) 9:08- must find and work out an answer to every problem, must keep going/trying, can’t quit

The beauty of listening to Jordan.

This is truth. Love JP

Try shackling yourself to some air, or water...see how long that holds you down and gives you the support needed at desperate times. Be real careful who you choose, ladies and gents. If you fell for The Lie, it can be difficult to accept and forgive your own stupidity. But never ever NEVER give up on love. It is, without a doubt, the most amazing mesmerizing feeling out there. No drug is as good

Love your stuff! You keep chirping and I will try to learn something. Thank you sir!

@andysedlak1534

Жыл бұрын

Oh, you call it chirping. I call it endless babble.

@youreadingleberry7434

Жыл бұрын

@@andysedlak1534 then don't listen ya dingus

Thank you!

Thank you Jordan Peterson

have to watch this a couple times

Married for 10 months and look forward to my future with my husband like nothing I've ever looked forward to. The sentiment is true: I can't wait to grow old with him.

That’s your mirror basically, showing you your triumphs and your bad behaviours and you can either face yourself (as one) or you can keep running. The amount of work is actually the same, having a twin flame sounds more rewarding though 🔥♥️

Goodness. I love the analysis of the fairy tale! Deep

8:47 all the way to the end is my favorite part, that is EXACTLY what I was thinking. great minds think alike ;)

I just love him!!❤

So, marriage is a Being that guides us like a light to our truth? May I add an idea for what that truth ultimately is? That alone we are lost, but together we have a chance at re-membering our Being. I am sure it doesn’t have to be a civil marriage, all relationships are a marriage, a reflection of what you believe you are.

@bernardguynunns5658

Жыл бұрын

Goes against everything Jordan just said here.

@ponggaaa4854

Жыл бұрын

He didn't touch as much upon it in this clip, but civil marriages present a unique paternal and maternal combination that gay marriages will never ever achieve. Further, a child NEEDS that parental love from both a mother and father. Each is so vastly different and they complement each other in critical ways.

@eatsalad728

7 ай бұрын

if you're religious, you already know what truth is

This is cruely hillarious. I love it

I thank you for the light Mr Peterson

This is great

"Love cannot be reduced to the first encounter, because it is a construction. The enigma in thinking about love is the duration of time necessary for it to flourish. In fact, it isn’t the ecstasy of those beginnings that is remarkable. The latter are clearly ecstatic, but love is above all a construction that lasts. We could say that love is a tenacious adventure. The adventurous side is necessary, but equally so is the need for tenacity. To give up at the first hurdle, the first serious disagreement, the first quarrel, is only to distort love. Real love is one that triumphs lastingly, sometimes painfully, over the hurdles erected by time, space and the world."---Alain Badiou He's wrong about this. Love can be reduced and must be reduced to the purity of the original experience. Otherwise the collective infatuation of society would reduce itself and love to nothing. The love between two people is and ought to be the most important love between those two people. And the person who is one of those two people has to be more important to him or herself than his or her partner. When two people fall in love, if it's done properly, fall in love with a lot of dead weight on top of them in society. It's their job to keep their humanity and not let society eat them. If their love is responsible the social dead weight would be cleansed and the two people reconcile their love to each other. Obviously I'm referring to the ethical accidental love between strangers and not the perverse infatuation that tends to corrupt family members or social groups. Infatuation alone lacks accountability and the intense love that allows for nature to grow around that infatuation provides the illusion of devotion to nature. But unless two people have a yes and no relationship that's balanced it's not ethical. It's not devotion. It's just infatuated delusions provided by Venus alone. One does fall through nature but the two strangers who became lovers must reconcile. And this opens no doors to fishers or corrupters. My contempt for them is well known and there's no excuse for people who only have jail or losing their children to foster care to look forward too.

Chvalabohu som z takého veľmi skoro vycúvala.

I'd like to hear from Mikhalia's ex on this on this topic.

@kirtley4660

Жыл бұрын

What's the situation with mikhaila's ex?

@cobaltsky89

Жыл бұрын

@@kirtley4660 she allegedly cucked her husband with Andrew Tate

@AJayQDR

Жыл бұрын

One of the sad truths of life is sometimes your kids turn out to be the opposite of you, ask Marcus Aurelius.

@marahaquala1686

Жыл бұрын

She got back with him I believe

What an amazing lecture ❤❤❤

Research into couples who live together before marriage is more nuanced that that. Studies now show that if two people live together out of convenience or because they drifted into it, they are more likely to divorce. But couples who consciously made up their mind to commit before moving in together, are less likely to divorce.

@joepisacreta3822

Жыл бұрын

If you've made your mind up to commit than just get married. This is circular.

@lorrilewis2178

Жыл бұрын

@@joepisacreta3822 Where did you get the idea they weren't getting married? I mentioned studies about MARRIED PEOPLE and the effects of prior cohabitation on divorce rates. I'm talking about people who move in together AFTER they commit, but BEFORE the wedding. The study found that prior cohabitation does not raise divorce rates for those who committed before moving in together.

@mmmppp555

Жыл бұрын

@@joepisacreta3822 We will do whatever we want to do, weirdo.

@joepisacreta3822

Жыл бұрын

@@mmmppp555 Yes you will I have no doubt. Godspeed.

@joepisacreta3822

Жыл бұрын

@@lorrilewis2178 I don't doubt the statistics - and that's good news as far as it goes. My point is that the category of people who don't move in together before they are actually married (not planning) probably overlaps almost completely with the those who take marriage and sexual union to be a sacred thing, and I think there is good data to suggest that these folks have more fulfilled and longer lasting marriages *citation needed* I'm aware and I can dig a couple up and post them here.

This is beautiful ❤

10:40 Amen

He is awesome

Frozen resonated with me very much as a young woman in todays day and age.

@DaveJMorten

6 ай бұрын

What exactly resonates with you?

@shaina--musician

6 ай бұрын

@DaveJMorten I grew up in a very strict religious home, that did not allow me to express my personality and eventually realized the only way to grow and feel good about myself was to leave and discover myself outside the constraints and pressure of the community. Elsa's story was about identifying the problem in her life, leaving a situation that was oppressive to her, allowing herself to discover her talents. Even as she discovered her talents, she still felt bound somehow to the world she left behind, so in frozen 2, she had to venture off and discover how she is even more unique than she first believed. She eventually grows into her own and fully embraces herself to the point where she is happy with her relationship to herself and the world and really thrives. That is my goal.

@DaveJMorten

6 ай бұрын

Sounds like you got a good take-away from the movie. Thanks for sharing. @@shaina--musician

@shaina--musician

6 ай бұрын

@@DaveJMorten sure:)

Excellent

I am 50 yrs old and havnt been in a relationship for longer then 3 years I'm beginning to surrender trying anymore It's sad and I'm ok with it at the same time Marriage isn't for everyone

@JavierGomezX

Жыл бұрын

I mean, I don't know anything about you. But you could ask yourself why that is happening. Sure, you can half-hazzardly come up with an unproven explanation like "maybe it's not for me", but I doubt you could learn much from an explanation like that. It's ok though, you are not obligated to learn anything from that, as long as you have something else that is a worthy source of light that you can attach yourself to.

@Daneiladams555

Жыл бұрын

@@JavierGomezX I've spent much time thinking about it, I have a lot of childhood trauma, by the time I cure it I will be dead if that's even possible to cure it

@DarkownerMinimalist

Жыл бұрын

dont give up! never! send you some ♥! greez from a random guy from switzerland.

@JavierGomezX

Жыл бұрын

@@Daneiladams555 Then maybe seek hope in another source. I am biased since I am christian, but in my experience and that of millions of people world wide, attaching yourself to God and seeking his wisdom can bring you that fulfillment. He is the one that founded the intitution of marriage after all. Regardless, I hope you find what you need, but you need to keep seeking in order to find. To quote some of the wisdom I am telling you about: “Keep on asking, and it will be given you; keep on seeking, and you will find; keep on knocking, and it will be opened to you; 8 for everyone asking receives, and everyone seeking finds, and to everyone knocking, it will be opened." Matthew 7:7, 8.

@Daneiladams555

Жыл бұрын

@@JavierGomezX im a taoist,i don't believe in god

Not built into the text? “And he shall rule over thee” sounds pretty built in. Also Paul understood this clearly when he said “Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.” The female submits to the light through first submitting to the male.

Whoa ! Every single thing he said literally is my life right now . To the jealous mom to the frustrations and wanted to sleep and never wake up I’m 27 and I’m in a life crisis mentally emotionally even physically. I’m lost

@gardenjoy5223

9 ай бұрын

That's hard, to grow a spine later on in life, when your first one was removed ever so diligently. The most important people in your life inadvertently 'told' you, that you cannot cope. That you always needed their help. Thus making you some sort of victim in the world, without them fixing everything. That's simply crippling. BUT, you can grow your own spine! And you start with anything, that interests you, that is a small challenge, but not too hard. For instance: go volunteer at the local pet shelter. Find out, that the doggies look up to you and are grateful for your presence! Take the time to drink that good feeling in of being needed yourself. Your self-confidence will grow bit by bit. Just start with something you can imagine to like doing in a way that makes you serve others. For in serving others, be it handicapped children, lonely elderly or abandoned doggies, you'll find that you ARE having worth! For me, personally, it helped tremendously to start to understand the gospel of Jesus Christ. That God actually Wants me. So much even, that He paid a very high price to call me His own child, by the shed blood of His Son Jesus Christ on that cross, where He bore the sins of all that believe in Him, to be who He says He is: the only way back to a proper Father: father God. To love God above all else and learning to love others as myself, I grew out of adolescence.

@sofiamagra

8 ай бұрын

It's been almost a year since you wrote this, so I hope you're doing ok. I just stumbled upon your comment. And I wanted to tell you: no, you're not lost. You're young and have more than one chance to get out of any crisis. If 11 months ago you were here in the middle of a crisis watching this kind of video, it was because you had an impulse to get better. I really hope you are better in the present moment, and I also wish for you to listen to that impulse and take those chances. Good luck, friend!

@bufficliff8978

7 ай бұрын

There's a channel called HealthyGamerGG that's kind of cleaning up with Jordan started for me. Jordan showed me what was wrong with my philosophy, so I knew I needed help, and that other channel has given me the pragmatic understanding to make real progress. For a lot of people Jordan is enough, but not for me. That other channel is another licensed therapist. His passion point is helping gamers, but his stuff is helpful to everyone. He answers Reddit posts, has live therapeutic conversations with streamers who consent to having such conversations live so we can all learn together; it's a great resource. He has a yt channel and streams on twitch. I hope your life is better

Thank God for Jordan Peterson

@apm9507

Жыл бұрын

Amen!

@thedarkfox9851

Жыл бұрын

I'd rather thank his parents for fucking cause thats more realistic lmao

@mandulathrimanne8400

Жыл бұрын

Amen!

@Tigerhearty

Жыл бұрын

You mean thank the rabbi apparatus that rot intentionally both side of the political aisle by joo bols h evick on the left and jo o zlonlst on the right, launching the wrecking ball of destruction of the west a little further to the extreme every time ?

Peterson grew up during a time without dating apps and onlyfans

@latt.qcd9221

Жыл бұрын

Peterson says some good things, but he's entirely inconsistent in regards to marriage where, on the one hand, he will rightly point out how unbelievably devastating the divorce process can be on men and the dangers they face and then, on the other hand, he'll shame people for avoiding relationships involving legal contracts by claiming they don't "trust" each other and that they're "planning for it to end." His care for young men and their suffering is in stark contrast to his seemingly cold, judgement of their avoidance of suffering onset by marriage. He's pushing for men to slay the dragon, get the gold, and share it with the community, not realizing that there is no longer any gold, and the community worships the dragon. To continue advocating for men to slay the dragon, regardless of the reality of the current situation, is morally wrong. Marriage, in its current form, isn't the institution he fantasizes it to be.

@mchristr

Жыл бұрын

@@latt.qcd9221 When you say "marriage in its current form", do you mean our modern Western concept of marriage? Then reject that concept and look for something immutable. Are you looking for guarantees? A man goes forward without them, knowing there are greater purposes in life than self-preservation or the avoidance of suffering.

@latt.qcd9221

Жыл бұрын

@@mchristr You can't simply "reject the concept and look for something immutable" because marriage is inextricably linked to the State, no matter how you try to arrange things. Signing marriage documents? You're linked to the State. Live together for a long time without a marriage document? You're linked to the State. Not to mention, marriage today offers absolutely nothing for men and women don't bring anything to marriage. You can fantasize about a new "concept" of marriage all you want, but that won't mean it will exist or that such women will exist. If you're signing a contract that says that the woman will be rewarded if she breaks the contract, then, yes, I'm looking for a guarantee that she *_can't_* do that because that's wrong. It's impossible to completely avoid risk, but it's foolish to take on unnecessary risks that bring no reward.

Lol it’s so funny when he said frozen is a piece of rubbish. I mean I know what he means, but I’m a singer, and I absolutely love the music in that movie.

God bless JBP's heart

I don't have anyone to tell the truth to but I have camera to record me and after couple of days I ll listen to it back. It works 👍

@JordanBPeterson

Жыл бұрын

Very creative.

@attor90

Жыл бұрын

@@JordanBPeterson I know. 😎

this is brilliant, nothing else to say...

I disagree on some of this, but always enjoy listening to you just the same. You always get me thinking. Thanks for all the post!

Wow, profound!

"I can't do it."

Until it isn't. My ex abused me. Constant putting down so I felt worthless. Not caring if I was sick. Used to put headphones on or stay out of the room. Forced me to grovel to get anything. Even a few extra dollars to pay for nappies for the kids. Had 10 yrs of that until I got out. Had another 7 yrs fighting for my independence. I won in the end and haven't looked back. Well much anyway. It's getting easier. 24 years later I'm still waiting for a good guy. I listened to your lectures on personality. I know where I went wrong.

@JordanBPeterson

Жыл бұрын

Very sorry to hear this willowstar

@willowstarfeather

Жыл бұрын

@@JordanBPeterson I struggled for a bit but then I found I could do more each time. I don't seem to be able to change who I am. It's a good thing because I like me. I was worried this trouble would harden my heart but that's not happened. I did lack some direction though. I've found a path I intend to follow. Things I've learnt listening to you and others have set me straight again. I still find I'm living outside of community though. I don't fit in anywhere. Which makes finding another mate really difficult. I talk to people with ease just I think they look at me as though I'm too much. I find a lot of men very superficial.

@jon2067

Жыл бұрын

Are you white?

@willowstarfeather

Жыл бұрын

@@jon2067 why?

@jon2067

Жыл бұрын

@@willowstarfeather just curious

I LOVE the TRUTHS you speak about our subconscious pre-marriage minds...shackles 😅😂💫

I love you JP,you're awesome... But why don't you like Frozen? I want to understand

On the flip side once you are Shackled you can take your partner for granted as we are seeing with many relationships today. Knowing that your partner has options keeps you working to being the best you can be.

@jd3jw

7 ай бұрын

I think that happens because a lot of people see getting married as the start of "happily ever after". They buy into the idea that marriage is the end state, rather than the beginning of something new. And if once you get married everything is just supposed to work out perfectly, why would you work on yourself any further?

@karenk2409

7 ай бұрын

It shouldn't be like that. Marriage should never be a competition with the outside world, There's no "shackled." You totally don't get it.

Yeah but living together before marriage is a legitimate opportunity to observe a partner's living habits and part of compatability profiling.

People leave when you tell them the truth even when you're married. It's called divorce. 50% of relationships end up that way. Marriage doesn't magically make it better what makes it better is 2 people who actually want to grow and change over the course of their lives

@amyb7823

6 ай бұрын

Yes, but up until so many years ago, most people didn't divorce. Especially not at the rates of today. Why? Because people valued marriage. They respected marriage for the lifelong commitment that it is supposed to be.

@rosieposie9564

6 ай бұрын

@@amyb7823 That is not the reason most people did not divorce. Today, most divorces are initiated by women. In the past, many women could not leave awful even abusive men because they were financially dependent on them. People still value marriage today but they also value not staying in an awful relationship just out of tradition, duty or lack of financial options.

@amyb7823

6 ай бұрын

@@rosieposie9564 Yes but why do women initiate divorce more of the time? Much of the time it's due to infidelity. And why is that? Because there are lot of women out there who are willing to have sex before marriage and sleep around. There is also a lot of temptation online- OnlyFans, access to prostitution, pornography etc. This is not good for marriages and for families. Another reason is that women are in the workforce now along with men, not staying at home and tending to the children which is a full time job in itself. A lot of women don't receive help from men in this area because historically women are the ones who tend to household responsibilities. You can blame men for this or you can look at it as society being so critical of more traditional ways of living, critical of men being the leaders of the household and women being stay at home moms that cook, clean and tend to the home that it puts a strain on marriages today. Truthfully, society has also changed economically to where middle class society requires both mom and dad to work full time. That's also an issue. I also don't think it's fair to just blame men and just say well men are abusive and it's all their fault. It's also more socially acceptable to get a divorce now and it's just too easy to give up, divorce and start over. There's no incentive to stay and work out any problems. Women just feel excessively liberated and unwilling to work out the issues. Why should they? They can just get a divorce, get alimony, get child support and start over. I don't believe it's an exclusively men only cause for the problems with marriages today. It's an overall societal issue.

Beautifull

I really appreciate the way he interpreted the sleeping beauty.

Yo dawg talk about mikhalia's ex on this topic

@raminMTL

Жыл бұрын

Andrew Tate?

@off6848

Жыл бұрын

Wutt?? Who cares

@user-zt3dv5cl4b

Жыл бұрын

LOL

I also love the story of sleeping beauty but not about the love story part etc but about maleficent herself and the power she holds , if she wasn't evil she could of been something even far more than just a powerful "fairy God" but a promise of a better tomorrow , she could of been a light in the world , bringing peace and joy to the world , and unleash great wonders and beautiful to mankind and bring a golden age to last the millennia

👌

Respectfully men need to realize that today's female would rather be desired then loved and it shows... I love Dr. Peterson and the things I've learned from him my relationship with my father has gotten allot better and I'm in a better place mentally but we need to be aware of the reality of things.. your attention isn't enough when she can get likes from every simp on the planet

@rosemaryallen2128

Жыл бұрын

I don't think there is a human being alive, of either sex, who does not want to be loved. To want only to be desired is an indicator of emotional immaturity. If young women are taking advantage of modern freedom, it is natural, but it is not going to satisfy them in the long run.

@delix8869

Жыл бұрын

@@rosemaryallen2128 that’s the issue, the large majority of western women are emotional immature. And they stay that way until they hit the way in their 30s, they’re all used up, and chad no longer wants them. Then they finally all of a sudden want to “settle down” and find a nice guy (beta) to take in all her problems, care for her, care for another guys kid, and be her emotional trauma pillow.

@rosemaryallen2128

Жыл бұрын

@@delix8869 In the past, it was the men who had all the sex they could get, and then settled down into marriage. The answer for the modern male is to make himself irresistible. Which means going to the gym/cultivating his mind/dressing with care/keeping an attractive living space/etc., all of which create the greatest turn-on: CONFIDENCE. Don't blame the girls. Blame yourselves for not getting your act together.

@delix8869

Жыл бұрын

@@rosemaryallen2128 I already do all that. My question is why would a MAN want to date a immature women in the first place. It’s not mens fault that the large majority of modern women are immature girls. A smart and confident man would never marry in the first place cause he’s smart enough to avoid that and not ruin his own life.

@rosemaryallen2128

Жыл бұрын

If all women were immature and stupid, marriage would be a dreadful fate indeed. Have you tried dating one with a PhD? Are you so selfconfident that you can discuss existentialism or why Tchaikovsky is often banal? And if you are so sophisticated, why not take advantage of all the available sex anyway?

To Be Subordinate To the Light …The prince isn’t just a man…Marriage is a bet…You bet me on and I bet on You, as You shackle to one as imperfect as me, We can straighten it out or suffer through it, for the next five decades- what a choice, As you remind yourself whom do you tell the Truth to?…. Theres a reason why he hit on every nerve, for truth can hurt, as we are all imperfect - J.P. Has no problem speaking the truth…Do not forget the most important part…the brilliance of His wisdom, that which creates…a Beautiful Gift, Absolutely Grateful❤

Yes yes yes!!!

Watch the film

Absolutely overwelming

But nothing is good when you tell your partner to dismis yourself in a appropriate manner , that surely both of you will understand clearly and respectfully grant each other a good farewell :)...God bless Professor Jordan Peterson and more power

@JayVal90

Жыл бұрын

There’s nothing good about such a farewell. Work it out, snakes.

What a trolling move from the algorithm to show me this

What would be the ideal age for a man to get married iam just curious i know in modern day times it varies alot, but i would genuinely love to find a partner and build a wonderful life with her iam 29 years old presently

Wow.

The moral of this story is … it just doesn’t pay to brag about knowing what works and what doesn’t work. Ann Landers was a self-professed “professional” advice-giver on the subject of how to make a marriage “work.” From the book … Ann Eppie-The story of Ann Landers, by her daughter Margo Howard. Margo-My children thought the break-up of Gramma’s marriage had a positive side effect. “It mellowed her out,” they decided. She agreed that, yes, perhaps the kids were right. In fact, mother and I had a joke between us. A funny thing happened to her on her way to sainthood. She got divorced.

What did he mean when he said " if someone loves you that should immediately disenchant you with them"?

I don't know Jordan, I lived with my husband for 3 years before we got married and we just had our 9th anniversary. We're making it all the way.

@charmainerichter6954

9 ай бұрын

Happy for you. May your marriage continues to grow in strength and love, respect and happiness. My story in short is exactly as Jordan described for those who live together before marrying. I never felt he was 100% committed and he became more and more difficult. We lasted 27 years until I learned that he had been having an affair for 3 years.

@briarrose7016

9 ай бұрын

@@charmainerichter6954 Well I'm very sorry to hear that, it sounds like the kind of person you wouldn't have wanted to marry. It has less to do with living together and more about the person you choose, imo. The guys I lived with before my husband were just not good choices for marriage even though we lived together for years, I could tell it wouldn't last and cut ties. It just seems it's harder to tell the kind of person someone is until you've lived with them. I know of many marriages that failed because couples moved in together after getting married and found they couldn't get along on most issues and fought about how to keep a home, eventually leading to divorce. I'm going on 10 years next month and while we get along and have everything in common, marriage is still and should be work. Especially once the physical aspect fades and you only have your feelings about each other and your respect for each other to rely on. Once someone loses respect for you in the relationship (like by cheating or lying), there's no hope.

@beautyinj6426

7 ай бұрын

I think Jordan means the majority of couples sacking up

I'm a Swede and I have never heard of this candle thing.

No

By not having a child i dont recognize the true importance of such an idea. But im glad to store it away for later to ponder on

Story of my parents true story

Before asking to hear from Mikhaila's ex on this on this topic, remember... Don't be corrosive and bullying, and do better.

@lonesamurai4484

Жыл бұрын

Don’t you know? Women are right, and men are wrong! Jordan Peterstein said so himself!