The three pillars of CONFLICT 1. When its about the dishes, its not about the dishes 2. We can get stuck - the seduction of justification 3. The art of speaking resposibly - like learning a new language Solution: V ulnerability O wnership C ommunication A cceptance B oundaries Conflict can be the engine of rejuvenation and creating better versions of ourselves! Amazing conversation

@jevvins7803

4 жыл бұрын

John wick fortnite

@mythic2385

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the early answers

@NorahsYarnArt

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks 🙏

@kareemharriott7510

2 жыл бұрын

Ohhh. oh. 8ycycy. IF

@CONNORK3NWAY1775

2 жыл бұрын

Wow you give the answers for no. 3 and 4 in my assignment thank you.

I have so much respect for Claire. One of my first professors at college, still of one of my all time favorites. There was a day when class got cancelled, and I ran into him in a hallway and we ended up talking for 45 min just as friends about the things in this video. Total mentor and a great guy

@caszr2y

6 жыл бұрын

Good thing you are friends or he might be offended by you misspelling his name.

@Lungs523

3 жыл бұрын

I’m glad you got that experience. It’s humbling thanks for sharing

Wow hearing this father talking to his bossy daughter which he then found out was being bullied made me cry. I could feel his pain in his words... wow, incredible Ted Talk...

I could listen to Clair talk for hours! He was one of my favorite professors of all time.

Watched this for a class assignment and the ending of him talking about his daughter reminded me of God, how he comes to me and comforts me when I am so stubborn. I cried. This was beautiful.

@_sarah.

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, that's so true!! 😊 Beautiful analogy of our Lord Jesus.

One of the best TED talks I've ever seen. Definitely deserves more attention.

@Lungs523

3 жыл бұрын

I agree ☝🏻

My favorite TT by far. I'm sharing this will all my family and friends.

I was asked to watch this video for a homework assignment...and it was great, I really enjoyed Clair's talk! When he shared his parenting conflicts, they really resonated with me. Ultimately learning that conflict can be a beautiful catalyst for change was empowering 😃 thank you!!

This is the most beautiful talk I've ever heard

So good. I was so lucky to have discovered the communication degree at USU. These professors are amazing.

Thanks for this! I've learned a new VOCAB in my on going strides towards dealing with conflict responsibly.

Thank you for sharing your personal story and what you found from the experience. It surely touched many hearts and souls since we all have had those stuck times in our life. I am working on it to speak fluent my VOCAB. Thanks : ) I hope you and your daughter stayed together strong through the hard time. I hope she is doing great at school and be respected and loved by people she meets. God bless you and your family.

@makennacanfield7087

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your nice comment! I'm doing great now and that experience has helped strengthen me to be who I am now 💓

clapping at home! so sweet and so helpful!

Brought tears... this is life changing.

I truly enjoyed this speaker, he makes a lot of sense on this topic of conflict.

Watched this because of an assignment and end up in tears. My God! I didn't realize how terrible of a person I am. I learned so much and I want to learn more. Hands down to you, sir. Keep up to be a wonderful inspiration to others 💛

@dianemorris3419

2 жыл бұрын

You are not a terrible person. You have just found a gap in your emotional self that now you are aware of, you can start working on and growing. No body is perfect, just because we don't know something, it doesn't immediately make you 'bad'. You are worthy of love and respect. Keep going.

Love this❤. The ending truly brought clarity. Claire helped alot of people😊

Couldn't agree more! Thanks for posting.

Excellent connect with honest confession and turnaround from everyday experience. Thank you..

GREAT speech, very powerful!

Loved it!! Especially being a new parent ❤️

His level of composure is out of this world! Great job!

Great insights.

very eye-opening.

That was great! The ending is so good omg

Very powerful metaphors and examples.

Wow that was amazing! This defiantly made it into my top 10 favorite TED talks!

@rom8794

6 жыл бұрын

Amazing! Please share your other 9. Thank you!

@beegood1215

5 жыл бұрын

I like your choice of words!

@user-ns8qs1ky5w

5 жыл бұрын

*Definitely

Clair is such an amazing speaker :)

Anybody else in tears? Definitely surprised that his daughter confessed such a thing but it hurt even more because my baby sister was acting up a time ago until I was able to reach out to her and she opened up

@wilfredodometitajr.2698

2 жыл бұрын

Sure I'm glad to know that I'm not the only one.

Amazing! Thank you so much!

Now that was a great Ted talk! Thanks for sharing 👍 ♥️

Touching

Nicely done.

So AWESOME 💗💗💗

Very educative talk

Wow, Thanks!

Open Communications , transparency, and how we deliver the message, it has its affect on others, find out what and other things is not clear in it.

Burdan bu konuşmayı bize izlettiği içün duygu hocaya teşekkürlerimi iletiyorum. One of the best TED talk that i watched!

Excellent talk

Awesome

Exceptional!

wow. just wow.

Impressive.

Beautiful

Goosebumps towards the end

Brilliant

Well said. This man gets it. Politicians on both sides of the isle may benefits from what is said here.

Great video and amazing message

#GreatTalk

I like this guy...

This dude teaches at my college and I just got the 1 hour version!

@joselinemosquera2467

3 жыл бұрын

Where does this Professor teacher? I need his lecture omg

@keatonr776

3 жыл бұрын

@@joselinemosquera2467 utah state university

@abbieabbie847

Жыл бұрын

Can you pls share it

@keatonr776

Жыл бұрын

@@abbieabbie847 that zoom link is long gone I'm afraid

do not say that conflict starts smaller but grow bigger than one can imagine. so conflict become an opportunity for new constructive resolutions when it treated well as soon as possible. however, it becomes a real fight when concerned parties neglect it and keep silence like nothing is happening. pls, handle your conflict before it handles you.

💕💕💕

why do ı feel like cryign after hearing his daughters story :(

wow

Hug it out, sing and dance together

Please someone answer these questions What does VOCAB stand for and how you use it in your personal life?

@kukustweety1

4 жыл бұрын

Watch the talk!

@Lungs523

3 жыл бұрын

Only you can answer how you would use it in your personal life Jazmine but it’s a great talk and he spells out what Vocab stands for. It’s beneficial 🥰

This echoes Brene' Brown's work nicely.

@sairanikhatimam

3 жыл бұрын

Please share the resource.

I saved my relation with her by communicating and hearing her and analyzing and keeping the boundary, mostly probably I used VOCAB even before watching this beautiful video. Now, I see conflicts always aren't bad, but its upon people how and what they want it for to be. 😀 Always speak, share and listen.

how it ended

@TedX i would like to organize a event in my conflict as a peace and conflict studies student for conflict awareness as a student

how do i get it in spanish? does anyone know? so i can show it to my friends and family

@jazplanet

5 жыл бұрын

translate it on your own...:(

@tonyq7364

5 жыл бұрын

You can also click settings and have it auto-translate the subtitles to spanish. It won't be perfect, but it could help.

@rtc5884

3 жыл бұрын

Solo traducelo

👍 "CONFLICT" IS A "DOORWAY" TO CREATE CHANGE.

How do I get in touch with this guy? Would love for him to be a guest on my podcast / channel / feed where we inspire others always on my channel. Lmk!

@Camdino55

5 жыл бұрын

I have his email if you would like it. Contact me.

@sairanikhatimam

3 жыл бұрын

Please share the email address is

Wish I could use conflict resolution to increase the volume of this very quiet video.

@Alphacentauri819

2 жыл бұрын

Well.... you could use mindset (which is often a driver of conflict), to accept the volume as it is & see your choices -turn off video -find a way to amplify the volume through an app or other feature (microphone) -listen as is as best you can :) mindset, choice, are parts of empowerment and conflict management

Can anyone summarize the main point of this Ted Talk? please

@sidneymcadorey1412

3 жыл бұрын

He's saying that rather than seeing conflict as a purely negative interaction, if we view it the right way, it can be constructive.

Burdan elif ozguvenc hocama selamlar yolluyorum

@eyyubovvv

4 жыл бұрын

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Ya yeet

UDST Student good luck in ur Assignment:D

According to the talk, are the annoying people considered as the major source of conflicts at work? Justify your answer. What are the five (5) steps given by Ms. Schulz to fix conflicts? In your opinion, are the steps given feasible? Would you try these steps in the current conflict that you are experiencing?

Congrats, dad treats kid like a human and it goes well. Big surprise.

vocab

So the kid won when it came to the hair pretties. lol

Duygu Guntek hocamiza sevgiler. ENG102 Sec.87 Kimler burada begenin bakalim :D :D

@erenozkara2787

6 жыл бұрын

artık 102 sec 3 Berna Arslan

@ardafazla7901

6 жыл бұрын

:)

@nnu97

6 жыл бұрын

Sec 99 Nil Mısır , buradayız hocam :D

Why does the speaker want us to view conflict positively? What can we get from adopting this point of view?

@Alphacentauri819

2 жыл бұрын

Are these rhetorical questions? Or did you really not get it?

INTERNATIONAL LAW

Personally, I just do the dishes.

I found this to be overly abstract. If "VOCAB" is actually of use then why is the set-up of one example described and the resolution of a separate example provided without clear reference to "VOCAB". This is a C level talk.

@rtc5884

3 жыл бұрын

Please explain

120k views 1.1k likes??????????

@Googleyourowndeath

3 жыл бұрын

Lots of students are forced to watch Ted talks and generally don't appreciate doing so.

Tel that Putin

This guy went too far to not do dishes

So you basically refused to wash the dishes as a child and refused as a youth, and instructed your wife and children to do it your way I think the real reason behind your conflicts was superiority and inferiority, who gives orders and who comply to them

WEAK BETA!!!

Awesome

Beautiful