Awesome. Two years ago, I reinforced family dinner every evening. The boys didn't like it in the beginning but now we all enjoy sharing a meal and talking with each other for 1.5 hours each night. I can't tell you how big a difference it made in our family.

@p_serdiuk

6 жыл бұрын

Sourdough Girl Do remember to also enforce placing everyone's smartphones in DND mode somewhere visible, so they won't distract anyone from the evening.

@danieldelanoche2015

6 жыл бұрын

Love this idea. When I was a child we did this and we were a very close family as result of things like this.

@Sourdoughgirl

6 жыл бұрын

Serdiuk Paul No electronics allowed at dinner time. We don't watch TV , we don't even answer the phone. Family time is a special time to us.

@blakejameson1114

6 жыл бұрын

Sourdough Girl out of all the holidays as a child what I remember was the meals. Listening to the adults conversations. Playing games together. Seeing my cousins. I don't recall but maybe two presents at Christmas but I always remembered the smells, the prep, the time, the care, the pride, the smiles, and the appreciation around the family meals.

@northernkhaleesi9567

6 жыл бұрын

This is how it’s been all my life for dinner. It always seems weird to me when families don’t eat dinner together.

"It's not about equality; it's about power." -- Gloria Steinem on the feminist movement

I'm convinced Dr. Peterson can teleport. This man is EVERYWHERE!!

@commentconnoisseur1001

6 жыл бұрын

yeah, can't believe he is even on his own channel?

@cunninghawk4330

6 жыл бұрын

Wizard.

@yungclowns

6 жыл бұрын

Lmao this is over the internet

@LH-nd9qg

6 жыл бұрын

his reputation precedes him

@miguelhernandez4975

6 жыл бұрын

I can't believe he's in his own house. He must really be sorted.

I'm 30 years old and never had a father. Although I'm now in medical school, I have struggled with attention issues my whole life, resulting in a late start on college because I was such a mess. Switched majors 3 times due to indecisiveness. As a teenager I became obsessed with weight lifting, being bigger than my peers and fighting as a coping mechanism for insecurity. I was also insanely jealous with all my girlfriends. I'm still unorganized but at least have the drive to finish school, focusing on optimizing health rather than dealing prescriptions.

@epigeneticnerd4244

6 жыл бұрын

i7fan laser beam focus is a superpower now days. Take advantage of it my friend.

@FistieSplinters

6 жыл бұрын

Bucko, take your tampon out, set your purse down, and then clean up your room ... get your shit together, Man!

@epigeneticnerd4244

6 жыл бұрын

Fistie Splinters how do I not have my shit together? I was describing the mess I was in as a teenager.

@FistieSplinters

6 жыл бұрын

Health Nerdz, I was just messin' with you. I salute your accomplishments. Dr. Peterson is known to say "Bucko" and "Man" a lot ... as well as clean up your room. I thought you would pick up on that. I wish you nothing but the best, Godspeed.

@facemushroom

6 жыл бұрын

You sound awful.

The absolute necessity of Dr. Peterson.

@Pinedal

6 жыл бұрын

Or "The absolute necessity for someone, anyone, to pay attention and speak the truth"

@drmahlek9321

6 жыл бұрын

dan that too Dan, that too.

@CondaCorneri

3 жыл бұрын

Yes!

Holy shit, I just realized something thinking about the first question JP posed to Warren. Society before women got into politics with the right to vote had to be somehow balanced so that women's well being was taken into consideration, and it was the duty and the proclivity of men to speak for women's interests. When later you add women to the playing field you now have a situation where one team is passing the ball to everyone and the opposite team is only passing the ball between themselves, as shown in Warren's conflict with the women in his group. Looking at the individual (the child), would be the proper, most balanced view that would make the game playable and desirable by all players.

@MrGulf4

6 жыл бұрын

Only families should get one vote each. If you think about it, why would single people need a vote?

@skadiwarrior2053

6 жыл бұрын

Over here in the UK women used to work in coal mines. Only rich women didn't need to work.They also owned property, which gave them the vote under the older system while working men and women didn't. It's not so straightforward as pre- or post universal franchise. The massive growth of the state and it's interference in peoples lives has done a lot to fracture society ,as the battle is on for special interest groups to capture it.

@0seraphic

6 жыл бұрын

That's exactly right. Women assume that men in power only advocate for men, because women in power only advocate for women. Instead, everybody in power advocates for women and nobody at all advocates for men.

@sandromaculan

6 жыл бұрын

I'm not arguing against letting women vote, I'm just observing that these side effect could be due to this recent change and some time and some behavior change might be in order to adjust to the new way things are. Not arguing that in the previous system males did a good job looking after all female necessities either, just that they were inclined (biologically and socially) to take it into consideration and still are.

@sandromaculan

6 жыл бұрын

I'd rather have right the vote be based on taxation alone (stipulate a low minimum threshold) and the military should be voluntary and paid according to the demand (ie if war breaks out increase money offer and adjust taxation temporarily until soldier necessities are met)

my mom and dad abandoned me when i was a baby, I grew up with my grandma, thanks to her I finish my studies,find a good job,and built my own home. Yes it was hard, but i've always tryed to be a good person.I heard this frase from her when i was 5 : " yes! life is suffering, you are strong, when you choose to; be better and try your best, most of all be gratefull" . 1 year after her dead i hear the same from this Dr. :D

@ash3rr

Жыл бұрын

Take care my friend, you are loved.

I was raised by a single mother. My mother left my father when I was about 3. My mother has never been able to balance the two roles and never made an attempt to even date let alone remarry. I am 21 and Dr. Peterson's videos have helped me realize how not having been raised by a father has messed me up so much and was severely damaging to my psychological development. Ever since watching Dr. Peterson's videos I've been working hard to self correct these issues to the best of my ability, but it's been extremely difficult. I have a long road ahead and am looking forward to one day having a son of my own and having the relationship with my son that I never had with my own father and I know it will grow me as a person in ways learning psychology cannot. Thank you Dr. Peterson.lo

@swlowry5277

6 жыл бұрын

Josh Patterson, really sorry to hear it. The suffering is for real, but definitely not the end of hope or the demise of your journey to fulfillment. There are many older men willing to offer words of advise. Grand dads, uncles, older cousins, older guys at work, etc. Seek them out. No matter how old we are, or how experienced, there is someone a mile or two further along the path we are on. Their advice can become your wisdom - but you do have to chase it down. Churches sometimes offer a service where young guys can connect with mentors, for an occasional cup of coffee, or routine meetings. Press on!

@swlowry5277

6 жыл бұрын

Josh Patterson, a question for you. What if instead of your difficult circumstances defining you as a man, you considered the thousands year old notion of your being made in the image of God... the definition of who you really are? Could be mind blowing... MADE IN THE IMAGE OF GOD! Really. No fear. Driven by a deeply sacrifical notion of love and responsibility. Could be life changing if you really thought on it - and began to act on it.

@Jkp1321

6 жыл бұрын

SW Lowry Such provides little guidance for how to he a man. I have found father figures through men like Jordan Peterson and Ben Shapiro and faith is still plenty important

@swlowry5277

6 жыл бұрын

Josh Patterson, how we see ourselves, others, and our surroundings is based on who we are... our lense, or our identity. If we see ourselves as small and frail and timid, everyone else may seem big and menacing. If we see ourselves as a powerful, loving person then those around us seem less frightening and we become less frightened. Having a clear and healthy sense of self-identity is the beginning of everything. If i am made in the image of God, i am capable of huge responsibility. I am capable of self discipline and of forgiveness, I can sacrifice for my family, my neighbor, I can learn ___, if i dont believe i am capable, i've already lost half the battle before even starting. There is a great story of a young man named Jonathan, he was the son of a King. His country had been captured and all of their weapons had been confiscated, except for a sword for his father the king, and a sword for himself. One day he and his body guard (who had no weapon) came upon a troop of enemy soldiers camping. The conversation between Jonathan and his body guard made it clear that Jonathan understood - not that he was the son of a captured king, but that he was made in the image of his creator. I believe the story is in the book of 1st Samuel if you want to look it up. Hope this is helpful...

@jercasgav

2 ай бұрын

You are fortunate your mom didn't date or remarry. From my perspective, when that happens moms often choose poorly, and there are men coming/going, a high risk of being abused physically, sexually, or emotionally. Mom then also gets wrapped up in love bird hormones with each guy. Having a step parent that really loves another person's children like their own can happen, it is just not usually the most common outcome, there is usually bias/not as much love for non-bio kids.

My husband stalled his military career in order to stay near his daughter (divorce happened when she was 4) He retired as a master corporal after 29 years. (tho' he often operated way past his rank when senior NCOs were deployed) His daughter is immensely grateful, and they have an amazing relationship. I have an incredible husband who is as loyal to me as his daughter. She has grown into a fine woman, wife and mother.

@yukey2587

6 жыл бұрын

Adam Selene. I didn't divorce him. I am the second wife. 26 years together.

@kjfdfs4327

6 жыл бұрын

Yukon Bear And you need to be loyal to him, not just the other way around. Women cheat more.

@yukey2587

6 жыл бұрын

kjfd fs4. No cheating here, hombre. And women do initiate divorce ~ 70% of the time, so I hear you there. The ex-wife is on hubby #4. Or #5, if you count "Elizabeth Taylor style".

@notmyrealpseudonym6702

6 жыл бұрын

Yukon Bear -Well done and keep up the good work ... it doesn't happen by luck 😉

@kjfdfs4327

6 жыл бұрын

Yukon Bear Yea, to take all that a man has worked so hard for, to be easily given to a *woman* by society. Mens rights movement needs to start soon.

Warren Farrel and Jordan Peterson. The two Dads of the century! Unbelievable!

My father wasn't there for me so I came to the internet

@stefan1360

6 жыл бұрын

John Gault that goes both ways bucko. Is it a son's duty to teach his father to be a responsible parent?

@xyhmo

6 жыл бұрын

*I* am your father. Look within your heart, you know to be true.

@thomaspaine9868

6 жыл бұрын

What's interesting is how many stories I have heard where many years later the son finds out that his mom was lying to him all those years that the dad left the family when in fact it was the woman who left the man. This creates lot of cognitive dissonance. All those years the son thought that the father was the bad guy only to find out the truly evil individual was the mother.

@iagreebut6813

6 жыл бұрын

Thomas Paine yeah the tyrannical mother who thinks her child would be better off without their dad makes me sick. I mean there is cases where the father is so abusive, it's better to separate, but they're rare in comparison to how often the mother oversteps her authority, and ruins the child's relationship because her relationship is ruined. In other words, just because you hate your partner, doesn't necessarily mean your child will also hate them. You can still allow the kid to make his/her own mind up.

@god-la-7wins-verdad-942

3 жыл бұрын

“I came” 💦...

I know you don't want to prof. Peterson... But I wish you'd become our prime minister! Canadians are lucky to have you

@BigFrakkinOgre

6 жыл бұрын

roxane lafrance The entire continent is lucky he's on it.

@annearmstrong7355

6 жыл бұрын

Wrong! The entire WORLD is lucky that he is on it.

@jamiewynacht4720

6 жыл бұрын

No, please don't join the mafia.

@ash070

6 жыл бұрын

I think he has better things to do. And a PM wouldn't really give 3 hour lectures lol. They would tear him apart.

@roxanelafrance1981

6 жыл бұрын

Either way, he said he has thought about it before and he doesn't want to do it... He wouldn't know what party he would run for to begin with, he's a classical liberal in his view, but the liberal Party is a failure for anyone who holds true liberal views. And he said he doesn't think he knows enough on important political subjects to take them on. But hey, 1 can still wish/dream/hope that 1 day, maybe.....

I'm a single mother who has tried desperately to maintain the relationship between my daughters and their father despite his reluctance to fulfill his role. Sometimes I get disheartened but listening to this discussion has helped me to remain focused on why I must push on with keeping the male influence in my daughter's lives as positive as possible.

Clean rooms everywhere...

@Beth-mf5ms

6 жыл бұрын

Hahahaha. Excellent!

@alexlehman3734

6 жыл бұрын

cleaning is empowering ;D

@1.25speedoneverything7

6 жыл бұрын

Dean Pagliaro - I did garage yesterday but I should work on the shed...I'll be the best male housewife in no time xD

@Beth-mf5ms

6 жыл бұрын

It's a WEIRD POWER! I cleaned my room , and it made my dopamine into a tsunami! Now I can't stop cleaning EVERYWHERE!

@acemanhomer1

6 жыл бұрын

I'm sure there's plenty of dust under plenty of rugs, couches, and closets...people often like to ride the wave of things they don't exactly contribute to. It's a fad to be "nice' "positive" "cool" "good" etc...but the world is still as shitty as it is, that surely points to people not ACTUALLY doing the best they could do, merely wearing the words and phrases but fulfilling little to none of the actual meanings...and that is either the result of ignorance or apathy...people like their rooms to look clean, or perhaps be clean in many aspects, but when your world is dirty and you aren't doing anything to help IT...dirt can find it's way in...too many focus on just themselves, and what good is our world if it crumbles even if we don't?..

We used to sell crack now we watch JBP 🙏🙏🙏

What a great way to spend my Sunday afternoon. Thank you so much for these brilliant conversations. Keep them coming.

Man...I just finished with the Shapiro thing.. well there goes my Sunday morning.

@cunninghawk4330

6 жыл бұрын

Well spent, im sure.

@nassimsaboundji1026

6 жыл бұрын

What is the Shapiro thing, where can I watch it?

@p_serdiuk

6 жыл бұрын

S N On the Daily Wire channel. They were live a couple of hours ago.

@isaiahduarte9131

6 жыл бұрын

Bro, same for me lmao perfect way to spend a Sunday morning

@uzumakinaruto-oq2mq

6 жыл бұрын

Cool. I got finals tomorrow and here I am watching this after JBP monthly questions. After this I better study for final. Lol

As a father with a young boy, I'm really grateful to hear both Dr. Peterson and Dr. Warren discuss what I can do to best raise my son. Thanks. I'll see you when you come to town next month.

I was "web-bored" and then saw this. Can help but drop everything and watch it!

@GlutesEnjoyer

6 жыл бұрын

Matthew Holland if you were web-bored then you didn't actually drop anything to watch this

@lexbaldwin5613

6 жыл бұрын

"drop everything" sounds like a bad move

@jackwebb9624

6 жыл бұрын

drop everything as in stop scrolling reddit? you BEAST

@taylorw87

6 жыл бұрын

If you drop nothing and there is no one around to hear it and you post it in the comments does anybody hear it?

@jasonfrost2487

6 жыл бұрын

Inversely, this is not nothing that you should not be saying no to.

I'm crying watching this. Both of speak right to my soul.

Every time I listen to these talks with JP, the more I'm absolutely stunned by how *holistic* the approach and worldview are. Everything just...fits, both on a logical and intuitive level.

Assembled my 3 year old sons first bike today... "Fanx dad, my modobikecicle is gweat!" I wilfully walked into the valley of darkness, created my own dragons and defeated most of them, there are more still, when you've live the kind of hedonistic life I lead, for a while. I slew that dragon, rescued the woman and returned to the village to share the gold/knowledge. I have a beautiful wife, three kids and a relationship with my father he seems to be proud of. Jordan has been another beacon of light in a dark world. Keep on keeping on Dr J. P.s.... kids are running around the house like baboons, driving my wife crazy! My life is complete.

@Mr.Jasaw13

3 жыл бұрын

That's so wholesome man . . I hope you and your family are doing well

Thanks for these interviews JP, this is a great way to find new authors to add to our reading lists

Journalists take note, this is how you conduct an interview. Listen, let the guest make his or her point, ask questions and have a dialog. For God's sake, stop playing the " so what you're saying is* game, it's stupid, sophomoric and you're better than that.

@LilyGazou

6 жыл бұрын

M- cat I wish they WERE better than that.

@m-catparanormalresearch5569

6 жыл бұрын

B heh nice

@m-catparanormalresearch5569

6 жыл бұрын

Benjamin Rood it doesn't have to be, there new people getting in the journalism everyday that means I can change

@m-catparanormalresearch5569

6 жыл бұрын

It, not I

@valhar2000

6 жыл бұрын

+M- cat _...you're better than that._ They're really not.

I grew up without a dad and alot of times without a mother and I refused to let it get the better of me.

Wow. Fantastic insight on rough and tumble play. I’m going to share this with the FB mommy group from church. Good stuff for Dads to know about themselves, but just as important for Moms to know about the Dads as well. Im so grateful for a spouse I can trust. Part of that is trusting him even when I’m hesitant. He hasn’t disappointed me yet. 😬

@phoult37

6 жыл бұрын

Amen! Husbands/wives need to focus on appreciating their spouse's unique strengths and trust each other. Sounds like you two have that figured out :)

@cockoffgewgle4993

4 жыл бұрын

It seems a bit specific and dated, though. I'd extend it to competitive play. Boys and Dads tend to turn all games into a competition of some kind. Which is fine. Dads also, I think, get more involved in play more often. When your kid is playing (which includes learning activities), you can sit there doing something else and passively acknowledge what they're doing every 10 minutes, or you can actually focus on what they're doing and do it with them. Obviously the latter is more beneficial for a child.

Wow, probably one of your most illuminating interviews. Keep up this caliber of content.

This is, without a doubt, one of the best, most informed and comprehensive discussions/ examinations on this very important subject, that I have ever watched, listened to or read!!!! This should be a mandatory pre-marital study. KUDOS!!!!!

@kari5874

6 жыл бұрын

mugotyou I said that as well but in this way. Everyone should have Jordan pertson as 2 hours class at schools all over the world

@mugotyou

6 жыл бұрын

Amen to that!!!

The quality is sublime, loving this set up, very well done bucko!

Almost all comments have thumbs ups. I think this is reflective of the general excitement everyone has when a new JBP video comes out. I've been thumbing up comments left, right and center as well, lol.

@kari5874

6 жыл бұрын

John Ny its because they are worth the thumbs up😁😁😁👍

@MusixPro4u

6 жыл бұрын

"Diciple of Jesus the Christ"... ok.

Awesome conversation. One of the best, so far.

This was a great conversation, thank you for organizing and posting it.

I thought I was too old to learn what a father figure is, I was wrong. Thank you for being here Professor.

Always a pleasure to watch!

Thank you for posting this dialogue. Superb conversation!

You have no idea what you have done to us... Thank you ❤️

I consider conservations like these useful because they are practical, but also, because the positive results that can stem from them extend beyond the individual, but to society as a whole.

@BigWelshMike

6 жыл бұрын

Take it one step further. Useful? (meant nicely)... not even near. Instrumental and of paramount importance more like. Even in the first thirty minutes they're pulling apart the father figure and how necessary it is for all manner of reasons. It's just a shame that many people won't see this because it doesn't contain the media-friendly sound-bites that reach out across the masses. However, it's been awesome so far and your comment is spot on regarding the reach it has into society itself.

Great conversation really enjoyed it. I firmly believe a child needs a father and mother if possible

Thank you Jordan for using your platform to showcase and promote such interesting and meaningful conversation.

Looking forward to the next conversation between you two. Great stuff!!

Slay them dragons boys! You’ve got a life to live!

FINALLY SOME LEGIT CONTENT THANKS JBP

@arturmuellerromanov4438

6 жыл бұрын

you came here from bruce lee videos?

@yukey2587

6 жыл бұрын

You came here from cute kitty videos?

@thestoebz

6 жыл бұрын

You came here for Jake Paul videos?

@Adam-ui3ot

6 жыл бұрын

You came here to get the intelligence you thought you had torn away in the first sentence?

@fryingwiththeantidote2486

6 жыл бұрын

Ayy bernie, glad you’re in on the JBP crew too! I appreciate your channel a lot, ive found many a great music from you!

Lectures are what you're best at. More please!

Great conversation! I'm so glad that these two got together.

Also see this, on play, by Jaak Panksepp, a brilliant neuroscientist of emotion and motivation: bit.ly/1O0dqSN

I’m so happy I’m learning things like this as I’m 17 years old, and not when I’m in my 30s or 40s after having children, when it could be too late.

I've been waiting for this interaction for a while. Thanks guys.

Much love to you and your family Dr. Peterson. Take care of yourself and your family. 💜💖💖♥️💜💖♥️

I started tearing up feeling so grateful for how my dad used to rough house with me and my brother

Great conversation. For me as a father of a 7 year old it gives a powerful perspective on the importance of my role in his development. Something that is rarely articulated so well.

So happy to see these two come together and have a conversation. I was very excited when Dr. Peterson announced he'd be talking with Dr. Farrel and their talk was everything I hoped it would be. I hope they talk again

THIS IS THE BEST DISCUSSION EVER POSTED ON KZread or anywhere! Congratulations Gentlemen for sharing your knowledge and expertise.

Wow, the production value for your home setup is great in this.

Everyone needs to see this video. Thank you Gentlemen. Thank you.

Thank you for your effort & understanding gentlemen.

The general increase in production quality is very appropriate and very welcome. Good job JBP!

Thank you both so much

Wow, see you've put real effort in production quality, good work! Although I personally don't mind if the quality of you're video's is low (because content is everything) I wanted to let you know i'm glad you are able to succeed in the KZread environment. Also, it's good to see you are doing better, you are looking good. Okay now on to watching the video..

Fascinating interview/discussion. Thank you for sharing it with us. The final discussion was well worth the weight.

I really appreciate these videos. The videos you post are hearty, useful information. Please keep posting, I support you.

15:28 Dr. Peterson is FINALLY getting to the root of the issue! Having children is a responsibility, NOT a personal right free of consequence.

3 uploads in 3 days. Doc putting in work

@mustavogaia2655

6 жыл бұрын

Peterson Broadcast Network is on

Excellent interview lots of knowledge and good flow of conversation!

Thanks. Loved the talk. Great listen for all! XOXO

The quality of these videos has improved multitudes in the past year!

Perfect Sunday! I'm going to watch this right after your interview on Ben Shapiro's Sunday Special! :)

@John-lf3xf

6 жыл бұрын

Jordan Wife Beaterson

Excellent dialogue, all around, and I'm VERY MUCH looking forward to JP and WF's next conversation on the pay gap. Bravo!

Thanks for this Dr. Farrell and Dr. Peterson. Thoroughly enjoyed it! Sharing with friends and loved ones. ^^

The older I get, for some reason the statement fed to me as a child really bugs me. “You can be whatever you want to be and have it all.” I see more of how much of a false and dangerous statement that is and how much that statement needs to stop being used. Why you ask? Because not a single person, no matter the gender, can or ever will have it all or can become anything they want to be. No matter how hard they try. It is an unattainable, unrealistic, and foolish goal. It’s setting people up to be failures, and possibly lead them to suicide. To tell someone, such as a child, they can go into any possible field of study they want and become the best at it is a falsehood right there in its self. It’s absolutely wrong on so many levels. Anyone who thinks such a statement is good and encouraging really needs to step back and think long and hard about that. Are you really going to tell and encourage someone to become a brain surgeon when they struggle to understand and retain what they read, even if it’s laymen material? Who struggles to pronounce or spell even the simplest of the Latin medical terms used? Who lack the physical or mental rigger such a position tolls on those individuals in that kind of position? Who is so obvious devoid of the necessary aptitude for such a position? No! People cannot do any job or study they want. No matter how hard they try. Every individual has their limits and capabilities. To lie to that person and have them believe that lie is setting them up for a miserable, unfulfilled life. No one will ever feel successful, fulfilled, pride, accomplished, or empowered if they suck at what they are doing in life. When they can see others around them are doing and achieving so much more and seem to never struggle or work less hard then them to achieve it, yet they work to the bone to get what very little and unfulfilling bits they can manage to do. They will be miserable! They will feel worthless! They will feel like a failure! The world will treat them as such because they are! Would you go to an inept doctor or surgeon? Would you allow one of your loved ones to go to one? No, you would not, especially if you know and can access better ones. Who is going to hire an inept doctor or surgeon other than an inept practice? People should be encouraging others to become the best at what they can honestly accomplish. To work within their means and get the true satisfaction, pride, and self worth by doing what they are realistically mentally and physically capable of accomplishing. Only then will they be happy in life and with their life. Secondly, everything in life is sacrifice! No one can have it all, because they have to always sacrifice something to obtain what they do get in life. What we should be telling people is pick the right sacrifices in life to better yourself today, and tomorrow, and years from now. You can’t have it all and no one ever will. All you can have is what you are willing to sacrifice in life. What is more important to you? What are you willing to give up right now in order to get what you want later? Telling anyone they can have it all is another falsehood!

I love Dr. Peterson, so I watch every video, lecture, interview, or talk that comes out. One of the biggest downsides though is that you get to hear the same examples over and over and over. It's not even annoying any more, I just start laughing every time he starts talking about rats wrestling.

@mrknarf4438

2 жыл бұрын

True, but is it really a downside? Had I heard that example just once I wouldn't be able to quote it to my friends 😁

Great video. I'd love to see more interviews by you Dr. P. You're a great interviewer.

Thank you to both of you, this is a great video with excellent advice for parents.

Yay! I've been waiting for this!

Thank you thank you Professor Peterson another great video

Fantastic! Thanks, Jordan and Warren! For a young guy who was never really sure of what it might actually mean to be a father - and consequently was never sure on whether he would actually want to be one! - this talk was both eye-opening and encouraging in a truly remarkable fashion! THANK YOU!

Simply amazing. Well worth speaking up and finding real solutions to today's problems.

Great talk. Terrific improvement in AV quality (he no longer needs earbud headphones!)

Dear Dr Peterson, I can't wait for your talk in Los Angeles in June. I hope to see you then.

I loved this interview! I hope you do another talk with Dr. Farrell soon.

More content like this please. These one on one dialogues are great.

Haha. I'll file this under "only Jordan Peterson". Quotes Nietzsche and Homer Simpson, in the same sentence, to bolster the same point. Classic. :)

The telomere thing is absolutely insane.

This was the most profound and important conversation that I have been lucky to observe. Please please keep up these discussions and share them with the world. Completely amazing.

The authors of 2 of the most important books I’ve ever read getting together & joining their intellectual might; I love it! Thanks to you both for the amazing work you’re doing. I think the tools are here to really change the world.

The Universe is aligning, at long last. Great background set-up. Very appropriate 'office' area (needs your books though). The FIRST interview by JBP ~ let's all pray there are hundreds more. JOURNO-HACKS take note ~ THIS is how you conduct a PROPER professional interview. No constant interruptions. We hear both sides. GREAT JOB JBP.

@cwarrior62gt

6 жыл бұрын

oh, I now understand the reasoning behind your second post here in this comment section... you didn't get enough attention with this one.

@annearmstrong7355

6 жыл бұрын

Sorry I don't understand 'HL'

Rough housing with your child gives them a sense of security. A peace of mind. You exhibit a trusting relationship with your child by showing them that despite your physical and mental power over your child, you show them that they have nothing to fear from you. You have outlined healthy boundaries for their future interactions. You have shown them how to control themselves by controlling yourself within the boundaries of the relationship and the interaction. You also stimulate the release of endorphins with the exercise and imprinting a memory and a blueprint for them as future parents. You also show them humility, both in your restraint and deference in the interaction and their less powerful role in the relationship/interaction and life in general. It serves as motivation to improve and to become more able, capable, intelligent, stronger, taller, powerful,........It's funny, we never think about such things in depth, but once you do there really is no end to the depth of what most think is an insignificant moment.

Lots of this is so recognisable. I always wrestle with my daughter and she loves it. As a result she listens to me so much better then she does to her mum. I rarely ever have to get angry with her. My wife on the other hand has to constantly tell her off and get angry. I also follow Jordan's advice of not doing things for her that she can do herself. She does not always like that to start but always is proud when she has finished the job herself and gets my praise.

So much great Peterson content constantly coming out - awesome

@annearmstrong7355

6 жыл бұрын

Great background set-up. Very appropriate 'office' area. The FIRST interview by JBP ~ let's all pray there are hundreds more. JOURNO-HACKS take note; THIS is how you conduct a PROPER interview. No constant interruptions. We hear both sides. GREAT JOB JBP.

Damnit Jordan. You have to take us on a art tour through your "home catalogue" some day! Thanks for the vid

@spacecat5517

6 жыл бұрын

danthefrst That is a nice piece behind him.🤓

@alexjones9111

6 жыл бұрын

i thought what a beautiful home he has / must have. he also dresses quite well. im curious to know what car he drives

@solaveritas2

6 жыл бұрын

I can't adequately express how much I appreciate the fact that he let's us into his home, so to say. It's amazing and makes everything so personal.

@iAteUrCookies

6 жыл бұрын

al ex He rides the dragon of chaos.

90% of people in jail had no father figure

@KingKhan-123

5 жыл бұрын

Cause some single crazy women are raising them with the state fund.

Thank you so much doc and Proff !!! Everybody should watch this video completely so informal and knowledgeable, raise your kids right and love and the next gen will have no problemo!!!

Good conversation. THank you very much!

I'm probably going to be rambling a bit as i stumble through trying to get my message across but i will try my best to keep things as concise as possible. This video made me experience something that i don't recall ever having experienced before. Not only did i learn a bunch of new facts about how important the presence of a father is in terms of long term physical and mental health of children, but more personally hearing Warren Farrell talk about video games and the effect they can have on people gave me this really concrete but also abstract feeling of my brain tingling to the point where it almost felt like my head was exuding fumes of some kind. Not because what he said was new to me, but rather because it was exactly the opposite. I have and do play a lot of video games for both good and ill and i have thought and even articulated to myself and others, how effective video games are at mimicking the "self improvement" aspect of life, where you set yourself a goal, make a plan, and slowly execute it while remaining flexible enough to change the plan as is needed. But as Warren so profoundly points out and as i've realized myself over the years, it easily becomes a replacement for real life achievements rather than a simulation that you learn from on how to apply to that procedure to the real world. Exactly because the proccess of playing and learning in a video game and gradually progressing towards your goals is so much more immediately satisfying and fun, with all the various visual stimuli that measures your experience growth and all sorts of other numbers that you get to see increase in real time, while also rewarding you for long term planning and improving your skill at the video game. So when you've experienced that for years, it becomes incredibly difficult to adjust to the real worlds lack of "gamification" of incremental progress while you try to delay gratification. By contrast everything else feels like much more of a slog, and a numb painful, sometimes even meaningless grind. Finding the joy and satisfaction, the motivation and discipline to both getting started in the first place but also to keep going once the going gets tough, dull or boring gets so much more difficult than it already is in the first place. At this particular moment in time, i don't think i really have any fitting conclusion or way to end this comment, but i will add that all of what i've said is coming from someone who adores video games and loves it as a medium and a platform. My observations and thoughts and critcisms surrounding video games do not come from a place of hatred or resentment (as far as i'm aware anyways) while video games may be designed to be manipulative and take advantage of these things, at the end of the day the majority of the fault is still my own and i cannot lie the primary burden or blame at the feet of video games for my own weaknesses.

@VerbalLearning

6 жыл бұрын

Thank you for taking the time to read my comment and give your thoughtful reply. It's very much appreciated.

If you have the chance, Mr. Peterson, take the time to discuss The Myth of Male Power and Why Men Are The Way They Are with Mr. Farrell. The book turned my life around.

Wow...tip top conversation AND production value!

Great production quality.

I've dreamt of this moment

i wish my father was apart of my life.

@laserflexr6321

6 жыл бұрын

Well Danny for every young person who has the same desire for a father figure is an old man in fear of his twilight years alone, wishing he had a kid to pass on the knowledge and material possessions he has accumulated. Just because your mother couldn't get along with him doesn't mean you cant. If you have no way to find him or if you know him but, like your mother, you can't get along with him, find a good old grandfather type and treat him like one. There is no rule carved in stone that says your best friend can't be 30 years older. You can find him in a week if you try, but it may take a few years to build a relationship, biological father or otherwise.

@stay.alive.00

6 жыл бұрын

LaserFlexr your kind words made my soul weep. thank you. enjoy the day bucko

God Bless JBP, You're profound insight has helped me and my family in so many ways.

Fascinating and illuminating! Thank you both