What do you think makes a woman High-Value?

@angieash9560

Жыл бұрын

authenticity

@Peace-tk3gr

Жыл бұрын

Being strong, wise and compassionate.

@r.p.8906

Жыл бұрын

A non negotiable unconditional tender self-love. Number 1.

@sandy89107

Жыл бұрын

Knowing her worth and not compromising it. 🤩

@evka24

Жыл бұрын

Woman of integrity and love

"It's not selfish to have a goal and do something that lets your heart sing." I'm so grateful for you, Lisa.

I just love you girl!! It feels like you’re telling my exact story!! 😱😱I’m in the final stage of divorcing after 27 years. My husband killed my soul… and shattered me in a trillion pieces. But, I’m a strong baby. My biological mother tried to aborted me 3 times, but by Grave I was born. Adopted. Narc dad. I was an excellent child. Springbok Athlete. Accountant. I obtained a Masters degree in IT. I’m a saxophonist and a very very good photographer. But, the horrible reality struck me that ONE person could break me down in total. But!!! I’m building myself up - with ALL the thanks for the awesome help. God Bless

I have been listening to a little bit of that content and then had a conversation with my husband to see if that’s what he wants- he said he wants an equally intellectual/religious/confident woman. Every man has their own requirements. So be TRUE to yourself And you will find a reciprocal match for what you want in life. Marriage does require sacrifice and compromises but it shouldn’t be one sided where the woman is the only one depleting her identity.

You look so healthy and radiant! A high value women never settles for mediocre and invests in her self mental, spirituality, physically and financially

A High Value Woman is her Highest Self, best version of herself and her most authentic self! The steps we take to get there might be similar (self worth, abundance mindset, confidence etc.) but the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow is different for all of us ✨

@Lotussis

8 ай бұрын

This!

“It's never the circumstances that determine success in life but what you DO with the current bad circumstances that determines your success in life.” - Dani Johnson. Incredible person reading this, have an awesome day! I believe in you! Love ~ Nat ✨❤️

@bekindpeas

Жыл бұрын

❤️Back at u

@itisfinishednowtimetoclean2723

Жыл бұрын

My X and I literally had a counseling session over the fact that I told him I didn’t want to be with him because I Needed Him, but because I wanted him and he wanted me to need him. I replied in counselor’s office that I think wanting to be with you is healthier! I allowed him to slowly control me on every level. It all became so toxic. I am getting back to my old self pre marriage, I am my own hero.

If I could give this a million likes I would, its a real game changer when you realise that you are with someone because you want to, not because you have to! Thank you x

Humans need other humans. We are wired to pair bond and to form our own tribes. This will never change. Doesn't take away from your value to need other people!

@Veronique428

Жыл бұрын

Thank you 😊 yes we need each other on daily basis. This rethoric, THE “I don’t need a man to make it happen” mentally have ruined most woman in western countries. How hard it is to admit and that we need each other, the masculine energy need the feminine energy like the yin and yang ☯️. It’s spiritual how we complete one another, even in homosexual relationships there is one with more feminine energy and the other more masculine; most people who are oblivious about it or denying that are spiritually blind and have spiritual handicap.

Perfect, Lisa! Esther Perel says that NEED will kill desire in a relationship. Your words were so empowering “I WANT him. I don’t NEED him.” Healthy and keeps the passion alive!

I am a single mom and I have been struggling just to get through one goal. There are only so many hours is a day. I am up early and running my self to death until 12 am the next morning. I’m too tired to stay up and do my homework and my house work. I had to sacrifice raising my child alone for my goal and my happiness.

Having your hubs involved in this discussion is so valuable. Thank you to him and you. High value is such a bizarrely economic way of thinking about a person. I'd say high integrity gives one value, in part.

@Psalm_27.4

Жыл бұрын

@Laura Alexander INTEGRITY is the KEY. SO is waiting until marriage. most people don't BELIEVE this. YET divorce is high and marriage is low. Why cant people see the connection!

Don't depend on anyone but she's a hero of her own self. Have self esteem and self care routine High standards women has confidence and she's kind. I'm growing to become that woman 👠❤️❤️

I've been creating my list of things to feel pretty and good, and I enjoy those things. The glow that comes. I feel confident in my way, I don't need anyone's approval to tell me I'm confident. If others don't see it, I don't care. I truly want a partner I don't need a partner. I have much to share and want someone who feels the same.

Oh thank you so much for this video. There's a huge problem online with this topic. It's ridiculous when self proclaimed gurus teach women how to be more feminine. I am naturally very feminine and it made suffer so much comparing to my female peers who are confident and outspoken. I always waited for others to make the first move (either men or women). Let Me tell you: it ruined all aspects of my life. In adult life, nobody will "invite you" to joining life. We have to take the actions by ourselves. Social media nowadays glorify women being passive, socially anxious and with freeze/fawn neurological response. That's not being "feminine", that's trauma response and as someone who went through trauma I can't tolerate it being the "norm".

@kateoverdier8716

Жыл бұрын

BRAVO!! Totally agree- ver well said! ⭐️⭐️⭐️

@user-cl6uj5bn2f

Жыл бұрын

💯

@cbounds3265

Жыл бұрын

Same story here. From what I've seen and experienced, the submission that is being associated with feminity, is one that's intentionally designed to leave women open to abuse. Self-reflection and awareness are everything but unfortunately it takes time to develop. I feel sorry for the kids growing up today on social media who'll have to navigate through a cesspool of toxic messages.

@TejubescDM

Жыл бұрын

@@cbounds3265 yeah, it's terrible that young girls will see this type of messages. Lot of teen girls will look for dating advice on the internet and find this shit. I was fortunate to grow up when social media was starting and there was not too many "dating coaches". Still some things I found on Internet traumatized me deeply and affected how I feel about relationships. It must be worse if you see this as a kid.

@onearth5132

Жыл бұрын

I'm so grateful for your comment. As passive and very humble women, we will get men but they are usually the type who wants to take advantage of us whether knowingly or unknowingly. It's VERY rare for a decent man to get with a very submissive woman and "invite" her to live life and be very fair to her. They usually get in relationship with women who respect themselves and know how to respect others.

It's always someone with a husband trying to tell other women they don't need a man

@daughteroftheking6402

Жыл бұрын

Hahah, Right!!

@aishasharif6097

Жыл бұрын

😂😂

@Robyn101

Жыл бұрын

Lol we have one so we can tell u from experience 😂😂😂😂

@Veronique428

Жыл бұрын

That’s ironic indeed 😂😂😂😂😂 But the rethoric changes when they are alone; THE “I don’t need a man to make it happen” mentally have ruined most woman in western countries. How hard it is to admit and that we need each other, the masculine energy need the feminine energy like the yin and yang ☯️. It’s spiritual how we complete one another, even in homosexual relationships there is one with more feminine energy and the other more masculine; most people who are oblivious about it or denying that are spiritually blind and have spiritual handicap.

@bns3543

Жыл бұрын

Very true

Here's my thoughts on the last part. I agree that everyone has preferences. Some people like dating people certain height or look. It has nothing to do with being insecure, it just our brain sees some traits more attractive than others. Same goes for personality. But economic wealth is different topic because it's not part of our identity. I don't care if the guy I like is broke or rich cause that's what he has materially not who he is as a person. Of course certain personality traits contribute to being rich, but for me that's not important factor. If a guy is rejecting a woman only bc he is just "not into succesful women" his intentions are questionable to me, because we fall in love with person, not their material status. Money come and go. They don't show if you are good or bad person. Things like: wealth, education, location in specific place are not part of our permanent identity, they are states that can be changed due to circumstances. I am not attracted to someone's wealth or job. I may appreciate those things, but that's not enough to decide to date you or not.

Watching that conversation with Tom…. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying it with malice, but I find that dynamic of your relationship really draining and exhausting. Is it the same at home?

@r.p.8906

Жыл бұрын

yes, there is tension... both have their legs crossed at each other, then the voices went up... then she literally ungrounded herself by taking her legs off the ground and moved back and shrunk in the corner of the couch. Non verbal communication is 90% of the communication. I felt uneasy as well. I recognize too well this body language. The stomach pain is a symptom of 3d chakra loss of energy: the solar plexus is depleted. Listen to your gut bc it is actually screaming at you to get back your power. Much love to you!! He sounds very defensive about insecurity. I would have loved it if he listened to you with love and respect and then let go and said something along those lines: "darling, I am anything you want me to be, insecure or not, and I am still super attracted to you!!" do not give a S@ his egO, but he is not letting go bc of insecurity LOL... This is YOUR show, but he wants to lead...

@vickip5275

Жыл бұрын

Agreed… he asked her several times to let him finish his thought and she respectfully listens. When she expresses a thought he is verbally impulsive and disrespects her thoughts by cutting her off saying she is wrong. Stressful way for people to communicate

@sandy89107

Жыл бұрын

I felt he is intimidating at times toward her, but maybe it works for them. She then "ups her game" and rises to his level at home. She seems to enjoy challenges and keeps her alert and high energy. 💗

@suesilva5252

Жыл бұрын

Yeah. He’s a bit much 🙄

Loved this, but especially loved the intro! Women are complete on their own, as their own person.

Wow Lisa, on the swlf care portion and the feedback portion, this video is exactly what I needed right now!!! This is too good ❤️

AND THE BELLY PIERCING! I’m waiting until I can wear mine without pain cuz my rolls. I’m getting there. Ugh I am obsessed with ur look and ur message thank you for the loud fashion choices, including body jewelry, with this very loud message that I’m rewinding how to hear clear.

@lisabilyeu6293

Жыл бұрын

Haha thanks homie!

A man wants to be needed and feel important. Like they are your knight in shining armor. If a woman makes more money and is independent, they feel insecure about what value they can bring into your life. It intimidates them. You need someone who will build with you. With the mindset that you are a team. Better and stronger together.

That was delicious, especially the convo with the hubby! Gives me so much insight into the dynamics and poses questions I've never even thought about. I'm still on team Lisa though, regardless how much time and effort he put into proving his point :D

I love both of you but I’m older and I agree with Lisa. Most men are insecure with powerful women. However they define power. And as Tom says we need to dig deeper as to why. Most men don’t think about it.

Love all the expert clips & when you said “Take care of yourself first”

Celebrate your achievements even when you failed celebrate that you tried this will build your confidence so you can never give up on yourself as you are your own cheerleader

I think I see where Tom is coming from with his point about not all males who would prefer a woman who is less ambitious are coming from a place of insecurity. I love to cook and I enjoy cooking for my partner and tho I don't mind being with a man who cooks, I prefer being with a man who doesn't really know how to cook because it makes me feel like I'm giving him a treat. As opposed to a man who knows how to cook and loves to cook because me cooking for him may not mean that much to him, like I would like it to.

In society, the message appears that we want but if we acknowledge we do not need them it becomes offensive and degrading. I agree what you say 100%

I need to lift my game. I am working to be that high quality woman.

This Lisafit, tan, hair, all of it is just like wild woman, I do what I want, I learn, I’m honest, I’m here to teach you and help you. I’m not here to bs you. ma’am LOVE THE NEON PINK ITS SO FUCKIN PRETTY

I love your conversation on this topic Lisa. The differences between men and women seems to be bigger in England and the US than in Scandinavia. I really understand that youth and good looks are important for men and I apprichiate your partners point of view on this topic as well. But when it all boils down to it, as women we need to have our own back.

Loving your book ! I wait for night time to learn and laugh with you 🙏🏻🌹✨

Lisa you are awesome! I love how you help me develop myself and grow!

Lisa I think u r such a role model and I look up to u a lot! Thank you for sharing ur empowering story to all of us! U made an impact on me 🌝 just want to let you know …

Lisa, I love your sincerity and passion

who do I turn to for validation..the universe. I'm flying solo. I'm in my BEST chapter ever due to radical changes.

Showing your man that you can stand up in your own with or without a man in your life

I fell back in my bath because I slided and my husband was asleep at that stage, knocked out cold. So I got back up after calling out to him from the bathroom and realising he is in deep sleep, so I can relate to your floor story Lisa, thank you for sharing this.

@Indigorose44

Жыл бұрын

Google Lisa, she’s loaded.

I can so relate about the health issues! I have so many goals! But the health issues just keep crushing my dreams!

I love love love love love this:) this is absolutely absolutely 1000% true:)

I have learned a lot about powerful and co creative relationships and respect and value in relationship from you two as a couple. In this video I have noticed that Tom makes a point of holding Lisa back from interrupting him while he gets his thought out but speaks over her several times……

I completely agree I always had this independent very do it all yourself kind of person! When a lot of my other friends guy crazy I'm like I'm good by myself not that I don't want to be with someone but I never need to be with someone to love my life!

Loving the saturation in real life with her bright tan and her bright pink neon top like yes me me me me me. You may be the only human I know of that loves pink as much as me

Nice collection of valuable information

Thank you girl. I appreciated particularly the celebrating part. Look, i give you a big tip, look into the book “Dr. Mozzi’s diet”. That is something. That is something.

Teach Preach Help the ppl Yes yes yes Hallelujah I needed you to say this

I love you Lisa!! you're amazing 👏 💖

This is so empowering!!! Wooo! 💪

You are looking fabulous Lisa !! Love the hot pink with the tan going on!

Thank you for your inspiring videos.

Love you! ❤ Thank you so much from France 🇫🇷☺️

There are two types of women. Woman, who wants a man and a woman that man needs. You can be at your high values and build a self confidence, and having the right person with you, will build each other. I became modelleerden independent and free and strong after my marriage so my husband does and we both grow ourselves, working Nador no one but ourselves and building a power couple. Everyone can do a lot by him/herself as at the same time people need people.

I love, love, love, LOVE this ❤❤❤❤❤

Thanks!

Thank God for your wisdom 💜

I agree with Tom. He has points that are personal and real. I had them to 👌as a young person.

OOOF that segment at the end where you chat with Tom - OMG that hits hard 😅Looking at the world the way it is v How you want it to be. Looking at the data between the sexes, and defining your values and what you have to offer as a woman once the "youth and beauty" aspect is no longer the focus - THIS is where the rubber hits the road. I wish Tom ripped the lid off this one and there was more time to go into this (I'm not afraid of cans of worms! hahahah). Great points Lisa - this helps lay a foundation for women looking where to start. There's so much growth we're here for HA! 😅 Thanks for creating this vid!

Wow 😲 I am mesmerized by this whole thing 😲😳❤️ Simply amazing 😍

I appreciate you so much ♥ Lisa

Barely listening to the intro and I LOVE YOU LISA!!!

I definitely feel that I need a man in my life. There was a time I thought I didn’t.. hell, I felt I didn’t back when I was married. Now, things have changed. Life has evolved. I want to have the constant balance of healthy masculine partner/lover in my life. I’ve been alone, not believing I needed a partner for over 7 years. In These past 7 years, I’ve discovered new things about myself. I’m happy to begin to accept all of what I’m becoming 𝒂𝒏𝒅 needing.✨✨

YES! I love you, Lisa ❤🎉

YASSSSSSSSSSSS!!! LEARNING SO MUCH FROM YOU BOSS CHICKS!!!!

Thank u gurl!!!!

"Homie!" Loved that part! Lol

so interesting!

AWESOME topic- TY Lisa! About last segment w/Tom: Could it be a majority of (emotionally healthy) men each gravitate to the girl that makes them feel most masculine, rather than the girl that they don't feel insecure around? Just my guess. I don't earn 6 figures yet, am a tall slender American girl who's grown up & lived in the Rocky Mountain West, in Colorado & Montana, where most men are pretty dang manly. (Read: physically strong, drive SUVs & Trucks, own & use guns, are almost always physically fit, and, around cities, most are also college educated) I don't think I necessarily intimidate men, though I'm gentle, friendly, & LOVE pink. But I do notice guys shorter than me or in trades never ask me out- even though I'd love a buff guy who poured concrete all day!! I think/guess a lot of men gravitate to the girl that makes them feel "manly" or more masculine when they are around her. My gut is that it's not always insecurity. (I could def be wrong though bc I'm still single!) wonder what others think about this.

@mollesmart

Жыл бұрын

I know some of these so called feminine tall, blondes mostly out of a bottle, and who starve themselves to death and think that is feminine. That is not, true feminity is to be strong as a woman, be confident as a woman and be kind as a woman all in your terms. I hate women who have to have a checklist of your's to define femininity, pink really...I have all kinds of guys hitting on me in West Texas, if you bring an woman like me who is curvy and put me among these skinnly, boyish and fake blondes guess who wins. The curves always do, because they signify warmth, femininity and grace. Just my two cents.

Love it Lisa. You're beautiful

Yea !!🌎

Thank you Lisa for the content but how did you overcome your gut issues? I’m experiencing the same and my hair is falling out in clumps.

Love u Lisa

Lisa..... Ur so amazing ;) So amazing!

Something else nobody shares...how to maintain being a high value woman when you become chronically ill or diagnosed with a life limiting disease that renders you incapable of maintaining your career, social status, and relationships. I keep searching and I find nothing. You're only as valuable as others deem you and our society generally bases that on appearance, career, status, and what you can do for them. You can be "high value" so long as you never get debilitating ill. I wish I could find someone that covers this subject for lesser able bodied people. Maybe then the CI community wouldn't be/feel so irrelevant and disposable.

I love the information on Women of Impact as it keeps me motivated to be a better person. I feel the wording "A High Value Woman Doesn’t Need A Man" in particular "Man" is not the right word to use as the word "man" does not consider LGBT.

Love you 💛💫💛

I love Charlyne Johnson

Hijab makes me feel good and confident as if am wearing a super women suit every day, but God do people hate me. When I was in HS i used to wear tight clothes and everyone loved me, but i had no confidence.

Thank you!!💗🌸🙏💝🌻💥💣🔥

I remember hearing Tom say on his show that he has a 3 ring rule with calls from his wife. If she calls 3 times, he answers.

The moment she said “A high value woman do not need a man “I paused and scrolled 😂I need a man 👏🏻😂😂😂

Please have Doctor Ramani back again ❤️

Lisa who is your nutritionist n excersise coach...I want great core ,a balanced bod..I work on it weekly but I don't see results I should for the time I been doing it for.....I do eat descent too..you look great in pink....

@Indigorose44

Жыл бұрын

Lisa and her Husband started Quest Nutrition. She’s a billionaire

Lisa - beware of people u listen to. Take care of yourself & Be Happy.

You very wise and deep woman. How do you think your language and your “fuck” makes you high value woman or low value woman ? How do you think language and look is important for high value woman image and how people will see her ?

If we all don't need each other because everyone is next to themselves and enough, wouldn't the world be a very lonely and selfish place? If I don't need anyone in my life, I am alone. But humans are social beings. My problem, for example, is not that someone has to tell me how beautiful I am, or that someone at work has to tell me how great I am. What I can never give myself is unconditional love from another person. I can neither hold myself in my arms nor feel so secure when a man holds me. You can certainly give yourself a lot, but in my opinion, the love of another person cannot be replaced with self-love. I can never give myself that great feeling when someone else loves me unconditionally and shows it to me. I would love to know how you give yourself this great feeling. I would really like to know, because that would solve all my problems!!

That’s kinda crazy to have such preference kinda asking for trouble really ! Maybe try Ashwagandha or dmt . Idk .

Please invite Brianna weist to the show

Finally!! This other KZreadr is really misleading a lot of young women.

@Veronique428

Жыл бұрын

It depends on who you are listening to! Even our favourite influencers and KZreadr on some topics can be wrong or we can disagree on the subject or on their views. And I wholeheartedly disagree with her, maybe it’s the way the argument she gives, but I don’t agree. This rethoric, THE “I don’t need a man to make it happen” mentally have ruined most woman in western countries. How hard it is to admit and that we need each other, the masculine energy need the feminine energy like the yin and yang ☯️. It’s spiritual how we complete one another, even in homosexual relationships there is one with more feminine energy and the other more masculine; most people who are oblivious about it or denying that are spiritually blind and have spiritual handicap

In the near past, I was letting vomiting and constant burping stop me I'm here for God and Mother Earth that's who I feel validated by. 🙏🕊️❤️

@mobutter2879

Жыл бұрын

…not sure if you are serious. However, it sounds like a gluten intolerance. Burping, gas, bloating..cramping and nausea. Try modifying your diet, and check you stomach ph. Ideal stomach acid is between 1-3, 2 is the sweet spot. ❤️

@illuminationgoddess3

Жыл бұрын

@@mobutter2879 Yes, I am serious. Try looking up Targeted Individuals, Implants. I did get tested years ago when it was bad.

Your husband required that you let him finish his thoughts in this podcast, but kept interrupting you. It's ok for you also to say 'Let me finish my thought.'

❤️❤️❤️❤️

Give yourself CREDIT

how can i be HVW when i have adhd?? no one takes me seriously, no one appreciates that i like to laugh a lot. they treat me like im a child, meanwhile i just love to have fun. ive been rejected because of this countless times. im so done with feeling im not good enough because of this!!

No offense maams..broken can be beautiful too. Not everyone can stop grinding

It enrages me that he interrupted her so much after INSISTING that she let him 'fully encapsulate' his thoughts. It's simple. Whoever has the money, has the power. Which is why if a man has more money, it makes him feel more powerful and gives him the freedom to do what he wants in the relationship with less fear that she will leave him. And if she does leave? If the man has more money, he can hire a better lawyer in the case of divorce. Tom just doesn't want to admit the dark roots behind the 'preference'.

I can stay on the floor. 💔

@lalashowers

Жыл бұрын

💔💔💔💔💔

@lalashowers

Жыл бұрын

!

@lalashowers

Жыл бұрын

Broke. Broken. Broken. 💔💔💔

@lalashowers

Жыл бұрын

Help

im a poor single mother with no daycare and no family. i cant get a job. I cant make money. No one understands this level of society. All you have resources so this message is far from me. Can you make a video about the people struggling to live at the bottom? Or do you even understand it? Or have you always had resources to draw from? People are dying out here.

Your husband didn't seem to listen to your complete thoughts on this podcast and make your points.

5 seconds in and this sounds so toxic...

@tinaw8755

Жыл бұрын

"toxic" is such a fucking overused word...

@arabian_empress

Жыл бұрын

Toxic how? She's not lying. You don't need a man you want a man, a need is something you will die without. You won't die without a man lol

@Veronique428

Жыл бұрын

It’s emotionally exhausting and draining indeed 😂😂😅 This rethoric, THE “I don’t need a man to make it happen” mentally have ruined most woman in western countries. How hard it is to admit and that we need each other, the masculine energy need the feminine energy like the yin and yang ☯️. It’s spiritual how we complete one another, even in homosexual relationships there is one with more feminine energy and the other more masculine; most people who are oblivious about it or denying that are spiritually blind and have spiritual handicap

Want to watch how I become a real man? The Swiss Joe Rogan. The self-critical and women-friendly macho. Check it out!!!