Think I cracked up too hard when he said, "We Japanese men are okay with it, because we're masochists"

@_blossom_2208

2 жыл бұрын

haha same here XD

@causticorc3005

2 жыл бұрын

Red pilled japanese man! You don't see this very often. Welcome to the club MGTOW.

@sanchezzz69420

2 жыл бұрын

Sad, sad.

@Embargoman

2 жыл бұрын

Yet a Catholic priest is a perfect sexless life.

@raventalks3695

2 жыл бұрын

It explains all the Shibari/BDSM/Bondage porn though lol

Disclaimer: every thing he says is the truth he just had to say it was a joke so Japanese women don't murder him.

@Meshida

2 жыл бұрын

🤫🤫🤫🤫🤫

@Osiwan960

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@crunchynetto6979

2 жыл бұрын

well, based on what my girlfriend told me, most of what he said, if not all, are correct~

@Shiro_Sora

Жыл бұрын

0:50😂🔪🩸⚰️

@jesroe5842

Жыл бұрын

So that his *wife**

This is not a joke!!!!!!!! I was dating a Japanese woman for ten years before we got married, and I lived in Japan with her, we were married for ten more years and when this guy said they turn into monsters, he was not joking, and after we had our son, who is now six years old, she became even worse!! In the last two years of our relationship, I had enough, but I didn't want to divorce her as I believed we could work out our differences! I adored my son and he loved me very much, but my wife was jealous of our bond!!! One morning I drove my wife and son to his school and left the car with her, as I had to take the train to work, I said goodbye to my son and told him I loved him very much and I would see him when I got home that evening as always, and he said the same. I also said goodbye to my wife and she said the same with a smile. When I got home that evening, I was devastatedly shocked to find that she had left me and kidnapped my son😱😭 she had also taken the car and everything in the apartment! She had also canceled the apartment agreement!! And everything that she had done is legal in Japan!! I had done nothing to warrant such an attack!! I could not work as a teacher anymore because I was so devastated at losing my son, I couldn't stop crying at work, as missed him so much! I had to go back to England!! I am saving as much money as possible to go back and find my son, as he must be also devastated!! It was an evil act, as far as I'm concerned!! So make sure that you check all the laws in Japan before getting married to a Japanese woman!!!

@gustavhaggendal7492

7 ай бұрын

That's such a heartbreaking story. I hope you find your son.

@wickesentertainment2377

6 ай бұрын

I think you should kick her ass for kidnapping your som

@RarebitFiends

5 ай бұрын

Jesus, I am sorry you and your son have had to go through all of this, what a nightmare. I hope you are able to reconnect, this is heartbreaking.

@HomelessShoe

5 ай бұрын

I honestly don't know what to say, but what happened to your son and you is just an evil act. I hope you'll be able to see your son again.

@calvinjones4480

5 ай бұрын

Smh women can be evil incarnate regardless of where they are from or what their race are.

I was married to a Japanese woman and experienced all of this while living in Japan. Everything he says here is a fact. Dating is fine, but marry a Japanese woman at your own peril!

@tonydimartini

4 ай бұрын

hahahaha. REally? Its that bad?

Her father, becomes your father in law Her mother, becomes your mother in law Her brother, becomes brother in law Her sister, becomes sister in law Your wife, *BECOMES THE LAW*

@Meshida

2 жыл бұрын

hahaha😁

@bored9145

2 жыл бұрын

God damn that's clever

@kirtirani4720

2 жыл бұрын

😄😄😄😄😄😄😆😆😆😆😆😆😆

@wandererwest4832

2 жыл бұрын

This sounds like marriage anywhere else.

@hanzz9083

2 жыл бұрын

Your husband is under the law

My wife is an Osaka girl and she was laughing all through this video saying "true" "true" - now I'm a little scared. LOL

@Meshida

Жыл бұрын

hahaha😁

@InquisitiveUniverse

Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣

@MassDynamic

Жыл бұрын

brace yourself. lmao (he's a goner)

@POTATOEMPN

Жыл бұрын

"Why are you running?"

@employee8449

Жыл бұрын

There is an exception to almost every rule: maybe, you're lucky! Marrying my Japanese ex-wife was the worst mistake of my life. But a friends Japanese wife seems to remain nice even after having children.

Thank you: I enjoyed this very much. I have lived in Japan for almost 40 years and now live half and half in Japan and Europe. Of course I have Japanese close women friends, but I have been careful not to marry. Many foreign men I know in Japan married to get a visa but 永住者/permanent resident without marriage is best! When I was first in Japan (1984) there was a comic magazine about a dreadful middle -aged wife "Obatarian" - and I understood the danger of marriage. At first I worked as a 英会話/English teacher and there was a class of older housewives. One lady told me that she was very unhappy because her husband had retired and was now always at home. The ladies taught me their Japanese word for such a retired husband - 粗大ゴミ/oversized garbage. Now I am in my seventies, and many of my Japanese friends are of the same generation. Many of them are really happy couples, still enjoying their lives together - maybe more than my Western friends in Europe, where so many are divorced. Everyone, man or woman, Japanese or foreigner, is an individual so every relationship is different. My experience is that Japanese women are still kind to me, even after almost 40 years - but I've not married ....

@peterc4082

2 ай бұрын

Jigolo.

@rizznrk77

5 күн бұрын

The "not married" part is the KEY 🔑😂

This is not a joke, everything he says is true, if marriage is so unfair for most men in the west, being married to a Japanese woman is literally HELL on earth.

"In western countries, married couples are a partnership." Meshida, this was your best joke!

@Meshida

Жыл бұрын

lol!

@alexfrank5331

Жыл бұрын

@@Meshida Is it common in japan for partners to stab you in the back? Sometimes literally?

@sbyrstall

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, a partnership that is 90/10. Ninty percent hers, ten percent the man's.

@mastabla3ta684

Жыл бұрын

Too bad he's wrong about American woman in thay case lol

@TheKajunkat

Жыл бұрын

@@sbyrstall Wow that's a really good deal. I get to keep $20 a paycheck on a six figure salary. You're a genius!

"In Japan, we still have a slavery system and that is called Marriage..." That one killed me🤣🤣🤣

@Meshida

2 жыл бұрын

Arigato!!!

@TrippieMint

2 жыл бұрын

I mean it’s not too different in America now if you get married or have a kid all the girl has to do is simply leave you and she still gets everything from you and she doesn’t have to give you anything either girls commonly get with young rich kids (such as basketball players) because they don’t know how things work and they can easily get they’re lives paid for while doing what they want

@dimspj2179

2 жыл бұрын

@@TrippieMint So sad 😥. People are using other people as objects...

@TrippieMint

2 жыл бұрын

@@dimspj2179 yea the worst part is that there’s nothing they can do except not get into that situation but people would shame you if you did that

@srbflorin1804

2 жыл бұрын

Isn't this like deafult marriage in general? I mean I live in eastern europe and getting married also isn't on my list yet

I'm currently learning/studying Japanese and this was mad hilarious!!!😂😂 Thank you for the warning, Meshida-Sama😂😂😂

@glenn-wk2by

3 ай бұрын

What he said is a bonafide fact! I and many of my friends experienced this......and I have many stories just like his over the last 40+ years. It is so true it seems it is programmed to happen every time. Would I do it all over again? No. NO.

25 years into the relationship with my now Japanese ex-wife. I gave her the baby and did my job and the tyrant emerged! This video was very funny and cut very close to home for sure. It is not far off in describing a certain sets of housewife behavior (in my experience and observation).

@gamermixy.t3664

6 ай бұрын

Why ex-wife ? Something happened ???

"We Japanese understand it and can accept it because we are masochists." Pure gold!

@giannilyanicks1718

9 ай бұрын

good reason to not go in japan.

@KM_Lab

9 ай бұрын

Japan's gender wage gap is at the bottom of the OECD. Japan is famous for being a male-dominated country. Because of the large wage disparity between men and women, men are forced to live a life in which it is difficult for women to be independent. This KZreadr makes statements that are typical of a selfish Japanese man. In order to "prevent Japanese women from being stolen away by foreign men," they use a lot of hateful expressions that demean Japanese women.

@feliciab5019

8 ай бұрын

That definitely was hilarious 😂

@deleteme924

8 ай бұрын

@@ChrisHeart-kr1uq wtf

@giannilyanicks1718

8 ай бұрын

why suicide in japan are rare to be seen nowadays?

My wife (From Tokyo) said to me,"You treat me like a maid." I replied,"If you were the maid I would have fired you after the 1st week." It went down hill from their

@Meshida

Жыл бұрын

hahaha😁

@Saberdud

Жыл бұрын

alpha move

@vincentamella5682

Жыл бұрын

@Y grinding along. I remember her saying one night," Fine cook your own meal"! So I did. She was not happy. I remember the female friend that introduced us telling her," He is an American male. He can take care of himself." The wife still doesn't get it.

@lars9168

Жыл бұрын

@@vincentamella5682 I like how you say "the" wife and not "my" wife xD

@inconnu4961

Жыл бұрын

@@lars9168 Because it is illegal to call them 'the ol' ball-N-chain' now! LOL

So true!!! 😂. Thanks for posting this!!!

Outstanding, very enjoyable thank you!

30 years married to an Osaka woman. The kids are all grown now, but I am suffering from severe PTSD. Thank you for the good laughs!

@Angel-re3is

8 ай бұрын

What is you experience from day cero to this day? I wanna know what strategie you use to keep your sanity.

@Exdonn

8 ай бұрын

It's kind of scary how every "trending" video of Japan involves putting it down in some way 🤨It's literally the complete opposite with midlestrn/hspanek cultures.. of which the latter gets praised to no end. I'm sensing some kind of intentional degradation towards Asian culture by the ones in charge of YT🤨This is just downright creepy and disgusting.

@Angel-re3is

8 ай бұрын

@@Exdonn I'm mean your not wrong nor right. I saw videos on KZread downgrading white, black, Hispanic and other cultures getting downgraded but it depends if you firstly search it up or not and then KZread bonn you with it.

@Exdonn

8 ай бұрын

@@Angel-re3is Um, no. I never said I searched any of this up. If you read my comment I literally said "trending", meaning it just popped on my page without me ever looking it up. And BTW, I've looked up hspanek/midlestrn themes occasionally. So by your point I would at least see 1 negative video on hspanek/midlestrn culture. So far 0 to none. Unless I search it up of course. But again as I am repeating myself, I watch Japanese videos occasionally and am recommended nothing but negative videos about Japan. This NEVER happened with hspanek/midlestrn. It doesn't matter your "opinion" and "what you think you know." I'm talking about what I'm actually experiencing myself.

@nichepaper

8 ай бұрын

@@Exdonn​​⁠​⁠​⁠you’re thinking too hard. I see your point but it’s the algorithm. I rarely get negative Japanese stuff unless it’s about history but I get tons of “negative” stuff about western women and people without searching it up. I could look up an Elden ring video and a couple videos down would be a video about how western women filled full of marshmallows. Speaking from experience in America at least people here are constantly spitting in the wind. It’s sad.

I'm married to a Japanese woman. She's not quite a "monster wife." However, she does have her moments with our kids, and depending on the situation, I'll either defend her or our kids. My best advice I heard from other foreigners is, "Study her mom." The advice is mostly true. Other than that, as a husband, you need to have a back bone and don't always put up with that behavior. Marriage is a foundation; not one person over another.

@Meshida

2 жыл бұрын

thanks for sharing your ideas!

@bernardocardoso1356

2 жыл бұрын

Well said, Manuel! Single men looking to marry a Japanese woman, "STUDY HER MOM." She is the woman your wife will grow into. This might be true for other cultures, too. My Japanese wife has a strong personality but I am just as stubborn as she is, if not more. We may butt heads every now and then, but we get along fine for the most part and always work together when life gets hard.

@bernardocardoso1356

2 жыл бұрын

@@Meshida Great video, by the way. You had me laughing my lungs out.

@JohnMiller-zr8pl

2 жыл бұрын

Tell that to the Charizards out there.

@silverwings8486

2 жыл бұрын

@@JohnMiller-zr8pl you got point 👍 When law system come bargaing in i don,t think there will many things to do ☕

This is very informative and hilarious! Thanks so much my friend!😁👍

たまたま見つけましたが感動です！ これほど日本女性の習性をわかりやすく英語で伝えている動画はないと思います。

I worked on the JET (Japan Exchange and Teaching) Programme. I asked the girls in my class if they wanted to grow to up to be like their mothers ... all the girls raised their hands. I asked the boys if they wanted to be like their fathers ... none raised their hands.

@BleakDeath

8 ай бұрын

Hey man I heard of JET what is it exactly ? Are you teaching English? I’m American and want to experience Japan even though I’m scared of work culture heard it’s crazy crazy

@TexanIndependence

7 ай бұрын

@@BleakDeath Skip Japan, too expensive. Second, you're honestly better off going to a cheaper asian country and just finding a girl there that speaks Japanese EVEN IF what you desire is a Japanese-speaking Asian girl because you're an Otaku. I'm fluent in Japanese and lived there and can tell you Japanese women HATE otaku, utterly HATE them. Whereas you can find Chinese, Filipina, and other girls that love Japanese anime, probably can speak some with you (if that's what you're into), and you will generally get along with them much better. I married a Chinese woman who respects me (but I do have to put the foot down when she goes into tiger mom mode to ensure that is only directed at the children, but that's frankly the mother instinct ALL women have, if you don't make them shut-it-off when they talk to you it will be a problem), and while I might prefer Japanese language (it's easier on the ears), everything else is 10x better. Plus you can live in parts of China for $200/mo rent ($300/mo due to US dollar inflation) with no contracts, my entire living costs were like $550 a month, maybe you'd need like $700/mo now, I lived for years while doing remote American work making multiple times that. Lived like a king. In Japan you'd need like $4,000 a month to live in a major city. But it is pretty fun. I would just go on vacation trips to Japan (only like $300 flight from my part of China to Japan) several times when the urge hits me. Find a job that you can do remotely in America. Heck there are call center jobs you can do for like $18/hr in the USA REMOTELY, so then do it from China where $18/hr ($3,000/mo) makes you richie rich.Heck you could work part-time, just 20 hours call center in the USA and make $1,500 a month which is easily enough to live like a king in much of Asia. On a side note, (if you're still listening), I'll just say if you like anime, even just a LITTLE bit, that is strike one with many Japanese women, if they catch you watching certain types of anime, they will FREAK OUT on you. And if you're a christian it's strike two. When some Japanese female colleagues heard that I watched some popular shonen anime (if you watch DBZ, Naruto, etc. KEEP IT A DANG SECRET) it nearly cancelled out my good rep as Shacho, some mockingly called me the "Otaku Shacho". And even before that, it seemed like only the gyaru type girls were the only girls with decent english willing to speak (others too shy and poor english). It's much harder to go after the shy, modest, conservative types (you have to be able to speak FLUENT Japanese because their english SUCKS) that I would want there because Japanese nationalism is really weird compared to other countries. I disliked most Japanese women because they are so dang materialistic and godless. There are more christian trad wives in China where christianity is persecuted, than Japan where christianity is just mocked and non-existent as one Japanese friend told me, "you Americans killed christianity here" and told me how Hiroshima and Nagasaki were the christian refuge cities where christians hid for centuries from shogunate persecution and that the USA wiped out virtually all of Japan's christians and the Enola Gaye used the largest church in Japan to drop the bomb. Anyways, long story short, get a wife from a neighboring country, and if you like the japanese langauge just find a chinese, korean, taiwanese, thai, filipina, indonesian, or other wife that speaks japanese (studies it, or so forth). I'll admit Japanese is the most beautiful language of the region, but slap it on ANY of the women of neighboring regions (and I've dated most of those I listed) and they far exceed Japanese women. But darn if I don't prefer it. But if you want a shy, conservative girl (ASK them if they like America and if they say "Yes" RUN AWAY, very far away, the proof is when you follow up with "why?" and their answers are always materialistic bad stuff, like celebrities, money, fashion, etc. the correct answer is for them to shrug and say "I don't know", but "no" is better than "yes" but may cause problems if you try to bring them to the USA later since they don't like it).

@TexanIndependence

7 ай бұрын

​@@BleakDeath I see you work in IT, and have a good income. Save up like $50k bro and you can live like a king elsewhere for a few months or years and make a killing just doing remote IT work. I'd recommend China, Philippines, Thailand (great beaches), or other Asian locations. Japan and Korea got great cultures to suck you in but the women have issues and the living costs are just too dang expensive for foreigners, especially rent. In Japan the landlords often will reject foreigners altogether, they are even allowed in their advertisements to say "no gaijin" or "no filipinos" or "no africans" (landlords can openly discriminate on nationality and even on race though they usually will frame it around nationality to avoid getting labelled a racist but it's legal regardless). Many landlords generally view gaijin as unstable tenants, which is generally true. Korea is worse as they tend to require all tenants give them huge deposits up front (like $40,000 to rent an one bedroom apartment) unless you find a rundown place or look far outside the city centers. I found it cheaper to just negotiate with hotels for long-term stays (i.e. pay for 30 days at a time) than to get an apartment but it makes you feel like a permanent outsider until you can get a girlfriend to jeonse with you. Pretty crazy. Like to just RENT a 2 bedroom apartment under jeonse system you have to put up $80,000 and then live there "rent free" for two years as your landlord pays YOU back after 2 years. It's really weird. It's virtually impossible for foreigners to get a loan for jeonse in order to rent an apartment, you basically have to be rich enough you could just put the money down yourself or are willing to put a house down as collateral, you almost always have to have a wife or girlfriend do it for you. So yeah, that's why Korea and Japan suck as far as rent/living costs for foreigners. I liked Korean women more than Japanese women, but Japanese nightlife/cities more than any other. But Korea itself is so dang depressing after a while and I broke up with my korean ex because she became an alcoholic (they are like the irish of asia, love soccer, drink tons of beer, but with endless sad songs playing instead of upbeat pub songs) and didn't date others because the american-crazy girls are all materialistic and not my type while the ones that dislike America and are better women (conservative, patriotic) tend to be sometimes strongly anti-american due to US troop issues (lots of clubs there with "No Americans Allowed" signs or "No Foreigners Allowed" when I was there while others had policies of not letting you in if you don't speak Korean, though honestly I regret ever going to Korean clubs as the women in them are trashy just like in US clubs, I found better women ironically in their PC cafe's playing starcraft with them, haha) and their families were often a bit less accepting as Korea has a lot more ethnonationalism and "mixing blood" is frowned upon. One time I was standing in front of my hotel trying to get my girlfriend to come in with me and a korean grandma went out of her way to bump into me very forcefully. Ultimately skipped out on that and married a great Chinese woman, total trad wife. Hong Kong, Taiwan, Singapore are great too, they are all used to foreigners and you won't meet as many people that treat you like you're different especially if you speak Chinese with them, I often felt like "one of them" (but I am fluent) and treated respectfully by their parents whereas Korea and Japan you are ALWAYS foreign to them and often looked down on by parents (unless they are western-crazy families who are materialistic scum that you don't want to marry into). Met her in one of the more christian cities there (she wasn't herself yet, but her sister and aunt were christian so she was open to it though her parents are still sort of noncommitted pagans). Basically if you want a tradcon wife with a conservative patriotic family yet still welcoming to foreigners you have to look outside of Japan and Korea oftentimes because ethnonationalist ideas are often interwoven into their form of tradcon. Hope I helped. I noticed the kek which is why I bring that stuff up.

@BleakDeath

7 ай бұрын

@@TexanIndependence dude I read every word… thank you for this advice. So actually I’ve been talking to Chinese women. Well like 20 of them messaged me and so far only thing we can do is voice chat. But better than texting. Anyway I was talking to this one and she is by far over 10 years old than me I’m 21. But seems like she is in the right mind not materialistic at all and loves the same things I do nature, food, music, and more other intimate things I guess. So she has me kinda wanting to go to China (I know some of their culture from having international students from Korea, Japan, and China) and I love their food and their culture is very nice as well. (Really just want to leave the U.S. to an Asian country) and she wants me to go. She doesn’t want to go to the U.S but rather stay in China. Not sure if it’s weird she is 37 😂 and again I’m 21. (I dated an American women at 18 she was 38) I want a women who is more traditional and respectful as she seems to be and we have talked about these values and told her what I would accept and not accept 🤷🏻‍♂️ so I turned my eyes to China and currently I’m learning Chinese first tones and then pinyin. I have a teacher and everything and she is helping me with 5 words a day 😂😄. You said in China even part time you could live comfortably which is crazy I live in Southern California sooo expensive. But I have a question 🙋‍♂️ you said getting a remote job. I have IT experience of 5 years with more advanced things like networking but I don’t mind to do a more basic job if it means a life in China and a possible relationship. The main pint is to escape CA. And learn the language because I think it’s very fun the whole learning process even though it’s very hard. So how do I even get there as far as a visa? Work visa? And you said work for a U.S. company and then move to China? Wasn’t sure what you meant as far as that because that’s another thing I need to secure. A lot of remote jobs are within the U.S. unless I target the few that are abroad somehow haha. What are the steps? Cause I didn’t understand on my part.

@BleakDeath

7 ай бұрын

@@TexanIndependence also she is Buddhist unfortunately.. I am a Christian man. So although it may be difficult maybe I can show her god through actions. Just has to be a way where it’s not offensive or pressuring 😂 but for work that’s the main thing man. And learning the language at least I’m learning hsk 1-3 and I’m hoping to become at least close to fluent doesn’t even have to be that. But I think more learning will come while being in the country if the mother tongue.

This I can confirm. My wife is Japanese, I'm Mexican. Completely different lifestyles. She was like a innocent girl when we were dating, then when we got married. She became Big boss mama bear. It was a struggle since she wanted most control of our finances, which was fine as she barely spent anything on herself and more towards our daughter's, but she was always asking for my paycheck stubs, and decisio making around the house. After about 8 years, she realized our way of lifestyle is a bit more loving and more partnership rather than dominance. Our marriage is still great and has vastly improved, especially when we moved back to California, and we love our daughters very much. I guess she felt like she needed to show her prowess in Japan so she can be a traditional Japanese wife/mother.

@GameBoyyearsago

Жыл бұрын

I hope good luck to u and pray for your daughters best wishes and good luck : )

@xminusone1

Жыл бұрын

My man, you are a better man than I am. I would have gone buying a cigarette pack long ago.

@milascave2

Жыл бұрын

@@xminusone1 there was a guy in my family who would regularly do that. He had a wife and family and would go out for a pack of cigarettes and disappear for years. But he would come back, and be taken back. Those were different times.

@Mannwhich

Жыл бұрын

lol never would have worked with my wife if she was that controlling. So I ask women this all the time, if you don't trust your husband to protect you, your home, finances, etc., Why On Earth Did He Marry YOU????

@mattikuokkanen

Жыл бұрын

> I guess she felt like she needed to show her prowess in Japan so she can be a traditional Japanese wife/mother. I need a clarification here. To my understanding traditional Japanese wife is submissive to her husband but still capable of defending her home and children from robbers and the like. Is this not true? Or did it go out of the fashion along with naginata as a marriage gift?

Thank you for the very interesting insights !! And also presenting this topic in a very funny way. I am very interested in watching more of your videos !!!! :)

Thank you for creating this channel. It's really cool that you're producing content in English. Very funny.

I know an American man who lived in Japan, married a Japanese woman, and he described it just like this, but he wasn't laughing so much.

@Meshida

Жыл бұрын

hahaha😁

@ZoeyR86

Жыл бұрын

He is a masochist so he is happy

@marktrain9498

Жыл бұрын

I am an American man who lived in Japan and married a Japanese woman. None of this is a joke.

@ZoeyR86

Жыл бұрын

Chinese women same problem

@ZoeyR86

Жыл бұрын

On retainer I can't take the mental abuse anymore

I love how after he says "this is a joke, don't be upset" he just starts spitting straight facts XD

@williamjosephburns1504

Жыл бұрын

for real! Man, that was good. Definitely worth sharing.

Thank you Meshida, I have really had a good time watching this video.

Meshida, thanks for video. Very helpful. I had no clue about that

I've been married for 17 years like this and living in Japan for the last 11 years. I can confirm all of this--he is a comedian, but he is not joking. And it's all done without any yelling or arguing. Some of you out there are boyfriend/girlfriend with a Japanese woman, thinking that your relationship will be the exception once it progresses to marriage. Consider this fair warning from this comedian and myself...

@nobody_in_particular754

Жыл бұрын

Sounds to me like your wife has confiscated both your kin tamas and locked them away in a jar somewhere. My condolences

@StraivtorS

Жыл бұрын

Yeah. I have heard from a Japanese co-worker that if a woman is a housewife, the salary of the husband can be sent directly to her bank account. The company where the husband works also regard it as wage paid for both of them as if both are working for such company. I don't know if it was because of lost in translation but it sounded ridiculous to me.

@Aryan_H1

Жыл бұрын

I thought all marriages are like that?

@_Sloppyham

Жыл бұрын

That’s more of a “let’s discuss this while we are dating” because if the guy isn’t cool with it, they need to talk. I definitely wouldn’t be good with my wife taking most of my finance without a thorough discussion of where it’s going.

@_Sloppyham

Жыл бұрын

That’s more of a “let’s discuss this while we are dating” because if the guy isn’t cool with it, they need to talk. I definitely wouldn’t be good with my wife taking most of my finance without a thorough discussion of where it’s going.

This is all true in Japan, and only in Japan. My Japanese wife and I got married in America and for the first 10 years it was a normal western marriage, but once we moved to Japan, my wife immediately went into full oni-mode!

@merasoul6520

Жыл бұрын

you on her turf now bruh

@albertsuseintsus7355

Жыл бұрын

She's soo wild at the bed? like oni?

@itdobelikedattho8112

Жыл бұрын

Is she freaky??

@blahblah2779

Жыл бұрын

Yea. Like, how far does she squirt now vs in America?

@demonteddybear3510

Жыл бұрын

You should keep her for she is a wise woman. She knows when to hold her cards close to her chest until they will give the greatest advantage on the battlefield of marriage. Is she related to Yamamoto Kansuke by chance?

This is not just Japanese housewives. This is women that want to be housewives all over the world for all of human history!

@spaceowl5957

7 күн бұрын

People dominating, using, and mentally abusing the ones close to them happens everywhere. But there are also nice people.

Can we all appreciate that he used the English names of the Pokémon for his metaphor 😅

@AnnatarTheMaia

7 ай бұрын

No we can't, because I've never bothered watching "Pokemon". But I would have sang along if it was Doraemon!

You are not a comedian, you are telling the truth to all the world!!!

@ChaosAngel667

2 жыл бұрын

TSSHHH THEY WILL HEAR YOU!

@GruppeSechs2004

2 жыл бұрын

All comedy is based off truth and suffering

@sir_zech13.7

2 жыл бұрын

@@ChaosAngel667 I think he's dead by now. He spoke the unforgivable

@michallaskowski5147

2 жыл бұрын

I always say "keep the change" after sex ,,, ATM :D true for all woman

@timothyharris1125

2 жыл бұрын

The Bad thing is that the truth IS funnier than fiction.

I spent many many years in Japan while in the military. Had coworkers who were married to local women. Everything this man says is true...all of it.

@Meshida

Жыл бұрын

hahaha😁

@laurailie9602

Жыл бұрын

I agree!

@MrWarbrute

Жыл бұрын

Still its the same for all woman on the world its not only there dude

@Angel333xx

Жыл бұрын

@@MrWarbrute no not at all, compare this to how women are treated in the entire Middle East.

@MrWarbrute

Жыл бұрын

@@Angel333xx i only meant who is the boss in the house.

Brilliant! 笑わせてくれてありがとうございます。

commenting just to add engagement. funny and really cool and unique seeing a Japanese comedian

I am a Japanese man, and the content of this video is entirely factual. One of the frightening systems in Japan is sole custody.

@jimchokdeesal3057

8 ай бұрын

O M G !!!!

@justinthebeau2590

8 ай бұрын

Japan ain't the only country with sole custody either that's practically everywhere nowadays

@XY-rh3if

8 ай бұрын

Wicked and horrible system. If you dig deep, you'll discover that the Sole Custody thing was crafted by male dominated politicians, just to fish for female votes. They ruined it for other men, just for their own selfish and political interests

@k-dogg9086

8 ай бұрын

Thanks to the rot of feminism!

@user-qy7zq2ds6t

8 ай бұрын

@@k-dogg9086 The sole custody system, where one is deprived of 100% custody and only subjected to financial exploitation without being able to see their beloved child, is truly a frightening institution. It is not limited to Japan; the sole custody system exists worldwide, and I genuinely believe that it is corrupted.

“I need more feminists in Japan!” So he can be a househusband 🤣🤣🤣

@eduardosotelo4663

2 жыл бұрын

He doesn't know Feminists don't work and want free money, abortion free, drugs and look like men!

@superafrikanmedialabs8237

2 жыл бұрын

@@eduardosotelo4663 That's the sad part!!!

@dontcrydoomer4787

2 жыл бұрын

@@eduardosotelo4663 and they hate men

@simoncho2570

2 жыл бұрын

Thank gawd Korea even started a show that is called house husband :)

@alvariuztheplug5728

2 жыл бұрын

Tell me that after they become feminists

I have no idea why KZread put this video in my recommendations list. But it was both very funny and insightful to watch. 😊👍

Thank you for your pokemon lesson..loved it❤😂

When I was married, my wife said that I should give her my paycheck. She continued saying that all of her friends get their husbands paycheck. I gave her the check and also all the bills, car payments, insurance, mortgage, power bill, water bill, ect. She said, "I don't want all these bills, I just want the paycheck! You pay these bills!" Lol!

@joea867

Жыл бұрын

Lol wait how did u pay then

@bramstokes7156

Жыл бұрын

She gets the money from him. She gives him what he owes. But it's gotta be legit. Asians are brutal esp the women they really are the head of the house doesn't matter how they look usually frail weak small in stature and submissive they will change after marriage despite lookin the same only you will change physically lol.

@jessehorner4972

Жыл бұрын

I had to wait until I got my next check. She just kept the cash and went to the casino.

@peachrenard2320

Жыл бұрын

The start of this comment, "When I was married," being past tense makes a lot of sense after reading it.

@sonicstorm4354

Жыл бұрын

@@jessehorner4972 uhhh.....why did you let her go to the casino?

A Japanese woman once told me that everything in Japan is a lie, but she was also a scammer... I like to imagine that was the one true thing she ever told me lol

@kazumakiryuu2668

Жыл бұрын

So kawaii is a lie?

@unknownanimist2200

Жыл бұрын

@@kazumakiryuu2668 not for simps

@alexfrank5331

Жыл бұрын

@@kazumakiryuu2668 Your favorite movie, even if it's "based on true story" is fictional. It doesn't matter as long as it still makes your day. The important part should be that the person cares enough to make you happy. Like when a husband meets his in-laws even if he genuinely hates them. It's cuz he cares for the wife's happiness. It's silly to downplay his effort just because it's a lie.

@benh5774

Жыл бұрын

You've given me answers all right; but they were all different. What I want to know is, out of all the stories you told me, which ones were true and which ones weren't?.... My dear Doctor, they're all true. Even the lies?....Especially the lies.

What makes this hilarious is the fact that it is completely true in most countries.

Excellent comedy -- based on facts taken to the extreme. Wonderful.

"in western countries. married couples are a partnership. " Oh my sweet summer child...

@Meshida

2 жыл бұрын

🤣

@AndroidTheLeader

Жыл бұрын

Yes, this was Meshida's best joke!

@TheDarkKnight81

Жыл бұрын

total wrong & failed thoughts

This applies to all Asian women. Once married, your world will change, and sometimes overnight. Believe it!

@bushy9780

2 жыл бұрын

-Naruto Uzomaki

@berndgaal7689

2 жыл бұрын

Never compare a Thai woman to a japanese woman. Thais only want your money!!!

@SilverforceX

2 жыл бұрын

This applies to ALL women.

@pakde8002

2 жыл бұрын

Asia is a big place and it's not the same everywhere. I can assure you there are big differences between all Asian cultures. I've dated women from the Philippines and Indonesia so I can at least confirm that they are very different. Plus women in Indonesia are not all the same for instance there's a lot of cultural differences just traveling from one island to the next, so don't try to lump all Asian people together.

@maegalroammis6020

2 жыл бұрын

it's not a good idea to befriend an asian.

This guy is totally accurate. When I was young , I　loved dating Japanese girls and they were easy to date, dead easy to have sex with and enjoy great times eating out, traveling etc.. Luckily I was drawn away to Singapore and China for business and did not marry a Japanese I was nearly about to, while I was transferred out of Japan to Hong Kong In Hong Kong I discovered women whom looked great, were still really great in bad, yet had a more balanced personality and were like non Asian women in most ways so personality wise , a lot better too and frankly well educated compared to Japanese ladies. That lead me to marry a lovely lady of Hong Kong Chinese background whom was highly educated at an overseas Ivy League University, outgoing, smart and and pretty as well Fast forward 20 years ~ To be honest marriage to a non Japanese , as an educated Asian is really not so dissimilar to a non Asian. My wife is outgoing, fun and has not changed much since marriage except for kids..Sex is still there too , good cooking, laughs and team working..in short I have been the lucky "white guy" Meanwhile several of my non Japanese "white guy" friends had married their Japanese "princess like girlfriends". Fast forward ~ after marriage to the Japanese girls, they quickly changed and turned to "Onibabas" (Japanese monsters). Out of 9 , all got divorced after 1 year to 8 years of marriage, all taken to cleaners financially too, and one even was unlucky enough to experience his ex wife stealing her kids to Japan and not being able to see them for over 10 years! Worst still most of my friends found after the Japanese marriage, that the once t " sex on tap" stopped. Furthermore the lack of a non Japanese , higher level international university education meant these women boring and terrible to discuss anything with too. They all found Japanese culture was tough . Their wives quickly become bitter clones of their mums. In other words the marriages were terrible mixes for 2 people of such different cultural marriage expectations of each other On another note ~ My several non Asiana nd Asian friends whom married Koreans, Hong Kong , Mainland Chinese , Singaporeans are almost all very happy and have no or few marriage issues, save 1 out of a dozen. I think my lucky stars I did not marry one of these "Kawaii Japanese ladies"....Unfortunately their personalities change radically after marriage and everything comedian says here is true and actually what happened to my friends. Today . our family livse in Japan today and we again know many non Japanese married to Japanese ...save alike 2 out 50, none of them are happy! More or less same for Japanese guys too! Best of luck guys..If want a quality women to marry and know what she is really like before marriage then stick to a decent , educated Caucasian, Chinese or Korean or Singaporean etc..they are open and upfront and what you see is typically what you get..and your marriage will likely be much happier! Marriage is not easy for any Nationalities ~ yet seriously guys ~ watch and listen to this Comedians video before you put any ring on a Japanese girls finger..His video is seriously real and true!

Amazing!!! Very funny!! 😂

Comedian: tells truth Also comedian: "for legal resons it's a joke"

A friend of mine once introduced me to a Japanese girl who was a graduate of a Geisha school in Japan. I asked myself then, what would life be like marrying a sweet Geisha girl specifically trained to provide companionship and comfort to her husband? Would I live in paradise forever thereafter? Never did it occur to me that a sweet girl like her could turn into a Yakusa boss after marriage! Glad, I didn't find out. BTW, the Yakusa Boss wife applies to so many women, not just the Japanese. I know, because I have lived on 3 continents, and those "Yakusa wives" are everywhere!!!

@IIIISai

Жыл бұрын

i don't get it, so is it better to date for the rest of my life and not marry or should i find the right person to marry, I'm lost

@MarvoloSalazar

Жыл бұрын

@@IIIISai Do whatever you wish its your life

@IIIISai

Жыл бұрын

@@MarvoloSalazar alr

@citizenterra

Жыл бұрын

@@IIIISai honestly marriage is only good if you are a girl or if you want to raise a family. But if your a guy it's more disadvantages than advantages. (Again unless u want a kid then having a permanent partner is important for the kids).

@inconnu4961

Жыл бұрын

@@citizenterra LMAO!!! How about you explain this to the women! even with kids they divorce us at a 70% to 80% rate! I guess women arent as concerned about that as you are!

oh good stuff keep it up amigo!

The thing is Japan is a polite society. Western people confuse politeness with submissiveness. And then get horribly surprised 😂

White guys who've never been to Asia: "Damn, I want an asian wife, they're so pretty, loyal and feminine!" Me, a veteran of the Chinese dating market: "Oh you sweet summer child"

@elvismartinez9067

2 жыл бұрын

Can you tell me your tales, so I'll know what to avoid or recognize?

@SwedishSinologyNerd

2 жыл бұрын

@@elvismartinez9067 I mean, my experience is mostly limited to China, so if you're going to say, Japan or Thailand your mileage may vary, but a lot of what Meshida-san said rang true for me here as well. One thing I noticed was that long term ladyfriends in China, whether wifed-up or not, very quickly enter wife-mode where they will nag incessantly about everything. Very strong keep-up-with-the-Joneses mentality too. Many Chinese people come from poor backgrounds, others are spoiled rich kids, both care a LOT about money, specifically what you can do for her with that money. This may come off as thrifty sometimes, but mostly cause she wants you to save up for an even nicer gift for her. Sex ed is nonexistent and sex is generally taboo, so you have a lot of clueless girls doing the starfish and the occasional nympho where you wanna get tested afterwards. There's a ton more....

@SwedishSinologyNerd

2 жыл бұрын

@@elvismartinez9067 Oh, and if you're tall and conventionally handsome, your SMV goes up to a ten here with your gwailou face (sadly I'm short and stocky so that didn't happen for me lol). They say a lot of white guys got yellow fever, but there are definately a LOT of Chinese girls with white fever. I guess if you're going to a large city in China and not looking for anything too serious and don't mind taking the lead in everything you might have a good time (just don't let the girl know where you live, trust me). In smaller cities girls will be more conservative and while they might put out, they'll assume you're being serious and if you dump her you might find her dad and his work buddies outside your house one day looking pissed.

@StarboyXL9

Жыл бұрын

​@@SwedishSinologyNerd So what is stopping you from thoroughly training your Asian wife in the art of sex?

@FloutchBW

Жыл бұрын

Experienced the same with Vietnamese lol, started very naive then got red pilled real quick and actually enjoying celibacy and it's freedom, which is the most precious gift a man can possibly have.

The Yakuza boss joke is no joke at all! I remember a foreign lady who married a Japanese man abroad, she was so shocked by how much his family ruled over him and how every family reunion ended up with all the women talking about the family money and plans while all the men where in a different room watching football.

@Meshida

Жыл бұрын

hahaha😁

@Variable_Degree_Series

Жыл бұрын

@The God Of Manga Ya it's a pretty asian thing..However Indian girls don't wanna be housewives at all nowadays (atleast the ones who are able to make it to good colleges), don't know about Pakistan..

@johanolij913

Жыл бұрын

my ex chinese was like that too ,, horrible

@Amitmondal-rx1ho

Жыл бұрын

@@Variable_Degree_Series this is so true. Girls are suffering from woke culture and feminism

@JAGUARBURST

Жыл бұрын

​@@Amitmondal-rx1ho not everything is woke culture just because you don't like it.

My nephew is married to a Japanese woman and has two beautiful daughters. They have been together for around 15 years and he is completely happy now. He was never happy with the American women he was dating before moving to Japan. Yes, she has seriously taken on the roll of mother and does run the house hold but she is NOT obsessed with being in control of everything. My nephew and his Japanese wife are totally happy with their individual rolls in their family. They both are a lot happier then most all American couples I know. The kind of American guy who might not do well is the kind who expects his Japanese wife to be like a young school girl who is totally subservient even after being married and having kids. This kind of guy will really be disappointed.

@user-rw3bk6wp4m

5 ай бұрын

bro why do you press enter button in the middle of the sentence

@thhseeking

4 ай бұрын

@@user-rw3bk6wp4m he heard his wife walk past! :P

@peterc4082

2 ай бұрын

Those two daughters, no offense, are now mixed race. They may face problems in Japan. And if they move to the country of the nephew, depending on where, they also may not be accepted. Mixed race kids are cute but they face their own problems as they are not truly Japanese and not truly whatever other country they're from.

Thank you for the good info.

This perfectly explains Goku and ChiChi's relationship in DragonBall. ChiChi was very sweet and compassionate when she was younger but became a monster after she got married and had kids.

@pagalladka9809

Жыл бұрын

Well you're not wrong 😳

@Mars20231

Жыл бұрын

To be honest it wasn't until after Gohan was kidnapped by Piccolo and Goku was dead for over a year that she really took the turn.

@YoJoRockThaBeat

Жыл бұрын

Damm, after all these years....... At least Bulma and Vegeta have a "better" relationship lol

@cold4882

Жыл бұрын

Goku was too irresponsible as a father too tbh

@alexrobertson557

Жыл бұрын

@@YoJoRockThaBeat thats because Vegeta just ignores Bulma...hes still scared of her though

It's no joke. Everything he says is true. Not just sexless either. No kissing/ hugging or affection of any kind. I regret marrying a Japanese woman. And what's worse is the fact that the divorce system doesn't allow for joint custody of your kids. So your wife will take everything and your children. The husband gets no rights to see their own kids! Because of that I'm stuck in a F'd up relationship until my daughter is older.

@Johnnywolf100

11 ай бұрын

I am sorry to hear that..such are so , especially nowadays.. the aspect of divorce system in Japan is cruel I know, and parent alienation to the child, especially from Japanese family members, that when they are older the effects have caused issues for the child and is difficult for them to connect emotionaly with their gaigin father.. I know this.. basicly, Japanese phycology is very different and difficult for us gaigins to grapple with. Just keep the heart open and loving always, but with care and caution..lol.. Wish you luck on your journey.

@pietroroberto6114

11 ай бұрын

I'm sorry. Stay strong brother!

@Hajo87-tz7hz

10 ай бұрын

Stay strong man, same here, cause here it's like if you move to far away shared custody is over! 🥃🚬😮‍💨

@chithiennguyen1371

10 ай бұрын

it's not just the Japanese women, don't marry any woman in general, the same thing can happen to you in the West. Maybe in the Phillippines, marriage is better because in there divorce is illegal and cheating is a crime.

@japaneseimmersion566

10 ай бұрын

I would like to speak with you about this in a PM if you are able. I am in a similar situation and really have no one to talk to out here.

Dude, you nailed it 😂. Made my day, cheers!

I have been a slave since 2005 to my Japanese house Yakuza. This is pretty factual. She was so nice when we were dating and then the day after marriage, she totally changed.

Hearing a housewife being a yakuza boss makes the premise of "The way of the house husband" even funnier, because it's about a male yakuza who manage his household while his wife is the breadwinner of the family.

@KonohazFinest

Жыл бұрын

I love that show 🤣

"Unlike America Japanese society isn't controlled by the deep state, our society is controlled by house wives... House Yakuza" lmao that was great

@Meshida

2 жыл бұрын

Arigato!

@StarboyXL9

Жыл бұрын

The housewives are the Japanese Deep State.

That was a great video!

Sounds like good advice! 😎🤙

A Soviet joke: A man should get married three times.The first wife is Jewish: there will be connections, a career and they bring up children well. Then get divorced and marry a Ukrainian woman, 15 years younger than you:they are funny, cook well, love sex-there will be a few happy years.And then get divorced and marry an Estonian woman-they take good care of the grave.

@garryferrington811

2 жыл бұрын

Very funny! But Jesus did not approve of divorce.

@ricanteja

2 жыл бұрын

@@garryferrington811 Great point! Just have all three at the same time ;) (I'm not a Christian btw, just some humor).

@yarabr1

2 жыл бұрын

@@ricanteja this optimizes the process:a Jewish woman, leaving, will take everything; a Ukrainian woman will kill for infidelity;and an Estonian woman will take care of the grave

@aajohnsoutube

2 жыл бұрын

My parents said marry jewish. I didn’t listen and missed out on all 3 wives.

@yarabr1

2 жыл бұрын

@@garryferrington811 I am a Christian, but also a mathematician: it has not been proven that all the prohibitions announced by the church came out of the mouth of Jesus + it is not a fact that in modern conditions, he would not have formulated them differently.

Fair enough. Thanks for the warning. I’m married to a Filipina and they have some of those qualities. Filipina wife’s are a bit odd in that culturally they are like 1/2 Asian, 1/4 Spanish and 1/4 American. Which means they are bossy at home like Asian wife’s, drama Queens like Spanish wife’s and like American wife’s they are pretty handy to have around in case your mule or water Buffalo up and dies on you. As a Japanese man I will return the favor and explain five reasons you should not marry an American woman. #1. American wives are like tornadoes/typhoons. It’s hard to tell when they are coming and when they go they take your house with them. #2. American wives have an odd type of OCD. They want to control everything in your life without ever actually having to make a decision. If you ask an American woman a question you will usually get one of two answers. “I don’t know” or “I don’t care”. This is a trap and a lie. They do know and they do care and expect you to guess what they want and by god you’d better guess right. #3. American wives, particularly ones from rural or provincial areas, like to sing through their noses. We call it “Country Music”. It’s a bit more painful to listen to than committing sepuku with a butter knife. #4. American women have big butts. Some men like big butts but Japanese men seem to prefer petite women. However many American womens butts are so big that they have their own postal codes. #5. This is probably the biggest reason a Japanese man should not marry an American woman. American women drink red wine with fish. Which, as is well known, is a sure sign a person is evil. So thanks for the advice and I hope you find mine useful!

@Meshida

2 жыл бұрын

thanks!

@Momonga32

2 жыл бұрын

Your comment is gold i love it

@sebastiansaxon

2 жыл бұрын

Amazing 🤣

@leahquispe4569

2 жыл бұрын

Drink.... with, or, like... Because the sentence doesn't make sense??

@bobojerry1798

2 жыл бұрын

I thought #2 is a universal thing for all women? :)

Not a dealbreaker. You're a funny guy, Meshida

One of the best videos I have seen about Japan lol This guy is so funny.

I had a Japanese girlfriend for a few years and she was absolutely fantastic. But I think you're right. I saw the signs. She would scrutinize every charge on the phone bill. "This 2 dollar tax makes no sense. Why do they charge $2? Is that a mistake? Can you call the phone company?"

@HatesRacists

Жыл бұрын

We need her in congress

@CheefSmokealot64

Жыл бұрын

All women can recall every single detail, no matter how small, and use it against the man, even if its 20 years later. Women have that as a super power.

@fauzanree1983

Жыл бұрын

@@McRagtime i don't think it's insignificant if they can manipulate their husband and live a comfortable life as a boss in a household 💀

@TheShiningEnergy

Жыл бұрын

@@fauzanree1983 Manipulation isn't a good or healthy tactic to use.

@fauzanree1983

Жыл бұрын

@@TheShiningEnergy i never said that it is.

This is so true no joke, My wife is Japanese I literally became an ATM the day I got married, she’s always nagging me to give her all my salary and I can’t remember the last time we had sex after our first child, the affection is gone even sometimes the respect too, I want to leave this poisonous life even if it means not seeing my son…

@TheBillaro

2 жыл бұрын

you are the real slim shady

@mikloridden8276

2 жыл бұрын

@@TheBillaro This is a very common problem among expats in Japan. Many English teachers and IT workers have this happen.

@CountNomis

2 жыл бұрын

So have a girlfriend on the side.

@FSVR54

2 жыл бұрын

YIKES! Good luck man, that is scary

@akali2927

2 жыл бұрын

This comment just turn into a r/story LMAO

I like your sense of humor and jokes. I bestow on you . Meschida. :D

As an Asian man with a French wife i see this an absolute win because i know all the kind of the shit that an Asian wife would do when I was a student. Its funny because almost every foreigner male is blind, literally when it comes to dating Asian women.

@user-rw3bk6wp4m

5 ай бұрын

진짜 존나게 부럽네

@millanferende6723

3 ай бұрын

Don't equate Japanese women, with all other asian women... xD

The part about the women turning ferocious is very true lol. My mom is extremely tiger mom and I thought she was always that way as I was growing up, but according to my dad she started off as a cute, shy girl. For me, my parents introduced me to a Japanese girl, now my wife, who originally started off cute and gentle, is now constantly yelling at me, criticizing me, dictating the bank account despite I'm the only one working, and basically controlling my life. Just as Meshida says though, its kind of expected so it never bothered me lol. I have western friends married to Japanese women and are constantly complaining to me about their marriage problems. There's a saying in my hometown that Japanese women are katana wrapped in silk and it's very true, but I love them to death for it.

@Meshida

Жыл бұрын

Lol

@nobody_in_particular754

Жыл бұрын

Weak

@lyw621

Жыл бұрын

@@nobody_in_particular754 It’s gap moe I guess? 😅

@yo2trader539

Жыл бұрын

Actually, controlling the finances/expenditures was considered the women's job for centuries, particularly among the samurais. You are the mistress of the house in the most traditional sense.

@ConfusedGeriatric

Жыл бұрын

This is just depressing bro pls stop 💀

My ex-wife was Chinese. It was the same. I put up with it for 20 years waiting for the woman I married to come back. It just got worse, and when I lost my job it was divorce. Now I live separately and have 50% custody of the children, and I am so happy to be out of that hell hole!

@LordToxygene

11 ай бұрын

In a similar situation. I can empathize.

@snarbywrx

10 ай бұрын

Similar thing happened to me with my Chinese ex-wife. I was and ATM and when I got very sick and couldn't work, the divorce came shortly afterwards.

@Deathrape2001

10 ай бұрын

Obvioiusly 'the woman U married' was just a PERFORMANCE designed 2 trick U 2 rob U, etc.

@johnyossarian9059

9 ай бұрын

What is the age gap between you two?

@johnyossarian9059

9 ай бұрын

Maybe you thought you were marrying that "Asian submissive woman". Maybe "Asian submissive women" is a myth created by Western men who can't compete in the marriage market back home and took advantage of their socio-economic status to get wives in Asia

Wow this is educating 😅

Comments are more informative than the video itself thanks got new experience from comments😂

Absolutely true. My niece (English) went to study in Japan, married a Japanese man. When I met her 11 years later in Japan I could see she had been coached by her Japanese mother in law. The husband defined modern slavery. No wonder salary men die at their desks.

@masashikami3668

Жыл бұрын

Bruhh f*ck 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 rip to them tho but bruhh😂😂😂😂

@jcdenton7914

Жыл бұрын

Wtf, so basically a foreign woman marries a Japanese man and then his mother coaches her on how to enslave her son?

@AudieHolland

11 ай бұрын

Whoa, so the mother in law instructed her daughter in law how to exploit and run her own son? That's taking it to another level.

@phamsumi8867

10 ай бұрын

Why men find it difficult to hand over all money to wives? What are you hiding her from, side chick? Gambling? 😅 As a woman, I will tell you guys a trick: if husband her all his money, she will spend it much carefully because its her money now, she would be strategic with it😂 and we only think about what benefit the kids, husband not myself.

@phamsumi8867

10 ай бұрын

@@AudieHollandmarriage in Japan is like teamwork, the wives barely spoil herself and she spends money that benefits all the member👍 It is collectivism not individualism like the West

I realized this when I was Tokyo. Every married foreigner or local guy I met at a Izakaya explained this very well. Mind you, only a few were truly bothered by this but complained nonetheless about it. I still dated a lot of girls while I was there, but my pull out game is strong 💪🏽 🤣

@MATA-mz1db

2 жыл бұрын

Ha lucky you

@edenassos

2 жыл бұрын

Are you an english teacher?

@AmbuBadger

2 жыл бұрын

@@edenassos Maybe even worked for _Nova..._

@silverwings8486

2 жыл бұрын

I live like a ghost you know me but you can,t know nothing about me -> have your fun 👍 & move on for next adventure 🌅

@robertmartens7839

2 жыл бұрын

@@AmbuBadger Nova game is weak. Everyone knows, and they pull low level girls in.

advice I got from a friend who's from Japan while I lived there for 4 months in 2019: "dating japanese girl just fine, marry one and you regret for life" seems like it holds true based on this video lol

Excellent !!!

Reject anime stereotypes, embrace rough truth 😔

@phamsumi8867

10 ай бұрын

Anime, film, music often express fantasy of human and our desire in life deep down😂

@yurizoku4943

9 ай бұрын

@@FaQUE-hg5tl you know, I'm already into yanderes for the very long time

@chiki509

8 ай бұрын

Goku and ChiChi enforce this stereotype

@BraveFencer

8 ай бұрын

Ever heard of yanderes

@ratoimariurs5323

8 ай бұрын

​@@BraveFencerI love those kind of girls personally.

I am very happy with my beautiful Japanese wife, she really is perfect, all she wants to do is make me happy. In fact the biggest argument is when I do housework, she says it makes her feel like a bad wife. Yes she manages the money, but she is very good at it. I honestly could not be happier, she is beautiful, sexy and the love of my life. We have one son live in Yokohama and have been married for twelve years.

@Valhalla_Heathen

2 жыл бұрын

Good for you my friend, I wish you and your wifey a happy eternity together! 🙏🏻

@jaykansher87

2 жыл бұрын

Um... wanna help a brother out... ahem. lol

@mikiohirata9627

2 жыл бұрын

There're exceptions to everything. In fact this doesn't apply to only foreign men but all men Japanese or other wise. Japanese women are especially coy and cute and never show their true color until they literally hook you into marriage. But they are scheming and shrewd not very communicative (which can be said on both sexes of Japanese society).

@dennischapman8683

2 жыл бұрын

She manages the money? How much of a beta little soy boy are you brah? Lmao

@grantsolomon7660

2 жыл бұрын

Marriage is a death trap whatever the culture for many people. I recommend that people don't do it conventionally,it just ain't natural.

You such a funny guy Mishida San😂❤ I love it! New Subscriber here.❤

🙇‍♂️ thank you for your advice

I actually had a beautiful Japanese college professor explain this very thing to me when she learned I was dating one of the Japanese girls in the class. The single most important thing I learned in college

@thevigilant6884

Жыл бұрын

Wait what? Elaborate please.

@QuartBernstein311

Жыл бұрын

Storytime.

@be_real_n_Original

11 ай бұрын

Explain the beautiful Japanese college professor. We , at the comments community want to hear about her.

@arizona_anime_fan

11 ай бұрын

@@be_real_n_Original she was a lovely woman, early to mid 30s, spoke good if accented English, had long black hair cut around the small of her back, pretty face, thin, good figure, wore tight office lady style skirts usually dark colored, with white lose fitting blouses. she was a good teacher. rather tall for a japanese woman, and she liked tall high heels making her appear to be around 5'7ish... its amazing how much i remember about her a quarter of a century later.

@joaorafaeloliveira1781

10 ай бұрын

@@arizona_anime_fan How did her explained this to you?

Man, the one that made me laugh out loud was the part where you said that "Japan still have a slavery system, it's called marriage" 😂 I love it!

I knew it!!! Finally, i have reason to break her up.. im so determined now... thanks man

I almost married a Japanese woman. Her idea of marriage was pretty simple. I go work, we budget off what I make, she runs the house. She did not understand why I insisted on being actively involved with the finances, but I told her we’re not doing everything the Japanese way. She seemed to understand. We broke it off after 9-11. I joined up and she wanted nothing to do with it. I don’t really blame her. But I could tell she meant business about having a well ordered marriage. And she treated me like an absolute king. It’s definitely a trade off. I could see how it could even be a disastrous one, especially if you either didn’t know what you were getting into or you picked a bad apple.

@nzhuntingman

3 ай бұрын

Very smart guy..Yes "treated like a King" ~ but lucky enough not to get Married ~ or else it becomes "treated like dirt"!

Curious how many people actually had a conversation with their Japanese girlfriend before marriage to discuss their expectations or just went in thinking it'll all be good cause she's a "nice Japanese girl" and it's going to be better than dating an American.

@johnston31684

2 жыл бұрын

They can tell you everything you want to hear and once that paper comes out she changes her attitude completely.

@FatBunny168

2 жыл бұрын

@@johnston31684 once you stamped your fingerprint, you lose your human rights muahahahahhahahahhahahaha

@johnston31684

2 жыл бұрын

@@FatBunny168 if she can't understand than marriage would never happen

@robertfox374

2 жыл бұрын

I had many discussion with my ex before marriage. We met while in a language school in France. This was a work trip for me. While we dated, I had to regularly go to other locations/countries for work. She was fine with it, but once we got married, it was no longer acceptable. I switch to a position I would be home every day, except a three or four nights twice every three months. That seemed to still bother her. Once I retired and was home regularly, she left. The sex issue changed overnight the moment we got married and had our first child. It went from daily, to once every couple months, and even that she made it out like that was too much. She was very traditional in front of others, but like mentioned in the video, at home completely a different person.

@asimian8500

2 жыл бұрын

Expectations? You're deluded. You are expected to do everything. *Do not get married!*

"He's been disappointed by love too many times and has grown cynical" We are legion. Expect us.

@Meshida

2 жыл бұрын

hahaha😁

4:49 yes giving allowance for starbakku (Starbucks) will win brownie points I believe.

I’d love to see the culture shock of experiencing Mediterranean women. “The passion, the adorable curiosity, the magnificent cuisine!” “Ah, now I understand why mental asylums were invented.”

@shadowsinmymind9

7 ай бұрын

Hey, were not all like that. I'm more of the shy kind

@Smilomaniac

7 ай бұрын

@@shadowsinmymind9 Literally all, no exceptions ;)

His stage name, Meshida, is the Japanese expression used to call the family to dinner. When the food is on the table and ready to eat, the cook calls out, “Meshi da, meshi da!” The literal translation is “It’s a meal”, but the colloquial meaning is “Time to eat”.

@Meshida

Жыл бұрын

Yes!! my family name is 飯田. usually Kanji has 2 reading way. Offically my family name is Iida, but this Kanji can also read as Meshida. So I picked up Meshida as my stage name!

@victorbressler7156

Жыл бұрын

@@Meshida very cool

@RedTheLegend9

Жыл бұрын

So basically “Let him cook”

I'm glad vids like these are being made recently. You're really opening the eyes of a lot of men and saving them a lot of heart ache.

@gregm4813

2 жыл бұрын

Like myself, it seems. Love the cute and kind, don't mind a house-wife, but scared to death of a suddenly loveless, sexless marriage.

@SuperEarther

2 жыл бұрын

@@gregm4813 my friend in japan watched this video too late! he now calls his wife DEVIL WOMAN :O :O :O

@gregm4813

2 жыл бұрын

@@SuperEarther So, is there anyway to know which japanese woman is gonna turn out like that? Seems like you'd be able to weed something like that out beforehand

@SuperEarther

2 жыл бұрын

@@gregm4813 studying body language would help i think

@OOICU812

2 жыл бұрын

@@gregm4813 we're talking about women. Good luck trying to figure them out.

I love the thumbnail.

This is so true, your ur documentary are so true

I feel like this is one of the reasons why marriage and birth rats are declining in Japan

You should have made this video back in 1994 when I met my japanese wife (I'm still with her after all these years... お願い助けて!!!).

Just your thumbnail made me laugh already 😂

I don’t know anyone who is married to a Japanese woman, but I did have a friend when I was a kid who’s mother was native Japanese. I remember her being very sweet and kind and the family seemed really happy. Even the dad, he was great. She had an obsession with strawberries, probably never had them before she arrived in the states I guess. I loved the way she couldn’t say “strawberries”. It came out as “Stadabeddies”.

@ahmosenefertari6397

7 ай бұрын

Random fact: Japanese Strawberries are delicioulsy sweet

@andreasz7297

5 ай бұрын

I'm married with a Greek woman and it's the same as Japanese women damnit