Pro tip: Learn Japanese if you're serious about dating a Japanese person 🙂 It's impossible to learn the language without also absorbing part of the culture as well.

@kingkong905

2 жыл бұрын

Good point. Are you single? If so, I'd love to know you more and see where it goes.

@KxmpleteKxllapse

2 жыл бұрын

@@kingkong905 r u jokin?👀…

@JimmyJaxJellyStax

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, this is the ultimate tip

@maegalroammis6020

Жыл бұрын

don't expect us to speak it fluently

@ninjapurpura1

Жыл бұрын

Nope, you japanese should learn my idiom since it's easier. Latin alphabet >>>> confused symbols.

📚TIMESTAMPS📚 00:00 Introduction❤︎ 00:25 ① “ Japanese girls don’t really show too much affection” 01:19 ② “Japanese girls hesitate to introduce their boyfriends to their parents” 02:41 ③ “Japanese girls think they are fat (even if they are skinny!)” 04:58 ④ “Japanese girls really care about personal hygiene” 09:48 ⑤ “Japanese people believe that Christmas is for couples” 10:52 My advice for you❤︎ 12:41 Concluding Thank you for watching!❤︎

@maegalroammis6020

2 жыл бұрын

good reason to not dating them

@johncrute27

Жыл бұрын

As a Blackman I love Japanese woman that perfer blackmen only

@johncrute27

Жыл бұрын

As a Blackman I love Japanese woman that perfer blackmen only

@snorremortenkjeldsen6737

Жыл бұрын

@Frazzox That’s deep lol 😂

@edkure

Жыл бұрын

Very helpful! ありがとうございます🙏🏽

I am married to a Vietnamese woman. I am from Puerto Rico. If you truly love someone....you will learn from each other.....and pretty much nothing they do will be a bother. If there is something that bothers you about your girlfriend or boyfriend....you teach each other. And adapt and make adjustments. Is not hard. My wife taught me no kissing in public. haha. But I taught her that is okay to hold hands. And sometimes holds hands and walk very close to each other. Almost like a wrap around hand holding. This was before marriage. Now it's all okay...except the kissing in public part. haha. If you love someone..you just want to be with them. No matter what.

Nice advice, and the jazzy music in your video was EXCELLENT

That was a great video! Thank you for sharing...

Thank you for the information, It was very useful

Very spot on video. The best way to explain Christmas to Japanese people is to tell them it’s like oshougatsu (January 1st), it’s a family affair. And the other way round (from a Japanese point of view) it’s to explain that Christmas Eve in Japan is like Valentine’s Day. My husband is Japanese,I’m French, and we live in Japan but I make sure to celebrate Christmas the French way : on Christmas Eve, always at home, with beautiful decorations and lovely food (and we open our presents at midnight). It took him years to get used to it but now he expects it 😅 And NO Kentucky Fried chicken (yes, it is a thing on Xmas Eve in Japan 😳)

@IanFooteBased

3 ай бұрын

When it's the darkest, quietest, coldest, loneliest time of the year, we try to cheer ourselves up with an evergreen tree, bright lights, brightly coloured decorations, gifts and a feast, so we don't get so depressed that we kill ourselves. On Christmas day, we open and share gifts with our family, and we spend the rest of the year visiting people's homes and admiring their decorations and exchanging gifts with them and enjoying their hospitality, eating delicious food and drinking alcohol. We check on the people we love, and don't let them feel left out, because if it wasn't for Christmas, it would be the most miserable time of the year, sitting alone in the dark, hiding from the cold. That's really what Christmas is. Also... Easter is about sex.

NICE VIDEO. it will be helpful for me in future.

It's so interesting to see the point of view from other cultures :]

*VIGOROUSLY TAKING NOTES* HAHAHAHA

I think cleanliness is not just about personal, its also about the surrounding, your home, how you take care of your home, clean and neat, how you view the neatness and cleanliness of your home tells a lot about your personality

Hi Layla, you mentioned that being skinny or thin is important for Japanese girls. Can you share what you typically eat in a day and on weekends? Do you also have cheat days?

Thank youuuu Layla 🍓

@BitesizeJapanese1

3 жыл бұрын

You’re welcome ☺️

This was super interesting! (Even for a straight girl🤭) thank you so much for the research and explanations!

@BitesizeJapanese1

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you very much!😆

First thing, I think you are adorable. I liked your video and for those of us who are not very familiar with Japanese Culture, it is very insightful. Interesting fact about how Christmas is celebrated in Japan by Couples going out on the town. Thank you for sharing.

great video thank you! also, you look great reminds me of my favorite singer IU

Japanese culture is very interesting I’m learning a lot from your videos I’ve always wanted to learn Japanese but haven’t learned it yet 😎

So cute ! Like your videos teaching Japanese and some nice insight!

@BitesizeJapanese1

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!✨😆

@akbargabbar505

Ай бұрын

@@BitesizeJapanese1 Layla You’re Sooooo Cute & affable👌🌹❤🔴💕💑🎎

Loved this video! You’re so beautiful ❤️

@BitesizeJapanese1

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!!☺️

Just discovered your channel. You are gorgeous, funny, and have a great personality. ❤

If you're going to date a Japanese women, make sure you meet her in Japan. A lot of guys have met girls in their home country and dated for years sometimes, before moving with them to Japan and all of a sudden found themselves in a relationship with a person they don't recognize anymore (once they go back into "Japan mode"). At least if you meet in Japan you already know what you're getting yourself into (kind of).

@sinodattv

Жыл бұрын

Bad advice

@Josh-dr9db

Жыл бұрын

@@sinodattv Why's that mate?

@snorremortenkjeldsen6737

Жыл бұрын

Still doesn’t work in the case of (most) Japanese. Most of them change RADICALLY after they have kids. More so than in other cultures. Otherwise it seems like solid advice ;)

@maegalroammis6020

Жыл бұрын

these girls are all the same: cold , no feelings , tatemae all the time , manipulative... Just date other girls from worlwide. if you're not agree please explain yourselves with positive arguments. please don't report me.

@williamfranklin860

9 ай бұрын

Japanese females are still female. If you date a Japanese woman, you need to have a Sigma mindset and you have to WANT the relationship, but NEVER NEED the relationship. No woman on Earth is worth being in a negative situation. No matter who they are, if they are creating unhappiness and refuse to address and change it, you leave that female.@@maegalroammis6020

Excellent content 👍😊

@BitesizeJapanese1

2 жыл бұрын

arigatou!

@akbargabbar505

Ай бұрын

@@BitesizeJapanese1 I love Japanese Peoples they are So Nice👍🌹💯 I want to friendship with Japanese👩💑🎎❤🔴

It's much better to introduce your partner to your parents when you're considering marriage. Otherwise, usually parents get involved and complicate your relationship early from the beginning

@maegalroammis6020

Жыл бұрын

it's not a good idea to date japanese. I Can explain why.

@arthur2056

Жыл бұрын

@@maegalroammis6020 why?

@maegalroammis6020

Жыл бұрын

@@arthur2056 they have no patience over us and they pretends to be kind , they hide their thoughts and it's annoying

@ghostoftheoni6795

Жыл бұрын

@@maegalroammis6020 not every Japanese person is like that, and while it's true that they hide their true feelings, it's often done to be polite and to avoid conflict

@maegalroammis6020

Жыл бұрын

@@ghostoftheoni6795 in which conditions they show feelings to us? not in a hard way i hope

I was thinking about dating with a Japanese girl before realizing Kanji exist.

As someone who recently married a Japanese gal, This was spot on! lmao

@funkthat

3 жыл бұрын

Sammmmeee nice job broski

@wildfoxman8935

2 жыл бұрын

It should be girl not gal

@usgamewolf6979

2 жыл бұрын

You're living the best life 😂👌

@winterwarden

Жыл бұрын

@@wildfoxman8935 this is what no bitches does to a man

@ninjapurpura1

Жыл бұрын

Is "it" tight?

The part about Christmas was fascinating. In the U.S. It's usually family and your partner in you are in a serious relationship. Christmas Eve, though is often the date night reguardless.

Hi, thanks so much, i love the video! I was wondering is there are perfumes that you like for men? I also like a more natural smell like soap, but most of perfume here are really strong and the smell of soap doesn't last so long.

Thanks!

清潔感が大事ですね！洋服はやっぱり自分の個性に合わせますが、その他清潔感は同感です。

I'm most impressed with everything I've heard and seen in your video. Before anything else, you are gorgeous; you speak in an interesting, relaxed, and convincing manner; your pronunciation is flawless; you dress nicely; you give really helpful information about the subject at hand; your eyes sparkle; and your smile is captivating. Cheeres and best wishes to you from Belgrade, Serbia!

Adorable video. Thank you for the tips. I hope I will be able to start a relationship with a Japanese woman ❤

Do you think it's stressful to be in a society that requires consistent conformity to the societal pressure? Do you think the younger Japanese prefer to express themselves individually or continue with the traditional conformity?

@BitesizeJapanese1

3 жыл бұрын

For me, it’s very stressful. I always felt out of place at school. And I couldn’t keep up with Japanese job hunting. So I decided to stay at uni and then took a year off!😅 Of course there are young Japanese people who can’t stand the atmosphere where everyone has to be the same just like me, but I feel like there are so many more people who try not to stand out among the rest and try to be “normal”

@aryaanshetty8959

2 жыл бұрын

I really want to marry a Japanese girl and take care of her

@maegalroammis6020

2 жыл бұрын

@@BitesizeJapanese1 good reason to not go in japan

@ahabrawgaming1289

2 жыл бұрын

@@maegalroammis6020 depends where you are in Japan. Tokyo is a big no. Try going to Osaka, Okinawa, Fukuoka and other cities your experience will be different.

@shinratensei5305

2 жыл бұрын

The biggest problem of Asian countries is social pressure.

Im a Filipino and Stumbled across this video, well that tips were helpfull, as I plan to go to 日本 soon at a certain future... ありがとうございます。

Thank you for such an honest review of Japanese cullture. I would love to return to Japan! Would it be accurate to say that the Japanese people are very 'self-concious'? My impression is that the Japanese people are under a lot of pressure to perform well. Some countries have a strong patrarchal culture as well as a 'shame based culture'. Would you consider Japan to fall into that category? I find myself wanting to say to a few of my Japanese friends as well as a Japanese sister -in -law , 'Relax'. You are loved and accepted. Be gentle on yourself.' I have loved my trips to Japan. There are many wonderful things about the Japanese culture! And, you do such a wonderul job with your presentations and teaching! You are an excellent ambassador for Japan! Cheers!

I can't really agree with this. After I started going out with my first Japanese gf in Japan, I saw her parents regularly, maybe once a week. I sometimes had dinner and drank with them. I also went to their house a few times a month. After my gf and I had been dating a few months, I even slept over at their house. She used to come to my apartment and sleep over all the time while living with her parents. They obviously knew she was sleeping with me. That relationship lasted about 5 years. My second gf introduced me to her parents basically as soon as we started dating. WIthout even having dated long, Christmas and the New Year were approaching. She invited me to stay at her (parents') house for the New Year holiday. I slept over for a few nights, spending a few days with her and her family. Once, when her parents went out, we had sex in her room. The strange thing though was that she was very concerned about her curfew. She would visit me in my apartment on the weekend, but she would always leave before it got too late. I would sometimes ask her to stay the night, but she always refused. Only one time did she actually sleep over. She lied to her parents, saying she was at a friend's place for a party that went too late, so she missed the train. However, we did take a couple of short holidays together, staying in hotels for a couple nights each trip, and she said her parents wouldn't mind about that. That relationship only lasted a few months. My third, and last Japanese gf lived on her own and her parents lived in a different part of Japan. We just started dating, then I left to return to my native country. We had a long distance relationship for a very long time. I came back to Japan for a while and we saw each other, but I never met her parents or sibling. After we had been going out for about 6 years, her grandfather died. I asked if I could go with her to the funeral and she was really shocked. She refused, and I was sad. She was surprised that I was sad. We broke up too. Anyway, those were my experiences regarding meeting family.

@shinratensei5305

2 жыл бұрын

Wtf The subject here is normal girls. The ones you meet don't seem like normal girls at all. If only you had sex in front of her family.Even a couple from Europe and the USA won't do what you do😂😂

@roryrichards5054

Жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear about your relationships, I guess not all of them do work out for japanese and foreigners then because of cultural differences and beliefs

@Saberdud

9 ай бұрын

How are you doing now?

@maegalroammis6020

7 ай бұрын

seven reasons why japanese doesn't make good friends AT ALL, why none/few of them are trustworthy in fact: first, they makes zero efforts to speak other languages and anyway when we try to speak japanese they laugh at our accents and they don't forgive bad pronounciations secondly, they refuse to show their feelings no matter how polite, kind and respectful we are. just because they refuse to put us in their friendship circle for some reason (in fact it's only when they get drunk, it's shamful) thirdly, they love to criticize the others in their back. they judge them without knowing them, they don't give us any chance. they don't tell our mistakes, how can we improve ourselves. fourthly , they feel the horriblenot human need to have many close little friends. Fiftly, they take foreigners like walking dictionnaries/wallets sixth, even if they do have many cultural flaws, and assume bad things about foreigners they still minds about being criticized for some reason while we do it for a reason sevently, they judge easily on our appearances while it's not our fault if we're build like that. "buuuuh tall or older foreigners=bad people cause we live in a island" i like japan, for what it has naturally, but i do not get why its locals are so well seen in the world. NO NEED TO reply me with bad faith comments like nyeh theres ppl like them everywhere in da world"

@user-bw2px1ml6g

6 ай бұрын

Absolutely incorrect! I have lived in Japan for many years and this is bs! Sorry

It gives me more motivation to learn Japanese

I heard there are several level of the Japanese language kanji and I forget the others which is the best to learn for an beginner?

I'm from the US and my best friend/my everything is from Japan, I believe she's from Nagoyashi and we've been so close for these past several years. I really want to know everything about Japanese culture, proper etiquette and eventually how to speak the language because she is so precious to me and I want to be as respectful as I possibly can. One thing she told me that stood out the most is that when she was kind of sick, she went out and got a haircut at a salon. I asked her why she didn't just cancel and she told me that in Japanese culture it is considered rude to cancel a hairdresser appointment. I didn't know this before, that's very interesting to me and I can definitely understand this! Thank you so much for this amazing video. Learning Japanese is definitely a challenge for me it's just so different from any other language and you can not cut corners when it comes to Kanji (as I learned the hard way lol) though I'm very excited and eager to learn! 🇺🇲🤝🇯🇵

Great tips this is why is good having a notebook

The way she says the numbers is the cutest part of this video 😘 Thanks for the video it was informative 😀

The intersting thing is, I think Japanese women who are open to dating foreigners, already expect the foreigner not to act by Japanese dating standards. They can throw all their conventional thinking out the window if they wanted to, knowing that the person they are in a relationship with is more open to atypical behavior. For example, the women I've dated while living in Japan didn't mind PDA (nothing crazy, of course), I've met their parents, their friends (within a few weeks).. but of course, it always depends on the person and the situation. Concering #3, I have a hard time getting my girlfriend to exercise, since it's not just about diet. She's not overweight, but I believe the older we get, the more it's important to have muscle mass. Is it rare for Japanese women to enjoy exercise? Thanks for the video!

Good morning from GREECE. I think Greece would be a paradise for Japanese women. We understand your culture very well. Have you ever been in GREECE;

Unexpected theme, but Very interesting! Thank you very much for such an interesting video

What body hair removal procedures are available and popular in Japan? Wax epilation, photo-epilation, laser epilation?

I try to be kind to everyone

Unfortunately I am 50 and may be too old to date Japanese girl ). But I started to learn Japanese after visiting Japan for a month during Sakura Season. I was in love with classic Japanese Literature since age of 16. Sei Senagon's Pillow Diary if i right remember japanese name of the book it's makura no soshi(?)And It is still on my book shelf. You can not have relationship with any person without serious studying her or his culture, history and culture. And don't forget that any culture of any country has not only bright side ). But if you love it you just love it.

This girl has an amazing smile.

おはよーれいらちゃん 🥰🥰🥰 Thank you for this video 💕💗💕💗💕

Hi, I’m from California and the way I was raised, it was always “ladies first”. I find that many American women are surprised by simple gestures such as opening a door for them or letting them pass by first, or waiting for the lady to order first at a restaurant. I think that women from any culture appreciates this kind of treatment. Thanks for the great video, you are a stunningly beautiful young woman. 🙂

@johnwayne2103

8 ай бұрын

Not today's modern American women.

@daflyinhawaiian2

5 ай бұрын

My understanding and observation is that American Men treat women more kindly than the Japanese men treat women in Japan. Am I wrong?

@syedhasan4572

5 ай бұрын

​@@daflyinhawaiian2congratulations, you have been brainwashed by the dramas & movies. At the end of the day, caring depends on person not nationality.

@daflyinhawaiian2

5 ай бұрын

@@syedhasan4572 Thanks for letting me know I have been brainwashed. By the way, I am half Japanese, I have been stationed in Japan for 3 years while in the USAF and grew up in Hawaii, I have had many girlfriends of different ethnicities. All I said was factual that the Japanese girls in Hawaii are better than in Japan. My Japanese mother agrees with me. So maybe blame my mother for that Lol!

❤❤❤hi ❤new follower today... I've known many different nationalities of women in my life, but I think Japanese women are one of a kind. Keep uploading the great work... mankind need you girls , now more than ever❤❤

ライラ先輩、 本当にありがとうございました！ このビデオはとても面白くて便利です。😊🥳

@BitesizeJapanese1

3 жыл бұрын

嬉しいです！ありがとうございます！☺️

the whole "ladies first" is always about putting your date/wife/loved one first, giving them priority because you want what's best for them and to show them how important they are to you. Also a man is supposed to stand when a lady enters/exits a room and sit after the lady sits and should a lady leave a table to use the rest room a man is also supposed to stand when they leave and return and wait until the lady has returned to finish her meal even if the guys food gets cold.

Can't help but notice your pretty smile and lively eyes.

I think it's cute that japanese spend Christmas with eachother.

The Japanese Girls that grow up in Hawaii is much better than in Japan. more outgoing, friendly and affectionate.

Thank you for your video. Your voice sounds so beautiful I could listen to you talk all day.

@ViciousKai

2 ай бұрын

Yeah I hope I can find someone with as pretty of a voice as hers. Her voice is so calming.

This has to be one the prettiest girl i ever seen in my life

❤ Thank you.

i am 2 months in dating a japanese girl.. the first 2 flaws are spot on haha and im from malaysia! quick question.. do they reply text messages slow too? 😁😁y they hesitate to introduce to their friends but family is fine as boyfriend

you are very cheerful, beautiful and informative as well.🙃

@BitesizeJapanese1

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!!😆💛

@sawndesmahat2000

3 жыл бұрын

douitashimashite :)

Being a Filipino, it's quite normal for men to treat women with care. Let them enter an establishment first, and assist them if need help. If you ride the train in Manila, there are areas dedicated for Women and elderly (usually at the front). But now, "equality" culture slowly replacing it.

One thing was not clear for me: are Japanese women not affectionate in general or just not affectionate in public?

With all do respect, but what region are you using to forge this list? I have completely different experiences with Japanese girls

Your advice is insightful and practical. How men cannot treat someone as lovely and sweet as you as anything less than a princess is beyond me. I assume a foreigner would be expected to speak somewhat fluent Japanese to be successful in dating. Could you do a video on communication? What topics should be avoided? Which are good 'icebreakers' or conversation starters?

7:22 If you are used to the smell you won’t smell it but for a foreigner Japanese people usually smell like soy sauce cuz (I guess that Japanese diet contains a lot of soy sauce, I don’t really know how much they consume it though)

I think that its ok if you don't show that much affection in public, just make sure to double the affection when you're together

This video is laid out like Luffy's gear system. Gear First, Gear Second, Gear Third, Gear Fourth: Smell, Gear Fourth: Clothes, Gear Fourth: Hair Style, And of some reason there's another one, Gear Fourth: Body Hair, and finally Gear Fifth

面白いです。ありがとうございます。

Universal truth, if she likes you, just be cool. Don't push. She will let you know when she's ready.

Very good advise. Thank you for taking the time to speak with us. WE LOVE YOU AND HOPE TO SEE YOU IN JAPAN SOME DAY. YOU ARE DOING AN EXCELLENT JOB. PLEASE DONT STOP. KEEP UP THE GOID WORK. LOVE YOU, FROM ALABAMA, USA.

ありがとうございます👍

So I have this problem with smells, I ask for people to use less perfume and all, since where I come from some use way too much. I have allergies all the time and headaches too and when I learnt Japanese people have such a preference I got really happy xD

@powhawj4207

3 ай бұрын

😂 my perspective doing normal is good enough. Example brush teeth , shower, haircut, take care of self.

ありがと ございます 🙏🏽

I really thought the number one would be about cleanliness and hygiene. Japanese culture is mostly about being clean neat and tidy, organised and very particular about minimalistic

Can share some tips on how to attract japanese girls and to marry them besides learn Japanese language...maybe body o dour hair style or something..tq

✨🙄🙄🙄..A PERSON WHO HAS FEELINGS FOR YOU ...MUST ACCEPT YOU THE WAY YOU ARE ...AS YOU DO ALSO...YOU DON'T NEED TO KNOW " THINGS" TO PLEASE A PERSON ...🙄✨OR GET TO BE LOVED BY THE OTHER ...IF YOU DO THINGS THE PERSON LIKE ...✨🤔🤔🤔

you are a beauty. Thank youj from Germany.

Japanese women don't show that much affection. ME: Found my match! lol

She’s soooo cute!

This is really depressing. I just spent two weeks in Japan and went out every night trying to find trendy spots to talk to girls, and not once did I see single girls out and about. Every girl I saw was with their partner. Not a single local talked to me the entire time I was there.

Very pretty dress.

😌 Your so very pretty 🌺

I recently started seeing a Japanese girl, but she has lived here in America for 20 years. However, many of the things listed here still apply. She doesn't show affection, and I thought she just not interested. Not the case. She also smells good all the time and takes care of her body. Very clean too!

you are GORGOUES !!

I dont think being skinny is a bad thing. (Speaking from someone who has tried for 20 years to gain weight)

@6:25mins I think for the usage of perfume, it all depends on where u lived. I'm from Singapore, and u know our weather here is very hot and humid. So we tend to prespire alot more. Recently, i was in a public bus in Singapore, and there was this japanese lady who sat in front of me. I could smell her body odour. So maybe if she use a heavier perfume, then that might help. Nonetheless, very good video. Very informative 😊

Love how the English sub is in Japanese 😂😂😂

ありだてとうございます😃とても楽しいです。😊

Hermosa mujer!!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤

She's says this yet there's literally thousands of videos of Japanese girls and some women showing a lot of affection towards their bf or husband, especially in public.

Pretty girl keep on grinding

@BitesizeJapanese1

2 жыл бұрын

arigatou…..❤️

What's funny is, for rule 4 that applies to all women not just Japanese ones.

1:19 My biggest worry about dating a Japanese girl is how her parents might feel about it. You see, I'm from outside Japan (I'm British), and I'm also autistic.

A girl who you later on in life can benefit from your mastery of the language. It’s unfair to assume that anyone in the relationship should have to spend their time for advanced communications. Physical signals are always a plus for both when learning your partners manurisms.

I live in Japan but I go home for Christmas every year. This has given the impression to my girlfriend(now ex) that I don't care about her.

Quite amazing. No wonder I like Korea women so much better. Koreans are kinder and not as judgemental about others. I've dated both cultures for years, so I have the experience to speak on this. Finally, married a Korean woman. 20 yrs. 2 sons.

this girl is very beautiful, i wished I could see her in germany :)

What about muscles on men?

I would of never guessed

Beauty on the inside and outside.