A man with boundaries, standards, and self-respect will not waste his valuable time with modern Western females. 😊

@deancreambetweens

29 күн бұрын

Amen

@3-DtimeCosmology

28 күн бұрын

On narcissist females

@DavidJ-ty5jm

28 күн бұрын

@@3-DtimeCosmology 99% of them are narcissistic sociopaths

@TheMannyfresh419

26 күн бұрын

💯

She needs to know you can stand up to her, to know you can stand up for her.

@ChrisPatrick8199

Ай бұрын

100%

@ethosterros9430

29 күн бұрын

Embarassing lack of intelligence.

@CorporationSKY

28 күн бұрын

Nah..she needs to know you will leave her ass of she cant get it together and realise YOU are Not her enemy...nor are you her Ruler. You are a Leader, but more importantly...human. Her safety is 1st...she must understand there is no relationship without respect for the Man and compassion for the Woman. An imbalance will lead to disaster. Peer pressure is a poison. Her lack of discipline is a ticking explosion. You CAN NOT save her...she must change WILLINGLY or it will be a endless fruitless battle. She is Not worth it...they never are. That is HER battle..not yours. But ones that realise youre her ally, and wish only the best for her will reap the rewards. Do NOT pedastalize her NOR treat her like trash.

@jordanharrison8769

23 күн бұрын

Which is fucking stupid. It’s an insane idea. Standing up to her means controlling her. Women pick men who “stand up to her”, but if I have to “stand up to you” I don’t fucking want you. We’re supposed to be a team. A partnership.

@ethosterros9430

23 күн бұрын

@@jordanharrison8769 exactly this. Every man I see who isn't a sociopath who has to keep his girl on a leash is miserable because of it, because he can't open his heart to the one person he is supposed to be able to open his heart to without reservation. It's abuse, more specifically she is abusing him. There's not enough good women to go around for all the good men who want honest and sincere relationships.

Women who are constantly on Instagram is an instant massive red flag

@joshfrench6426

23 күн бұрын

Haha well you just eliminated most women

@jarredv89

21 күн бұрын

Thanks for mentioning this. It has crossed my mind a bit lately. Also a man who spends too much time on instagram and posting daily is more effeminate

@paulmcallister8948

16 күн бұрын

​@@joshfrench6426exactly! None of them are worth it in 2024! Get a dog instead! 🫣🤔

“It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society” Jiddu Krishnamurti.

@jimlyon7276

18 күн бұрын

@Tryagain205 - Something I became only too well aware of since being dragged through a brutal & quite unnecessary divorce ( she saw it as a diversion to avoid facing up to her toxic childhood!) in which she not only trashed the lives of our two VERY young sons, but, in externalising her own chaos, she distorted my space-time line, which put me in the "wrong place @ the wrong time" resulting in me having two serious road traffic accidents. So, while I was stuck in a hospital bed, they just went ahead & ran me through THEIR process anyway! - Getting to my original point, I've been waiting for about 18 months for this book to become available in paperback - "THE MYTH OF NORMAL : ILLNESS. HEALTH AND HEALING IN A TOXIC CULTURE" by GABOR MATE (e,acute). Having read some of his books befor,. I HIGHLY recommend him [ He's also available on NUMEROUS episodes of YOU TUBE] ) - For any of you who care for chronological accuracy (Necessary in order to understand PROCESS) then I STRONGLY recommend you read the books of THE child psychologist ALICE MILLER who discusses "Poisonous Pedagogy" @ some length. As this terminology is now somewhat rare, I clarify it by replacing it with TOXIC parenting. While AM mainly dealt with causes before geting onto consequences, but was then cut short by her death, it's also very convenient that GM mainly follows on from her by largely concentrating on the consequences of trauma. This process largely follows ABUSE -> (leads to ) TRAUMA -> REPRESSION ( of TRAUMA-ANGER) - & if a healthy solution isn't obtained, then it usually results in "ACTING OUT" of TRAUMA-ANGER ! But rather than take it up with their abusive parents (mainly mothers as they are responsible for most of the early parenting) VERY many "feminists" prefer to abuse 'ALL' men as convenient "emotional dustbins", preferably by using social media where it's nice & safe, without any regard for abusing men publicly !

Had my spiritual awakening over a year ago. Ever since been practicing. 1. Detachment 2. Letting go 3. Mindfulness 4. Semen retention 5. Meditation 6. Reading books that resonate with my journey. 7. Focusing on myself. 8. Fitness and nutrition. 9. Deleted social media 10. Isolation And more .. It's been a tough journey, but I keep going.

@opticalman6417

Ай бұрын

since my awakening i dont care about relationships anymore with women i have come to understand i have everything i need allready within me

@samuelbrown7831

Ай бұрын

Mad respect. I'm inspired by this mentality

@opticalman6417

Ай бұрын

@@samuelbrown7831 Thank you

@opticalman6417

Ай бұрын

@@samuelbrown7831 Thank you

@opticalman6417

Ай бұрын

@@samuelbrown7831 thank you

Since i started my walk with Christ, I dont care if im attractive to women anymore. I am whole without a woman, and if he wants me to have a wife, it will be so.

@secfeed6987

Ай бұрын

I would maybe read up more on history, having blind faith is dangerous

@sonielwhite9405

Ай бұрын

​@@secfeed6987 you could also start questioning your blind faith, research DSS and then Isiah prophecies, research more about physical laws, about our universe and our planet, research the death of people in the first century who said they saw and lived with Christ, and were punished to death for this statement. Research near death experiences or christian testimonies. There are so many things you could research about that indicates that an intelligent designer made this world, and that he showed himself through the bible and Christ.

@livenotbylies

Ай бұрын

That is exactly how it is supposed to be. When we put women above everything, we put them in a position of power that is miserable for them. A woman is a creature who is most unhappy when she gets what she wants

@livenotbylies

Ай бұрын

Christ is King!

@kinnyg27

29 күн бұрын

@@secfeed6987I would maybe just mind my own business, bud

“Trust not a woman when she weeps, for it is her nature to weep when she wants her will” Socrates

@CorporationSKY

28 күн бұрын

Wise fkn words

@OPTHolisticServices

24 күн бұрын

😂

she's 100% right. say no when you have to, if she leaves so be it, maybe you have to. stay away from half committed women, have self respect and don't allow other people to cross the line after a couple of warnings. just continue your path alone or with another person. thanks for sharing!

@gabem6863

29 күн бұрын

Should not even let the incident get to the point of needing a couple of warnings. State your limits once and make it clear that there are consequences of violating them. Maybe one free pass with a reminder and that is it. She will test again and if she does then make the consequences well known- walk away.

Theres a girl at my work I created a boundary with because she talks to all the guys and has a boyfriend. Now she is very mean to me and I'm just trying to mind my business.

@gauchito10mx

Ай бұрын

Good man. Women like that hate what they can’t control.

@desmoran2049

Ай бұрын

Great keep it up

@shenwishes

Ай бұрын

We living the same life? Wtf

@Martyn_Wolf

27 күн бұрын

That's not talking, that's called flirting or trying to be sexual with someone (or many people)

@C_ptain

27 күн бұрын

#toxic 😅

The most attractive trait in a woman is loyalty. Still looking .......

So important. This is the stuff women never say outright, due to that fear of losing control, despite her ironic need to have the man be in control. Wonderful. Thanks Maya. If she treats you wrong, gently but firmly correct. If she makes it too difficult, walk away and let her know you simply will not be disrespected. Calmly, while you control your own emotional reactions. You rage you lose. You're supposed to be the rock. The amount of emotional control and resilience it takes to handle women is unparalleled, tbh. Excellent content and a stark reminder. Thanks.

@TGP109

26 күн бұрын

Women don't have a need for a man to control them. If you have so much difficulty stating what you want, you have no business dating. Since people today don't bother getting to know each other before they sleep together, ''red flags'' are bound to crop up. It's not difficult.

You’ve simply stated several well-thought-through truths and female perceptions. Such raw candor from a young woman is refreshing. Thank you!

I believe that any men should be capable of holding himself to a high standard where no adult content, online naked, or with g-string, bikini women, or even any kind of sexual external stimulation would put himself down to any individual on this world. Regardless of the temptation, we can do better for ourselves. To not to submit to a false oversexualization where get out of our means and put a women on a pedestal. Instead put your Life's purpose, your faith in the Most High, your love for yourself, on your wounds healing, the passion for your freedom, to live at peace with your own. Then, only then, we can appreciate, love, qnd respect ourselves and consequently respecting any kind of life. We should take our power back and embody it. Live and die on your feet and not on your knees. It is not easy but is blessed worth it. May God bless you all.

The more a woman loves you the more she will try and rip your heart out when you keep failing her tests over time you are no longer her knight in shining armor and you have screwed up her fairy tail! Don’t ever break down, your woman would rather see you die on your horse in battle than crying in your beer. Trust me at 58 I know what I’m talking about.

Can we take minute to appreciate Maya, herself. Attractive but very well spoken. Beauty with brains.

@CorporationSKY

28 күн бұрын

Fair. I'll allow it. lol

I've always said No and spoken the truth to women, I find it has the opposite affect. You tell her No and she will just replace you with someone who says Yes to her constantly until she decides to come back. And by then.. I've lost interest

Perfect timing. Thank you

Great lesson, Maya

Incredibly well explained.

SOOO GOOD BLESS YOU!!!!

that's the problem, you can only respect other people's boundaries if you know your own... but to do that you have to deal with your feelings, because otherwise you don't reflect but only react... it's like with children who don't yet understand life and therefore CANNOT take responsibility

Thank You! Maya!!

Wow! You're a damn impressive individual Maya. I really needed to hear this at this point in my life.

This video is genuinely extremely valuable. Thank you for the honesty and insight. It takes us men years to learn this lesson

You’ve got balls for saying this today. Good on you.

Nobody speaks the truth like magicmaya! 💖

You are so right.... having an abity to step back and observe while being attacked does give an advantage in arguments.

You speakin' facts. 👸🏼

Enjoyed every second of it.

Very true its hard for women to understand this, man also need to keep healthy boundaries and not allow certain things, we need more women with informative content like this. Very clear and well delivered

Thank you for what you do.

Your message is too good it makes me question your ulterior motive!

Ma’am your amazing this is quality knowledge I needed to hear. Keep it coming I’m about to binge watch tf out of your videos good stuff

Great nuggets of knowledge 😁

Great content. no more words needed. :)

I greatly appreciate your videos and your takes on these things. As men and as women we must not be eachother’s enemies. We have to work together in the union we are supposed to be in. Growing together spiritually

Thank you maya for this video you are helpfull like always 😊😊

It's wonderful to hear an intelligent woman able to reason from the facts and question the current doctrine that real men are selfish when it's actually the other way around. A healthy and equal relationship between a man and a woman is based on mutual trust and HONESTY! Most women today are living a lie, nurtured by false feminism rooted in propaganda that healthy and loving values are bad! Thank you for your amazing and well thought out videos.

Women marry emotionally stable men... but cheat on them with emotionally unstable men.

@defibeast

28 күн бұрын

They won't cheat on you if you are a real man

@CorporationSKY

28 күн бұрын

...you give them way too much credit. It doesnt matter how Real You are...emotions are chaotic, and women are slaves to them. They will choose fun over stability in times od weakness. ​@@defibeast

Remarkable wisdom from one so young.

Thank you for helping and inspiring men Maya✨. it's so important for us to receive that kind of support from the opposite gender. Thanks to you I broke my semen retention record, you are a life changer. ⚡

Thank you for bringing this up and spreading this message. It isn't going to be popular with the young ladies but the truth hurts. And to admit that you can work on things yourself. I have lots of respect for you now. You are young and wise and I wish the best for you in your future endeavors.

This is sooooo true.

I really appreciate the fact that you distinguish between a man that has boundaries and values, and a jealous, insecure man who wants to turn the women into his ''property''. Many people nowadays portait both as ''toxic masculine'' even though it is abolute nonsense and the first example is something that should be respected in every relationship. Setting boundaries in a relationship does not mean that you are a ''insecure man'', ''enslaving the woman'', especially if you take into consideration that most Ladies demand those boundaries from their husbands. It is a two way streak But it also does not mean, that there are no overly insecure, narcissistic males, tryig to gain control over a woman. And that also does not mean, that there are no overly confident, narcissistic females, trying to gain control over a man.

Yes backbone fellas ✊️

Capture this woman and protect her at all costs. We need to figure out how she was wired with full on basic common sense and has somehow managed to come forward. Wow. Serious hat tip here.

As a "Peter" I can confirm boundaries in life are generally a good idea. Especially so within a relationship. It can be difficult to lay down a boundary with the threat of relationship termination. Knowing how much one loses by ending a relationship, the temptation is to compromise. However, it will likely eat away at you every time that boundary is crossed. Building up a feeling of being disrespected by your partner. Eventually, I always face up to it, as being disrespected is something I can only tolerate for so long, before I rise up and challenge it with vigour and determination. It often does end the relationship but that is fine, usually by then the feeling is more, one of relief and peace of mind, having confronted the issue.

Hay girl. I like the minimal makeup. Just a compliment.

It is hard (but very necessary) to call your woman on the crazy emotional storm. Call her on the irrational, crazy emotion and offer a good long hug. (Be aware of the phase of the moon.) I try not to "fix" the situation... but I certainly promote respect. Thanks Maya! .... well done!

Insightful. I instill leadership values. Boundaries as well. Including self respect. It makes me a lone wolf🐺 Sometimes it’s better to simply letting things flow on their own. If and only if they want to come back. I’m available, but they do know that I changed for the better. It doesn’t make me dangerous. What it makes me is self aware of what is on the table to build a growing relationship.

All I’ll say is that hopefully you establish boundaries without going through some seriously s*** experiences. But a lot of the time it’s necessary to experience and become aware of the pain in order to put a stop to it. Boundaries are on of the hardest things to establish and enforce. That and toxic people hate them. You know you’re doing the right thing if people start hating you for calling out their BS and saying no.

Wowwww❤❤❤🎉🎉 so on point!!!!

good video thanks

Amazing video

It's also about whether the man is coming from a mindset of abundance or lack. Boundaries are much easier to enforce when a man is in the mindset of abundance. It then becomes not about controlling the woman's behavior but rather simply stating that you do what you want, but that doesn't work for me. Where as the man who is in a mindset of lack is much more likely to become the fool or the simp.

We need to revive the olden days where women were given in marriage, and they don't get to choose, her father does the choosing.

very cool. good thought. a slight suggestion… the things you described are not deserved they are thoughtful decisive conviction which are applied with deliberate intension.

Boundaries feel great and foster self respect, strength and clarity. My X who left the relationship brought her un-integrated emotions to me via text when she started missing me. I held my position 3 times about no contact and the reasons why (to grieve-emotionally process) and finally she texted i understand thank you. Her text revealed it wasn’t just all about her, and that she respected me and my boundary. The hardest part has been going from being in contact every day, connecting on so many levels to nothing. i know though that whats happening now is best for me and her.

a mans relationship with the Devine and inner worlds is paramount his heart will be open and he will feel whole the physical will lose its appeal as the energy of lust rises up to his heart the one thing a woman looks for is his innocence and the boundaries he puts in p[lace to keep that inner child thriving great video

I have to say I’m loving your natural, minimal makeup look I truly wish more women would chill on the makeup y’all are so beautiful without it and we all know how toxic makeup is for your body

@inker1972

28 күн бұрын

Because not all girls are naturally pretty lol

Thanks. I needed to hear this. And I also need new friends.

It's a hard society. I gave up pleasing woman and made life more easy. I'll never know what they want and don't care. I mean do they think they deserve more.

I love you so damn much. You don't know how much I appreciate you. I'm not kissing your butt, I'm simply just showing you so much love and appreciation 💕

@pleaseexcusemeforbeinganti6626

Ай бұрын

You are 100% kissing her butt

Live alone Be a monk Monk mode activated

Honestly this is good advice but let’s be real. If you’re a good looking guy none of this matters lol.

@xSWlMx

28 күн бұрын

Not true

excellent video

Isaiah 38:18 For the grave cannot praise thee, death can not celebrate thee: they that go down into the pit cannot hope for thy truth.

Impressive content

Wisdom to u mayah raw truth every man should be a sigma male no respect no relationship

Mayka, this is probably your most succesful day on this channel. 🙂 I have not seen a gain of 300 subscribers in one day since I watch you. Your usual gain is 100 subscribers daily. Everyone has boundaries, even people who suffered from a narcissistic, sociopathic or borderline abuse in childhood. If we would not have boundaries we would already be dead by suicide. Of course, some boundaries can be destroyed, harmed but the basis is still there on which we can build up. So the problem isn't not having boundaries but expressing them in healthy ways. People can have many boundaries but if they cannot enforce them because of respect or trust they are useless & then they should walk away. That is why I believe boundaries are not the most attractive trait but confidence is. 94:0! 04/05/2024. 22:06. 436.

Subscribe immediately boys... this woman is a genius and gets it.

Where the hell did you come from? What a breath of fresh air! Love you!

Hope is my favorite name for a woman....Maya is another....maybe the next life.....lol.....

I love this look you have

ILY 🫶🏽

Wealth

Do things to get her out of the ordinary boring social media life. Once I surprised my gf with a trip to skydiving. She was so pissed but she tried it and liked it. Relationships are all about sarcasm, surprise

AMEN!!

Freedom happines i'll never start again.

Don't put women on pedestals be a man set boundaries if she can't handle that she is not worth it .Men need self respect and control of there minds body and emotions and have the maturity to say I will be alone if I can't find a woman who has self respect and respect my space then I'm fine with that . Men lead and women follow women want masculine men healthy women want this .

@CorporationSKY

28 күн бұрын

Fact. - Peter Griffin

1 Thessalonians 5:9 For God hath not appointed us to wrath, but to obtain salvation by our Lord Jesus Christ,

I'm 17 and have boundaries, I went on a date with a girl and got called controlling

Is it healthy? Absolutely not Does it Happen ? Yes Phenomenal

what a good wonen, I wish i had women like you who still have traditional in herself.

The word "boundaries" can have negative associations. I prefer the word you used at the end of this video - "standards".

@danyan7

Ай бұрын

values.

Unfortunately, it has been my experience, that me setting any kind of boundaries spells the end of my relationship. I'm not getting any younger.

@arthurdevrome8925

Ай бұрын

Then the energy behind the boundaries are too harsh, forces, fearfull and not masculine and self assured.

@MegaAvalonn

Ай бұрын

@@arthurdevrome8925 Explaining how I find our relationship one-sided, where I'm a doormat, and I'm not getting anything in the way of reciprocation. I hardly see how this qualifies as harsh, fearful, and not masculine. Explaining how I go out of my way to plan, in many ways surprise, romantic activities, all but for her to get angry at the idea of going slightly out of her comfort zone that she would rather watch Kim Kardashian and Netflix garbage on TV, while at the same time lamenting men these days lack romance. . . I don't see how trying to break this common lazy pattern is in anyway harsh, fearful, and not masculine. Again, no reciprocation is the issue. Explaining how I am a man and human being, not something to be "fixed" for some report card on your social media, apparently this boundary is too much as well. Every woman I come across it's always the same: How do I elevate my social status and use you as a bus. Shallow and weak.

I feel like it's a weakness to always complain what's bothering you. But also if you don't she might go on her own move.

After 4 years if living together with our 7 children combined, my ex and I ended up breaking yp when I realized she never respected my boundary need for her children to be in their rooms 10pm on weekdays when i need to work in the morning. It was a real revelation to me.

True

jawline structure, height and eyes

I thought she was going to say a wedding ring. ;)

🙏💯

2 Corinthians 4:3 But if our gospel be hid, it is hid to them that are lost:

Yes, yes, boundaries... But i think there's usually 2 mistakes made : 1- confusing boundaries and assholes. 2- thinking that a man being nice is a man without boundaries. I reckon that women have a turmoil of feelings and so on in their life. But as we become men when we control ourself, so should women be. You can't ask for someone to invest in a relationship (and yes, it requires investment and work from both part), but at the same time, bringing turmoil of feelings, or expecting your man to put a stop to your overwhelming tornado in you. It's your job to learn to control it. Not your man's job to be the wall against you crash. That is the role of a father, not of a husband.

#1 attractive trait to women: be attractive

Wow. I'm watching all these videos like I'm taking a college degree on women.😅

@followwind1471

Ай бұрын

Exactly 😂

I oddly wonder, do women like a fully shaved head or long hair on a man the best? Most men tend to keep it somewhere in the middle, but to be fair the 100% natural look is letting everything grow out.

Currently my relationship is falling apart because of reasons including right this one. I didnt state my boundaries when we started dating and only later I got more confident in my abilities to lead and figured out what I'd like some boundaries to be. I've tried discussing them, but to no avail. Is there a way to successfully implement some boundaries when we haven't started out as such?

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right on. the big mistake so many men make is doing what they think the woman will like. dude, how good are you at thinking like a woman ? not very, I bet. she already has girlfriends, she wants a man. so be a man. a mature man, who knows how to have fun, and, most important , living his LIFE PURPOSE, using his Natural Talent.