was kinda unsettling hearing miranda tell raven what she went through wasn’t body dysmorphia. but seeing what you went through in a completely opposing perspective can be hard to comprehend. because exactly what miranda described is what raven went through. she was thick in the beginning, adjusted herself to be thin and saw flaws in herself because of that. she couldnt stop thinking that “i’m too skinny” “i look unhealthy” when she most likely didnt. just like when skinny people still see fat, and tell themselves “i need to lose weight” or “fuck im fat” (thats the one i use sometimes) when its not present or doesnt matter. the difference is just that raven preferred herself as she was in the beginning, as a fuller girl/women. and her dysmorphia showed her that she was happier as a fuller women. while our dysmorphia (you and i, miranda) tells us that we would be happy being thinner or more toned, while forcing us into the fear of gaining weight at the same time. which contributes to the fact that most people (that identify with us) intermittent fast or have disordered eating.

@sumdayzzz

2 жыл бұрын

right! u explained it perfectly!!

Your dialogue with each other is so beautiful. & this dialogue is needed in the world so bad. Thank you for sharing your experiences & helping change the narrative of what “beautiful “ is. 🙏🏽✨

I worked in a cosmetic beauty store as a teen/young adult. This older lady would always come in fabulous and I though she is so beautiful and I felt so ugly so I asked what do you do to have such clear and beautiful skin and how do you do your make up so well etc and her reply was this isn't me this is money. I was took back from her honesty x

@uniyshalindsay2922

2 жыл бұрын

I love that she was honest because no one’s perfect or can look perfect.. we all have flaws and you’re beautiful the way god made ya… allow you’re beauty to grow naturally 🤗😁

I really admire the way that you both communicate with each other. Love your channel! Not that my opinion matters, but you both are beautiful inside and out!

thanks for this conversation , at some point in our lives we have all been through this or are still going thorough this. I hated the way i looked at one point i didn't leave the house and couldnt make eye contact with anyone.

I am so lucky that all the women i idolized were family members who were real people. 💯

Both are body dysmorphia. I’ve been a thick girl since I was 8. I didn’t even know my body was different than anyone else’s until other people told me. That’s where it begins. This implanted opinion about your body that’s not even yours but you carry for years. You spend years trying to be this or that... then you get to an age and your like “wtf”. .... why am I doing these things to my body that it doesn’t like and it still doesn’t make me feel any better about it. Then you understand you’ve been trapped in this “idea”... this image that does fucking exist. Body Dysmorphia baby...

What raven describes is also a version of body dysmorphia, it’s a dysmorphic way you see your body

This channel has my heart.

Yes, at the skinniest I was 5”5 94 pounds in my 20’s, and now a women at 40 years old, healthier weight at 115, I feel awesome🤗🤗🤗, thank u guys for sharing your stories.

Metaphysical dialogue is greatly appreciated.

I totally needed this talk! All of this is so true. And I need to work on myself a little more as far as the last message.

It’s really sad when we are young innocent happy & oblivious to your flaws then some young kid comes up to you and points out all your problems when it was never a problem to you until they mentioned it. & now you forever struggle with that negative thought that someone else gave you. I wish as humans words didn’t hurt that much

We are so proud of you both! 💖

Loved this episode !! These are great and the way you guys articulate your feelings and experiences is beautiful! This talk definitely made me self reflect! Thank you!

Miranda I know exactly how you feel. I never knew it was a disorder but growing up I have always felt that way and people would tell me I’m “light as a feather” but I never been model skinny because I have thickness in my legs and butt and always wanted to be skinnier but now I’ve grown to be great full for my thickness as a skinny girl and wished I loved myself more. I didn’t have my mom growing up due to heroine and that made me somewhat insecure at a young age but I’m recognizing my issues now and thanks for yalls honesty. I love you guys

Ravens gorgeous 🥰

Yes I suffer from body dysmorphia. It sucks, I feel like I’m always comparing my appearance to everyone elses

way to b so open and honest ur beautiful just da way u r milly

Thank you guys for this channel! Fav video

You guys did amazing can’t wait to see more of these love yall 😘❤️

I love these videos of you two 💕💕 you guys are two smart women I and I love hearing your opinions

You guys stay safe and you guys are so amazing

Two of my favorite people

Great conversation loved it!! Need more talks like this in my opinion.

Wow I am so thankful for this video

I love y’all keep going and growing many blessings

Ohhhh spill the tea!!!!! 😁😁😁

Thx for the positive message 👍🏼

I have always struggled with my weight and Have a mother who has always called me fat and her mother did the same to her name to her so at 50 I got the bariatric sleeve is the bariatric sleeve and lost a significant amount of weight but she still finds something to pick on me for. Needless to say I stopped the cycle with my daughter And refuse to have her see herself as anything but gorgeous at no matter what size! Doesn't matter what's on the outside or matters what's on the inside and both of you are beautiful souls in inside and out! Thank you for always sharing it helps a lot of people!✌💜

I think Raven is fabulous.

@waed2302

2 жыл бұрын

I have a question for Ross. How old were u when hanging with Mr Cooper ended?

Raven, when you was talking about acne that people has, it kinda reminds me of me when I used to have a few acnes on my face at a young age of 15.

I just made an absolutely terrific macrobiotic, probiotic stew. Non-GMO, gluten free healthy carbohydrates. You're beautiful Raven...live long and prosper. Over eating while going traumatic events in children, see doctors about thyroid

Love you Rae!!! 🔥🔥🔥

Awesome job ladies

So interesting to listen to you Raven! I grew up watching u everyday and people always called me Raven Symone or Backster all the time! (Raven is also my name just spelled Raeven) you are my spirit animal!❤️

love this video ❤😍😘

Did I drop everything when I saw you mentioned the video dropped on Instagram? Yes. Do I regret it? Absolutely not 😂 also, Raven’s “I love your face” was super adorable ❤️

Great conversation!!!

Get these two on StylelikeU ASAP!!

Beautiful lovely couple. I love watching your video

She putting a whooole lot of ketchup on her food. Lol

Hello. I wanted to tell you, that both of you are amazing and beautiful. Perfectly made. Designed fully and i love you family.

Sagittarius are know to be big and beautiful … big hips always look fantastic on you guys

My girl ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ loves ketchup 😋 🤣 so cute.

Raven and Miranda, how do I feel about my body...? I feel great and bold about it...inside of my heart.

Dad bod is still a thing!

omg i wonder if this is why raven made the “in your skin” song

You guys seriously have a camera guy!! Lol ITS KZread !! But Also where can I find a camera guy! 😂 love it

My great-grandmother used to said the same thing about men losing weight faster.

I never acne or pimples on my face and I have borderline personality

I swear I'm a 6 and I'm an 18. Lawwwwwd. I wake up a 6 then the mirror shows me different. I totally feel way smaller than I am. Being the size that I am is not what I should be, I don't feel good. There's so much contributing to how I feel.

Your last video oh no no no I have dreams about the magets.

You two are making me hungry … let’s eat together I’ll be back with my food ♥️😜

new friend, watching here

I’ve given up on body image I’ve accepted that It’s only going up from here! So my new goal is to be on my 600 lb life! I think that’s a goal I can reach much faster… lol

🙏🏾✌🏾❤️🌹💐

I did two-day water fast! What fast did you do?

Im trying to up my fasting game to Raven level

Omu where can I buy that culdren.xoxo love to live uaa

MIRANDAAAA WHERE DO I GET YOURE KETCHUP IN CANADAAAAAA!!!!!????? I’ve been looking everywhere loool🙈😅😂 but I feel like it’s only in America:((

Hiiiiiiyaa

Miranda doesn’t seem very nice.

@begood4786

2 жыл бұрын

She didn’t do anything lol

Is the chelsea

@MissKoriana

2 жыл бұрын

No