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@N8Toons

5 жыл бұрын

OMG FIRST HI SHUGURR

@arseball5218

5 жыл бұрын

SECONNDDDD

@David-ys7ip

5 жыл бұрын

yhello

@hitime6114

5 жыл бұрын

Ok!

@Harryations

5 жыл бұрын

Cool

*No one's ever obligated to stay in a toxic relationship. Talk it out and if nothing improves, just leave. You'll find better people.*

@severusreee9234

5 жыл бұрын

Howdy!

@The20088373

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks TJ

@oliviapfannebecker551

5 жыл бұрын

Ok. Thanks And I love your vids

@Kelzlps

5 жыл бұрын

TJ Toons Truth but sometimes you can’t leave

@the_moustached_toaster9778

5 жыл бұрын

Heyyyyy! Its TJ!

_Friendship should be like kid's toys, safe and non-toxic_

@hailie6171

5 жыл бұрын

True

@Dubstep_Hamster

5 жыл бұрын

exactly.

@babybrainjohnson

5 жыл бұрын

FroyoHead Animation lool

@urapoopyhead7556

5 жыл бұрын

Toxic friends are tide-pods

@JackJack-gu3zy

5 жыл бұрын

What happened to u uploading

Oh my god, that “we won’t be friends anymore” threat sent shivers down my spine

@chiletoo8741

2 жыл бұрын

hey are you joking about this?

@bettyw.2795

Жыл бұрын

ye and there's the "I will block you if you do not respond" ugh

@ufrane6321

Жыл бұрын

"If you don't reply to me as soon as you get home from school, I'm not talking to you for two weeks"

@Brigeb20

Жыл бұрын

@@chiletoo8741 yea I think so

@nitzanshu4695

Жыл бұрын

No one needs such friends, but a lot of times its hard to understand that because the toxic friend might get you further from your friends so you'll feel completely alone without the toxic friend

My best friend has been going through a lot lately and has been getting a little toxic, I said something to her and she immediately stopped. She did not realize she was doing it and felt really bad about it and has apologized atleast twice a day since then 😭 sometimes toxic friends may seem like they don't care, but sometimes just confront them. A lot of time they don't realize they are doing it. Don't get me wrong though, if they continue definitely drop them. (During the time she was being toxic, I avoided her. She came to me crying asking why I was not talking to her anymore and I explained why. It's been 3weeks since then and we are doing great 😁)

@kathrynkaren1024

2 жыл бұрын

Dang thats awesome!! So glad yall r doing well

@diamond_ingot

Жыл бұрын

If only everyone was as mature as you. People have to realize that others have personal lives, hurdles, and even secrets that can cause stress and unconscious impulsive and toxic behavior. UNDERSTANDING CONFRONTATION IS KEY FOR PEOPLE YOU FEEL LIKE YOU TRUSTED. ( although sometimes people are just manipulative trash. Always talk first though.)

@Lucaija

Жыл бұрын

This is why communication is very important. Although terrible mental health isn't an excuse to be a bad person, it's more of an explanation on why they are like this. I think it's good to keep an open mind and try and understand them. To be honest, I don't think most people are truly terrible people. I was both toxic person and had other people be toxic towards me. Depending on the situation, the only way to move forward is not to go back. Forgive one another and especially, ourselves.

@creativeswirl6002

Жыл бұрын

yay!!!!!!!! ^^

@heather_foreather

Жыл бұрын

Sad to say I used to be one of those toxic people but since then I matured and learned to care of people's feelings Sometimes, too much

“We won’t be friends anymore if you leave me” Me : pedals faster

@oldman753

4 жыл бұрын

I’M THE FIRST COMMENT

@r.j.penfold

4 жыл бұрын

I would too.

@moniqueroa9167

4 жыл бұрын

Yep, sameeee

@Numikek

4 жыл бұрын

LaurenEmily Gantt nobody cares

@jack-hw8pv

4 жыл бұрын

LMAO YO GO BRO

Sometimes I worry I’m a toxic person. I try not to be and my friends tell me I’m not but I still worry.

@sinopa1363

4 жыл бұрын

RadioOppy1 same

@paintbrushes9329

4 жыл бұрын

I do too

@frenci99

4 жыл бұрын

Well if you worry it means you care about your friends and this mean that it's unlikely toxic

@baileyf1723

4 жыл бұрын

Me too

@samaassiri7583

4 жыл бұрын

There is a video called sings that you are becoming toxic, it may helps you!

"Anything I liked, she would make fun of." Now I know for sure that's what toxic people do, because my 'friend' did the exact same thing. We can agree that stuff stings.

@What_a_silly_goose

Жыл бұрын

Yup

@RudeRabit

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, my school ‘friends’ make fun of my art because I draw animal characters, and they call me a furry for it. I have to specify them as school ‘friends’ because my online friends are actually cool people.

@popsickle_

Жыл бұрын

My school pretty much minds their business, if somebody likes something it's either they aren't interested and leave, or just say it's weird.. and that's about it Plus even if they aren't interested in somebody's other interests we really don't care, the only thing we care about is the amount of human decency somebody has.. like if you dig your nose in PUBLIC having no shame, or not wear socks while going outside of their house, nobody will like you.. some people in my school are disgusting like both of the examples I said but for 1 person, not to mention he used to cough on people thinking the virus is a joke.. he did many things too disgusting to say

@field_of_stinging_nettles

Жыл бұрын

YES

@Beths-cat

Жыл бұрын

My “best friend” made me get rid of my pet hamster because it’s “ugly”

I had SO many toxic friendship relationships. Its literally ridiculous how long it took me to realize that sticking with people who are not good for you will drag you down...

@mobisugershot

7 ай бұрын

i still havn't learned despite being blackmailed, threatened (as in being unfriended or not talking ), loosing friends even though they clearly were being toxic and that emotionally affected me, being ignored (by a friend group even), and having almost no control over what we we're gonna do. But one thing iv realized is that people have their reasons and you'll tstill have to do your part being the empath.

I love how she hates Second Friend so much she doesn't even bother to give her a name

@jenniferpearce1052

3 жыл бұрын

But Shugrr and Splenda is super cute.

@ducceatbredgaming3872

3 жыл бұрын

That was probably to keep her identity so nobody hates on her too much

@painted_roses8129

3 жыл бұрын

@@ducceatbredgaming3872 and so nobody feels offended

@BreadCanteloupe

3 жыл бұрын

Her voice gets quieter every video

@anna_9195

3 жыл бұрын

*:)*

How can you get a toxic friend if you don't have any? _Modern problems require modern solutions_

@sapateirovalentin348

5 жыл бұрын

A friend? What is this? Some kind of food?

@tbagserous7948

5 жыл бұрын

Put them on the school shooter list

@annaswanson5903

5 жыл бұрын

that's true, but you can be mean to yourself too ... it's not just other people

@Sharkittty

5 жыл бұрын

Mustard Gnome I've been gnomed

@PokeDude011

5 жыл бұрын

Hello me old chum!

"We won't be friends unless you stay with me" THATS when you stop peddling and punch her in the face

The "we won't be friends anymore" reminded me EXACTY of what my first toxic friend said. This friend was awful, by the way. She robbed me of my lunch money every day when I bought her cookie (12 in one day was the record). She would never say nice things to me, and she always made me do what she wanted. And her catchphrase was "or I won't be your friend anymore". Eventually, when she said that, one day, I just said, "really? That's great!" and left.

“Where do you think your going?” *Ad plays* Taco Bell, apparently.

@youweird6625

3 жыл бұрын

*Chowking-* I

@anonymousnamechanger2687

3 жыл бұрын

Yee Taco Bell let’s go

@maricel.anthony6686

3 жыл бұрын

@@youweird6625 i thought choking xd

@zackufrezs.9247

3 жыл бұрын

I had a ad to at that moment but it was school ;-;

@Viciousviruz

3 жыл бұрын

Omg same

Toxic friend : *talks to cooler friends and ignores me* Me : *starts to leave* Toxic friend : if you even think about leaving we won't be friends Me : well then.....jackpot!!!! Later buddy

@michaelsolomon8031

4 жыл бұрын

Me: Later buddy? I'd say Never

@romeocabral2773

4 жыл бұрын

When I was in a toxic relationship, when anyone said that I couldn’t because he was the only person that liked me or even talked to me

@izzy1846

4 жыл бұрын

Toxic friend: Well frick. Now I will I will have to solve my OWN problems.

@bettybeats3747

4 жыл бұрын

LOL

@ch34pwoowoo7

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah i’d do the same thind

My first toxic relationship was with my best friend. Before in 1st-4th grade it was amazing, everyday we spent all of our time at each others house. but then came 5th grade. He for some reason became all rude. I was friends with the person everyone in our class called a weirdo. My best friend would always get him to be a lower role if we every played any type of game. soon enough it got so bad me and my friend would soon just play games by ourselves and relationships went down from there. My friend never came over anymore, he stopped interacting with me in class, everything was destroyed. He then moved away during summer and I haven't heard from him since even though we have each others phone number.

@ameliaamels3563

2 жыл бұрын

hey, so sorry to hear that. loosing a best friend can be so hard (i know this from personal experince) but you will learn to accept and im sure you have found better people already!

@baekseulhyun6762

2 жыл бұрын

I think that's the work of toxic male friends in play. I've seen so many of my male childhood friends change so much at 5th/6th grade. And all of them changed because of their male friends who taught them toxic stuff in order to become "more masculine"

@chrisbloxxer1747

2 жыл бұрын

@@ameliaamels3563 I sure did, many students change because of popularity. In school I had this amazing friend but when we went in middle school, they completely changed. They would just laugh at kids they found a weird and just be a terrible person overall

@cheeze588

2 жыл бұрын

@@chrisbloxxer1747 Your not the only one. When I was in Year 5 , I was excluded a lot and when my classmates finally did accept me , they used that to attempt to control my whole personality.

I had a problem just like this, I was a shy girl who stayed with two toxic girls and lost lots of friends cause of how rude they were. I was too scared to leave because I was scared of being alone, great video btw!!

@opbossgg

2 жыл бұрын

Well it's better to be alone then to have toxic bitches

@flippy-7570

2 жыл бұрын

My toxic friend actually tuned me toxic for a while until our friendship ended and I realized what was wrong and turned into a nicer person.

@flippy-7570

2 жыл бұрын

Although my old friend still tries to be friends with me and my other friends and hint what I did in the past

@rj7397

2 жыл бұрын

Man, toxic freinds suck. But it can be hard to leave because they are the only freinds you have.

_Can’t have a relationship if no ones ever loved you._ (cries internally)

@chet262

5 жыл бұрын

since when do i have a twin

@baileymassey1302

5 жыл бұрын

@@chet262 Ya mean triplet O.O

@yeetfeet989

5 жыл бұрын

@@baileymassey1302 you mean quadruplit?

@cheddarika

5 жыл бұрын

Relatable

@DIOBrando-qn4zo

5 жыл бұрын

Just gonna give u a oof

Sgurr: im innocent Sgurr later: why dont i shove my shoe up your-

@ALPlays

3 жыл бұрын

she was probably gonna say mouth xp

@colepfeiffer2525

3 жыл бұрын

What childhood is really like.

@Thnmljkli

3 жыл бұрын

She said she was innocent when she was in 4th grade and shoving part was in middle school (sorry if it is the same thing )

@alex-white4669

3 жыл бұрын

Lol

@alex-white4669

3 жыл бұрын

100th like- :c I ruined iiiitt

4:12 my god her voice she mustve been really sad :(

Oh, gosh--I feel this, I had a very toxic friend when I was little that I never really liked, and more or less ditched easily by third grade. Later, though, I met my former best mate--she was smart, loved to read just like me, and had a great attitude and great sense of humor. Overall, I loved being with her! I was always so excited to see her, and my love language is gifts, so I was always giving her affection, little things, freshly-baked sweets, etc For...whatever reason, this year, she got more standoffish, more of a perfectionist, and self-absorbed. She never approached me except even she needed a place to sit, never had time or effort to spend with me; always tried to one-up me a bit, and all-in-all, was less of my best friend than a picture taped to my wall. Because my real best friend is a really nice guy who also gets lots of love and attention and sweets from me and never tries to take advantage of it, I realized what she was doing wasn't okay. I still liked her, and tried to talk it through reasonably. She eventually ignored me altogether and yelled at me in the middle of the hall for *suspecting* she might not be a good person because of her own words and actions. She was stressed, sure, and really wanted a fan club more than friends, but my own father used to have a temper like that, so the moment she decided her personal stress was an excuse to be a jerk at an innocent, unarmed friend? Snap. Three years of close friendship, gone like *that.* I've barely blinked, and been quite happy talking about science and sharing pastries at breakfast with my real friends. Don't be a dick to your friends, kids.

My first toxic relationship was when I was bitten by a radioactive spider.

@zufiz.k8358

5 жыл бұрын

...Spiderman?

@remixdragon6156

5 жыл бұрын

Random Cat spiderwoman

@mrherpflerp1262

5 жыл бұрын

Heh

@Jyudee

5 жыл бұрын

Spiderwoman?

@joug4n

5 жыл бұрын

Omg spiderman is that you?

Well, it's like Jaiden said: You are not responsible for their happiness. You have to take care of yourself first.

This story is very similar to my experience with a toxic “best friend” I also stood up for myself when she was the most toxic and now I’m doing better and I’m happy.

Here's how to avoid sheep and save yourself time: 1. Don't look for friends on purpose. 2. Friendships are not work, if you feel like you have to try then you or them don't really care about one another or are just being fake. 3. They talk over you or when you finally talk they "yup" you or shrug off what you say just waiting for their turn. 4. They talk a lot about themselves and don't really ask about you. 5. When you discuss serious or casual topics they try to 1-up you as if it's a competition of who has had a harder life or better taste or whatever. 6. They're only there for you if they get something out of it and want you to cheer them up rather than them ever cheering you up. 7. Don't tell personal things about yourself that you wouldn't want people to know at first, leave red herrings to see if they try to out you or use it against you in arguments or when they're mad. 8. Make sure the times the person makes you feel happy far outweighs times they've made you angry or sad. 9. If you can't be yourself at the silliest, craziest, or dumbest without them judging you; then it's already a waste of time. Remember these things, I've spent plenty of time analyzing different sheep and pushing through the herds to find my two best friends for years. There's only two yeah, but I'd trust them with my life and I'd die for them. I get to be who I am and not feel judged, feel joy, and laugh, and share my hardships with them and vice versa on our darkest days. You don't need a herd to be happy when you can have real friends.

@isabella521

Жыл бұрын

So just have no friends forever?

@picklewart5382

Жыл бұрын

@@isabella521 No, just be picky with who you trust with your heart.

@isabella521

Жыл бұрын

@@picklewart5382 I know I was just joking around

@Kittygirl-nf9si

Жыл бұрын

Honestly, that “red herring” trick sounds pretty useful, especially against “friends” who turn out to be toxic. I will make sure to keep it in mind for when I need it most, thank you!!

@angrynoodletwentyfive6463

Жыл бұрын

I agree with everything you say except for the comparing people to sheep part. That is an analogy that is very commonly used by a group of people who... have a bunch of really weird conspiracy theories about jews and LGBTQ+ people... and how they secretly control the world with satan and need to be purged. and that is a group that you may or may not want to be using the same language as... 😬😬😬

*Nobody deserves to be in a toxic relationship*

@Cruiserguy-pc9gs

5 жыл бұрын

💯

@vmarzein

5 жыл бұрын

Well yeah but it will always exist

@ZuMii_Idled

5 жыл бұрын

My god ur name is real

@MichaelMonka

5 жыл бұрын

But Britney Spears tells me other wise.

@annaswanson5903

5 жыл бұрын

too true

I was in a toxic relationship for 7 years, and finally I got her reported. Oh SWEET revenge!

@festivekamikaze

5 жыл бұрын

7 YEARS!!!

@buttcaptain5399

5 жыл бұрын

@@festivekamikaze once I was 7 years old my momma told me......sorry couldn't resist

@isabellacorr1122

5 жыл бұрын

@@festivekamikaze yep. We meet in pre school. She had long nails, and she would threaten me to play with her or she would scratch me...

@festivekamikaze

5 жыл бұрын

Dang

@festivekamikaze

5 жыл бұрын

I also had a toxic relationship it was for about 1 year, he was AWFUL he would make fun of me for absolutely everything

Hey Shgurr I’m glad your doing better! I first found your videos after Covid began and now that your back I’m glad to see ya!

5:20 Lapis Lazuli: "I just feel trapped"

Can I just say ‘dollars for scholars’ is pretty fricking cool

My friend: bla bla bla Me: *LISTENING* My friend: done Me: Inhale- My friend: ok bye

@Lanay_

4 жыл бұрын

are u sure thats a friend?

@DUMRATBOY

4 жыл бұрын

That’s not a friend

@agav224

4 жыл бұрын

sadly, same

@esora2476

4 жыл бұрын

SO TRUE AGH

@RyanDoesntAnimatelol

4 жыл бұрын

That’s not a friend, that’s a fake friend

My first toxic relationship was with one of my closest friends when I was in 3rd or 4th grade- she would threaten me if I didn’t hang out with her, casually tease and bully me and then say she’s just joking, only let me do things she wanted to do, and guilt trip me on the DAILY. But the thing is I stayed friends with her for YEARS because I just didn’t know what an actual good friendship looked like since I hadn’t really had one.

I clicked on this video and thought it was going to be about a toxic boyfriend but I'm so glad it was about a toxic friend instead, I had a friend really similar to this so this video really spoke to me, thank you for making it.

Unfortunately people with narcissistic personalities (like "second friend" seems to have here) tend to gravitate to empathetic people and drain their energy like a leech. I'm glad to hear that you were able to stand up for yourself in the end.

@annaswanson5903

5 жыл бұрын

ditto

@zriv

5 жыл бұрын

@@annaswanson5903 ditto

@Jackskellington9100

5 жыл бұрын

I had a friend like that and after dealing with her for years, I realized how controlling she was. She just recently ran one of my friends through the ringer mentally and financially, claiming it was all my friend's fault and refusing to accept the blame. Thankfully, I realized her attitude and left. I now have better friends and can stand up for myself.

@oimate6357

5 жыл бұрын

Hiram McDaniels I used to be a narcissistic asshole and I did control my friends BUT I got over myself and now I still have one of those friends and we are the best friends!

@angrybeaver1142

5 жыл бұрын

And those tend to be borderline people which is why it’s really annoying that people think borderlines are the real sources of worry for people watching out for toxic relationships.

That "friend" was toxic all right. A TOXIC WASTE of space! (ba dum pssh)

@commanderfalcon1595

5 жыл бұрын

This is beautiful

@dhatboi_dre

5 жыл бұрын

Good joke

@tiredashell7205

5 жыл бұрын

OH SHIIIIIIIIII-

@legocaptainrex5546

5 жыл бұрын

OH FUCK GOTTEM

@imabeast6359

5 жыл бұрын

Love it 😂

I’m glad the internet exists because it keeps good friends connected

In the process of overcoming my BPD. Every relationship winds up getting toxic because I just want to tell everyone what they want to hear. Currently just staying out of relationships until I figure my own problems out first

I've never been in a toxic relationship... *Because I'm the lonely one in the corner...*

@percyanimation710

5 жыл бұрын

HEY, lets go get Ice cream and watch random videos on youtube

@brotherspill1786

5 жыл бұрын

@@AmineToo that escalated quickly

@AmineToo

5 жыл бұрын

@@brotherspill1786 ikr

@okijoki_art

5 жыл бұрын

lol i'm lonely because i'm scared of going back into toxic relationships, so i'm scared to make friends.

@chickennugget3043

5 жыл бұрын

Iv been lonely for 7 years... Cause the friends I have.. well I don’t consider them as friends.. most like frienemies

Let's say that most of us had at least 1 toxic friend. But in my childhood... I got a *radioactive* one !!!

@sharonaukstolis9553

5 жыл бұрын

*badum shhh*

@LL-tr5et

5 жыл бұрын

montafid kasmi I never had a toxic friend because I am the toxic friend

@ELbabotas1

5 жыл бұрын

L L Pure strategic genius

@lancehosein5072

5 жыл бұрын

Fallout style?

@rapirez5757

5 жыл бұрын

montafid kasmi boi

Yeah you're absolutely right, staying friends with someone toxic out of politeness or whatever is a huge mistake, or thinking that you can get them to change their ways is a mistake too. One thing I've noticed with toxic people and or people with narcissistic tendencies is that they lack self awareness, so until they become more self aware, its extremely difficult for them to change. At least now you know how they operate though and will be more knowledgeable should you encounter someone similar in the future. Thanks for the vid :D

“This guy totally just totally whips out his-“ -Shgurr

@asielmilian38

5 жыл бұрын

What?

@CemeteryDriveClown

5 жыл бұрын

"He whipped out his Shgurr"

@kyrieespayos2580

5 жыл бұрын

What color is it

@drswag2

5 жыл бұрын

@@kyrieespayos2580 green

@remixdragon6156

5 жыл бұрын

Legends has it he still whipping it

WIsh you and Splenda could of reunited at some point, seemed like a good friendship. Imagine if that was today with the ability to stay in touch now. Really shows how tech has improved the lives of people.

@mettatheone1705

4 жыл бұрын

*boomer comment* BaCK In My dAy

@alliexcx5576

2 жыл бұрын

Yup

I grew up with a friend like this. When they came out as bi I supported and defended them from everyone else. When I started questioning my own sexuality she was the only one who didn't believe me. I haven't talked to her since she tried to tell me my own sexuality and that I was wrong, which was only a year ago. nobody but me defended her and nobody but her questioned and insulted me. there were many more instances of her being a bad friend but that one hit me the hardest.

I recently got out of a toxic friendship. Bit of context, I'm transgender male to female, and I've started to express that at school. It's been hard for me but I get through it. Now I was with this friend since the previous school year, along with a bunch of other people. I'll call this friend, Bill. So as I was expressing my gender at school with things like a trans flag on my backpack (y'know small stuff) Bill decided it would be funny to post transphobic memes in our discord server. This was only the beginning. I took offense to it and my trust with him went down. Later on we got into more frequent arguments until the final one WHERE HE LITERALLY SAID I WAS TRANSGENDER FOR ATTENTION ONLY. I am not a person who craves attention, in fact I prefer to stay in the shadows. He also complained about how I was expressing myself and how I always talked about it. First, I don't talk about it too often. I mix things up. SECOND, It's a big part of my f***ing life. After that I tried my hardest to get him out of every part of my life. I blocked him wherever he would talk to me digitally, left the friend group, and don't talk to him at school. It's much better now

@MileyQu1nn

Жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry :( I understand you I’m trans myself

@mobisugershot

7 ай бұрын

But still, you should've tried to understand why they did that, some reasons might be that they dont get as much attention as they need to be happy or they get totaly ignored because of you expressing yourself (no offense im not saying you shouldnt but im just stating some possibilities) or they might feel left out because they cant relate and that would affect your relationship, and sometimes you might be biased with the facts so you mightve talked about more trans stuff than you'd think. If you think im one of the transphobic people, im not, im a genderfluid and aroace person. sure i cant relate to coming out irl but iv experienced similar stuff with friends.

Y'all know what to do. Let's reunite Shgurr and Splenda!! 🙌

@AngelaBailey1976

5 жыл бұрын

CaseyBrinleeMusic y e a h

@anythingplays2316

5 жыл бұрын

CaseyBrinleeMusic how

@guilty6427

5 жыл бұрын

Ew not another one of those

@CaseyBrinleeMusic

5 жыл бұрын

Tomyplays 231 I have no idea. I got ahead of myself lol

@melboroblue

5 жыл бұрын

Great idea.

Jaiden: **Has an eating disorder** Shgurr: **Has depression** Toxic girl: Just get over it.

@your_omen

4 жыл бұрын

TheHunters Knot James: struggles with the meaning of life and it’s purpose (life is fun is the only reference)” Adam: was bullied

@thehuntersknot9357

4 жыл бұрын

@@ViSat6002 Ok then, consult a therapist.

@thehuntersknot9357

4 жыл бұрын

@@ViSat6002...That is sad...

@crybabysarmy2350

4 жыл бұрын

@@ViSat6002 we're here for u bro

@Hi-hg4bg

4 жыл бұрын

Jaiden: eating disorder Shugr: depression SomethingelseYT: bullies Theodd1sout: *B*

I can really relate to having a toxic friendship. I am actually going through trying to end one.

@HenrythePaleoGuy

Жыл бұрын

How are things going now?

1. I know it's way long overdue (technically speaking), but congrats for standing up to yourself at that age. I don't think elementary or middle school me would have had the guts to do this. 2. I'm legit happy to see another introvert story. Not just saying that as an introvert myself, but something about introvert stories hit home for me.

"Where do you think you're going?" Me: Going with my nontoxic friends that's where I'm going.

@spooky_kitty901

5 жыл бұрын

me: To Disneyland DUH

My friend made a rule with me. I’m not aloud to talk to her other then in class, (she’s in my round) And it made me think bad about myself and then, her crush, heard her saying mean things about me. He came up to me and told me, and said he though I was cool, we became best friends. Long story short, suck on karma ‘bestie’

@joeyjoey5393

4 жыл бұрын

This is the best karma story ever👌

@mohammadanwaribrahimi7439

4 жыл бұрын

LOL

@IndependentOreo

3 жыл бұрын

What’s a round?

@selsalot2000

3 жыл бұрын

@@IndependentOreo idk

@lillilly8453

3 жыл бұрын

Hi! Um I need help... I would ask other people but I don't want them to know and I don't even know you so it won't really affect me if I tell you all. I just want to know if my friend is toxic. So I have this friend I'll call her lilly as a fake name and I've known her ever since we were 2! We got along great! Untill. 4th grade she's a year younger than me so was in 3 grade and we always walked home together but she said she had to start driving home with her mom. And I was sad but it was ok! After maybe month of that I was walking home and I saw her walking home. I was really upset! But she was pretty far so I thought it probably wasn't her! As I was walking I saw her hide from me. I just ran inside crying after that. We eventually made up and started talking again! And everything was fine untill about 2-3 months ago! So me and lilly call and text each other all the time! But she's pretty mean to me. Whenever I say how stupid and ugly I feel she agrees! She even calls me names! And she knows I'm very sensitive to when people call me mean and she called me a bully! She also thretins me! She always hurts me! She punches me, hits me, and pushes me! She also embarrasses me! I have bruses bc of her! And if I don't agree with her she hurts me! If I talk when she doesn't want me to she hurts me! And for Halloween we were going to dress up together! We had been planning it for months! We were going to be avater characters! Than she gulted me into being an harry potter character! Than on halloween she diched me! We were going to go trick or treating and on Halloween she refused to give me any information about where she was! Untill she finished trick or treating! We eventually went trick or treating together and she made me take hand fulls from the bowls even tho I hated it! And I was talking to her about how upset I was and she laughed at me!!!! Everytime I cry she makes fun of me!😭 I don't want to be her friend anymore but she's my only friend! What should I do?????

5:15 this is exactly my first toxic friendship in one word. That was what my ex friend would always tell me when I didn't do what she told me to do. So I was like her maid. When you have your toxic friends you just don't realize the red flags and how bad they're treating you. But yeah, in life you will just find toxic people. Very good that you stood up for yourself. I didn't, she just stoped being my friend because I ignored her one day. Edit: meant "in one sentence"

@rphb5870

Жыл бұрын

ye know what is worse then being in a toxic relationship? No relationship. Even if we are being abused and humiliated it is still better then the total social isolation of having no one at all

@ie_cin

11 ай бұрын

​​@@rphb5870 this is like comparing abuse (relationship) to no abuse (no relationship), a very desperate attempt just do not let people abuse you even if it's too hard to you to find friends, not worth it

@galaxxxxxxx8974

9 ай бұрын

​​@@rphb5870 I personally don't agree all that much. I think being in a toxic relationship and having no relationship are both bad. Why would you be friends with someone who doesn't appreciate you or values you? When I was with that toxic friend, they once told me they didn't wanted to be friends with me just because I said that my parents disliked her, I instantly cried because of the fear of being alone. And yes being alone is the worst. I am feeling that right now in my new school. I still have friends who do treat me well and have things in common. It's just my personal opinion. I just think that there is no better or worse between lonelyness and being in a toxic relationship.

@rphb5870

9 ай бұрын

@@galaxxxxxxx8974 thou may be right. It is hard to understand, that is the problem, humans are hard to understand. It is better to concentrate on things that are easier to understand like work and school, and forget, not about people, but about making friends. As long as we can be inoffensive and efficient in our work, that should be enough. We would be a lot happier if we stopped chasing myths. There is no such thing, as a friend.

2nd friend: "Where do you think your going?" Ad: "I'm going in."

Lol she’s Shgurr and her friend was Splenda *I see what you did there*

@Dumbassfish63

5 жыл бұрын

*OMG YES GRAVITY FALLS* The characters names were originally, Candy and Grenda for any straight up _p e a s a n t s_ who haven't watched gravity falls

@Dumbassfish63

5 жыл бұрын

Have you watched gravity falls? Because shgurr and Splenda candy and Grenda Unless Splenda is something I've never heard about

@unenthusedseal8474

5 жыл бұрын

I was gonna like the comment but then it turned 69 and I didn't wanna ruin it

@jaysee797

5 жыл бұрын

Satria Sutena splenda is a another type of shgurr

@hiyuodin

5 жыл бұрын

@@Dumbassfish63 Shgurr is sugar, while Splenda is a sugar substitute :p

Lesson learned. Don't socialize, stay safe, watch KZread

@littletoon31

5 жыл бұрын

Not socializing gives you clinical depression, its inevitable. Study finds being lonely gives you depression no matter what.

@MichaelMonka

5 жыл бұрын

That's why you make puppets and talk to them.

@KiwiHehe.

5 жыл бұрын

I'll always have friends as long as I have my penny, potato chip and tissue.

@annaswanson5903

5 жыл бұрын

same

@yeboirickyrat3398

5 жыл бұрын

Little toon its a joke sooo R/Woosh and ye boi gonna get ya on reddit boi

I’m really happy you gat out of that. Unfortunately sometimes like in my case they move in and start bullying you. Hope none of y’all’s go through that.

thak you! all you said at the end is totally true and it really opened my eyes even more. and now I know that I am not the only one with that kind of problem

Her: If you pedal away we won’t be friends anymore Me: *ZOOOOOOOOMMMMM* (Great video loved the message)

@deleted3164

5 жыл бұрын

Ahhh~ if only it was that easy. It's more like you can try run away but the farther you run the more traped you feel. (Well for me atleast)

@brycesusong6307

5 жыл бұрын

ME

@artistahoy9103

5 жыл бұрын

Me: *Not here, sped away so fast you didn’t notice.*

@owosso460

5 жыл бұрын

That toxic friend looks at Girl Tom (If you do you idk what im talking about it's edd's world.)

@ashtr333

5 жыл бұрын

Maddymaehey Animations Hold up your not jimmy pesto from bobs burgers

Sounds like your friend is so toxic that could be classified as the Chernobyl disaster

@crooked7592

5 жыл бұрын

Oh god thats pretty toxic my guy

@Hazyphern

5 жыл бұрын

Oh shi-

@MistaFeid

4 жыл бұрын

Every coin has two sides, the toxic person is probably toxic for a reason, or sometimes they don't even realize they are being toxic.

@deletedbecauseofhate-9971

4 жыл бұрын

I want to like it, but it’s at 69 likes. :/

@zpan1741

4 жыл бұрын

*elephant foot

i actually stopped being friends with some people in high school last year. i will be fair, i started the argument we had but i also apologized and took all of the blame, they still decided that i was ' uncomfortable ' to hang out with me and went to the mall without me. i was honestly really hurt because i thought we would just forgive and forget, the night i found out was terrible and i contacted the ' lead girl ' and said that we should just stop being friends if that's how i was going to be treated. lately i've been missing one of them who i had a lot in common with, i may get back in touch with her since she was super sweet and caring and i want to see if i can have some sort of friendship with at least her.

@angrynoodletwentyfive6463

Жыл бұрын

I'm not sure what this argument was about and I really don't need to because it doesn't really matter at this point who was in the right and who was in the wrong, it happened a year ago. However there are some important things to keep in mind in order to have healthier relationships in the future 1. when you give an apology there shouldn’t really be an expectation of "forgive and forget", If something is actually worth apologizing for than the other person would be completely justified in not accepting your apology. If it is something that isn't worth apologizing for and somebody doesn't accept your apology then they are trying to string you along in guilt to control you. In either case the healthy response is to accept their decision and give them the distance they want. Even if it is painful and you have to grieve the lost connection. You may be able to try to check back in awhile later and see if they are ready to accept your apology after they have been given some space, but they still may not accept it and that is their choice. 2. Everyone is varying degrees of toxic in high school. Toxicity isn't a trait that some people are born with it is a trait that some people never grow out of. nobody in high school knows how to maintain a healthy relationship, fights and break ups are going to happen because none of you have enough experience with relationships to know how to have a mutually sustained relationship with proper boundaries and an understanding of each others faults. The thing adults don't like to tell you is that you are not going to have a completely healthy relationship with somebody your own age until AT LEAST Sophomore year of college, that does not mean you should not TRY to build friendships in high school, it just means that you should have an understanding that break ups and fights and drama are just par for the course and even though it can hurt really bad to go through it, relationships will not always be such a mine field. True friendships are waiting for you in your 20's and beyond some of them might even carry over from high school, but the toxic drama teenage years of friendships are unavoidable and you can either find a way to make the best of it or grit your teeth and keep walking until you come out on the other side.

I had a friend just likes this. It’s easy to get pushed around because you don’t want to lose that friend. They called my parents mean things. I hate them now and I replaced him with 2 other people. The feeling of having good friends is awesome and I learned to put my foot down when necessary

why does literally EVERYONE have to take the credit tho

@professionalidiot1156

3 жыл бұрын

@@evafrick395 that’s just not good

@goese868

3 жыл бұрын

ducky... Can i be honest with you... I have sinned. For i have taken credit for another persons work

@lightyogami6453

3 жыл бұрын

@@goese868 If you feel bad don’t do it again

@Just_An_NPC

3 жыл бұрын

I'm thw 666th like :v

@nohey2176

3 жыл бұрын

One time I made a really popular class joke, then the popular kids took credit and only my friends knew

Other animators: let's just call my old friend... "Jim" Sugar: SeCOnD FriEnD

i remember watching this when i was in my second year of highschool and going like "wow it sucks that this happens to people i'm so glad this sort of stuff never happened to me" and now after 3 years i come back and realize i was in just about the same situation as described here. it just shows how hard it can be tp recocnize unhealthy relationships even when the proof is laid out right in front of you

I literally got this video recommended to me 4 years ago, while in a toxic relationship. It’s scary how my experience is really similar to shgurrs. This video was the beginning of when I began to question if my relationship was toxic. Needless to say, after being best friends for almost 7 years, I finally gathered the courage and ended things with her about 3 years ago. Advice for people in relationships they may think are toxic, trust your gut, do research about what a toxic relationship is, and don’t be afraid of ending up “alone” after dropping the toxic friend. After I dropped her, I met some of the best friends I could ask for (online friends) and we’re now coming up on our 2 year anniversary of meeting each other ❤

"I was in class and this guy just totally whips out his..." ...*his meAT SCEPTER*

@asielmilian38

5 жыл бұрын

Oh boy.

@itsdanielvibing

5 жыл бұрын

@@asielmilian38 Asiel that one comment cracked me up

@asielmilian38

5 жыл бұрын

@@itsdanielvibing really?

@itsdanielvibing

5 жыл бұрын

@@asielmilian38 Yes!!!

@asielmilian38

5 жыл бұрын

@@itsdanielvibing I get it.

Splenda is a clever name. I wonder if she will have someone who's totally fake be called aspartame.

@DreadtheMadSmith

5 жыл бұрын

@@dagurr Someone who cuts calories?

@whyareyouhere365

5 жыл бұрын

@@dagurr What about the toxic friend? Did u know about her?

The art style is soo cute I love it 🥺

Awww your drawing style is so cute!

i know this is weird, but something about your voice is soothing.

@coolsceegaming6178

5 жыл бұрын

Al Baker it is calm, it’s the kind you’d hear in a recording for calming down.

@kira_calamari2431

5 жыл бұрын

I agree

@ellielevy9086

5 жыл бұрын

Omg I agreeeeeeee

@ellielevy9086

5 жыл бұрын

She should do audiobooks or asmr or something

@phantomruby6633

5 жыл бұрын

I like the animation most. The character design is noice too tho

"We had a toxic relationship" Austria-Hungary: *_hold our beer_*

@user-ww5wo8mx4u

5 жыл бұрын

KnownNiche *urge to reference hetalia intensifies*

Thank you for this. Just today I had yet another argument with my best friend, and for a long time this friendship has been breaking me. I just saw this on my recommended, and it’s exactly what I needed. (Maybe the universe is trying to help me haha) It will be hard, but i think it’s for the best if I cut ties with her. I mean, it’s exactly like you explained in the vid. A friendship doesn’t work if it doesn’t go both ways, and I feel like it’s only me putting any effort. Thank you.

Your “second friend” reminded me of my “first friend” from 6th grade. How one sided the friendship was. How they would say things about others behind their backs. Even down to the colored jacket they wore.

Shiiiii honestly, I was friend #2. In middle school, I treated the closest people to me like absolute garbage, it's embarrassing to look back. Now that I'm in college, I've reached out to each of them and apologized. I've actually become even closer to two of the girls I mistreated and we're inseparable now. Lesson: it's never too late to apologize and fix your mistakes! You will always have the choice to become a better person, so treat the people in your circle with kindness and respect--it's okay to poke fun of each other, but know the limits because if you don't, you could be straight up bullying a friend without realizing it.

@ParisHilton4L

3 жыл бұрын

Wait so your friend #2 aim this story Or another one-?

@crunchysoulzu

3 жыл бұрын

I feel you. Sometimes I realize I’ve been toxic and it hurts to look back to those days I did the same.

@highsun76

3 жыл бұрын

@@crunchysoulzu and the way I lacked self awareness and never realized the consequences of my actions and words always makes me cringe, but it also makes me more cautious of my behavior and how it effects it others

@peach1762

3 жыл бұрын

@@highsun76 I’m glad you became a better person and realized your mistakes!

@user-jw8yp4iw4s

3 жыл бұрын

Tbh I'm a Tsundere and my friend know it so they dont mind

A new CypherDen video and a new Shgurr video in the timelapse of two days... *life is still worth living*

@kimberlanaelkins6213

5 жыл бұрын

What if...CYPHER DAN IS SHGRR IN DISGUIS- Shgrr:See,I pulled a sneaky on ya

@Maggie66112

5 жыл бұрын

DON'T LIKE THIS ANYMORE!! LOOK AT LIKES AND JUST COMMENT 👍. XD

Ive been on the other side, im afraid. I was an extrovert and honestly, I may have sort of maybe totally ignored my friends sometimes when they were talking. And some of my friends kind of disappeared, which I realize now may have been a bit my fault. But now I try to pay more attention, and im getting better.

@victoriathecutie4525

Жыл бұрын

Yeah! Sometimes we're wrong too and that's okay. People mess up- but you're trying to learn and improve and that's miles more than most. Just know that just because it was you this time doesn't mean it's always your fault. You've got this.

Splenda and your 2 PE friend sound awesome, this hurt me!!! So glad you stood up for yourself.

wait a MINUTE!!!! the title is: "my FIRST toxic relationship" How many people do we have to hunt down Shgurr???

@grapesoda1373

5 жыл бұрын

Lol, this comment is underrated

@camthemann07

5 жыл бұрын

Jesus we found a frikin hitman

@ckwang3082

5 жыл бұрын

ITS SHGURR

@Sbarnett

5 жыл бұрын

@@ckwang3082 oops sorry ||-3-

@ckwang3082

5 жыл бұрын

I made that mistake five times also I'm not mad

I’ve been in a toxic friendship before. She would take control over me because she knew that I had a hard time saying no. But I knew she could actually be a good, fun person, so I became more resilient. Slowly but surely, I started teaching myself how to stand up for myself, and now we’re best friends

@taif_nas

4 жыл бұрын

I’ve had two and gotten over them

@therrondeets4583

4 жыл бұрын

•Kirumi Tojo• Good 4 u!

@ave1139

4 жыл бұрын

Same ! But i would wait a while see of its gonna stop and if it dosent i leave

@alienstar9038

4 жыл бұрын

Same...i still am :(

@ninjabunny101

4 жыл бұрын

so she’s better now?

I was in toxic friendships for a long time and it's so damaging. I am so happy that this video shows the affects of a non romantic toxic relationship because it's real and it happens to a lot of people. Sadly it gets overlooked or downplayed a lot of times because it's "just a friend" and "you can leave any time, it's not like you are dating".

I’ve learned the hard way too many times that no something is better then toxic/bad something, fill in something with friends, dnd, or anything really. If anyone cares for the reason I stayed with some many people is because I somehow sub-consciously forgive people, or at least now because I can realize when someone is toxic.

Man Even the thumbnail is questioning its own existence Edit: I shall thank u humans for 200 likes :D

@exoticpapaya7189

5 жыл бұрын

XD

@natsuki5439

5 жыл бұрын

Anson Hartzler Oof o haven’t Lemme go watch

"Why don't I just shove my shoe up your-" MOOOOOOD

@TeaPotSimulator

5 жыл бұрын

Toxic girl:up yours Shgurr: Shut THE FU-

@rowena4663

4 жыл бұрын

Me

I finally left my toxic cousins after years of me doing what they asked me to do. My faith crisis in the Mormon church was paused for a long time because of them. It took me 2 years to figure out it was fake after that. I sent my cousin a text about 10 minutes ago. I don't want to be her friend anymore. She hasn't responded yet, but I'm so excited for the future without her. I can do my own thing now without her! *Janaury 22 2024* She never leaves me alone even when I tell her. It's like she's delusional or something, and I know that she's toxic for me. A few weeks ago, I went to a dance with my brother, and we were forced to bring her, and she completely abandoned my brother when he had to go to the bathroom. I reminded her about 30 minutes after she came and hung out with me and my friends. She left about an hour and a half after we got there and my brother wanted to go home so he asked my dad if we could go home and we left 30 minutes early. I told my parents about it, and my dad blamed me and my cousin, but mostly me, because im his older sister. I told my brother i wanted to just hang out with my friends and he was fine with that and we forgot to tell my cousin our plans so that's why that happened. That's the story of my brother's first dance, and I feel horrible about it.

@queen_simp

Жыл бұрын

so.. what happened?

@Iamaperson972

Жыл бұрын

​@@queen_simp I was very close to my cousins because they only lived 90 minutes away. I started talking to my cousin. I'll call Alex. Alex and I are two years apart, and I told him doubts about the church, and he told me, "Pray about it and think about your family and friends." I did pray and barely felt anything, so I told him. And then he told me, "It wasn't the right time," and that broke me, so I pushed all of that down. Quarantine started and became friends with his sister. I'll call Danielle. The friendship with Danielle started off good, but then I asked about her family life, and she lied to me about Alex, and that made me view him as a terrible person. In October, she showed me a cartoon, and we were having fun, but 12 years old me was trying to get ungrounded, so I told my mom the truth. Danielle changed so much after that, so she became this Molly mormon, and I didn't like it, but I stayed with her. Time went by, and we began to develop different personalities and standards. She became rude so I stopped being her friend and now I'm worried for the next time I go to visit them. And yeah, that's what happened.

@queen_simp

Жыл бұрын

@@Iamaperson972 give her a punch if she was rude to you again these idiots never learn

I used to watch this channel a long time ago, glad to see the content still holds up!

I love how you draw/animate!

2nd friend: just get over your emotions Shgurr: ok Shgurr: *leaves*

@spooky_kitty901

5 жыл бұрын

😂

*No Friends Is better then Toxic friends* Who agrees with me?

@DaRealHBIC

5 жыл бұрын

Than*

toxic relationships are crazy. You go through them and once you (hopefully) leave you are stuck with these extreme emotions. Sometimes I still miss the abuse.

the beginning of the video is so relatable! like my friend talks and talks but when i try saying a word he just talks over me!

"i was in class and this guy just totally whips out his-" what?....

@Alecsmthidk

4 жыл бұрын

C;

@dragonslibrary9207

4 жыл бұрын

... His song?

@Imbigburgerman

4 жыл бұрын

Justified-Blu its phone

@ARandomMinecraftVillager

4 жыл бұрын

*unzips pants* *PULLS OUT MEATSCEPTER

@zakb0t520

4 жыл бұрын

his ukulele...

This was amazing! Subscribed

Omg I hate how are this type of people that don't apreciate someone 🥺🥺

The dislikes are from the toxic friend.

@comedyfuture

3 жыл бұрын

That would be good. But anyways , you have to NOT be toxic LMAO! 👌😭

@hushfur

3 жыл бұрын

@@comedyfuture Godzilla had a stroke trying to read this and fucking died

There's this girl in my class who shares a love for musical theatre, something my other friends didn't. I had a good circle of friends and she was sort of an outcast, so I decided I wanted to be her friend. She has diabetes, so she needs to take ten minutes out of her lunch time to go to the nurses office to have a jab that puts her sugar levels at a low enough level to eat food. I said I'd wait for her one lunchtime and i had to wait. Then she told me she usually sat on the other side of the school to pe, which was always after lunch so my whole class was there. I thought it was fine because it was a one off. At least I thought, but she started making me sit with her everyday, even when I said I had plans with other friends. One day my closest friend told me she got excluded from a group of older friends so I rushed to comfort her one lunchtime without telling my other "friend". When we made our way to our next lesson she got mad at me saying I'm a terrible friend for not caring about her. Once my friends got in an argument and were asking me to choose sides, and i told my "friend" about it and she said "just stick with me then! Forget them". I decided to talk to the arguing friends myself and we all worked something out. Now I don't know what to do when we go back to school. She has other friends yet she's so possessive over me and doesn't let me spend my break with other people. She had to get tested for different medication so she spent the week in London and i noticed I was happier and more productive. When she got back she asked me what I possibly did in my lunch break as if I couldn't do anything without her. She said once "oh I'm so happy someone is there to sit with me every lunchtime!", which makes me feel bad about wanting to ditch her because she acts like she needs me because no one else waits a quarter of their lunch for her. I feel like people will judge me because she has diabetes and she "just wants friends" but she is a really toxic friend. I dunno

@baja-blast-lover

4 жыл бұрын

(Trigger Warning) I had someone like that in my life. They were really possessive over me and never let me hangout with my other friends. When I tried to hangout with someone else she would say its my fault that she's depressed or she might as well kill herself. Even though I tried talking to her about it and she said she would change, but never did. After one year of it only getting worse, I decided it would be best for me and her (hopefully she will learn something from me leaving) to cut all ties. I would say my advice to you is to stop talking to her slowly or fast. I feel as if fast is the best way to get your point across and it will only get worse as time progresses.

@makiroon

3 жыл бұрын

Ditch her she doesn't belong to you, you weren't made to be her lunch buddy!

@rose1527

3 жыл бұрын

I’d tell her that you don’t like how possessive she’s being, and tell her your gonna sit with your other friends sometimes too,and give her a chance to stop being so possessive. However, if she doesn’t stop, then just end your friendship, tbh. A true friend would stop doing something that made you feel bad, and if she’s not gonna show you the loyalty you show her, than she doesn’t really deserve your friendship. I know you don’t want her to feel bad, but your not responsible for her happiness. There’s a difference between putting yourself first, and being selfish. I’ve been through a very similar situation, and I know it’s hard, but its either be miserable, for her sake, or be happy for your sake. Btw, Jaiden animations made a good video on this, it’s called relationships

@lost_idiot3059

3 жыл бұрын

Your friends shouldn't make you chose sides, but in this case they were right

@Acissleepy

3 жыл бұрын

She was an outcast because of that

I love how your animation style actually looks FlipaClip doable and it gives me confidence✨

I’m so sorry you went through that just remember to keep your head up and don’t listen to anyone else who try’s to put you down I swear everyone in America just has this ego like “what’s in it for me?” What I think you should do is just be like “ok I guess you don’t want a real friend.” Then they’ll question there personality issues like “why don’t I look for an actual friend?” Idk though.

Just like jaiden said. YOU ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR ANYONES HAPPINESS Guys..thank for the likes love you all.

@alpha_gem

5 жыл бұрын

THATS TOXIC AS SHIIIIIIIIIIIIII

@combatmedic3318

5 жыл бұрын

snowy albert EXACTLY

@toast2139

5 жыл бұрын

Amen

“Where do you think you’re going” is just as annoying as “Excuuuuussse me Princess”

I'm not the only one that liked this part 5:41 right? it looks basic and cute

@Gravel_TheCart

Жыл бұрын

The little squares make me so happy loll

Hope you're doing well!