51:50 I agree!! Men need to be shamed for abusing When I was in an abusive relationship, I left. I sought divorce and didn't look back I didn't have family members to help me out so I had to have the courage to leave It's the fear of change that holds you back. As far as I'm aware when you're being abused and the man is not providing you can seek khula and leave. You do not need to stay in a relationship where you are being harmed because Allah says He has FORBIDDEN oppression upon on and also said "Save YOURSELF and then your family" Also you need to heal the belief that you're unlovable. Usually we attract abusive men trying to subconsciously heal our fathers. But you can heal and find a good man

@amirastormUk

6 күн бұрын

wow thank you so much for sharing!! I completely agree with the fear of change that could potentially a factor. it is a huge loss a woman looses so much. but the positive is she can equally gain so much more

@unknownasmrqueen2138

3 күн бұрын

And u rosalean Batool should stop sexualising the niqab and talk about orgasm and sex openly and sex positions . There is no point covering the face when u have No shame or lie about islam .

Awwwww you did great hosting this. Always enjoy your content on the bitter truth, so it is great your doing your own podcast now. A lot of podcast tend to over look ensuring all their guest have same amount of time to contribute so it was nice to see you giving both guest equal time to contribute. Wishing you many blessings for this podcast and may the context you produce continue to educate and be engaging.

When we look at the ayah of marriage Allah says "men are the protectors and providers of women and women obey your husband" So when we look at the verse, Allah is saying if a husband wants obedience he needs to provide for her and protect her Just like Amira said some men want the soft life but expect obedience, but Allah said he can only expect obedience if he is doing his job And also that ayah shows that the men that should be getting married, should be responsible. Marriage is NOT a solution to your traumas or your bad habits (which is why a lot of men are getting married for a maid, mother etc) 46:20

Mabrouk 7abbiba ♡♡♡ Im happily surprised about your new podcast, you were one of my faves on bitter truth show. Im your proud 374th subscriber, May this be a successful and beneficial podcast filled with barakah and blessings❤❤❤ Allahuma Ameen

@amirastormUk

3 күн бұрын

Ameen ya rabbi 3alameen and thank you for your support and dua’s the best gift anyone can give I am so greatful

This podcast is therapeutic! Allahumma barik ❤

I thought I was seeing things! Alhamdullilah so happy for you, couldn’t have subscribed fast enough

Very good discussion. May Allah bless you all. Amin

Sister Amira I have been waiting for this channel. MashAlah finally we can hear you speak without interruption 🎉

@amirastormUk

6 күн бұрын

awwwww welcome to the family! I am so greatful for your support

After moving to West Africa I learned the west has marriage all messed up Here marriage is meant to strengthen families and society. Its normal for men to be away and women working together, to build communities It's not perfect here but, the women here have so much wisdom and feminity. The society is calm, and slow paced which I feel like why marriages are failing in the west Another thing I've noticed is Muslim men are shaming women into getting married, because they have unhealed traumas with their mothers and fathers They're expecting their wife to be their mother or replace that motherly role From my experience of being in an unhealthy, unhealed marriage to now being married to a great guy The big thing I've noticed is the men who speak good about their parents and actually fear Allah and LOVE SERVING are the good men (you can see through their character by how they treat people, their family) etc Also, Allah says good men are For good women, meaning if you want to be with a good man, you need to be that good woman Whatever you want in a man, make sure you are that yourself Inner work is super important. Make sure you've healed your traumas and when you see a red flag, run. A lot of men nowadays are not being initiated into manhood. Where I live, then men go through an iniation at the age if 10 where they hunt and learn how to provide for their man

I only watched the bitter truth show because of you. So happy that you start your own podcast now!!Allahumma barik, Congrats on the launch sister keep it up! Much love❤️

@amirastormUk

6 күн бұрын

jazakAllah sis I really appreciate you ❤

🥳🥳 Mabrookah! May Allah grant you to be a role model for the ummah and successful always

@amirastormUk

7 күн бұрын

Ameen 🥹🙏🏾

@fammemadam2237

4 күн бұрын

I see that you are wearing Islamic cloths. You can't see your body shapes. I just want to say that you should make sure that you also wear hijab in the correct Islamic way. I see your hair isn't completely covered. I see your hair in the front. Don't assume that I am claiming to be perfect. We are all sinners. I am just reminding you, because Allah says, "And remind for indeed, the reminder benefits the believers" (Quran 51:55) May Allah guide us to the straight path and Islam. Amien

Proud of you my beautiful sister 🎉 love the content. Can’t wait for the next one ❤

@amirastormUk

5 күн бұрын

Thank you so much 🤗

The sister in the maroon hijab is spot on . Dont expect a super rich guy . How rich is ur dad? Yeah if ur used 2 a luxury lifestyle then fair enough if ur dad is a working man then u cant expect someone super rich . Earn ur own money

Yaayy!! ❤🎉 Congrats on the launch!

@amirastormUk

6 күн бұрын

thank youuu ❤❤❤

This was super interesting! And easy to watch !

You have the name of a spy novel main character. ❤

Best one so far❤

@amirastormUk

6 күн бұрын

What a compliment 💕

Amazing, finally For the future: A simple thumbnail+ short intro

@amirastormUk

7 күн бұрын

Inshallah hahah im new here 🥹😂🤍

@fawziapersonal

7 күн бұрын

@@amirastormUk you're doing very well, keep it up 💯

there’s definitely not enough people/brothers speaking about the topic you sisters spoke about something the sister said really hit me, nothing you do or say makes you deserve abuse or humiliation may Allāh reward you all and bless you, thank you 🤍

FINALLY!!!!

I liked you on Ali’s podcast. Subbed.

New subscriber Mashallah keep going sister big fan here.❤😊

yayyyy🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

new subscriber!!!!! amiraaaaa ❤️🥰

Salam Sisters One of the last points the sister suggested to go to the Imam to resolve it what if the imam is the perpetrator of it too.In my locality theres not 1 but 2 of them if not more i do not know of leading rhe community rather hypocritically and its all buried under the carpet because it's a 'personal,private issue' according to the committee.!!?

Ooh, I'm early!

@amirastormUk

7 күн бұрын

Please like and share and enjoy 🩵

Sister why you say mile end, nothing wrong with living in mile end

Please speak into the mike next time the volume is so low

@amirastormUk

6 күн бұрын

ahhh is the volume low!!! definitely will take this on board inshallah

Should you be going public with your personal life like that ? And is it right, the person concerned does not get a chance to tell their side of the story. Please, try to be a strong person from refraining from publicising your life like that. If someone is being criminal and breaking the law, report them to the police. We shouldn't constantly be seeking people attention to sooth us. That's not how healing works.

The wait is over finally! 🥳🩷

@amirastormUk

7 күн бұрын

Yes the wait is over!