I broke the cycle. It didn't hit me hard until I had children. I was beaten every other day growing up for over 10 years, often with metal poles and belt buckles. It got to the stage where I did what I wanted because I was going to get hit anyway. I have never hit my children. Broke the cycle. Even after 20 years of self-healing I'm still sometimes emotional dysfunctional, even I fully understand why, addicted to guilt and shame. I have learned that self-healing and self-care is on going. We are a product of our environment and our personalities are largely a mental construct. I believe people who hit their children cannot manage their emotions, it has nothing to do with discipline.

@rileydavidjesus

6 ай бұрын

Right there with you brother.

@curiousmind6472

6 ай бұрын

♥️

@christinesmith3092

6 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry that happened to you, you are amazing ❤

@Lawrence-tw6yc

6 ай бұрын

@christinesmith3092 Thank you and God bless you. I'm doing fantastic these days, I recently stopped some long-term addictions I was using to escape my emotional pain. Just one left which rears its head occasionally. I've met an amazing woman who helped and inspired/ motivated me to do so. My kids are doing great so I feel blessed. Hope you are doing great also.

@Humble_Bee.

6 ай бұрын

This is so true and well said. Thank you so much for sharing your story and strength. Keep it going! You're a gem of a human. 💎

I'm half way through the book, it has literally broke me open. No form of learning, journalling, meditating, therapy, hypnosis etc has had as big an impact on my life than this book. That I'm only half way through. This is exactly what I needed at this moment in my life ❤

I was watching a video about my dream car . Mercedes e55. I saw this and immediately clicked , and I am the 55th person to like this video. and it's 5:05 am. super crazy signs man. love the content watching now

I can't put my finger on what resonates the most from this, because, there is so much juice in this interview I can barely drink it all. Point after point after point...this interview hit me to my core. I'll be watching this again for sure. I empower and teach people who coach young athletes how to make the biggest impact possible on their young lives...this information will free them to be the best coach they can be - regardless of their technical ability or coaching acumen. THANK YOU!

Brother, you are such a beautiful soul! You make everyone that comes onto your podcast feel like they are the most special being in the world! Appreciate you and your work endlessly! Thank you so much for another profound interview 💛💫🙏

Thanks guys! Shared with my mom, grand parents, siblings, my children. We are healing and evolving together. The power of knowing is the true separater between those who "have" and those who "have not". Life is incredible and I am grateful to be open to learning to think differently than my previous 40+ yrs. Everything is coming together and unfolding in amazing ways. I am a 4.0 version of myself.

Excellent. I needed this. My brother and I had a difficult childhood. My brother passed away due to alcohol problems. I am ok but have a lot of issues and anxiety and silly addictions like sugar. Anyway these type of videos can really help some of us to understand ourselves and be aware. Thank you so much.

Great message about taking responsibility for how things land. (A key that you aren’t taking responsibility is if you’re easily offended, lack curiosity and just want everyone else to change.)

Ed you and your show are such an important platform for people, thank you and your team, and God Bless you all! Also, I love Gary John Bishop, so excited to see what you two bring to us!

I do self reflexion frequently and blame myself all the time. When I was a child, my mother was always working. I'm a workaholic, too😢 im going to need to watch this episode a few times and write down all his amazing teachings.

So GOOD especially the integrity part !!!! 👏

His first two books changed everything for me. I can't wait to dive into the new one.🙏🏽

This episode couldn’t have come at a better time. Thanks so much for this. Ed is so right about getting caught up in the day to day tasks as a parent. Makes it so important to sit down with your kids and just talk to them about life.

@EdMylettShow

6 ай бұрын

I’m glad this resonated with you! Thank you for watching🙏🏽

The most profound interview to date! He does an amazing..breathtaking even, job of explaining the foundation of digging into the deep parts of your soul for reflection. Shadow work. I will listen to this several times! Thank you!! Most excellent!❤

Read this book a couple years ago - he's a solid dude, with a great style in getting his points and concepts across! Hope it stuck with ya Eddy, it's a good one!

🙋Ed this is Brilliant👍. It's packed full of goodness.Thank you for sharing. My Condolences.😢 Prayers of comfort for her family🙏 That is just too young to leave this world. God Bless you. Happy Holidays. Max Out Ya'll.

Thank you ,thank you,thank you!

Keep doing these interviews! You add so much value into peoples lifes. Thank you❤

So amazing! Will listen again and again! Definitely getting the book!

Another beautiful episode!! Thank you both so much!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾

WOW!!! Blame is the crack of emotions. makes sense.

My childhood is make me more strong personal for my life thank you Ed.

This is so crazy, I’m always blaming myself! This IS SUCH a powerful interview!

@findyourfreedomwitharlener4950

6 ай бұрын

Definitely need to work on my personal integrity 😢

Thank you for this message!

Fantastic show!

The stuff in this video is very profound. It should be watched a few times to digest it. Thanks for always putting out great content!

This man just dropped Blame bombs. Wow I knew I was holding onto past blame but this really opened my eyes. Thanks!

I love this!! It spoke to my spirit!! Let's get it done!!!

0:00: 🔑 Our adult lives are influenced by our childhood experiences and the generational chain we are a part of. 4:40: 🔍 The speaker reflects on a childhood memory and the significance of remembering certain moments. 9:26: 🔑 The speaker emphasizes the importance of examining one's childhood and family history to understand oneself and others. 13:56: 📚 The video discusses how two parents can have different meanings attached to the same situations they were raised in, leading to different outcomes for their children. 19:04: 📝 The speaker reflects on the struggle of writing and producing something beyond their own experiences. 23:42: 🔥 Blaming others perpetuates the past and keeps us tied to what has been. 28:30: 💡 We become addicted to emotions, even if they are unhealthy, because they are familiar and a part of our identity. 32:47: 💡 The importance of self-reflection and conscious living in understanding patterns and beliefs. 37:27: 💡 Life comes in three waves that change and shape us, starting with self-awareness in childhood. 42:06: 💡 One of the most insidious forms of child neglect is a child being raised by a parent who is not pursuing their own potential or dreams. 46:23: 👥 Integrity is about teaching yourself to honor your word and follow through, even when you don't feel like it, and demonstrating this to your children. 51:31: 💔 Life is uncertain and our false notion that we can control everything is the greatest lie. 56:29: 🗣️ Language and conversations play a crucial role in societal development and change. Thanks Ed & blessing to everyone 🫶🏽

@akayk1928

6 ай бұрын

Thanks Man !

@EdMylettShow

6 ай бұрын

🙌🏽💯

😭😭😭😭😭😭 MINDBLOWING 😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨 👩‍👦 really needed this as a single mom

One of the most powerful episodes I have experienced ❤ one day Ed Mylett I will be sitting across from you

Thank you!

Thank you Ed Mylett, you have been a blessing by just sharing your wisdom, and having others on your show. 💕 You have helped me in ways only God know.

Keep grinding ed, you really are affecting peoples lives. A pat on the back all the way from Liverpool (England) 💙 🤜💥🤛

A childhood event popped up while watching this video. I believe this has to do with my fear of rejection because I got ostracised by multiple social groups as a kid. Never really thought much until now, why that memory is the earliest I have. And is it part of self sabotage. Thanks Ed. Will return to this again

What a great conversation to listen to prior to the start of my work day, thanks! I'm now ready to maxter my day 💪#maxout

Thanks for this amazing show! I've shared it with 6 people. I've ordered the books. As a parent of grown children, it resonated so strongly with me. It's never too late to be a better parent or better human. Ed Mylett--you are the BOMB! Love your shows so much!

Hi, it’s LADY JAY again I wanted to add to my last comment about a book I had read that never left my mind it’s called “IMAGINARY CRIMES”… It really is the anatomy of guilt and one of the things they describe is the “UNSUCCESSFUL REBEL”… is the REBEL child who lives out His parents, dire predictions anyway… I really thought my rebellion was working until I read that book Peace…‘Lady J’😎

Ed this is some of the best content on the planet. It's changing my world and improving my relationships. God Bless 🙏.

Thank you 🙏🏼 for both of your dedication in adding value to us all! This was a fantastic listening 🙌

Ed has done it again!

Wow, thank you Edd for this amazing work, eye opener to the extreme. I can't thank you enough ❤. Bless you

2 of my faves on one episode ! This was much needed !

We don't have to necessarily relate , but know whats right

Powerful. Thank you Ed.

As Ed said, this is a fantastic episode. I’m sharing and saving to listen again. Thank you!

Excellent. So many inspiring insights- thank you guys.

I love this topic it is relevant for me now

ABSOLUTELY AMAZING!!!!

This is amazing! Thank you so much for the wisdom, both! 🤩

Mind blown👏🙏

Powerful topic! Thank you.

@EdMylettShow

6 ай бұрын

Thank you for watching!🙏🏽

Living in unpredictable. And yes way better life 🤗

I am listening to what is being said on this program and it is good and sensitive parts, but I also like how the get out of hell free card was mentioned.

Thanks Ed. WOW

@EdMylettShow

6 ай бұрын

Thank you for your support!🙏🏽

❤OMG❤

Amaizing, thanks for sharing value

@EdMylettShow

6 ай бұрын

Happy to put this out there for you!🙌🏽💯

So excited to watch this! Unfuck yourself is one of my favorite books of all time

Great conversation!! He is a great Author

@EdMylettShow

6 ай бұрын

🙏🏽💯

Goodmorning ❤ Ed!

Change the way you look at things, and the things you look at will change

@EdMylettShow

6 ай бұрын

Absolutely true!💯

its is amazing ed but i would watch it at night cause right now i am studying .. cause i am from india timezone lol

Growing up in Scotland, i could barely understand some of the people around me - thats why you need subtitles here or have to listen very carefully 😅

❤

Jesus came into the world to change it for the better. Jesus, Jesus, Jesus! Breaks every chain!! We need the Lord to help us see what is truly going on in Israel right now and what is going on in America right now. One nation under God provides the truth that we need to uphold to keep us free! We were designed to be a light( leader) for other counties to follow. Jesus came to set us free! There is power in unity. I realize this program is about breaking free on a personal level however right now we are too self focused and need to be more Jesus focused for the Ultimate Win! The Rapture is going to happen and then the tribulation will begin. By Gods grace I hope to make the rapture team out of here. The tribulation is going to be hell on earth and no one needs to stay here. Accept the truth of Jesus Christ and move forward into eternity with Christ! Jesus is the way, the truth and the Life! 🦋🦋🦋 Ed you have the platform to reach the listener for Christ now! 🙏🙏🙏 J

Hi Ed, I just want to add interject that I am one of those people who likes to muse over one word for a long time till I get to the bottom of it and the word BLA ME is directly connected to addiction all addict blame I’ve noticed alcoholics blame junkies, blame everybody who is addicted to the substance blames and the other part that you just mentioned about being addicted to blame. I truly understand the addiction to an emotion because of the chemicals it sets off I used to yell a lot, and when I stopped i missed it like a motherfucker because that was my juice anyway thought I’d just add to that Peace…’Lady J’😎

1 Million subscribers soon for Ed , thanks brother #Maxout !

@EdMylettShow

6 ай бұрын

🙏🏽

Sorry Ed for the loss of your friend

I often get the impression I am hearing Ed's personal counseling sessions in these interviews

Ed Mylett ..............GREAT BLOKE 🙂

I call those moments "forever memories"

43:00 🤯

Study ; Bruce Lipton and Ken Honda and Patrick Bet David please thanks.😊

Banana's guys even being in your 50's habits repeating thoughts and actions can become very difficult yet they are automatic. To stop drop and roll when in a slowly boiling pot of water, well it's crazy how this muscle sitting a top my shoulders. Seems to enjoy the pain and suffering? Or is it just seemingly easier to stay in hell in earth? Fact, I had two different father figures and two mother figures. Two younger brothers that have thrived in life from one side. A brother and sister from the other. In which again my younger brother is ready to retire while I look at working the rest of my life. It does sound like it should be quite simple to want and work on change. Change ? Yes, Ed - familiar- chemicals produced by this very same muscle. Damn!

This is a fantastic episode! Wish there was a ❤button to click!

@EdMylettShow

6 ай бұрын

I appreciate your support brother! 🙏🏽

I think I would listen to my consciousness more if it had his accent, lol. 😂

Brother, I love your contributions. But ads every 2.5 minutes during an hour long cast? Hard to get through. Falls under "be careful what you wish for". 🙏👍❤️

Ed, this isn’t that new. This is exactly what Dr. Glover talks about in no more Mr. nice guy is the exact same thing just worded different.

Why do many addddsssss?????? Had to turn it off, as I’m cleaning up the house and stopping what I’m doing every 3-5 mins for an ad is NOT OK 😅

@porterhouselivin2486

6 ай бұрын

You're going to get those ads if you don't pay for KZread or Google subscription

good grief this guy is hard to understand.That accent is so thick.