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Stop the Secrets that Hurt - Sexual Abuse is Confusing

Telling a trusted adult or disclosing abuse can help make it stop and start the healing.

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  • @Ohne_Silikone
    @Ohne_Silikone2 жыл бұрын

    They should emphasise more that there can be a sexual arousal component to the abuse as well. The abuse might turn you on, because this is the only way your body knows how to deal with it. This doesn't mean you wanted the abuse to happen and even if you wanted some of the sexual attention, it still is abusive. This part of the abuse might be one of the most confusing and difficult aspects to deal with. If the abuse starts early enough, you might become a highly sexualised person before you even know what the meaning of sexuality is. Therefore this aspect of abuse can never be your fault.

  • @stars9356

    @stars9356

    2 жыл бұрын

    This is exactly what happened to me

  • @djvn229

    @djvn229

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you.

  • @user-lq9es6wm9s

    @user-lq9es6wm9s

    Жыл бұрын

    This was the most shameful part of my abuse for me. Ugh.

  • @TheSouthIsHot

    @TheSouthIsHot

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for talking about this. It's natural for our bodies to feel "aroused" even when the touching is inappropriate and wrong. That "aroused" feeling is a biological response. It doesn't mean that the victim is at fault for "enjoying it" or that the victim actually wants to be inappropriately touched. Grooming, touching, and arousing are all part of the perps plan to "mess with your head". The perp knows that what they are doing could cause their victim to feel aroused and that it's psychologically damaging. They hope that is what keeps you quiet.

  • @Islamphobe

    @Islamphobe

    Жыл бұрын

    Best way to explain it is that the body and mind are separated. We love are bodies and can’t do anything without them but they also do certain things we don’t like. Nobody can control there body’s biological desire to reproduce but we are still aware enough to mentally separate abuse and healthy relationships.

  • @usualtoaster2688
    @usualtoaster26882 жыл бұрын

    thank you for teaching about victim blaming and how it's wrong.

  • @sprite8344

    @sprite8344

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for learning and understanding the causes of sexual abuse bot

  • @usualtoaster2688

    @usualtoaster2688

    2 жыл бұрын

    @sprite not a bot but thank you

  • @_sleepylass_

    @_sleepylass_

    Жыл бұрын

    @slutgirlreborn1155 u mean sexual abuse is right now??

  • @0mghannah977

    @0mghannah977

    Жыл бұрын

    @Slut Girl Reborn would you like if someone touched you in a way you didn’t like? Hmm? Ok, that’s what I thought.

  • @klarceta1744

    @klarceta1744

    Жыл бұрын

    @slutgirlreborn1155 it's wrong, would you blame a child for being sexually abused, oh also groomed?

  • @Anonymous-ql9yd
    @Anonymous-ql9yd Жыл бұрын

    "You need to tell a trusted adult." That's the problem.

  • @snail8755

    @snail8755

    Жыл бұрын

    because there are no trusted adults anymore

  • @amask99

    @amask99

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm pretty sure there are good adults. I hope you manage to find them. Or just call the CPS/ police

  • @snail8755

    @snail8755

    Жыл бұрын

    @@amask99 I can't report it though

  • @helloimliving8878

    @helloimliving8878

    Жыл бұрын

    @@snail8755 Please try to get help abaout it, somebody will help, if not an adult then a friend or the counselor. I am very sorry whats happening/happened to you

  • @snail8755

    @snail8755

    Жыл бұрын

    @@helloimliving8878 I don't have proof

  • @margiemaggie99
    @margiemaggie99 Жыл бұрын

    There is no foolproof way to protect children from sexual abuse, but there are steps you can take to reduce this risk. If something happens to your child, remember that the perpetrator is to blame-not you and especially not the child.

  • @YellowDragon8105

    @YellowDragon8105

    10 ай бұрын

    I must agree, I'm Brazilian and I heard a case on TV where a girl of just 9 years old was abused by her stepfather, unfortunately when she went to tell her mother about the abuse, the mother didn't believe it and even reprimanded the child for making up stories, situation really sad look 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @davidarvingumazon5024

    @davidarvingumazon5024

    7 ай бұрын

    Meanwhile, Blue Bird weaponized it. (Reference: Dream allegations)

  • @vilolll
    @vilolll3 жыл бұрын

    How to confuse a sexual abuser: “No no don’t touch me there this is my no no square, That’s what I told YOU!, but YOU didn’t seem to care it’s my secret little spot and I don’t wanna share, no no don’t touch me there.

  • @redacted5092

    @redacted5092

    3 жыл бұрын

    So basically, rap battle

  • @cnegron55

    @cnegron55

    3 жыл бұрын

    just me i don’t think so but I can imagine her voice saying that 😂

  • @vilolll

    @vilolll

    3 жыл бұрын

    just me no from the boys but hers is the best ngl

  • @animejournalz733

    @animejournalz733

    3 жыл бұрын

    Uhm this is an important subject-

  • @kaityshark

    @kaityshark

    3 жыл бұрын

    •Kuro• this is my 2nd time seeing one of your comments hi

  • @gmg9010
    @gmg90103 жыл бұрын

    To bad this channel wasn’t around when I was a kid cause boy I’ve been through some shit

  • @lieutenantgremlin8787

    @lieutenantgremlin8787

    3 жыл бұрын

    Oh I'm sorry..

  • @takeapunch1914

    @takeapunch1914

    3 жыл бұрын

    HOWS TOUCHING THE CHILD

  • @gmg9010

    @gmg9010

    3 жыл бұрын

    TAKEaPUNCH huh

  • @gmg9010

    @gmg9010

    3 жыл бұрын

    Krystal Jenzy yeah don’t we all

  • @takeapunch1914

    @takeapunch1914

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@gmg9010 watch srpelo underpants you'll get the reference

  • @neglelakk4life165
    @neglelakk4life1652 жыл бұрын

    I dont understand how adults can doubt a child that tells he/she has been abused i mean, why would a child lie about that? well i bet that happens sometimes but most of the time they are telling the truth.

  • @lunadark6666

    @lunadark6666

    2 жыл бұрын

    Exactly and even if it is a lie it is still a major red flag because why would a kid know about abuse (since most of us never see videos like this or ever get talked to about anything sexual) and why would they feel the need to say something about a person that is so serve in the first place

  • @Meela9088

    @Meela9088

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah like adults sometimes lie about it, but kids wouldn’t lie about abuse

  • @demcatzlol

    @demcatzlol

    4 ай бұрын

    This is one year old but sometimes kids lie out of fear of being judged, thinking that it’s their fault and afraid to be blamed, growing up in a (usually religious) family where things like this would be blamed on the kid, etc.

  • @littlesparkkitten

    @littlesparkkitten

    3 ай бұрын

    I think a lot of adults are so desperate to believe their child is safe and isn’t hurt that they ignore it because it’s painful to think about. And that’s an understandable instinct, as long as you don’t follow it. It might hurt to think about your child being hurt, but it’s hurting them way worse. That really the problem to me - not the instinct to doubt or diminish it, but acting on that instinct. Even if your child had lied about something similar before, you STILL need to believe them, because the reality of the boy who cried wolf is that the effort checking for wolves will take, even if there might not be any, isn’t worth the risk of what would happen if there is a wolf. Plus a child lying about SA specifically had to have learned that concept from somewhere and if you don’t know where, then someone has hurt or is hurting that child even if it isn’t who they say it is. That’s the only time I think kids are inclined to “lie” about it - as a dry run to practice telling what’s actually happening/to see what the process will be like/to see if they will be believed.

  • @castlenovelist97BOOKS
    @castlenovelist97BOOKS Жыл бұрын

    The person who sexually abused me was almost arrested for it in 2017. The police knocked on their front door and gave them a warning and a slip of paper. But they were almost taken under custody.

  • @Crows256
    @Crows2564 жыл бұрын

    I really love this channel and the animations because it does a really good at teaching about sexual abuse sexual abuse NEEDS TO STOP!!!!

  • @blueregardinkwood4875
    @blueregardinkwood48755 жыл бұрын

    Ah yes my favorite game console... *the bs4*

  • @Sav-lt2xc

    @Sav-lt2xc

    4 жыл бұрын

    The graphics are good ngl

  • @Unlexian

    @Unlexian

    4 жыл бұрын

    The 🅱️S4

  • @Vectorlarity

    @Vectorlarity

    4 жыл бұрын

    The BeeSwarm4

  • @yuishi3714

    @yuishi3714

    4 жыл бұрын

    Omg 😂😂😂

  • @zmainly

    @zmainly

    4 жыл бұрын

    BULLSHIT 4

  • @felixquinones309
    @felixquinones3094 жыл бұрын

    Just say "Stop don't touch me there!,this is my no-no square!" Also did anyone know about the bs4?

  • @zeghetti595

    @zeghetti595

    4 жыл бұрын

    • A x l e R b l x • StOP DOnT tOUcH ME tHERe THIs Is mY nONO squaRE

  • @clearballoonartist9051

    @clearballoonartist9051

    4 жыл бұрын

    I didn't watch sex video I'm checking this

  • @franziska7232

    @franziska7232

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂

  • @evey8178

    @evey8178

    3 жыл бұрын

    WHOOOOOOS HERE FOR THE CHAOS?!?!?!??!?

  • @user-ci7ll3ir8f

    @user-ci7ll3ir8f

    3 жыл бұрын

    • A x l e R b l x • ...

  • @paulemboy6066
    @paulemboy60664 жыл бұрын

    My classmate did this to me when my grade is sophomore I'm a bit and he touched my private body parts and even my butt. I was so nervous and felt disgusted all the time so I'm scared and never forget about it.

  • @bamaboo8398

    @bamaboo8398

    3 жыл бұрын

    Did you talk to someone about it ? And are you safe now ? Hope you're fine !💪

  • @graced471

    @graced471

    3 жыл бұрын

    You’re so strong. It was not your fault, that person is a bad person.

  • @pussy_pop16

    @pussy_pop16

    3 жыл бұрын

    please tell your parents or someone u trust, its never okay for anyone to do this to u. ♡︎

  • @kimberlygomez130

    @kimberlygomez130

    3 жыл бұрын

    Remember to try and set boundaries with people:( im so sorry you had to experience that.

  • @fviryjoy

    @fviryjoy

    3 жыл бұрын

    Just slap his fucking idiotic face :) I did that too ^^👊🙂

  • @itsbritneybitch8426
    @itsbritneybitch84264 жыл бұрын

    When ur schools sends you this: 👁👄👁✌️

  • @sugunadevi6232

    @sugunadevi6232

    4 жыл бұрын

    Tel me

  • @coyote689

    @coyote689

    3 жыл бұрын

    Why would ur school send you that XD

  • @amochikaay

    @amochikaay

    3 жыл бұрын

    CoyoteHOOHOO :3, Uhhh because this is an actual problem in society children need to learn

  • @kimberlygomez130

    @kimberlygomez130

    3 жыл бұрын

    😭😭that's really nice of the school tho

  • @ak9486

    @ak9486

    3 жыл бұрын

    👁👄👁✌️

  • @patriciacruz9161
    @patriciacruz91615 жыл бұрын

    That hapennd...to me....im a girl...I havent tell my mom im scared...

  • @Adriana-cw1rb

    @Adriana-cw1rb

    5 жыл бұрын

    Please tell her. I've been sexually abused by my dad 10 years ago. Today was the day i finally spoke to a psychologist about it. I feel relief. It's not my secret anymore. I trying to heal from it now since my mental health changed drastically for the worse in those 10 years i kept it to myself. My mom still doesn't know, but if i could turn back time i would have told her immedialety if i had the knowledge back then what i have now. I could have prevented so much pain and my dad would have been punished for it. Im 22 now so it's a lot harder to have him punished for somehing that happenend when i was just a child.

  • @assamesenaturalbeautyandhe2854

    @assamesenaturalbeautyandhe2854

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Adriana-cw1rb oh feel sorry for you..but Happiest things you recover it and you started a new life ..and now don't tell your mom ..its effect your mental pressure and try to to be happy..God Bless You

  • @ididntgetthejoke5697

    @ididntgetthejoke5697

    4 жыл бұрын

    tell mom: ❌ Tell billions of random people: ✔️

  • @bruceleejkd5055

    @bruceleejkd5055

    4 жыл бұрын

    you should say that 😡

  • @69replieslol

    @69replieslol

    4 жыл бұрын

    But know told us so why?

  • @youreditmaker5865
    @youreditmaker58654 жыл бұрын

    My uncle: come sit on my lap so you can drive Me: i didn't ask and there's a cop right there !!!

  • @humancentipede.

    @humancentipede.

    4 жыл бұрын

    Oh god---

  • @lieutenantgremlin8787

    @lieutenantgremlin8787

    3 жыл бұрын

    My dad did this but not in a sexual way I dont think i was 5...

  • @lieutenantgremlin8787

    @lieutenantgremlin8787

    3 жыл бұрын

    But i steered! And I always sat in his lap i loved my dad he was supposed to be my grandpa but my dad died so I called him dad if any of you are confused

  • @melonnationxp

    @melonnationxp

    3 жыл бұрын

    it's just a game -_-

  • @questionnairekitty8417

    @questionnairekitty8417

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'd just say fuck off and run out the car-

  • @millymaker7836
    @millymaker78362 жыл бұрын

    “Abuse is never your fault” Abusers: good to know!

  • @_sleepylass_

    @_sleepylass_

    Жыл бұрын

    "Abuse is never the victim's fault"

  • @MikaelaTufts

    @MikaelaTufts

    5 ай бұрын

    I shouldn’t have laughed a bit-🥲😭

  • @beckys.8897

    @beckys.8897

    Ай бұрын

    Why are they called buildings? If they’re already built why is bacon called bacon and cookies called cookies if you cook bacon and bake cookies

  • @bookish_ronnie
    @bookish_ronnie Жыл бұрын

    The other day i was at a restaurant with my dad and i was wearing a black floral dress with a very slight v-neck. nothing too revealing but the i did notice that the waiter kept looking at my neck and kept looking at me the entire time, he was around our table even. When dad went to wash his hands the waiter mouthed me to come outside and i felt disgusted thankfully dad came before he got any closer but since that day i avoid wearing that dress cause i don't feel nice wearing it anymore

  • @Shrek4ever630

    @Shrek4ever630

    5 ай бұрын

    You should wear the dress when ever you want! Shame on that waiter. But if you don’t want to that is perfectly fine but just remember that waiter was probably just raised wrong.

  • @bookish_ronnie

    @bookish_ronnie

    5 ай бұрын

    @@Shrek4ever630 thank you for saying that 💗

  • @Shrek4ever630

    @Shrek4ever630

    5 ай бұрын

    @@bookish_ronnie your welcome :)

  • @Squibballs
    @Squibballs Жыл бұрын

    i was sexually abused by other children. not all sexual abusers are adults.

  • @AbedulTG

    @AbedulTG

    Жыл бұрын

    the video says it, actually. 1:30 The child that is among the people is a representative of abusers.

  • @attachedx

    @attachedx

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @Slut4NoOne

    @Slut4NoOne

    9 ай бұрын

    Do sexual abuse as a child lead u to inflict sexual abuse onto other children?

  • @ThisGirlReviews
    @ThisGirlReviews3 жыл бұрын

    I'm really glad the new series only uses the 2D animation. The 3D animation is creepy.

  • @viv2138

    @viv2138

    Жыл бұрын

    Fr

  • @Luna-on-pawz-z4p

    @Luna-on-pawz-z4p

    4 ай бұрын

    Yeah

  • @-yukii-O_o-
    @-yukii-O_o-Ай бұрын

    As someone who knows someone who got sexually abused I can’t believe how well you managed to make this a kid friendly way to talk about this

  • @ellisgarciagarica
    @ellisgarciagarica5 ай бұрын

    2d: DAMN DUDE THIS IS COOL! 3d: UGHHHH WHAT IS THIS

  • @The_kandi-kids
    @The_kandi-kids11 ай бұрын

    I love these videos because it helps kids understand that it’s not ok for s3xual abuse to happen.❤

  • @memory_system
    @memory_system3 ай бұрын

    If anyone needs to talk, I'm here. I've been through this and made it out the other side. It does it get better, and I'm proud of you for being here. :)

  • @luvxaury
    @luvxaury22 сағат бұрын

    Im so glad that Sunday my friend was with me. I was at the pool and there were 4 boys. 1 boy touched my back when we were on the slide. I escaped with my friend. Then they asked my friend how old I was (I’m 13). After that, they started following us and staring at us. I’m SO GLAD THAT I WASN’T ALONE.

  • @officialReignited
    @officialReignited10 ай бұрын

    Honestly appreciate you guys helping ppl come out of their shell and speak up. God bless you guys❤️

  • @enderless6055
    @enderless60552 жыл бұрын

    From this video I learned I have been sexual abuse and I didn't know it was still like that if you went with it

  • @Hayden.69.

    @Hayden.69.

    2 жыл бұрын

    Oh

  • @guineapigtalks

    @guineapigtalks

    Жыл бұрын

    Are you still being hurt?

  • @enderless6055

    @enderless6055

    Жыл бұрын

    @@guineapigtalks No I'm not, this only happened when I was really young like 6

  • @guineapigtalks

    @guineapigtalks

    Жыл бұрын

    @@enderless6055 I’m glad you’re okay now!

  • @enderless6055

    @enderless6055

    Жыл бұрын

    @@guineapigtalks Thanks so much your really kind 😊

  • @sugarzblossom8168
    @sugarzblossom81685 жыл бұрын

    Hopefully all kid know what to do if this situation should ever happen to them

  • @kokonachan6626

    @kokonachan6626

    4 жыл бұрын

    Sugar Z Blossom yes u r right

  • @ashlenlolol6401

    @ashlenlolol6401

    4 жыл бұрын

    I knew what to do.

  • @alexandriahunt6058

    @alexandriahunt6058

    3 жыл бұрын

    I don't feel like it gets talked about enough 😑

  • @Ohne_Silikone

    @Ohne_Silikone

    9 ай бұрын

    If they even recognize it at all. If the person doing this has authority and trust enough, this might not even be the case. I am from de 'beware of stranger danger' generation. Nobody ever told me it could happen by the hands of someone I loved and trusted. Nobody explained to me that if your need for attachment is great enough, you might even mistake it for love. Nobody explained to me how my body could get accustomed to it and even yearn for the forbidden contact, as my soul wandered off into seperate realities. These are the difficult things that don't get explained often enough, that are so often misunderstood and poorly judged out of fear, shame and resentment. I share your hope, but Children often have no way of recognizing these things.

  • @Ohne_Silikone

    @Ohne_Silikone

    6 ай бұрын

    @ViktorIsBackMfs69420 that is not how being groomed works.

  • @HonestlyImTheGreatestOfAllTime
    @HonestlyImTheGreatestOfAllTime Жыл бұрын

    The BS4 is one of the best consoles of all time

  • @hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii5

    @hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii5

    Жыл бұрын

    The whole reason I came to this vid was cuz of the bs4 its like the best

  • @HonestlyImTheGreatestOfAllTime

    @HonestlyImTheGreatestOfAllTime

    Жыл бұрын

    @@hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii5 i know right

  • @Sabrina.The_CartoonFan

    @Sabrina.The_CartoonFan

    Жыл бұрын

    Nah the bs5 is

  • @TheOfficialCR7

    @TheOfficialCR7

    Жыл бұрын

    Facts and the Bs5 is coming out soon

  • @Depressed_Ferrari_Fan_16

    @Depressed_Ferrari_Fan_16

    Жыл бұрын

    The batshit 5

  • @OnurTheXbot
    @OnurTheXbot Жыл бұрын

    This channels videos should be shown at school.

  • @F4wnprincess

    @F4wnprincess

    Жыл бұрын

    This was shown at my school in 5th grade lol

  • @person7014

    @person7014

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree

  • @Trenxit

    @Trenxit

    Жыл бұрын

    Instead of those videos who just say "tell an adult" even though they don't do anything

  • @HildaFan

    @HildaFan

    Жыл бұрын

    They shown Are you Okay From Northlight School (SINGAPORE ONLY)

  • @piperrockelle4092
    @piperrockelle40922 жыл бұрын

    Please be safe out there. If someone is making me feel uncomfortable just run to anybody that is in your house

  • @noemiarmas5773

    @noemiarmas5773

    Жыл бұрын

    This Confusing Huh What!!!! Eh Ohh No This is Disturbing????? a Ran Away From Home with on 🤳🏻📱 My Friends came back to save me From a bad boy Abuser. Last time I got hurt like Kate Bishop with Bruises

  • @MegsLive
    @MegsLive11 ай бұрын

    As someone who was sexually abused by my best friend at the age of 10-12 I understand how hard it is to recover from this. at first tbh i didn't realise that it was SA. I even trusted this boy so much i let him around for sleepovers. It was a massive mistake because when i was sleeping he took off my clothes and underwear. he started to touch me in places that aren't appropriate at all. (I found this out via cctv in my mum's house) This happened when i was 11 years old. When I was 10 he would touch me when i had my clothes on and he would make me touch him forcefully. Once i turned 12 he tried to r^pe me however i stopped him by st^bbing him in the chest with my house keys. I have never told anyone until up to this point.

  • @SylentVR

    @SylentVR

    11 ай бұрын

    You are so brave, and I hope life is treating you well today. ❤

  • @NotEv3nReal

    @NotEv3nReal

    9 ай бұрын

    Tf

  • @galien3183
    @galien31834 жыл бұрын

    50% about some gane console 20% my brother screams when i touch him now Me: why can i relate to this....?

  • @deen_771

    @deen_771

    3 жыл бұрын

    Only one comment is about the brother

  • @mayaa2049

    @mayaa2049

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@deen_771 yh

  • @elizabethallred5757
    @elizabethallred57574 жыл бұрын

    I was in camp and my cousin was kissing me and it made me uncomfortable. The next day I told my mom the my cousin was kissing me.

  • @aashlynlol

    @aashlynlol

    4 жыл бұрын

    Elizabeth Allred SIS WHAT

  • @elizabethallred5757

    @elizabethallred5757

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm 10 and he's 17.

  • @aashlynlol

    @aashlynlol

    4 жыл бұрын

    Elizabeth Allred OMG

  • @elizabethallred5757

    @elizabethallred5757

    4 жыл бұрын

    Andy cousin RAPED me. ;-;

  • @sillyfella2009

    @sillyfella2009

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@elizabethallred5757 by the elder gods no

  • @DangerousMoonwalkerOfficial
    @DangerousMoonwalkerOfficial3 жыл бұрын

    I’m sorry but I can’t with that “BS4” **inhales deeply and exhales hard puts hands together into a praying position over mouth opens eyes wide and then falls out of chair and bangs on the table while crying and laughing and screaming**

  • @austincooper1958

    @austincooper1958

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too lmao 🤣 😂 💀

  • @DexxTheDragon427
    @DexxTheDragon4272 ай бұрын

    🎵hey don’t touch me there this is my no-no square🎵

  • @damarisburkett4734
    @damarisburkett47345 жыл бұрын

    sometimes it not that easy to just say no or tell someone especially if its a relative because then you start thinking about the consequences and it scares you

  • @angelcoyote9802
    @angelcoyote9802 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for making this video! I will be showing it to many children.

  • @kiribaku-shipper3826
    @kiribaku-shipper38264 жыл бұрын

    I feel so sorry for these kids:-(

  • @remyguelordmulumba5357

    @remyguelordmulumba5357

    2 жыл бұрын

    yes me to

  • @Eliff101
    @Eliff1012 жыл бұрын

    both my parents touched me, even today they stil do. I tell them to stop it. They never listen. I've told them that I'm not comfortable with it and they won't stop I don't know what to do anymore.

  • @blackqweenmars

    @blackqweenmars

    2 жыл бұрын

    Tell cps or a teacher

  • @pinkkangel3179

    @pinkkangel3179

    2 жыл бұрын

    Please tell a teacher, or a relative you trust. I'm so sorry this is happening to you.

  • @camryncarter2272

    @camryncarter2272

    Жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @Jim_Wool

    @Jim_Wool

    Жыл бұрын

    @Slut Girl Reborn what the fuck is wrong with you

  • @TheOfficialCR7

    @TheOfficialCR7

    Жыл бұрын

    @Slut Girl Reborn wtf I don’t think abuse is enjoyable

  • @gabby5927
    @gabby59273 жыл бұрын

    “Bull shit 4”

  • @natalie3758

    @natalie3758

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lmao

  • @pinkpanda3019
    @pinkpanda30196 ай бұрын

    I feel like a lot of people who talk about this didn't tell anyone that someone sexually touched them. Because so many turn against you that you would never expect them to. Even people I thought would NEVER try and tell me I was a liar but they did. The cops have turned against me. My principal is against me. Several of my piers are against me. Some of my piers have in the past literally sexually harassed me and have the audacity to try and say I am lying.

  • @daniellenewman7547
    @daniellenewman7547 Жыл бұрын

    I was sexually abused by my stepdad and I didn't know what was happening, but I told my friend Amy and she helped me tell my teacher at college, I felt much better after that day 😊❤

  • @ripmeblade7236
    @ripmeblade72365 жыл бұрын

    Who in the world has a BS4? That makes 0 sense. Also Agents Faith, Underclock, Mind something. I need to look those up

  • @mya-reesedurr4823

    @mya-reesedurr4823

    4 жыл бұрын

    The god-damned BS4 doesn't matter, it's a sexual abuse prevention.

  • @pandaduos871

    @pandaduos871

    4 жыл бұрын

    RipMeBlade723 they did it so they won’t get sued by Sony

  • @sensenzel

    @sensenzel

    4 жыл бұрын

    It was obviously Mindcraft lmao

  • @ripmeblade7236

    @ripmeblade7236

    4 жыл бұрын

    According to wiki, BS4 or BS-4 may refer to : BS4, a BS postcode area for Bristol, England BS-4, Biuro Szyfrów 4, the German section of the Polish Cipher Bureau BS4, a center drill bit size B-s4, a variant of the Antonov A-1 aircraft BS 4 Specification for Structural Steel Sections, a British Standard Bonomi BS.4 Basettino, an Italian primary glider in the 1930s Brilliance BS4, a 2007 Chinese car BS-IV Bharat Stage emission standards in India BS4, a brass left-hand threaded Gas cylinder valve

  • @sticks2221

    @sticks2221

    4 жыл бұрын

    mya-reese durr finally someone came to the right video

  • @johannahirut1001
    @johannahirut1001 Жыл бұрын

    I have an uncle white a skin condition that makes some of his body white and black his name is Donny and the second I saw him I got bad vibes it was at a family reunion and everyone loves him he winked at me twice and kept calling me over and had me sit on his lap and he touched me in uncomfortable parts I haven’t told anyone but my sister and two friends but they said I was overreacting

  • @simonelewis8276

    @simonelewis8276

    Жыл бұрын

    You are not overreacting! If there is an adult that you can really trust, tell them.

  • @johannahirut1001

    @johannahirut1001

    Жыл бұрын

    @@simonelewis8276 thank you that really makes me feel better

  • @Amigranx28
    @Amigranx28 Жыл бұрын

    I got abused by my Uncle Jeff he was really close to me so I trust him a lot and then soon he starts touching me in a harassing way tht I could not handle it and then he just let our parents to leave me in the house alone with him our parents couldn't think tht he would do such kinda thing to me they really trusted him eventhogh I hint them several time the thing tht they did was they let me to stay with him when their hanging out. One night he just start kissing me harshly tht I could not make it , I just wanted to say this to my parents but then I realized tht they wouldn't litsen to me finally I leave the home and now leaving peacefully... *Ema Steve Please care about your daughter/son while their associates with external persons

  • @h34rtzm1ka

    @h34rtzm1ka

    Жыл бұрын

    im so sorry that happened to you :(

  • @Amigranx28

    @Amigranx28

    Жыл бұрын

    @@h34rtzm1ka it was one of my Patients

  • @h34rtzm1ka

    @h34rtzm1ka

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Amigranx28 oh, i feel sorry for them then :(

  • @justynrivera8207

    @justynrivera8207

    Жыл бұрын

    I am so sorry

  • @anaholih
    @anaholih4 жыл бұрын

    Wen I was in 4th grade somebody touched me and I sad no

  • @deadchannel8115

    @deadchannel8115

    4 жыл бұрын

    Good job! 👍 you should stand up for yourself when someone wants to touch you in a way you feel uncomfortable with.

  • @lonestarfan126

    @lonestarfan126

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same happened to me, he got dealt with and now me and him are good friends.

  • @shaiiluvsyou

    @shaiiluvsyou

    3 жыл бұрын

    Kion 001 um child anyways sooo

  • @3934bee

    @3934bee

    3 жыл бұрын

    stop looking at my name and look at the comment chile*

  • @shaiiluvsyou

    @shaiiluvsyou

    3 жыл бұрын

    •pyong•That’s a country

  • @rylofr
    @rylofr Жыл бұрын

    Predators: *starts touching you down there*. You: "NO!" Predators: oh I'm so sorry I'll stop immediately"

  • @bluefireflyz1319
    @bluefireflyz13193 жыл бұрын

    Me: a 13 year old child never abused also me: watches these videos and cries

  • @marikakoralewska4869

    @marikakoralewska4869

    3 жыл бұрын

    I turned 14 couple months ago

  • @bluefireflyz1319

    @bluefireflyz1319

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@lalalalaaarry747 I am so so sorry to hear that, but don't let this get you down. You are bigger and greater then those feelings of shame could ever hope to be, and I'm really happy you decided to vent our your feelings even if its online. You got this I rooting for you

  • @marikakoralewska4869

    @marikakoralewska4869

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@lalalalaaarry747 hey i hate what happen to you hope your doing good, happened to me too...im only saying this because my name and everything is changed so my identity is pretty much confidential :) my stepdad does the exact same things to me at night telling my mum hes just checking on us or if were sleeping. I feel like literally dropping dead whenever i see her trynna be lovey duvvy with him. I have a couple pages of what i want to tell her one day (i didnt tell her yet, its been 2-3 years) but if i dont tell her im going to disappear one day....tough but yh...

  • @xx_ayumi4334
    @xx_ayumi433426 күн бұрын

    I got sexual abused by a senior of mine, he was guy. He touched my private body when i was 8 years old In martial art class. He always touch me every time it was time to leave. I told my mom about it weeks later after i understood that it was a sexual abuse. The older sisters at the martial art class started to protect me from the guy after my mom told them about it. I was grateful because he stopped after the others knew about it.

  • @BenniStrawberry_YouTube
    @BenniStrawberry_YouTube4 ай бұрын

    Oh that 3d animation is so crunchy and palatable

  • @Lyla-is4vc
    @Lyla-is4vc5 жыл бұрын

    So I am 11 (11 now or 10 whatever, I still look 10-) and I have lived this type of abuse with some guy on the internet not going to tell anyone what he was asking for but I kept saying "no" and it stoped...kinda--

  • @shotaaizawa1467

    @shotaaizawa1467

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hello😀😀😀

  • @Lyla-is4vc

    @Lyla-is4vc

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@shotaaizawa1467 hi :)

  • @ojnmoovies1649

    @ojnmoovies1649

    5 жыл бұрын

    Oh DONT EVER DATE FROM THE INTERNET

  • @NR20244

    @NR20244

    4 жыл бұрын

    I’m 1 year younger

  • @yellw_rse503

    @yellw_rse503

    4 жыл бұрын

    @iigxchx musicii that person texted me to but I blocked them the second they said hi

  • @MichaelT0wnley
    @MichaelT0wnley2 жыл бұрын

    1:55 bro when is the BS5 Coming out?

  • @BivvieIsADevilXb
    @BivvieIsADevilXb7 ай бұрын

    My dad sexually abused me for no reason, i cant say no because dad will get angry, i was kid getting sexual abused for the first time, but now its over, dad is still here and i said not now, dont do it again please. I can't tell mom about this, she will banish me for months, please dont call the police, my dad was still nice to me when i got 8 to 10 scores.

  • @KonoClouds
    @KonoClouds5 ай бұрын

    I think this has happened to me, but im not sure since they were my friend, and they seemed to be joking.

  • @sydneyaudette1018
    @sydneyaudette101810 ай бұрын

    I have been sexually abused by a high school boy who were older than me as a 8th grader when I was 13 and he touched me on my bottom. He forced me to touch the part between his legs by actually grabbing my arm/hand to touch his private parts but I didn’t. We were sitting together in the bus since there were no seats. And he told me not to tell anyone. So, I kept a secret for a few years. It made me feel sad, angry, disgusted, scared, and anxious about it since I thought that something bad would happen and I didn’t know what to do about it so I kept it secret till 10th grade. I decided to tell my mom and she understood me. Only my mom and dad knew what happened. A few years later during post Covid, he dropped out from school and I felt reviled since I was so nervous that it would happen again. Since that incident, I learned a lot about how to protect myself for that if it happens again. I am planning to tell my school eventually so he doesn’t do it to anyone else. I can still remember the trauma and the situation since it is always on the back of my mind. I am constantly looking around to make sure that nobody else does this to me the same way I went through it. I also don’t like being touched on my private parts, my back, or my shoulders since it reminded me of the abuse that I went through because of that person who did it to me and it made me uncomfortable, disgusted, scared, and anxious.

  • @155chipmunkz
    @155chipmunkz3 жыл бұрын

    My dad used to force me to hug him when I was younger.

  • @eugenia2502

    @eugenia2502

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’m sorry for you

  • @moth399

    @moth399

    2 жыл бұрын

    What??

  • @skjjha7509

    @skjjha7509

    2 жыл бұрын

    Is that bad?

  • @palakondarayuduuppu6420
    @palakondarayuduuppu64203 жыл бұрын

    But, bigger issue and worse than this is physical abuse and mental abuse on childs, It's 99% out of 100% population and it is very clear to identify, but still we are not fighting for it

  • @ethanho6715
    @ethanho67153 жыл бұрын

    I was in 5th Grade and I had this really weird English teacher(I also had him for an after-school program) who acted very strangely around girls. He would go up and lift up their skirts, slap them in inappropriate areas, and he also tried to kiss them. One day during a lesson, there was this one girl that sat at the back of the class, and the teacher would always go to her first. It was like there was a pattern in his ways around the girls. I was listening the whole time and my teacher said, "Come with me, I have something BIG to show you." I got a little suspicious about it so I kept my eyes on him the whole way until he went out with the girl. I stepped outside of the classroom to keep watch, and I can never erase the picture in my mind of what he did to that innocent girl. He pressed his hands over her mouth and took off her shorts. Before that I saw him shove her into the boys bathroom. I rushed into the bathroom and yelled, "Hey! You get your dirty hands off her!" I pushed him out of the way of the girl and put my jacket over her so I wouldn't see her parts. Soon, the other teachers got there with the security guards to get that man pinned down. They said I was a real hero that day, but I said to not share it so it wouldn't draw much attention to the girl and the school. I saved that girl's future, and she thanked me for it. Whenever you see bad things like that happen, don't feel scared to share it. You could save a life just like I did, and doing that makes a much better society. We need to stop this cruelty as soon as possible, and if it doesn't stop then reduce it as much as we can

  • @demon.slayer_Kny
    @demon.slayer_Kny2 жыл бұрын

    my uncle alwyys bought me stuff i wanted like chips or esrphones and stuff, the first time it happened was when i was 8 he touched my thighs and even went further, i was young so i thought ir was ok,when i was 9 the touching never stopped, thats when i entered the internet and told my online friends who werw a lot older, they kept saying it but who knows what i thought, at 10 it got worse,im 11 now and it still hasnt stopped :(

  • @bensmith8957

    @bensmith8957

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm sorry that happened to you

  • @pinkkangel3179

    @pinkkangel3179

    2 жыл бұрын

    Please tell somebody please. Have you told your parents about it?? I understand you're in an overwhelming situation right now. I went through the same exact thing, but please. Not telling anyone is going to cause even more damage to you, and it won't stop. It isn't normal for him to be doing that to you. Im begging you, please tell one of your parents or just any adult that you trust. I understand that you might not feel comfortable telling your parents, but atleast tell a teacher or someone. I'm so sorry you are going through this, nobody should have to experience something so traumatic. I know this comment is a month old, but I really hope things turn out better for you.❤

  • @guineapigtalks

    @guineapigtalks

    Жыл бұрын

    Did you tell yet?

  • @Saturn.gachaa

    @Saturn.gachaa

    Жыл бұрын

    @Slut Girl Reborn wtf. Why do you not want it to stop?!

  • @TheOfficialCR7

    @TheOfficialCR7

    Жыл бұрын

    Call 911 Tell a trusted adult or school staff Call cps

  • @Slimetoons
    @Slimetoons7 ай бұрын

    I love the ps4! I mean, bs4!

  • @SeanFoley-fz1tl
    @SeanFoley-fz1tl3 ай бұрын

    That’s right to tell a trusted adult about it but if you like ask nicely it’s ever a yes or a no

  • @K0ppyTherian

    @K0ppyTherian

    2 ай бұрын

    ? Huh

  • @UnKonwN-ci8ce
    @UnKonwN-ci8ce5 ай бұрын

    I really enjoy this channel,it teaches what sexual abuse is to children/elderly/adult/teens to those who don't know what it is and in a situation like that specifically and telling you to say no to someone that is doing that directly to you. And to tell someone like a adult!!

  • @nativeitzutakua-9863
    @nativeitzutakua-98633 жыл бұрын

    The “BS4”... I see what you did there lmao

  • @sussynanibaka69
    @sussynanibaka692 жыл бұрын

    BS4 is funny yes, but y’all don’t get the real message of the video and that hurts

  • @piperrockelle4092
    @piperrockelle40922 жыл бұрын

    Unless if there's nobody else's in your house then go to your room and lock the door and if you have any electronics or something call your parents or the cops

  • @blacklyfe5543

    @blacklyfe5543

    2 жыл бұрын

    What if you can't

  • @camryncarter2272

    @camryncarter2272

    Жыл бұрын

    Run to a friends house

  • @littlesparkkitten
    @littlesparkkitten3 ай бұрын

    For anyone who might be reading this: abuse of this kind isn’t always as simple as touching the private parts or so obvious as some things make it seem. If someone is touching you ANYWHERE and you feel uncomfortable at all, talk to someone safe. It’s not okay for them to touch you in uncomfortable ways, even if it isn’t where a bathing suit would cover. It’s not even always touching that happens. If someone makes you feel unsafe, listen to that instinct. You should always feel safe. Always.

  • @PanickedThoughts
    @PanickedThoughts3 жыл бұрын

    My favorite games for the BS4: #1: Mindcraft #2: Underclock #3: Agents Faith

  • @simmercasey5617
    @simmercasey56172 жыл бұрын

    I told it stoped. You should tell too.

  • @guineapigtalks

    @guineapigtalks

    Жыл бұрын

    Happy for you ❤️

  • @sethporter3145
    @sethporter3145 Жыл бұрын

    These 3D characters havd fallen down the uncanny valley. The all 2D animated videos are better.

  • @TheeGreenApple
    @TheeGreenApple4 жыл бұрын

    people who says some thing without giving credit and dont care: i got a ps4 People who says they got something without giving credit and care: i got a bs4

  • @piperrockelle4092
    @piperrockelle40922 жыл бұрын

    I got sexual abuse to but I told my mom when he was getting arrested I was really confused what was going that time I felt like I was in a room all day with a man

  • @guineapigtalks

    @guineapigtalks

    Жыл бұрын

    I am glad you told

  • @brandonseepersaud9916
    @brandonseepersaud99165 жыл бұрын

    Let's talk about how they plagiarized PS4 with BS4

  • @sillyfella2009

    @sillyfella2009

    4 жыл бұрын

    I don't think you get what the word "plagiarized" means

  • @brandonseepersaud9916

    @brandonseepersaud9916

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@sillyfella2009 ok . what is your definition

  • @sillyfella2009

    @sillyfella2009

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@brandonseepersaud9916 Taking Someone Elses Idea And Taking It For Yourself And Telling Everyone It's Yours. This Was Parody

  • @sillyfella2009

    @sillyfella2009

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@brandonseepersaud9916 also why are you replying to me at nearly 4AM

  • @brandonseepersaud9916

    @brandonseepersaud9916

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@sillyfella2009 sorry about that

  • @roach_roachy
    @roach_roachy Жыл бұрын

    Well... i had some one i looked up to untill i learned the truth. He was ok at first but soon he starting doing werid stuff, one day i was minding my on buisness untill he put his spit on my skirt i really felt werid but he was nice to me, then every time i got up he aways ran up to me and hug me i felt werid, he aways wanted to be with me and hug me nobody else i had 2 more best friends that were friends with him one was a male the other was a female, he hug the male and me the male knew him for a Long time i was Just New to him as well as my female friend. Then he forced me to do things for him or else... i didn't feel safe anymore... one day i was hanging out with my female friend until he was following wanted to hug evan me chasing me all i could do is yelling to him to stop and runing away Every body tried to make him stop he reach out his hand to me all i could do is look away, i don't talk to him anymore but he keeps looking at me and keeps on saying "why do you hate i did nothing wrong" or "why can't we be friends" i try to ingore him my female friend stop being friends with him after she herd what happend she is the only person i could talk with i trust her so much, when ever he is next to me my female friend aways takes me away from him i feel happy that i'm with my female friend insted of him.

  • @YURI_is_bored
    @YURI_is_bored2 жыл бұрын

    Well an big taller brother came to my little brother he touched 🥲 my brother's stomach but luckly I told my mother she called him than I cried.

  • @DericRobinson
    @DericRobinson5 жыл бұрын

    BS4 at 1:56

  • @tyrell7693

    @tyrell7693

    5 жыл бұрын

    Bullis*** 4

  • @YUHH--

    @YUHH--

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@tyrell7693 lol I was gonna comment that

  • @rinxuto5015
    @rinxuto50155 жыл бұрын

    I’m actually a victim of sexual abuse... when I was this happened last year when my uncle and his sons came to visit our grandparents. Me and my siblings were living with our grandparents until we finish our home school. My uncle finally left leaving his two sons behind the other one stayed with his aunt and the older one was left with us. That night was very traumatizing... our grandparents house is small and it only has one bedroom, we were sleeping in the living room with our mattress but since I was the only girl I had to sleep on the wooden chair just beside the mattress where my little brother and cousin were sleeping. I thought they were asleep so I slept in a comfortable position not knowing what was to come. But then I felt a warm hand on my stomach I knew it wasn’t my brother cause he was already asleep it was my cousin... he started to trail his hand upwards and I couldn’t say anything I was afraid.. my brother luckily woke up and suddenly the hand stopped but it stayed, it was dark. After a few moments he did it again slightly reaching for my breast I couldn’t take it anymore so I changed my position and covered my breast with a pillow. I wish I could’ve said something but I was afraid. In until now I still talk with him like nothing happened..

  • @rinxuto5015

    @rinxuto5015

    5 жыл бұрын

    Betsyslife nmore I’m scared, I don’t wanna ruin my family’s relationship

  • @rinxuto5015

    @rinxuto5015

    5 жыл бұрын

    Betsyslife nmore thank you... I have no idea what will happen if I tell my sister..

  • @sonnypotts4218

    @sonnypotts4218

    4 жыл бұрын

    Didnt ask m8

  • @person7014

    @person7014

    Жыл бұрын

    @@sonnypotts4218 no fucking way you just said that

  • @Y3LL0W_C0FF1N
    @Y3LL0W_C0FF1N11 ай бұрын

    What if your dad/mom touches you in a way you dont want to be touched?

  • @Marie_livi

    @Marie_livi

    11 ай бұрын

    That’s abuse. You can definitely tell them to stop but go to a trusted adult first.

  • @Sillytheriangal
    @Sillytheriangal2 ай бұрын

    Once, my best friend had sent me a picture of a naked woman ( we were both 9 ) and then I blocked her and told my mother straight away.

  • @brucemuwiri9237
    @brucemuwiri9237 Жыл бұрын

    How can people be cruel.

  • @dimmydimmy6804
    @dimmydimmy68042 жыл бұрын

    am I the only one taking this thing seriously and everyone else is joking in the comments? Also if a sister or brother touches you or a friend like if you are playing a game and he/she touches your private part on accident and it doesn't make you feel comfy would that be considered abuse?

  • @chxrry_motives

    @chxrry_motives

    Жыл бұрын

    Not necessarily, it can be a genuine accident, but it just depends on how they handle the situation and if they apologize or not. If they notice they did, they should always apologize. But it can be tricky because if they "accidentally" touch you, they could cover it up by lying and saying it was accidental, when in reality they meant to touch you. If they keep on accidentally touching you , or they notice and never apologize, tell a trusted adult.

  • @fantasyfury2157
    @fantasyfury21574 ай бұрын

    My friend all the time.....

  • @Filmed.by.Brookie
    @Filmed.by.Brookie7 ай бұрын

    I was sexually abused by my older cousin when I was only seven 😓

  • @christineabu3452
    @christineabu34523 жыл бұрын

    2021:bs4 not ps5

  • @abandonedcharcoal5404
    @abandonedcharcoal54044 ай бұрын

    Saying no is not enough. Abusers can manipulate the process so saying "no" will give a worse punishment. We should teach people not to find excuses to touch private parts.

  • @cookie._.weirdo_x109
    @cookie._.weirdo_x1093 жыл бұрын

    I was sexually abused by my step dad when I was 11..two years I’m only 13 rn so it happened for two years...I have trauma my mom knows I hate feeling like this

  • @charlenemaehugh4993
    @charlenemaehugh49934 жыл бұрын

    I have one a man touch who touch my shoulder siding down it was sacry😩😩

  • @hellothere7510

    @hellothere7510

    4 жыл бұрын

    Sacry

  • @charlessmith263
    @charlessmith263 Жыл бұрын

    Best way to stop such abuse - know your body's boundaries, and know your public parts as well as your private parts of your body. Not just sexual boundaries by itself. If somebody physically pressures you to have sex---TELL THAT PERSON TO STOP before that abuse gets a lot worse!

  • @qwertykids1433
    @qwertykids14333 жыл бұрын

    This is why I slap my dad ever time he try’s to hug me or put his hand on my leg even though I am comfortable with him

  • @user-ou2vm7qk4d
    @user-ou2vm7qk4d4 ай бұрын

    My favourite console, the BS4

  • @kyouko8579
    @kyouko85794 жыл бұрын

    This is a great channel

  • @ingenide

    @ingenide

    3 жыл бұрын

    agreed

  • @reaperofthenorth7097
    @reaperofthenorth70974 жыл бұрын

    Yo that BS4 looks lit

  • @Ice_cream222
    @Ice_cream2224 ай бұрын

    That must be so confusing..for a child

  • @spicyramen8957
    @spicyramen89573 жыл бұрын

    I found one of there newer videos and I’m like oh this is new and now that I seen this I’m like “OH YEAH”

  • @takeapunch1914
    @takeapunch19143 жыл бұрын

    Toriel watching this video: HOWS TOUCHING THE CHILD

  • @takeapunch1914

    @takeapunch1914

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Angel Pancake1212 sorry

  • @takeapunch1914

    @takeapunch1914

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Angel Pancake1212i like your icon

  • @takeapunch1914

    @takeapunch1914

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Angel Pancake1212 you should do animation or a gaming channel just saying

  • @666Rose
    @666Rose Жыл бұрын

    I didn't know that was sexual abuse the internet someone told me to get this weird game and they did one of the things this video said for sexual abuse

  • @EJMM209
    @EJMM2098 ай бұрын

    Jeez I wish these rules were important nowadays

  • @Alexisstonge
    @Alexisstonge3 жыл бұрын

    I was abused by my cousin and I can't see him for a long time now It was hard😔

  • @superiorbear6382
    @superiorbear63822 жыл бұрын

    How to get rid of that problem 1. If he touch your more than 2 sec then run 2. If it’s a problem get ready to talk 3. If all fails call me and give em a punch

  • @KittyCatLover7354

    @KittyCatLover7354

    Жыл бұрын

    Can u punch my uncle he is a big perv

  • @superiorbear6382

    @superiorbear6382

    Жыл бұрын

    Sure that’s one less loos end

  • @terryfennec2132
    @terryfennec21325 жыл бұрын

    Hi

  • @Radeeola
    @Radeeola3 жыл бұрын

    How do you tell someone you trust? How do you speak to your parents? It is so hard for me to do I'm scared

  • @music_loverbff2682

    @music_loverbff2682

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hey if you want my opinion here it is... first of all if you want to talk to someone you trust like a friend or a close family member or your parents, but you don't know how.. you have to be confident on yourself. You can even try thinking what your gonna say before you say it a couple times. And I'm sure the person you tell will understand. And don't tell yourself they won't. Don't doubt because then you can talk yourself out of doing it. If you tell yourself u can then u can but if u say u can't you won't. Speaking to your parents can be difficult but if it helps just start talking to them about a anything. Start a conversation and then when u feel the time is right say, I have something I've been wanting to ask or tell you, and they will listen. Remember they are your parents not strangers, so just think of them as your friend. Dont be scared just do it! Ik it's hard but if u push through it you'll feel so much better! I believe in you! - also sorry this was so long hahaha.