STOP PLAYING THE VICTIM - Powerful Motivational Speech

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Music: ALONE - Misery
Speaker: Andy Frisella
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Пікірлер: 140

  • @thechancellor-
    @thechancellor-2 жыл бұрын

    To the *incredible person* that's seeing this, I wish you all the best in life❤ don't over blame yourself, accept things and go forward. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn the skills needed and get after it, all the keys to a happy life is in your hands. Keep pushing.

  • @bonginkosiwaiza2524

    @bonginkosiwaiza2524

    2 жыл бұрын

    Time to get up

  • @kiraorosz7155

    @kiraorosz7155

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank You!🥰 Wishing You The Same!

  • @chandrasekharkadali4546

    @chandrasekharkadali4546

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you #shrishafoundation.

  • @d2.050

    @d2.050

    2 жыл бұрын

    I have a question I felt like a victim here or you can say taken for granted I don’t know. I had a simp traits in 2021 & I wanted to be strong who has control on emotions. There’s a girl at my workplace we were friends who didn’t told me she’s leaving this job soon I found out from someone else didn’t talk to her about. My boss kinda told me little bit she sees me as her son so it’s like boss is good to me & her. In short she stopped talking to me on Tuesday afternoon bc I saw she was talking to my boss about me probably on Tuesday. I talked to my boss about general stuff that she didn’t told me yet & stuff. Well it’s getting worse than what I expected I wanted to be nice guy but not too nice. Act wisely kinda stuff but now I don’t know can you please help me what to do & stuff.

  • @AssapimasterShinikoza

    @AssapimasterShinikoza

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@d2.050 sure

  • @lessonsin30s
    @lessonsin30s2 жыл бұрын

    "Don’t stop when you’re tired. Stop when you’re done." 💛

  • @YourMom-iy6cv

    @YourMom-iy6cv

    Жыл бұрын

    Wow so deeep

  • @Brandonhayhew

    @Brandonhayhew

    Жыл бұрын

    I never knew

  • @johngravesyt
    @johngravesyt2 жыл бұрын

    "you can look forward, or backword, but you can't look both ways at the same time"

  • @peacefullife6304
    @peacefullife63042 жыл бұрын

    Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it. Charles R. Swindoll

  • @jordanbird5617
    @jordanbird56172 жыл бұрын

    BECOME YOUR DREAM!GO AFTER IT NO MATTER WHAT THE CONDITION, OUTCOMES, AND CIRCUMSTANCES YOU ARE IN!

  • @seregill13
    @seregill132 жыл бұрын

    I need to watch this about five times a day, I've been having a incredibly hard time motivating myself for years.

  • @Aryanatomy
    @Aryanatomy2 жыл бұрын

    You’ve been killin’ it with these videos man! Holy. I don’t know why but videos like these are more impactful than ones with hype music. I’m becoming a new fan of Andy Frisella; his words are so true and powerful it’s crazy. It’s tough love but it’s true. I believe he delivers his messages really well, and you’ve been able to compile some of his best speeches into a short, powerful video. Well done 👏🏻

  • @itsakimm
    @itsakimm2 жыл бұрын

    I remember who checked on me when i was low asf. fuck negative vibes fuck others fuck everything cause we wasn’t born to please everyone and now i dont fucking care about nothing anymore.

  • @PracticalInspiration
    @PracticalInspiration2 жыл бұрын

    I always have a little time for Andy Frisella. He never fails to get me pumped to go out and do something with my life

  • @user-ml7uz3cp4z
    @user-ml7uz3cp4z2 жыл бұрын

    I’m probably on my 30th rewatch already, this is powerful.

  • @MrAgathok
    @MrAgathok2 жыл бұрын

    It motivated me so much I have stopped the video halfway through to start getting shit done

  • @fabianpineda3130
    @fabianpineda31302 жыл бұрын

    This video makes me cry because ive worked so hard and now i finally have the life/body i've always wanted after 5 years of GRIND

  • @YourMom-iy6cv

    @YourMom-iy6cv

    Жыл бұрын

    That’s not how life works. You may get what u want but it will never satisfy you without Jesus

  • @DemetriPanici
    @DemetriPanici2 жыл бұрын

    *“Complaining does not work as a strategy. We all have finite time and energy. Any time we spend whining is unlikely to help us achieve our goals. And it won't make us happier.” - Randy Pausch*

  • @JM-wn6gu
    @JM-wn6gu11 ай бұрын

    Its interesting how saying its all my fault is actually the most reassuring things i've heard. Because it means that yeah it's my fault, but it is within MY control.

  • @Wubby805
    @Wubby8052 жыл бұрын

    Bruh...this needs to be played on a loud speaker on the streets.

  • @shelbylee168
    @shelbylee1682 жыл бұрын

    All your vids are great...but this one here....this is THE ONE now. 👍 The rain was a nice touch for Andy's message too.

  • @TopG20073
    @TopG200732 жыл бұрын

    They were motivated by their sadness, you were destroyed by your emotions. Guys, don't think that something is hard, just do it.

  • @dyaszil3698
    @dyaszil36982 жыл бұрын

    Hey there beautiful souls!🦋 How are you today? I hope you're doing fine. Before 2021 ends I am here to congratulate you all for surviving another year✨ 2021 is a tough one but here you are, you made it to the end of the year. Thank you for not giving up on everything, thank you for smiling even when you feel sad, thank you for being so strong. Whatever your achievements were in this year, you are amazing and you should be proud of you. It is not easy to be here, but hey look how far you've come? remember every little obstacles you've overcome this year? That's incredible and keep doing that! 2021 is about to ends, but I hope your bravery stays the same, your kindness never expire and I hope you're ready to take what 2022 has to offer to you. Once again beautiful souls, thank you for being here. You make someone's life better with you in it. You make change to the world. Keep believing in yourself and don't forget to appreciate every little thing you do!!!✨🙌🏻

  • @raymonparenteau6547

    @raymonparenteau6547

    2 жыл бұрын

    2021 has taught me so much. Been a fuckin roller coaster although it’s tough right now I’m proud of myself cuz I know how much work/effort I put into myself and how much I tolerated to have the strength to finally make a change and face my fear. So much emotion this past week but I can’t run forever cuz what this past year has taught me no matter how healthy I become and good I look if I don’t truly go after what’s important to me I’ll just have another year wasted and more lame excuses. Thanks for sharing this video some of us need to hear it. I am very blessed and thankful for all the help I’ve received but unless I take action and hold myself accountable it will all be for nothing. Pray for me I may be scared for the first time In a while but Im learning to embrace it because that shows me I have something to live for again. Haven’t had this kinda emotion in god knows how long🙌🏻 I know I can do this 💯

  • @kailashs553

    @kailashs553

    2 жыл бұрын

    thank you , really needed that one person to spell that out .

  • @Jason-se1ke
    @Jason-se1ke2 жыл бұрын

    I needed this today.

  • @Wubby805

    @Wubby805

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same.

  • @kostane8785
    @kostane87852 жыл бұрын

    I'm speechless over this speech damn

  • @aravvarun9601
    @aravvarun96012 жыл бұрын

    MUCH NEEDED....its hard to STOP from playing victim nd to focus d FULLEST. whatsoever KEEP GOING

  • @cadewalden1108
    @cadewalden11082 жыл бұрын

    we’re all gonna make it

  • @Red23165
    @Red231652 жыл бұрын

    You tell it like it is like water 💦 keeps flowing like life water does I’m not stop it just keeps flowing even when his obstruction in find this way adapts keeps Moving Forward amen

  • @emirfit5130
    @emirfit5130 Жыл бұрын

    This video saved me back in the days for real

  • @lifesgood180
    @lifesgood1802 жыл бұрын

    " You can look backwards or you can look forwards, but you cant look ways at the same time."

  • @inspired4077
    @inspired40772 жыл бұрын

    You have one life, live it wisely.

  • @ghenafarhat
    @ghenafarhat2 жыл бұрын

    I didn’t know I needed this until I hear it. ❤️

  • @dangrind978
    @dangrind9782 жыл бұрын

    This is the most motivation recently! Nicely done

  • @tashW7092
    @tashW70922 жыл бұрын

    Inspiring!! Thank you for posting this. I need that, to be honest.

  • @privateequityguy
    @privateequityguy2 жыл бұрын

    To all the dreamers out there, don't ever let the world's negativity disenchant you or your spirit. If you surround yourself with love and right people, ANYTHING is possible...

  • @jimmyfoxwood1507
    @jimmyfoxwood1507 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you. I needed this.

  • @richiedarko
    @richiedarko2 жыл бұрын

    this hits home with great perspective.

  • @Derek-qd3lx
    @Derek-qd3lx2 жыл бұрын

    I truly wish someone would have sat me down and said these exact words to me 10 years ago and pulled me out of my own bullshit! This video was the perfect motivation for today and the next week or more. The pain I obtained from being the un-told victim of infidelity, until genetic bloodwork needed comparing with the Man I Call Dad. Shock and anger caused abuse in the household. The man I call Dad was now gone, no matter the attempts to still be in my life. The biological father had no use for a bastard child in his life. My pain, and hatred grew. I became a victim of my own bad choices and blamed the past. I blamed my mother, my dad, my bio-dad, my brothers. I blamed everyone for my lack of growth, I blamed all and held a anger so deep and strong that I pushed away friends and loved ones. I ended up finding heavy drug use to not make me forget but to feel like I was the best version of me. The drug use hid all my depression, it hid all my anger, and brought out a false version of mental invincibility. Schedule 1 substances had a true mental fight that caused many ups and downs for me. This next level I gain includes saving, Bringing my credit a respected score. I will also keep working on the bridges burned. I will break my fear of the unknown. I will find find the best version of me, and support others that are going through addiction!

  • @tanishsinghchouhan3412

    @tanishsinghchouhan3412

    Жыл бұрын

    You can do this bro I know, All the very best for you life ahead!

  • @wanonbondye9676
    @wanonbondye96762 жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @officialraajkashyap4793
    @officialraajkashyap47932 жыл бұрын

    I need this today ❤️

  • @jhunsuc1239
    @jhunsuc1239 Жыл бұрын

    I needed this.

  • @AbsoluteMotivation
    @AbsoluteMotivation2 жыл бұрын

    Loved it brother!

  • @ChispaMotivation

    @ChispaMotivation

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank u brother 💕 much appreciated

  • @rageaxis9777

    @rageaxis9777

    5 ай бұрын

    Boring same old crap zzzz​@@ChispaMotivation

  • @lindarash77
    @lindarash77 Жыл бұрын

    This needs to play 24/7 in big cities

  • @samgarou1512
    @samgarou15122 жыл бұрын

    Finally a good video.

  • @darrelljackson5352
    @darrelljackson53522 жыл бұрын

    Needed this

  • @morpheus8891
    @morpheus88912 жыл бұрын

    this is the best fucking motivational speech I have ever listened. Closed my eyes and listened it once more to embed it in my mind. I am not hyped for a moment or shit like that, but logging every steps I take toward my goal to a journal. Thanks for waking me up.

  • @emersonmilner4422
    @emersonmilner44222 жыл бұрын

    Great video!!!

  • @louoquen5623
    @louoquen56232 жыл бұрын

    I appreciate this upload.

  • @ChispaMotivation

    @ChispaMotivation

    2 жыл бұрын

    Glad to hear it 💕

  • @gymgodzyzzfuark1643
    @gymgodzyzzfuark16432 жыл бұрын

    Amazing clip, thank you for it! Some day, I will come back to this video, see my old comment and smile thinking to myself what a dumbfuck I was at the time of writing it, compared to what I became.

  • @notj9641
    @notj96412 жыл бұрын

    i related to this more than i should

  • @iamcarbine2281
    @iamcarbine22812 жыл бұрын

    God bless you

  • @mikiyasambaye9993
    @mikiyasambaye99932 жыл бұрын

    Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you respond

  • @Babyjo_raz
    @Babyjo_raz Жыл бұрын

    All I can say is BOOOM!

  • @cameroncreech9094
    @cameroncreech90942 жыл бұрын

    Fax these videos always show up

  • @joedgare
    @joedgare2 жыл бұрын

    Excelente 👌 Saludos crack

  • @seonf4370
    @seonf4370 Жыл бұрын

    tough love

  • @Janmark1997rsg
    @Janmark1997rsg2 жыл бұрын

    My girlfriend just broke up with me because I wasn't communicating the bad stuff in my life. Whilst I was trying to get out of the shit.. by focussing on moving on.. by working on how to fix it. Now there is one more thing to add to the list of shitty things.. it hurts man. Life ain't fair I guess. Now I need to move on. It will be hard. But I gotta move on. I will not let this get me down

  • @jaredgivensauthor
    @jaredgivensauthor2 жыл бұрын

    LETS GO

  • @Zafir89
    @Zafir898 ай бұрын

    Times tickin, and it ain’t stoppin, so what’s your next move?

  • @erik2972
    @erik29722 жыл бұрын

    Wow!

  • @crispyri
    @crispyri2 жыл бұрын

    And someone that has had hardship usually doesn't cry he looks to future

  • @thetorontogirl
    @thetorontogirl3 ай бұрын

    I got mad...really fucking mad. Not at the world or life but at myself. I had a dollar to my name in my bank account and asked my sister for another $50 just to make it to next week. I got mad and I told myself that I'm tired of being the victim to my own bs in my head. I'm not even tired anymore. I'm fucking ANGRY. I'm done with crossing myself out not thinking that I'm not good enough.

  • @dalaware4912
    @dalaware49122 жыл бұрын

    does monetizing your depression sound like a good idea?

  • @kevinh723

    @kevinh723

    2 жыл бұрын

    No. Once you actually develop executional skills to make that happen successfully, you will have an outsider perspective that monetizes idiots who want to validate their depression on the internet but not compelled yourself about the perspective you’re influencing. You would be influencing without being influenced yourself and realize through the work you put in to get to that point how stupid the shit you’re saying is, like how a lot of big KZreadrs do things for publicity, it would be purely for publicity and strategy.

  • @BrodeeRaney-zl1kf
    @BrodeeRaney-zl1kf6 ай бұрын

    I have a list a mile long too, but I'm seeking therapy. I'm not playing a victim but I'm obviously seeking help for a reason.

  • @misterdd7239
    @misterdd72399 ай бұрын

    wow. need this shit. thanks.

  • @putito1667
    @putito16672 жыл бұрын

    🧠💪🏾😈 Good job I love this

  • @madmandeano5460
    @madmandeano54602 жыл бұрын

    Thank you I needed these words

  • @shaker94
    @shaker94 Жыл бұрын

    What excatly background music is ? Great movie and speach!

  • @twist_8463

    @twist_8463

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah I’ve been searching for the music as well

  • @justmevsg1681
    @justmevsg16812 жыл бұрын

    💯🙌🏼

  • @robertcastillo5109
    @robertcastillo51092 жыл бұрын

    Dana White...this clip reset my mind...😉

  • @yunusidrs1730
    @yunusidrs1730 Жыл бұрын

    Can someone say what is the background sound pl.

  • @alexg8038
    @alexg80382 жыл бұрын

    🔥

  • @user-on1le8bn2q
    @user-on1le8bn2q2 жыл бұрын

    the fucking best

  • @pessimistkai5569
    @pessimistkai55692 жыл бұрын

    Please share music link

  • @hazam03
    @hazam032 жыл бұрын

    anyone know the background music

  • @adamkrenzel4250
    @adamkrenzel42502 жыл бұрын

    I'm going through a lot and I'm trying 😪

  • @manjunathprasadsullad2454
    @manjunathprasadsullad2454 Жыл бұрын

    Why can't I find the BGM? HELP!

  • @westhamaremassive8099
    @westhamaremassive80992 жыл бұрын

    I was a trader that lost everything from having everything and idk how to look people in the eye because of a mistake that I made that didn’t just ruin my life it ruined others because people are relied on me. How do I get out?

  • @lifelife4432

    @lifelife4432

    2 жыл бұрын

    Rebuild everything keep working and working until you recover and then compensate the people you ruined their lives or you didn’t it it’s a mistake you can always recover and never look back, you can just use the knowledge and your skills you learned throughout the years to rebuild your legacy stay strong 💪🏼

  • @TheVeyZ
    @TheVeyZ7 ай бұрын

    I'm tired of people trumpeting of their problems and the amount of medication they take as if it's something to brag about. Get up, quit complaining, and face your problems.

  • @danstetina8004
    @danstetina8004 Жыл бұрын

    4:18

  • @treasuretrash1301
    @treasuretrash13012 жыл бұрын

    Do the hard work especial when you dont feel like it.

  • @jelly4704
    @jelly47042 жыл бұрын

    0:21

  • @samBrightuel
    @samBrightuel2 жыл бұрын

    It's ok to be a victim but don't let it define you, don't let your abusers win!

  • @susiesa8295

    @susiesa8295

    Жыл бұрын

    true but the abusers can claim the victim status to justify their lies and deceit to make them look good!

  • @dtbmag1862
    @dtbmag18622 жыл бұрын

    Whos the person speaking?

  • @juannv6112

    @juannv6112

    2 жыл бұрын

    Andy frisella

  • @GoodGuy-rm8wx
    @GoodGuy-rm8wx Жыл бұрын

    Excellent speech. I'm going to send this to the next person that calls me out for being emotionally abusive

  • @Swan__fit
    @Swan__fit2 жыл бұрын

    Who’s the guy taking?????????????

  • @bendeguzmatedanko6053
    @bendeguzmatedanko60532 жыл бұрын

    I mean, a hard upbringing is the perfect upbringing.

  • @RicklessSanchez
    @RicklessSanchez8 ай бұрын

    The question is What if they don't? How they wanted committed for something else. Although they feel like they wanted wasted their time until they becoming dishonor @$$holes. They could never stop until thing get ugly as usual.

  • @aayushtiwari3785
    @aayushtiwari37852 жыл бұрын

    Is that Dana White??

  • @jamiewilliams8107
    @jamiewilliams8107 Жыл бұрын

    Too many victims around these days and I refuse to be one of them.

  • @goldielion9998
    @goldielion99982 жыл бұрын

    Do over

  • @RichConnerGMN
    @RichConnerGMN10 ай бұрын

    why does he sound like jschlatt

  • @vinishgeorge8759
    @vinishgeorge87592 жыл бұрын

    What if freedom fighters r selfish

  • @vinishgeorge8759
    @vinishgeorge87592 жыл бұрын

    Victim

  • @ThaiThom
    @ThaiThom2 жыл бұрын

    Does the nonstop profanity really help get the point across?

  • @walker6798
    @walker6798 Жыл бұрын

    I started watching your video and I was looking forward to learning from you but I had to turn it off due to all the swearing.

  • @qqq2276
    @qqq22762 жыл бұрын

    🌽🌽🌽🌽🌽

  • @SATENDRAKUMAR-vq9bd
    @SATENDRAKUMAR-vq9bd2 жыл бұрын

    It would've been more impacting if the swears were replaced with emphatic vocabulary 😬

  • @MrApplesaucestuff
    @MrApplesaucestuff2 жыл бұрын

    they should play this at BLM riots

  • @wilk1979jax
    @wilk1979jax2 жыл бұрын

    Nobody cares Work harder

  • @IndianOutlaw1870
    @IndianOutlaw18708 ай бұрын

    This guy thinks profanity enhances his message. Sadly, it only tarnishes it.

  • @asdfgtrxcvhjkzxs3ek
    @asdfgtrxcvhjkzxs3ek2 жыл бұрын

    lol i find such videos funny and cringe , i mean most of us arent abused and mistreated that badly while growing up , some of us grow strong and mentally tough and then these indivuals come up with such cringe worthy motivational speeches and telling everyone how we aint gota play a victim or be weak while not knowing or experiencing the things that weak people do honestly i dont feel weak anymore i train i work i stress my nerves i dont feel like a victim but i dont feel like a hero either i feel like a selfish strong person who only cares about myself thanks to everyone not giving a f about my feelings and constantly telling me to just grow up... thanks to such cringe worthy human behaviour wecreate bad guys and we parasites dont even notice it we create evil through our stupidity and lack of understanding

  • @etienne7774
    @etienne77742 жыл бұрын

    People using satans language, cursing, while doing motivational speeches?

  • @reginalbayardjeudy7039
    @reginalbayardjeudy70392 жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @AngelleahASMR
    @AngelleahASMR7 ай бұрын

    Thank you