stop hiding & start doing things (feeling lost in your twenties)

stop hiding & start doing things (feeling lost in your twenties)
i dont have much words i feel like the video speaks for itself haha a video about how i dont know what im doing so thank you if you watched and if you are feeling any type of similar way im right here with you guys!
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  • @rosieannemarie
    @rosieannemarieАй бұрын

    so good to see someone in the same sort of head space as me. you're such an inspiration and i wish you all the best

  • @sophierosam

    @sophierosam

    Ай бұрын

    ah thank you so much, sometimes it can feel like you're the only one feeling like this so I'm glad others can resonate, much love!!

  • @quokka2726
    @quokka272620 күн бұрын

    i heard this thing that said to have three constant things in your life, no matter what age you are: something that trains you physically (gym/sport/yoga etc), something that trains your brain (for example don't stop learning even after finishing higher education), and something that allows you to relax and have fun!

  • @sophierosam

    @sophierosam

    18 күн бұрын

    I'm going to live by this forever now omg thank you for sharing❤

  • @imadmed-kj4ud
    @imadmed-kj4ud25 күн бұрын

    omg i'm in the same mindset as you i'm 22yo and i feel like i've been living on autopilot mode for 5years basically just studying in college or else i'm in my room to rest ; i rarely made memories or met new people nor learned new hobbies or anything ... but its been a few months that i've had this "wake up moment" and i'm still trying to figuring it out and taking small steps towards what i want to be/have in my twenties. cool video ❤ keep these coming !

  • @sophierosam

    @sophierosam

    22 күн бұрын

    ahh!! we are in this together

  • @mvuyiso_buyana

    @mvuyiso_buyana

    22 күн бұрын

    Same always at uni or in my room, it's only now recently I forced myself to make plans and save money for those plans lmao

  • @sadafs6632

    @sadafs6632

    21 күн бұрын

    SAME !!!!!

  • @marianazzz1

    @marianazzz1

    16 күн бұрын

    wow didn’t know someone felt the exact same way as me

  • @SincerelyGwendolyn

    @SincerelyGwendolyn

    16 күн бұрын

    SAMEEEE

  • @callmeluis555
    @callmeluis55529 күн бұрын

    this really resonated. i feel like especially during the summer i do the same stuff every single day and it drains me knowing im wasting time. your voice is so soothing

  • @sophierosam

    @sophierosam

    29 күн бұрын

    aw thank you! It's such a weird thing like I don't know whether to say sorry you are feeling the same or whether that's a good thing hahah, at least we are self aware I feel like that's the biggest step to actually realise and then we can decide what we want to do from there, we are in control of our lives🫶🏼🫶🏼

  • @AnaSerroGomes
    @AnaSerroGomes16 күн бұрын

    I never read something that described so precisely my life right now as the phrases on the beggining of this video. I feel like I'm trapped in a cycle of perfectionism and ambition that paralyses me and makes it too scary to figure out where to start... feels good to see we're not alone

  • @Witch.of.the.bog.
    @Witch.of.the.bog.11 күн бұрын

    I live by the quote "Only leave for tomorrow what you're willing to die having left undone"

  • @analisaogari9149
    @analisaogari914921 күн бұрын

    Hi! I'm not sure if you've ever heard about the book 'Feel the Fear and Do it Anyway' by Susan Jeffers. It helps you identify what is holding you back and provides steps to overcome it. It motivated one of my friends to do her first solo trip. Hope this helps :)

  • @sophierosam

    @sophierosam

    18 күн бұрын

    Ah thank you so much for sharing I'm going to get this book now!!❤❤

  • @jujules450
    @jujules4502 сағат бұрын

    This video came up on my recommended and it came at a perfect time. It’s exactly how I feel right now. I’ve been staying at home ever since I dropped out of college. Every day feels the same and it got boring at one point. I think I just need to give myself that push to do things because who else is going to do it for me? I’m so glad I came across this video. Hopefully this motivates me to do the things I’m afraid of doing. ❤️

  • @eznedeak
    @eznedeak15 күн бұрын

    I'm about to turn 20 tomorrow. This video resonated with me because I am scared to do a lot of things. My mind is constantly racing with things I want to do and get better at, but I am so comfortable where I am now that I don't want to do anything about it. Videos like these give me that bit of motivation to get started. Thankyou for sharing your thoughts and feelings. Keep going. Bless your beautiful soul

  • @allisavenue
    @allisavenue15 күн бұрын

    I’m 29 & I feel the same. Your video made me feel normal and seen, thank you!

  • @nataliechen382
    @nataliechen38221 күн бұрын

    I’m 23 and going through the same thing! Really glad I found your video, sending love and light🤍✨

  • @josieeeee_l
    @josieeeee_l22 күн бұрын

    i love this, and girl i feel you! keep your head up we'll figure it out

  • @SleepySlophie
    @SleepySlophie5 күн бұрын

    You are so brave for making the decision to put yourself out there! It’s such a hard step, and it’s so scary, but you sound like you’re really starting to feel free. So happy for you 🫶🫶🫶

  • @namaah554
    @namaah55424 күн бұрын

    Hi, thank you for posting this, it felt so comforting to watch !

  • @terenaworld
    @terenaworld25 күн бұрын

    loved all these shots, i love your storytelling!

  • @haannaahh
    @haannaahh13 күн бұрын

    I’m getting out of my comfort zone and meeting someone new today. This video came up on my home page and I found it so comforting. Thank you 🩷

  • @Daisysbasic
    @Daisysbasic15 күн бұрын

    Thank you for sharing this video and also yes being in your 20s sometimes we do feel lost or even lonely cause we are navigating life basically on our own. But getting out of our comfort zone is a start.

  • @nataliiatotka
    @nataliiatotka17 күн бұрын

    This is so nice. The title got me. I’m currently extremely anxious, cause I’m running a marathon in a couple of hours and I still feel cringe doing things alone…even though I’ve been doing things by myself for a long long time. And I currently got rid of almost all toxic people from my life, somehow those were all my friends 😅 and it’s a bit hard when you don’t have like minded people around you 😢

  • @sjkalice
    @sjkalice27 күн бұрын

    ahm hi, sadly I feel quite the same now that im almost on my twenties. Sometimes I go for a walk in Lisbon, where I live, and feel a bit better seeing the amount of diferent people that lives day by day diferently. Maybe I recommend you to visit Portugal, like why not. I still find calm and inspiration to do art sometimes, you cant get tired of here :]

  • @zoeharrington9834
    @zoeharrington983429 күн бұрын

    i look forward to your vids sm! loved this

  • @sydneyodle
    @sydneyodle13 күн бұрын

    really love this video

  • @dugumumu
    @dugumumu11 күн бұрын

    I had my drivers ed teacher told me that he sees "so much in me but" I've put myself into a box. I don't want to step out of my box it's safe and comfortable. But I know I need to change life is so boring. He says that getting your driver's license is going to open so many doors. Although I haven't experience that just yet give me a few more weeks and maybe I'll hit the road alone.

  • @victoriadandrea3850
    @victoriadandrea385025 күн бұрын

    I feel this so much. After watching this I feel so inspired and I also want to be your friend. I love your style, the dark bob, cargos with sambas, sitting at the window of a coffee shop - such a cute look! Subscribing rn

  • @sophierosam

    @sophierosam

    22 күн бұрын

    aw thank you so much!!!

  • @evelynarquette
    @evelynarquette15 күн бұрын

    I’m a kiwi who just this year moved to the EU. I’m 29, and couldn’t do it the first time because COVID locked everything down and then got into a rhythm of day to day in a job etc. I just wanted to comment because it’s truly never, ever too late to do the big move, to change your life, to work towards something greater than you’ve experienced before. Save some money if you can as it removes the stress of travelling broke (Have done that too! Much prefer not stressing about having to change bad accomodation, or double book myself etc). Be kind to yourself, you are so so incredibly young, and have so many opportunities ahead of you!

  • @Maandarynka
    @Maandarynka25 күн бұрын

    The film is soo beautifully edited ❤ Colors and light are magic !!!

  • @madisonrendallll
    @madisonrendallll23 күн бұрын

    this was beautiful thank you for sharing

  • @helenaojuel
    @helenaojuel25 күн бұрын

    i've never felt so seen, I loved your vídeo ❤❤❤

  • @blaykewolf
    @blaykewolf26 күн бұрын

    I loooove the coziness of this video ! It felt safe 🤭

  • @vnillacndle
    @vnillacndle27 күн бұрын

    loveddd this!! i've been in the same mood and i'm excited to try new things as well as scared. and money being a limit of course. but i'll get to do something nice soon :) btw i loved the idea of the list before x age! it's always yearly but that way feels better

  • @vale4364
    @vale43647 күн бұрын

    i relate so much to you, especially the "not being out there" part and the "fear of starting things i'm not already good at" part, i love that there's more people wanting to change their life little by little, makes me feel lees alone and less crazy lol

  • @bykremi
    @bykremi26 күн бұрын

    loved the video! can't wait to see more from you x

  • @CYND3RGIRL
    @CYND3RGIRL24 күн бұрын

    the part with talking out to someone about said things that were stuck up inside the head and you finally clear up to them and got the courage to tell them about your stuff - either they talk down, talk nicely or whatevers but its all the same -i stop doing it, thats why i dont want to talk about stuff like that with anyone else anymore..

  • @Maria-zv3hn
    @Maria-zv3hn25 күн бұрын

    Wow this really resonated with me!! We will get through this

  • @adele1996
    @adele199625 күн бұрын

    So relateable! Thank you for being honest! I took a big leap a few months ago because I was desperate for change and growth. And i finally did it! Got accepted to an elite Master program in Amsterdam. Change and growth is possible, we just need to start. Small steps everyday will put you in big positions in life!❤❤❤ you got this!!!!!

  • @sophierosam

    @sophierosam

    22 күн бұрын

    wow I am so proud of you that is amazing and inspiring to me!!

  • @le4ndr4wils0n
    @le4ndr4wils0n10 күн бұрын

    really resonated with this video, loveeee

  • @sacha5446
    @sacha54468 күн бұрын

    You’re so cute! You remind me of me a lot (I’m 26) we got this! Sending you blessings and good vibes 🩷🩷🩷

  • @esapov
    @esapov20 күн бұрын

    felt this 🫂

  • @taraprentice
    @taraprentice21 күн бұрын

    you're a boss sophie!! love this so much ❤

  • @sophierosam

    @sophierosam

    18 күн бұрын

    fancy seeing you here queen!!! thank you so much means a lot ❤❤

  • @katwai
    @katwaiАй бұрын

    love this xxx

  • @umoggie
    @umoggie24 күн бұрын

    Love this so much

  • @elenatea
    @elenateaАй бұрын

    so proud of you! i feel like you have come so far just in 2024!! loved this vid

  • @sophierosam

    @sophierosam

    Ай бұрын

    ahhh freakin love you, means so much!!! I will live through your Italy summer so I hope you'll be vlogging hehehe

  • @pnkbee
    @pnkbee9 күн бұрын

    this video spoke to me ❤

  • @GabriellaSitarra
    @GabriellaSitarra18 күн бұрын

    I feel like i was meant to see this, I’ve been wanting to pursue youtube so much but i have no ideas and want to post content i feel proud of

  • @sophierosam

    @sophierosam

    18 күн бұрын

    I felt the same way until I just started posting in January, and to be honest I almost didn't post this video which is crazy because it's the one that's done the best so far for me, so you just never know !!

  • @14suryashi
    @14suryashi26 күн бұрын

    The title made me subscribe lol ❤

  • @marvinyounice
    @marvinyounice28 күн бұрын

    thank you for sharing this it's so nice to know I'm not alone. let's chase our dreams and meet our goals together

  • @sophierosam

    @sophierosam

    22 күн бұрын

    we've got this!!!

  • @maceheath
    @maceheath26 күн бұрын

    i kind of needed this

  • @sophierosam

    @sophierosam

    22 күн бұрын

    hugs

  • @dreamvillian6964
    @dreamvillian696429 күн бұрын

    Girl im so proud of you!! im on the same journey (from London too) as you and im trying to push myself and try new things! just know arent alone

  • @sophierosam

    @sophierosam

    29 күн бұрын

    ahhh we got this!

  • @marydavis2312
    @marydavis231221 күн бұрын

    its...strange seeing how I feel so alone/lonely feeling like this yet sooo many of us are feeling the same way. My life is not stagnant, and Im trying my best each day, but somehow despite knowing what I want to accomplish, I feel a sense of being lost. I don't know who I am anymore, and I dont know how that happened.... I'm just 20 and my whole teens I was living my best days (in hindisght) and I knew myself, I'm not sure how this situation came to be, I'm just hoping to be out of it soon

  • @sophierosam

    @sophierosam

    18 күн бұрын

    we're in this together ❤ I feel that sometimes even just knowing, being self aware and being able to reflect is big enough in itself to start moving on, it's always a journey finding who we are and is so ever-changing, someone I went to primary school with once said to me 'you've changed' but they meant it in a bad way and I was thinking well I really hope I have changed because I want to constantly evolve and be a better person. Sending you love!

  • @julietaperazza
    @julietaperazza7 күн бұрын

    loved this, what camera do you use?

  • @akshitabisht2048
    @akshitabisht204824 күн бұрын

    I absolutely love this video. Thank you, Sophie, for being so honest and making progress. I am grateful that I stumbled upon this video of yours. I will take it as a sign! 💫 Also can you please tell what website you were using for the vision board? Looking forward to more videos!

  • @sophierosam

    @sophierosam

    22 күн бұрын

    Aw thank you so much that means a lot, sometimes I get nervous sharing these things but it's nice to know there are other people who can relate! I get my photos from Pinterest then use canva for my vision boards, I usually like to make mine as my phone background so I search up phone wallpaper templates to get the right size and then just add my pics on there:)

  • @willowbyrnes
    @willowbyrnes27 күн бұрын

    Hey! What camera are you using? I’m really enjoying the fisheye look x

  • @SofieBakstad
    @SofieBakstad25 күн бұрын

    Which camera do you use for filming? Looks soooo good!!

  • @fanil.t.
    @fanil.t.Ай бұрын

    i love love LOVE the book u r reading

  • @sophierosam

    @sophierosam

    29 күн бұрын

    I kind of always go into reading my books without knowing what to expect and I'm so pleasantly surprised with it!! Definitely need to read more books written by her 🤓

  • @kszesiu7
    @kszesiu711 күн бұрын

    Remember the text below: That's actually so true. Once you keep your plans to yourself, everything you planned and manifested seems to come along way easier and clearer than if you say it to someone. It seems like you somehow create this obligation and then overthink about your possible failure. I guess that's how it feels sometimes. Anyways, good luck. Move to Edinburgh - the air is much cleaner."

  • @SunnySteph
    @SunnySteph10 күн бұрын

    not the first few seconds calling me out! HAHA

  • @alicjawiatr9111
    @alicjawiatr911114 күн бұрын

    literally same girl, I hope you will succeed! keeping my figers crossed for you, bisous bisous ~ Ala

  • @Daisyhstone
    @Daisyhstone23 күн бұрын

    Hey girl, what is it you film on? Been meaning to ask for a lil while now, it seems really small and compact, rather good for filming in public? Or am I tripping🤣 sounds so ideal xxx

  • @Chaewonders
    @Chaewonders23 күн бұрын

    love this video so much ❤ thank you sophie from brissy

  • @tessas02
    @tessas0226 күн бұрын

    i’ll get my drivers’ licence after summer break i promise!!! u called me out

  • @sophierosam

    @sophierosam

    22 күн бұрын

    I believe in you !

  • @SeraChylle
    @SeraChylle6 күн бұрын

    I'm 25 and I'm from the Philippines 🇵🇭 and I would love to live in a nice country like Canada or somewhere in Europe. Currently sending applications Rn. I've felt really lost in my 20s specially during the pandemic.

  • @n.ee.h
    @n.ee.h17 күн бұрын

    Actually same!

  • @iisobellatimms
    @iisobellatimms5 күн бұрын

    Hi what camera do you use!!??? Xxxxxx

  • @eventhorizon8753
    @eventhorizon875320 күн бұрын

    Heyy I love your mood and videos!! I want you to upload more videos !!! 🙏🏼 From korea.🙂‍↕️

  • @fantastisapop
    @fantastisapopАй бұрын

    you are absolutely beautiful

  • @sophierosam

    @sophierosam

    29 күн бұрын

    omg stop it you are !!!

  • @joki6987
    @joki69877 күн бұрын

    hallo, I have the same problem right now, when I am along I thing maybe it's time doing something different when I saw this video I realized it's not tomorrow or next week is rightnow!!!! sorry my English not good 😌

  • @sheena9837
    @sheena983724 күн бұрын

    Same

  • @katwai
    @katwaiАй бұрын

    also what park is that in edi?? it’s Gorgeous

  • @sophierosam

    @sophierosam

    Ай бұрын

    it's a private gardens in town that I have keys for because I live in the area, I can't hack the public parks here as soon as the sun comes out they're all packed so I am grateful for this quiet escape hahah

  • @bbylobo
    @bbylobo22 күн бұрын

    hello. i really struggle with driving, i've been delaying finishing my driving license for years now. it as to be now.

  • @sophierosam

    @sophierosam

    22 күн бұрын

    aww! I had such a hard time with lessons I found driving really stressful but if it makes you feel any better as soon as I got my license and started driving on my own I felt so much more confident and it's now my favourite thing ever! you got this

  • @wilhelminamcrae
    @wilhelminamcraeАй бұрын

    Where is your fish eye camera from?

  • @sophierosam

    @sophierosam

    Ай бұрын

    It's vintage unfortunately!!:/

  • @mouadbaalla5331
    @mouadbaalla533126 күн бұрын

    if you need video editor I here to help

  • @TRUETOILETTENPAPIER
    @TRUETOILETTENPAPIER9 күн бұрын

    can i ask what brand the blue parachute pants are? 👉👈

  • @sophierosam

    @sophierosam

    9 күн бұрын

    ahh sure they are the Baum Und Pferdgarten Nasra cotton cargo pants 🫶🏼🫶🏼

  • @caitlin2475
    @caitlin247521 күн бұрын

    wow the resonated with me so much, had a very recent change in my mindset on how i’ve treated myself and the patterns i’ve fallen into over the last few years and also living in edinburgh, going through all of the same things. this was perfect timing 🥲 immediate sub and follow 💘

  • @izabelaniepokoj410
    @izabelaniepokoj4109 күн бұрын

    Where are your sunglasses from ?

  • @sophierosam

    @sophierosam

    9 күн бұрын

    dmy studios! the Valentina frames

  • @Designswithshree
    @Designswithshree25 күн бұрын

    Hey friend! Do you want an intro, outro, banner, thumbnail?

  • @z_0._c
    @z_0._c13 күн бұрын

    Where is the park ? 😳

  • @sophierosam

    @sophierosam

    13 күн бұрын

    It's a private gardens in Edinburgh so only people with keys can get in!

  • @QaZzFilms
    @QaZzFilms11 күн бұрын

    0:04 "what a nice tues-" 😂 in all seriousness, the "autopilot mode" just like @imadmed-kj4ud call it; its the percieveness of lack of meaning of life: which is a fairly tough answer itself ntg lie, its the XXI century and were being totally pushed in a high-stress world, more than lack of meaning its being stressed of not doing well enough i think. Lots of love to everyone reading this

  • @vidadeisabella
    @vidadeisabella25 күн бұрын

    i feel exactly the same right now & this is motivating me to change things around, we’ve got this! 🫶