I spent my young adult life putting aside things that I needed to do for myself to help others every time they needed it. When I got older , I realized how unfulfilled I was in my own life because I had done so much for others and so little for myself. I started to say no to people and found that people had gotten so used to me just dropping what I was doing to help them , that they hated me for saying no. Now I have no friends or family who will talk to me anymore because they say I'm selfish. In reality, they're the selfish ones because they never once helped me or cared about my needs.They tell me they can't even remember me helping them or what I ever did for them. I sure was important to them when they needed my help but as soon as their needs were met, they soon forgot how important of a part I played in making their wishes come true. Nowadays I feel like a fool for having given up so much of my time to ungrateful people but thankful that I'm now living a more fulfilling life for myself.

@KB-mf8ef

Ай бұрын

Same thing happened to me. Its wild

@Wong-Jack-Man

Ай бұрын

Most people are selfish, greedy and full of jealousy and the kicker is it’s usually people closest to you.

@shinyr8528

Ай бұрын

Very true …I had the same experience

@simpleliving4205

Ай бұрын

Same

@InsighttStoriess

Ай бұрын

plz follow me

Dear unkhown person whoever reads this we don't know each other yet I wish you all the luck afterward from this moment 💫❤️ you are a blessing you don't know that yet , don't blame your self or else loose yourself in the dessert of uncertainty, ur smile is precious keep that up🥰

@nithumohan2811

24 күн бұрын

Thanks🤗 same to u✨ love from India🥰

@inshamir4851

12 күн бұрын

Thanku.. Needed those words at this moment and eventually found those at right time. I literally needed good wishes for my luck, if my luck favours me this time, my whole family life will change.plss pray for my good luck.

I am 58 and. I spent my life helping me people but no one was there to help me.

This is happening to me right now...some people really do take advantage of kind hearted people. I appreciate the clip.

@51beak39

Ай бұрын

Amen.

The only thing that we often need after giving is appreciation ✅💯💙!!

Because of kind heart I was always being hurt by my old friend

@Poppiebiltoo-mo3kz

2 ай бұрын

We share the same story.

@KianWendt

2 ай бұрын

Can relate. I hope you learn to take care of yourself and set boundaries. It can be hard but if they don't respect you , then withdraw. Maybe watch some videos about toxic friends and spend some time taking care of yourself ...like positive affirmations, going for walks , Journaling, etc . If you're religious like a Christian then pray because God cares even if it doesn't seem like it .

@Poppiebiltoo-mo3kz

2 ай бұрын

@@KianWendt A, very good advice. Thankyou.

@Aryan__Asif

2 ай бұрын

​@@KianWendt❤👍🏻

@mukttamahajan524

Ай бұрын

Those who hurt you were never your friends So don’t get hurt and don’t be over friendly

I had always suffered as a teenager... Trusting people... Trusting friends(called to be).... Still @30 can't get off the habit.

The moral of the story: Make sure the guy is blind before escorting him home. 👍

@ErnestLauzon

Ай бұрын

Now that's funny and very insightful

I am so glad you've made this video. It's good to teach children kindness as this will bring joy in their lives too, but teach them to be protective of themselves too. I've Liked this video, hoping it will help the algorithm to spread this message. Thank you again.

I spent my 30 years of life helping friends and unknown persons so many times but I lost so many things like money and time some people cheated me different times I didn't realise at that point So kindness and love make us blind sometimes Be cautious about how the things going on !!

Be kind but also be cautious yet not suspicious or paranoid.

The ability to say No is always very important because you need to protect your peace by all means, people really do not care until they need you for something, so please take your time to use these words Yes/No.

If you become known as the person who tends to help people, eventually people will start using you. So just don't do it, man.

God thank you for the people that were truly there for me when they could not be in person. Even if I don’t seem to fit this scenario, it has been me at times. And it sucks. But God I send gratitude to the one’s who have defended me. So I’d like to think.

To Donald in the comments a very, very similar thing happened to my husband and myself. I understand your situation completely and on top of that I went through a spiritual awakening through Covid. I basically speak to about three people in my life right now and I’ve never been happier, people are just so oblivious to what you do and mean to them it is just unbelievable to me and exported almost drove us into poverty actually sent us an invitation to his snotty son‘s wedding today. I cannot wait to send it back ASAP. Of course we’re not going but the audacity of this family to even think that we would want to even go to this wedding is just so unbelievable to me. It just shows the narcissism of people, yes it took me also a very long time to realize this. All of a sudden I realized I was not very happy but everybody else around me was go figure what was I doing wrong? Exactly what you were doing wrong but don’t worry because God is a comeback God he will make up for everything that you fail you lost. He truly will just keep the faith that’s what I’m doing slowly but surely my husband and I are regaining everything that we gave away. Amen. Everyone have a blessed day.

BALANCE is key! 🔑

@Eyademaocca

Ай бұрын

A point ❤

@12MyDairy-00

Ай бұрын

Correct

Tim's lucky he learned this lesson so young! Took me till my early 30's!

Love your neighbor AS YOU LOVE YOURSELF it is said. First INWARD JOURNEY and then only outward journey ❤

Kindness is very important but it is right be careful to help each other becuase not everyone around is kind. And same your good heart.

I literally just asked for a sign with a situation and this video popped up 🥰

I raise my hat👒 for people like Tim I wish there were more of him in this world🌍

@user-co7jt6sk8z

20 күн бұрын

I enjoy this video very much then. We must try too be kind to animals and people to then.

God will always help you find the balance.Pray to Him and he will give you the wisdom on how to live ❤

This is very helpful for me, thank you so much ❤

It's unfortunate that there are many users in this world who only want their needs met but aren't available to reciprocate.

Yes we should also learn from it

One should not help to the extent of foolishness but good deeds surely rewarded

Wisdom to the creater for this super content

I help people...But I notice the manipulative ones....

This is very helpful for me, since I’m learning to be more assertive. I’ve unfortunately had toxic friends in the past who tried to give me advice, but in a harsh tone and doesn’t respect my boundaries

@think-good-ok

Ай бұрын

how to be assertive i tried but failed

Nice guys never wins dude! Even in relationships!!!!

@03Heaven90

Ай бұрын

Yes, they do in relationships. I love nice guys and HATE bad boys

This is wisdom. Religion , especially Christianity, often teaches us to be a Good Samaritan, but it can get you killed if 'the wrong person encourages you to "help' them. Discernment and boundaries are the key.

@chicfini

Ай бұрын

FACTS

@OfftheChainz

Ай бұрын

Christianity also tells us to be wise as serpents so I disagree.

Love the story and it helps me to improve my listening skills, keep going 🤩🤩

Tim's lucky, the people accepted his change in attitude. In the real world, somebody who allows everybody to take advantage of them would immediately be accused of being unreasonable and selfish, the first time they stand up for themself.

@shymultimedia

Ай бұрын

I’ve lost many friends that way. Once I stood up for myself, they were cold and distant towards me, and didn’t want me around anymore. My parents call me “disrespectful” too, when I stand up to their rude behavior or disagree with them. And I’m 43! 😅

a very good awareness 🎉

This is very true 😢😢

Thank you so much 🌷

This is so true nice story ❤️😊

Thank you 🙏

Good work

While not the same thing, i can sort of relate to Tim a bit here i always find myself encouraging others to be the best they can and don't be so hard on themselves. On the flip side i never do the same thing to myself and often struggle to make time to myself or find motivation and joy with things.

As a giver I have come to learn that the one to be wise is the giver and not receiver. Yes it is more blessed to give then to receive but receivers do not have limits , they build themselves at other people’s expense and become entitled in most cases. They are takers and don’t care what it costs you.The giver must be wise and set boundaries otherwise you will just be building others and not yourself, in the end you start holding grudges and being resentful towards those you helped, as you help others do the same with yourself. You only have one life to live and must enjoy it🙏🔥❤️

Very wonderful story ❤🙏👌

Beautiful ❤️ it's my fault and my story. Thank you for this beautiful vedio

@gertrudeasmah6723

17 күн бұрын

What a beautiful video. I've learnt something very vital

Wow. Interesting. Very inspiring

Amazing History!!!

Really very nice story.

I love this kindnis

Nice and informative

Nice story

Very true😊

Standing up for yourself is good, standing up for others is good. Doing both is great. Knowing when to do each one is godly. The story resonates with me because it's basically just my story. Most will take this as a story of balancing kindness and strength but there are two other factors that also need to be balanced: I needed to make sure my kindness didn't become associated weakness, and I needed to make sure my strength didn't become associated with cruelty. Once I realize kindness is not weakness it made it really easy to intuit that strength is not cruelty. They kindness and strength, are tools and like any tool you need to properly assess the problem to know which one is appropriate.... And that part just takes trial and error... And error and error and er- OH S*** I GOT IT RIGHT THIS TIME 😂

great content !

Amen 🙏

This is the first time I've written this down: I met a 12th level angel recently while trying to assist a man who had had an accident. The farmer had cuts that required stitches on his face. I tried to take him to the hospital but, as the saying goes, 'You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink.' So, he wouldn't go. The night before, the angel told me afterwards, I had acquired a malevolent entity while helping a German man passed out on the sidewalk. The angel extracted the entity from me, and gave me energy. Having learned my lesson, I saw an incident just two days ago where something unfair was happening on the street. I just walked away from it because I want to retain my health and well-being. I praise God, Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit because I have been lucky. Naivety is a subtle thing.

@geraldmuchiri5571

Ай бұрын

Hello, what do you mean by a 12th level Angel?

.....And so the moral is, DONT DO SHIT FOR ANYBODY! Be Selfish, make people earn YOU.

@trust7577

Ай бұрын

Lol u didn't understand

NICE

👍👍😊

Understand dear

❤

🙌

I also pray people stop using me. Or I hope to meet genuine people in the future.

3. In the pass years i was on the under pressure stress . 4 days ago

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The most important message in life to learn not just as a human but as a soul.

Kidnapper pretends to be blind man to get kind hearted kid to help bring him home where a gang in ambush lie await to kidnap kids. Not everyone out there has good intentions and you need to protect yourself. Being kind is important but you shouldn’t let others take advantage of your kindness. Learn to say no when necessary and set boundaries with others. Be kind and strong. Find balance in life. "Kindness makes us better human beings, yet in this world, both good and bad people exist. It's crucial to remain cautious, as some may exploit our kindness for their own gain.

Sometimes you dont know who the people you help, in expecting that bad people would change for the better. (To set a good example) In the other hand.. To the kind hearted if fooled can also change them to b "cold" and not care. "Maybe" this world is sometimes not meant for 😇 Until the kind❤ ones will go to Heaven where everthing is GOOD Just take care.

Right.. today's time don't help anybody because if you help them they will try to down you.... Time hi kharab chal rha he Aaj kl.

Tim stated balance kind and standing 3:31

Big Mistakes par of life But I still No Second Chances Never 💯

Hell I’m trying to help myself as well.

I still get kicked by life. I help people and they get settled. But when I need help I fall into more problem. I rise from a hole only to find my self slip back into another hole. At times I feel to get real rude in life but again I can't. Can't decide at times should I be good or rude. Life at times place huge joke with me.

learned this the hard way 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤘

in this world nothing is bad nothing is good its pure balance

How do you find bad people?

The old woman told her parents 2:52

Tim is me :')

This is me 😢

All blind men trying to get home wept at this story.

1:44

1:43 going to school

While i understand the message the video wants to convey, it is a bit confusing. The story's turning point is not relevant to one context (kindness). Being kind is one thing and being cautious to be able to make good judgement is another thing. But yes, key point is to find balance in everything we do and to add in a little caution upon our kindness .... not to limit the kindness OR not to stop helping everyone as the title mentioned it.

These AI apps you used to create these images are built on the uncompensated work of real people. Making it worse, they undercut the jobs of these human designers and artist, all while using their own work to do it!

@user-fg9lk1kr3i

Ай бұрын

So 😢 what should we do ?

🙏🙏🙏🤍🤍🤍🤗🤗🤗😌😌😌

It will depend on what is your mission to the freedom, which path will lead you to your freedom by serving others with no expectations, You are responsible for your own happiness and Noone else is also not responsible for your happiness and fulfillment. You are also not responsible to make others to be happy. But you are responsible to make a choice to give with what you are willing to give with no expectations.

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Nice story, the AI reader is crap.

@limajoshy2730

Ай бұрын

Totally agree. AI reader sucks

Luisa Madrigal also needs to stand up for herself and set boundaries. Luisa from encanto is constantly sacrificing her own needs, happiness and wants to help others. Luisa allows everyone to take advantage of her kindness and take her for granted. Everyone tells Luisa to do them favors, and Luisa always does what people want her to do, and even though she needs a break, she is too afraid to stand up for herself. Luisa is a submissive doormat and people pleaser who lets everyone walk all over her and doesn’t take care of herself this video reminded me exactly of her

Dag ix goed masf ksn hij irdetenmhtlprn

Stop barkin

Stop saying wrong

OK, but if you consider a video like this important enough to make, why not get a real reader to read it? The silly mistakes auto-generated voices make are terribly distracting and as a result it very difficult to take any message seriously.

THIS IS SO WRONG!

@saidomar5272

25 күн бұрын

Why

Shame you are teaching children this.

@omkareinstein5438

Ай бұрын

Always be positive We can learn alot of things from the mistakes

@saicharan2159

Ай бұрын

This is a needed skill these days... Being kind is just like a drug ... If you take in limited dosage it saves you else it will kill you...

Good work

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