Best advice in old age is STAY AWAY from negative people, Including relatives

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Great observation Steve 🍻🙂

@AJ-zf8tu

Ай бұрын

Yes,recently had to break away from sister and brother in law as negativity,jealousy and controlling nature was totally stressing me.All started going wrong when I became wealthy.New chapter and getting on with my new stress free life without them.Hard to distance family though but it has to be done.

@freedomlife3623

Ай бұрын

Already doing that for last few years. Like Norm said, we already hard enough on ourselves, don’t need someone else being hard on us.

@marilynrybak9154

11 күн бұрын

That advice is great advice for people of any age!

I’ve stopped doing this at aged 65: 1. Eating x3 big meals a day 2. Maintaining friends who don’t make me happy 3. Buying high heeled shoes 4. Buying designer clothes 5. Accumulating theatre programmes etc ….

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

That’s great thanks for sharing and joining our conversation Bonnie have a great weekend Cheers 🇬🇧🍷🌺🇨🇦🙂

@freedomlife3623

Ай бұрын

I love high heel though, specially nicely fitted ones.

@BoninBrighton

Ай бұрын

@@freedomlife3623 it wears off… especially if walking everywhere and living by the sea becomes a retirement priority!

@lillyofthevalley7937

28 күн бұрын

I just sold an item in marketplace, trying to declutter. Goal is spending not on items but lufetime experiences. 59 y. But parents are 88 y and still independent but 1 day, they will need me more. Just happy, made it through 1 trip out of country. All 8 relatives in their 80s still alive, am feelung very grateful!!!

No guilty pleasure, worked 44 years, snow, rain, too hot weather, it’s time to enjoy.

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

We totally agree Rosalind it’s time to enjoy Cheers 🌺🍷🙂

@cadlac1533

Ай бұрын

Me too.

I agree 100% with everything you both have said. I lost my husband 4 years ago and I promised myself to enjoy the rest of my life. I am only 62 so I am trying not to worry about money and just live with freedom! So far solo travel has really made me so happy and fulfilled 😁

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

So sorry to hear about your husband Jen but we are thrilled you are able to do Solo travel have a great weekend Cheers 🍷✈️🚢🌺

@keepcreationprocess

Ай бұрын

Do you need alot of money ? Do you have costs then ?

@arnoldjohnson3317

29 күн бұрын

Solo travel sounds very sad. I don’t go anywhere because of that. It must be a woman thing to be able to travel by yourself. I would feel like a creep traveling around by myself. I remember one of the last group trips my wife and I made, there was one man in the the group by himself, he was so not part of it even tho he was with us doing the same things

@keepcreationprocess

29 күн бұрын

@@arnoldjohnson3317 yes,solo travel is not safe either.

@lillyofthevalley7937

28 күн бұрын

Glad you found an outlet. Do you mind sharing which company you use for solo travel? Just worried about scams.

Most of us have been brought up with the idea that we shouldn't put off to tomorrow what we can do today, but if you look out and see that it's a lovely warm, sunny day and you'd love to just sit out in the garden with a cup of tea and maybe a book, and you think "what have I got to do tomorrow?" This is the time you can, do whatever it is tomorrow and sit out in the garden today. It will do you a world of good.

Agree 100%, my husband has been battling cancer for 6 years and we don’t think twice about taking trips while he is still able.

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Sending good wishes to you and your husband

I’m 62 years old and still working. I try to save most of my income thinking that I’m not going to have enough money when I retire.

I was blessed to watch my parents enjoy their retirement. They always told us there would be nothing left and I am so grateful they lived a happy life and did everything they wanted. No one should plan on inheritance. Best gift is teach your kids to live life to fullest. Their bank balance was zero at end but the joy they shared was priceless.

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

That is awesome! so well said thank you 🌺🙂

@jgriffin282

29 күн бұрын

My husband tells our kids all he’s going to leave them is a Visa bill from our last vacation😂😂

I've had 3 financial advisors tell me I need to spend more. I retired at 62, now age 65. But I still save too much. "Spenders can't save and savers can't spend" is a true adage. I'm spending a little more, but still not enough.

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Still hard to do 💰🌺🙂

Cheers to you Norm and Tina .....from Rebecca in Malone Bay Nova Scotia ....Perfect day we went out for dinner & we ordered the fish cakes, flat bread scallop and spring roll bowl.... sitting out side in the Sun looking at the 3 churches and the Bay and toasting ~ This is our Retirement ~

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

That sounds absolutely wonderful wish we were there with you we love Mahone Bay Cheers 🍻🙂🥂

You two are so reassuring and kind!! I'm going to plan a trip!! 70 this year and just retired

@ThisIsOurRetirement

22 күн бұрын

Congratulations

You almost had me a little angry with the helping adult children issue l, but you seemed to save yourself later in the video. I have taken on a part time job that I absolutely love to help my child with their professional education, rent, and give them a chance to get a shoebox condo instead of paying rent forever. Nothing (except health) gives me more enjoyment than helping others. It is so incredibly rewarding. You can also get some great tax advantages gifting money early rather than waiting until they are in their 60’s and struggling for so many years. I would never support just to pay for useless stuff.

I find for me that happiness is helping others and seeing them smile. Family and friends are essential.

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Totally agree John have a great weekend Cheers 🍻🙂

@freedomlife3623

Ай бұрын

Whatever makes you happy, just make sure you are not taken for granted. Personally I don’t drive my own happiness from others.

@marilynrybak9154

11 күн бұрын

I agree. When I see my sons and their families (wives and grandchildren) happy it makes me happy and brings me joy! I do not sacrifice my own pleasures in life like being able to travel- but, I am setting aside finances to also help them make their lives a bit easier than what I had. I have never received a penny that I didn’t work hard for. I can’t even imagine receiving money as a gift. I imagine it is very generous and extremely nice!

@marilynrybak9154

11 күн бұрын

Correction- my parents did help me get my first “starter” home by buying it first and then selling it to me. I suppose that was “help”. But, I did have to buy the house from them and had a mortgage loan to pay for it.

Excellent. Love this topic. I am 71. Time is so limited. Just do it.

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Wonderful! thanks for watching we are glad you enjoyed our video Cheers 🍻🙂

So right about the “buying things”. ! Coffins don’t have pockets … But I don’t know about the “stop worrying “ thing 😂… some of us have spent our lives honing that skill to a fine point ! 😂😂

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

If you can manage to stop worrying as when you were working , life becomes a lot better 🌺🙂

New focus on me retired at 56 now 61 these have been some of the best years of my life. Group of friends and I call ourselves Queenagers like our teen years but with a couple bucks in our pocket which we are spending on ourselves..

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

That’s awesome 👏 Cheers 🍻💰

@heidilevens6284

Ай бұрын

Love that! Queenagers! One to remember! ❤

The concept that my parents would feel any need or desire to leave me money, at nearly retirement age myself, baffles me. Nor will I plan to do it for my kids. They raised me to adulthood, got me educated and I did the same for mine . Mission accomplished. (The biggest gift is not to leave a house full of clutter)

@ThisIsOurRetirement

29 күн бұрын

We believe this too but there is always going to be money left over at one’s passing.

@RG-cz1tc

20 күн бұрын

Yes, if you love your kids, give them the things you want them to have now, ask them what of your "clutter" they want and tell them they need to take it now or it goes out, and empty out the house as much as possible. Moving to an apartment or condo will help and the worst thing to do with a condo or apartment is to put the old family furniture in it. Go with modern simple stuff, like they use in hotels.

@marilynrybak9154

11 күн бұрын

My mom has been extremely good at not having a declutterrd home. In fact, we think she gives away too much “stuff.” She has a beautiful home well appointed but with her bare essentials of things she loves. We have encouraged her to use her money for trips, etc. however- not ever receiving an inheritance- a little one would be kind of nice- if there’s anything left over after living a full and happy life. I do plan on leaving an inheritance to my sons. I want them to have an inheritance gifted from me to them. That will be my last good will gift on this earth - leaving my sons a substantial inheritance that will help them and their families. 😇💕😇💕

Brilliant. I like to think that.... at school, we are told what to do and how to behave. Then at work, we are told what to do, how to behave and given a label (job title). In retirement..... you can truly be your own person.

All great advice the toughest transition is from saver to spender but its a nice problem to have. As far as having too much stuff we have just returned from UK after moving my mother-in law into a care home, we were tasked with clearing the house of 35 years most of the stuff had'nt seen the light of day for 20 years plus some were unopened. We refer to it as CLS Cute Little S- - -. don't need it. Experiences and good positive friends are the key plus focus on your health, negative people always have a problem for your solution. We were on the Regal Princes with you[Geordies]came back on the QM2, next week off to Vancouver for two week cruise in Alaska then a 28 days cruise in South Pacific. Life is precious do your best to live it to the fullest, remember not everything has to cost money, enjoy each day. Plus don"t watch the News. All the best!!!

@ThisIsOurRetirement

29 күн бұрын

Lovely to hear from you John and hope you enjoy your Alaska Cruise 🚢 we did the Inside Passage a few years ago and just loved it take care both of you Cheers 🍷🙂🍻🌺

A few years ago, we started only buying a small fridge magnet and a Christmas tree ornament from our holiday destinations. Works great for us.

@sbayles5593

Ай бұрын

Same!

@janebeaulieugardening

29 күн бұрын

I started doing the same 😊 Also book marks make great souvenirs and practical too 👍

@Vedette-sa

29 күн бұрын

@@janebeaulieugardening Bookmarks is a great idea as well!

@hermacoutts8587

21 күн бұрын

I love to take a picture or a small fridge magnet. The Magnet goes on the fridge and the picture goes in a photo book.

My daughter always tells us to stop buying "stuff" for her to throw away when we are gone. "Stuff" requires dusting and Im so over that! Don't save to pay for a nursing home.

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Have a great weekend Patty Cheers 🍷🌺🙂

The fear of running out of money is real and we are watching it with our older parents.When one dies their social security is cut and if one develops Alzheimers or needs more care the cost per month skyrockets to $6-$10K which burns through the savings. And if one has a home that is paid for, repairs keep eating up the savings.

@ThisIsOurRetirement

28 күн бұрын

Yes you are aware, it is a problem but can be managed through budgeting, it is the elephant in the room. Thanks for watching Merrill.

Good advice to give inheritance early when they need it. It would give me a lot of joy to help my son buy a house.

Alot of times people spend money to entertain themselves. My mom spent every dime on nick-nacks for her house. Now she needs assisted living and can’t afford it. We don’t need half of what we think we do.

"Bugger off!" Best parental advice ever. :)

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Cheers Dan 🍻🙂

I find so many people spend too much money on alcohol. A glass of wine with dinner is one thing. 2-3 glasses is another. Plus, a lot of people have a couple of beers or drinks in the afternoon.

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

There might be a lot of truth in this , maybe everything in moderation 🍷🌺🍻🙂

@francansdell8249

18 күн бұрын

What many people do not realise, sadly, is that alcohol is a carcinogen. Many older women with breast cancer don't understand this fact.

One of your tips is a personal favorite that I learned a few years ago..... Our pastor always starts each January with lesson on budgeting. One year.. for me... his take-away left a lasting impression. He said, "Stop buying STUFF. You don't need it!. Now, I can stand up here and give you reason after reason, verse after verse why.... But this time, I'm going to teach you HOW not the buy that stuff. When you see something that's just gnawing away at the grip you have on your wallet, repeat these 3 sentences to yourself. 1. Wow - that's cool/stunning/awesome/beautiful! (Say this while looking at it longingly.) 2. I really like that/I'm so impressed. (Say this as you imagine how it would look at your house or as you'd hold it/ride in it/wear it.) 3. I don't need it. (Happily walk away.) It's been working for me these last 20-some years! ☺️💰

@lillyofthevalley7937

28 күн бұрын

I would ask my self 3x " Can I live without this" and always get the same answer....NO!

@Jkaye13

5 күн бұрын

It definitely takes practice to walk away from things we 'think' we want or need.. I have learned to pause, and wait, ponder on something for a few days or a week.. and most of the time l will come to the conclusion that l DON'T need it and l don't buy it.. l have also found that the older l have gotten, the less I think that l need.

There’s a lot of sage wisdom in this video. I’m one who unfortunately has left it almost too late to fully enjoy my nest egg. Health issues and a lifetime of save don’t spend mentality means not enjoying those life experiences that money can buy. Old age means becoming irrelevant and without true friends. As you say if you’ve raised your kids well they no longer need bailing out. And no one sits by the fire reminiscing about the stacks of money good old dad left them in the will.

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing have a great weekend Cheers 🍻🙂

Why are we / am I still saving? Because I was raised by parents who were raised in the depression, I’m 65 and have 50 years of savings habits, it’s totally intrenched. I don’t buy anything to impress anyone. Simple rewarding live, I absolutely love life. Cheers

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

It is hard but after 50 years maybe you need to rethink things 🤔and enjoy life even more 🌺

@waffles1ca

Ай бұрын

@@ThisIsOurRetirement thanks, I could not be happier!

I absolutely agree, "stop bailing out your children", let them earn on their own. Don't be their free babysitter too often also. If you leave an inheritance they will likely just spend it. You earned it, enjoy it. I agree totally with both of you. Happy "49" years!! I agree, don't buy tourist trinkets, spend money on memories of travel. I can tell you that after my parents passed and I was informed that I would receive some of their money, I almost felt sick,because I would rather have them here today. Boy are you right "nobody cares about you, what you drive, etc". Great wisdom you are giving.

@ThisIsOurRetirement

20 күн бұрын

We are on the same page!

Hubby and I have recently retired. Our plan is to pay for yearly vacations with our adult children and our grandchildren. My joy comes from being together and lots of laughs. ❤you, two. Cheers!

@dwaynecostello5788

Ай бұрын

That's a great plan, we have the same goal and will try the route of buying a cottage so everyone can join us for however long they can visit during the summer. In the end it's all about being with loved ones and creating memories.

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

A nice idea Murray Cheers 🌺🍻🙂

@madeleinewinterdown3256

Ай бұрын

Yup! All my patients have this plan until a disabling illness pushes them into needing assisted living. Not all care is covered and it always catches the boomers off guard!! Now the province can send you to Northern Ontario if there’s no beds and you have no money, no agency to make token decisions. Good luck spending every last penny, which might work in an American private insurance world, but fails miserably in a Canadian context!

Totally agree! We're just back from two glorious weeks in Spain. We got a little inheritance and decided to live it up and go back to our favorite country. It was totally different than last trips because we didn't feel constrained. We got first class train tickets and if we saw something we wanted, we bought it. At the same time we didn't go overboard. We typically buy practical things like shirts (I got 6 shirts, he got 3), a beautiful mug from Granada, some "tapones"(corks for wine bottles with beautiful ceramic tops that will always remind us of our trip), some bookmarks from a couple of museums. We maybe spent $200 on all of that but they're practical things and will remind us of our wonderful trip.

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Wonderful memory glad you enjoyed it Toby 🍷🌺🙂

Have a Heineken on me Norm🎉 A toast to a long and happy retirement!-🍻Mike from Ottawa

@ThisIsOurRetirement

29 күн бұрын

Thanks so much Mike 😀😀💕

You two are two cute! I smile as soon as I pull up ur channel! As u mention- time is not a renewable resource!

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

So true! thanks for watching 🌺

Just got off an Alaska cruise (for which I paid cash) and I'm 76 years old. If one maxes out their IRA into a good mutual fund and stays out of debt they'll probably be just fine ( no debt means NO mortgage and No car payments!!)

Create memories with people you love and enjoy! My husband and I are treating our son and our lovely daughter in law to a trip to Hawaii for all 4 of us! Love your channel!!❤

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Sounds great! have a wonderful weekend Cheers 🌺🍷🙂

Great philosophy ! I totally agree. We are retired and we travel because it is our pleasure. The kids told us to spend our money and we intend to do so. 🇨🇦

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Love that! Cheers 🌺🙂

@teresaf221

Ай бұрын

Such excellent info! I would love to send it to so many fiends I have that say they cannot afford anything! They live in big houses paid for, the cheap out on cloths, food, fun. Sell the house spend the money! Invest the money pull monthly payments. Your home sale will pay your medical or retirement home costs. Rent like these too!

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

That’s awesome Teresa if you share with all those friends we might get lots of new subscribers 😂😂Cheers 🍷🌺🙂🍻

Just dropping truth bombs throughout this video - love it. I’m probably one of your younger viewers, but I enjoy listening to you because I want to learn from your life experiences.

@ThisIsOurRetirement

29 күн бұрын

That’s great glad you enjoy our channel 🍻🙂

On trips, I buy something that depicts a trip and small enough to hang as an ornament on the Christmas tree. Then each year I can enjoy the memories on the tree. Functional.

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Wow that’s just what we have done over the last 15 years , but now we got rid of our big 7 foot tree and downsized to a lovely 4 foot tree and it’s perfect for all those memories of trips Cheers 🍻🌺🙂🍷

@MariannaV

Ай бұрын

We buy a fridge magnet as a reminder of our trips

Tina and Norm! I wish you were my neighbors, you are so great and cute together. This video is spot on in every point.

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Thank you! 😊

What a lovely couple. Pleasure to watch your channel and listen to your messages

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Thank you so much! have a great weekend George Cheers 🍻

I love you two!! You're so positive and sweet, it's an absolute delight to watch your videos! A dear friend of mine's "financial advisor" told her she needs 5 MILLION dollars to retire... can you imagine? She is in a near constant state of worry over money. "Worry is the thief of Joy."... so true! I'll share this video with her in hopes it helps. Also, love Norms t-shirts, my favorite so far is The Police :)

@ThisIsOurRetirement

22 күн бұрын

Thanks so much we hope you’re friend finds different advice

I’m 72 and yes still freak out at the thought of dipping into the savings!! 😂😂😂 but we are planning our trip to Portugal! Thanks guys ❤

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

We hope you have a great time Nancy 🌺🙂

@nancyglassman9979

Ай бұрын

@@ThisIsOurRetirement you are so cute and very informative! We enjoy your videos 🩷

I sometimes travel with a friend who is still into buying souvenirs. Not me. LOL. I think once you've done a purge, you do not care about more souvenirs.

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

We agree more things to dust 😂😂 Cheers 🍻🙂

💙 it! “It’s Showtime”. Great view on retirement.

Your US viewers must save for health care expenses at "end of life". Those costs can be financially devastating.

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Thanks for watching Cheers 🇺🇸🍻🇨🇦🍷

@iangeorge6409

Ай бұрын

And in Canada there are valid concerns about affordable quality long term care.

@sherriv8615

Ай бұрын

My husband and I live in the USA - we are both retired and have good health insurance - but I have several serious chronic diseases and health conditions - our total medical and dental expenses for 2023, totalled almost $ 75,000 - that is money we paid out of our bank account for our medical insurance premiums ($20,000), doctor and medical procedure co-pays, prescription medicines, dental care (we both needed to have some extensive dental work), and prescription eyeglasses - and we worry about the future when one, or both, of us will need to be in assisted living or nursing home care - so we don't spend a single dollar that we don't have to - We don't have kids or grandkids to worry about, but we don't go out to eat, or take trips, or spend money on social activities - we live like paupers.

@sherrygaley4675

Ай бұрын

I do think that healthy retirees do not adequately prepare for health crises that can end up using more resources than we anticipate - either to supplement long term care or in home care.

@randymillhouse791

Ай бұрын

@@sherriv8615 That's awful. Why don't you consider having these things done in a South American country. The one I am retiring to is ranked higher in healthcare than the USA. To give you two examples: Male prostate and kidney exam. Female mammogram and pap smear exams. All in, $70.00 USD. My wife and I both got surround dental x-rays. $7.50 USD each. A family member of ours had a GI bleed that was not healing. He spent 40 days and nights in hospital. Since he has national healthcare, he paid NOTHING out of pocket. Seriously, the USA is a great country, but it is HIGHLY overrated in many aspects. I would NEVER retire here.

As a fellow Canadian, I chuckled at your comment about mainly bringing back "duty-free booze" from a vacation. I can totally relate! There are some favourite liqueurs I like to get in the duty-free shop, some almost half the price they go for in liquor stores here.

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Cheers Sarah 🍷🌺🍻

Sacrifice is hard not to do. The times we live in are scary.

Thank you, Tina and Norm! One of your best episodes! Great advice for the folks like us, who are following your journey through retirement life and 5-10 years behind you. Inspiring, calming, priceless!

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Our pleasure! Cheers 🍻🙂🌺

Thanks Norm and Tina. We just retired 5 months ago and we do worry about money. Of course we are getting less in pensions than we earned from working so right now we are worried if we will run out of money. Love you two ❤

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Congratulations 🥳 on your retirement we have lots of videos addressing how you feel please take a look at them have a great weekend 🍷🌺🙂🍻

@AlviSultan

Ай бұрын

🇨🇦 One formula to keep you financially happy, always keep your spending less than your income, still working or retired. Cheers ... 🙏❤🎉🌷💐😄

The best gift you can give your children is to downsize. Get rid of all that junk you aren’t using anymore. Nobody wants your “precious” china or all those tools that are outdated now. Face it. You don’t have time to read those hundreds of books again. Donate them. We managed a seniors apartment complex and it was just heartbreaking when a tenant died and the poor kids were let with having to deal with a ton of junk when they are already overwhelmed with grief. All that stuff is like a millstone around your neck keeping you from getting out and enjoying life while you still have it.

@Silkytoaster

Ай бұрын

Some of the best advice . So true . The book the gentle art of Swedish death cleaning . a must read

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing totally agree downsize makes it’s a lot easier for the children 🌺🙂

Awesome video ! I know too many people more in love with their money than living life to the fullest….and love the comment about being authentic !!!

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Thanks so much 🍻🙂

Great ideas.... also get your Will updated. I've seen a few older folks who enjoy getting the bargains at CDN Tire but shy away from the lawyers office.

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Great advice for us all 👍

We stopped saving 4 years ago, but somehow money still continue accumulating :)

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Hi guys isn’t that funny that seems to have happened to us too hope you both have a wonderful weekend Cheers 🍷🙂🍻🌺

@sct4040

Ай бұрын

Me too

@barfed64

Ай бұрын

@@ThisIsOurRetirementWe have a perfect weather over here, sunny and warm! We are babysitting our son's family dog, while our kids and families are traveling to Italy. :) Meanwhile, we spontaneously decided to go to northern Spain (Oviedo, Asturias) on a short trip in June. A lot of our trips are spontaneous, - we look for a cheap flight to Europe, and plan our getaway around that. Put Asturias and Galicia on your radar. Beautiful areas of Spain! We just keep going there (and to Portugal, of course!) Enjoy your weekend! Cheers!

@tonysomewhere5920

Ай бұрын

What's the secret?

@barfed64

Ай бұрын

@@tonysomewhere5920 I'm not sure there's a secret... If you were able to accumulate enough for retirement, it means you always were good with the money, - spending wisely, looking for good deals, etc. you'll continue doing all these in your retirement. We found out, that once you retire, your spending goes down. You have more time on your hand to find better deals, be it shopping or travel. I guess, you are not in a rush to make a buying/spending decision. Plus you don't need to save for retirement anymore.

I imagine that it's a big shift in thinking! Nose to the grindstone, paying a mortgage, saving for retirement, then FREEDOM. Also lots of elderly have survived wars, famine, the great depression. Then it's hard not to be frugal. Sadly, my mom passed this year and only started enjoying her money during the last few years of her life. At that point she couldn't travel anymore.

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Sorry to hear about your mum passing Melissa and that she didn’t get to enjoy more of her money 💰 it is very hard to from saving to spending . Have a nice weekend and thanks for watching 🌺🙂

Fabulous video. I enjoy your channel very much. I'm 60 and joined my local golf club and playing golf again now. I used to be scratch 30 years ago but put it all on hold to raise a family. We have SAVED and kids are grown. I don't feel guilt over playing golf and enjoying life again!!!

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Absolutely wonderful we are so happy for you when we first got married we always said we would have life after kids so happy for you too 🍻🙂

This is one of your BEST videos ever!! So true. But I think this is the wisdom that comes with life experience. Here’s hoping it helps some get to this point earlier. You shared it beautifully.

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Thank you so much Pam have a wonderful weekend Cheers 🍻🍷🙂🌺

Great suggestions. Re-evaluating relationships with unsupportive/negative relatives is big on my list.

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

That’s a very interesting point thanks for sharing 🌺🙂

I really needed to see this video today! It has snapped me out of the funk I was in and gave me permission (again) to enjoy my money. Thanks!

@ThisIsOurRetirement

7 күн бұрын

Wonderful!

“It’s show time!” 😂😂😂 love this!

Another idea for your future video. Many of my friends in theire 50 ties start thinking about keeping their young appearance by: botox, facelift, other procedures. Women take it really seriously when they are ageing. Huge issue. not even health. Appearance. They are losing part of their identity and ageing is scaring the hell out of them. Tina , you are aging gracefully, not doing any procedures. So, Idea on spending on yourself: is it just get greater experience with people you love. Or.. self-maintenance as well

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Interesting suggestion I Tina would definitely not being going down the Botox route !! To age gracefully wrinkles and all is who we are in my opinion Cheers 🍷🙂🌺

Congratulations on 48+ years.

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Thank you 🍻🌺

@marilynstuart7405

Ай бұрын

Love listening to you guys find you both very grounded and calm plus you give great advice ta!

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Thank you 🌺🍷👍

Showtime, guys !!! Stay healthy, wealthy, and wise !!!

With the high cost of housing in the Miami, I see many multi-generational households.

@ThisIsOurRetirement

29 күн бұрын

That is one solution Kathy Cheers 🇺🇸🍷🇨🇦

Yes = in USA, most people are concerned about health care cost at end of life!!!!❤😮 Therefore = always saving and AGAIN = Majority of people do not have situation as you two do. Just saying = you did work and save a lot, but so many are HURTING

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

We do agree but we all had choice’s and decisions to make during our life just saying …..🤔🤔

Lots of great advice as always Tina and Norm. I think for me one of the hardest aspects of retirement was that change in mindset from saver to spender. I realised some time ago on a personal level the joy you get from something isn’t necessarily related to its monetary value. That said, if you’ve always wanted something and you can afford it, go for it. When my Dad passed away I realised you only have so much time to enjoy yourself and so that same year I treated myself to a Tag Heuer watch I’d wanted for many years. I still have it nearly 20 years later and it still brings me joy to look at and to wear. I don’t think it looks particularly flashy and I certainly didn’t buy it to impress anyone, I bought it for me. It actually reminds me of my Dad, even though it’s something he would never have bought. In fact that’s why it does remind me of him. Travel and experiences are where my money goes now. I have been diagnosed with a minor medical issue recently for which I’ll need an operation. It makes me very glad I retired early and was able to do the things I’ve done so far. It’s highlighted the necessity to enjoy life while you have good health and also that we do take good health for granted. Enjoy the rest of the weekend.

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing Andrew and we wish you well for your operation , like you we are going for travel and experiences take care 🌺🙂

I agree with the “pay for experiences” mentality. Unfortunately my wife likes “stuff”. 🙄

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Sounds like a compromise!

@BF2021-kf8xz

27 күн бұрын

@@ThisIsOurRetirement good point!

Great reminder as I approach retirement that I need to shift the mind set to enjoy the fruit of my labor...I think it may initially be easier said than done ( but I plan to try hard ✈️). Keep inspiring!

Excellent video. No nonsense advise. I agree fully.

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it! 🌺🙂

You guys are great so positive!

Showtime can only begin when curtain comes on debt.

@ThisIsOurRetirement

28 күн бұрын

Definitely helps to be Debt free 🙂

Thanks Norm and Tina. Always nice to be remembered of those principles.

You guys are right. “It’s showtime”. 😂

I am so much in agreement with the sentiment of your message today ❤

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

That’s awesome thank you Anthony 🍻🙂

Great video and information 😎

Will be vacationing in Albufeira in March of 2025 for 30 days.Enjoying your videos & they'll give us a head start. Subscribed , from welland Ontario

@ThisIsOurRetirement

18 күн бұрын

Welcome aboard!

Happy Saturday...❤ you guys!

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Same to you Cheers Karry 🍷🌺🙂

Such great advice!! Thank you.

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

You are so welcome! have a great weekend Kristin 🍷🌺🙂

Fantastic post ! So much of what you said resonated with me/us. Thank you for putting into words.

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

You are so welcome! Cheers 🙂🌺

That was a great video, thanks.

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it! have a great weekend Cheers 🌺🙂🙂

Best “movie” advice you have shared that resonated with us. Made us stop and think! 🇺🇸🌴

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Love that! thank you so much have a wonderful weekend Cheers 🍷🌺🙂🍻

Well said

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Thank you have a wonderful weekend Cheers 🍷🙂🌺

Really liked this blog!! All so true.

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Thank you 🌺🙂

Round filing cabinet.....love that! Take care

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Have a great weekend Cheers 🍻🙂

This is perfect! 👌. Great message ❤

Great topic🎉🎉🎉🎉

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Thank you 🤗Cheers Dian 🌺🙂

Great points, well done!

Great advice! One thing to think about it is the cost of care you're going to need if you happen to live to be old because no matter what - your health will deteriorate in ways you can't imagine now. I have different friends who are taking care of elderly parents who were irresponsible with money in retirement and now their kids in their 50's are having to fork out tens of thousands a month on extra homecare /caregiving, meal prep, rides, certain not covered medications and the needs go on and on, not to mention private nursing homes many of which are $10,000-$20,000/month. This is especially tough when also having to support children in college especially with rents and home costs so astronomically high. All of my friends with hard working young adult children are going to sacrifice a ton of travel and flash cars in retirement so their children can have a home one day. In Canada, the big cities are well over $1M for even an infill, duplex or condo. In Alberta there is no rent control so landlords can double or triple the rent and they are at this moment, resulting in seniors becoming homeless because they have nothing saved and rely solely on gov't pensions. I think it's great to stay active and splurge here and there, but generally I'm team SAVE.

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing 🌺

@lillyofthevalley7937

28 күн бұрын

4 relatives in Asia, all in their 80s, have their own maid/ helper , cook and driver. Super affordable. They have health issues but like their quality of life in tropical weather.

Don't give money to your adult children and adult grandchildren. Just don't!

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Thanks for watching 🌺🙂🍻

@Beadgcfb

29 күн бұрын

Amen. Plenty of other advisors say the one thing that can single handedly torpedo retirement is supporting adult kids. Not taxes, not healthcare, not the market. That.

Simply love you two. 🙌🙌🙌

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Thank you so much have a great weekend Cheers 🍷🙂🍻

Happy Anniversary, great video

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Thank you so much 🌺Cecilia 🥂🙂

YES!!! I love all this great advice!!!! 👍🏼😀🇨🇦

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Glad it was helpful!🌺🙂

You guys are so fun to watch....This was a great video....and YES I am a subscriber....🤞you will get that plaque soon!!

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Thanks so much!! and for supporting us Ruth have a wonderful weekend Cheers 🍷🙂🌺

Loved this episode!

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Wonderful thank you 🍷🍻🌺🙂

I couldn't agree more! if you don't have your health... its truly so much.

Great advice

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Thank you 🍻🌺🙂

Agreed ! this is THE MOST right-on episode ! . . . btw, them binoculars look good on Norm ! LOL...

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Thats awesome glad you enjoyed it have a great weekend Cheers 🍻🙂

Perfect video! I really enjoy the content you provide.

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Glad you enjoy it! enjoy your weekend Vicki Cheers 🌺🙂🍷🍻

Loved this video! Such great advice ❤❤❤ wishing you lots of new subscribers

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

Thank you so much Sandra have a wonderful weekend Cheers 🍷🙂🌺

This is a very positive video! 😁 Thank you!

@ThisIsOurRetirement

Ай бұрын

You are so welcome! 🍷🌺