A red flag for me is how they speak about their ex. If they’re super reactive and have big emotions it’s a no go. Either they just aren’t fully healed or they are straight crazy. I was actually taught this in my Krav Maga class. It’s the quickest way to vet if the relationship is safe to enter.

@leoneranger9348

Жыл бұрын

Yes. Let the person of interest reveal themselves on dates, either good or bad, before getting intimate. Trusting your gut takes practice but our raw instincts never leads us wrong

@Ms92Independent

Жыл бұрын

Yes especially when they point out everything the ex did wrong but won't take accountability for there wrongs

@bandteesnblazers

Жыл бұрын

Agreed!

@lacieb716

8 ай бұрын

If every ex is crazy, that’s a red flag. If they can’t identify where they grew or went wrong, it’s a red flag.

Porn is so detrimental to relationships. Im so happy to hear male voices out there saying the same.

"Find a home in yourself before you try to find a home in someone else". Definitely appreciated this video Hindz, you have a lot of wisdom on relationships.

@liralee2377

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for such words m always sad and expect my man to make me happy while I dnt understand the meaning of happiness m always angry. U opened my eyes by ur words saying find a home in yourself dats deep 💯💯💯💯🙌🏾👊🏽👊🏽👊🏽

@CosmicGardener

Жыл бұрын

I really love this. I've had to tell people that I want to be in a good place before I start sharing myself or unloading my life onto someone else. I'd rather be in a healthier place because then my relationship is better set up to be positive. I feel that if I'm content with myself and in a better way in general that even if the relationship end it will be less messy and more amicable. I also know I can't possibly control or change anyone else so I focus on me and being better for myself

Mmm that’s sooo good “you start to look at people as objects for your pleasure” that’s exactly what happened to me - never again will I allow those types of guys into my life.

"We put up boundaries not to push people away but to actually bring people closer. Because the people who truly love us and respect us will understand these boundaries." This opened my eyes and more importantly my heart. Thank you.

We all needed to hear this. A refreshing reminder. Its sad we lost the connection. Especially in this generation. I was sexually active at 14. My heart hurts for the child i was, and still am. Im 17 now and I choose celibacy until my husband. As i heal my childhood wounds.

@immyownluva

2 жыл бұрын

🤍

@nykiabenit4466

2 жыл бұрын

wow i never related to something so much

@trujillozhuhai5283

Жыл бұрын

girl u are literally a child breathe

@natashahubbert4438

Жыл бұрын

I appreciate you sharing this. Love. ❤️

@MorganVeryMuch

Жыл бұрын

Cute

The internet has ruined human relationships, thats why I only pay attention to suitors who actually call me live and spend time with me. And not too many suitors out there who are brave enough to actually ask someone out in person rather than wait for a date on a dating site!

@davidtardao4329

Жыл бұрын

@joanna that makes total sense, but don’t let that erode your courage, because you are capable of overcoming that awkwardness

@mercygirlrocks

Жыл бұрын

@joanna i actually think what you are describing is super awkward. There is something called chemistry that you can only feel when you meet someone in person. I would never electronically ask someone intimate or personal questions without knowing them in person. For those of us who have experience dating before the internet , I can say that in person interaction is 100 percent better than interrogating a stranger electronically about their dating intentions or interests.

"date someone that knows how to live the life that you want to live" love that

Just notes for myself 1. Don’t date someone who watches porn. 2.Dont date someone who bounces relationship to relationship. They wouldn’t have given themselves time to heal. -should take about a year to see what u learned from the relationship & heal wounds 3.no first date tango, learn them and they learn u first.

@MorganVeryMuch

Жыл бұрын

Cute

@daniellegathings7651

Жыл бұрын

I feel ashamed this is me,

@arcticdogs556

Жыл бұрын

@@daniellegathings7651 Don't be. Be proud that you're able to recognize that about yourself so you can begin to make the changes you need to make to make your life better

@AnonYMous-fv1dw

Жыл бұрын

vital

@funnymomentsent.5131

Жыл бұрын

Why no to porn? Just curious I feel the same way as well.

I thought I needed a relationship, but I really just needed this guy's voice

@Anniemay20x

Жыл бұрын

Preach

"Slow growth is the best growth "

15:22 “date someone that knows how to live the life you wanna live and love the life that you are living…find someone where you can tap into each other’s frequencies and have a good time.” 15:37

I'm really feelin' this new side camera angle. Beautiful. And yes, this topic is much-needed, ESPECIALLY in this era of lovelessness and "Ew, feelings" and absolutely TOXIC cynicism about being in love and finding The One....

@gorgeousfrazier5903

2 жыл бұрын

Yess love the angle

"Don't date people who watch porn" 80% of men have left the chat

@ninjuhdelic

2 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately for some people it’s a wired hang up. It’s not a big deal unless you want control over peoples fantasy sex life.

@HINDZSIGHT

2 жыл бұрын

🤣

I had been beating myself up all month about the fact that it’s been a year since my ex broke up with me and I’m still not over it…very validating and affirming to hear someone talk about the grieving process of lost partnerships. I didn’t know it was common for it to take around 2 years. Thank you

@cornelwilliams1041

Жыл бұрын

This is huge. Last I was in a relationship was 2 years ago, and I am finally feeling to ease off of thinking about her everyday. I am creating healthy habits and rekindling with old friends. Life is a blast now, but I will never forget the past 2 years of grief and struggle trying to love myself. Thank you for your comment, Sonya!

@hunainm1501

Жыл бұрын

@@cornelwilliams1041 Hope you're feeling all better!

@mauriousb.

Жыл бұрын

I’m the same. I give myself at least 2-3 years after a break up before dating again.

@ladyofspa

Жыл бұрын

It can take longer than 2 years when you don't go no contact, I continued to talk see, even occasionally date, sleep with took years to stop reinfecting myself with this person. The brain in love is like the body on drugs.

@gemmastyles420

Жыл бұрын

It’s been 4 years for me and I can honestly say I’m over my ex. 🎉

“Getting ourselves in a situation that last 6mo to a year can cause grieving and emotional damage that takes 2 years to heal” wow 💎

I agree 100% on the healing process. It doesn't seem important at first, because after 5-6 months people believe they're getting better and can start to date again. I learned the hard way that healing is slow and never easy. I feel I'm lucky that my new partner waited for me to heal, got to know me better and then asked me to date. I will be forever grateful.

I was feeling a little discouraged on this subject. Not realizing so many others share the same ideas and values. It’s so nice to hear.Thank you for this!

@HINDZSIGHT

2 жыл бұрын

we out here

Thank you Hindz. I do love your conversations about love and relationships. About intentionally dating. One thing that I started practicing that you mentioned before, is to not think of others in a lustful way. It didn’t occour to me that it’s disrespectful and that we don’t have permission to day dream of others like that. It’s time to respect others and honor our minds and bodies.

@HINDZSIGHT

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly. Love it. Ima talk about this more in another video

@carolraydan9849

Жыл бұрын

@@HINDZSIGHT please!

@kimberlyturner820

Жыл бұрын

Amen.

There is a reason you felt led to make this video. Please bring more content around this subject. You have a special way of making sense of things… it really resonates with my spirit.

Watching this video I realised that my relationship is really blessed! Me and my husband where friends for 1 year before we had our first kiss, and we just kissed because we are soooo in love and cant take anymore ahahh. Everything was so perfect because we respect and trully love each other. I feel that we are going to be together forever, he is really my soulmate and I aways tell him that he is a gift from Yemoja (sea) to me. we trust each other so much. Also he inspire me so much and we both have a really emotional life story, we have been living a lot of dificult but we are always together and supporting each other. So… guys, be carefull, build your relationship in a strong rock, with a lot of love and calm. If the person is for you, God will take care of everything!

Yes to this whole video ! Especially the time to grieve and heal before going into the next relationship. We should learn to enjoy our own company and learn ourselves

YES YES AND YES. I was in a relationship for about 6 months, and ended up engaged. Broke it off when he turned out verbally/mentally/emotionally abusive, etc. Took me FIVE YEARS to even think about accepting being loved again.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽And saving myself until marriage (aka celibate/no sex my entire life so far) has saved me a lot of irreversible grief!! No lie...

I definitely agree with don’t date people who jump from relationship to relationship. I was that person who jumped from relationship to relationship, and I caused a lot of unnecessary pain, anxiety, stress and anger. I was nieve, I was young, I was foolish and I ended up hurting some of the people who I loved most. Now it’s time to learn to be alone and enjoy my own company. I didn’t think I needed this video, but I was mistaken

Perfect timing been having relationship issues and am finally moving on after 7 toxic years

@cevonnamarie00

2 жыл бұрын

Same here!

@lovelycabezita

2 жыл бұрын

I feel this

@HealingHoney

2 жыл бұрын

🙏🏽

@classycheeks4352

2 жыл бұрын

I'm here with yall. Prayers for healing from toxicity into healthly, whole, and happy relationships.

@sariadov6497

2 жыл бұрын

Congratulations!! You got this it’s gonna feel hard at first but never forget your worth you don’t have to settle for toxicity

I honestly love this video & topic. I've been celibate and "cynical" when it comes to love. I love love and the idea of it but became cynical because of how men react to me once they find out I won't indulge in sexual activities with them and the trauma I endured over the past 12 years. Now that I am 25 and healing and learning to love myself. I'm learning to be ready to accept the love I deserve than pushing it away out of fear of feeling I don't deserve it. I lie to myself about not wanting a partner but I do, so I am taking this time to keep working on me because I refuse to hurt someone who didn't cut me. And so far, I can feel that harden heart I've had develop over the years start to open again...finally. I trust God to lead me and my husband together, but right now I just need to be me fully.

@AoibheannDoyle-SoulTherapist

2 жыл бұрын

Bless you 🙏 💙

@sunnni_

2 жыл бұрын

@@AoibheannDoyle-SoulTherapist thank you, same to you love 🤍

@MillieAwna

Жыл бұрын

I felt this!!!!! Blessings to you & your journey ❤️🙌

@sunnni_

Жыл бұрын

@@MillieAwna same to you as well love 🤍

@knittedpainting

Жыл бұрын

Always be you fully no matter what 🙂

I've been jumping from relationship to relationship for 8 years. I turned 24 last week and I’m starting to heal those years in a more mature and responsible way. Thank you so much for this video ❤

I was stuck in a vicious cycle where I’d rush into a relationship then months later I’d be single again. I’ve finally learned my lesson to take things slow 🙌🏼

i've been in such a terrible, chaotic situation for 11 months. a constant loop of me knowing that i deserve and can attract better, but styaing because of the toxic familiarity. i appreciate your channel so much hindz

@kenzothekreator

2 жыл бұрын

staying*

thank you for this hindz!! people always ask me why i'm not dating and sleeping with tonnes of people cos i'm "single and free" but it really takes a true connection for me to even want to go for dinner with someone, let alone sharing a bed together. I believe quality over quantity. thank you hindz

Congrats on 600k, Hindz! Much love & maximum respect

My ex of 8+ years started a relationship immediately - their “anniversary” is the same week as the breakup… I’ve been single for almost 2 years now & that sadness still lingers for myself yet I also feel quite sorry for them. I realize those feelings are indications that I’m still tethered to my former companion. Continuing to tread onward, upward, forward & beyond!

this is probably one of my favorite videos of yours, slow growth is so important and I needed this as a reminder

The more we work on our own selves, the better we attract, in this case, a better partner and a phenomenal relationship. There’s no such thing as the “right person” (to an extend) we have to become the right person first! You got this, I believe in you and invest into YOU! Best investment you can ever do is in yourself for your family, others, future and lives overall! 💯% back guarantee return on your investment! Have a great day! 🚀🎉❤️

@daughterofzion2146

Жыл бұрын

Thanks

@NathalieLazo

Жыл бұрын

@@daughterofzion2146 you’re so welcome! Thank you! ❤️

I'm so grateful to have found you today. I'm going through a rough time and you have brought me joy, understanding, and the want to love on myself even more. I'm learning, after giving it all to someone else. Thank you for being so real🥰

More dating content please! Loved the way you spoke about setting foundations for something long-term against the backdrop of everything we see in the media and on social media these days - much needed 💕

Thank you Hindz for being a source of purification and wisdom for our spirits in this age of toxic consumption. I always feel realigned in my path after listening to you. Keep up the vibe tings 🌿🍵🙏🏻

This was such a dope talk. When you said we are currently in a “Pandemic of Loneliness.” That blew my mind. That was such an enlightened statement. You furthered it by stating that we have so many things that we can fill that time with, that we won’t even noticed the loneliness. That’s profound. I agree wholeheartedly with this. So many people are afraid to be alone with their thoughts and single right now that we have a generation of people settling for less than they desire in life. This talk was so good. Thank you for all the gems and for not forgetting your tea. ❤

It is so funny that as a young teen, I had such a healthy roadmap of all these things and knew exactly how a truly rewarding relationship would look and feel. I made way, way, way too many compromises over the years and fell into every last pitfall. Now, I am 49 and healing from major trauma after decades of having lived a life based on the wrong principles. I want to turn around to my 14year old self and tell her that she’s actually got it right and to not compromise on these things and to keep her standards high. This cannot be done, of course, so I am looking at my life and surprisingly enough, a lot of things did still work out for me. I live a pretty beautiful, abundant life with lots of opportunities. Opportunities I may not have had, had I not engaged with this lustful man for decades. Life is complex and hard to categorize. One thing I do know, though: I am coming all the way back to my former principles and values, no apologies about them. I get to pick up where 15year old me got lost in the turbulences of life. I get a second shot. I will not screw this up. It is a wonderful thing to see my values reflected in a mindful man, as for a while I had given up on males altogether. So glad to be assured now that good men do exist and they are out there creating content, influencing, or living a quiet, peaceful life away from the public, who’s to know for sure, right? In any case, thank you for filling me with hope on this fine day, kind poster!

The side angle helps me listen better 🙌 thank you for still being a major influence in my life ❤️❤️ I remember the dark day in my life where I had very little to grab onto for hope. Your video was on my search page on KZread ! That was 2 years ago, and I will always be grateful I found you that day, you saved my life.

We need more of these conversations Hindz , please...really loved this.

I felt attacked, which meant I really needed to hear this. You are right. I been struggling and would like to be a better version of myself.

I needed to hear this and to randomly find this channel. About to get 30, still healing from a really hard break up, not really knowing when the pain will dissapear and not really knowing when I'll be ready to even date again. All your words helped today, to feel more calm, to organize my thoughts. Thank you from Spain x

All of this is divine. I keep reminding myself to trust there are others in alignment with this message and living life joyfully with an open heart for this type of connection and partnership to be received. So beautifully said. Thank you.

I'm 15 (freshman in highschool) and I feel like i've been basing so much of my self worth on what men, or should I say boys, think of me. I focus on pleasing those whom I don't even like back, despite the fact that they don't truly know anything about me. Going into my sophmore year, I just want to learn to manifest and cultivate the vibe I want, even if it means getting rid of some relationships. I would love some more videos like this, thank you for everything :))

I’ve had anxiety all day and you’re the only person that finally let me calm down

Everything you’ve said…thank you so much Hindz. I needed to hear this and to confirm this once again within myself. After being in toxic relationships and being toxic myself. Thank you love❤️

you’re so lovely to listen to, and there’s always a sense of hope in what you’re saying. thank you so much for providing that so effortlessly. much love

I am interested in learning new perspectives of dating and relationships. Everything you talked about felt so good I was having “aha moments “ I also felt inspired about what kind of man I want to date. I’m totally going to listen to this again!!! So good!

Thank God for using you as a vessel for this incredible message. needed to hear this. I'm still healing from a toxic relationship and it's been about 10 months now. I was starting to think something is wrong with me, asking myself questions like.... Why am I taking so long to get over everything I experienced being with that my ex?. I now know that healing takes time and that's exactly what I'm going to give myself... Time and patience. 💯Much love to you Hindz.

I cried listening to these words as it showed me or made me feel like my current relationship is not what I want for myself.

"Slow growth is the best growth" 🖤. I'm 2 years in of Solitude & getting to know myself again ✨️

I want to say that I even enjoyed how honestly you put in that advertisement, not making it glamorous, just a quick switch up, aligned with all the awareness of body, mind and spirit you're spreading on your channel

Its wonderful to hear that someone else as well see the toxicity of porn, especially a man. Many people laughing it out but this is huge social problem

it’s refreshing to hear a divine masculine speak like this♥️Thank you !! I also have not been in the dating scene at all and hav evens spending the time to know and live me and prepare to be ready for my divine life partner! Thank you for the hope! Have a blessed week

Loved this video. A few months ago I left an emotionally and physically abusive relationship that I was in for 4 years..(since I was 19). This person did love me but is mentally really not okay and I'm starting to learn what things to watch out for and how to watch my boundaries better. In all honesty, every day is hard for me but I'm trying to take it slow and heal myself. Your channel teaches me alot and brings me peace on stormy days, thank you ❤

I’m on shrooms right now and your voice is the only thing that’s keeping me calm I’m always on 1000 mph in my head so thank you

I think this is definitely a great conversation to have. The world is sometimes so lust charged we forget that love takes time and needs to build. Love the topic!

Hey Hindz, I want to thank you for this video and its auspicious timing! I got out of a relationship recently that I still haven't completely moved on from. Your advice about people needing time to grieve after a relationship is especially impactful for me. I used other people as distractions straight after mine, and found that obviously nothing would stick because my perspective of them was always riddled with comparisons to my ex. Also, the p0rn trap - men who watch it often do not see women as human, and we need to be so careful about that. So much good and affirming new perspective as always, thank you!!

@edwingachaga807

2 жыл бұрын

I really enjoyed this episode, I would love to hear more.

You are so spot on! I don’t date Ever! I’m so content with being HAPPY with Me MY SELF & I. I honestly believe in meeting that special someone by chance or when the timing is right. Another words I don’t go looking for anyone. The universe will send that special someone to me and I will be ready to receive when that happens in the meantime I’m more interested in doing me I am quite happy being by myself I am ready to share my life with someone who’s just like me until then I don’t worry much about it.

This is a really good one Hindz. Especially hearing it from a person who identifies as male. A lot of times we even seek out these toxic traits in potential beaus/belles thinking it's cause their passionate. I loved when you said you might as well live as though you're already with your boo thang. And just be your highest version before you even meet.

This really was mind altering in the most enlightened way. I just know this is time for my own inner healing and this cast really echoed what is in my mind already. I’m here to live. I thank you.

Thank you so much for this video. I made two separate notes while watching. One for “how are their relationship with the following” and one for “how is my relationship with the following”. It is an awakening to have been aware of these things.

Love the fact that you use your life experience to allow us to understand what you're trying to explain to us. Connected with it

Please keep talking about relationships Hindz! 🙏🏽 This was amazing, thank you.

Hindz, Thank you so much. As a millennial, I was raised in a culture where one night stands and lustful actions were NORMALIZED by my friends. But raised in a spiritual household, my spirit could never catch on. I always felt ostracized bc of this--I was seen as a prude. And ppl even started questioning my sexual preferences. Thank you for bringing this to the public. I am reminded why I subscribe to your content! Jah!

@MzImperfectCrys

Жыл бұрын

You’re not alone loves ❤❤

@sunshinesunflowerz1647

Жыл бұрын

Same

@knittedpainting

Жыл бұрын

Same

love to hear someone i respect talk about Love. this was beautiful 🙏🏽 your video on love + lust is still legendary in my book

Your perspective is refreshing to hear. You also helped me see things that I've generally understood from a different angle. Thank you for sharing. Thank you for believing in genuine love and living a life in preparation for it.

This was Good, needed this. You made this a day before a situation transpired for me and it’s like dead on for me. This message possibly saved me some heartbreak. Truly.

This is really such a healing talk. Thank you

I’m a new subbie, this particular video was much needed! I enjoyed hearing your thoughts and perspective on it. I was relieved that I’m in alignment with it ❤️ glad to be on track. Taking things slow and having patience and watching for the signs is key. Much gratitude ✨🙌🏾✨

I always feel more aligned on my path after listening to your talks. Thank you.

It's nice hearing your perspective and you being clear about on what you believe in. I needed to hear this. It's encouraging as I open my mind and heart up to the idea of dating after 2 years of being intentionally single and healing. Dating as a single Christian mother pursuing purity is a challenge in it's self. The men who apply biblical standards to their lives aren't as prominent. My son is getting older and I'm praying I'll meet my husband before he's a teen but even if not I need to be able to point him in the direction of black men who he'll consider "cool" who are living out what I've been teaching him. He needs representation. He's never had a man in his life ever. No uncles nothing.. now I have him in sports and some of the men in church are around like in group settings now but they are all white and its not a personal relationship. So I try to collect age appropriate content for him. So I can show him that being set apart and not following the crowd is actually cool.. Thank you for you obedience to Jah😭🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤

I should have listned better last year when you posted this. Thank God It's still here for me to listen and learn again.❤

Spirit is moving me into better things in my journey and as I watched this video, I can’t help but believe it was 1000% meant to be🙏🏾 Oddly enough this is what I’m currently grounding myself in. I was victim & suspect to everything mentioned in this video and since moving into my own place I’ve had nothing but time to spend healing myself, learn, and having more self awareness to what needed to change. Watching this was confirmation my mind is in the right place. Once again, thank you for for sharing your knowledge🤍 Its been a year since I’ve found your channel and life have been sweeter since ✨👏🏾🤍🦋

Yes I’ve been moving like you’re already mine Hindz lol. But for real. I already said if it’s not you, a man that’s got the same qualities and vibe. And the hair pulled back with the earring looks so good! Being your full authentic self makes me more authentic as well. These mindsets are so rare. Hence why we’ve been single. Patience. I will never settle and will and have always been waiting patiently for the right one.

Ugh this video is amazing and so refreshing. You are a beautiful soul thank you for doing the work. Thank you for showing up for the universe and each and every person who needs your content.

Thank you for this video Hindz, i myself never bounced from a relationship to another but i did always find someone to fill a space due to emptiness. my ex unfortunately ghosted me about a year ago and ive been taking this entire time to heal, self evaluate and focus on my journey. Where i'm going next, i am not sure. but.. i can honeslty say i'm grateful for what i've experienced because maybe my approach wouldn't have been what it is now had i not grown to view this experience as a stepping stone in my life.

@laclairelcyy007

2 жыл бұрын

Definitely loved your POV on this !

@patrickcazer

2 жыл бұрын

@@laclairelcyy007 ​ @Elsia LeClerc its been tough, but as they say time heals all wounds. i spoke to someone yesterday and i mentioned my healing journey as my ex is living her best life. she responded: 'sometimes a wolfs howling is a result of pain rather than hunger' this really shifted my perspective. in no way do i want this individual to feel what i felt, but more or so learning that just because things doesn't work doesn't automatically mean someone is happy with their decision. hell.. sometimes these people are still fighting their own demons too and most of all its less about us and more about them

@laclairelcyy007

2 жыл бұрын

@@patrickcazer Wow ! That’s a great way to put it ! Honestly that’s normally someone coping mechanism when they are so quick to be living their best life . I truly believe they arent fully healed but they need that “distraction” so they can fill that void . Everyone comes differently so it makes sense ! I hope your healing journey goes well for you . I know the feeling it’s a on going process but once you do the work the road definitely gets easier 🙏🏽

@vSailorGoon

2 жыл бұрын

My ex , the day after we ended it he was already on tinder. But myself, still healing and building myself up. I know it’ll be worth it in the future. Thanks for this comment, made me Reevaluate my life a bit. I’m on the right track 💫 so are you.

@patrickcazer

2 жыл бұрын

@@vSailorGoon Thanks a lot :) i even tried that as well, but couldn't bring myself to do it.. its when i realized this time i couldn't use someone to fill a space i had to sit with this pain and accept it. we'll grow stronger, thank you for your words.

This was a VERY good topic, and much needed for my ears. Thank you my friend. You are much appreciated!!

Yaaay!!! This is a sign from the universe!!! Thanks so much Hindz❤️

This video is a masterpiece, i love it in so many ways and i needed this " confirmation" in my life also, i made some mistakes i believed in people I shouldn't trust and that broke me, i hope i heal one day!

Thank you hindz. I'm at home taking notes because I needed to hear this. I'm trying not to beat myself up for my mistakes made but life is too short. I'll be a better person now and will eventually end up with a better person later.

Your channeled has inspired and healed me in so many ways. I cannot thank you enough I come here all the time as my comfort spot. Thank you so much hindz

Hindz...you hit the nail on the head!! I'm almost 50 y/o and this is accurate..(among other things) e.g narcissistic traits. It's important to have good vibes, good connections and good intentions beyond the physical( lust) .The relationship will be better and have more value.

This is exactly what I look for before considering a relationship. It took me awhile to figure this out. Lots of time alone had me thinking deep within my soul. Thank you.

I think this is my favorite video you have ever created. In my lessons I have come to find these conclusions as well. As you confirm I feel more at peace and even more protective over these standards. When community supports your mind, the mind is stronger. Thank you

I loved everything about this. I’ve been gone from the tube a while and when I returned I felt a disconnect from your videos for some reason. Today we aligned and I always appreciate hearing your point of view. Thank you for being expressive with us today and sharing your thoughts. With love, Yasmeen

Thank you for reminding us what's really important. No need for new information, when I can just realign with what my true self already knows. 🦋

This video was needed, I loved it! I agree with what you said, but I have had to be honest with myself and realize it is okay to be alone. I love being alone but want to grow old with someone sharing life, but they have to push me, and support me as I will them I have encountered men that jump from one relationship to the next not realizing the damage they've experienced they've brought into our connection. Now I just meditate, journal, and patiently wait. Thank you Hindz.

I keep rewinding and pulling up what you've said. You're dropping gems

Fantastic topic, the talk I didn't know I needed to hear. I've done all things, ignored the red flags, stayed in a toxic relationship, bounced around, etc. I've never heard about the effect of a relationship can last two years and that you need a break in-between. This makes total sense to me. I've been single about a year and half now and I'm still not considering dating, I just don't want to do things like online dating or going to the bars. I've been moving through life expecting to meet my divine partner, I didn't realize it until you pointed it out. 💕

This video is so beautiful to watch... The things he is saying, the vibe, the voice, the backgroud.. Love this.

I just ran across your channel, and it was so enlightening spiritual and uplifting to see that you are so connected with yourself. The red flags that you were mentioning was very on point.

This is exactly what I needed to hear which is strange and lucky I guess I think I’m just settling for less because I don’t know what I deserve and what I’m worth But you’ve definitely just described the person I’m dating in all 3 red flags. And I’m not happy I havnt been happy.

Honestly your voice is just so soothing, I could listen to it all day! And plus you get so many wisdom on everything! I am very lucky to have find your content on KZread! Sending you all the great vibes.

Loved it . Thank you for being a light .it’s always a blessing to listen to you speak . 🙏🏽

Enjoyed this video especially when you said if your sleeping around your basically cheating on your partner that is possible out there waiting for you and how God is first and should be first!!! It’s always good to hear a man be transparent and honest! Thank you!

Your voice is so soothing to hear, and it really helps me listen and comprehend the message in a state of peace. I appreciated all that you had said. I appreciate all the vibes your soul brings to the conversation

Please have more conversations like this. Love love love 💕 God bless you 🙏

Thank you. From the bottom of my spirit, thank you Hindz.