Stop Chasing Women! The Secret Psychology of Seduction

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  • @ChildOfDarkProphecy1
    @ChildOfDarkProphecy17 жыл бұрын

    People are attracted to wealth. Physical, mental and spiritual. No one is attracted to lack.

  • @wowerman

    @wowerman

    7 жыл бұрын

    ChildOfDarkProphecy1 No.Women are attracted to men's wealth. Men gather wealth for future.However now smart men do not want to share wealth with women because women make no effort anymore.They rely only on their look amd those women have no values and life skills.

  • @MrTRONSTAR

    @MrTRONSTAR

    6 жыл бұрын

    ChildOfDarkProphecy1 Very True

  • @iDateAdviceiDateAdvice

    @iDateAdviceiDateAdvice

    6 жыл бұрын

    So true!

  • @avalon7024

    @avalon7024

    6 жыл бұрын

    Less is a More and More can lead to Greed What is Love?

  • @avalon7024

    @avalon7024

    6 жыл бұрын

    wowerman Fuck this ridiculous mind set, there are no Absolutes. "Every Woman and every Man" that thought will keep you free for now however you will miss the beauty of a true emotional loving connection . Anger turned into Bitterness creates hate, Division in a Society creates conquering there are very many women and men I speak for myself that quite honestly , I have my own money, my own home, my own car, those are things I own I do not nor have I ever tried to own another Man, Human Being or Person . Please do not become so jaded with whatever occurred with your relationships that created such a wound or governments that want us to do the jobs for them in a world of plenty there is no reason for poverty of any form . Love more,Hate less. Polly Anna has left the building but Reality is a Freedom to chose. .. where are you or I responsible for our part of relationship failures?

  • @Lilart1981
    @Lilart19816 жыл бұрын

    Men always lose money chasing women but we never EVER lose women chasing money.

  • @ahmadzahid4225

    @ahmadzahid4225

    4 жыл бұрын

    not true for all women

  • @sefyu501

    @sefyu501

    4 жыл бұрын

    A man who have a woman have all the woman but a man who have all the woman dont have a woman

  • @ahmadzahid4225

    @ahmadzahid4225

    4 жыл бұрын

    you were right the reason i wrote this comment 3 months ago was because i thought i made a girl chase me and fall in love with me . we went on dates i did 50 spilt everytime and at one point she paid for my food even though other times i paid for her food in the end i figured out she wanted to hangout with me because she wanted me to buy her pretty dresses like sugar daddy which i never did and she stopped hanging out with me

  • @Lilart1981

    @Lilart1981

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@an.drew_ That's a good point because women need attention like it's water but money is more important than a woman. Unless she's an amazing woman she's not worth it anyway and meeting amazing women is extremely rare so I'll choose money.

  • @ChronLogic

    @ChronLogic

    3 жыл бұрын

    Bullshit. Most guys in nice cars have no girl. Chasing money will not by default get you women.

  • @JerryTheMice
    @JerryTheMice7 жыл бұрын

    Desperation is a weakness that is best kept hidden in order to not get exploited. This applies to business, love, friendship etc.

  • @a1lyhall

    @a1lyhall

    6 жыл бұрын

    Giancarlo Lugosi but then people will know your hiding something, and trust is compromised. Be cool with your desperation.

  • @jpalpharo4304

    @jpalpharo4304

    6 жыл бұрын

    Giancarlo Lugosi the less fucks you give the more fucks you get

  • @dockcom

    @dockcom

    5 жыл бұрын

    Best way practice meditation daily and in tense situation focus on your breathing

  • @shadowwsk3507

    @shadowwsk3507

    4 жыл бұрын

    That means I can trick some one to be very desperate for something and then I will strip advantage of off them

  • @shadowwsk3507

    @shadowwsk3507

    4 жыл бұрын

    @A- DOG haha simple kid, money and power

  • @drewyetti
    @drewyetti7 жыл бұрын

    Don't chase after women, chase after success. Once you obtain success, the money comes and the women will follow.

  • @PUATrainingmedia

    @PUATrainingmedia

    7 жыл бұрын

    no need to ever delay being good with women, you can work on everything in parallel. the social skills you learn in the dating world help you in business.

  • @jaymcd8577

    @jaymcd8577

    6 жыл бұрын

    bingo

  • @markkhamiri5632

    @markkhamiri5632

    6 жыл бұрын

    100%

  • @jimmyboyles2868

    @jimmyboyles2868

    4 жыл бұрын

    And the GOLD DIGGERS will follow. Who wants a shallow bitch? Money doesn't always equal success.

  • @brandonlutcher2391

    @brandonlutcher2391

    3 жыл бұрын

    And will run your pockets, leave u broke and then you'll be depressed and left with nothing..

  • @anewloveofficial9137
    @anewloveofficial91376 жыл бұрын

    Chasing a person a lot will only make you look desperate. If you really like a girl then tell her, if she doesn't like you then go pursue another girl because that way she will regret not having you.

  • @thereddemon8706

    @thereddemon8706

    6 жыл бұрын

    Anewlove,com Official well said o wise one.

  • @crystallizationofthesoul7095

    @crystallizationofthesoul7095

    6 жыл бұрын

    Make a connection with her not based on her physical appearance and don't put her in a pedestal, make sure that you are not accepting any crap, or annoying behaviour even if she looks pretty! Make sure you value yourself over any self proclaimed "princess"!

  • @muchichinjk

    @muchichinjk

    6 жыл бұрын

    You are right

  • @blackcapone187
    @blackcapone1877 жыл бұрын

    side note: this sorta approach only works IF the girl likes you, otherwise you'd be forgotten in a few days or so

  • @ss1241

    @ss1241

    4 жыл бұрын

    yeah you know if she into or not. If she doent like she playing with you. King.

  • @synergyrevolution2332

    @synergyrevolution2332

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah buddy, I'm sure you know better than the owner of the company that produced the greatest dating coaches that are operating today.

  • @paulgodson798

    @paulgodson798

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@synergyrevolution2332 this only works if she is interested in you, why will she throw other guys over a guy who doesn't give much attention to her when she can enjoy her power over the desperate guys.

  • @synergyrevolution2332

    @synergyrevolution2332

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@paulgodson798 Do you value things you get for free?

  • @MRJTD99

    @MRJTD99

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@paulgodson798 Because she doesn't find the guys she has power over attractive because she has power over them. The fact she doesn't have power over you MAKES you more attractive than them to her. Sure, she'll still keep those guys around when she needs a confidence boost, but those aren't the people she sleeps with with. She sleeps with the guy who she desires ALA the one not giving her so much attention.

  • @rbfarrell1
    @rbfarrell17 жыл бұрын

    Women want control. Girlfriend or wife does not matter. They want to control the relationship. Never let a women think she can not be replaced. Even if you do not have other girlfriends act like you do. Women always want what other women have. If you make it too easy they get bored.

  • @robinpennineguy9791

    @robinpennineguy9791

    6 жыл бұрын

    Robert Farrell very true

  • @pinglankek

    @pinglankek

    6 жыл бұрын

    Its a pathetic game. I fully understand this game that has to be played but im so tired of it. I had a gf for over 2 years and i could instantly tell she would lose intrest if id stop playing this game. I feel like when 2 ppl genuinely love eachother, this shouldnt excist. I shouldnt have to make my future wife/gf feel replaceable to make her chase me or want me more. I hate this game, but im forced to play it

  • @jaymcd8577

    @jaymcd8577

    6 жыл бұрын

    @pinglankek It is exhausting alright, and if your a guy who doesn't understand 'the game' by your 30s I'd say you'll never learn and keep getting burnt, on the other hand understanding can leave you burned out , period.

  • @jaymcd8577

    @jaymcd8577

    6 жыл бұрын

    @Robert Farrell Yes, absolutely very controlling to more or less a degree depending on the woman.

  • @moonknight4053

    @moonknight4053

    Жыл бұрын

    I wonder if what u say is true, I’d like more ppl like psychologists, relationship experts, etc do more research on this. I’m not about doing that eh, that’ll kill me quicker then depression

  • @YZFMANIAC08
    @YZFMANIAC087 жыл бұрын

    Spot on. Datinggame is just like jobhunting, if you're too eager you're undervalued if you're not eager enough you wont get the job. Keyword in this game is balance in attention, affection and contact

  • @supaswagg251

    @supaswagg251

    6 жыл бұрын

    women flock to mi, problem is getting hourly not career. & don't have patience to build bitch, but if I was an ain't shit nigga the careers would flock to mi. because I'd represent my race correct.

  • @Cittamatra

    @Cittamatra

    6 жыл бұрын

    Mistah FTM 739 That made zero sense.

  • @MRJTD99

    @MRJTD99

    3 жыл бұрын

    I've actually never looked at jobhunting that way before, but you're super right. Everyone told me finding a job was "a job in of itself" but I was never worried about it, and never struggled to find one.

  • @mav6232
    @mav62327 жыл бұрын

    i was just talking to a girl about this (no exaggeration) 2 mins later i go on youtube and richards posted a new vid talking about it! I cant even vathom the coincidence

  • @xxuncexx

    @xxuncexx

    7 жыл бұрын

    No coincidence. In the Universe, everything happens for a reason

  • @BloodCrazedWarrior

    @BloodCrazedWarrior

    7 жыл бұрын

    what you "believe" is your subjective perspective therefore irrelevant to anyone else except you.

  • @skymoore3177

    @skymoore3177

    7 жыл бұрын

    BloodCrazedWarrior i believe you're a tool who tries to sound smarter than he is.

  • @BloodCrazedWarrior

    @BloodCrazedWarrior

    7 жыл бұрын

    What you believe is your problem, however your "beliefs" about me based on 1 comment shows your intelligence :D

  • @lenardosbornsjustice5948
    @lenardosbornsjustice59485 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this upload. The most interesting part for me is when you explained how a woman will like to have that feeling of power because in their life as the role of being a female they’ve never had it. I experienced this recently, and well find it fascinating. Woman are fascinating creatures and it’s really nice to have mentors out there. FYI if I had your accent dude all the girls would lay down. True story lol

  • @weekendsvideos7000
    @weekendsvideos70007 жыл бұрын

    this dude DESERVE billions of subs.... have a good one

  • @PretentiousStuff

    @PretentiousStuff

    4 жыл бұрын

    no he doesn't

  • @KookKok45
    @KookKok457 жыл бұрын

    you're the best. you've changed me and made me better at this

  • @dogstar167
    @dogstar1677 жыл бұрын

    i dont chase women i dont give them any attention at all, if they come after me good if they dont they dont i dont give a dame one way or another

  • @superman17n

    @superman17n

    7 жыл бұрын

    dogstar167 Perfect👍

  • @shaoqinglihu696

    @shaoqinglihu696

    6 жыл бұрын

    The truth is you do give a damn, you just don’t want to give a damn.

  • @avalon7024

    @avalon7024

    6 жыл бұрын

    Well that explains a lot, both sexes are ignoring each other. How is that working out for either party. Vulnerability is a Virtue. Vile behavior vs Love and Respect is resulting in a Master Manipulation Agenda to separate everyone of us. May you find joy either way. Make Love not War.

  • @robinpennineguy9791

    @robinpennineguy9791

    6 жыл бұрын

    Avalon very good and so true points Avalon

  • @RawDogTV

    @RawDogTV

    6 жыл бұрын

    Shaoqing Li Hu how the fuck you gonna tell another man how hw feels. Shut up

  • @maikakai5722
    @maikakai57227 жыл бұрын

    that's right ..self respect self love equality ..Men hold the seeds of life and these seeds keep regenerating our whole life so desperation isn't in our genetic makeup where as the clock ticks for females ..I'm sure glad I don't have this additional pressure to deal with.

  • @RUGGEDBREED
    @RUGGEDBREED6 жыл бұрын

    I stop chasing women and they chase me because I owe them money

  • @diana-cy4kj

    @diana-cy4kj

    6 жыл бұрын

    RUGGED BREED lol , that's probably the only way to make women chase you.

  • @alisaiful6717

    @alisaiful6717

    4 жыл бұрын

    😁 😁 😁. Creative way to make women chase you

  • @superstarvonhouston1

    @superstarvonhouston1

    4 жыл бұрын

    I work a song about you lol jkjk

  • @outreyoung7599
    @outreyoung75997 жыл бұрын

    True talk Richard, thanks for the wisdom...and the new vacation idea!🙌🏾

  • @soccerperfection9713
    @soccerperfection97136 жыл бұрын

    I love your calm demeanor. Really hope to replicate that in my life, but my own way. Thanks for the advice.

  • @JohnRenshawIII

    @JohnRenshawIII

    Жыл бұрын

    init hes so chill

  • @FatherOf0fucks
    @FatherOf0fucks7 жыл бұрын

    ... you give bomb advice , it s been a long time since I watched your videos , keep it up

  • @WaffleSauze

    @WaffleSauze

    7 жыл бұрын

    Romanus Rafael Amadeus the only time to use the word bomb is when you are eating some bomb as tacos or your describing a girl giving you head. other than that it sounds fruity as fuck.

  • @FatherOf0fucks

    @FatherOf0fucks

    7 жыл бұрын

    Carlos Blancas well I guess so , i m not native english

  • @andersfranz5367

    @andersfranz5367

    7 жыл бұрын

    Romanus Rafael Amadeus don't listen to him you can say "bomb" as an adjective whenever you'd like. It sounds fine

  • @WaffleSauze

    @WaffleSauze

    7 жыл бұрын

    World Peace that's what I'm saying lol

  • @jaisentorres7607
    @jaisentorres76076 жыл бұрын

    very well said , just subscribed , thanks for sharing your opinions . Good stuff !

  • @tonygambino5905
    @tonygambino59056 жыл бұрын

    One piece of advice. I have been with over 700 women, and no brag. I'm not always proud of it as I have been divorced multiple times and picked up some STD"s along the way. But one piece of advice: Don't EVER tell a hot woman that she is great looking. Maybe after you have shagged her but don't ever say that. Secondly, you need to exploit there inner needs for attention that they likely didn't get in their childhoods, so you want to get them feeling abandoned in some way, emotionally. Start out by saying something like "So tell me something interesting about yourself?" That way you are making HER prove her value to you.

  • @jaymcd8577

    @jaymcd8577

    6 жыл бұрын

    Nice, cheers. Just two quick questions? did 700 pussies all end up feeling the same in the end? no joke just curios...and HOW did you find the time!?

  • @stinglacson

    @stinglacson

    5 жыл бұрын

    700? God damn!

  • @hernstv

    @hernstv

    Жыл бұрын

    Damn! King Solomon had 700 wives too! LOL

  • @98Ashb

    @98Ashb

    Жыл бұрын

    Is there any way you can find out about their inner needs, any questions that get into that?

  • @papitrapstar1575

    @papitrapstar1575

    11 ай бұрын

    Ur BC 700 or u jus met 700 n howoldu

  • @jackdaniels2657
    @jackdaniels26575 жыл бұрын

    It seems like the best advice for gentlemen is just to be yourself nd nkt really try. Cus less is more. It all happens naturally.

  • @kal2l
    @kal2l7 жыл бұрын

    i have probably seen and heard from 500 dating experts across the years and only you and one other american are the best at it not just because you have 'Game" witch you do but its because you are actually decent people that seem to have a desire to get more in the future and not just chase girls forever , i hope for all the happiness to you and all Brother good luck and cheers . :-)

  • @PUATrainingmedia

    @PUATrainingmedia

    7 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @saulosegurado1
    @saulosegurado17 жыл бұрын

    Great video Richard! Thanks for sharing it.

  • @flonkas
    @flonkas7 жыл бұрын

    Brilliant Advice. And you present it in such a calm way, love your videos man.

  • @15LaDell
    @15LaDell7 жыл бұрын

    so basically it's the matter of perpetuating that you have inner peace with yourself self-confidence and self-worth. It all ties back to spirituality everything we do in life

  • @theodorejonathan6460

    @theodorejonathan6460

    7 жыл бұрын

    help us....you are a woman

  • @smartcatcollarproject5699

    @smartcatcollarproject5699

    7 жыл бұрын

    Spirituality... Money is the only God for most people !

  • @Sirjean5
    @Sirjean57 жыл бұрын

    To an extent you're right BUT women prefer mystery and a bit of both. You can't be outright ignoring and distant coz they are also emotional they might take it the wrong way .. You can't also be too desperate . Either of the extremes would put them off so a little of both and also depends on other factors , as the 'type of woman', 'how long you've known her' , 'How much she's attracted to you' and so on. There is no perfect way of dealing with women, it's all about discretion and moderation with anything

  • @dakk3
    @dakk36 жыл бұрын

    Girls like the guys that challanges them in like making impact on their behavior or on their mood. Thats why lots of the girls are testing men, if u feel bad when a girl is kinda ignoring you then you're too needy for them, but if you dont change ur behavior, keep going strong and positive she is gonna be interested;)

  • @enoch5000
    @enoch50006 жыл бұрын

    This kid is kind of light! He has good points Heavy rock \m/

  • @13TrafalgarLaw
    @13TrafalgarLaw6 жыл бұрын

    You look happy in this place, it fits you I think.Thanks for the cool advices

  • @alperumut6670
    @alperumut66706 жыл бұрын

    The universal fact that works in every culture, every society

  • @pr5pr
    @pr5pr7 жыл бұрын

    I think he want to say that you shouldn't be needy , and when you build attraction you should tease?

  • @rowo175

    @rowo175

    6 жыл бұрын

    yes i am a man and even man hate needy person , the only needy thing i like is my cat

  • @colloredbrothers
    @colloredbrothers5 жыл бұрын

    Every person has his/her own vibration and some vibrations are harmonious together, when you meet someone like that everything becomes effortless, you just have to learn through experience when something is a waste of time and when something has substance. Also you cannot have fear of approaching, because when you have eye contact with a woman you might be in sync with you need to make that first step, and this is what PUA taught me, I don't cold approach women to see how many numbers I can get, but I do use their philosophy to make me fearless when approaching a girl I DO like.

  • @1337Horde
    @1337Horde7 жыл бұрын

    spot on as ever!

  • @justinJ689
    @justinJ6897 жыл бұрын

    best advice I have had in a while

  • @ChristIsKing99

    @ChristIsKing99

    6 жыл бұрын

    y Rehman

  • @betterbodies4u
    @betterbodies4u6 жыл бұрын

    I'm to busy chasing my own passions and interests to worry about chasing women . Here's some advice focus on what matters to you and be proactive people in general can sense a man who's building success vs. a male who's reactive and is living for the moment. Example start with they end in mind picture where and what you want to be playing head games is old news .

  • @tubatikoushik3291

    @tubatikoushik3291

    4 жыл бұрын

    Sam Fitt then why r u here?

  • @holychronic
    @holychronic7 жыл бұрын

    The mating rituals of humans are unnatural in this day & age.

  • @Pieherto
    @Pieherto7 жыл бұрын

    I dont think this is good advice. I am not saying that your view on woman psychology is incorrect, I just think the advice won't help unattractive people to become attractive. As an example playing unattached (unneedy) works well if the girls likes you in the first place, if a girl doesn't really like you , she will not care at all if don't pay attention to her. I would advice men who struggle a lot with girls, to just learn some social skills like being funny or being able to connect with people (that will make people like you in the first place).Becoming attractif will happen by itself the moment people like spending time you, it does not have to be trained (why do you think naturals do everything right?). Don't try to act different, stay true to your emotions and increase your awareness and change will come by itself. You will only learn that neediness is unattractive, when you acted needy and the girl left !

  • @SilverWave64

    @SilverWave64

    7 жыл бұрын

    That's my problem. Girls don't care at all about me. If I act like I'm not attracted to them, they don't care one bit.

  • @Pieherto

    @Pieherto

    7 жыл бұрын

    yeah thats why a lot of pick up advice while not being wrong, is simply not helpfull. I would adopt a mentality of thinking girls are attracted to the whole package. That means they do are attracted to looks, status, humor, kindness, courage (facing yoour fears!) and many others very basic aspect of life. A rule of thumb is, girls are attracted to you when you are happy, so you should focus on improving you overall happiness and girls will come by themself!

  • @DivinePlant

    @DivinePlant

    7 жыл бұрын

    Creative Vibes Yeah, I feel like the type of girl I want to be with should be able to sense authenticity or lack thereof. If me trying to not act needy appeared forced it really would interfere with the connection and the process of building the relationship. When I visualize cutting down half the texting I do now with girls I'm talking to or just trying to play the cool guy and say I'm doing stuff with friends all the time they honestly would just get turned off and feel like I'm giving them signals to piss off or I'm interested in someone else. I don't see that approach benefiting anything, maybe with girls you've just met to spark interest (being unique from the needy stalker types she's used to) or give yourself more perceived value, but with girls you've been interacting with not sure it's the wisest.

  • @itsaboutthattime4425

    @itsaboutthattime4425

    7 жыл бұрын

    Creative Vibes very true

  • @ChildOfDarkProphecy1

    @ChildOfDarkProphecy1

    7 жыл бұрын

    Dress better (keep up with yourself), try to stay in shape and stay busy with work/play (busy doesn't = playing video games). Do all that and you won't have time to feel depressed or unfulfilled.

  • @carrolltonpal
    @carrolltonpal7 жыл бұрын

    That was great info

  • @RasanSamarasinghe
    @RasanSamarasinghe7 жыл бұрын

    Welcome to Sri Lanka Richard :)

  • @emoney316
    @emoney3166 жыл бұрын

    this guy is so on point never compliment girls on their looks i do think once in a while its ok to give a compliment about an outfit she is wearing or something about her personality u may like or if she is a good artist u can say thats a good drawing u made. Once in a while in moderation, but NEVER tell them they are beautiful bc then you are giving them the gratification they want so they have no motivation to wanna sleep with u and will slot u beneath them

  • @diana-cy4kj

    @diana-cy4kj

    6 жыл бұрын

    Erik DiNardo Your comment says a lot about you - you don't feel a man and have about zero confidence.

  • @emoney316

    @emoney316

    6 жыл бұрын

    +Ddrsdd D facts!

  • @diana-cy4kj

    @diana-cy4kj

    6 жыл бұрын

    Erik DiNardo You're welcome.

  • @diana-cy4kj

    @diana-cy4kj

    6 жыл бұрын

    Erik DiNardo This guy is talking out of his arse - he went to Russia and hired a match making agency to get him a Russian wife. That says it all you need to know about his "success with women".

  • @brandonlutcher2391

    @brandonlutcher2391

    3 жыл бұрын

    Never compliment women.. unless if ur a simp

  • @DreamBeatsBakery
    @DreamBeatsBakery7 жыл бұрын

    I don't chase em, I duck em. - Wiz Khalifa

  • @andrebryant9464
    @andrebryant94647 жыл бұрын

    all the depends on situation and who you are dealing with blessed is the man who knows how to navigate all situations...basically be a good reader of what's needed some guys have it some dont...some may learn some won't!

  • @PUATrainingmedia

    @PUATrainingmedia

    7 жыл бұрын

    yeah it can be learned for sure. I definitely didn't have it and made all the possible mistakes.

  • @andrebryant9464

    @andrebryant9464

    7 жыл бұрын

    +Richard LaRuina we all have my friend

  • @whitestar8717

    @whitestar8717

    7 жыл бұрын

    I know all this sort of behaviors have some play into it, but honestly it's mostly just about attractiveness if a girl likes how you look, then you don't really need all these other " tricks ". I know from experience. not trying to be rude or anything. Think about it. What gets you into a girl? its basically if shes hott you're into her. just liek girls are into guys they think are hott and attractive. Im not the hottest guy out there, but i have my own look and girls find me attractive and i don't really seek them out, ive never seeked girls out , they just try to seek me out. of course not every girl will think youre attractive etc. but im just saying. Girl will know if shes into you a few moments within meeting you. and you can try to do all these tricks and stuff as much as you want but it wont make her think your hott or anything.

  • @Righteous1ist
    @Righteous1ist6 жыл бұрын

    You got to know when to chase and when not to.

  • @isaackakarot4314
    @isaackakarot43144 жыл бұрын

    This makes sense since women love validation not giving them a lot of attention makes them think you are different from other guys and she starts to improve her looks and do her best to impress you and not all those guys that don't value their attention to women,Wow this redpill really is truth.💯

  • @dr.faheemraja4916
    @dr.faheemraja49167 жыл бұрын

    why i didn't watch your video before.o my GOD its really awesome.i'm kinda in this condition.

  • @biczo4
    @biczo47 жыл бұрын

    Do not play game! Be yourself! Everyone has different personality and style. You will find your real partner if you don't pretend. Game will give you fake, because you play a fake yourself.

  • @jaydee6178

    @jaydee6178

    6 жыл бұрын

    Norbert Biczo 👌👌👌

  • @totalanonymous8180

    @totalanonymous8180

    6 жыл бұрын

    far S lol gotta love that blue pill... I've had my heart broken too many times, all about red pill, and utilizing psychology to manipulate women and bend them to my will, cause if we don't, they'll sure as Hell do it to us, as we see on a daily basis...

  • @bambostarla6259

    @bambostarla6259

    6 жыл бұрын

    Lol. Your own method could work but if game gets you girls, you are at an advantage and will be more effective. Now you mustnt be fake or tell lies, but psicology gives you the high ground, and why not work with it

  • @bibirose7120

    @bibirose7120

    6 жыл бұрын

    @Norbert...the way of who you are is quite different from dealing with a woman.just like the perspective you have while making money is a different from the perspective on spending the money..I believe that's all I can say..

  • @mayadeeb8293

    @mayadeeb8293

    5 жыл бұрын

    Norbert Biczo j

  • @jackscalpel8447
    @jackscalpel84475 жыл бұрын

    Haven't seen Richard post much lately. I like him cuz he focuses on the V be man puts off

  • @tjd4600
    @tjd46006 жыл бұрын

    Nice advise straight to the point

  • @joseph233382
    @joseph2333827 жыл бұрын

    Makes so much sense

  • @tonebeatz24
    @tonebeatz247 жыл бұрын

    Every woman is different depends on her mood. Every woman has their own different personality. It all depends how she talks and acts. You have the ones who are shy, talkative, eye candy, and some who are nerdy. Depends who they are. Then some are bad girls or hoes to. Not all women are saints.

  • @jaxx443
    @jaxx4437 жыл бұрын

    this video is so on the point.

  • @Anon-bl5mx
    @Anon-bl5mx7 жыл бұрын

    All depends on the type of women and the situation.

  • @megaman468

    @megaman468

    7 жыл бұрын

    Spin that wheel n pick a vowel that price is right to bad most guys can't put it together until someone spells it out ..

  • @sanctuaryism
    @sanctuaryism6 жыл бұрын

    I just watched this video for the nice surroundings you are in there richard. looks like a nice place there.

  • @PUATrainingmedia

    @PUATrainingmedia

    6 жыл бұрын

    yeah it's a very beautiful place!

  • @WoEpl0x
    @WoEpl0x7 жыл бұрын

    I agree, you know what you're talking about

  • @voetjerz
    @voetjerz7 жыл бұрын

    thanks for doing this ;)

  • @freshmediaconcept
    @freshmediaconcept4 жыл бұрын

    Good video

  • @fabiofabiano923
    @fabiofabiano9233 жыл бұрын

    Great, Richard!!

  • @TroijanSkinhead
    @TroijanSkinhead7 жыл бұрын

    will test this on my wife first

  • @darmasta

    @darmasta

    4 жыл бұрын

    Haha

  • @TiagoWolf
    @TiagoWolf7 жыл бұрын

    the game is changing we men are shifting from afc or rafc and even pua's and simps to actually mgtow. men are starting to invest in themselves theire time their independence either monetary or sexual. when we do start to not giving them attention we change the game. the future is #mgtow investing on the personal value. then demonstration of hsv becomes natural and guess who comes around for some kino...?

  • @IllDawgable

    @IllDawgable

    6 жыл бұрын

    TiagoCupido Luis so many abbreviations brov...please,break them down

  • @ajhustlafarax8315

    @ajhustlafarax8315

    6 жыл бұрын

    TiagoCupido Luis kino? U from Danmark Or norway?

  • @akolashwill7131

    @akolashwill7131

    6 жыл бұрын

    TiagoCupido Luis idk what you’re talking about but I’m sure you’re right 😂

  • @michelen5728

    @michelen5728

    3 жыл бұрын

    Gold diggers? Have fun with them chasing your money! Not you, it’s just your turn.

  • @andrewmaksymowicz8338
    @andrewmaksymowicz83387 жыл бұрын

    my second time listening to this video, helped me pull in a really hot woman. that relationship ended in tears however a refresher brought me back to the moment where I was on top of my game. I ended up discarding the woman :/ it was hard, but watching this video brought me back to November last year. All is well

  • @ferdinandchizema7445
    @ferdinandchizema74456 жыл бұрын

    This is so Real OMG !

  • @Deathhybr1ds
    @Deathhybr1ds7 жыл бұрын

    nice one !

  • @factopolis7752
    @factopolis77527 жыл бұрын

    Damn right it's been a while

  • @frankh2322
    @frankh23227 жыл бұрын

    I'm currently dealing with this issue & I already have almost 7 presents for her. she's in California & coming next month. I've ignored her but just enough for her to be curious. she also wants to talk to me when she's drunk or high. Any suggestions Richard?

  • @jameskrichena1254
    @jameskrichena12546 жыл бұрын

    Wowww!!! Bro... Your from my neighbour country 😊nice advice

  • @catch22fit
    @catch22fit6 жыл бұрын

    Some good advice to consider

  • @markkhamiri5632
    @markkhamiri56326 жыл бұрын

    This dude knows what he is saying !

  • @PCProphecy
    @PCProphecy7 жыл бұрын

    Sup Richard, just wondering... do you still go out to clubs and bars to meet women? I've been in the game for 4yrs now and after 1yr I stopped going to bars and clubs. I even stopped daygaming. What I've done now is simply go out with purpose (ex: buy a shirt or pants) and I notice women cat calling, complimenting or approaching me. I don't really pay much attention to them and when I'm actually talking to them I don't exactly turn my body towards them; they have almost become irrelavent. I'm currently in a relationship, which at times feels like I'm sharing my time... I've continued to cut more and more time off from communicating to focus on what I feel to be my purpose (1hr per day and see each other 2 days a week). That's enough about me though, I'm curious about where you find yourself now... do you still go to clubs/bars, have you found a new purpose, or perhaps started a spiritual journey?

  • @PUATrainingmedia

    @PUATrainingmedia

    7 жыл бұрын

    Definitely got sick of clubs a while back. They are not the best way to meet women if you really know what you are doing.

  • @PCProphecy

    @PCProphecy

    7 жыл бұрын

    ***** I agree & kinda figured that would happen. I guess the night scene is just a phase.

  • @BAlvn-yr6ej

    @BAlvn-yr6ej

    7 жыл бұрын

    I agree. The quality of women is also very low in many cases, and the booze, noise, etc.. creates just... a mess...everything is fake and forced, and few people are being their real self, etc. Money is also involved creating even more insincerity and pretention, etc. Cafes are a lot better, if you want to go somewhere with the main intention of meeting women.

  • @PCProphecy

    @PCProphecy

    7 жыл бұрын

    B. Alvn Yeah basically; its rare to find quality at a bar. Most women that go mainly care about looking better than the woman next to her. Eventually their looks fade and they become very miserable because of a lack of self development. Cafe, bookstore, or really anything that is part of the day scene is normally where you can "maybe" find quality. I heard Jason Capital say it best, he said, "Always... and forever remember this... it doesn't matter how good looking a woman looks on the outside, they all have one thing in common... deep inside their all like fat chicks... full or all sorts of insecurity... always wondering what other people think of them, etc..." I'm not here to bash women, but rather, once you've been in a relationship long enough, you realize a very important lesson. There is more to life than just women. Anyways, I can keep going, but I may as well just sit down one day and write my own book.

  • @BAlvn-yr6ej

    @BAlvn-yr6ej

    7 жыл бұрын

    PCProphecy feel free to keep going...you have one reader in me. i can tell you are a wizened vet, which i suppose i am too but i am also here trying to get insight...you just don't learn this stuff in school, and chicks absolutely keep it all hidden, as you point out. its like, as much as they love, well, love, and attention, orgasms and snuggling, and companionship, they surely don't want to make the keys readily available...one of the big tragedies of the world, really...and for that matter, why can't women learn from the French and actually try to seduce men any more, or at least be aggressive some of the time? maybe it is about the insecurities you mention, that have been instilled in them by the dominate culture.....i will go on a limb and say the reason for that too....if everyone was fucking all the time, they'd be worse consumers, never go to church, work less, get sick less, ...in short, it would be bad for the economy and for the lazy bastards in places like DC and The Vatican, etc. do i sound radical? bitter? well, it's one possible theory, anyhow...

  • @Cameos0
    @Cameos06 жыл бұрын

    Very great! Thank you.

  • @danex2206
    @danex22067 жыл бұрын

    I personally never believed in this reverse psychology bullshit of being attracted to people who show they don't like you. If you completely love and respect yourself why would you waste your time on people who do not care? It's a twisted mentality. Love yourself, set principles, and create a beautiful life. The chicks will follow. Period.

  • @PUATrainingmedia

    @PUATrainingmedia

    7 жыл бұрын

    It's not showing you don't like them, it's just being cool with it and not giving too much. Most guys who have tried being honest about their feelings have gotten dumped every time.

  • @avalon7024

    @avalon7024

    6 жыл бұрын

    Thanks to Mr Panda, a voice of reason in the midst of unreasonable extremes.

  • @avalon7024

    @avalon7024

    6 жыл бұрын

    Richard LaRuina What I believe occur s when you honestly state your needs and wants to someone, Thanks so much for your Courage to be Honest however the Honest Truth gives Choice which is a good way to get to a good start however it has a 50/50 chance of going in your favor. I am grateful when I know that a sincere honest approach occurs. You may not get laid immediately but you have really shown such Valor which over time leads to trust and respect which will at least be a good faith effort. I have not met anyone that likes to be manipulated . With Immediate Gratification at our figure tips with say a Tinder App I feel we have forgotten how to respect, desire, and give each other a little space and time. It really is worth a few more dates to see for yourself if you like someone. I will agree though that men have been " left a lot paying for dates" with little return and yet neither one of us want to feel like a prostitute concerning our meal. lol

  • @khaliladam9952

    @khaliladam9952

    6 жыл бұрын

    You're fuckin noob

  • @beazt4life
    @beazt4life7 жыл бұрын

    very informative 🖒

  • @kinimediagroup
    @kinimediagroup6 жыл бұрын

    I get what he's saying and used to believe in that until I just got tired of the game. I just gotta stay true to who I am. I'm very aware of social cues and etiquette but I'll tell you exactly how I feel and what I want...that's how you weed out the dummies who are into silly games. Not saying that I'm totally straight fwd and tell you I want the draws on the first date but I won't wait for a couple of days before I call you just not to seem too eager. I'll hit you up as soon as I feel like it. If you can't handle it then you're just not for me. No pussy is worth me losing myself by playing silly games. There are WAY too many fishes in the sea. There is always gonna be somebody out there who will appreciate what you bring to the table. Just be aware of who you are, know your flaws and work on them. Strive to be the best version of yourself and everything else will work itself out.

  • @sterlthepearl1000
    @sterlthepearl10006 жыл бұрын

    As soon we we leave, memories slowly fade, and new flirtations arise.

  • @rens3207
    @rens32077 жыл бұрын

    hey I met a women and I really like here and I chased here o much and she doesn't know what she feels for me but she feels something she is afraid because she had a bed ralationship before we decideto to leave it and maby it will happen in the future what should I do please can you give some tips

  • @p.cap.7903
    @p.cap.79036 жыл бұрын

    Ive chased a girl for 3 wks, i would text every few days, she would take long to respond so i stayed at her pace but it was mutual for the first week then she slowed down and i kept the same pace of texting every fews, she would not reply at times then id wait another few days, waited a week on my last text to her no reply to my final gm text so i stopped, we hung out twice and after that she was just busy when i asked her out 2 more times. I havent heard or texted her for 2 months. I still think about this woman, even though it was just 3 wks, i never spilled my emotions, kept the convo as fun as possible n never asked dumb questions. Ive thought about texting again, im very attracted to her and dont know what to do, hate the thought of moving on entirely.

  • @kabil1994
    @kabil19945 жыл бұрын

    I am from Sri Lanka 🇱🇰

  • @Stunnedstudios
    @Stunnedstudios7 жыл бұрын

    Be very flirty when you are with them, and completely ignore them everywhere else.

  • @PUATrainingmedia

    @PUATrainingmedia

    7 жыл бұрын

    yep!

  • @diana-cy4kj

    @diana-cy4kj

    6 жыл бұрын

    Stunnedstudios That's beyond stupid...

  • @bambostarla6259
    @bambostarla62596 жыл бұрын

    Richard I love the way yoy explain your steps! I love playing games and think of strategies of doing things and the game of love and attraction never really interested me until now. You are giving me a nice headstart, might consider getting your stealth attraction at some point :)

  • @justBrowsingin
    @justBrowsingin7 жыл бұрын

    DUUUUDE U BEAST!

  • @Terrel3000
    @Terrel30007 жыл бұрын

    This was genius!

  • @ilbatteristazen4922
    @ilbatteristazen49224 жыл бұрын

    What's the name of the new Cialdini's book?

  • @jhonjohnjonjondoe5011
    @jhonjohnjonjondoe50116 жыл бұрын

    lol this advice is so spot on

  • @chrisjoshua5463
    @chrisjoshua54637 жыл бұрын

    Hey Richard how's it going? I am a bit confused,I've been watching many KZread videos on how to get women etc.. I've been watching this guy called Justin Wayne" you probably heard of him,the way he approaches women and sleeps with them on the same week or day is incredible,so now my question is what is the difference between what you are saying and what he is saying,as in what's the purpose ?? Is he chasing the women or

  • @henkspermatank2266
    @henkspermatank22666 жыл бұрын

    damnn nice info for real haha made me laughing also you speak facts

  • @jonathantovar5126
    @jonathantovar51267 жыл бұрын

    This is true!

  • @ShaneKimbley1
    @ShaneKimbley17 жыл бұрын

    Hey Rich, I was wondering how this translates when in a long term relationship. I feel being a gentleman and doing nice things is a part of my character, but I always aim to keep things mutual in relationships. Would you say that the key to not chasing in a relationship is by keeping the effort and attraction as close to equal as possible, or do you have a different perspective on this? As always thanks for the videos man, enjoy your time in Sri Lanka!

  • @eyesburning

    @eyesburning

    7 жыл бұрын

    There's nothing wrong with doing nice things in a relationship as long as you do it because you want to. Just watch out to not fall into being needy. Keep having a drive in life that is independent of your partner (e.g. could be work-related). Also, you should not think about "gaming" your partner...you should be feeling totally at ease. As long as you are the best self you can be and you ground your happiness only within yourself then everything will go well.

  • @PUATrainingmedia

    @PUATrainingmedia

    7 жыл бұрын

    Hi Shane, yeah I do the reward and punishment thing where if they are good I am good, but if they do anything bad like being lazy or selfish or rude then i back off a little myself (punish) until they come back and behave well again. That is the way of keeping the balance so that you are not working hard while they take you for granted.

  • @ShaneKimbley1

    @ShaneKimbley1

    7 жыл бұрын

    Richard, great that's very helpful. Would love to see a video addressing how to manage a positive relationship and how to get laid more frequently, while remaining monogamous of course. I realize this is a really direct topic so its understandable if you wouldn't want to tackle it, but any tips would be greatly appreciated! You've helped me so much over the years, not only in regards to women but with developing my confidence and social skills in general. Just wanted to say how thankful I am to you for sharing what you've learned in your journey.

  • @Dryumina8
    @Dryumina87 жыл бұрын

    Whats the name of Cialdini's book?

  • @rbfarrell1
    @rbfarrell1 Жыл бұрын

    The thing I like most about this guy is his honesty. He gave his honest opinion about western women and that he would rather live and date women in Eastern Europe because they are more feminine and fit and in shape.

  • @irsute8833
    @irsute88336 жыл бұрын

    Thoses advices seem pretty legit to me.

  • @capricornwolf101
    @capricornwolf1015 жыл бұрын

    Hey, you look at your girlfriends phone and she's got some guy contacts. What to think or do?

  • @LiqCharles
    @LiqCharles7 жыл бұрын

    how do u let her know u like her then?

  • @anandchaudhary2540
    @anandchaudhary25407 жыл бұрын

    Well Richard great tactics man!! You do still night game or day game now???

  • @PUATrainingmedia

    @PUATrainingmedia

    7 жыл бұрын

    I'm in a serious relationship. But my most recent gaming was a mix of everything but with a big component of social circle.

  • @Raise.the.Bar.Training
    @Raise.the.Bar.Training7 жыл бұрын

    There are typically exceptions to every rule and I guess thay I am one because when a guy acts aloof etc., I lose interest because I feel as though he's a player. So, I move on. The good guys win with me.

  • @ahmedhoosen5388
    @ahmedhoosen53887 жыл бұрын

    PLEASE EMAIL ME THIS ANSWER, Should I get her a present if she invited me to her birthday party?

  • @hqlife5128
    @hqlife51287 жыл бұрын

    When you realised you literally made all the mistakes. Well now I know why I was rejected

  • @VirginiaRhyda
    @VirginiaRhyda7 жыл бұрын

    My mind is wired to be pessimistic so, I feel that if I don't text a girl often or give her compliments then she just will eventually lose interest and we won't continue to talk anymore, because for the most part women don't ever text first, how do I combat that?

  • @JakeXLS

    @JakeXLS

    7 жыл бұрын

    Mark Bullock II just work on not texting them. text them to make plans and then talk in person. that's it. do everything you can in person. attention is good to a POINT, but you have to show her that you're an individual. you're your own person, and she needs to see that she's an addition to your life, not the main focus.

  • @PUATrainingmedia

    @PUATrainingmedia

    7 жыл бұрын

    of course you need to text her first, and to arrange dates and whatnot, but it's the unnecessary texting that I am sure you are guilty of that would be great to cut out. Trust me, texting her some dumb unnecessary message is what stops her thinking about you. Compliments too, try cutting them out before sex and see how much better your results get.

  • @J90JAM

    @J90JAM

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@PUATrainingmedia What about on first dates, will she not be pretty disappointed if you don't even say as much as "nice dress", they work hard to create a good first impression.

  • @YouCantHandleDisz
    @YouCantHandleDisz6 жыл бұрын

    True to some extent but this can go very wrong

  • @JorgeGeog
    @JorgeGeog6 жыл бұрын

    After I talk to a girl, I don't usually text a lot to girls, specially the ones that I like but I don't get that effect that girls chase me or keep thinking about me.

  • @Arneaud
    @Arneaud7 жыл бұрын

    the only thing i hear is dint give gifts 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @djjustice8772
    @djjustice87726 жыл бұрын

    Wen u in love like my big sis taught me.wen u in love wen a women. Called u and show interest. U it. Don't matter who called who if she likes u a women should b able two call u anytime y'all. Call each other amen