Omg I loooove skilshare ! I just did this amazing class called Flow on demand about taping into flow state. It is a state where we feel our best and perform our best. It was AWESOME and my solo dates no longer feel awkward at all 😅

"Standing out is just as hard as being average. You have to choose your hard."

oh yes baby, people will stare if you're in your beauty & happiness ✨ let them.

@priyakarthic1406

5 ай бұрын

Yeah..am experiencing tat..

Yep, I’ve had to learn that people aren’t even fully sure of who they are. How can they tell me who I am?

it feels like you're reteaching me things i intuitively knew as a child. thank you for everything!!

@prettysag

5 ай бұрын

omg i’ve never heard of anyone relate to this as well !!! i wonder why when we get older this type of wisdom leaves our brain. i was so wise when i was younger🥲 i miss HER

@VickitaTrivedi

5 ай бұрын

so happy to be on your journey!

@VickitaTrivedi

5 ай бұрын

@@prettysag shes still in there ❤

@prettysag

5 ай бұрын

⁠@@VickitaTrivedii believe so too!🥲 you telling me this makes me feel so much better! it’s like reassurance, thank you🩷

@tanikae966

2 ай бұрын

​@@prettysag I swear, I've been feeling the same! there is so much I intuitively knew and tossed away( or conformed to the eay everyone wants me to be). I keep finding myself saying I have to get back to that version of me . The videos I find the most helpful( like this one) reinforce, that I knew what I was doing and I had a strong sense of self . I think we try to adjust ourselves too much to the world and others around us . Now we have to reintroduce ourselves to the carefree side of ourselves again.

I've been watching your videos over a year, and your advice, anecdotal evidence, and stories are SPOT ON. In less than a year I became a stay at home wife, have a loving husband, and my small dreams I had as a child are coming true! ♡ Thank you for spreading your light, intelligence, and beauty.

@jessicaviviana8559

5 ай бұрын

Omg so happy for you 😍

After being with my 59 year old amazing boyfriend, I’ve definitely learned to release others’ judgments 😂 they’re miserable, not me.

@Mmmmkaaay

5 ай бұрын

My mom says that men don't even mature until they're 50, so it makes sense that you would be smitten with him. 😉

@Tionaintown876

5 ай бұрын

Omg Saame with my 53 year old 🤭

@Anoirmori

5 ай бұрын

This is a thing now? How old ARE y'all?

@adastraa11

5 ай бұрын

Not sure how old you are, but dating an old man will age you fast

@Mmmmkaaay

5 ай бұрын

@@adastraa11 That depends on the man. I live in the Pacific Northwest and many of the men over 50 here are in incredible shape and love to be outdoors. They're biking 50 miles on the weekend and going on backpacking trips. Age doesn't have to mean sitting in front of the television and rotting.

Anybody else experience that since having high standards and stepping into high value woman it feels like it’s hard to find someone that fits the standards? I feel like no guy can impress me now

@sharleenmike7373

5 ай бұрын

It's a struggle. I am no closer to find anyone and nothing will ever impress me except deep genuine interact with actual adult musculine man and it's hard to find these men.

@Nare1313

5 ай бұрын

@@sharleenmike7373 frrr girl but theyre out there. And many of them we just need to persist and not settle :)

first monk is a real sigma ngl 🥶

1. Solo dating. explore yourself so that when somebody makes assumptions about you, you can reassure yourself and so that you are okay with yourself. Solo dating-->Connect with yourself on a deeper level. 2. Stop accommodating other ppl's opinions. Understand ppl giving their opinion on your life has to do with them, giving their opinion on your life helps and feeds them in some way. Don't be attach to anybody' else's opinions or version of themselves.

Oh my days YOUR HAIR IS ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS!!!! Love the content too :)

Wow tell me why I got all dressed up to go out but then felt nervous because I am always over dressed. Everyone else dresses the same!!

@Laurynlavish

5 ай бұрын

This video is just for me😂❤❤❤

“Gatekeep Your Life” 💯 “Detachment is a spiritual discipline that helps you escape mediocrity.” 🏆

Thank you thank you sweetie, I really find motivation in your videos, only yesterday I was thinking about how much I’ve learned 🙈✨💖

Your videos give me strength. ❤

My girl looking BEAUTIFUL in red!!!!

As a stoic and someone who favours Shaolin, I absolutely LOVE that story about the monks. Was so happy to hear it again 😊

@Niniriina

2 ай бұрын

You react pretty emotional for a "stoic"

@Val.Kyrie.

2 ай бұрын

@@Niniriina I’m sorry, how?

@Niniriina

2 ай бұрын

@@Val.Kyrie. Dont u read your own comment? It screams emotional. "I would ABSOLUTELY LOVE to hear that story, Was SO HAPPY to hear it." You dont have any control over your emotions, like at all

@Val.Kyrie.

2 ай бұрын

@@Niniriina sure. Cool story bro.

@Niniriina

2 ай бұрын

@@Val.Kyrie. If you write multiple comments about what a stoic person would do, you should actually act like one and not be a little smartass:)

Wow you communicated this so well and clear! Thank you

I totally agree! Deciding not to dwell on other people’s opinion of me was honestly so freeing. Side note: red is definitely your color!

LOVING your videos! Thank you for great refreshers of this stuff!!

Goooosh, I needed to hear this. Thank you Vickita

KZread therapy. Thank you!

Such a great content! You have skills to explain facts and solutions! Keep going girl🔥

Where do you read/hear your fables? I absolutely love them. ❤

Hey Vikita, I'm Wairini You have no idea how hilarious the average monk thing sounds to me right now 💓❤️💓

Love your content ❤

Thank you! 🌸🤍

You rock Vickita😘 keep going

You are remarkable ❤❤❤

Thank You So much Vickita! ❤‍🔥✨

This is one of your most important videos 🙌

Good video

love it!!

Thank you very much 😊😊😊

great vid thanks babe ❤

Awesome video, thanks vicketa, really needed to hear this❤❤ such perfect timing of this video, ur the best🎉❤

well come on sis!

Amazing video, which answers many of my questions! thank you so so much for your wonderful advice, Vickita❤❤‍🔥❤

Thank you for this video and advice ❤

So good. Thank you❤

Love this video!

Girl I love you u inspired me to make my channel:)🤍

Create more videos like this i stay alone and i am in process of things you told

Must needed words

What video are you recommending on detachment? I didn’t see anything populate when you mentioned it

loveeee youuuu

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Appreciate this… But I must say … Islam already teaches this so effortlessly you already stand out in your appearance and know your divine purpose from the get go… it predominantly preaches standing out when it comes to pleasing God and keeping him as the ultimate source of safety and confidence.

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Excellent content, but if someone steps in front of me wearing a fur coat they’re getting a kick on the back of their knees. This is coming from someone that would spray paint fur garments of people who’d walk past me in my teenage years.

@_nicolecarmela_

5 ай бұрын

You’re a queen

@tnt01

5 ай бұрын

Classy.🤮

@enarjey9894

5 ай бұрын

@@tnt01 exactly, parading around in fur isn’t classy at all.

@tnt01

5 ай бұрын

neither is spray painting a human being.@@enarjey9894

THIS 8:53

Great vid, but fur coats are ugly and cruel…unless they’re faux ❤

@briskettacos

5 ай бұрын

Plastic faux fur coats are terrible for the environment! As long as the fur is ethically harvested and naturally processed, it's biodegradable. Do you remember the campaign to save trees by switching to plastic bags? I do, and it's the same crap.

@Mmmmkaaay

5 ай бұрын

Are you vegan?

@_nicolecarmela_

5 ай бұрын

@@Mmmmkaaay Yep, for 11 years

@_nicolecarmela_

5 ай бұрын

@@briskettacos Respectfully, I have to disagree. The idea of "ethical fur" is simply a myth perpetuated by the fur industry to justify their practices. Most fur comes from factory farms, where animals endure unimaginable suffering in confined spaces. The waste produced by these farms, along with the toxic chemicals used in fur preservation (to keep the dead flesh from rotting), significantly contributes to pollution and environmental degradation. Claims of high welfare standards are repeatedly debunked by investigations into fur farms, that show shockingly horrible conditions for animals. The production of faux fur, despite some of it being made from polyester, nylon, or acrylic (which I would assume are materials you may wear often), typically requires fewer resources and emits fewer greenhouse gases compared to fur farming. Advancements in sustainable materials and manufacturing processes continue to improve the eco-friendliness of faux fur. But there is also a faux fur called ECOPEL which is made from hemp and recycled fibers. Ethical fur is a myth. Faux fur is not only a more ethical choice but also a better one for the environment.

@enarjey9894

5 ай бұрын

@briskettacos no such thing as “ethically harvested” or “naturally processed” fur garments, unless it has been shaved off of the living animal (like sheep, alpacas, and highland cattle). Everything else is needless torture, murder, and waste.

Trump is the epidemy of your advice, would have voted for him last go around if he looked like you. lol. Thanks for the vid, it was wonderful.

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