Monique Parent You are filling a void. There are a lot of young women on you tube telling about their life and talking about being independent, but there are not many women who would humble them selves to tell the truth about what it is like to live on your own and figure out how to survive and shape your own life when you are older. Problem is there are many women that are in their 50s and 60s who's husband have died or they are divorced, or their children live far away, so they are on their own trying to refigure their lives out. I really wishing you the best and hope you continue to be prosperous from your You Tube videos/ blogs. It is very refreshing, keep it up. One of your followers😘 I really hope you are living healthy because you deserve it, but what makes you successful is sharing the good and the bad. I am interested to see your videos when you turn 60 because I still think your type of videos will be helpful and will be needed. 👍🍀‪. The issues you talk about are the things that most younger people think you should have it all figured out by the time you are 50, but the truth is everything is changing with your body aging. Many women this age are trying to figure out how their make up, dating, eating, exercising and other parts of their life can be adapted and reconfigured to survive and most importantly be enjoyed. You are a beautiful person inside and out. Thank you for being you on You Tube!

@victoriabell2447

6 жыл бұрын

lori1rain yes my husband died when I was 56 and he was 58. I am disabled and depended on him. I can't live off my disability checks. I need to pay others for help, which is even more hard. Thank you Monique for being honest about the real world.🙌

@suzannecampbell2260

6 жыл бұрын

So true. I’m learning. As well. Think this Channel is Awesome....

@suzannecampbell2260

6 жыл бұрын

Yes thank you I’m glad you are doing what you love. I lost both parents. I have a grown Son. Yet we are not connected. It saddens me yet. It’s his choice. He has his family. So I watch KZread. To have a Social life. Thanks for being so honest. I admire truth. I can do something with the truth. Lies I can do nothing about. 😎

I moved from philly to florida by myself no car no money nothing...sleepless nights hungry times, sweaty bus rides but here i am today own a house, car, finances are ok new friends and life is good... we can do anything if we are determined...

im 52 and just left california to move to texas. left pretty much everything behind and sold my car to afford the move. 3 months later.... things here are incredible!!! i was sooo broke!! but my kids were counting on me!

I respect you so much for doing this video. This week I've had it up to my ears watching KZreadrs showing everyone what they've bought from the Nordstrom sale. It's nice to see someone not so caught up in buying stuff. Love you Monique

@ccrgrl

6 жыл бұрын

Cindy Staff , I'm with you on the Nordstrom haul videos!

@cyragetsjournaling5328

6 жыл бұрын

Cindy Staff I'm a thrift store girl. And i give myself a $10 limit and I only allow myself discount tags. :) I do have a few thrifting videos. Lol!!

@marylafrance9547

6 жыл бұрын

I am also tired of the Nordstrom hauls. There is life beyond shopping

@TheDesireeFox

6 жыл бұрын

O--M--G!! Nordstrom sales are nothing compared to the KZreadr's that show off their new Ferrari's and there was on fairly successful guy that bought his mom a MILLION dollar house!! There's another girl that's 24 that just paid CASH for a custom built 4-door Jeep Wrangler with a removable hard top!! Lol! Then she did a few videos where she had like a hundred Fenty by Rihanna boxes set up as her backdrop. And, about a week later she was just talking about life, in general and was complaining about how she has so many Subscribers that direct message her and tell her how big of fans they are and go on to tell about people asking her for money or to help pay for their honeymoon, etc. And, she goes on to say that she doesn't have a lot of money and she certainly doesn't have it to give away to people that she doesn't even know!! Well, while I agree that it IS a little tacky to ask your favorite KZread personality to pay for your honeymoon, I also think that if she/he weren't SO in-your-face about what they're able to buy from these SAME FANS that watch her videos, then she wouldn't have this issue. I am SO glad to have found you, Monique, because you're my age and have lived "that life" like I have and aren't afraid to be honest. I also SO ENJOY the fact that I don't have to constantly stop your video and look up what a word means on Urban dictionary!! LOL! My mother was listening to your videos with me and she said that I should purchase a camera and start my own channel. I told her that I have been thinking seriously about doing exactly that for several months, but I've gained so much weight due to my health issues and having been on a medication that has made me gain a LOT of weight so I'm not sure if I'd be comfortable doing it. But after hearing your stories, I think I might actually have something to add. From trials and tribulations to starting over more times than I care to admit, you may have just given me the courage to share my story. Thank you both for this video!! Desiree

@napamoonlight9997

6 жыл бұрын

Cindy Staff - OMG, that blasted Nordstrom sale or the damn VIP sale, etc., etc. I can't, and won't do any type of haul, I am not into conspicuous consumption, nor do I have the money to do so if I wanted to. I have stopped watching haul videos, they anger me and I find them so needless. I can't even watch my favorite youtubers show off their hauls unless it's from a thrift store because you never know what goodies they found there.

Haha....what is it about 50? I quit a "good" job and moved to China to teach English. When I got sick and came home, I fell back into the rut of a job I hated for five whole years. I felt like such a failure. But you can start over at any time. At 58 I quit again. It took a couple of years, but at almost 63, I've been living a life I like for three years. So it might not work out the first time, but just keep trying, keep changing, keep growing. Don't stay stuck.

I don't think I have ever been so affected by a KZread video. Congratulations for being brave enough to make things better for yourself even though the journey was a struggle. I have recently given up a job that did not make me happy and I felt so guilty. The relief now is tremendous. I hope that your channel goes from strength to strength. You deserve your success.

I'm recommending this video to my Soul Sisters who were victims of domestic violence/financial abuse. These narcissistic men who we finally got the guts to leave, tried to destroy us and our children. Many of us got little to no assets. As in my case, my children and I got the clothes on our backs and a car with no engine. I know women (over 50 age group) with PhD's who ended up homeless due to the emotional abuse. The job market for women over 50 is extremely limited. So, reinventing yourself does become a challenge. Congratulations on finding a way to make it work!

@SkyAngelNYC

6 жыл бұрын

SoulSistersSurvivors Sisters I'm one of you too. Yes we can! One day at a time. It gets better. Freedom is priceless, we are worth it.

I love that you took time for those kittens while re-centering yourself. Breaking away from the old life is always hard, but sometimes the cords need to be cut.

Oh dear Lord, I'm in awe! I'm speeches! I will support you and watch every ad and every video! You have put a lot of things in perspective for a lot of people! I also really enjoy your friend, she's a natural, not awkward at all!!! Bless your heart, I promise you will be in my prayers, you are amazing!! I'm just in awe!!

Perfect timing! I'm months away from my 49th birthday and I'm literally starting over from nothing. Thanks for sharing your inspiring experience.

@angelahuffman7581

6 жыл бұрын

Monique Parent keep sharing more about this inspirational topic, please.

@polifonyann

6 жыл бұрын

Angela Huffman wow!! And here I am worrying about starting a music career at 45. Smh.

I think I just fell out of my chair! This is me! I can't believe I JUST found your channel! LOVE IT!!!!!!

I am 51 and starting over. Thank you for this. I have been living scared for 7 months that I will be let go from a company merger. Even though I have not lost my job yet, I can feel the wear and tear of living like this. A few weeks ago I decided I wasn't going to do this anymore. I really like the job I have, The people I work with and I'm not running away from it, but I'm not gonna live in fear anymore of not having it. In the last 3 weeks I have been overhauling everything financial in my life and making changes. I have been starting a virtual assistant online business. Besides financially and work-wise, I have been doing the personal overhaul, too. I found you on KZread when I decided to stop coloring my hair. Seeing this video today I appreciate your story. I'm right there where you were and I hope to get to where you are. I understand going in the store and not being able to find anything worth buying. I have moved six times in the last 7 years and in doing so I've learned that there are very few tangible things that I truly need. Even things that are sentimental to me I have learned to take a picture of and then donate or pass on to my son. I feel weighed down when I have too much "stuff," now. Anyway, keep sharing and know that there are folks out here listening & learning!

Starting over as a widow. Totally get this.

Monique, I am 57. Even though I only have a few grey hairs, I am so inspired by the fact that you have decided to go all grey, change your life, and just be YOU! I have decided to go back to school, and either get my masters degree in nutrition (My B.S. is in Psychology) and become a Functional Nutritional Couch. I have had a year of severe ups and downs with my health, (I was diagnosed with Hashimoto's disease) and although I did eat healthy (I cook mostly from scratch) I went gluten free for my health, along with many other dietary changes. Who would think that a few simple diet changes, along with some hormones which were lacking) would make such a change in my life! I not only had to relearn baking (crying about pies and cakes not tasting that good) but had to reinvent myself in the kitchen! I am an avid baker, cook, homesteader living in the country in the state of Oregon. I do everything like my grandmother did, bake bread, garden, sew, can food, etc., and when I went gluten free all the sudden I didn't know how to make simple things that I have had years of experience making! WOW! Talking about starting over! But, you know what, I got better, lost weight, got my health back, and felt WONDERFUL! So, although I had to take baby steps, now, I don't even miss flour! I do cheat once in awhile, when I make something for my husband, and take a small helping of pie, etc., but I don't crave the flour dishes I used to make, like heavily sugared cupcakes, pies, etc.! I just don't want that in my body anymore! Now, my idea of a great treat is a spinach smoothie with fresh strawberries, banana, yogurt, organic whey powder, flax seeds, nuts, etc. I have gotten so much more healthy, and although now my husband and I have been going through some other changes, my diet is so rock solid that I don't eat the bad foods when stressed. I reach for the healthy ones, and I am learning to deal with stress by exercising more (I go for long hikes in the mountains where I live with my two dogs) and, I am looking at life in a way just like you said, "Changes happen, and I can do this". I was afraid that I was getting too old to try something new, take some new challenges, and start over. But, hey, this can be done! I am living proof, and although sometimes painful, we will get through this! And, once we are on the other side, hey, we say to ourselves, I like me better! I am happier, healthier, and a better, friend, mother, wife, daughter, etc.! This is life, LIVE IT! There are no do-overs, or re-takes like in the movies! (By the way I have studied acting and was actually in a few commercials, modeled, and in some movie of the week episodes! )So, yes, I know about the biz! And, I must say you are an inspiration Girl! You ROCK! So, I thought that I would just share that with you, and your followers! God Bless, Debbie :)

@skywriting33

6 жыл бұрын

Deborah Eckardt

@BadgerandBee

6 жыл бұрын

Deborah Eckardt, wow, I am inspired by your message as well! I need to cut way down on my carb intake (I'm a sugar addict) and at the moment I'm back and forth between good days and cheat days. I know once they're out of my system I'll be less impulsive. Thanks for sharing your experience!

Monique, I am so inspired by you! I just turned 60 and have been forced to start over due to a divorce and a succession of problems dating back 3 years. I had a massive heart attack, and my son was diagnosed with cancer all at the same time that my husband was having an affair. My world has been shattered and I don't mind telling you, I'm still not well. At night I watch your videos and I feel hope. I think that maybe I too can get to a better place. I'm sorry to hear about all you have been through, it must have been extremely scary. I do feel however, that you were meant to end up doing these videos, for you are reaching a multitude of people with your positive and enlightening messages. I wish you well and hope you will continue to thrive in this environment. Thank you for your encouragement!

I'm actually starting over. I started nursing school after my son had a car accident, he was 16, he lived 27 months with a brain injury before he passed away. While in school I was offered a job with IT COSMETICS, worked through school. I was recently offered a job with Tom Ford, and I made the decision to put nursing on hold and explore this because it makes me happy! I have been nervous, but the thought of enjoying what I do is so appealing. Thank you for sharing your story! As humble as you are I'm sure you don't see it, but you are the apetamie of strength, most people would not have persevered the way you have in my opinion! I'm just wowed by you!

@Tgghj_vr

6 жыл бұрын

Thank you both! I love this place of support and empowerment 💚

@debtkansas624

6 жыл бұрын

Melissa Jones. You go girl & love the life you live.✨

@annmarieknapp

5 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry for your loss. You derserve happiness. I think you are very strong and admire you.

@webdarling

5 жыл бұрын

So sorry for your loss. I lost a son in an accident too, and its great you have had the courage to do what makes you happy.

I've been there Monique and am right now, at 59. No one understands the sorrows until they live it. It's been alot of hard hard work, struggles and prayer, and that's what I'll continue to do. If your young, and reading this, please don't get into a relationship, except with God, take your time, and find his steps he tells you to take. Don't learn the hard way.

I'm so sorry you had to go through that. Thinking back to some of your videos, and how you joked about the Year of Austerity, you were clearly coping with severe problems, but like all of us do, you were putting on your best face. The one where you got the gift packages, when you were so emotional, was that where it started turning around? Thank you for sharing, for your honesty, I can see how difficult it was for you to tell us about your troubles. But as usual, your message is uplifting and full of hope. Thank you. Norma - hugs'n'kisses

I think there is a reason i found your video on the day it was published. Perhaps when i launch my youtube channel my story will be a starting over too. I'm at my lowest point in life, i've disappointed so many people but more importantly i've disappointed myself. I so desperately need to reset and start over and your story will serve as inspiration for me to do so and if i succeed know that you've changed someone's life. Thank you.

Your video resonates with so many people on so many levels. We live in a society where the majority work to live. I love watching your videos, they're natural and down to earth.

Love how you showed compassion for those kittens even though you did not have much, and the universe bestowed you with success in return. I wish more would help animals in distress. They so depend on us today for their survival. Thank you Monique.

This is so inspiring! Thank you so much for sharing. I feel like it came to me at a time I was feeling very discouraged. I love your channel!

Great vid as always. My initial thoughts are to organize a "ReinventCon" for those who desire or need to build up the reinvention muscles. Life gets better after 50 ...if we approach it with a positive attitude and action.

You saved me. This video is exactly what I needed I was just laid off after 19 years at 1 job about a week ago. I've been cleaning and purging my house of stuff/clutter, because it's the only thing I feel in control over at this point. I have no idea if i'm going to lose my house or not. From the bottom of my heart, thank you. I'm crying as I write this. I've been a wreck and no one in my extended family gets it as I'm single, middle aged and terrified of how to keep going. I was washing my bedroom blinds with bleach and water less than an hour ago, cleaning, painting and organizing my linen closet because just trying to sit and relax is impossible with so much worry.

I've decided to let my hair go ALL grey this summer. I'm 48yrs young. I was getting on the bus the other day & the driver said NO! your a senior you only pay $1.00 at first I wanted to punch him in the mouth BUT I said... Well I just saved a dollar so be what it may.. LOL I too packed up my life, left Oregon & moved to Hollywood Florida. It's been an AMAZING experience & the food bank situation just started. I'm OK with that & looking forward to starting my very own KZread channel (IF I CAN FIGURE OUT HOW?? LOL) I've been foraging for fruits & veggies even plants I find her are just AMAZING I then research everything I find & if there's something good for us? I post it on my Facebook so I have everything I need for future reference.. I've found SO MUCH to make & doing facial mask, making my very own Kombucha which I sometimes ferment a lil longer just for a lil kick like wine.. I have SO MUCH to share I just HAVE to get this KZread channel figured out.. I'm ITCHING like crazy it's unbearable.. I was surfing & came across your channel last night & I LOVE your silver hair & wigs BTW you've given me a ton of hope just watching this today. Your truly an AMAZING lady.. Thank you for your HONESTY! We can be so humble & full of gratitude each & everyday we wake it's TRULY a mindset & then your really on your way to a much better beautiful life.

@GrandmotherWindsoftheEarth

6 жыл бұрын

I would watch your channel!!!! go for it!!! xx love from Scotland xx

@Amber-wz4mq

6 жыл бұрын

I would watch your channel as well...best wishes!!

@ultimaetsolder

6 жыл бұрын

Dena Martinez re the bus driver. It's not personal, but grey hair makes one look much older. Hence the prevalence of hair dyes, and make up, etc.

@savvydesignsbydena3179

6 жыл бұрын

+Colette Clairvoyant Thank you so much!! :)

@savvydesignsbydena3179

6 жыл бұрын

+Apple Ate Thank you I'll be getting this stated ASAP!! LOL

I understand what your position was being impoverished. I am on disability, have been for quite some years. I had paid for a little house with my inheritance in 2006 however I trusted a "supposed" best friend to hold the title to the house in her name and, naturally, she not only stole my house from me in 2007 but also when I was moving, she and a load of friends went into the house while I was gone and started stealing everything else. Needless to say, I came away with no winter coats, my sewing equipment stolen so I had no alternative method to earn extra money and personal mementos such as my children's teeth. She got away with all of it too, through perjury in court. Currently, I am 1 month away from my home being paid off (I live in a trailer) and will now be back in a position so I don't have to worry so much about being able to live month to month. I am even getting ready to buy a car in the next few months. The parable is that nothing lasts forever, not good times, not bad. You have to have the emotional fortitude to get through the bad times. Even though we may hate asking for help, we must at times. Thanks for sharing!

I wish I could tell you how much your story means to me. Starting over is terrifying. I'm 50 & recently started yet another stressful job that does not give me a life balance. You inspire me to start taking baby steps to change my life. Plus....I wish I could give you give you a giant hug for loving those feral kittens. I love black cats.

Facing starting over at 70, this has been very encouraging. Thank you.

Perfect for what I am going through. I am beginning all over again at 61. Not what I was expecting to be doing after retiring from teaching lol.

I was recently fired last week because of excessive absences due to a chronic illness I have. I worked at my job for 18 years! I feel lost and don't know where to go from here. Your video was very incouraging and gave me a little hope. I'm 51 years old and I have to go to the unemployment office to file and it's pretty scary. I live across the street from the school I worked at for so many years and I'm feeling very depressed, scared, sad, all kind's of emotions going on but the big question for me is what now? I wish I had a good close friend that I could share my thoughts with and your video was kinda like having that good friend. Thank you and keep doing what you love because it helps so many. Love you bunches!

How courageous and very humble. You are obviously inspirational to us regular folks. I hope that others in Show Biz sees your videos, it may humble them as well. This thing called "Life" is real! I am with you all the way.

I've been there and it is scary but it can be done. I quit a job in 2002...made a deal so I was able to survive for 2 years but then my daughter got sick, like "maybe cancer sick"..and we had no health insurance. It depleted my savings (why I am an adamant proponent of ACA). And then because I couldn't find a job I was about to lose my home. I humbled myself and a friend loaned me one mortgage payment and I paid her back in two payments. In 2004 I took a job I hated... BUT WE GOT THROUGH! That job ended and I got some consultant work on the suggestion of a friend that got us through another 7 months and through that and a friend's suggestion I got a stable contract. Now I grew up poor so I knew how to live with nothing but it was depressing after a B.A. and an M.A. and while raising my daughter to live hand to mouth. The contract lasted for 3 years until it lead me to the job I'm in now which I've had for almost 9 years. It wasn't easy. And thinking back now there are other things I could have done to ease my situation (like sell makeup or some other entrepreneurial enterprise). I didn't even know about KZread then. I did learn always have more than one stream of income...so even with my very good job today, I sell makeup on the side. You did 'good" Monique and thanks for sharing your story. (Btw the biopsy found nothing...even though all the tests showed something...it was a miracle...my daughter is healthy but when I sit with her I always touch her scar she says. I think I want to make sure it...what ever it was...doesn't return.)

@sonyanolen6574

6 жыл бұрын

You are lucky that it turned out okay. I do have cancer, leiomyosarcoma , to be exact, and I am lucky to be Alive for the last few years. I was diagnosed 2 weeks after I got married to my husband I love and adore but this was not fair to us or our relationship, or for him, as he lost a wife to cancer in 2005. I never wanted to be a person to leave in intentionally or because cancer decided to steal me away. We are fighting everyday for me to be alive. I’ve had a year of chemo, I’ve had so many surgeries. I’ve lost count, radiation, immunotherapy, lost 1 lobe of my lungs, had a brain cancer surgery very suddenly last April after I was feeling dizzy and off balance and then slurred speech. Cancer, cancer, cancer, I keep fighting this cancer in most areas of my body.. I know what Gamma KnIfe Radiation Surgery is now and I hope to God that has covered my brain and left me cancer free. I have so much to tell to the world and to my family if I were not here so KZread could be a wonderful way for me to do that. It’s all such a struggle.. leaving to see my doctors soon and I hope we have the funds to have for a hotel for the time in Houston at Md Anderson. My pain keeps me from doing so much right now.. my husband and my family are there but we are all living in fear now.

@hairdresser1300

6 жыл бұрын

prayers

Girlllllllllllllllllllll I needed this video TODAY! I was looking for a video to change a room into a closet. Saw your wallpaper video and then this one. Long story short, I've been on a non fulfilling job for 30 years! Depressed for 30yrs. I literally said, I have got to get back to me, reinvent myself, find me! And then I came across this video! I honestly don't believe it was a coincidence! This is what I needed to see today at this exact time. I know this video is over a year old, and it's possible you may not see this comment for another year. But, whenever you do, know that you and this video have given me life! I am retiring at the end of this year and as of this moment , I am no longer fearful! So grateful and thankful for you!

You're amazing Monique, thank you for sharing such a personal story. There is hope after all, I'm 51! Tracey🌸

Greatest takeaway: you only need ask the universe for help and show up for the response. Ty for sharing.

I've told a couple people before you were down to earth and real for being a STAR, I admire your sincerity and honesty. Your a great inspiration, God has blessed you in so many ways, keep the faith. ox

I loved this video at the kitchen sink! How fun is that - lol. I watch your channel and think it's wonderful. You are so real and funny. I've also been in that starting over phase after my husband died suddenly and I was left with two kids. We had a home business together and I didn't know how to do his part of it. It took a couple of years to sort it all out but I am much stronger and centered for it. Thank you again for your videos and delightful personality! Melissa lives in Tampa? So do I. She is great too!!

My daughter moved out to LA 8 months ago with everything she had loaded into her car to pursue her goals of being a working actor. The struggle is real and your journey of starting over is so seemingly like hers. I'm always looking for positive encouragement outside of my biased mom cheerleading and your tenacity and strength is inspirational...I am sending this video to her! Thank you for sharing!

I just discovered you maybe 4 days ago. I got a huge kick out of one of your video makeovers. I'm turning 50 May 2019, not happy hahaha. Girl, talk about mid life crisis, being broke, my kids are 24 and 19. I have been in such a deep dark DANK depression the last year of my life has been pretty much living in my own world of compete and utter self loathing. I posted one night on facebook 2 words..."I'm alone"....I was reaching out big-time. Long story short, yeah, I intend to start over, reinvent myself and you have just reinforced my will to do it. Thank you.

I moved from NY to Tampa when I had no job and two kids. I got my first job at JCPenney. That was thirty years ago. I never looked back. I became a store manager with Marshalls by starting out as a clerk in Penneys. Everyone can change their lives if they have the guts and determination.

I "found" your channel while scrolling on KZread b/c I was looking for make-up tutorials for middle aged women, like myself. After finding your channel, I am SO inspired by you. I don't know your whole story (because hey- we *all* have a story, right?) but you are amazing. I look forward to getting caught up on all of your tutorials/videos and becoming one of your thousands of "fans"- thank you for making this video. I think a lot of us who are middle aged find ourselves "starting over" for whatever reason(s), but there are very few people out there who are humble enough to reach out to the public and say "hey- I was in your shoes- and you're not alone, and you CAN do it." So thank you, Monique!

Hey Monique, I’m a 55 yr old woman out here in Palm Springs. I just started watching your videos. Absolutely love all of them and YOU! You are so beautiful, humble and REAL! Also, you have posted so many useful videos on topics I can truly relate to. Thank you......and keep on posting!

I know that this video was made a year ago but it's still just as fresh as the day you made it! Thank you so much! I am a 67 year old grandmother of five grandchildren, 3 children. I have started over when my husband passed away 4 years ago. I'm just now getting on my feet and feeling confident. I have only my Social Security and a part-time job (which I love!) I don't look my age (people who do not know me think I'm 50 or less)and I'm having such fun trying makeup I didn't even know existed! You, my daughter (30) and Ipsy (makeup samples) have really helped. Your pep and positive attitude are precious :-) I am truly rediscovering who I am, and it's a lot of fun.

I turned 50 last Feb, went silver (work in progress) and then I found you! I lost my job in January and just received my last unemployment check today. I feel so lost, but determined not to go back to my soul sucking corporate job (in software). I'm lost, but hopeful. I just watched this video and thank you! It's scary. I hate being late on CC payments and I'm wondering what may happen to my car (I had just bought a new car over New Years and lost my job the next week.) Thank you for your channel. Keep up the great work - you are a huge support and inspiration!

Love this so much. This is me and i am 54. It gives me hope that it is possible to start over. Thank god i have found someone thats speaks such truth and honesty about where we go in life. So refreshing after watching 20 30 year olds preaching life skills. These are the life skills that suit me beautifully and aging gracefully. Love love love ❤

I am not starting over right now, I dont have silver hair... still love your videos Monique - you are so real and have awesome sense of humour ❤️

I just love videos where you open your heart. You're so inspiring, it's incredible what you have been through and what strength you got from it. I'll always think about you from now on when I feel like my life is scrambling down. I'll always support you, I'm only one girl among your KZread viewers but if you need I'll always be there for you. Thank you for the happiness you give us through your videos and your smile, you're an inspiration, love you ❤👑💫

I went for my dream at age 36 going from Pharmacist to full time Clairvoyant /Healer and took a HUGE drop in money but I wouldn't be the person I am today without having taken that risk but it wasn't easy. At age 50 I had my first book published ( 8 out now, 9th on the way!) after taking a risk and now as my heath and hearing has deteriorated I am doing KZread and LOVING it!!!! Life is too short folks to look back and wonder 'what if? '. We aren't here to survive, we are here to live xxx thank you both for this video xxx

I started over in my 40s. Used my unemployment to take classes and been self employed since 1996. I love my life now!

On my 51st Birthday Ms Parent I went from being Robert L Nabarro to Alexandra Leigh Nabarro Reese. I am not only doing something that I know will make me happy. but it will save my life. I spent way too many years trying to end this life and NOW I am Living you have made my whole day today! I think you are here and doing what you are doing and Making the world a better Place thank you for taking the biggest risks of your Life. It just Proves that We can do anything and Pay hard prices to be an amazing Person and have an Amazing Life

I just turned 57 and I am at a point where I feel I need to begin again...thank you for your words of encouragement!!!! You are such an inspiration and I appreciated your friends input too! Thank you to both of you for being strong women!

Your honesty is refreshing and that is one of the MAIN reasons I follow you... It's awesome to finally see someone not putting airs or pretending to be something they're not... thank you!

Starting over for me was when I stopped doing things that were destructive. I stopped drinking and admitted that I was powerless over alcohol. A.A. saved my life and helped me start over. Happily remarried and living in the Uk, life still has struggles, but it Is a wonderful new adventure! Taking stock in reality and accepting responsibility for my actions freed me. I could not have done it alone and could not have done it without brutal honesty. I Didn't drink too much, I was an alcoholic. I couldn't quit at anytime, I was an alcoholic, I only drank wine, I was an alcoholic. I didn't drink alone, I was an alcoholic. Alcohol was not my friend and I was killing myself. Almost 2 decades sober, it can be done. You can wipe the slate clean and start over.

Inspiring. At 52 I channeled my lifelong passion for fashion - especially resale and vintage clothes - into a KZread channel. It's my creative outlet. I have a day job that pays well but doesn't fulfill me. My channel doesn't make money and has been very slow growing but I've learned so much and am having so much fun and feel much more fulfilled. I don't know where it will lead but watching this motivates me to keep going!

Omg! Found you today! Lifelong redhead here who colored for 35 yrs. Went silver 2 1/2 yrs ago. Couldn't continue ignoring my brilliant silver roots. And I'm 61! Just bobbed my hair. ❤ Am also at a crossroads in life. Want to quit my job too. So happy I found your videos! Very, very inspiring! Will look for you on Instagram too. Keep rocking it sister! ❤🌷👍

I have been baby stepping change for so many years. I'm taking bigger steps now and it's frightening at times. Thank you, this gives me hope.

I would like to add that you found a need that needed to be filled! That's what I did 20 years ago, just turned 64, and that is the definition of an entrepreneur, in my book. You are such a savvy woman! I love your videos! You are so charitable to share these real life struggles. So many people just don't realize that there is gain through pain, and striving to succeed. I predict that you will be a million+ subscriber KZreadr one day soon. I am rooting for you, and you root for everyone! Lovely woman!

You're an awesome lady. Such an inspiration and bright light in the tunnel for us 50+ "reinvention's"! Hope you understand that.

Thank you for sharing your story.

Hi Monique, well this is another sign and wonder. For the past 6 months, I have been seriously contemplating starting over. I've worked at the same company for 27 loooooooooonngg years, haven't really changed anything in my home, or in my life as a single mom. Now that the nest is empty, I have a longing desire to reinvent myself in looks, surroundings, personality, jobs, etc...you name it. Lately, little hints and pushes have been coming out of the clear blue that it is time. You just reinforced and inspired me further. Thanks and keep it up! Love xoxox

Thank you for the encouraging words. Life is full of things to start over. Some are big life changes and others are smaller. But both are important to fulfill our lives.

Thanks for sharing your story.

Love starting my week with these words of inspiration.

I've been so stuck in just about every area of my life. I hit my 50s and all hell broke loose. I'm finally starting to climb out from bottom but it ain't easy. Thanks, Monique, for this video. I appreciate your honesty

Ive been having a terrible month. One of those months where everything that can go wrong ,does go wrong.Thank You for making this video , it has given me tremendous hope. Love,Jenny

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Wow, such honesty is hard to come by! Cheers to your courage, Monique. I started over also at 50, up and moved , sorta reinvented myself. Found you by accident really when I was looking for skincare for my now aging face, seventeen years later. I notice that the you tubers in my age group seem to be caught up in lots of material stuff with a seemingly endless supply of money. It is hard to relate. Now I am semi retired and it seems like I need to do another major change. Figure out the last chapter. It's a little harder now with some health issues but I am a work in progress. Thank you for sharing your life experiences. You inspire. Your beautiful spirit radiates through and shows up in your sparkling eyes.

Everything they said,Monique is how I feel about this video.Im in a bad place.Lost my husband suddenly in 2002,I have a 28 y/o son,been enabling him for a while.Developed shingles last year,still have it&knee injury that will need surgery.Ive been good to everyone except myself.If someone could please direct me to a site or blog,etc.where I can communicate with other women,tell my story,my ups and downs,my struggles.I would greatly appreciate it,of course you've inspired me this morning&I am very grateful.and thank you do very much!

Love your honesty and humble attitude. True inspiration.

I know this is your post from a while ago. But I'm encouraged. I'm at the start over at 58. Divorced after 35 yr marriage. I opted out of alimony just to be free. No income and starting over but I'm happy. Girly I can relate of the fact of not even being savey with computer and uploads. In an apartment with used furnishings from thrift stores and clothing from thrift stores. But its my life now. Thank you for being so real.

Thank you for posting/talking about this. I really enjoyed the format.

OMGoodness, those three black kittens!!! Sooooooo adorable! I am loving your starting over story!

Thanks Monique👍👍, we women need women like you to encourage others! I too at 56 am starting over with my life. And I feel great about it not being enslaved to an employer making pennies and unappreciated. Thanks Bunches right back at ya

Thank you I needed this, I wont be afraid anymore to change my life and be truly happy. Love to you.

Inspiring chat. Thank you. I'm transitioning at 62!

Thank you for being so honest. I think you are the only one on KZread. Love you bunches back for that. I am 54 and loving it. 😽😽😻

Monique, just watched your starting over series and love it! Thank you. Exactly what I needed to hear this morning. Please keep 'em coming. Peace & light.

I have been a fan all the way through this part of your journey over a year ago when I started watching you on KZread, when you started the beauty focus. I knew you were in a tough place and I have been happy for you as I have seen your channel and YOU grow. I never doubted you would succeed. I have had my challenges too, we all do, but I am in a good place now. I have no doubt that you will continue to become more and more successful, as you have earned it, Monique. Good for you. I was so happy for you when you bought your car! Yea for you.

That was an inspirational video. Love your "be honest" thought. Almost everyone's life looks fabulous on fb and we all need to realize that it is just a screen shot of a life, not the entirety.

i could see you being an amazing life coach. this is one of my favorite videos from you! thanks for sharing with us. my day feels brighter and more hopeful. i feel so inspired. thank you monique. my ray of yt sunshine. xo ALSO, your friend is so sweet and the perfect friend for this video. sweet smart women.

Amazing what you gained in your year of struggles. The depth of character you gained shines through everything you do. Congrats!❤️

I left my crazy job at 60..started over..back to school etc..except the alone,unhappy drining I did I had to stop completely..I am surprised you can control yourself with wine..that is very rare..glad you got yourself to a better place..and adore what you did for those cats!!! Be proud of yourself...the "brick" wall usually means your life will turn around..the Universe will do everything to bring you what you need..and it's OK to dream bigger!

I love this video. Thank you for being so transparent about your struggles. I've always made big jumps when I couldn't bear my life where it was. And moving to Los Angeles was also my humbling experience. I was so stressed over money, I ended up in the hospital! I'd made good money back east and found L.A. to be almost impossible to make a living. It was the hardest part of my life, but it's a lot better now. Unlike you, I did tell my friends who rallied around and helped me survive. I'm thankful. I love your channel! Keep it up.

I am so glad I watched this video, I also decided at 50 to reinvent myself and I haven't exactly had the support team, most people think I'm crazy but I feel amazingly better and super glad I am on this journey. Thank you your an inspiration

Wow! Just discovered you tonight & am sooo inspired by you, your story & your chutzpah! I am getting ready to start a youtube channel of my own to augment my day job, where I will be discussing personal development, philosophy & spirituality. Thank you for being a fabulous woman of a certain age & proud of it! I start shooting on Friday & with any luck, will be following your example to my own success! Thank you for being a great role model for women in their 50s - our culture has ignored us & hid us away, but now we are ready to ROAR! You GO girl!!

monique im a single umemployed mum fromsydney australia and im atill watching this while commenting and can i just say i absolutely love you and love ur RAW self wow i wish i could give could give you a hug thank you for being so humane xx

50 I was going through menopause, living in a hotel 500 miles from home while my husband was trying to die on me. Didn’t let him btw 😁 50 is a helluva time for us isn’t it? Thx for sharing.

2017? Really? I have been watching for a couple days and didn't pay any attention to the dates. You go, girl. I'm in the middle of a do over at 58. It's going to take another year to be able to move on. You are a jewel. Thank you for the inspiration for my life, my support, my beauty and my real friends. Thank you so much.

I'm so thankful for you! Knowing that starting over can happen at any age, anytime and be a good thing!!! Keep sharing!!!

Thank you so much for this video. You can't imagine how closely this touches my life and struggles.

Very inspiring! Thanks for sharing. What a wonderful message ❤️

My goodness Monique! Pure synchronicity that I saw your video this evening as I'm up late fretting about how to survive on unemployment.. I just got laid off from a job that made me sick for 7 years. Didn't have the courage to quit because being over 50 I feel my options were limited. Your experience gives me much hope! Thank you thank you.. Best of every thing to you 🍷!

Thank you Monique for sharing your experience, strength and hope.

Love, Love, Love you ladies! Women being there genuinely for women is what we are supposed to do. I thank you both with all my heart for being real and inspiring us other women out here who are starting over... in a kind and loving way. Consider yourselves hugged

Thank you for sharing your journey!

Best video of all! You're so brave and resilient. I've had my food bank days. Days I fed my kids and didn't eat myself. And yes, I survived! Women supporting women is so important. Thank you for this video. I'm glad I found it. Better late than never! I love your whole channel!

Monique Parent, I can not thank you enough for this video. You will never know how badly I needed to see and hear what you had to say and being so truthful. Thank you, thank you, thank you xoxoxoxoxo

i just turned 60, have been gray for about 5 years now +/- ; i just discovered You, Thank YOU!

Way to go! I've enjoyed your channel from the start. I found it when searching for women who have gone to silver hair and I think we've been on the same timeline. I've had to change up the colors in my wardrobe as well--fun!

i'm so happy for you , you have my full support, I love how your so honest

I would also like to compliment you on saving those kitties! Where I live, people dump cats from the city. Since we are way out in the boonies, they think the cats can live on critters that they catch. Wrong! Cats are domestic animals! So, I have taken in over 8 cats total (2 died of coyote eating, and cancer) and they have been wonderful. We have many mice, rats, chipmunks, that will get into our cars and make nests, eat the wiring, etc., and they keep the population down. So, they help us, and we give them a home, feed them, give them their needed vaccinations, and love them. Please comment on the fact that people need to neuter and spay their cats, so this sort of thing doesn't end up happening like you and I have seen. There are many vets who will spay or neuter for discount prices. And, many shelters are no-kill. Dumping animals in the City or Country is cruel!