How is she putting more pressure on her son than her man to provide a roof over her head?! 😒

@ninosimone

Жыл бұрын

THE BEST COMMENT 🏆👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@sylvialipscomb9966

Жыл бұрын

The mom and her husband are the adults who are not responsible when it comes to the bills.

@MBCrusin

Жыл бұрын

Best comment

@vidalsmith9160

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@nicab5819

Жыл бұрын

Right!

She wants a reward for doing what a mother is supposed to do. You don’t get prizes for being a mom. You ruined his credit!!!

@ButtonsCasey

Жыл бұрын

Depends. My mom and I had (still do sometimes) a rough relationship. Our dynamics are not like most peoples though. My mom is gonna be 79 in September and I live with her and help her out. I pay the mortgage payment, buy the bulk of the groceries, and pay some of the utilities. I do that because of what my mother dealt with and did for me. When I was younger I would throw the whole I didn't ask to be born and you didnt do anything special for me, however I look at some of my family members, like my daughter that I adopted shes my bio cousin, and know my mom did a lot. Not every parent is a parent.

@tekanagainer6578

Жыл бұрын

Right...she and the step-dad are wrong.

@angelastone4806

Жыл бұрын

Parent or not you have NO right to mess with your child’s credit. That’s THEIR score to be responsible for & THEIR future not for others to be playing with. My mom screwed my credit the second I turned 18 by opening lines of credit in my name or putting bills in my name, would hide the mail once it showed up in my name. Found a brief case full of unopened past due bills, when I asked her about it she told me at first she was paying them. Eventually caved & told me she couldn’t afford it but didn’t want to “burden me” with it aka take any responsibility or give me a chance to help. Only found out when I went to get a phone plan for myself. 29 as of yesterday & still working to fix the damage she had done.

@Imaginaryassshole

Жыл бұрын

FACTS. 💯

@lashundavis156

Жыл бұрын

I say this all the time

She demands respect but is the epitome of disrespect. Awful woman.

@robbbietheim2096

Жыл бұрын

Moving around like that means she has no respect for herself , but wants it from him, SMH HER AND THAT GUY ARE BUMS , SMH 💯

@kac4klhc977

Жыл бұрын

I agree! It’s called hypocrisy

@Cutecamp1212

Жыл бұрын

Very well articulated! They are complaining about respect, but disrespected him repeatedly 😢

@MorpheusArtStudio4Blues

Ай бұрын

You’ve just described my mother….

The mother needs a damn JOB!!!!! Plain and Simple!!!

@payableondeath9091

Жыл бұрын

then they talked about getting a loan 🤣 you're right GET A JOB first

@Melissamy5

Жыл бұрын

She got the nerve to carry a Louis Vuitton bag.

@katiemilady4232

Жыл бұрын

@@Melissamy5 That's probably a Canal Street jumpoff.

@delenareed9731

Жыл бұрын

@@katiemilady4232 🤣🤣🤣

@TheAray6

Жыл бұрын

His grandmother and the sister everybody knows how they are. They are lazy and entitled. Lost one job years ago and she can’t get over it. Here husband needs to get a job too.

I disagree with the judge that the plaintiff should make amends with his parents. You have to cut toxic people out of your life. Blood or not

@deborahfrance9807

Жыл бұрын

the Bible says Ephesians 3:2-3 Honor your father and mother which is the first commandment with ( promise) that it may be well with you and you may live long life on Earth Think about this God himself promises that if you will honor your parents you will have a long and blessed life what a PROMISE!!! WE DON'T WANT TO FORFEIT THE PROMISE ( over PRIDE!!!) ALSO the Parents should ask forgiveness and make things right at least may some kind of payment agreement to fix his credit. I will pray for this Family for Love, Healing, Peace and FORGIVENESS in Jesus name 🙏 I will pray for all on this thread in Jesus name 🙏

@tishtash321

Жыл бұрын

@@deborahfrance9807 Who cares about an ancient book? Toxic ppl are toxic ppl and should be cut out of your life. Sane ppl think for themselves.

@Proverbspsalms

Жыл бұрын

@@deborahfrance9807 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 why don’t you quote the rest of the scripture? Also- when God said honor, he didn’t mean put up with their toxic crap.

@ashleywallace5755

Жыл бұрын

That part 👏🏽

@christinal.wilson9044

Жыл бұрын

It took me seeing how my father and step mother treated my kids before I realized that making amends with Toxic family is the worst choice you can make. Stay away and don't wait until you have children and see the truth that toxic people will always be toxic people who do not care about anyone but themselves. Keep them out of your life.

I know the son may have resentment, but honestly both parents are wrong. It’s not about how much you’ve done for your son or anybody. They made an agreement, y’all too grown to at least make $500 with a decent income together. The mother feels too entitled and the step father is just being an adlib to anything she says. Don’t leave your own child out to dry and then play victim. Shame on them.

@Channel-JJ

Жыл бұрын

shout it out girl 👍

@annward4149

Жыл бұрын

That's right. ....my son didn't speak to me for 5 yrs. But last 2 yrs he sent message happy mothers day and nothing else. Not I love you how are you doing. I went through a stroke without him knowing . I was hurt over how he was treating me. Than I thought I'm not doing any better toward him. I'm the parent. So one day I messaged him and we started messaging back and forth. This last couple wks has been wonderful. I got pictures of my grandkids. I hadn't seen. Grandson is 16 and granddaughter is 13. They are going to try come visit this October. You have to remember your that parent. And you love unconditionally. And I love my son 💙 I have a daughter lives in nursing home. I talk with her 3 times a day. We never had a fallen out. But both of my kids are my world 🌎 ♥️ Not matter their age . Their my baby's

@LoveHeatherHeadly

Жыл бұрын

@@annward4149 live to short I lost my mom at 16, you should just tell your son how much you love him and to see if he’s interested in counseling or a third party. I’m praying for you , I have a daughter I can’t imagine going a day without talking to her. I’m praying for y’all, I hate you’re going through this .

@angelalewis4310

Жыл бұрын

I agree!!

@annward4149

Жыл бұрын

@@LoveHeatherHeadly as time goes by it will get better. He knows I love him. Thank you

Many low life parents do this to their children every day, sign leases, put lights in their Childs' names and so on. So, when the grown child tries to get a place or mortgage or loan, their credit has been trashed by their parent(s). Sad and it happens every day.

@michaelbrandon1222

Жыл бұрын

I know a dude who saved $50,000 busting his ass at McDonald's throughtout his teens just for his mom to just steal it. Lowlife parents can be the worst parasites someone can have because of the obligation people have with family.

@NiaMSnow

Жыл бұрын

My aunt did that to my sister! My sister's credit was messed up for years

@notyours1612

Жыл бұрын

My Stepdaughters mother did that to her. Credit Cards, Electric, Phone. She even used her Daughters identity to get Medical Care. Totally ruined my Stepdaughters credit.

@michelehemlokhexwhite4310

Жыл бұрын

@@notyours1612 omg I had no idea this shit was even a thing :/

@Nevaeh1

Жыл бұрын

Even certain jobs will deny you for having bad credit

The parents screwed up their own credit and now they screwed up their son's credit.

The fact that they think they are in the right is shameful! You’re supposed to help your child not use them and put him in a financial burden! His mother is sad!!

@winniebassette9591

Жыл бұрын

These two defendants keep calling the son disrespectful. At some point he had no choice but to be. The mother is acting like this is putting her out. She walks into court with a designer bag but cannot pay him his money.

Kudos to the son for sticking to his guns at the end despite the peer pressure from the post-result interviewer. Family is not guaranteed to be benevolent. Sometimes cutting them off is your best option.

@ellipsis5345

Жыл бұрын

Similarly, a big eye roll to all the outside audience who would never ever sue their parents. That’s stupid as hell. Lucky you if you’ve never had a toxic family, but a family is not immune to the concept of being a villain in your life.

@michaelbrandon1222

Жыл бұрын

Exactly, he's objective enough to know a toxic person when he sees one, even if it is family.

@kac4klhc977

Жыл бұрын

As he said she has done this to him bf, probably used all 4 kids credits by now

@cypherknot

Жыл бұрын

Those who had healthy family and good parents don't get to shame those of us who didn't for wanting completely out.

@JamieM470

Жыл бұрын

@@cypherknot Exactly. They expect to use him indefinitely, ruin his credit, and in their minds it's all his fault. And he said they've done the same thing to several family members. They use & emotionally manipulate, but they're the innocent victims who were just trying to help. He's not stupid though. He's done. Good for him.

coming from a manipulative mother myself... i can see right through her she wants to walk around like her son owes her something and has to cater to her needs and then pretend shes this caring mother when she only wants to benefit from him

@nerdlovah9476

Жыл бұрын

It's the entitlement for me!! Like are you so high and mighty that one day SOON you're going to need me to maybe wipe your old ass?

@sarahlynn7894

Жыл бұрын

Total narcissist mother.

@poshpearls23

Жыл бұрын

Yep and my mother is the same way. I though the exact same thing about this case. That will follow him for years and she just wants to complain about him holding her responsible. So so lowdown.

@SunShine-tr5cw

Жыл бұрын

Same here. I had to cut my mother off for years. Only recently have I had some communication w her but w serious boundaries because she hasn't changed & she's elderly now, but in a way I had to learn to forgive an apology I never recieved & let go of the resentments & anger & just love from a distance. Even though I have some communication I won't bend on the toxicity, that's part of my boundaries. But I seen through his mother too.

@fashionforwardmom

Жыл бұрын

How could you possible say that? Your mother gave you life then wiped your runny nose and your stinky butt. Took care of you, fed you, clothed you, protected you. I bet her whole life changed when you came and she chose you over her own life. Then you want to point fingers at her for putting you above her own needs? You can't be a parent of a child old enough to buck on you if you are a parent at all. Just saying kids don't come with instructions and parents are human and they do make mistakes. Quit holding your mom accountable for everything she has ever done wrong and start acknowledging that without her choice to birth you, you wouldn't be here to spit in her eye. I am sure she hasn't held you accountable for all the bad you have done or by the time you hit 4 or 5 years old you would've been left out in the cold. Parents go threw hell for their children and their children are so ungrateful it is sad. There is an old saying that what you dish out to your parents your kids will double or triple the pain you caused on you. You only have one set of parents and believe it or not that is the only true love you will ever feel, the sooner you learn this the faster you will grow up and the better your life will become as well as your kids if you have any.

It's a horrible experience when your own parents take advantage of your kindness....I can relate 😣

@ShanaeFlower

Жыл бұрын

I can too as well 😩🤦🏽‍♀️. The worse

@jaleesamobley4960

Жыл бұрын

so can I!

@irisesq.6389

Жыл бұрын

Yes. Feels like betrayal. You would think your own mother would have your best interest. But I learned repeatedly that's not the case.

@fashionforwardmom

Жыл бұрын

How could you possible say that? Your mother gave you life then wiped your runny nose and your stinky butt. Took care of you, fed you, clothed you, protected you. I bet her whole life changed when you came and she chose you over her own life. Then you want to point fingers at her for putting you above her own needs? You can't be a parent of a child old enough to buck on you if you are a parent at all. Just saying kids don't come with instructions and parents are human and they do make mistakes. Quit holding your mom accountable for everything she has ever done wrong and start acknowledging that without her choice to birth you, you wouldn't be here to spit in her eye. I am sure she hasn't held you accountable for all the bad you have done or by the time you hit 4 or 5 years old you would've been left out in the cold. Parents go threw hell for their children and their children are so ungrateful it is sad. There is an old saying that what you dish out to your parents your kids will double or triple the pain you caused on you. You only have one set of parents and believe it or not that is the only true love you will ever feel, the sooner you learn this the faster you will grow up and the better your life will become as well as your kids if you have any.

@mikaelawagenbach7075

6 ай бұрын

I always immediately am flabbergasted that kids sue parents and vice versa then I remember that although I have my own family issues , I’m blessed enough it never had to go to court…. The hurt in the son’s eyes to be there says it all. Also, I commend him for his bravery to despite how much that clearly hurts, he did what he had to do. I don’t know if I would ever be strong enough to do that. I hope he’s living a very peaceful life.

Please explain how 3 adults splitting rent where the son paying $500 and his mom with step pops paying $500 on a $1000 rent?!? Please make it make sense!!!😫

@cureeway

Жыл бұрын

I agree ! Mom lost job.. what about step dad..

@LeolaGlamour

Жыл бұрын

Two grown adults can’t afford 1000 in rent?! 😳 I get him needing a Roomate but them?! I’m single paying 900, I could pay more but I want to save to buy.

@jamesdombroski152

Жыл бұрын

@@LeolaGlamour yeah I pay 1000 in a motel for three years now it's sad

@blackbeauty1804

Жыл бұрын

Son stop paying & mom lost her City job. Are you listening? They fell on hard times

@LeolaGlamour

Жыл бұрын

@@blackbeauty1804 Yeah but there are two grown people at their ages?! They don’t have savings?! They could Uber or Lyft, DoorDash and make 1000.

his mother is wrong regardless if he agreed to resign the lease or not she just feels entitled

Mom looked surprised that her son was able to speak for himself.

@stumack9755

Жыл бұрын

she should have heard it 1st n a therapy session.

"I'm your mother", god knows how many lives were ruined and some people hide behind that phrase.

Imagine thinking that your son "disrespecting" you is a legal defense to not paying what you owe. If my mom was ruining my credit and saying that I should just shut up and deal with it because of who she is, I'd be hella disrespectful too.

I feel sorry for this guy, and his ‘parents’ are despicable.’

@payableondeath9091

Жыл бұрын

He talks like he has been abused

You can't really comprehend the sons position, unless you've experienced situations like this personally. Sometimes, for your own mental well-being, the only thing you can do is walk away.

@sah-nae

Жыл бұрын

OMG Yesssssss , Exactly what I was thinking, and I completely understood why he saved his breath trying to explain that to the judge. It is very painful , but I myself had to do the same thing , best decision I ever made .. am I in therapy too ? Yep lol 🥴😮‍💨😂

@gene5148

5 ай бұрын

And then she starts playing the victim card, she is rediculous

What is step dad doing, tho? If mom lost her job then he gets two jobs. This is sad.

@cindymann3673

Жыл бұрын

That’s the question I was hoping was answered. But then, I feel that a tell was him immediately sitting down at the start of the trial. I hope they found their way back to each other peacefully.

@sudhakhristmukti1930

Жыл бұрын

So true!! Glad you said this!!

@mzfancy4767

Жыл бұрын

He's a piss poor husband for not providing a roof for his wife and her younger children.

@sudhakhristmukti1930

Жыл бұрын

@@mzfancy4767 SO true!!

@YolandaAdamsfan

Жыл бұрын

@@cindymann3673 Hell, he didn't even hold the swinging doors for her when going to the defendants stand...that tells you a lot.

Honestly shame on these parents, they think they were doing him a favor and seem to refuse to acknowledge that THEY were also benefitting from this situation. They have sat here and put their son in financial distress which THEY HAVE GONE THROUGH THEMSELVES, they should know how hard it is and yet they do nothing to help pay back what they owe. And when the mother made a comment about how he had another baby on the way as if that's bad for him yet SHE IS THE ONE WITH FOUR KIDS!! I don't believe for a second that they have anything to do with their grandchildren's lives and I disagree with the judge, not all parents are worth keeping around.

@LeolaGlamour

Жыл бұрын

I’m trying to see what favor they gave him?! He probably would have been better just getting a bum off the street!

@charmaintrout174

Жыл бұрын

Just because you're related to them, doesn't automatically mean they are good decent people! Why do some people refuse to see that.

@olderandwiser5916

Жыл бұрын

@Charmain Trout I absolutely agree !!!

@olderandwiser5916

Жыл бұрын

100% agreed.

@katiemilady4232

Жыл бұрын

@@charmaintrout174 I'm not ever one to quote the Bible because sadly I usually get it wrong but although it says honor thy mother & father doesn't it also state family will be the first ones to screw you? So, you are so right!

Shes so entitled..... I can't stand parents like this.... shame on them.... grow up and get a job , you're a grown adult...

@sudhakhristmukti1930

Жыл бұрын

👍yeah! Her 9-month old so-called step dad...isn't he supposed to earn?!!

@belleame1064

Жыл бұрын

The son informed the judge she's working for the City again.

@celestep4891

Жыл бұрын

@@belleame1064 I thought he said he works for the city now.🤔

"She's been his mother her whole life" Oh my!

@LeolaGlamour

Жыл бұрын

Lol 😂 they repeated that to embarrass her because they know better.

@JloveLamar

Жыл бұрын

@@LeolaGlamour Exactly! They know they could've corrected that

@michaelbrandon1222

Жыл бұрын

Loool

@payableondeath9091

Жыл бұрын

Not anymore after this 😬

the self righteousness of the mother is astounding

Not telling your son no doesn’t cancel your obligation to pay for the debt you’ve caused him.

I would never sue my mom, but I might sue this mom. Just because a woman has a child does NOT mean they are a good mother.

@shrutefarms4741

Жыл бұрын

Of the parents end up being the children, and the children being the parent. Hell yes you should sue them

how can two adults not support themselves and then think it is ok to ruin their child's credit? tragic...

Its sad when your that age and still cant see when you've done wrong and not own up to it.

There are plenty of sorry ass parents out here that are lazy and take advantage of the children who are working and have decent credit. It’s shameful.

I have a cousin who’s son moved out on his own only to discover he couldn’t get anything turned on because he already had unpaid accounts in his name thanks to his parents. I later found out that they’re gas was put in my name after visiting and they got a hold of my SSN. This should be criminal!

@darilynkrupp6309

Жыл бұрын

It IS criminal. It's identity fraud & the person who's been victimized can do several things to rectify the situation, depending on the laws of their state. Usually that includes some sort of notarized affidavit stating what happened, making a police report & cooperating with the investigation & possibly prosecution of the offender. First thing for the victim to do is freeze their credit. A letter should be put in their credit report explaining everything. It can take a while but it can be made right or nearly. I'd be so pissed!

@tempgirl00711

Жыл бұрын

It is criminal. Forgery, fraud identity theft. Criminal charges can be filed, and vic can report identity theft. If bills go over certain dollar amt, the charges can get pretty steep, and anything under ur social can be fixed later if property steps r followed now

@jameekagillis

Жыл бұрын

That is criminal!!

I've always told my son and daughter that if I ask them to put a utility or a loan in their name for me, they know that I have lost my mind and to get me to a doctor! I would NEVER do that to my kids!

@tempgirl00711

Жыл бұрын

Hahhahah

No need to shame someone for doing what's best for them and their family when there's a toxic family member involved. Mother or not, that wasn't right and he doesn't have to repair something that's so damaged by her just for the sake of his kids. Toxic is toxic - family or not.

"she's been his mother her whole life".... Lmao

@gregjoseph998

Жыл бұрын

I came here looking for this. I thought i heard wrong

@leogoddess1785

Жыл бұрын

Lol I'm like doesn't she mean his whole life??

@ktzep

Жыл бұрын

@@gregjoseph998 right, I had to rewind!

@sunnyscott4876

Жыл бұрын

Lol I laughed when I heard that 🤣.

How do you take care of the grandkids but don’t know them at the same time?..

@sah-nae

Жыл бұрын

😬🤥 lol exactly

These parents are financially and emotionally abusing the defendant while also gaslighting the sh*t out of him. They are in the financial position that they are in because they lack any kind of responsible behavior. I admire the son for seeing how toxic they are and distancing himself.

@veronicamoody3981

Жыл бұрын

Do you personally know the parents to be able to comment on the reason for their financially difficulty? We are only getting snippets of peoples' lives on this show.

@elliebellie7816

5 ай бұрын

He's got three kids and not married because he referenced "moving in with the girlfriend" so it's not like he's some kind of Handsome Prince.

I hate that Judge Milian ended it sticking up for the parents about the grand kids, you can see the attitude, smug look on the mothers face like she was being validated. Even tho JM was right the kids should have family in their life, I just don't think she should have ended it feeding into the mother because that's what she's going to remember and take from this experience, not the actual reason why she's there, which is screwing over her son.

@sudhakhristmukti1930

Жыл бұрын

Yes...ALL parents are not what they are supposed to be. Many do not even deserve to have children, whom they neglect, abuse, use as footstools and what not, and act as if they 'own' them. Why talk down to him in a court of law ...she's not a counseller/psychologist!!

@serenamacias3547

Жыл бұрын

I hate that she does this is almost every case. And she be saying “I would want more love given to my kids “ like nooooo family are toxic and that would do more harm than good. People who are blessed with non toxic family members will never understand

@sudhakhristmukti1930

Жыл бұрын

@@serenamacias3547 They can understand, but they don't wish to bother.

@sudhakhristmukti1930

Жыл бұрын

@Msleelee So true.

@marciadaniel781

Жыл бұрын

Exactly 💯

11:13 This is it. This is it right here. I have no doubt this is the sassiness on her part when he tries to talk to her. I believe 100% she gives him attitude everytime he tries to talk.

@stumack9755

Жыл бұрын

that "Admiral" is a nassssty wench.

This is sad you can totally see in his face in the beginning and how much he is blinking how upset he is to have to do this.

Jeez, this whole case played out like a AITA reddit post 😬 Parents are top notch AHs...refusing to even admit their fault...just wow. Son should just cut his losses and sever ties, it'd probably be for the better, as he even admitted he's "only got his kids and his grandma in his life now" I can't imagine all the crazy hard work he's gonna have to do to clear up and repair his credit cause of all this.

@brendaosman2912

Жыл бұрын

Toxic family..cut them off..messy..messy!!!

@QueenScorpioSews

Жыл бұрын

This is more of r/justnofamily

The mother lost her city job years ago and hasn't gotten a job, anywhere, since? Two young, able bodied ppl shouldn't be struggling this bad. I don't know the entirety of their situation tho...

If I were these parents I’d be too embarrassed to come on tv like this. Admit that you’re wrong and try to fix things it’s not that hard

Why did that mean woman come to court toting a designer 👜?She looks stupid to me just for showing how selfish she really is.

@LeolaGlamour

Жыл бұрын

Probably fake

@thatvalensteingirl

Жыл бұрын

Bet it's a knock off because she wants to keep up appearances of being the bad boss bitch-- same way she'll stand there in the wrong and spit 'ya don't disrespect ya mutha' when she literally forged her son's signature to support herself and her bummy husband. Two grown adults can't scrape up 1,000 a month to keep the roof over their heads and cry that the kid they're screwing over is being 'spiteful'?

@AfricanAmericanBeau

8 ай бұрын

Probably fake

@peggymerson1084

2 ай бұрын

​@@LeolaGlamour fake just like her nails,hair, eyelashes and "WHAT A GREAT MOTHER" COMMENTS SHE KEPT MAKING 😅 SAD EXCUSE FOR A WOMAN AND A "MOTHER"

I swear I will never understand parents who think their children owe them something especially when their child's grown with children. He has no choice but to sue or he's failing his own children and repeating the cycle.

@jeremySJThompson

Жыл бұрын

We definitely do owe our parents.

@chachalk2387

Жыл бұрын

Me either. I have two kids and they don't owe me anything for taking care of them and providing for the. That's my job , that's what I'm suppose to do.

@Sloppyjoey1

Жыл бұрын

@@jeremySJThompson No, children are not a retirement plan and never asked to be born into our problems. It's a shameless guilt tactic used to control children, and it's abuse. You can't owe someone when you never had a say in the matter.

@supergirl101ish

Жыл бұрын

@@jeremySJThompson don’t have kids

@jeremySJThompson

Жыл бұрын

@@supergirl101ish I actually do

Those are truly toxic people, including people’s court. He gets to choose who’s in his life and peoples court is also trying to shame him…wow, just wow.

@kay22100

Жыл бұрын

She’s just encouraging mending the relationship if they can. I know that’s a foreign concept in this society that just believes in cutting everyone off

@peryole

Жыл бұрын

@@kay22100 many times it's not worth the stress or the stroke.

@maicataylor2813

Жыл бұрын

Shame him? Y'all are too sensitive nowadays man. Encouraging families to mend is nothing wrong. If it's beyond repair so be it but why blame the court for that?

@user-so1wr2oh1t

Жыл бұрын

@@maicataylor2813 The plaintiff said his parents had used other family members, too, so I think he’s smart cutting them off. He’s being a responsible parent and making sure his kids don’t get tangled up with his parents’ shenanigans. Good to put up boundaries with people (even family) who do wrong to you!!

@Proverbspsalms

Жыл бұрын

@@peryole exactly Harvey

Yea he was disrespectful but still 2 Grown adults cant come up with $1000.00 thats crazy to me I WISH MY RENT was 1000. Damn...in Newyork thats very hard to find unless its a closet.

@pollyannalight6313

Жыл бұрын

The apartment was in New Jersey. This was also 2014/2015.

He said granny tells it how it is 😭 I love that.

Poor excuse she used that she lost her city job. There were other jobs she and step pops could have gotten. They both should be ashamed of themselves. The son even provided a bed for them for mister nasty time.

@mzfancy4767

Жыл бұрын

🤭🤣

Whether it’s family or friends, if someone walks out of your life,LET THEM GO!!!! No matter how much it hurts, just LET THEM GO!!!!

@jamesdombroski152

Жыл бұрын

Yeah I know that when my mom want to heaven my brother and me stop talking three years ago I feel so fresh and relved

@katiemilady4232

Жыл бұрын

They don't have to walk, I'll give them a bus pass or a plane ticket! 🤷‍♀️

@MrJBest78

Жыл бұрын

@@katiemilady4232 😂👍

Defendant is nasty. And she acts like losing her government job means she doesn't have to go find a new job. Most people with a government job are like that. They can't work a real job that has specific requirements and expectations.

@LeolaGlamour

Жыл бұрын

They probably updated the computer system and that’s why she lost her job couldn’t keep up.

@lescobrandon9693

Жыл бұрын

It’s virtually impossible to lose a government job so she must be horrible at whatever she did.

@payableondeath9091

Жыл бұрын

Her son took her job🤣

@RobKMusic

Жыл бұрын

@@payableondeath9091 EEEee terk her JERB!!!

@auaiao9

Жыл бұрын

All people who work other jobs than government bust their butts?

The sad part is when he asked “would you sue your mother” and I didn’t even need to think. Yes I would, I wish I had the nerve to do it, not every mother is looking out for your best interest. Mine ran my credit to the ground when I was 15 and I didn’t know it. Now I had to pay thousands to just be out of debt

Mother has a bad case of attitude.

Nah, I'm with the son on this one. They did him so dirty and deceitfully renewed the lease behind his back. That's terrible. She is the kind of parent to just dangle the "I have birth to you" argument over her kids' heads just to get things. Been down THAT road. Children aren't meant to be used. They are meant to be raised into honest, contributing members of society. She and her husband are big time trifling.

As a mother of 3 young adults I need to say that I am absolutely disappointed and disgusted by these parents. Id do bsolutely anything and everything 4 my kids and make sure I NEVER burden ghem. That includes forgiving even if i have to do it 1000 times! Id me honored to be his mom

So sad. This family needs prayers

Wow, I’ve only seen the introduction and I’m shocked. The mother offers no defense at all except she’s his mother and can do whatever she wants. She’s not treating him with respect, yet she thinks she deserves respect. Hmmmmm

Let me say not all grandparents deserve time with their grandchildren. Toxic family stuff isn’t ok to force on kids.

Wow, she is an awful mother. I'd cut ties except for letting them have visits with the grandkids.

The worst parents state “ I did everything for my kids” yet they never did!!! ** denial **

Do the mother and stepfather think that they don't have earn a living..the mother should be ashamed of herself and she need to get rid of that so called man..It is very sad that they are in court over money

Obviously she's an irresponsible person

After she loses the case because she did not pay the bills that she committed to pay and hurt her sons credit, the plaintiff says, "I have been a great mother to my children!" Really? Sounds like you haven't to your son or your daughter. Your own mother says you are not a good mother. Your son has been on his own since he was 17! You have not been a great mother. No way!

So, the adult son is to be held responsible for providing shelter et al for his adult parents, both still of working age. Assuming facts NOT in evidence is not law. Shame on this judge for doing that.

The plaintiff is one of the few people who came to court looking prepared including the way he's dressed. I'm glad he wom

I think the Judge was out of line with the last comment. Some people are awful mothers, and no one should be pressurizing or judging someone for cutting contact with their family.

@trekgirl65

Жыл бұрын

nope you are so wrong, unless you to law school for 7 years.

@pinesgurl

Жыл бұрын

Rightfully so, sometimes if people are toxic including family members, distance is needed. This could’ve been worse if they were still in contact often.

@Nevaeh1

Жыл бұрын

@@pinesgurl if it’s better not to have contact with certain people then so be it

@sudhakhristmukti1930

Жыл бұрын

Yes. She's not a counsellor/psychologist...without knowing the family dynamics she should not shame and blame the son in public like that, or anyone for that matter! That awful over-critical step-dad has been around only 9 months...!

Why should the son "open the door" for them? They slammed it shut and locked it when they did him dirty. I'd be willing to bet his grandmother raised him, with how often he spike about her, and knowing she had his back. The judge was wrong for placating the mother and making it sound like he's wrong for protecting himself and his kids from further abuse.

The husband sounds like he Method Man father

I’ve forgiven my mom for backing out of buying a house with me ...because we would of ended up in court or worse...she was just like this woman-(self centred to the max)...she has dementia ...she’s super nice to everyone now and she’s lovely to deal with! Miracles do happen ❤

@tgrant6518

Жыл бұрын

I can relate unfortunately.

@imjustsaying6712

Жыл бұрын

Wow...I've never heard anyone call dementia a miracle before.

@MamaHarperr

Жыл бұрын

Wow😬

@jshaianne26

Жыл бұрын

@@imjustsaying6712 Yeah...that's sad af

@wackybrattyx

Жыл бұрын

@@jshaianne26 Is it made their relationship better, why not? Find the silverlining in something awful.

This case is so sad to me. I am very close to my sons and would never want to damage their credit in any way. The plaintiff will have a hard time with renting apartments, buying vehicles with low interest rates, buying a house, getting approved for credit cards, and in some cases getting a job(some employers check your credit). People with Tier-one credit receive favorable loan terms. The benefits of having good credit go on on. I hope the plaintiff credit will be okay.

Sometimes you have to love from a distance family or not it's sad. But family can also be toxic.

The reaction of Douglas from what the plaintiff said about not give the grandparents an opportunity to get a relationship was the same as mine. It’s a sad life having this rancor

That smile of his mom at the end tells me she wasn't sincere

This one is a heartbreaker. Prayerfully, it will all workout and a better relationship can develop.

If "all you got" is people like that then be without them. They won't have a relationship that isn't advantageous to their needs even with their own children. Any parent who thinks doing that to their child because they are being "disrespectful" clearly had no intention of doing right or setting a good example.

My mom lives on 1100 month ssecurity.both my bro and i make good money.she never asks us for money.she budgets,lives on what she budgets,owes 0 to anyone.she has excellant credit.when she got her 2 stimulus checks she saved 1500,for any thing that might pop up unexpectedly. She walks or rides a bus,owns no car.she gets so excited if we give her a gift card.i am blessed

@LeolaGlamour

Жыл бұрын

You’re bragging about making good money and not buying your mom a car or helping her out? Disgraceful

@t.w.195

Жыл бұрын

Exactly. Bless your mother. Please

@xPROGNOSISx

Жыл бұрын

You gotta be trolling.

@sm3296

Жыл бұрын

@@LeolaGlamour I live near my eldest son, I don’t have a car either or expect any financial help from them, and as long as I’m able to take care of myself I won’t. I hope the day never comes that I need to ask them for help. I’m an adult.

@shirleymlombo2913

Жыл бұрын

@@LeolaGlamour It must be a cultural thing. Where I am from, you take care of your parents if you have the means to. No need to wait for them to ask. Western culture is individualistic. Of course, some parents are demanding, which is a big no.

Why did the judge act like not speaking to your parents isn’t normal?

"He has another on on the way. My son is just...all over the place." LOL!!!!!!!! Sh's so crazy.

@sah-nae

Жыл бұрын

Right , I was like what loving mother would try to throw her son under the bus on national TV , that she "loves " so much 🙄

Douglas at the End 🤣 ohh boy - Soon as the guy said No he is NOT willing to open the door - Douglas rolled his head away - This young man most of had it hard if he is not willing to reconnect with his parents. And he doesn’t want his kids to face the same fate. Don’t blame him🤔💜

Grand parents have NO RIGHTS B if he says youre not seeing the kids, your not.

@sdays59

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, say that to the thousands of grandparents raising or supporting their grandchildren!

@Amy-xoxo305

Жыл бұрын

@@sdays59 its true

Toxic family members need to be kept at a distance.

😂 They really think " Disrespectful" is an argument

She has been his Mother his whole life....no shit sherlock.

Lol - the whole “id never sue my parents” or “hope they work it out for grandkids” Ya the hard truth is some parents are terrible people; narcissists who use their children as pawns and excuses for their behavior; some are heartless, abusive and cruel. The children unlucky enough to have them as their guardians should not be made to feel as though they owe these awful people once theyre adults. The trauma and abuse doesnt just go away instead your stuck undoing all the unhealthy coping skills and behaviors you picked up

@sah-nae

Жыл бұрын

YESSSSS

All those people outside the court not even understanding that not all parents are good

Good moms don’t call themselves good moms. Their kids usually give them that title…

@sah-nae

Жыл бұрын

🥴😏

She's not good at these kind of cases because she can't fathom shitty parents

@Channel-JJ

Жыл бұрын

👍

I’m so blessed to have amazing parents bc this is sickening and sad! As a man , you have 1,000 excuses, you’re a low life and for her to lay up and can’t afford to lay up ! The mother acts like she can’t get off her behind and go get a job ! The fact y’all didn’t have a place , so you asked your child ! Sick ! It’s not his mother , it’s that grown ass man!!!! If it was only his mother, he wouldn’t be here . The mother is entitled.

As a mom of three adults I say this…. Those parents are 100% responsible for EVERYTHING. Even as adults we are to protect them when needed and NEVER become a negative in their lives. Shame on this mom.

These “parents” are one of these most trifling people I’ve ever seen. They fkd him over but they’re mad that “he disrespected them”. They deserved everything he may have said to them. I hope he realizes that family is the people who actually love and care for him….not just those you share blood with.

Black mothers always talking about respect 🤣🤣😂🤣🤣😂 they be mad petty.

The look on the plantiffs face speaks volumes with respect to even being here in court with a lawsuit against his very own mother. Very sad and unfortunate. This is horrible

@LeolaGlamour

Жыл бұрын

If there was ever a time to talk about the woes of women it would be now. It’s crazy how you never put down the women who deserve it.

@jshaianne26

Жыл бұрын

@@LeolaGlamour He's weird 🤣

@LeolaGlamour

Жыл бұрын

@@jshaianne26 So weird

Respect to the son in the hallway. He lays it down flat out enough is enough. We're done.

This just inspired me to follow through and sue my mom. I put a internet bill in my name at my moms new apartment after she left my dad and she left me with a 1k bill. We haven’t spoke in months bc of it and she caused my credit to decline and I just can’t get over it.

@blacklabellipo

Жыл бұрын

Don’t leave out the part that I was on the ventilator due to Covid and almost lost my life. That I woke up paralyzed and had to learn how to walk and feed myself again. That as soon as I got off the ventilator that I told you from the hospital numerous times to go over to the apartment and to get the equipment in order to return it. I even asked you to take your brother so he could unscrew it. Instead, you chose not to pick up the cable equipment and you took all my decor and picked through the furniture you wanted. You were told that it would be a charge for unreturned equipment. We have not spoken due to your lack of compassion and responsibility. Not only am I still recovering and lost my job due to not being able to speak because the ventilator damaged my voice box, but I suffered financially and you refused to allow me to pay you what I could afford which was $70 per month, $35 weekly. In fact, you accepted 1 payment and then changed the agreement. It would be paid by now. You forget to add that you JUST bought a new computer and have been using mine that I gifted you. As well as, the furniture I bought you for your apartment and the thousands of dollars of nail tech supplies you were given. If you take me to court, you will be countersued and you need to understand that you went back on a financial agreement yourself. You are lack compassion and are selfish. Not very intelligent either. If I had a very ill mother with over $200k in life insurance, I’d be sure to not post on the internet because I would be disinherited from any policies. You are the example of a child that has a lot of nerve. Verses a child that has been taken advantage of. You have a lot of nerve to go on here and not give the full story. You need to really look at the person you are. I have been in and out of the hospital for the past year due to this long term recovery. I cannot believe your shamelessness. I wrote all your responses to get you the management position you have to make the money you make. You have the audacity to speak on karma. You should prepare for the karma you are earning now. I still love you. Always have. My life was not more valuable to you than $1k? And put me out here like I’m the parent in this video. It’s a sad moment to see this today.

They had a phenomenal relationship before this and hopefully they will continue after this obstacle. They are not bad parents just made a mistake based on emotions and desperation. Happy healing to the family.

@fuckblesssquad

Жыл бұрын

U know them personally?

The mother is just wrong period never depend on anyone for anything 💯. To the judge stop trying to tell everyone to make up with their families, some families are horrible and toxic.

@franciscoguzman1065

Жыл бұрын

@mashonda Knight not really like i mentioned these toxic families are only hurting themselves and the mother was wrong for moving in with her son or what not . Get your own place.

@Channel-JJ

Жыл бұрын

exactly 👍

I know his frustration all too well. Keep living young bro

I truly believe his mom has done him wrong his whole life. For him to say at the end he dont want them around his kids says alot

@sah-nae

Жыл бұрын

Yep

Is it me or does the step-dad look like Method Man? hehehe

@cindymann3673

Жыл бұрын

And she reminds me of Tiffany Haddish.lol

Sorry, y’all, but you’ll understand when you or your loved one is on your deathbed you’ll believe the scripture in the Bible that says “LOVE triumphs over judgement “, “ LOVE covers a multitude of sins” and to FORGIVE 77 x 7. ‘Honor you mother and father’ if you want to be blessed.

@franciscoguzman1065

Жыл бұрын

@S Days stop the mother is wrong. Parents have to also not leech off their sons. Yes it’s your parents but the mom knew better.

@kinapooh9275

Жыл бұрын

Yea but to deal with entitled parents is a whole other thing..

@kinapooh9275

Жыл бұрын

You can honor from a distance and still not be disrespectful..my mama is gone on to be with the Lord and I would never disrespect her but she would also never do this kind of thing to me...

@misfit_pets5731

Жыл бұрын

I have no issues not being in contact with my father when he died. God can decide if he wants to forgive and deal with him everyday I don't have to.

@tonyagibson7986

Жыл бұрын

Based on my reading of the Bible, Jesus doesn’t want anyone to endure abuse.

When kids become adults they truly know what type of person their parent(s) is/are.

Having a good relationship w/your parents is very important and it’s sad seeing kids not getting along w/ their parents but some parents are very toxic and the children will remember how they were treated growing up & as adults they decide if they want to deal w/ the drama anymore……most end up cutting their parents off.