Solving Listener Dating Scenarios - Part 1
You know what, guys will get away with whatever you let them get away with. So let’s talk about what that might be. You guys submitted dating and relationship scenarios that include the big conversation of social media in dating, wanting a commitment with someone who isn’t on the same page, heartbreak, seeking male validation and how to move on from that, breaking up when living together, how you know when it’s over, relationships when kids and ex-wives are involved, how to survive being single in your 30s, and why it’s always the guys who we never want who want us.
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"this guy sounds like a real piece of sh*t". hhahahahaha. Best line of the video!!! LMAO...
I loved your response to the one who can’t deal with the bf getting along and doing events with the ex. I love that. My dad was always invited to thanksgiving and holidays or whenever . My step dad was so great about it . I wish everyone could do this
@estherfark
16 күн бұрын
Yes!!! My parents could never be in the same room together. Kids first always. As usual, Kristen gets it
I’m a Gen X’er so maybe I don’t get the whole social media thing but why don’t these women just block their exes on social? Why are they allowing them to continue being part of their lives?
@fishfooood
17 күн бұрын
🎉
@MsJen_GZ
16 күн бұрын
They miss the attention lol
@hfm16
12 күн бұрын
Cuz they like the attention from them...
@mirrorgt908
8 күн бұрын
True, me as a millennial 1994. I tell them I don't want them cause I know they are not good for me. But I still want them to bug me 😂😂
This should be a regular segment 💯 great, straightforward advice! And keep reminding us how many d bags we are lowering our standards for! 🙌🏽
@isabellouis3833
9 күн бұрын
AGREE
Wow it just hit me they don’t live together. I thought it was another marriage not happening thing. Yeah you don’t stay with someone for years who won’t live with you…that is insane.
LOVE THIS! We need a Justin and Kristin addition
I LOVE these kinds of episodes where you answer our questions! You always give such good and honest advice. Can't wait for Part 2!!!
Great advice all round. I’m 39, 3 kids so a bit experienced in life like yourself and this is great advice for younger ones too. Wish I knew what I know now when I was younger.
Cousin Kristin always gives great advice ❤
I wouldn’t stay with a guy after 9 yrs if he wasn’t ready to commit to many risks to keep waiting on him!
Love uuuuuuu Kristin. Loved you since Laguna Beach! Great advice! So True!
DO MORE OF THESE!
I can’t stress enough how much this podcast is so amazing, and Kristin’s selection of topics are always TOP TIER! I listen in the morning with my coffee, and I thoroughly enjoy, thank you Kristin, keep up the amazing work!
Saying you love someone who you have not met or is not mutually reciprocated is awful. That is not love. It’s creating a picture in your head that will likely never come true and hold you back from meeting someone
I completely agree with you on the 9 year relationship question. Girl - if he was the love of your life, he would have proposed. Break up with him and while it will be hard, you'll get what you want - real love and commitment w/ a family. I also agree that you need to actively remove yourself from the person and it will get easier. Some, great advice!
Maybe he’s graduating college. I died 😂😂 I love you!!😂💕
There’s absolutely no reason divorced parents need to be hanging out just because there’s kids involved. They’re not together for a reason and it becomes two entirely separate lives. Period
Wise woman! I found myself nodding in agreement to everything you said while cleaning my kitchen 😂 I feel like you have to go through a lot to be this wise however and you and I are the same in that ❤
Say it straight the girl should dump the guy she has been with for nine years. He obviously knows he doesn't want to marry her, she needs to leave and find someone else.
Love these. Keep them coming! Best real and raw advice from someone who's experienced so many different situations. A lot of the advice is similar to what I tell women because I've experienced some of the same shit, but I'm also built a little bit differently so I don't sulk in things. I can honestly say, though... I've had less BS from men due to my nonchalant attitude with them, but have experienced wayyyy more bullshit with female friendships. So many users and disloyalty. its wild..
@creamsaroyan7358
17 күн бұрын
What does that mean, your built differently? Than who?
@89Drmz
17 күн бұрын
@@creamsaroyan7358 than a lot of women hun. I’m a nurturer yet really nonchalant. I will give you love, affection, great energy, pour into you, be all domestic and what not, but on the other hand, What would make most women become emotional just won’t move me. I’m not clingy, you can’t make me jealous, once you do some bullshit, you’re cut off and there’s no coming back. I’m not the type to blow up your phone and all that stuff. I have an ex now that has been blocked on everything so he resorted to cash app notes and email. I simply don’t tolerate most things that I’ve witnessed women accept until they were mentally exhausted. You will cry and beg before I do. I just refuse to allow a man to ever break me again. I did that when I was younger. One experience created a monster. Never again.
SUCH a good episode! You are absolutely killing it with the pod 👏🏽
Was soo happy to find your channel 🩷☺️
Hello Kristin, I’m a fairly new subscriber and just watched part 1…I just wanted to tell you that you are so good with your answers to these questions..I’m older but have 2 daughters that are 35 & 37, if I could have given some of these answers as they became young ladies out in the dating world maybe things would have been better? Some of your questions make so much sense and I just wanted to say that you are so wise beyond your years…I hope there’s girls out there taking some of your advice, because I really think you could help these relationships..and by the way, you are golden as the one lady said…I wish you all the happiness in the world with Montana and going forward…☺️❤️💥
Social media is not good for a relationship even if you have boundaries and the relationship is healthy.
Love your advice for the last question! Perfect ❤❤
Every episode is just so good. ❤❤
Enjoyed this episode good job K
Great advice Kristin!
More of these videos please!!!! 🙏🏼
More of this please!!
Love your podcast Kristin Cavallari ♥️
The Third question, that guy is a narcissist. Plain and simple.
hey kristin have a wonderful week and a wonderful month of july
LOVE YOU KC!!
I follow 185😬 know majority and admire the rest, why do I want to follow 1000 strangers😂 Kristen your advice is not what we want to hear however what we neeeeed to hear!! ❤❤
Kristin is being really nice to this 9 years committed but still living separately person! The answer is: it's ultimatum time! "Best friend and love of your life" but won't put a ring on it? Step 1: March immediately to the nearest fertility doctor, start freezing those eggs and pray they're viable. Step 2: tell this guy to commit or you're walking.
I love love love your vibe ❤❤ and responsessss and how you think, Capricorn mind set 😇😇😊 which I love as a Leo!
9 YEARS?! No honey. You're not the one. Move on. He's doesn't think you're the one.
Ok if my husband went on a boat with out me with his x nah she’s his x period,but all going together yes definitely I love that
every woman on this episode, forget about the guy - sincerely, a guy
I have tried to send Kristin several questions and she has never answered them. How are people sending her questions? Anyone? Help?
You’re so funny.
Kristin is confusing.. Justin has been honest about Kristin giving douchy men chances.. so her take on Justin bobby, which was a tv show, seems a tad dishonest. I think that’s a reason why audience enjoys Justin, he keeps it real
@AshleyS-hi2ns
16 күн бұрын
She was using Audrina and Justin because the person "asking" for relationship advice used them as an analogy. And to be honest, those three personalities exist. You have the girl who constantly lets the man treat her however he wants and the girl still allows him back (Justin and Audrina) or you have a girl who don't give a shit (Kristen) telling the guy Justin "I'm no bullshit, and I'm not playing your games" scenarios. Sometimes the girl who don't play the games gets the guy. The girl who plays the games is constantly getting played emotionally. We all know the hills was fabricated. I don't think Kristin was being confusing, and because you have those three people (the one who has a "backbone" and is strong and independent, compared to the needy girls and the "pushovers" the guy will treat you how you allow yourself to be treated...Let's be honest (pun intended) I'm sure we all know people like this.
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The first one Kristin is exactly right that is not her man what is she even saying smh
I disagree with the follows. If he’s spending a ton of time looking at the photos, ok there is a problem but simply not unfollowing doesn’t say anything to me. I don’t even care or know who my husband is following because I trust him and know who he is 😂 being that controlling is bad advice in my opinion
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I love you but it’s too much control.. it’s ok to like and follow anyone u want.. it means nothing..
@haley8591
17 күн бұрын
Wrong
Kristen, you give really good advice! I notice myself always nodding to everything you say lol. Love seeing your growth in life!