So you think you’re ready for marriage?

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Welcome back to another video! We hope you enjoyed this conversation we had about marriage, which we think is really important to have. Many want to be married, but not many are aware of what it takes to be married. What are your thoughts on this topic? Let us know down below ❤️
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  • @MorenitaBonita19
    @MorenitaBonita193 жыл бұрын

    I'm Christian (and my name is Jasmine). I love this channel..💕 Idk why but I gravitate more towards Muslim couples 💕 I align with their values more than other couples/channels. Like in the West no one takes marriage seriously, and hookup culture has ruined things even in the Christian church.

  • @JasmineFares

    @JasmineFares

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for watching! You’re amazing ❤️❤️

  • @bossyman123boss5

    @bossyman123boss5

    3 жыл бұрын

    Become Muslim its a beautiful lifestyle

  • @user-gh4rc3jz4o

    @user-gh4rc3jz4o

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@bossyman123boss5 yessir

  • @Asiyah2000

    @Asiyah2000

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@bossyman123boss5 Absolutely walahi Islam is the way of life 😊💕☝️

  • @peanutbutter-bananashake

    @peanutbutter-bananashake

    3 жыл бұрын

    kzread.info/head/PLELnxupXgVCJGRaNnvoQsZ8fJdwzlP6Fr .

  • @rosesmiles2384
    @rosesmiles23843 жыл бұрын

    Dawoud looking at her when she talks is so cute 🥰 🥰🥰

  • @arabianprinceflyeaglesfly1700

    @arabianprinceflyeaglesfly1700

    3 жыл бұрын

    Where else is he gonna look? it’s pretty normal to look at the person talking

  • @Mahi-br7nz

    @Mahi-br7nz

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@arabianprinceflyeaglesfly1700 lmaooo

  • @supercritics12345

    @supercritics12345

    3 жыл бұрын

    🔴Mohammed died fat and wealthy from what was taken from others in war or demanded from others in tribute 🟢Jesus demanded nothing for himself and dies without possessions

  • @daniaelmeghrab1668

    @daniaelmeghrab1668

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@supercritics12345 who asked

  • @KatooYT

    @KatooYT

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@supercritics12345 the story your talking is either taken out of context or not even true, I've literally spent the last half an hour looking for it, and the only close thing I could find is when Muhammad (s.a.w) ordered the execution of a blind man who had killed his Jewish wife/concubine, he didnt end up being killed tho... P.s. 🔴"O daughter Babylon, you devastator! Happy shall they be who pay you back what you have done to us! Happy shall they be who take your little ones and dash them against the rock!" (Psalm 137:8-9 NRSV) 🟢“You may also fight them to eliminate oppression, and to worship GOD freely. If they refrain, you shall not aggress; aggression is permitted only against the aggressors.” (Quran 2:193)

  • @sakinahyder1910
    @sakinahyder19103 жыл бұрын

    *my Engagement in 7 days* Jasmine and Dawood: "..Are you ready for marriage?" Me: *evaluates all my life decisions*

  • @massiboukerrou8340

    @massiboukerrou8340

    3 жыл бұрын

    God helps u mate ♥️

  • @rebwarakram1289

    @rebwarakram1289

    3 жыл бұрын

    Not worries mate, I think they meant we are never gonna be ready. So, when you're ready and made the decision, you're ready and God will help you inshaallah. He is the only planner.

  • @cavall2000

    @cavall2000

    3 жыл бұрын

    Grl my wedding is in 7 days! And here I am watching this

  • @qoon7689

    @qoon7689

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@cavall2000 omg😭😭 I’m literally crying for both of you, May your marriage be full of love and understanding, May Allah bless your marriages Ameen🌸 I’m crying literally😭😭😭 Wishing the best for you sis So here’s a bouquet for you from my side as a gift 👉🏼💐😅🙈🙈 Take care sis💞 I’m sorry this is getting so weird,I’m gonna go now😬

  • @rxxm2650

    @rxxm2650

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@cavall2000 girl ur wedding is tomorrow??????

  • @himaririku5289
    @himaririku52893 жыл бұрын

    me: *has no plans to marry* also me: *watches anyway and takes note of everything*

  • @isamash112
    @isamash1123 жыл бұрын

    I am Christian. Honestly, I believe that God has a plan for each and everyone of us and His timing is the best. Sometimes we may think that we are ready for something big, like marriage, but it may not be the right time for whatever reason. We may find out a year later or decades later and that's ok. I think also knowing yourself and understanding yourself is important too, what are your goals and where you see yourself. It could be that being with someone, you may find out about yourself, and your priorities may change, and that is ok. For me, I believe that God will guide me.

  • @MorenitaBonita19

    @MorenitaBonita19

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm Christian too :) I love their channel

  • @victoriamarrero1902

    @victoriamarrero1902

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @ummerkasana

    @ummerkasana

    3 жыл бұрын

    I came down to the comments to say something along this vein. So instead of writing my own comment, I will add to this one as a reply. We plan, but Allah plans. Even the "disaster" marriages were destined to be. Allah uses them as a mechanism to get us to closer to him. Marriage is a means to an end, not the end. Allah is the end and this is what we should have in sight before we get married. It will frame the situation correctly and allow us to pursue the person that will get us closer to Allah.

  • @sexisntlove3153

    @sexisntlove3153

    Жыл бұрын

    How lust/desires destroy a person/Muslim ummah and when you follow desires/lust Allah doesn't help or support you!. Astaghfiullah Chapter (4) sūrat l-nisāa (The Women) Allah wants to accept your repentance, but those who follow [their] passions want you to digress [into] a great deviation. Pickthall: And Allah would turn to you in mercy; but those who follow vain desires would have you go tremendously astray. Yusuf Ali: Allah doth wish to Turn to you, but the wish of those who follow their lusts is that ye should turn away (from Him),- far, far away. Shakir: And Allah desires that He should turn to you (mercifully), and those who follow (their) lusts desire that you should deviate (with) a great deviation. Muhammad Sarwar: God wants to be merciful to you but those who follow their evil desires seek to lead you astray. Mohsin Khan: Allah wishes to accept your repentance, but those who follow their lusts, wish that you (believers) should deviate tremendously away from the Right Path. Arberry: and God desires to turn towards you, but those who follow their lusts desire you to swerve away mightily. And who is more astray than him who follows his desires without any guidance from Allah (Sūratِ al-Qasas No.28, Āyat 50) In this verse following certain personal desires and whims is directly linked to being astray. In fact, it is the reason behind being astray. Desires can be a thick curtain over the eyes of the intelligence, refusing to let the light of wisdom in. It is interesting that this verse condemns those desires which are not in line with any guidance from Allah ‘azza wa-jall. This shows that there are some desires which incline towards good and virtue, that which Allah subhānahu wa-ta‘ālā has commanded. They lead a person towards truth and perfection. But it is the whims that are not based on any solid guidance which cause the downfall of the human being. Desires have been placed inside human beings so they may continue life on earth. Desires and emotions such as anger, love, attachment to the self, family, wealth, etc. all have a place and purpose in life. But sometimes these becomes excessive and transgress natural bounds. They take control of the mind and makes it submit. Men then loses the choice to act appropriately in line with his status as the khalīfa of Allah (swt). It is like the flood of desires, unstopped by any dam of guidance, sweeps him away. In another verse of the Quran, Almighty Allah talks about such people: Have you seen him who has taken his desire to be his god? (Q25:43). Desire, for these people, is worshiped, obeyed at all costs. Logic and reasoning have no effect on such people. It is not that there is something wrong in the logic presented to them. Rather it is because of the veils of personal desires which are a barrier. Certain desires can make a person so attached to something that he loses the ability to discern. He becomes subjective and is blind to the truth. That is because a clear perception of the truth cannot be derived when there are emotional attachments to wrong. Such a disease is a huge affliction to the soul. It is becoming common today in a world which glorifies and indulges in desires. Imam Ja‘far al-Sādiq ‘alayhis salām taught this Du‘ā to the believers for clarity of thought and to stay away from following desires: اللَّهُمَّ أَرِنِي الْحَق حَقًّا فَاَتِّبَعَهُ، وَأَرِنِي الْبَاطِلَ بَاطِلًا وفَاَجْتَنِبَهُ، وَلَا تَجْعَلْهُ عَلَيَّ مَتَشَابِهًا فَأَتَّبِعَ هَوَايَ بِغَيْرِ هُدىً مِنْكَ Allāhummā arinil-haqqa haqqan fa-attibi‘ahu, wa-arinil-bātila bātilan fa-ajtanibahu, walā taj‘alhu ‘alayya mutashābihan fa-attibi‘a hawāya bighayri hudan mink. O God! Show me the truth as the truth so I follow it, and falsehood as falsehood do I stay away from it; and let them not seem similar to me, for if this happens then I will follow my own desires without guidance from You. (Bihar al-Anwār, v.86, p.120).

  • @aminahganiyu4599
    @aminahganiyu45993 жыл бұрын

    Some people are lucky and get blessed by growing with a partner and finding themselves whilst in the marriage and some people have to grow alone and figure everything out by themselves before they get married. Everybody has different fates. We all just pray to find our person when we are truly ready and it is the right time.

  • @peanutbutter-bananashake

    @peanutbutter-bananashake

    3 жыл бұрын

    kzread.info/head/PLELnxupXgVCJGRaNnvoQsZ8fJdwzlP6Fr Follow The Sunnah of The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ kzread.info/dron/vBmEy8FCNtVwLm2RgbCBuw.html .

  • @kritakhatun

    @kritakhatun

    Жыл бұрын

    Or perhaps, those who have grown 'alone' are also lucky and blessed because it's a time to settle yourself and be with God. As a therapist, I cannot tell you how many ppl who are happily married talk about the blessings of being single and having more time to focus on ibadah which isn't necessarily the case for some married ppl. I always refer to the story of Maryam who completely indulged herself in her relationship with Allah, but she attained the akhirah which some can't whilst being married. Allah knows what he is doing and he chooses who gets married early and those who marry later when they're more established.

  • @balsammohammed9140
    @balsammohammed91403 жыл бұрын

    R we gonna talk about how ✨ADORABLE ✨Jasmine looks with that beanie

  • @heytherehooyofriejeseo

    @heytherehooyofriejeseo

    3 жыл бұрын

    She looks like a QUEEN

  • @supercritics12345

    @supercritics12345

    3 жыл бұрын

    🔴Mohammed allowed the murder of a half blind man (al-tabari 1440) 🟢Jesus healed a blind man (mark 8:28)

  • @maryamaloves4488

    @maryamaloves4488

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@supercritics12345 so ... and jesus is a prophet . Prophet isa is his name . And the prophet saw was a great example for all of his ummah

  • @KatooYT

    @KatooYT

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@supercritics12345 the story your talking is either taken out of context or not even true, I've literally spent the last half an hour looking for it, and the only close thing I could find is when Muhammad (s.a.w) ordered the execution of a blind man who had killed his Jewish wife/concubine, he didnt end up being killed tho... P.s. 🔴"O daughter Babylon, you devastator! Happy shall they be who pay you back what you have done to us! Happy shall they be who take your little ones and dash them against the rock!" (Psalm 137:8-9 NRSV) 🟢“You may also fight them to eliminate oppression, and to worship GOD freely. If they refrain, you shall not aggress; aggression is permitted only against the aggressors.” (Quran 2:193)

  • @shamnamomar2445

    @shamnamomar2445

    3 жыл бұрын

    She is beautiful in anything, I need some tips 😭

  • @bibivalieva8277
    @bibivalieva82773 жыл бұрын

    nobody: absolutely nobody: not even the comment section: dawoud: MaTiNg

  • @arabianprinceflyeaglesfly1700

    @arabianprinceflyeaglesfly1700

    3 жыл бұрын

    It’s awkward and he knows theirs a lot of under 18 viewers

  • @kawtharbakhach5848

    @kawtharbakhach5848

    3 жыл бұрын

    UNCOMFY lol

  • @peanutbutter-bananashake

    @peanutbutter-bananashake

    3 жыл бұрын

    kzread.info/head/PLELnxupXgVCJGRaNnvoQsZ8fJdwzlP6Fr Follow The Sunnah of The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ kzread.info/dron/vBmEy8FCNtVwLm2RgbCBuw.html .

  • @sumaia9495
    @sumaia94953 жыл бұрын

    in addition to what they said, boundaries are extremely important, i think its important to know what you're okay with and not okay with because having that in mind helps you make a decision and helps you avoid conflict in the future.

  • @JasmineFares

    @JasmineFares

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes very good point!

  • @ElifNurMuhammad

    @ElifNurMuhammad

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yep

  • @toobad9295

    @toobad9295

    3 жыл бұрын

    can you give an example?

  • @user-bc2ik

    @user-bc2ik

    3 жыл бұрын

    What do you mean by boundaries? Could you list some examples?

  • @farkhonda.29

    @farkhonda.29

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@user-bc2ik for example the husband may want to control the wife in the future in terms of if she can work or not, whilst the wife wants to and feels like he has no right to decide that for her

  • @Baby_sxore1
    @Baby_sxore13 жыл бұрын

    When I was 12 years old I was guided to Islam and now I’m 15 and my mindset is ready , I’m always working hard and pleasing Allah, in terms of Marriage I want to do it to complete half my deen it was never on my mind at all then I realized It’s something in my deen and inshallah I’ll be ready great video as well

  • @tamkeensakeena7643
    @tamkeensakeena76433 жыл бұрын

    The only thing I would like to say is that education and career are not supposed to be against marriage. You can do both parallel. It doesn’t have to be marriage or career, marriage or goals, marriage or education. Replace the or with an and. And to be honest, it’s much better because you go through the struggles and growth of life together and that really really makes your connection so much stronger. I think that people should atleast get their nikah done if not like moving in together immediately/having children immediately. Just so that you grow up together and you are there in each other’s sort of “low” periods and you watch them become someone and reach their goals and all of that. And even islamically, the mahr should be LOW, financial “security” is not a criteria Bc like security is a myth first of all Bc what if you get married and lose everything two days later when you’re 27? THATS when you need someone who can be there to support you. Growth is about personality and about knowing their identity not about finance or other material things. Allah even says in the Quran that poor people who get married will be blessed by Allah with money. It’s also statistically accurate that most married people earn more and work harder than unmarried people. Allah knows best.

  • @lo.fr.8092

    @lo.fr.8092

    3 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely agree with you. I feel like this video has not considered poor people at all. But we need to consider poor muslim people because it is a reality. Maybe not in the western world but sure is in the east. And Islamic Laws. are for all, poor and rich alike. Islam does not discriminate.

  • @MorenitaBonita19

    @MorenitaBonita19

    3 жыл бұрын

    27 is still young lol

  • @tamkeensakeena7643

    @tamkeensakeena7643

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@MorenitaBonita19 and it’s unfortunate that people in our society actually think that.

  • @saviour1132

    @saviour1132

    3 жыл бұрын

    I totally agree with you. Its sad to see that young muslims are falling for false ideologies. Please go through Quran and Sunnah and you will realise that many things that this couple are saying are are PURE CAPITALISTIC ideology. Islam is not like that. It promotes marriages early and having children. You know why? Because marriage and children make you mature and the your spouse and your child bring with them their Naseeb and Rizq. So Jasmine and Dawood, we respect you but please polish your islamic concepts by referring to any scholar or aalim. Im saying this with confidence because of real life examples in front of me.

  • @Alex347Fin

    @Alex347Fin

    3 жыл бұрын

    I agree 100%. If you get married with a person for the right intentions and he’s not ready financially, God will bless your marriage. Trying to be “prepared” is a sign of lack of faith.

  • @user-xr8vr4dx7d
    @user-xr8vr4dx7d3 жыл бұрын

    So ironic that I'm going through this current dilemma at 22 years old and I come across your video. This has been so eye-opening. Thank you ❤

  • @sadafnawabi9871
    @sadafnawabi98713 жыл бұрын

    Jasmine is way beyond her years, her points are always spot on, and I feel that Dawoud learns a lot from her. He has a lot of thoughts and idea, but she aligns his thoughts and makes sense of them, beautiful couple

  • @elizabethmendoza4413
    @elizabethmendoza44133 жыл бұрын

    I got married when I was 18 and I am currently 21 right now in the process of getting divorce I thought it was the right thing to do being a Christian and you’re supposed to get married and have a baby and live happily ever after but in reality I realize I was way to young and I wasn’t ready for marriage I didn’t have my own identity and I was lost, but little by little I’m finding who I am

  • @insearchof..918

    @insearchof..918

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's so brave of you 😊❤️

  • @Ab-cj6gl

    @Ab-cj6gl

    2 жыл бұрын

    I wish you all the best brother

  • @chocolatethunder645
    @chocolatethunder6453 жыл бұрын

    It’s so true, timing is everything. I think it’s so important for people to think clearly and have things “together” before getting married. Being sure in yourself and being stable!

  • @ridat-m6564
    @ridat-m65643 жыл бұрын

    I also feel like marriage in this day and age is thrown about very easily, trying to find serious people is difficult. Which is why I think another point should be that you’re ready for that type of commitment, it’s all about your mindset and how you perceive it to be. You have to know the difference between someone who is serious about you or wasting your time you know? That can be dangerous in terms of wanting to get married

  • @targaryenblood

    @targaryenblood

    3 жыл бұрын

    I actually think divorce is thrown around easily these days. The number of people getting divorced after one or two months after marriage... it's scary.

  • @ridat-m6564

    @ridat-m6564

    3 жыл бұрын

    targaryenblood I agree too, but if the marriage process was done thoroughly and carefully, wouldn’t those divorces not happen? Marriage comes before divorce.

  • @peanutbutter-bananashake

    @peanutbutter-bananashake

    3 жыл бұрын

    kzread.info/head/PLELnxupXgVCJGRaNnvoQsZ8fJdwzlP6Fr Follow The Sunnah of The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ kzread.info/dron/vBmEy8FCNtVwLm2RgbCBuw.html .

  • @isamash112
    @isamash1123 жыл бұрын

    Whenever I hear them mention milk, I think about the time when Jasmine said a milk joke to Dawoud when they first started talking and in a video there was a question about how Dawoud knew Jasmine was the one and he mentioned that that time and she was like, "you knew I was the one off of a milk joke". Idk why I find that so funny.

  • @caglaakarakar366
    @caglaakarakar3663 жыл бұрын

    Wow how much I needed this video right now. Im a 20 year old muslim girl and have had contact with a guy before when I had just turned 20. I thought i had it all; a guy who likes me while I didn’t even know myself at that point. I just thought “this must be a sign that I should be with him” And i let all my happiness depend on that one person. I didn’t know what I wanted in life because i was (still am) so YOUNG and NOT ready. I ignored all the red flags and just thought he would change because you know i had that “this must be it, this is a sign that we should be together” mindset (as if there is no other guy in the world for me). Finally realizing that this is not what I want. What i really want is finding myself. Finding happiness within myself and not in another person who didn’t even deserve me. I stepped out (which was so hard but the best decision ive made so far for myself). Im working on self love and self growth now, focusing on my goals and letting things flow and letting my faith in Allahs hands. My advice for young girls ; Don’t rush love or whatever you think “love” is at that age. You wont have your young years back so ENJOY it. You will find someone one day and everything will be amazing inshAllah for us all. ❤️

  • @LaraOmar
    @LaraOmar3 жыл бұрын

    You guys are great inspirations & role models for Muslim men & women!!! Y’all are young and mature and speak with perfect detail that’s really informative yet entertaining🤍

  • @arabianprinceflyeaglesfly1700

    @arabianprinceflyeaglesfly1700

    3 жыл бұрын

    How old are they? The guy looks kind of old

  • @MorenitaBonita19

    @MorenitaBonita19

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@arabianprinceflyeaglesfly1700 😒

  • @maramzaim3949

    @maramzaim3949

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@arabianprinceflyeaglesfly1700 i think they’re in their mid 20s

  • @arabianprinceflyeaglesfly1700

    @arabianprinceflyeaglesfly1700

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Iman Sammy NA15A Hermods Gymnasium STHL Thanks I though the guy was like 30 something

  • @peanutbutter-bananashake

    @peanutbutter-bananashake

    3 жыл бұрын

    kzread.info/head/PLELnxupXgVCJGRaNnvoQsZ8fJdwzlP6Fr Follow The Sunnah of The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ kzread.info/dron/vBmEy8FCNtVwLm2RgbCBuw.html .

  • @wj8796
    @wj87963 жыл бұрын

    I always appreciate Jasmines perspective, and can see growth in her post marriage! 💕

  • @rananasr5620
    @rananasr56203 жыл бұрын

    Just to add to jasmines point about being ready, another thing which I find important as well is while you get to know yourself, it’s important to know what you’re looking for in a partner. What are the qualities that work for you? Some women are already financially set and so maybe “a house” or “money” isn’t the trait they’re looking for and perhaps they want someone more nurturing or kind (not that you can’t be both) but yea just to point that out! Loved this video so much, bless you both💗💗💗

  • @raniaasad9440
    @raniaasad94403 жыл бұрын

    Im 15 and im so thankful for your channel. The topics and advice you give to us young Muslims are often seen as Taboo to discuss between me and my parents, and I really appreciate how straight forward and upfront. your advice is. Thank you

  • @TiffahLabeeb
    @TiffahLabeeb3 жыл бұрын

    Allowing yourself to grow first is very important before you take a new step in your life, whether it's moving out, marriage or having kids. Loved this video 😍

  • @silver-pearl
    @silver-pearl3 жыл бұрын

    Would it be too much if I asked for you to make and present a list of important inquiries and situations we should question when getting into marriage? JazakALLAH for all your efforts!

  • @_sa_8154
    @_sa_81543 жыл бұрын

    Jasmine is literally amazingggg w her words and her advice and everything wow mashallah

  • @MorenitaBonita19

    @MorenitaBonita19

    3 жыл бұрын

    They both are 👌🏽

  • @amarali2083
    @amarali20833 жыл бұрын

    “ it’s different for each and every person” This is so true 👍 Thank you guys for making this video it would have helped so many people who are struggling to find their head space of marriage Love from Australia 😘🥰

  • @TheDextroseSaline
    @TheDextroseSaline2 жыл бұрын

    Soo true that there are no right and wrong answers. I met my husband to be when he was 29 and I was 33, things were not fully ‘settled’ for us but we got married and started figuring it all out together, career, our business etc. Alhamdulillah for everything. Gut feeling plays a big role! I had had several proposals before but the gut feeling wasn’t there so I waited it out until by chance, met the one, Alhamdulillah.

  • @maramar6007
    @maramar60073 жыл бұрын

    You guys videos are the ones that is keeping me sane during the new pandemic quarantine 🙂❤️

  • @QueenMiri
    @QueenMiri3 жыл бұрын

    It really is the consistency for me like YASSS

  • @KatooYT

    @KatooYT

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@supercritics12345 According to the bible Mary the mother of Jesus (pbuh) married Joseph (pbuh) when she was 12 and he was 90 years old.... Yikes bro 😬😬😬

  • @hafsanur25
    @hafsanur253 жыл бұрын

    I am living for the consistent uploadsssssss ❤️

  • @fmsvi
    @fmsvi3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much it was really helpful. I appreciate you guy's honesty. Please do more videos getting deeper into how can we be prepared mentally and spiritually to get married plus helping us with how can we build an identity of our own. Love you guys 💕❤️

  • @hafsahakhtar1667
    @hafsahakhtar16673 жыл бұрын

    just to clarify- in islam the dowry is given to the wife NOT her family and can be any suitable amount

  • @madzwrld14

    @madzwrld14

    3 жыл бұрын

    adding on - its called mahr (ik dowry is probably an easier word for ppl to understand but then some ppl end u thinking the family is "selling" the daughter lmao) mahr is a gift to the wife and the wife decides what she wants as her gift

  • @piqueny8872

    @piqueny8872

    3 жыл бұрын

    A women’s Dowries are forever Every anniversary, every birthday, every valentines, every Seasonal holiday lol it’s never ending The mans gift in return is sex and we don’t mind at all! Lol

  • @sassyqueen9739

    @sassyqueen9739

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@piqueny8872 women r not sex machines.

  • @piqueny8872

    @piqueny8872

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@sassyqueen9739 a mans weakness is sex he will give anything just to get some And yes I agree with you . yet women give sex men receive it

  • @sassyqueen9739

    @sassyqueen9739

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@piqueny8872 no

  • @user-ov1ps7go4m
    @user-ov1ps7go4m3 жыл бұрын

    A few questions: 1. How to resolve conflicts when misunderstandings occur. 2. What to do once the "honeymoon" phase is over.

  • @user-ov1ps7go4m
    @user-ov1ps7go4m3 жыл бұрын

    Go into it with the right mindset. Keep in mind all the responsibilities that comes with it. And most importantly have faith in Allah.

  • @zua240

    @zua240

    3 жыл бұрын

    Well said, mashaAllah

  • @noorjahaanmohamed5916
    @noorjahaanmohamed59163 жыл бұрын

    This was a really good conversation and very helpful. Love your videos, you both make such a great couple and that just makes your videos even better! Lots of love from 🇿🇦

  • @Saarrah12
    @Saarrah123 жыл бұрын

    I love how Jasmine spoke on this! Super intellectual and openminded 👌🏻

  • @mya3050
    @mya30503 жыл бұрын

    Yes yes I've been looking for these types of videos for so long! Thanks!

  • @sarahkhan8877
    @sarahkhan88773 жыл бұрын

    We NEED more marriage advice videos PLEASEEEEEEE !!!!!! Pre marriage / Post marriage JUST ANYTHING 🤗

  • @nooradevon1676
    @nooradevon16763 жыл бұрын

    This edition of video is super duper perfect!!! Yoh both JASMINE AND DAWOOD thank youuuuuuuuuu!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @sumayyahhegazy3008
    @sumayyahhegazy30083 жыл бұрын

    I love how lately they have been posting more and more❤❤❤

  • @yasminnaim4919
    @yasminnaim49193 жыл бұрын

    Love you guys , originally from Egypt , Eritrea and Greece ❤

  • @aishaali5996
    @aishaali59963 жыл бұрын

    The first to comment 😍😍i love you guys soooo muchhhhh......love all the way from KENYAAA🇰🇪

  • @hajakamara7031
    @hajakamara70313 жыл бұрын

    Your topics on ur channel really helpful and worth the time am happy to find you guys❤️❤️❤️🇸🇱🇸🇱🇸🇱

  • @wartanabadanooh7157
    @wartanabadanooh71573 жыл бұрын

    I wish literally making dua today for a good spouse 🙈 May Allah bless us all with a happy and fufilling marriage filled with love, respect and understanding. AMEEN

  • @peanutbutter-bananashake

    @peanutbutter-bananashake

    3 жыл бұрын

    kzread.info/head/PLELnxupXgVCJGRaNnvoQsZ8fJdwzlP6Fr Follow The Sunnah of The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ kzread.info/dron/vBmEy8FCNtVwLm2RgbCBuw.html .

  • @Alhumayraaa

    @Alhumayraaa

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @user-it2ux8mj7p

    @user-it2ux8mj7p

    Жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @idreceghadie
    @idreceghadie3 жыл бұрын

    i’m 16 and have my life planned out hamdillah, working and saving money. inshallah ik what i want in my life

  • @peanutbutter-bananashake

    @peanutbutter-bananashake

    3 жыл бұрын

    kzread.info/head/PLELnxupXgVCJGRaNnvoQsZ8fJdwzlP6Fr Follow The Sunnah of The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ kzread.info/dron/vBmEy8FCNtVwLm2RgbCBuw.html .

  • @insearchof..918

    @insearchof..918

    3 жыл бұрын

    Whoa that's great, what are you doing btw even I wanna do something like that

  • @isamash112
    @isamash1123 жыл бұрын

    Me: sees title Me:16 Me: nope

  • @x_b5259

    @x_b5259

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @sassyqueen9739

    @sassyqueen9739

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same my future goal is to have a luxury apartment by MYSELF and work in my dream jobs that’s it no for marriage no for kids

  • @sapok4925

    @sapok4925

    3 жыл бұрын

    Isa Mash HAHAHAH love it

  • @anassayadkhalil9961
    @anassayadkhalil99613 жыл бұрын

    Man can I just say, I LOVE your videos and you both remind me so much of me and my partner. Ma Shaa Allah, May God bless you 🤲🏽

  • @peanutbutter-bananashake

    @peanutbutter-bananashake

    3 жыл бұрын

    kzread.info/head/PLELnxupXgVCJGRaNnvoQsZ8fJdwzlP6Fr Follow The Sunnah of The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ kzread.info/dron/vBmEy8FCNtVwLm2RgbCBuw.html .

  • @afiakhan7562
    @afiakhan75623 жыл бұрын

    Honestly, this is brilliantly said. Big love ❤️

  • @hananabdulkerim7063
    @hananabdulkerim70633 жыл бұрын

    Every time u post a video I get all giddy and excited

  • @laurenelise1810
    @laurenelise18103 жыл бұрын

    My favs are back AGAIN ?!? Coming through with the Quarantine Content ❤️

  • @peanutbutter-bananashake

    @peanutbutter-bananashake

    3 жыл бұрын

    kzread.info/head/PLELnxupXgVCJGRaNnvoQsZ8fJdwzlP6Fr Follow The Sunnah of The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ kzread.info/dron/vBmEy8FCNtVwLm2RgbCBuw.html .

  • @nurqamarinarosani
    @nurqamarinarosani3 жыл бұрын

    Love you bothh !!! Always waiting for your videos !!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @ayeatalkkk4285
    @ayeatalkkk42853 жыл бұрын

    PERIOD LOVEEE THE INFO LOVE YOU GUYS

  • @Narin1709.
    @Narin1709.3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for the Video really appreciate it that you take your time and give people advise about these important topics and it is so necessary to know yourself before making a commitment to another person it is such a blessing to get married. Inshallah we all find our soulmates🌹

  • @adejumokeadeyemi4641
    @adejumokeadeyemi46413 жыл бұрын

    I agree completely with everything and in my opinion I think identity is very important cause in a relationship, there are obviously two people coming together and if you don’t have your own identity, you might start to adopt the other person’s goal and in the real sense you’re different from that person. Identity ✅. Thanks Jasmine and Dawoud, I enjoy your videos everytime.

  • @senoritanabaa854
    @senoritanabaa8543 жыл бұрын

    the best couples and youtubers ever 🥺❤❤❤ please continue doing more and more videos ❤ we love you guys and support you 🥰🥺❤

  • @ahsprincess4217
    @ahsprincess42173 жыл бұрын

    I love all these videos coming out !! Xx 🥳💕💕💕💕💕💕

  • @nohaibrahim9610
    @nohaibrahim96103 жыл бұрын

    I am really enjoying your videos, especially these discussions. I imagine that I would love it very much if you were on the radio or have a podcast. Wish you all the best🌟.

  • @peanutbutter-bananashake

    @peanutbutter-bananashake

    3 жыл бұрын

    kzread.info/head/PLELnxupXgVCJGRaNnvoQsZ8fJdwzlP6Fr Follow The Sunnah of The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ kzread.info/dron/vBmEy8FCNtVwLm2RgbCBuw.html .

  • @zahrakahdooei6406
    @zahrakahdooei64063 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for filming this Beautiful and informative video 📹❤ I wonder how on earth your personality and your thoughts, the way you understand things is the same as mine whereas I live in another far country ❤but I'm Muslim and you really helped me find my way out. ❤ and at the moment I need this video to watch! Seriously speaking, you guys are really a good one to be psychologist and help the youth to find their way!

  • @salam169
    @salam1692 жыл бұрын

    JazakaALLAH Qayran to both of you for the honest advice. I really needed this.

  • @BlueSky-re8qz
    @BlueSky-re8qz3 жыл бұрын

    Jasmine looks amazing with the black hat (كبوس)

  • @munamahamed790
    @munamahamed7903 жыл бұрын

    Imagine being friend with jasmine in real life 🥰love you gurl and your advice videos. Wishing both happy long marriage ❤️

  • @ieatcaks
    @ieatcaks3 жыл бұрын

    11:10 Man, he's appreciating Jasmine beauty soo much lmaoo, soo cute

  • @shaden6838
    @shaden68383 жыл бұрын

    Omgg love u guys💕 wallahi u answered the question so well & ur jux gd u really help me thank youu so muchh❤❤

  • @aissam.2420
    @aissam.24203 жыл бұрын

    Thank you guys for this kind of video with really good points and advices. 👏🏾 I'm totally agree on time will come but sometimes parents put pressure on. And also I'm curious to have you pov on marriage for someone who never dating and dealing with fear? And Jasmine, before Dawoud did you talk to guys respectfully? Love from Paris ❤🇫🇷

  • @maariyahussain180
    @maariyahussain1803 жыл бұрын

    This was so beautiful to listen to 🖤

  • @afrahqueen4570
    @afrahqueen45703 жыл бұрын

    I love watching you videos I’ve learned we things and understand more about life

  • @Dania.q
    @Dania.q3 жыл бұрын

    I personally think also healing your wounds/traumas (especially if you didn’t have the best up bringing) before you’re fully ready for marriage or even picking a secure healthy partner. It’s true what they say - hurt people hurt people, so if you’re hurt and want to avoid toxic patterns you need to do the work to heal, so you’re capable of not only finding a healthy partner, but also being a healthy partner.

  • @arba9145

    @arba9145

    Жыл бұрын

    Underatted comment

  • @eloisekhan223
    @eloisekhan2233 жыл бұрын

    I usually never write comments about the beauty of someone but when you Jasmine looked up & listened to your husband like... You looked so beautiful♡ Masallah

  • @tima2056
    @tima20563 жыл бұрын

    Can’t wait to watch the video 🥰I love your sit down talking videos

  • @nahiedlaila9601

    @nahiedlaila9601

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too they really make my day haha🥰

  • @maisorour4354
    @maisorour43543 жыл бұрын

    Omg thank you so much for this video

  • @alyssalane3442
    @alyssalane34423 жыл бұрын

    People I've met who married young...got married in like the 1950s ha! Times/circumstances are different. Also, love her advise on being able to stand on your own before you get married . She is so smart, yasss girl!

  • @mmalik1339
    @mmalik13393 жыл бұрын

    Oh my gosh I needed to hear that :)

  • @lizaminasyan9255
    @lizaminasyan92553 жыл бұрын

    Thank u so much I enjoyed and learned a lot from you

  • @uy3780
    @uy37803 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely loved how realistic this was!

  • @azezazez8216

    @azezazez8216

    2 жыл бұрын

    I am looking for a non-Arab girl for marriage, stability, tenderness and love. I am an Arab young man, I am 30 years old

  • @zeinabb.c
    @zeinabb.c3 жыл бұрын

    loved this video! i would love to know more about how to get around letting your parents know that you want marriage and that you want to get to know a certain individual on a more personal level because they are a potential.

  • @peanutbutter-bananashake

    @peanutbutter-bananashake

    3 жыл бұрын

    kzread.info/head/PLELnxupXgVCJGRaNnvoQsZ8fJdwzlP6Fr Follow The Sunnah of The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ kzread.info/dron/vBmEy8FCNtVwLm2RgbCBuw.html .

  • @ahmadfawad2808
    @ahmadfawad28083 жыл бұрын

    say Alhamdulellah for what you two have... may God bless you guys

  • @yaldasafari1496
    @yaldasafari14963 жыл бұрын

    That was a very supporting video to watch. ❤💕❤

  • @sindysu7288
    @sindysu72883 жыл бұрын

    Jasmine and dawoud your videos are so helpful to whoever needs the suggestions 💖🤲🏻may Allah bless you both forever with happiness.

  • @hasj786
    @hasj7863 жыл бұрын

    Hi i had a question: let's say you've got this gut feeling about someone, and you feel like they're the right one, but then you consider possible other options and get stuck in the "pleasing your family/criteria" feeling: what should you do?

  • @macaronpaka1828
    @macaronpaka18283 жыл бұрын

    I just realised both of your eye colours. It's really pretty Ma Shaa Allah 😁

  • @janna5086
    @janna50863 жыл бұрын

    in our culture the nikkah is the wedding like we move in after nikkah, nikkah is never called engagment in our culture, great vid tho helps me a lot while im trying to get an identity for myself before i get someone, im 18 btw

  • @Rachel-su3ir

    @Rachel-su3ir

    3 жыл бұрын

    Nikkah to us is marriage but in our culture (Lebanese and Palestinians in the city that I'm in) we don't move in together until after the wedding.ig the couple isn't having a wedding party then they move in together after nikah.

  • @radiyahtemitayokareem4223
    @radiyahtemitayokareem42233 жыл бұрын

    I definitely agree with growing and being ready for marriage but how do we know we have grown well enough to be absolutely ready for marriage? All of us will grow individually whether we are married or not. You won't be the same person you were when you were 20 now that you are 25. Growing never stops at all. Problems, issues and experiences never stop. And it's different for everyone. Which is why I agree with jasmine. There isnt a specific age for everyone. Somebody's journey might start Earlier or later than others.

  • @mervedeenoverdunya
    @mervedeenoverdunya3 жыл бұрын

    This video is really helpful for people how need a answer to there feeling I think you give the perfekt answer

  • @shaden6838
    @shaden68383 жыл бұрын

    The way he looks at her & she's talking wisely.. damnn... mashallah so cute u both🥰

  • @azezazez8216

    @azezazez8216

    2 жыл бұрын

    I am looking for a non-Arab girl for marriage, stability, tenderness and love. I am an Arab young man, I am 30 years old

  • @duniaali7042
    @duniaali70423 жыл бұрын

    I wish you guys the best in the future, Insha Allah. I really enjoy your videos, it sure Helps a lot ❤️❤️❤️

  • @shahindaa.463
    @shahindaa.4633 жыл бұрын

    You guys are AMAZING! Jasmine, you're a very strong woman masha'Allah , you do remind me of the sahabiyat ❤️

  • @zeinabdib6012
    @zeinabdib60123 жыл бұрын

    i love you guys so much💕

  • @qasimmunir72
    @qasimmunir723 жыл бұрын

    I mean to don’t know if I’m ready to get married or not.

  • @kaykay710
    @kaykay7103 жыл бұрын

    omg i literally want to be Jasmine’s bestfriend❤️ love you guys !

  • @mimiamina3778
    @mimiamina37783 жыл бұрын

    Omg I love you guys god bless you 💖😍

  • @deadlesscat7837
    @deadlesscat78373 жыл бұрын

    Bro they sound like 90 years old grandpa and grandma giving an advice to humanity Lol😂

  • @ma_c_ray3455
    @ma_c_ray34553 жыл бұрын

    Jasmine is a beautiful focus human being and Dawoud is just a prince charming Masha'Allah

  • @LLLadySSS
    @LLLadySSS3 жыл бұрын

    Mating 🤣🤣 didn't think this was the Discovery channel 🤣🤣🤣

  • @TIMEispreciousthanGOLD

    @TIMEispreciousthanGOLD

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @rakaia555
    @rakaia5553 жыл бұрын

    I totally agree with you guys especially with following your gut.

  • @afthabmuhammad695
    @afthabmuhammad6953 жыл бұрын

    I just made this super strict timetable for study and stuff and decided to keep off KZread for a while, but guess what J&D just made another video. My brain immediately " Make exception in your timetable for J&D videos, pronto" And as usual jam packed with really good info. Well done again J&D.

  • @JasmineFares

    @JasmineFares

    3 жыл бұрын

    You’re awesome, thank you!!

  • @suraalmansour
    @suraalmansour3 жыл бұрын

    Love you guys so much❤️ pure couple goals💞💞

  • @azezazez8216

    @azezazez8216

    2 жыл бұрын

    I am looking for a non-Arab girl for marriage, stability, tenderness and love. I am an Arab young man, I am 30 years old

  • @silver-pearl
    @silver-pearl3 жыл бұрын

    You both are so amazing with your words, MashaALLAH and so inspiring!

  • @ElifNurMuhammad
    @ElifNurMuhammad3 жыл бұрын

    All of yalls videos are so entertaining, MashaAllah tabarakAllah 💜🌾🌺💕

  • @LLLadySSS
    @LLLadySSS3 жыл бұрын

    Bruh the title of this video scares me lmao I spent so many years just avoiding the subject and now that I'm getting more okay with it you guys do this to me 😭 I actually think I'm ready ☺️

  • @isamash112
    @isamash1123 жыл бұрын

    I guess it all depends on the individual. My mum was 22 when she met my dad and 24 when she got married. My dad was 25 when they met and 29 when he got married. I am 16 and think that looking at myself, I don't think I will be ready for marriage at 24. I want to so medicine and will probably finish med school at 24. So I guess it depends on the individual. My sister is also 21 and I don't see her getting married anytime soon.

  • @the19970201

    @the19970201

    3 жыл бұрын

    Huh? Your mama married your dad after 2 years but your dad married your mum after 4 years?

  • @carlyh894

    @carlyh894

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’m 23 and I met my fiancé at 20 he was in med school at the time and is now a resident. I’ve helped him a lot through the long hours by taking care of him and our home . Now I am preparing for the MCAT and will hopefully will be in med school by next year he has helped me so much with my guiding me and tutoring me for my classes. We remind each other everyday we couldn’t do it without one another. Keep your mind open anything is possible.