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@bonniekantorowski1982

7 ай бұрын

We love you and thank you for these blessed Kingdom Father Daughter talks on Monday night. God bless 🙏 shared ❤️

@shirlspark_stardust

7 ай бұрын

Sharing on my Twitter i missed the live watching while at work love yall Bishop and first Lady always praying for your ministry in Jesus name 😊🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

@kimberlyshelling4668

7 ай бұрын

Pl🎉ask viewers to Like and Subscribe right away so your content will continue to bless us.

@zandy122

7 ай бұрын

RCBlake I have a question linking from this conversation..what if it your family members..what to do then?

@RCBlakesJr.

7 ай бұрын

@@zandy122 As harsh as it sounds sometimes it’s necessary. However this should not be taken lightly much prayer and thought.

Signs: 1. When you desire to love them beyond their comfort level. 2. The relationship brings more withdrawals than deposits. You are driving this entire relationship and this person is not participating. Audit the relationship: what is being subtracted from me and what is being deposited into me? 3. When you check in with yourself you realise you are completed off-track regarding your purpose and personal journey. 4. When you experience wanting them and detesting them at the same time. You want them and you don't want them. Cognitive dissonance. 5. When the person makes you chase them. 6. When you know, you can sense, that this person isn't right for you.

@georgia6962

7 ай бұрын

Thank you for taking the time to jot this down and share with us. Be 🙌 blessed

@Rose-fe9jc

7 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for writing these out for us ❤

@nkeirukaanyadufu3607

7 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for jotting these down 🙏🏻

@missstarrynight7736

7 ай бұрын

I had to say good bye to a person I hoped to become my best friend. At some point I realized that this lady, who was initially very nice and friendly, created a dynamics of power play, in which she wanted to be chased, just to reject my efforts later on. We often connect "playing hard to get" with romantic relationships, but there are plenty of people, who attempt to cure their inferiority complex by being ostentatiously unavailable to their friends or relatives (but only after creating something resembling a friendly bond). Once they know you're hooked (you like them, care about them, want to be in touch with them) - they turn the switch off, and become cold, distant and "busy". Yeah, that's narcissistic. I am sad, because I thought I finally met a person I really wanted to befriend.Well, her loss. I can confirm that my relation with this person ended exactly for the reasons mentioned by RC Blakes. All of them.

@taramay9866

7 ай бұрын

Thank you for that recap I thought I missed one❤❤

RC BLAKESSSSS you don’t know how much you’ve helped me. It’s been almost a month now that I left my child’s dad after 8 years of narcissism, manipulation & cheating I thought my world was ending and I was operating out of fear of leaving once u said choose your pain and there was POWER in the women walking away I paused the video and immediately packed my bags left everything behind I didn’t even have two nickels to rub together and god has been blessing me left from right and everything I thought I lost god has given back to me 10X better thank you and you are greatly appreciated for your videos!

@joeshawnthomas6602

7 ай бұрын

Wow I feel you girl

@jillwilliams7554

7 ай бұрын

I am proud of you! You are an inspiration to all. Stay blessed. Stay with Father God. ❤️ Always CAPITALIZE God and Jesus out of respect. 🙏🏿🙌🏿🕊️

@user-vq5lw1hb5e

7 ай бұрын

@@jillwilliams7554 💗💗💗 Thank you so much!

@beautiful_wonderfullymade

7 ай бұрын

Wow! I have a narcissist man who I share a 16 month old daughter with. We recently broke up in September. He said we are not longer together because I moved out of our bedroom in September because he called me a Hoee and said that no man will ever love me and I’m only good for sex. I stayed in that room for almost a month before he addressed the situation, and his response to everything is “well I have no access to you so I’ll help you move if that’s what you’re going to do.” Mind you prior to this I’ve been going through constantly verbal abuse from him and him complaining about paying the mortgage (I pay the utilities.) we used to alternate paying the mortgage but since I had the baby and went back to work I wasn’t able to afford to do so. He even said he hates paying for me when we go out to eat and he’s the one who initiates going out to eat. I’ve been financially struggling for a year and he has made me feel unprotected, uncovered and unprovided for. Although I helped him get the home we share, which he publicly doesn’t give me credit for, I know I just need to leave the house behind and start a healthy life for my daughter and I.

@danilaroche1156

6 ай бұрын

You have to leave. Your life is in jeopardy. My ex narc husband tried to kill me. It only gets worse. In addition, you need to repent to the Lord for premarital sex. You need to break soul ties. RC addresses that in his videos.

When they bring nothing, I mean nothing I mean " NO THING" it's time to let it go. THAT PART

I have realised yesterday we don’t miss a specific person. We miss the feeling which we have/had with this person.

It hurts so much. I can relate to all of what you said. I don’t wanna let him go but now I’m doing all the chasing all the sacrifices and I’m hurting so much. Please pray for me to help me heal. I need God so much right now. Three years gone to waste.

@mofimTV

7 ай бұрын

@sunshineyang89 - let go EVEN if it breaks your heart at first. You will get used to it, the pain of separation will wane and your self love and self esteem will skyrocket. Honey, if you stay you will be a shadow of yourself and STILL waste more years... But people'listen to this message, go about their lives without doing anything and they forget or out is aside and another 3yrs go by. Asking for prayers is not what you need. Though we will pray. What You need is to take ACTION.

@aeiou0123

7 ай бұрын

Let go or you will find yourself still there another 5 yrs. So 8 wasted yrs. You hv to understand that men wont go until you let go-- many men will stay in toxic relationships just cos of sex and other benefits they get from you while you do all d work. They stick around till they find a replacement. He is not God so you will be fine without him. He is just a mere mortal

@nicolewilson3214

7 ай бұрын

Nothing is wasted. I'm in the same situation, been with a guy 3yrs and giving him my love, support, encouragement etc.. I told him just yesterday I can't go on like this and I'm ready to walk with God.. asked him if was ready to take the walk with me and give me what I needed as a man after 3yrs.. He said No and God said Go!! But I'll take what I learned during these 3yrs and apply to my next relationship (Which will lead to Marriage!!) How to be more feminine, patience, how to let a good man lead etc.. I'm ready for my journey with the Most High and he will send our husband!!

@danilaroche1156

6 ай бұрын

This stems from childhood wounds that the Lord wants to heal. He will do it when you ask. Pray to find purpose. I'm praying for you.

@thelovelylife7451

6 ай бұрын

It’s okay, girl! It’s been 7 years and two children for me.. finally letting go now, but I feel the same way. I’m devastated

Today is the 1st night, I moved out & is appreciating the peace & quietness ☺️☺️☺️ i’m doing it all for my Heavenly Father I have to fulfill his assignment for me now❤❤❤

@mistyl1987

7 ай бұрын

❤

@samanthaking8492

7 ай бұрын

🙏❤️

@nicolewilson3214

7 ай бұрын

I'm in the exact same place. Had a convo with a man I've been seeing for over 3yrs yesterday. Told him I couldn't do things the way we've been doing things moving forward. Asked him if he can give me what I need (which I don't ask for much more affection, and time) after 3yrs that's pretty cheap. He said No! I prayed beforehand and got the clearest sign ever b4 hand. After he said No.. that solidified EVERYTHING! Today my journey begins. Told him I'm ready to live fir The Most High and start doing things His way.. he said he wasn't ready. So God said GO

@MochaChris

8 күн бұрын

This is my story!...we got this!

It’s challenging to let some relationships go but it’s for your own sake. Some people come to interrupt your destiny.

Hurting your way out of it - is way better than spending years and time still in it. Let it go!!

@andreadejear858

Ай бұрын

A.M.E.N🙏🏽

@daretobehappy7321

23 күн бұрын

Love this.

Choose the HURT!!! Choose your PAIN!!! and cut the soul tie!!! Wasted 2 years and been no contact for 3 months now "blocked" as they continually try to call...everyday gets easier and easier 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Thanks Pastor Blakes as your video's have been providing me the guidance and the therapy that I need. God Bless and feel better🤗

@thelovelylife7451

6 ай бұрын

This is great to hear! Thank you!

I’ve recently decided to grow an intimate relationship with God🙏🏽…He has been my strength to Endure the pain…I’m forever grateful…Ten month’s obedient 🙏🏽🤗

I can't wait to listen! This is so confirmation that I have to let this person and things go. I'm not bringing the same energy into the new year. Sorry, not sorry🙅🏾‍♀️

@trulysensitive5620

7 ай бұрын

ME TOO

@KM-oy5yh

7 ай бұрын

AMEN AMEN AMEN, I just said that, Too🎉🎉🎉🎉

@KM-oy5yh

7 ай бұрын

​@@trulysensitive5620ME #3🎉

@herminiabautista6195

7 ай бұрын

To let go of a useless person is not a loss, but a gain

@brittani.inthecity

7 ай бұрын

Me too! ❤🤞🏽🙏🏾

I like every message from Bishop RC Blakes Jr. His messages are always on point and true. Amen and Amen 🙏🏽

@joydorsy3341

7 ай бұрын

Bishop is the BEST HE IS SO CONCERN ABOUT US.

@privacy9175

7 ай бұрын

And Amen again. ✝️

@ilissawalker7051

7 ай бұрын

Frfr. Yes!!

The Holy Spirit talked to me the day before my marriage again. I didn't listen, i felt something i never felt so horrible but i said it was something else, after all the mess and the traumatic marriage i went through and now going through a divorce i understand it was the holy spirit trying to save me from this nitemare. I am grateful that, after all, God has been so mercyful that he kept me and literally saved my life. He has given me another chance that i dont deserve. God is so good. i am only here because of God's mercy .

@CodyCole80

6 ай бұрын

Praise YAH!!!

I needed this. Many of us have no real-life guidance, and bothering loved ones with this type of stuff can cause you to feel like a burden on your loved ones. Thank you.

@arielove7504

7 ай бұрын

Yes so this is so true

@sunshinesunflowerz1647

7 ай бұрын

Tell me about it. Heard my mom on the phone, telling someone that "she's just gonna have to learn how I did..." 😮👀😮‍💨 How cold and distant.

@lala5061

Ай бұрын

​@@sunshinesunflowerz1647sometimes that's all tbey can say cuz we do not listen we just be so in love 🙄😔

My prayer and focus has been on not taking another thing into a new year that’s not God ordained or God approved🙏🏾🙏🏾

"Choose your pain!"💯 This was an awesome word! 🙌🏾 Thank you Bishop Blakes! 🙏🏾

My #1 sign that it is time to let a person go is the title of your video!

#3 is really #1 for me. When your desire to be with or serve another person leads you to break covenant with God, it's a clear sign that this is not a relationship sent from God. That will lead you to feeling that love/hate toxicity from #4.

I went through most of these stages ,then i made up my mind to just walk away from this person that wasn't even worth it. It was the best decision I ever made. I am finally madly in love with my self....Its such a good place to be.

I’ve been guilty of some these toxic behaviors and been the victim. What really struck a chord with me was the sign that if you love and hate someone at the same time. I’ve been in this situation ship for years and the feelings of hate and resentment keep growing. I don’t want to be a bitter old lady and that’s where I’m headed if I don’t let this man go. Thank you Pastor! Merry Christmas to you and Lisa!

Timely word. The Lord knows what we need and when we need it 🙏 ❤

@user-oj5je9hk5k

7 ай бұрын

very true

Every single point hit home. I am glad i found the strength to leave. It was very painful but im stronger now than before. My spirit knew, but i chose to ignore. Never again will i ignore my intuition

@thelovelylife7451

6 ай бұрын

Same. I always had this “off” feeling.. even though everything was okay with us for a long time. I ended up visiting psychics (stupid, I know) and they told me everything I needed to know. They were right.

Amen. Gives us the strength and courage to LET GO!

Right after he told me on last night. He knows what I deserve, but can’t give it to me right now…. Right on time as always Bishop. 🙌🏽❤

@danilaroche1156

6 ай бұрын

At least he told you. Dismantle soul ties and pursue the Lord.

I just found out the man i like has a fiance!! He gave me all the signs of being interested..i was like finally a man who believes in god is showing interest. Moving on. I dont think its normal to seek attention from someone when you are in a relationship , maybe it is dont have enough experience. A good man will come my way :)

@tarao4382

7 ай бұрын

Absolutely! I believe people come on our life to teach us a lesson. Sorry, how did you find out? How did you meet him? Sorry for the questions.

@Didi-fr5ic

7 ай бұрын

​​@@tarao4382I saw him at the gym , I started showing signs to show him I'm interested, had a conversation and he never moved towards me but he keeps looking at me and get jealous when other men talk to me so in general I don't think he Is doing anything wrong , he thinks I'm beautifull so he likes the attention but tonight I saw him again and he keeps staring and workout next to me haha strange anyway I know he has a fiance he does not know 😂 Ps.. I want to ad one more thing, I truly believe if a ma is happy with his wife or fiance he will not seek attention from other women, that to me is wrong on many levels.

@danilaroche1156

6 ай бұрын

Some men just like the attention and ego stroke. It's a very selfish & manipulative thing. I thought I was marrying 4 years ago. The man was saying he loved me. Wanted marriage. Wanted JESUS. He had a girlfriend the whole time. He was a lying witch. Thank the Lord I didn't get in a sexual relationship with him. Lesson learned? Listen to your gut, intuition. Even your body will alert you.

@nycolemartin5780

5 ай бұрын

Just take your time

@nycolemartin5780

5 ай бұрын

Take care of self always.

"You can not make adjustments between another person's ears". ❤️🙏🏼✝️ Absolute truth.

Amen you got to let them even if it includes your family. Abraham did it and he was blessed with a new family. Hallelujah

@catrinaslade9450

7 ай бұрын

AMEN

I cried the whole time and I'm at work 😭😭. I had to sit in my truck 😮. YOU HIT ALL POINTS THAT I'M IN NOW I UNDERSTAND I HAVE TO LET IT GO‼️‼️ NEW YEAR, NEW ME I DON'T WANT TO BECOME NO ONE SLAVE🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️. I'M A 56 YEAR OLD WOMAN AND HE'S 44 FROM NORFOLK,VA ( THANK YOU) JANUARY 5, 2024.

@CodyCole80

6 ай бұрын

Not judging, but as a woman, I’ve never trusted nor felt comfortable dating anyone more than 5 years younger. It usually never works out, being that most guys that are way younger than the woman have an agenda. It’s for help, not love. Good luck Sis.

AMEN Bishop Blakes!! It is very important to "audit the relationship" and see if the other person is an asset or liability. I did that almost 10 years ago and I had to let that liability go because I couldn't afford to become emotionally, spiritually, or mentally bankrupt trying to want more for someone than they want for themself. Thank you and Lady Lisa for your rich and timeless teaching.

This was so powerful for me! I finally completely left my toxic relationship a month ago. So much of these points were true for me, but I needed to hear it. On to bigger and better things, by myself and with God. 🥰

MY GOD this was my confirmation message for letting go! My soul & spirit is now FREE!! 🔥🙏🏼💃🏼

“You cannot make an adjustment between a person’s ears”-Bishop RC Blakes This statement alone was so Freeing, thank you kindly Sir. Blessings to you and Lady Lisa.

dude i cant even listen to this i cant stop crying

Thank you so much, Pastor.

Spot on fantastic video. Thank you!!

Thank You so much for the information!

Thank you, thank you, as always. This video was much needed for me.

Great Topic today Bishop R.C Blakes

Bishop! This is very informative, it makes so much sense🤔

This was the clarity that I needed. Thank you so much.

Thank you for this word! God definitely speaks through you!

Timely word thank you Bishop for the push 🙏🏽🦋

I really needed to hear all of this in this season of my life. Thank you!🙏🏾

Great helpful message Pastor! Thank you! Feel better😊

I have absolutely found a new love in this page so much knowledge and understanding

That was a good word and confirmation of what's necessary.

This is such a great topic

This one brought me to tears with the last point. Grateful for the truth + wisdom you generously share. ♥️

Thank you so very much for this message! You spoke directly to me with point number four. You are truly the brother that I never had. Feel better and God bless you. Lisa

Thank you ❤ I totally agree! This talk gives me strength and hope to work on moving on from a worn-out engagement. Peace & blessings to you and your family. Amen

Thank you for the message. I never needed to hear this more than now. May we keep each other’s family in prayers. Thank you again!!!!!

Can't wait for this one I had to do this it wasn't easy bur it was something that had to be done so glad I did ❤❤❤

Thank you Bishop. I hope the cold clears up soon and you feel better soon!

Amen Amen Amen thank u so much pastor Blake s you are really helping others with this great message

This is an eye opener this conversation is timely for me thank you Bishop RC Blakes

There is an anointing on this message.❤

Good evening Pastor Blakes and Lady Blakes ❤

❤Thank you !!! This one is what I needed to hear! God Bless you for this message 🙏

You never cease to amaze me RC! Such wisdom! Truth be told. 🕊️✝️

Great content for your listeners thank you so much!!

I had to let go of few people they didn’t respect me and used me. One try to manipulate me back into their life. Some people can’t accept the new you. I told him we don’t have no connection and I can’t trust you. I told him I’m not same naive person that you know. Some people want relationships but good relationships pose to be reciprocal including family. I reached out but u don’t reach out to me in months that meant you don’t want to be bother no one is that busy esp when most people have their phone with them. You can click on hand to say hi.

Brother R.C Blakes your videos are always inspiring and informative. Thank you ❤

I needed this message. Thank you 🙏🏾

This is some seriously, seriously important stuff right here. Thank you for the gift Bishop 🙏🏽💯

This is an amazing presentation and have learnt a lot from this thank you and a happy New year

This WORD was right on time! Thank you Bishop!

Thank you for this confirmation discussion. It’s just what I needed to hear tonight

Merry Christmas to you and Lisa🎄

Your analogy in the second sign is magnificent! Your signs are so clear and understandable! You have truly opened my eyes. I been going back and forth with this decision for some time now, but wanting to hang on because I love this person. Knowing in my heart that us separating would be the best thing for both of us!!! Thank you so much!!!❤❤❤

Good Evening, Bishop Blake and everyone

This teaching was well received, thank you Bishop.

I will be sharing this link and the video afterwards as well

Awesome Message Bishop Blake’s, spoke directly too my Spirit, thanks for taking the time out your night and day messages, very helpful, Happy Holidays to you and 1st Lady Lisa Blake’s 😇❤️🙏

Bishop I thank God for you!! You have such wisdom and grace when your speaking it hits straight to the heart of a person ! This was definitely what I needed better the end of a thing than the beginning!! Finishing strong 💪🏾 this year!

I'm now fully awaken from your preaching Bishop RC Blakes of not loving a person who never reciprocates with the love I give. God bless you Bishop Blakes and your family. Happy holidays🎉🎉

Needed this tonight ❤thank you

You are a blessing ! Thank you 🙏🏾

Thank you so much Bishop for sharing all your wisdom and knowledge with us. God bless you and your beautiful family❤️❤️

Powerful!!

This message was Deep!and I receive it all.Thank you Pastor 🙌

I respect your teaching

“Liability vs Assets” Hallelujah!!!! Paying attention ❤

Good evening pastor, I am so happy to hear you spoke this words 😊, because some people were not hearing you 😊

Good evening Queens I hope all is well with u and your families..Good evening Pastor Blakes

Good evening First Lady and Bishop Blakes 🎉

He is speaking nothing but the truth. I love this message truly the best of his one of many best messages frfr❤!!! Thank you, Pastor RC Blake's and first lady Lisa ❤

Pastor Blakes, thank you so much for this amazing message. Every sign you spoke of was so relevant to my situation. The ultimate in disrespect just occurred last night. Your timely message was so helpful. The HS certainly is present in what you say. I appreciate you speaking so directly and emphatically about this topic. It's finally getting through to me. Please be well. I'm praying for you to get well.

This was one Message i been living and needed to hear! 😢 I am not with this man anymore, but my questions stayed on my mind but now they have all been answered!😇

Thank yoy! This is just what I needed. May God bless you. I have learned so much from you

Bishop RC Blakes, I love you & Mrs. Blakes like you guys are my family ! I truly appreciate your obedience to God and you consistent presence on the platform, in delivering these messages. I promise ,everytime I listen to your messages, they are always on time! But this one, is almost like the Lord wanted me to hear this message. My God 😢 one thing I've learned is that God is always speaking to us,whether it be through people, your spirit, through nature & more ! We just have to be willing to hear & receive the messages Love Sharita ❤️

Hello Pastor and people of the God from Memphis, Tennessee ❤

Thank you ❤

This just "blessed me" Bishop! Confirmation!!!!

Thank you RC Blakes your message has save my life.

I can relate to this. I had gone so far praying 🙏 to find my way out. Thank you for your teaching. it's always a blessing 🙌 🙏

I enjoyed listening to this podcast. It was right on time.

❤thank you so much 🙏🏽 the 4 is what has been happening to most of us.

Amen to everything you said here Bishop RC! Absolutely 💯 Thank You! And God Bless You and Lady Lisa! You two are wonderful, Godly examples ♥️🙏🏾

Wow this advice is priceless . Thank you holy spirit for speaking 🙏🙏🙏🔥