HOW TO QUALIFY A MAN FOR YOUR LIFE BY RC BLAKES
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HOW TO QUALIFY A MAN FOR YOUR LIFE BY RC BLAKES
Lisa and I are so excited to have you in our community. Our prayer is always that you are blessed beyond measure.
In this conversation , we'll be discussing practical ways to qualify people for your life. If you're looking to build deeper, more meaningful relationships with the people around you, it's important to be intentional about who you let into your life. We'll cover topics such as
1. Clarifying your values and goals,
2. Observing behavior,
3. Asking questions,
4. Spending time together, and
5. Trusting your instincts.
By the end of this video, you'll have a better understanding of how to determine whether someone is a good fit for your life and how to build relationships that are supportive, fulfilling, and aligned with your values and goals. So, if you're ready to take your relationships to the next level, join the community and family for this one.
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@gwynnedjackson3871
Жыл бұрын
I have not been getting any notifications and wondering why? So glad I found this! I've missed your inspiring talks. Thank you! ❤️
@kalapaul2895
Жыл бұрын
Bishop how do I get in touch with u by whatsapp?
I came from a traditional Chinese family. My mum has always taught me never to give my virginity away to anyone who is not your husband. I don't sleep around with any guy I date. I am keeping myself pure for my coming husband. All glory to the LORD Jesus Christ.
@Portia620
25 күн бұрын
SMART!!!
@SacreeNour
19 күн бұрын
Best thing you can do! I pray you are blessed with a husband that honors you and God in all that he does!
I can't wait for this, as I am dating again after such a long time , I can move differently now , I am taking my time really get to know this man, the core of his soul :) I used to rush everything this is why I am not married yet because of my own wrong doing, giving men my time that did not deserve it. I have a great father but some of our father's did not teach us about men, I just assumed all men are like my father but I was so wrong. I will always take the time to type a message and tell you that you have saved my beautiful soul sir..thank you from the bottom of my heart.
@jennifers.798
Жыл бұрын
This is true for me too. ❤
@mohtee9628
Жыл бұрын
Story of my life as well. Besides, i just started talking to a new person, so I really want to observe and not jump the gun as I have always done.
@TheRoyalty1982
Жыл бұрын
I have been divorced for 4 years currently still single and have not made it pass phone conversations because I am really listening now and honestly scared because it is different out here and I have chosen to do things the Lord's way all in this time and I have been allowing The Lord to keep me. It is scary out here.
@sinnamynnbrown9179
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❤️
@shinebabyshine.
Жыл бұрын
Same here. My father was there but provided no guidance for dating. RC Blakes has stepped in with his wisdom 🙏🏽❤️
“Queens ask questions only Kings can answer”🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@AlmahEphraim
Жыл бұрын
Yes, My King of Israel Answers All Questions. Single , CELIBATE &choose Not To Be Used Any longer 👉🏾🇵🇷💃 EPHRAIM
@amazngrace8778
21 күн бұрын
I Love that ❤️❤️❤️
"Why are you rolling around in the bed with someone that's satisfied in the basement when you have penthouse dreams?" 🎤🔥🔥🔥🔥
@positivevibe7346
2 ай бұрын
This remind me of my ex husband, he was so content in a single room while I was so miserable because I needed to achieve much more... I did acquire my desire afterwards. Wasted time but I thank God for grace and mercy. Blessing King
- Qualifying someone means going through a process to determine if someone is a good fit for you - You must be clear in your mind and articulation about your value and goals - You need to know what your looking for in a relationship - Objectively observe there behavior - Ask questions about interests, value, goals - A man with bad intentions will not be okay with questions - Spend physical time - Trust your inner guide - If something is off, pay attention to that feeling and investigate further
@kheleecebrown1799
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Thanks for the notes 🙏
@cynthiarichmond3545
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Thank you for sharing your amazing notes!🙏🏾😊
@thequeenofresources
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Thank you for taking down such good notes!
@bernicebaafi5056
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Thank you for the notes😊
@MissJoiful1
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Thank you so much! ❤
Wow! “being single is ideal because marriage is the sacrifice.”Amazing point!
HELLO FAMILY. Thanks for coming in tonight.
@acoo2009
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I love this song, how do I purchase it?
@janek6843
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Love you pastor, you are a big blessing
@ONLYLOVEIZATION
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Good evening Bishop. Thank you and God Bless.
@brendah.walker6837
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I've read some of these comments, what happened to Man and Women, meeting, and then let GOD Bless You and show You how to love each other through the WORD.
@gugumkhwanazi9482
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I have been a QUEEN all my life, but I never qualified a KING . I have dreamt of a PENTHOUSE, only basement dreamers entered my life.
1)Be clear about your values and goals‼️2) Objectively observe their behavior‼️3) Ask questions ‼️4) Spend time with them ‼️5) Trust your inner guide‼️❤❤
@vilmabock478
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Thank you! ❤
@coachlesego
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You're a God sent. Thank you sis ❤🎉
@jamekawilson9
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Thank you ❤
@idriannakrayee8842
8 ай бұрын
Thank you
All I can say is I met the perfect liar but there were so many red flags 🚩 along the way. I accept full accountability for the role I played in my own pain. Lord have mercy 💔
@geminilady39
Жыл бұрын
Similar story so did I. I'm OK though.
@deegirl6994
Жыл бұрын
He called me red flags. I believed that. He played played played me all along and then crushed my heart and threw me and acts and behave like he is the king, he is successful with a lot of best friends, best friends who are girls.. is very painful.
@addiesmith696
Жыл бұрын
😮 I know that familiar pain I got played at least 2x's he thinks he's a catch
@deegirl6994
Жыл бұрын
@@addiesmith696 so sorry to hear sis. You know the worst part is i keep seeing him in my dreams..every single day. Dont know when it will stop. He msgd me again 4 months ago and i started talking to him, expressed how much i missed him and he didnt respond at all after that..
@chaunteycarter8499
Жыл бұрын
Me too!!!!
You are the only KZreadr with a 5 minute (song) intro people might actually listen to LOL
@trishapoirier8440
2 ай бұрын
Right 😂😂 I was going to skip but then I was like hey this is pretty good lol
@melaninrx
2 ай бұрын
And I be pissed when the song is not on the video lol
“QUESTIONS REVEALS MOTIVES”
“Often your type is not your kind.” You are 100% right! Not anymore!! ❤ Thank you for ministering to the women of the kingdom. If the little ones could have this instilled at a young age, we will have a whole new generation ❤
"QUEENS ASK QUESTIONS THAT KINGS CAN ANSWER..." THAT WILL PREACH!!
@abiolainioluwa3270
Жыл бұрын
"Queen asks questions that King can answer". Thank you for sharing so much Bishop Blakes
I was on the right path after breaking up with my ex-boyfriend who’s a alcoholic. Just when I thought it was over he comes calling and asking for a 100th chance. I ALMOST fell for it. As we’ve been talking for maybe almost a week now. Thank you for this video! God allowed me to see this so I can get back on track. Flee satan! In Jesus name
Imagine how radically different our lives would be if we had fathers who taught us this wisdom growing up. Even just a little bit of guidance would’ve made a difference 😢😢😢
@cjccjc7201
4 ай бұрын
I have been saying this exact same thing, since I've been on my healing and shifting journey. Strength and Love sent.
@WarriorMichelle57
Ай бұрын
Amen, my father passed away shortly after I turned 15.
@Portia620
25 күн бұрын
🙏. Yes!
@Portia620
25 күн бұрын
@@WarriorMichelle57🙏 I’m sorry to hear this.
Great Evening everyone! Thank you for joining us! Please hit that Like 👍icon.
@janek6843
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Ok beautiful, already done that, you too are a big blessing to this generation
@rockingmygray
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👍🏾❤️
@DharminaIna
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Who 🎶 sings this song 🎶?♡~
@RememberingMichaelJackson
Жыл бұрын
Blessings 🙏
@mentor7384
Жыл бұрын
Behind every man there is a great woman...thank you for allowing Pastor Blake to educate us ..
" Those who are presently on the verge of making a mistake, Lord turn them around. Give Them Clarity, cause this message to ring loud and clear in their hearts and in their heads in Jesus's name.": Amen!
@shontasmith9362
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Amen!
@eyitopedada5982
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Amen.
@fatmatakamara8834
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Amen
@ms.lisabailey1491
Жыл бұрын
Amen😊
@evelynochoa6918
11 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏
My ex was so busy asking questions, I couldn’t ask. Now I see why it’s important that “I” ask. I’m not dating yet. I’m just preparing so I won’t make the same mistakes again. I’m too old to keep repeating these cycles. So I asked God to hide me until I’m ready.
@earleneworrell
Жыл бұрын
I like what you said 🎉.
@sheritaaustin5176
Ай бұрын
I like that, omg “God hide me until I’m ready” 🙏🙏🙏
My dad was addicted to drugs for the first 28 years of my life. Growing up without that fatherly guidance, acknowledgment, wisdom and love I sure have bumped my own head so many times in search of this “approval” then God spoke, he has given me all of this through YOU Bishop. God said to me, “you may not have the father that gave you life that you have many fathers, including me.” the bitterness, the resentment, all the anger has completely left my body and my energy and I am taking accountability for myself RC. Thank you so much for all that you do to serve the rest of the world you are needed and you are appreciated.
BISHOP!!! The way you teach is impeccable- you connect and reach as a FATHER, PASTOR, HUSBAND, FRIEND, BIG BRO, my GOD!!!!!!!!!!
@vidanaps714
Жыл бұрын
🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻😔😢❤️❤️❤️❤️💔💔💔💔❤️❤️❤️💔💔💔
All jokes aside…I appreciate you and your wife Pastor Blakes for the teaching that you share with us. I wish I had this teaching before I got married. You’re teaching real good.🙌🏽❤️
I love how real you are, sir! "Wipe your lips off and quit popping bubblegum....slow your happy butt down! 😂 This is great teaching!
@ms.lisabailey1491
11 ай бұрын
I laughed so hard on that one
@lionesslamb7049
10 ай бұрын
😂
'Asking a brother questions is the polite way of testing him.' This is good.
@SandraStachowiczLtd
11 ай бұрын
If you have doubts and need to "test" a man's character that's because you don't trust him and he's not the one
I started asking questions 4 years ago. The look on faces--I really wanted to laugh. Shocked. It also revealed that know one had asked them questions.
VALUES and GOALS must align!! 🔥🔥🔥
This is why we love you so much. Although I have a loving father who’s been there for me in every way he knew how to be at least, he did not sit me down and give me the proper father/daughter talk. Thank God for you Pastor Blakes! 🙏🏽🙌🏽💐♥️
@nzingahoney
Жыл бұрын
Same here.
@monicabrown2334
Жыл бұрын
Same, we never had this talk
@helensunney239
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🙏🏽
@aprilthompson5154
11 ай бұрын
I never had this talk with my dad either. I stumbled around trying to figure things out about these men, he would be critical and point out my mistakes. He should have offered guidance instead.
@nzingahoney
11 ай бұрын
@aprilthompson5154 same. My dad actually told me 1. I would never ask my wife what I heard you telling men on the phone. 2. You're a bottom feeder if you're wanting me to meet a man he should be asking to meet me instead. I was over 18 by the time he told me either of these things. The second one I was 29 or so. The first one I may have been in earlier 20s.
BISHOP!!!!! The “BAE” takes me out allllllll the time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!🔥
Pastor I learned this the hard way. Lesson learned and this is why I follow your teachings. You make me face my mistakes, dissect them to understand why I went there, understand it, learn from it, heal from it and forgive it. I’m attending The Queenology Conference in August - paid completely in full- not missing this❤
@shirleyfriend2346
Жыл бұрын
Your lesson is well taken..
U are so right. Most of the women who need to hear this message aren't listening to u. I've heard men complain about ppl who enter this country illegally get jobs quickly & move up in life. I see some ppl who are immigrants working hard & saving their money. They're usually not fake rich, like many of us. It's good to learn from all races of ppl! Thank u so much Bishop. This is a great message!!!
I’m so glad you made this point about the church pushing marriage!! Single in the church is the new leprosy!! They act like you hold no value in the kingdom if you aren’t married
A man that says he CAN'T find a gig doesn't want to work 😂😂😂! Bishop, you know what your talking about 💯! I have heard some lines in my day! Praise God for growth, healing and leasons learned ❤
You are preaching. "My type is not my Kind." It is tight but it's RIGHT 👍🏾. Thank you for real talk💯💯💯
RC Blakes is funny and serious at the same time. WE NEED IT! Thank you so much for taking the time out to correct us and get us in order. I appreciate you.
Everyone may I ask a prayer request? Please pray for me to get this remote job where I can travel more. I would love to visit New Home and come to more events planned by Pastor & First Lady! Thank you in advance ♥️🙏🏽🙌🏽
@geminilady39
Жыл бұрын
🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️
@stefblanco3887
Жыл бұрын
@@geminilady39Thank you so much ♥️🙏🏽
@geminilady39
Жыл бұрын
@@stefblanco3887 You're welcome 🤗
@charmj737
Жыл бұрын
Sending prayers 🙏🏽🙏🏽🗣️🔥
@wondafaith8621
Жыл бұрын
We understand. Praying.
I’m in my 50’s now, and I have been practically destroyed from be married to narcissist. I saw all the red flags, but i still thought it was ok, because my father was a narcissist. So in that sense, I didn’t know any better. But I now plan on being single for the rest of my life. And I’m ok with that. Because for the first time in my life, I am enjoying my PEACE. But I listen to you regularly anyway. Because I enjoy your messaging. I have grand daughter and thanks to you, I can one day refer them to your teaching when they become old enough to date. Which is Something i never had. So I thank you and Lisa so much for this Time Capsule. God Bless you Sir.
@antheaburt7805
Жыл бұрын
There is still a lot of good men out there ,God will lead the right one for you to you at the right time,God bless you ❤
Man can tick all the right boxes in the beginning,they are on the best behaviour..but as time goes by their true colours always comes out
@cw8365
Ай бұрын
I’ve found this to most definitely be true. Time seems to be a teller of things such as this. For many in time the good behavior mask falls off, although I do believe there are still good men. We a women just have to pace ourselves versus hopping into something blindly.
Thank you for the affirmation. 🙏 After my last partner I am no longer comprimising my standards for any man. It is HARD and boring but I can’t continue in these toxic cycles.
I agree, you have to test a man out in different scenarios and situations, ask questions, ask them again but also compare the answers to their actions...... listen to the questions they ask you, especially of there are about your finances or if you have a home and he doesn't, if he is covertly seeking a shelter, while he has never thought it necessary to own or rent anything, in other words, he doesn't have a place to take you too. Observe, listen..... spend time with them and without them, there is where you gain clarity and discernment.........
I CAN BE HAPPY AND SUCCEED BY MYSELF!!
When I get weak I come to your channel to reset. Thank you Pastor!!!!!!
I can't wait!! Thank you Jesus!!!
Pastor R C Blake’s and Lady Blake’s Excited to being informed on this subject matter. Finally, my life is back to some normalcy! Lol
This snatched my soul, I hollered laughing while also in agreement!!! Even employers qualify prospective employees .. they screen applications, interview applicants several times to disqualify the un qualified and even once hired the employee still goes through a probationary period before receiving all the benefits. & Even after that, you still can’t get certain benefits until you are vested… and even after that the performance is evaluated annually. Yet, you allow someone to prance all up and through your life who is not fully qualified for that critical position in your life. “Stop popping that gum and wipe that grease all off your lips” & get to truly paying attention. Close up them legs and open up those eyes & ears.
QUEENS ASK QUESTIONS THAT ONLY KINGS CAN ANSWER‼️‼️PERIODT💃🏽💃🏽
@broiechristianorr1276
Жыл бұрын
HELLO!!!! He’s helping us! Come on through here sir 🔥🔥🔥
“What feels good today usually causes pain tomorrow” you got that right wooo Lord! 😅
A woman who gives into instant gratification today, will be sorry tomorrow! What a powerful state is that! Now, that is food for thought! You better think before you leap! smile, Keshia
Indeed I observe how people behave it’s always the key Bishop🎉
Thank you for saying singleness is the ideal because it is, in this wicked world God said (its in the Bible) single ones will do better. 1 Corinthians 7:38. Manipulative men have convinced women they are of no value in their single state when single women are the most featured and sought after resource. God gave women value the moment he made us. No one can take that away. A good marriage may amplify your value but very few women have been able to enjoy that.
So many TRUTHS TRUTHS TRUTHS! Women...we need to STOP wasting time with wrong types of ppl!
Thank you so much Bishop RC Blake’s Jr. for this teaching 🌺
BISHOP, I haven’t met you a day in my life, however, I LOVE YOU AND LADY LISA!!!! Sir, your videos have empowered me SO!!!! AMEN!!!! AMEN!!! AMEN!!!!
I've heard some magnificent teaching from you pastor RC Blakes and I've purchased and shared your books with other women in Ireland and UK which are a complete godsend... this particular video is outstanding and very concise and I'm going to send it on to my fellow sister's Thank you Lisa for being the Queen that you are... and bringing out the full potential King in your husband... praise God for the two of you and showing us how it works when we put our full trust, faith and obedience in God.
Men who are NOT for you , or just people in general will Insist that you don’t need to approve of them. Your approval has never been sought after which means it has no value. If you think poorly of something they do or say it’s because it’s above your comprehension or just flat out invalid. They hate your approval because it’s typically for things better than what you already have which is kryptonite to the hater. People who seek your approval value you enough to treat you like you matter. This means displaying emotionally valuable offerings like time, kindness, compassion and support, sacrificing things, arriving early, balancing their goals for you to be a priority. Better to make someone else disappointed and deal with it later than upset you the valuable one. This in tandem with consistency will show you a persons true character. Bad people can never put someone first.
I admire and adore these teachings! Praise God for revelation knowledge! Amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅
13:55 Be clear about your values and your goals (know what you are looking for in a relationship) clarity relative to your values 22:07 objectively observe a man’s behavior, how he treats others 28:35 ask him questions, ask them many times about their goals, values and interests and see if the answers are consistent. Questioning - is a polite way of testing Queens ask questions that only Kings can answer. 35:14 spend calculated physical time, how they behave in different situations? 40:49 trust your inner guide If something feels off, investigate it further before making any decisions
28:25 " batting eyes and popping gum etc.." Bishop Blakes is hilarious 🤣
Only time can tell men are great actors
Pastor told us to “wipe that grease off our lips.” 😂 Great message, especially regarding asking questions. I don’t interrogate, but I definitely investigate.
@pattygeee2298
Жыл бұрын
Right…. I investigate and observe
Right on time because after my divorce from a narcissist I feel like I’m still a little naive. I need to keep listening to you that got me out of that mindset I was in. I need to keep learning even after getting rid of the ungodly marriage I was in.
@dodd1976
Жыл бұрын
I can relate Queen same here RC got me out of it and now my divorce. Take your time it's no rush. ❤️
@loismartin9634
Жыл бұрын
@@dodd1976Praise God 😊
@realestatecoach8626
Жыл бұрын
Wow! Praise God! Thank you for helping us Lord!
My GOD you preaching today!! 🎯💯🗣️🎤…. wow I ❤️it …🎉🎉🥳⛪️
@broiechristianorr1276
Жыл бұрын
He helping us today!!! @rockingmygray
RC Blakes Jr.....that intro song is EVERYTHING! 🔥
Father God any man that is not of you remove from my life Amen. Any man that is from you God may he propose in one month 🙏🏽 Amen
@Zuri001
Жыл бұрын
Amen
I wish I seen a message like this before I got married at 18. He was my first everything and I assumed love alone would carry us but it was a lot more to marriage than I thought. We divorced due to his narcissistic qualities after 9 years married. 5 years later I'm gearing up to seriously date and I needed this message. Thank you for what you do for the women that didn't grow up with a father figure 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I am excited to join this session. I have been separated and now recently divorced. I am ready to get to know someone on a deeper spiritual level.
@tjohnson5760
Жыл бұрын
So am I, Sis this is my same story too, separated then divorced last year. I have high standards so finding a suitable person continues to be a struggle. I’m not pursuing but the guys who do show interest miss the mark, so I’m enjoying my singleness. Tonight should be a good one for sure 👏🏽
@tanyabrowning2436
Жыл бұрын
@@tjohnson5760 I know there are people in a similar situation like ours but, I'm happy you left me this message because I felt alone since 06/23/23 which was my official divorce. Alone as far as nobody to talk to about it I have family, but I haven't been able to converse with anyone about how I am feeling. I am going to enjoy my singleness too until the boxes are checked :)
Number 5 hits the hardest … too many times I have ignored that inner voice .. my intuition… the spirit never lies !
You deserve all of God's blessings and favors for your wonderful insights. So sincere and warming like a fathers love. Thank you
😂😂😂😂😂😂I love it!!! He said close yours eyes dry your lips off and spit the gum out😂😂😂😂😂
So glad I follow his sermons. Came at the right time. I fell for a church guy. But outside of church, we are not aligned. Thank you Lord for your probing spirit.
Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank God for you❤ Be blessed for ever 🙏
Pastor Blakes. I have been following you for a long time. And like I child I hear but didn't follow. But how I'm listening, taking it all in and praying to God. I'm being still. Learning about myself. When the the time is right it will be right. Continue to do what you do. Thank you and Lisa.
Pastor.. I have listened to your videos for years. However, I am now going through heartbreak because fir some reason, all that knowledge went out the window and now I'm stuck with a 8 month old, with no financial support. Pray for me 🙏
@geminilady39
Жыл бұрын
🙏🏽🙏🏽❤
@Drjanmo
Жыл бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@priscillakanini5617
Жыл бұрын
Hugs!,you will be ok🙏
@msm3668
Жыл бұрын
Sis, I know how you feel; been there. What I've learned was that my precious gift of a child is my responsibility. And, if the father doesn't take responsibility...that's HIS misfortune. So, I 'pulled up my 'boot straps' (figuratively speaking) and got my 'big girl' self out in the workforce and did what I had to do to support MY child. No, it's not always easy. However, making good choices and doing the rights things pays off, BIG TIME! Praying for you.🙏🏼 The amount of respect and assistance (however small it was) I received was priceless. When others see you putting forth a positive effort and not playing the 'blame game' it speaks volumes of your character.
@linjoki
Жыл бұрын
@@priscillakanini5617 kanini mambo? 🇰🇪
OMG!! YOU WAS TALKING STR8 TO ME I'M IN TEARS!! I MEAN EVERY WORD!
😂😂😂 Dry your lips off.. I just love this
“Marriage is a downgrade” powerful statement my brother!!! You caused me to think of (in short) of the time after a war that King David and his warriors had returned from. Pieces of land and or property was apportioned out to others but not to David, after which God turned and expressed to David, “I am your SHARE!” Thank you for this beautiful discussion. You are a gift to my heart!! ❤
@mariono244
Жыл бұрын
Wow!!
@mariono244
Жыл бұрын
Can you share the scripture verse
Asking questions is a polite way of testing. Questions reveal motives 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
I agree with you Bishop it's more important for the woman to qualify a man, the woman has more to loss and she is the one that has to submit to the leadership of the man, because where he leads she will have to follow especially if she wants peace.
@profmj7630
Жыл бұрын
Well said
"Marriage is a down grade, single is the ideal" Scream it so the people in the back and the slow ones can hear
Thanks for the advice and wise counsel. I've always been good at questions but shared values was a lot more difficult to come by and I was always feeling behind the clock. Thanks for the endorsement of singleness in particular. I think that was the most valuable takeaway for me. Oh and in Trinidad and Tobago 🇹🇹 we say "what sweet in goat mouth sour in he bam bam" that's exactly what you said when you said what feels good today doesn't feel so good tomorrow.
Thanks for this information, now that I know , some of us don’t have men in our lives that are around .
Salute and a BIG🫡Thank you Bishop Blakes for your invaluable life lessons. 🙏🏿
Thank God am here
@kalenagoodloe2745
Жыл бұрын
Uh-oh!! TEACH- ASK QUESTIONS
Amen 👏🏾 Great message. I recently ended a relationship….Our values & goals didn’t align & it created alot of friction and frustration in the relationship. My self worth is non negotiable….I refuse to settle because im aware of what I bring to the relationship so if I’m not met half way I have to leave.
This is exactly what I needed. I was on the verge of making another mistake, my intuition was so strong, this helped me make a wise decision. Thankyou so much Bishop🙏🏾
@marcilk7534
Жыл бұрын
Trust that intuition. I’m going through the same thing.
I always say the truth. As Jesus even if it hurts 🙌🙏🔥
I learned your introduction song. I loveeeeee it!!!!❤❤❤❤ Can you let us know the artist who is singing ? This song would be a beautiful wedding song 🎵
I'm actually done thinking about men right now 👎🏽💯
So true, it's so risky for us women😢
This conversation really needs to be a topic of conversation for men for them to man up in their ways. Everyone is seemingly having conversations pertaining to women in what they need to do but rarely are men made to be responsible pertaining to their character by leaders and or by men in general. I've been told that I intimidate men no I think that's just those who want to play games.
Pastor Blakes, I have been a Registered Nurse for 30 years, and took on the role of parents, uncles and aunts major caregiver for past 15 years. I felt a profound release from needing to be a caregiver about 6 months ago. I have been that "single" person for over 25 year. I have always felt I was in the places I needed to be and the had the freedom to do so. My older sister asked me what I expected to get from being my family caregiver, did I expect to inherit more. She could not understand when I said I do it because I can and do it because of love. I am now doing for me, caring more for my needs and hoping this included finding a quality man. So that said I appreciate you words on qualifying a man. But it was your words about God using the "single" person that validated, released me from justifying the why and knowing I took God's path for my life. I know it is God leading me now to my man. Thank you for your words and message.
@jewelwhite2832
10 ай бұрын
I completely understand, because I have provided care for several family and friends since I moved back, because I love them and I wanted to. Sometimes under the surface helping others can be killing the caregiver. I went to my PCP on last week and my blood pressure was 200/194 P89 to my surprise I made it to the doctor just in time. I know now that my peace and well being from this point is my only priority.
17:00 🎯 Relationships either bring you forward or backward. You either descend into one or ascend into one.
Mr.RC u did that playing this music thanks God bless you made my everything cool love Ben on ur page
Such a huge blessing Mr Blakes, to have you here for us, your encouragement, your prayers your realness, it's everything, thank you Jesus,thanks Mr. Blakes ❤❤❤🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🔥🔥🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥👏🏽✨️☝🏽👑⚓️💯
You help me so much with my healing, you are the father I never had. Thank you for everything, I hope to see you in person one day.😇
It’s been 10 months since I walked away from my last relationship. I happened to come across RC Blake’s video on “Never ignoring a man’s energy”. That video changed my life. It’s exactly what I needed last August 2022. I ended my engagement to my ex. It was the right decision, we are strictly platonic friends now & still serving God separately. Truth be told, I should have followed my instincts when I first met him. I was more intrigued by the superficial but a few years with a person and the truth comes out & I was able to see how we were incompatible for marriage. I praise God for RC Blake’s and Dr. Dharius Daniels, godly men who feed me the wisdom I was missing all of my life, not having the emotional needs met by a father figure. Now I am healing and in therapy, figuring myself out more at 35. Thank You Jesus! ❤🎉😊
Thank you for taking on this assignment! Women who didn't have that father Figure in their life will appreciate this guidance!
Wonderful talk im happily married but I tuned in to hear your wisdom so i can pass it on to friends that are struggling
Thank 💜 You RC Blake's for this message. Can you do a video of { Must } questions to ask during the Dating stages and a { Must } questions when considering a person for a relationship. Take Care 💜
This is too real. I Thank and appreciate your wisdom, knowledge and gift that God has given to you for being such a great teacher . I’ve just canceled 2 more suitors (these suitors that ain’t suitable) and likely cutting another one out before the week is over. Fasting and prayer will increase discernment quickly along with good instruction such as this. Sometimes the same person appears in a different body and other times you get that check in your spirit. Wait on God.
This was a really Good Message Bishop!! I really appreciate your Messages❤ Bless You and the Family❤