I miss this era of buzzfeed

@aranzamoreno7715

4 жыл бұрын

Why?

@FBJ-cv3qq

4 жыл бұрын

Same

@allieex776

4 жыл бұрын

Same

@Tizzy_Rose

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@urmomlikesme

3 жыл бұрын

Same

Tbh being on the phone while someone is talking to you is pretty rude

@meganguedel

4 жыл бұрын

unless it’s important

@hakunamatata9458

4 жыл бұрын

megan guedel But at least tell the person who sitting in front of you that you’re busy

@meganguedel

4 жыл бұрын

Shamma Al-Blooshi if it’s important it’s important

@giselaricotti

4 жыл бұрын

@@meganguedel then say it. It takes absolutely no effort to say I'm sorry this is important give me a second, don't leave the person talking mid sentence, it's rude and unjustified

@meganguedel

4 жыл бұрын

Just Me ur not understanding the point

but...Alison is not wrong for asking her money back

@jhin6181

4 жыл бұрын

@Knarf Nil A good and responsible friend would've broken into her home, slaughtered her entire family and use their blood to write the message: "Ya can give me the money anytime this month, I don't mind".

@ehekatzin.belai-al-rumi

4 жыл бұрын

Nor is she wrong for reckoning being on your damn phone while someone's talking to you is rude as hell.

@rabiabelen1205

4 жыл бұрын

@Sunday Girl maybe she thinks that she would be heartbroken

@unicorn1876

4 жыл бұрын

stan stray kids

@misssteak1290

4 жыл бұрын

@Sunday Girl or quinta could just give the money back without having to be reminded all the time

Wtf, her friend ignores her, is constantly late, owes her 20$, doesnt care about her, and not dealing with it well is heing passive-aggressive? Damn

@urdadsonic1036

4 жыл бұрын

if she talked to her directly, all those problems would be solved instantly. and no, Quinta is very nice thank you very much! She just doesn't take hints that easily.

@sajiamowrin3887

4 жыл бұрын

Bruh it's just a skit chill 💀

@bezymjannaja

4 жыл бұрын

She asked her directly about 20$ and the girl just ignores left her make situation, like Alison is wrong!

@raissasuwardhono

4 жыл бұрын

nihhal ikr

@user-pc3vs3bd4j

4 жыл бұрын

True tho

"This is why I should never say anything" My life

@asa-hl1dr

5 жыл бұрын

OMGOMGG G G I love your Pfp LET'S GO AND FREEZE OUR BRAIN

@chariclo2998

5 жыл бұрын

Same

@BobTheBuilder-dk5ry

5 жыл бұрын

mayo cat Is it like heathers or something

@blurry_chan6827

5 жыл бұрын

That’s why I’m always quiet

@andromedafernandes6359

5 жыл бұрын

@@BobTheBuilder-dk5ry ROSEEEEEE

Maybe she should have just payed her back

@caramelle0191

5 жыл бұрын

Makayla B. Yeah

@saado8283

5 жыл бұрын

Makayla B. It’s paid*

@antiopikoukouli5407

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly 👏

@emmahirning2371

4 жыл бұрын

Paid*

@eylulvv

4 жыл бұрын

Why does everybıdy say payed

I hate it when I’m saying a story in front of my friends and then all of sudden another friend starts to say something and they just put their attention on them

@onikukamisama3134

4 жыл бұрын

Same. I mean it's kinda rude though. Does it mean we're passive aggressive too?

@gothhy

4 жыл бұрын

Then say it’s rude

@elina460

4 жыл бұрын

samee

@beci1994

4 жыл бұрын

Some people are just not that direct, you know. That’s not instantly passive agressive. Sometimes introverts have no other way but being passive agressive. We should really avoid it though but sometimes there’s no other way lol

@audreychan5779

4 жыл бұрын

That happens to me sometimes. But I always assumed that it was because I did something wrong

If my friend owed me $20 I would go from passive-aggressive to plain aggressive

@asbjelasulejmani8585

4 жыл бұрын

I lent $20 to a "friend" and she never gave them back. She disappeared.

@mhkuntug

4 жыл бұрын

@@asbjelasulejmani8585 same but 120

@mahnoorahmad7900

4 жыл бұрын

M.H. KÜNTUĞ oh wow. I’m sorry

@breonawarren1507

4 жыл бұрын

Any reasonable person would have took $20 from her wallet

@preetylama3544

3 жыл бұрын

If my friend owes me money I forget and they eventually return them back

Ok but... She owes her money, pay it back

@Fartsquad_

4 жыл бұрын

People who don't pay back money is so irritating.

@freeshavac-ado6704

4 ай бұрын

@@Fartsquad_so are people who don’t use proper grammar :)

Being passive aggressive is a form of being a people pleaser (which comes out of insecurity). You don't ever say what you want or think because you don't want to upset anybody but at the same time you don't want to sacrifice your own wants and needs too much which makes you passive aggressive which is a hundred times more aggravating than telling people how you feel/what you want, even if it could potentially upset the people around you.

@frutigermetroboomin

6 жыл бұрын

True. The worst part is that passive aggressive people often take pride in their ability to be passive aggressive, which is really just another way of saying that you have pride in being a doormat that is afraid of confrontation.

@naomid1445

5 жыл бұрын

😑 story of my life

@jenniviinikka3265

5 жыл бұрын

Nah I like to try and balance and say what I want but not to be too blunt

@danilaazizahra1135

5 жыл бұрын

@mia morales i think it's just passive, not passive aggressive. I guess. Idk

@TS45919

5 жыл бұрын

thats me 🙁 and i hate this

0:04 I've always felt that she looks A LOT like Dakota Johnson.

@gathanaranath

4 жыл бұрын

Prutha Hardas she doesn’t rlly

@Miaa-xann

4 жыл бұрын

Who that

@cez5389

3 жыл бұрын

YES

shout out to toxic parents instilling their toxic behaviours into us that we now have to dismantle in years of therapy like passive aggressiveness lmao

I am definitely the passive aggressive friend. I am all the time

@brentbaker4953

8 жыл бұрын

+CockBlocker420 shut up

@jiazera

8 жыл бұрын

lol

@maddysz7229

8 жыл бұрын

+Brent Baker leave.

@jk1877

8 жыл бұрын

+CockBlocker420 are you talking to yourself again?

@kpopsongsarebops2313

8 жыл бұрын

me too

Oh. I must be passive aggressive. That explains it. Anytime someone stops replying to my text messages I hate myself so much.

@Fairytits

9 жыл бұрын

ahh.. there you are!

@waseealam7136

9 жыл бұрын

YOU"RE BACK

@xBrotherIVx

9 жыл бұрын

Can you like... not be everywhere? Go outside...

@KiddCheese

9 жыл бұрын

You get a lot of flack but I appreciate you. You don't even let the haters phase you. You're literally doing nothing to them. Keep commenting, girl and do you.

@Immajeanyus

9 жыл бұрын

***** Nah. It's cool. I usually just try to play it off.

I didn't know I was the passive aggressive friend till I watched this video😂

@cutewolfieuwu3171

4 жыл бұрын

I've never gotten payed back

@hiitsme1276

3 жыл бұрын

Sammme

@margaritatoys8022

3 жыл бұрын

Same😂

@reynaweber7222

3 жыл бұрын

Salomé King. I knew I was, already. I totally am, I never say what I mean. Which is why I have almost no friends.

@serenitychanel7114

3 жыл бұрын

Me too

1:43 the way she said Quinta lol 😂

What's even worse is when there's two of you: Friend 1: What do you want to eat? Friend 2: Whatever you do. Friend 1: I'll do whatever you do. Friend 2: No, I insist, what do you want to eat? Friend 1: I don't care, what about you? ... Happens too often.

@briwashington2103

9 жыл бұрын

That is me and my boyfriend in a nutshell -_- lol

@lizzelizzard6435

9 жыл бұрын

Bri Washington omg same..its so frustrating sometimes lol

@fahadazhardownloads549

9 жыл бұрын

Lizze Lizzard

@lizzelizzard6435

9 жыл бұрын

Fahad Azhar Downloads what?? 0_o

@LennyTheHopeless

9 жыл бұрын

***** That's why you ask, "What do you *not* wanna eat?" and then go to any place which doesn't have what he/she listed. Because most of the time, people know what they don't want before what they do

I've never realized I'm the passive aggressive friend

@crazyangelz143

8 жыл бұрын

+moon child haha same here.

@VyPham-cj8tb

8 жыл бұрын

Me too

Legend has it that she still hasn't gotten her 20$ back

"Are you mad at me?" *"Are you mad at me??"* Relatable af😂

I'm passive agressive AND sarcastic so people have just come to accept it as "yeah, that's how Ale does humor" and I'm like "No, I'm being fuckin serious, I'm just not straightfoward"

@cecijayx

9 жыл бұрын

Yeah so am I!! Finally someone like me!! Only difference is people accept you but they think you're being funny, when you're serious. No one accepts me at all. I either get sympathy I never asked for which turns my brain to think I do and I SHOULD feel sad when I'm not, or I just get yelled at. And not even by my parents!

@PolliitoAle

9 жыл бұрын

CJ Arteaga You find people who will get it. My parents never really got how I work and used to tell me not to do it (as if I could stop it), but after I went away for 7 months on a exchange I came back to "We cannot believe it but we actually missed your sense of humor" and I went "it's not really all humor but whatevs, I'll take it" xD

@FluffOfFuzz

8 жыл бұрын

I AM THE SAME YAY

@TeaTime0223

8 жыл бұрын

+PolliitoAle I am the exact same. (Have a hard life too but I hate to remind ppl for their duties or commenting their bs...because they're full of it sometimes and I cannot stand it.) :D

@vacationboyvideos

8 жыл бұрын

I'm passive aggressive but I'm normally really nice passive and then when people walk on me I'm still passive but that's when the aggressive b**** comes out

UGh I hate it when someone borrows some money or something from you and never EVER gives it back or doesn't even remember about it, and you don't to annoy them again and again bout it cuz you don't want to destroy your friendship with them. This is why I have trust issues.

@HoshiHikari

9 жыл бұрын

Make them commit to paying you back before you lend money or save your money. Get them to decide when they can pay you back, and if you can let that money go for that long, make the deal and then follow them up on that date (or the next day if you're generous). Rinse, repeat. If they have not paid you back before, or they are wishy-washy about their pay date, let them know that you need the money and can't lend it this time. If it's a small debt, like laundry money, consider it a gift instead of a debt and just let it go. And remember that friends generally reciprocate, so if your friend didn't pay you back directly, maybe they have given/shared food with you or spotted you for dinner or something. Try to remember your friendship rather than getting caught up in little money grudges.

@michie2x2mia

9 жыл бұрын

yeah, thanks for the advice, need it .. I know that sometimes I get too caught about the money they owe me, and it's really petty of me. I hate it when someone just takes advantage of me almost never saying no. But I'm going to follow your advice because some of friends would do the same for me, thanks again!

@HoshiHikari

9 жыл бұрын

You're welcome! I know it can be hard to be assertive because it looks scary and risky, but if you hate being walked on, you'll at least have your integrity in the end. And if they're really good friends, they'll ask you a couple times if something is okay, like Quinta in the video. That'll hopefully give you a couple chances to build up the courage. And remember that they might not even realize they're taking advantage of you. They prolly think you're just really generous and supportive for when they need it.

@michie2x2mia

9 жыл бұрын

yeah! You just need to know that the person means well, and to trust them! :L makes life easier.

@JillWouters

9 жыл бұрын

yeah and then you are the one who nags about "little things" right? Sometimes passive aggresive does work, most of the times it's just very draining. So I wanna say sorry to my friends because I suspect I'm one too. Got that from my dad obviously : /

When someone tells me "what do you want for lunch?" or "what do u want for dinner?", I'm like "what r the options??"

@Xx_zealand_xX

3 жыл бұрын

Me too

I’m just the one that’s too blunt and direct at times and the overly kind one most of the time.

Ah, lovely, you've finally made a video about me. It's not like I was waiting for months or anything. Not at all. The video is wonderfully hilarious.

@whosmycherrypie6772

9 жыл бұрын

Named after my favorite villain on Danny Phantom are we?

@Shadoessa

9 жыл бұрын

I read that in Vlad's voice.

@colleenfrontiera3345

9 жыл бұрын

Marshmallow Moo Same

@MonkeyDLuffy-ov1cz

9 жыл бұрын

Marshmallow Moo same here.. i miss that cartoon.

@colleenfrontiera3345

9 жыл бұрын

Same as well, it was a really great cartoon. I used to ship Sam and Danny, then Valerie and Danny.

Basically: Harper Finkle - Allison Alex Russo - Quinta 😂

@avastars3393

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

But she’s asking for her own money... Thanks for 10 likes yayyy

@Aurora-dq4lt

4 жыл бұрын

The point of the video is that she can't be straightforward

@Miaa-xann

4 жыл бұрын

Ikr

allison is me except she's prettier

@anthonys7660

8 жыл бұрын

She doesn't like Chinese food, that makes someone 90% less attractive

@noinfoprovided5247

8 жыл бұрын

+Anon NC I dont think that's how it works

@candacemagloire2391

8 жыл бұрын

Don't think of yourself like that

@ralucaionescu4576

7 жыл бұрын

i am too

@_Starzy

5 жыл бұрын

Same

I miss this type of of content.

@madison760

7 жыл бұрын

I'm not a troll What Hey pham

@jamesng.6387

7 жыл бұрын

I'm not a troll What phamily

I once had a coworker who would almost always enter any conversation with "are you guys talking about me?" it got so annoying I finally told her yea we are but only because you keep asking us 🙄

@Crochetique424

3 жыл бұрын

There is always that person but my answer was " you aren't really THAT important to talk about .....so no . "

1:21 *anxiety intensifies*

I hate people who do not understand basic sarcasm.

@c4msundae

8 жыл бұрын

same

@emmal7035

8 жыл бұрын

I'm that kind of person that makes jokes alot (i can be serious). But i really hate when people take it too literally.

@reesev3425

8 жыл бұрын

This is so relatable

@RuthParodies

8 жыл бұрын

But there is funny sarcasm and there is this.. not even sure or this is sarcasm. because sarcasm is not meaning the things you say. but in this situation allison defenitely wants something from Quinta. she means the things she says. so calling it sarcasm isnt very relevant.

@c4msundae

8 жыл бұрын

Super RandomReese Did you comment on your own comment? lol

I legit gasped when Quinta stabbed her food with her chopsticks, no one understands my ways.

@xr1z3nx49

8 жыл бұрын

I know thats a bad! 😲😲😅😅

@Sebastian-xy3xk

8 жыл бұрын

+Annie “Koala” Anonymous They were holding chopsticks so bad

@Ravioliyt

8 жыл бұрын

do you find it bad as you're Japanese, see from what I have learned it is rude to stab your food with chopsticks in the Japanese culture :P

@annieanonymous2294

8 жыл бұрын

the ugly duckling Yes, so cringy

@Ravioliyt

8 жыл бұрын

Annie Anonymous aahhhhh oki thx :)

Me and my friends have come to a point in time, where I paid a lot, they paid a lot and we lost track of how much we owe each other.

I like that Quinta's energy and personality always shines through.

I don't even know how to be passive aggressive, like seriously, that stuff takes skill.

@MeetMeViceVersa

7 жыл бұрын

Just be coward enough while thinking you are just polite about it to not communciate properly while still having high expectations.

@chelseymichelle9286

7 жыл бұрын

It stinks but it is so me!! Hate hurting feelings :(

@miaquwaider1341

7 жыл бұрын

Mable Clark ikr

@KrypticKiss18

6 жыл бұрын

Chelsey Michelle don't think you're that nice and sweet. You don't care about others feelings; you just care about how they feel about YOU.

@ngsharon4646

6 жыл бұрын

Lmao i dont know how not to be passive aggressive. That takes skill too 😂😂😂

this is me, oh my god I thought I was the only one

I know I was developing passive aggressive behavior due to me being treated like a lesser person and me getting shunned and rejected by certain types of people who I've thought was nice, instead of me letting them know how I feel about their behavior I would act like I'm upset with somebody else or ask people if it was just me or are people less nice and friendly towards one another anymore in hopes of gaining their sympathy, now I'm gonna try not to worry about what others think of me and to be more direct when I feel something isn't right, I really don't want to be a passive aggressive person although I know it's easier than being a verbally aggressive person or a physically aggressive person.

@DeezneyMinusNg

2 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry bro. I feel your pain 🫂

Crazy that Quinta is now both an Emmy and Golden Globe winner. Wow so proud of how far she’s come! ❤

1:26 DID I JUST SEE THE WORDS "GET RID OF SPIDERMAN"? NO I DON'T THINK WE WILL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@diamondemerald258

7 жыл бұрын

Emma Wolfe no you heard it

@fr9603

7 жыл бұрын

she may have been reading subtitles

@txsmia

6 жыл бұрын

OH YEAH I HEAR IT!! 1:22 - 1:26

@louisamccann8531

6 жыл бұрын

I KNOW I CANT BELIEVE I LOOOOOVE TOM 💘💘💘

@evelynfung3779

4 жыл бұрын

Omg she predicted the future

omg I'm the passive-agressive friend almost all the time... is that bad? i hate annoying people or being rejected :(

@lilyevanora7423

8 жыл бұрын

Sevensliders maybe i'm not... I just have trouble expressing what I really want and when it doesn't go my way i don't want to make people mad so i just go with it but i eventually have to say what i really wanted when they ask me what's wrong :/

@Sevensliders

8 жыл бұрын

Bottling up all those frustrations inside and one day they will explode. Let the other party know that you disagree on something they agree upon. Sure, they may be mad now but it'll be healthier in the long run than bottling it up inside and lashing out when it gets to a breaking point, then the mess will be much harder to clean up.

@hannahjoycheng

8 жыл бұрын

+Lily Evanora Same girl same

@ashleymui4520

8 жыл бұрын

+Lily Evanora Omg I am that person too!!! Same, same. I don't want to be mean when I want things so I just sort of go with it and feel sad later on...

@-_-3127

8 жыл бұрын

not bad if you have friend it's not bad course they like you

This was posted on my Birthday! Like two years ago, that feeling of excitement when you see it's posted on your bday is always so weird

@IloveMusicandNatureGirl

6 жыл бұрын

Frenchfriesx So true! 😁

As I write this, I realize that one friend of mine has been passive aggressive, because she hasn't answered my calls or text messages since April. Silence and unresponsiveness are passive aggressive behaviors!

@offtopic5307

Жыл бұрын

Not really, that's just someone who thinks you're a low priority. When their higher priorities are filled, or don't want them, then suddenly they'll contact you again. Best to move on and dump those types of people!

it's because you're upset, but you don't want to hurt the other person's feelings. you don't want them to think you're mean

@gimmekromer1151

Жыл бұрын

Just be ironic then people will get it

My friend is so passive aggressive, to the point where it actually hurts, and he has no idea how mean he can be, because he is not aware of the fact that he is being harsh. Confronting him just turns into a weird defensive battle.

@BigEMarc

7 жыл бұрын

Shakespeare Olive just give him his $20 back

@passionfruit95

7 жыл бұрын

Shakespeare Olive same here, but den when i get mad at her she is all like 'oh ya like always get mad at me!' Even tho she is the one getting mad always .-. And then she just ignores me! Ugh

@AW611

5 жыл бұрын

Not to tell you what to do but maybe distance yourself from them? Some may think that that’s not very loving but sometimes loving someone is making clear boundaries so they see what they’re doing wrong and so you can live a healthy life.

@AW611

4 жыл бұрын

steamed buns619 I didn’t say they couldn’t tell them what they’re doing wrong, but I also didn’t specifically say to do so. So yes, you should sit down and talk with them but sometimes it is better for one’s health to distance themselves from said toxic person (especially if you’ve talked with them and they do not have any intention of changing). You shouldn’t do so lightly of course.

@ambersalert

4 жыл бұрын

@Hannah Papernick-Yudin same. I actually had to reflect on my self respect once we stopped being friends.

Everyone in this video are so sweet, talented, and beautiful!! I love them all!!!!😍♥️

Alison was cute doing the "Are you mad at me?" part...

but come on!!! PAY HER BACK!!

They should have made it something smaller than her getting her money back because I'd be fucking pissed if a friend didn't care to pay me back

@sleepy__panda

8 жыл бұрын

Are you really a gypsy

@wolflover324x9

8 жыл бұрын

Yea me and my enemy once found two lost dogs and got two ten dollar bills she said her mom forced her to put her ten dollars in the bank and she spent MINE on A WHOLE FRICKEN HOUR OF GO CART...i still want to punch her in the face

@littleeskimo26z

8 жыл бұрын

The question is am i really a babe? The answer is no.

@wolflover324x9

8 жыл бұрын

+Gypsy Babe what the heck XD gypsy is a name for one of the persian cats of mythicbells and her name is gypsy rose...shes very cute too

@kezsanaa

8 жыл бұрын

bbhmm

oh okay, i just thought i secretly hated my friends.

I expected her to scream "WHERE IS MY MONEY?" in the end.

I feel like this is Quinta's best episode like she's honestly so funny in this one

@themightyginge4036

9 жыл бұрын

I know right

That's the thing about being passive aggressive. The minute you start being direct everyone is surprised and acts like their feelings are hurt.

@HoshiHikari

9 жыл бұрын

There's direct, and then there's bringing up old news because you never got over it. Allison did the latter. She was never direct about her feelings, not even in the ending confrontation because she takes it all back with "but it's not a big deal" (when obviously it is or she wouldn't have been acting subtly mad the whole day/week.) Being direct is being honest and assertive in the moment. And Quinta wasn't hurt; she was annoyed that Allison was grudgey and dishonest. Don't deflect blame for your actions on someone else's "uncalled for" reaction. They may be responsible for the initial pain (e.g. feeling used) but you are responsible for how you compose yourself (e.g. being honest).

People tend to think passive aggressive people are angry..I am passive aggressive out of habit lol but honestly almost never angry for more then two seconds even on big issues..I just carried my passive aggressive habit from childhood trauma to my adult years..I do have a tendency to please people more then I should tho and do not like conflict spikes my anxiety up to a full blown almost panic attack so I tend to be passive aggressive because of that more then out of hidden anger.

I'm always asking "are we still friends?"

Just waiting for the black kid to be top comment once again

@turtlebotgaming219

9 жыл бұрын

Imajeaneus

@MrSleepygrizzly

9 жыл бұрын

Seems like Pump for lotion's already there...

@BobKatterTheGreatMan

9 жыл бұрын

Where's Jesus Christ??

@Simsanimelover456

9 жыл бұрын

Omg Yeezus

@Oldbebe123

9 жыл бұрын

He's already there

yeah, that's me, I don't like it but can't change it either

@PeacefulPastel

8 жыл бұрын

If you notice it you can change it.

@brianbesselink8076

8 жыл бұрын

Same here, I also dont like it but its like im with it forever...

@PeacefulPastel

7 жыл бұрын

***** I must be a fucking miracle worker then. 😏

@HiThereLove16

6 жыл бұрын

That’s extremely untrue

I knew this was me before I watched the video but the “are u mad at me part” rlly hit home 😅

I totally get it. You wanna say something is bothering you, but you're so scared that people are gonna get mad at you that you try to say in the nicest way possible. I do that all the time and it sucks.

I miss Allison

@emamma_mia

8 жыл бұрын

Watch just between us it's her and gabys channel xx

@anniew.3658

8 жыл бұрын

EmmySinging I do :) but I miss her buzzfeed videos

@brunomull123

8 жыл бұрын

+Annie W. Me too

@cupcakeboss5982

8 жыл бұрын

+Annie W. Me too

@angelsurov7284

7 жыл бұрын

Bruno mull123 h

Yeah, that's me.The sarcastic passive agressive friend. Amazing.

🤣🤣 This was put together so well!! Love it!

“Are you mad at me” “NO!!” “Alison, are you mad at me” “No, I mean you owe me $20 but.... “Ok”(walks away) “It’s not a big deal”

How else do you ask for money when its owed?

@HoshiHikari

9 жыл бұрын

Before I make the loan, I either decide I don't care if they pay me back and make it a gift (e.g. if it's a few quarters for laundry) or I ask them about when they could pay me back (giving them a general payback date, when I'll ask again soon after if it's not paid by then). If they've borrowed from me before and never paid me back, (I forgive that past debt if it's small) I just tell them I need my money and I can't spot them this time (and if there is a big past debt, I stand my ground and tell them that last time, they didn't pay that money). I never yell or whine, just state facts and ask questions. That, or I sell their cat and keep the interest.

@lindalemoni5428

9 жыл бұрын

give me my money.

@KettiexD

9 жыл бұрын

Demand for it back. If they refuse, fight them

@VieraXXII

9 жыл бұрын

If you don't like the person, hey you just got rid of em for $20. Since they will always avoid you to not give it back. Bronx Tale :)

@chiijunchu9189

9 жыл бұрын

If you're the type who gets awkward and don't know how to ask for money back, the best way to go about it is to borrow money from the person who owes you. Just say, "Hey do you have $20 on you right now? I forgot my wallet." That always works for me.

I'm not passive but a aggressive.

@elouise3695

8 жыл бұрын

TAKE NOTE ITS NOT IMPRESSIVE

@amypalmer2309

8 жыл бұрын

+Izzy Conley it's a song lyric...(I wasn't sure if you knew😊)

@izzyconley4948

8 жыл бұрын

+Amy Palmer lol I did got ya 😂😊

@thephantasticshakthi6211

7 жыл бұрын

+Avocado Studio EMPTY YOUR SADNESS

@josefinef.rydkjr5394

7 жыл бұрын

FOB OMG HEY FAM

The moment I saw the title I was like okay let's see if I have any passive agressive friends but then while watching, I realize I am that horrible of a friend who clings onto people all day and gets furious about money or not getting all the attention from them...

this era of buzzfeed was the best, I wish it would comeback

Quinta looks so stylish here

I don't think being passive aggressive is that bad. Ppl have been like that one time or another, I'm sure. Just because you need to be assertive doesn't mean you are daring enough for stirring up aggression. Not everyone can handle conflicts, and we are socially taught that violence is unnecessary in situations. So what can we do to release anxiety and frustration? There are tons of ppl out there who have the shittiest jobs ever and I thank them for being passive aggressive not going on strike or quitting their job. Don't treat passive aggression as a crime, it's just defense mechanism and to keep peace, you have to do that sometimes.

@GoddessFourWinds

9 жыл бұрын

The opposite of passive aggressive isn't aggressive. It's assertive. It's okay to speak up and often necessary.

@GoddessFourWinds

9 жыл бұрын

***** Threatening someone is being aggressive. Being assertive is saying what's necessary. Just tell them. "Jim, I want that twenty I loaned you. This Friday is soon enough, since it's pay day." That's being assertive. It's not rude. It just states what you want and when. No big deal. "Cindy, I want my gray cardigan that I let you borrow. I can go by your place this evening after work. I'll see you then." Simple. :)

@GoddessFourWinds

9 жыл бұрын

I actually never loan money. If someone asks to borrow money from me, I just make it a gift. I learned early never to loan money expecting to see it again. I'm assertive in other ways. I'm pretty blunt. If you want to know the truth, ask me. I'm not afraid to tell you. :) Life's too short. I'll deal with the consequences. I stick up for the underdogs. I like fairness. And I'm quick to point out crap when I see it. So, yeah. If someone owes YOU money, I wouldn't be afraid to ask for it back. :)

@Immortal__

9 жыл бұрын

you women dont have a fucking clue. i never allow any bullshit passive aggressiveness in my company

@GoddessFourWinds

9 жыл бұрын

XenatR I like the way you say "you women." What kind of company do you have where you don't allow women who are passive-aggressive?

I’m revisiting the golden age of buzzfeed and its videos like this 🥳

Don't be passive aggressive. It's more work for you. It isn't effective communication.

I learned how to be passive aggressive through my mom, she always left me intimidating notes instead of talking to me directly, now its the only way I feel I can talk to people about issues I have. Which sucks, especially if its someone you're interested in or dating because who wants to be around someone who can only express themselves through writing? It's a good way to vent for yourself or online, but when you're with someone in person and you'd rather text them than speak to them I can see how people get annoyed rather easily with it.

@JulianneHannes

9 жыл бұрын

Omg I so know what you mean, it's the same with me and I don't know how not to be my mother

@victoriameng6685

9 жыл бұрын

Sometimes I feel like Buzzfeed has been reading into my life. Actually I don't, I just acknowledge that a lot of people like to be b!tches, but remain polite about it.

@whosmycherrypie6772

9 жыл бұрын

One time, a girl owed my $100, so I painted a one hindred dollar bill on her mirror in fake blood.

This is so me! I struggle with telling people what's truly on my mind and I'm always wondering if someone's mad at me

I love Allison!

This made me smile :-)

GOT DANG IT, THIS IS ME. "are you mad at me?" Story of my life.

@yukinnesugiura9313

8 жыл бұрын

SAME. I can't stop being worried asdfghjkl

this is so me but i keep it bottled up and then take it out on a pillow or cry for 30 minutes straight...oh well

@lindsay-ic9nh

6 жыл бұрын

Marshall's Fiero go to the doctor. im not joking it sounds like deppression or anxiety. i would know

@shookbang4098

4 жыл бұрын

imagine your friend owing you $300.. lucky ur not me

@joemana9707

4 жыл бұрын

@@shookbang4098 but ur too shy to ask for them/ u think if u ask u will upset them or come off as rude

@onikukamisama3134

4 жыл бұрын

@@joemana9707 true. I agree

@mynameisreallycool1

4 жыл бұрын

That's not passive aggressive exactly, that's just passive (since you're not taking it out on anyone).

I watched this video like 3 years ago and now I have become this friend !

Ugh that's so me... especially the money part😂

A lot of people tell me I'm passive aggressive. I have to be. I am the Lord.

@shinakuma5488

9 жыл бұрын

I heard Christianity was a mushroom cult if that is true I might have to use ansatsuken on you

@JesusChristLegit

9 жыл бұрын

Shin akuma Yes, we all mushrooms in the eyes of Gawd. Pliz no ansatsuken. I fear the fist.

@tomnook9713

9 жыл бұрын

mocking someones religion shows how ignorant you're.

@JesusChristLegit

9 жыл бұрын

Laura Alvarez I don't think you know what ignorant means. Mocking? No no, I do not mock. I spread only the good news.

@kingdestroyah

9 жыл бұрын

Hail Jebus and GAWD

I would never be able to handle a friend like that

looking good, Quinta!

Getting anxious about how much I can relate. Always ask myself if all people are ignorant and do not pay attention when they need to

I miss Allison in Buzzfeed videos :(

please don't be too proud of being passive aggressive. I'm trying to stop because it's what I least about myself. If you have something to say, be straightforward or don't say it at all. You can drop hints if it's harmless like your interest in someone or a joke, but don't roll your eyes, or obviously imply something rude and not say it. Because that's basically saying "I'm not going to own my rudeness, but use it in a way that you get the point but I'm still a good person"

This is helping me in my communication skit for my health class

That role is so cute on Alison

If you are reading this comment know that you are a beautiful person, have a great day/night!

@CloroxBleach-up6hc

7 жыл бұрын

No

@thtiuchcrtivnm9782

7 жыл бұрын

Nope

@thtiuchcrtivnm9782

7 жыл бұрын

Also have a great day/night

@passionfruit95

7 жыл бұрын

hell no

@bgb4981

7 жыл бұрын

Anthelica McKittensworth Thank you! 😋☺

Oh my god I am the queen of the "Are you made at me?" brigade.

Honestly, when someone owes you money it’s never easy to ask for it back because you don’t wanna be rude

Allison is adorable ☺️

this is third video I've seen and so far I'm the mom friend, I'm the chill friend and the passive aggressive friend😂

Oh... I guess I am that friend... never realized it until now. Dammit.

I could understand why if her friend didnt pay back the back. I would b annoyed as well. And texting someone while someone else is talking to you is just plain rude

Perfect description of my personality

I AM 100 PERCENT THIS PERSON

Well, I'm Canadian, so pretty much everyone is passive aggressive here. ;)

@ShirHadarOz1

8 жыл бұрын

+GirlyDino that's actually cute, when it's not that extreme

@shrilleth

7 жыл бұрын

So you mean Canadians act like they are nice and give you jelly donuts sarcastically?

@moonlightowl8477

6 жыл бұрын

True tho! 🙌🙌

oh my. is that me? because yeah I always ask my friends, are you mad at me. and they said no and I can see through their behaviour that they mad at me.

WHY IS THIS SOOO RELATABLE

I'm the passive aggressive friend omg