1. Lack of consistency 2. Lack of commitment 3.Ambiguity,Making excuses, defensive 4.Secrecy! He doesnt want to publicly acknowledge you 5. You will sense that something is not right

@heartyhearty7244

5 жыл бұрын

# 1 #2 #5 thats what i feel for him right now

@JJ-yu6og

5 жыл бұрын

Mvp

@sharonthomas9003

5 жыл бұрын

Omg I just went thru this I publicly can't talk too u people talk wtf!! Text a lot call don't pick up left his ass March 29 th,no contact,when I c him he looks shame try too make conversation really dude,I'm gone u got one or dont,looks shady!!

@lynettedenttripplett2073

5 жыл бұрын

I am experiencing all with new guy. Already 2 weeks.

@rickyhelen6422

5 жыл бұрын

345 he does this

dating in 2018/19 is absolutely exhausting!

@ReneeSlansky

5 жыл бұрын

It shouldn't be , if it has become too hard and exhausting then you are doing it wrong :( ...have you watch my free master class on how to attract a quality guy?

@alexzandra-fallonallen317

5 жыл бұрын

It is.

@Dtella55

5 жыл бұрын

I agree...100!

@butterflyqueen9260

5 жыл бұрын

Yes it is!

@Christian_Girl120

5 жыл бұрын

That's why I can't bother unless I know for sure he's a good man. I can see things now I couldn't see when I was younger.

Why be with someone that doesn't want to be in a relationship with you, know your worth ladies.

You will just know. Trust your instincts

@prohackmanagerongmail90

4 жыл бұрын

Contact pnpsolutions9@ gmail,com for hack related issues if you are not sure your spouse is cheating, I promise he sill not let you down.

Signs..if you think he is..HE IS!!!

@fadijallow238

5 жыл бұрын

Right lol

@shandranewell2837

5 жыл бұрын

@@fadijallow238 😉

@therealkettely

5 жыл бұрын

Woman's intuition!

@candican9853

5 жыл бұрын

Shandra Newell not always. Some women are INSECURE and her thoughts get the best of her if he just goes to the grocery store and gets gas. Women need to make sure we are not falsely accusing good men because of our past experiences.

@shandranewell2837

5 жыл бұрын

@@candican9853 ...but a GOOD MAN would never allow those insecurities to come to the surface..if shes INSECURE..A GOOD MAN Doesnt leave room for doubt...but thats why its dialogue..thankyou for opening it up..have an AMAZING DAY Candace.

Some are good actors, great charmers and cunning liars.

@ReneeSlansky

4 жыл бұрын

Very true !

@lindazhang8004

4 жыл бұрын

you nialed it right there

@kellyfamilycuocsongusa.4938

3 жыл бұрын

That is happen to me too.

@RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson

3 жыл бұрын

HI RENEE SLANSKY HOW ARE U DOING TODAY HOPE ITS A SUNNY DAY WHERE U ARE AT ETC ,, HOW TOO NOW IF SHE HAS SIGNS SHE WHANTS TOO BEE YOUR GIRLFREIND AND BOYFREINED WITH ONE OTHER BOTH RENEE SLANSKY CAN U HELP ME OUT IF THATS COOL AS ASAP THANIKS RENEE SLANSKY

@RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson

3 жыл бұрын

FROM OVER THE DITCH IN NEW ZEALAND RENEE SLANSKY HOPE U HAVE A GREAT DAY TODAY IF U ARE COOL AS WITH THAT CAN U LET ME NOW ASAP THANIKS RENEE SLANSKY

ive been played and im so turned off now i cannot be bothered anymore i am gonna remain single for the rest of my entire life my heart cant take heart breaks anymore

@Mila-vc9dz

5 жыл бұрын

You don't have to have the mindset that you'll be single forever because there are a lot of nice guys around you. The difference is don't get emotionally invested too early

@joliesusan7775

3 жыл бұрын

if you think your partnal Is cheating on you and you've been finding a way to get him... DM hacker_beast1 on instagram... You can always recover his/her old deleted messages and also have access to his calls and sms on your phone without his/her knowledge

If it's too hard in the beginning it probably won't get any easier. Excellent point to remember. ♥️

Omg! This kind of relationship is tiring! 😩There’s no peace of mind, no respect and love at all! Thanks God rescued me from this brokenness! 🙏🙏

@ReneeSlansky

4 жыл бұрын

How good is God , knowing him makes love so much easier!x

@janetbaldwin36

4 жыл бұрын

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No just assume they are trust me on this . Until you are officiall it is entirely possible he's dating and sleeping with others . I would not blind myself to this idea.

@shaunaboo961

5 жыл бұрын

Smart woman

@jenniferlabruzzo3922

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly there is a difference between dating and a relationship. Thank you

@Megzm6

5 жыл бұрын

@Alida Green Yes that's possible too. I'd be very careful with friends with benefits . That rarely works.

@Megzm6

5 жыл бұрын

@Alida Green I'm sorry you went through that. All I can tell you is that you are worthy of love a real relationship. I know it's hard. I'm guilty of giving more than I should in the past , but I learned that over investing doesn't give time for true courtship to take place. Set boundaries early on and it will weed out the ones that aren't meant for you much quicker to get to the right guy.

@chloe.cordeiro

4 жыл бұрын

@@Megzm6 this has been such a huge help for me to understand where my mind is at rn, thank you :) ❤️✨

The same man who was seeing multiple women is the same man who, now that he's married, has a twinkle in his eye when he sees them in social situations with his wife on the other side of the room.

@kimtamani1870

4 жыл бұрын

That last part!!!

@MsJoyce31202

4 жыл бұрын

👍

Most of my old boyfriends were cheaters. I'm done with the games they play. I'm 53 and have no desire to date and waste my time with some guys who can never keep it in their pants. I'm always honest with guys. If I am with them I am with them 100%. Most men don't deserve a woman like me who is loyal. They can't give me the same. I know all about the excuses. He would cancel dates saying, "I just can't do this". I should have seen the red flags long ago. I guess I chose not to see them and I paid the price with heartbreak.

@petrahansen7067

5 жыл бұрын

@Amy P. No offense, but if you're *53* , that would have put you graduating HS around '84. Which in *that* time and even 10 years after, there were literally *10's of millions* of eligible, non-committment-phobic, hard-working, marriagable men who were willing to marry in their early 20's, if not sooner. My uncles, great uncles and hundreds of men of that age that I've known(the ones who are still alive), are a perfect example and they have been and *are* reliably 80% model husbands to my in-law aunts and *many* other women, in *your* age group and even older. And those men will/would more than likely *stay* married even as *"Late-Boomer/Me-Generation/Gen X"*-kids, only slightly less long as their parents did. Maybe you were partying/working/procrastinating too much through your 20's/30's/40's, letting decades go by and your matrimonial eligibility with it, and not paying attention to the men who were *all around you* , who made advances/overtures towards relationships and marriage. But you felt that you still were going to *"wait"* , until the *"right and perfect"* one came along, based upon some cinematic, Deborah Winger/Richard Gere dream criteria you built up as a teen. As many 50+ women are finding out *now* , the internet/information age, is *not* a suitable place and environment for any middle-aged woman, to be seeking a mate. In all honesty, your chances now of finding love and marriage in this age and your time of life, are *exponentially* low, bordering on impossible, being realistic. Men now(especially financially-stable ones), are *not* staying local/loyal to their towns and their eligible dating pools(as they did in *your* day), marrying their HS sweethearts, etc, as they have far too many state, national and *global* options, have the tools to date multiple women, and are loaded to the gills with cynicism and disloyalty, mostly based upon the unfavorable/disasterous experiences they've had with women in their past who were not relationship/marriage-minded(although they may have "claimed" they were those things disingenuously many times, to many men). These dynamics over time have *grooved and groomed* aged 40+ men(who are innately pragmatic and practical to a fault), to simply live their lives seeking self-enjoyment, paying only passive attention to love/relationships/marriage, and seeking out and enjoying the company of multiple women in numerous locations, whether those women know he is doing it or not. Hate to be that wet blanket to break this to you. But I'm afraid that's probably the situation you find yourself in.

@MarieHolliday

5 жыл бұрын

@@petrahansen7067 you are way off point I am 54 years old and to be honest I have turn down more dates than I can count and have turned down three marriage proposals in two years. Men don't grow up until they hit their 50 and woman still have to train them. Most men 40-55 don't have a clue. They run around trying to be 20 years old and have no clue about the power of feminine energy. Feminine energy is what make this world spin and women who know how to tap into that energy are hypnotic at any age. We all become old and men become fools when they hit midlife crisis. I saw it in my ex husband he literally ran around like a FOOl and made himself look silly. You will become old with limited choices if you fail to tap into your masculine energy.

@arizonadreaming4183

5 жыл бұрын

Do men with e.d cheat?😁😂😊

@Last_one_before_I_go

5 жыл бұрын

@@arizonadreaming4183 - probably as much as women with a saggy boobs and butt who also has yeast smell problems. hahaha

@monicanath4859

4 жыл бұрын

Well said Amy! Most men are absolutely ridiculous and horrifically immature!

That’s when you take the sex away! You want to date other women or check out your other options... even at the beginning stage... I am feeling something off???

Signs he might be seeing other women: HE'S A GUY! ME: 🥺😭

@donnarowe8962

3 жыл бұрын

TY... I Think that’s GREAT! I’d have ToTell You,,,, Goodbye, have a nice life, I wish you the best...take care!!!!Continue to be that GUY

@dbedazzling1

2 жыл бұрын

Haha truth

You nailed this babe ! sounds like who I was dealing with and he was so sneaky he would turn off his iMessage notifications (I realized this after the fact ) and when I would ask him if he’s talking to other people his favorite line would be “ you never see nobody texting or calling me do you ?” HA ! Yeah because you turned off your notifications for Messages !! Major red flag if you NEVER see someone texting them , even if it’s family or friends. I just so happened to glance at his phone when he went to text someone and saw multiple messages that hadn’t been opened .This was all a front . Also be mindful if he never introduces you to his friends ! 2 years and I never met anyone he knew , not even family ... ! Any man that’s taking you seriously will at least let you meet their closest friend !!

@andrettawiggins701

5 жыл бұрын

That describes LJ also known as Joseph. And Mark until 1 year after we were dating and few others

@graceibelegbu189

5 жыл бұрын

Very true.

@littlelily4

5 жыл бұрын

Not always! The guy I was seeing introduced me to his closest group of friends just one week before we ended things after he finally admitted (he didn't tell me on his own I had to ask a million questions as always) he didn't have feelings for me. I would say that he likes you if he introduces you to his family. And even if that happens be careful to look at the parents /relatives reaction when you meet them, or what they say. If he introduces lots of girls you will probably sense it. Some men are master manipulators and like to date multiple women

Set your boundaries and expectations, ladies.

He had pictures of other women Never me on his phone or Facebook

Shit, four signs.. He did mention being friends with an ex but she moved so I thought.. Damn, here Ive been trying to figure out what was wrong by watching every damn dating advice video online and it was this simple all along. He won't be seeing me anymore!

@shandranewell2837

5 жыл бұрын

Which means your real love is excited he's been waiting!

Of course he is... Im not a priority. And.....we’ve never talked about being exclusive. Gotta have “the talk”, don’t you?

Some of these issues can also apply to long term relationships as well.

@joliesusan7775

3 жыл бұрын

if you think your partnal Is cheating on you and you've been finding a way to get him... DM hacker_beast1 on instagram... You can always recover his/her old deleted messages and also have access to his calls and sms on your phone without his/her knowledge

My husband has 2 account he doesn't know that I found out about the other one. He delete alot of messages off of KZread he cheated 2 other times and still won't admit his wrong. I busted him on a message he forgot to delete and he still denied it. He's still sneaking around talking to girl. Now he studing the Bible and wanting to be a street preaching. Lol!! Wow!! He accused me of what he is doing wrong

She's right; I dated a guy for 5 years. We were very consistent but it never went anywhere. This was during college so for the first couple years, I understood it wasn't necessarily committed, but if after a year or two if he's not talking about the future...then you have a problem. I finally mentioned the ring assumming he would have at least thought about it; unfortunately, that was not the case. Yes, I met the family and did family things, but it was a limbo. I understood neither of us had a lot of money at the time, but that was no excuse. The longer it went, the worse it got for me. It was like he wanted his cake and icing too.

@elizabethjones4325

5 жыл бұрын

5 years😣😣😣😣 i'm so sorry dear

@tinaapicelli8565

5 жыл бұрын

Over 4 years for me, no more. If a relationship is been over 2 years and no ring it's time to cut the cord.

@kwartenglinda5566

5 жыл бұрын

@@tinaapicelli8565 Exactly

@dbedazzling1

2 жыл бұрын

Same here. 3.5 years of consistency but non committal. Wasted time.

@voluntarism335

2 жыл бұрын

@@dbedazzling1 You're not entitled to him

This is so True!! Thanks 🙏🏾 for sharing! God bless ❤️😘😘

I don't have a guy at the moment I watch these videos to learn about how men can deceive women since I started educating myself about this topic I can read people quite quickly and I don't allow myself to get hurt anymore it's amazing how many men are prepared to cheat quite often he shows who he really is early on but if you don't recognise the signs or ignore them you will get hurt

Thank you so very much for this video. It's so helpful. 👍

100% agree with this ~ it makes sense ~ time to run ~ other dates in the past have given me 100% but my recent experience is what Renee is talking about #excuses # lack of commitment # ambiguity # avoiding # lack of response # ignores calls and texts. How do I feel # shit # hurt # painful ~ no foundation of trust ~ I am in a good place but this one has red flags already ~ thanks for reminding me I deserve more and I am worthy of better … time to move on asap xx love to all

@ReneeSlansky

5 жыл бұрын

Sounds like you know what's best :) don't settle for an average relationship xx

I can vouch for this.. she described a couple of my ex’s to the T! Lol anyone going through this.. let the punk mf go! Accept it will never change and better will come along once you have peace of mind from moving on

@christianpulisic7784

3 жыл бұрын

A E,You deserve a good man!!

Wow very well said.. Im glad i found your video..

Thankx so much Gr8 advice 👌

Thanks for sharing. 👍🏾

Great informative video!!!!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

This video is spot on!

i find it very hard to differentiate, but these tips are really true. I remember I was seeing someone who was sleeping around with lots of other girls and had all these signs (anxiety, excuses, words not meeting actions, aloof in public... the whole lot really. Took me a few weeks to realise that it was going nowhere. I felt at first until I saw it

That's a so helpful videos for women.❤

@maxhouse2409

5 жыл бұрын

It's also helpful for men since it's behavior based, not gender based.

Thank you for these videos. The bread crumbing, ghosting and gas lighting these days. After, a year and half of learning the new “dating “ rules, after my divorce, I am done dating for the moment. Working on myself and enjoying being by myself. Found out, all the new terms and now know the signs, to not continue dating someone. No rushing with anyone and I see signs , then I say no thank you and walk away. If they don’t have time for me and won’t plan anything in advance, red flag. They will try and test you to see what you will put up with. My self worth is back and I know I will not accept anything less than respect, honesty and slowing down to get to know someone.

O and he laid his phone face down all.the time

@jessicapanciera8915

3 жыл бұрын

So true about the phone secrecy

@jessicapanciera8915

3 жыл бұрын

Plus he would hide his phone Also he would keep ringer OFF so I wouldn’t get a glimpse of anyone calling or texting If a guy can leave his phone out he probably isn’t cheating or hiding something

You hold yourself so well and give such great advice. I hope your subscribers sky rocket!!

Also he is always wake ing up.ealy and getting on his phone

One two AND five..just amazing to read all of what I knew

I have come to believe men and women just are diametrically opposed as to end goals w the opposite sex. Men want variety and no strings attached and women want stability and prefer one person. This isn’t always the case but often it’s true. Just realize your chances of finding a man whose looking for an emotional relationship and commitment are pretty rare. It’s been my experience.

I’m going through all of this! I hope I look back on this and am way passed this level in my life and can help other women like this woman is doing. Thank you for this video

@janetbaldwin36

4 жыл бұрын

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Your skin isn’t paper don’t cut it Your life isn’t a movie don’t end it Your heart isn’t glass don’t let others brake it Love your self 💕💕💕

@leedean8967

5 жыл бұрын

Yes

@GodsIntuitivemessenger

5 жыл бұрын

Break

@GodsIntuitivemessenger

5 жыл бұрын

Great Quote

Hi Renee! I watched your video for the very first time this evening.. Can I please email you to explain my situation with my long distance relationship boyfriend? Thank You!

Thank you for this

@janetbaldwin36

4 жыл бұрын

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wish i had this video last year. coulda saved me so much problems

@ReneeSlansky

5 жыл бұрын

Something so many of my clients say too! Gosh I wish I had known all I know now so many years ago too ! x

Thank you

You talk soooooo sweet Renee 😍 I love this video, thank youuuuu ❤

Wonderful

you are on point, this has all tick marks from the last guy... I dated. the problem is, I just realize it when its already late... I end up misrable...and begging him to love me..

@tashabuffalo9028

5 жыл бұрын

Same here even though I have options I just want him. ☹

@nancicone3264

5 жыл бұрын

Yes I do the same thing. I get too attached in the beginning without knowing the person. I got involved with a guy a few months ago briefly and fell way too hard. So much misery and heartache on my side. There were signs. He was looking for intimacy in the short term. I wanted long term with him. I saw him within a week meeting all or most of my needs when I barely knew anything about him. I'm 50 yrs old, never married, never lived with a man and feel like I'm 19 many times dating. Time to grow up and date like a grown up or I'll never be happy. Thanks, Renee and thank you all for sharing! ❤️💙💜

These are excellent tips even for men dating women.

@ReneeSlansky

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you :)

Wow! So smart! Best advise ever

I've been dating a guy 12 years younger than me but we have no problem with age at all. It's been great until recently that we cannot see each other because of COVID. He starts to text less or takes longer than normal to reply. I saw that he starts following more women on Instagram and one day i saw one of the girls screenshot the conversation they have. I asked her directly if he is her bf but she said no and that he is a good friend. I talked to him a couple of times about his change in behavoir and how i feel that he is not interested so much anymore. And asked him honestly if he wanna just be friends and give each other freedom, but he said no and wanna try to work it out. But i feel like after the talk it is not that better. We said we will videocall in the evening and he didnt text me the whole day and just call in the evening. I asked him directly also if he is talking to other girls and said to him it is ok if he does just have to tell me so i could decide for myself to keep going with him or not. But he always says he is not talking to someone else... Am i just being paranoid? Should i just give him a benefit of a doubt?

That's exhausting like a second job ...so immature. What about his job is on call

The guy dating experts actually suggest you date 4 to 5 women at the same time so when one leaves or ghosts you you can just move on to the next one. Also so you can compare what feels like a legitimate connection and what feels like it's a controlling thing. That your being dragged along for free dinners and such. Plus they say if you date one girl at a time then after a few months of seeing her she leaves you don't feel you wasted all those months with That girl that you had others.

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4 жыл бұрын

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Thank you for your advice

@ReneeSlansky

3 жыл бұрын

You're welcome

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3 жыл бұрын

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3 жыл бұрын

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Well even if the family knows u that still doesn't mean anything . No u ask a guy if they seeing someone else of course they are not going to tell u . And if u feel thus way that they r cheating cut them off leave them and don't go back

He tells that it's just his family and friends on Facebook bs then.i can't I go on it

Well spoken

@clarahamma8814

3 жыл бұрын

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3 жыл бұрын

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Done with dating

What if your beloved is I. Another country.? And you met him on fb? 3 years Ago. And he proposed To me only 4 days later. In april 24th 2017. I'm still In Finland he's In ireland. Maybe it's a blg thing for me moving In another country. And now he hasn't replied To me or his daughter. I asked her for help. And she said To me that I promise you I will let you know if I hear from him.

I am a guy and this has been going on now for about a month. Found her on a dating site in the beginning. So seven months later she's on two dating sites....so after I found on the site I confronted her and she said she did nothing wrong. Played the victim. We have been together about 10 months. Four out the five points gave on this site hit home and is happening now. What do you guys think being women?

Omg you are so right, I gave this loser so many chances After 4 years I had absolutely enough.I never ever nagged him. I let him hang himself. I always said to him Actions speak louder than words. I deffiently learned a big life lesson and never ever will I trust another man. It's so funny how when you are in a relationship and you dont see things cause you are so wrapped up into there bullshit. And when family and friends keep telling you things and you are in denial My gut always new he was cheating .So many dam signs.Plus he was on dating apps.A real scumbag narcissist liar and cheater.I am so happy now I have a real man not a boy .Its finally nice to be loved unconditionally. Thank you sweet jesus for bringing this man into my life ..

I liked your video my dear

How about if a guy is dating more than one woman during the initial dating phase and is completely up front about it? I'm talking about when everyone is still in the dating phase and not in a relationship yet.

@ReneeSlansky

5 жыл бұрын

Don't give him girlfriend benefits without boyfriend commitments and vice versa

How do you know if she is/isn't seeing other men

@maxhouse2409

5 жыл бұрын

Rewatch the video and reverse engineer it so it applies to women.

Her insecurity point is on point. Accuse a dude of cheating when he’s not, or keep insinuating he’s more attracted to other women than to you, and just watch how fast he ends things. Alas, too many, far too many men do cheat, as, by the way, Dow women. So yes, trust your gut, but make sure you have objective evidence before you accuse.

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3 жыл бұрын

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3 жыл бұрын

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We have broke up a couple of times especially last year and he swears up and down at the heated have anybody else in his house but yet he told me he went and looked at that if we were broke they should have called me instead of doing so I was curious he said yeah I know he cheated on me even though we were broke up I need all the times before you said he might X himself he want to cheat on me I'm not stupid

It's been great for 3 months and he's suddenly switched... I don't know what to think

Very true

@nancyeden3017

4 жыл бұрын

After that am much better off but cant stoped to think you was wrong no he was and is wrong to think i would always be there for him.wrong i left wish he could get his life toghther for him self do this for you at least cant do it even knowing that id hurt missing him but think about how hes treating u dont do it hes not gods gift to women u can look good on the out side but uguly to the bone inside and out to me hard .to know i give him that many yrs please beleve me not worth it at all he would and will fool alot of us that way .still wants to be my friend .dont ever be like me.had to learn a very hard one for myself i guess hope u dont have to ladies.right.

Fellow guys, this is applicable once you are dating a woman. It is not applicable before a man has a committed relationship with a woman. Showing too early that you don’t have these negative characteristics is more likely to work against you.

Omg yes he has said that

Some people will have anxiety just because their own attachment style ..

My Dream Girl!

great tips, I personally will never invest my time on someone like this

Wow this was my marriage !!

@ReneeSlansky

5 жыл бұрын

Oh No :(

That was the Case. She Had Always Trips and other Events I wasn't informed. So that means was Dating other Guys in the meantime?

@ReneeSlansky

5 жыл бұрын

She could have been , sounds like she wasn't that invested emotionally

@fredericmoresmau4303

5 жыл бұрын

@@ReneeSlansky good deduction, not that she wasn't at all, but definitely a lot less, thus the easy decision to drop it as something better suited was there

@andraacram

5 жыл бұрын

Yeah maybe, or she’s just rude as shit. Either way she doesn’t value what you have to offer.

After checking out a few (3) of your video's, I can't help but notice a pattern here with you...structured, calculating and an over thinker. Meeting new people is clumsy. So easy to mis read, mis interpret and feel uncertain and it's also immature (I think) with disclosing too much, too soon, and for many reasons. When you like someone it should just flow and be nice, comfortable and easy (I agree) but in my experiences the person may have a life to complicate their relationship, children, a sick parent, a failing business they also can be distracted by. But consistency is key (I again agree) but also some people get nervous when not knowing how to be open enough to be believed...maybe due to bad past relationships. I also think if you want someone you will find a way, if not you'll find excuses, lack commitment and where it should be easy, it's ambiguous. A relationship should not be hard on any level when trust and communication is there but life is dynamic, just work within it.

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3 жыл бұрын

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3 жыл бұрын

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One sign. He knows.

it you Renee from TVSN wow good advice. I always thank you look like butterfly because you are so ladylike

Yes he does

Well they have to keep their options open Its been learnt in primary school, have a replacement, especially if you are insecure unstable not serious woman He needs to secure him self. You must understand becuase the chances are you are not pefect either, plus he is the man is expected of him to be the man and that is hard Just accept it as it is and you will be happy I promise ☺.

@ReneeSlansky

5 жыл бұрын

He will only keep his options open if he isn't satisfied with that woman :)

@somyan8540

5 жыл бұрын

@@ReneeSlansky and wise versa? 😕

@somyan8540

5 жыл бұрын

@@ReneeSlansky maybe time to visit the naighbours 😉

@banksbanks9877

5 жыл бұрын

No guys keep options open cause that's just what they do . It has nothing to do with the women. They just play the field. They only take u serious after u leave them

My bf and I we are in a LDR and we had a fight but I tried settle it and even I know that I'm not the one who made a mistake I still say sorry to him but even though that we settle it he still treats me cold and when I talk about it again he said he just need a day to process things but it's almost week now that he didnt talk to me, I am thinking if he is dating another girl now, what will I do to confirm it? Thanks and hope you'll reply to me

@ReneeSlansky

5 жыл бұрын

It sounds like you are giving your bf too much grace and you need to assert your worth and boundaries a bit more. I would actually recommend reading the book Why Men Love Bitches ( title is misleading but it's an awesome book!)

@yvettebailey4327

5 жыл бұрын

Go with ur gut. If your inner strength about the situation is strong then you have your answer. Its better to have peace of mind than have someone lead you on n lie to you when you already know something aint right.

@metaliamargaret4575

5 жыл бұрын

Just ask to the point what does he want in our realation ship. Ask him about his opinion.Take it easy..try to fund another much simple and much better

@ida4587

5 жыл бұрын

Why would you apologize if you didn't made anything wrong...you are being a doormat and he is stepping all over you. Get some respect girl.

@goddessofmaya1171

5 жыл бұрын

Once you apologize when you did nothing wrong you are telling him you have low value. Do not ever do this unless you want to tell him he can get away with treating you like a doormat. And if on top of your apology he is still having an attitude he needs to go. If he is wrong plus has an attitude against you then just take the hint and move along. Don't ever lower your self worth by apologizing when you are not wrong.

I asked whether he has a date tonight (which is a Friday night). He replied that he would see a movie with a friend. So, does it mean he’s seeing someone else?

@ReneeSlansky

4 жыл бұрын

Hmm depends , it does sound ambiguous especially if it's a female friend.

it. is. what. it. is

I am seeing a.guy says I miss talking 2 another woman she's married but.just friends it makes me nervous but he.says just friends like a sister

@ReneeSlansky

5 жыл бұрын

hmmm big red flag there!

Does this apply to a guy you just started dating and are not exclusive with?

@ReneeSlansky

4 жыл бұрын

I think that if you are just casually dating , then it does help identify if he is dating at the same time other women . If you are exclusive , then yes these are the main signs.

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4 жыл бұрын

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it amuses me that guys who want to fuck around always want the women who have standards and wouldn't tolerate this dynamic, whilst there are women who would accept it. its the lying deceptiveness that gets these lying cheats off- and they couldn't take being treated the same way. This bs of having different women on the go is just an ego boost to a completely inadequate human being

He msg me on Thursday I was so busy that day I couldn’t get back to him but I msg him on Friday and since I send the msg I haven’t heard from him 😩 also he went from calling me every night to only texting me once a week I asked him about this and he says his “busy” but the thing is he doesn’t even work and his studying full time only

@ReneeSlansky

5 жыл бұрын

Ok you need to pull back and start investing back into you , let him wonder about you , let him initiate and see you having a great time. remember the dating phase is all about to getting to know them over time. Maybe this is his real character and therefore probably not someone who you should keep giving time to ...

@metaliamargaret4575

5 жыл бұрын

Take it easy.. it is still good as long as both of u still have good comunication..

@wowso4

5 жыл бұрын

Renee Slansky thank you so much for the reply! Yes that’s what I’m doing now I stopped all communications with him and He sent me a msg today asking how I was doing... and I don’t know whether to reply to his msg or not I doesn’t want to reply since he keeps disappearing...what do you think?

@wowso4

5 жыл бұрын

Metalia Margaret that’s the thing we don’t have any communication we use to talk every day on the phone with him calling me but he keeps disappearing and reappearing and I think it’s best for me to cut it off I feel like I’m being used!

@thrilla72

5 жыл бұрын

@@wowso4 He's not your husband. What does it cost you to talk to him? You said he studies full time. Depending on what he's studying he won't have much time or energy for chit chatting. Keep in mind studying is temporary. Could see how it goes and just keep yourself busy. At this point, the investment is low.

That's not a bug deal

And it’s not just other women sometimes either. For me I learned this the hard way. Either I am a priority to them or I’m not, and the specific reason becomes rather irrelevant. I have to measure it by where I am in my life and by knowing what I want and need and my own standards with that. Sometimes they are married to their work or can’t prioritize their life or say no to this or that thing. So, even if I don’t know why, if I’m not a priority, I won’t hang around for just mere leftovers or not being the priority I feel I need to be. I have come to a place in life where I’ve learned to prioritize and I have enough free time to build a relationship. If a guy isn’t there also, then we are not really at the same place in life and it won’t be a great match. So I move on hoping to find someone more like me who wants the same thing I want and is able to match my effort.

I have a question... How do I deal with everytime I open up to my boyfriend He tends to go ghost on me. Could he be cheating on me?

@SH-to8sh

5 жыл бұрын

possibly...do you wanna talk about it? i tried asking mine but he never tells me anything, i had to make a fake account and message the girl i was suspicious about to find anything...go with your guts..its usually right

@marthaharris502

5 жыл бұрын

E T I don't know what to do with him anymore. We have been together for a little over a year and he's getting more and more shady.

@SH-to8sh

5 жыл бұрын

@@marthaharris502 i know what you mean like ill text my guy and he'll be all excited texting me back but he wont ever text first anymore, and thats what got me worried. I then friended this girl he was hanging out with overseas and messaged her and she confirmed that he has visited her and will be seeing her again in may. It is heart wrenching but don't worry we will get through it. They'll just keep doing it someone else, these aren't the type of men you marry, so don't worry about it. Try to let go, and remember you always deserve the truth

@marthaharris502

5 жыл бұрын

E T I'm tempted to just give up on this relationship and look at it as well at least I tried. Maybe better luck next time.

@SH-to8sh

5 жыл бұрын

@@marthaharris502 Just do what you feel is right. The chances are everything you needed to know will come out after you break it off, and it'll hurt less. This is what I did

I know he is I just don't have the. Proof ,we have been together for years

The volume is extremely low. I a adjusted my computer settings and the KZread volume....

You just described my last relationship.

I don't know what the problem is, I think women and men should, have a period of time where they are able to date multiple people. Instead, especially men often pressure you into a relationship by the third date . Then we wonder why we spend 1, 2 , 3 years in a relationship we probably never should have entered. " going steady" the 1950s invention led the way to not having enough time to be choosy.

realationships r wayyyyy to much work time im single wayyyyy happy that way

@ReneeSlansky

5 жыл бұрын

They aren't to much work if they are made up of two people who know how to make them easier :)

How to know if a guy is too good to be true?

@ReneeSlansky

5 жыл бұрын

If you think he is then he probably is! Look at what he is consistent in as that will reveal his character

@natalieharquail4845

5 жыл бұрын

@@ReneeSlansky Can you please make a video about this?

@maxhouse2409

5 жыл бұрын

Show me a perfect guy and I'll show you a man nailed to a cross.

Which lipstick you are wearing ? You should do makeup tutorials