Signs a Guy is Abusive | Lifestyle Lessons

I was inspired by my therapist to create this video, How to: Signs a Guy is Abusive. I'm happy that I did so and will continue to provide my opinions to help others.
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  • @albertshinskiy
    @albertshinskiy15 күн бұрын

    well constructed video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her..

  • @deboralaw-on9od

    @deboralaw-on9od

    15 күн бұрын

    its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back

  • @albertshinskiy

    @albertshinskiy

    15 күн бұрын

    Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

  • @deboralaw-on9od

    @deboralaw-on9od

    15 күн бұрын

    Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

  • @albertshinskiy

    @albertshinskiy

    15 күн бұрын

    Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

  • @unablessington7168
    @unablessington71682 жыл бұрын

    Run, Run, Run. The minute you see the charmer and the next sign is jealousy, and don't look back.

  • @LYYD.
    @LYYD.5 ай бұрын

    Dealing with an abusive person really changes you.

  • @jodifloria6647
    @jodifloria66472 жыл бұрын

    Insults.. side eye looks.. Ignore u and sit on their phone..

  • @user-dc7iw3fu4e

    @user-dc7iw3fu4e

    Ай бұрын

    That side eye look is real dangerous bc they're considering physically assaulting you

  • @Shai8212
    @Shai8212Ай бұрын

    I met a guy, we were talking for a couple of weeks. I noticed he was very negative about everything so I became distant. He called me to question me about being distant then he told me he’ll kick my dog, I said oh hell no I don’t joke like that I blocked him never spoke to him again😂

  • @irsanonymous

    @irsanonymous

    Ай бұрын

    Hats off to you!!! That makes me happy to hear. It's so good when women listen to the signs to save their life, sanity, and peace.

  • @tjaspire
    @tjaspire3 жыл бұрын

    Sorry that happened to you beautiful. I'm just glad that I got out before he ever got the chance. He did say something that disturbed me; he said that if I ever cheated on him he would beat me. I took that as a threat and kicked his sorry, no ambition having, behind to the curb. The nerve of that clown.

  • @irsanonymous

    @irsanonymous

    3 жыл бұрын

    Oh yes, that’s a threat in my book too! I’m so happy you had the confidence to leave. I pray the best for you moving forward.

  • @user-dc7iw3fu4e

    @user-dc7iw3fu4e

    Ай бұрын

    Yup and guaranteed he has many other reasons in his mind that is worth putting the paws on you. I'm glad you took that threat seriously.

  • @jashondasuber7273
    @jashondasuber72735 ай бұрын

    Omg the telling you to be rough with them is something I would wouldn’t had even thought of as a sign because he’s always like oh Idc if you put your hands on me and I’m like I don’t want to tho 😮

  • @susandaye8146
    @susandaye81464 жыл бұрын

    You look really pretty.you are helping women everywhere. these signs you named are classic.

  • @irsanonymous

    @irsanonymous

    4 жыл бұрын

    susan daye Thank you! I really want to help as many women and girls as I can.

  • @cheetavontiebolt9971
    @cheetavontiebolt9971Ай бұрын

    No woman deserves abuse

  • @TheRealLarissa
    @TheRealLarissa2 жыл бұрын

    Yes. My husband and I separated for a short time ten years ago and I dated someone. The guy was Uber abusive and he's still stalking me and no one will help me.

  • @irsanonymous

    @irsanonymous

    2 жыл бұрын

    Protective order, prayer, and try your best to move and make sure he can’t trace you.

  • @TheRealLarissa

    @TheRealLarissa

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@irsanonymous we have moved multiple times. He and his family are disgusting. I'm not moving again. I had him in court a couple weeks ago and the judge did nothing.

  • @irsanonymous

    @irsanonymous

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@TheRealLarissa that is not right. Hopefully you can pray that someone or something would come along to occupy his time so he will leave you alone.

  • @TheRealLarissa

    @TheRealLarissa

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@irsanonymous prayer has done nothing

  • @lindadewese6754

    @lindadewese6754

    2 жыл бұрын

    Get yourself to a spiritual priest.yes, use magic to banish him!

  • @theover50fashionflipper
    @theover50fashionflipper4 жыл бұрын

    Keep sharing your story! Never give up. It has helped my awareness

  • @irsanonymous

    @irsanonymous

    4 жыл бұрын

    That means so much to me! Thank you for being a blessing.

  • @arlyngrunick4550
    @arlyngrunick455010 ай бұрын

    thank you for this!!! 🙏

  • @ElizabethCommons-m6x
    @ElizabethCommons-m6x16 күн бұрын

    They hacked my phone 🤳 stole my car the list goes on

  • @weepingangel8190
    @weepingangel81902 жыл бұрын

    when he hits you on the nose its usually a huge sign ( this was joke) XD

  • @Parleral
    @Parleral4 жыл бұрын

    When you say "wanting you to get rough" are you referencing in the bedroom? I am asking because a guy asked to pull my hair

  • @irsanonymous

    @irsanonymous

    4 жыл бұрын

    Parleral the rough I’m talking about in this video is outside of the bedroom, physically and verbally rough. For instance, harmful verbiage, pushing and fighting. The pulling hair in the bedroom is not unheard of. Still be discerning tho if other things kinda make you feel uncomfortable or weird about him.

  • @Parleral

    @Parleral

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@irsanonymous thank you.

  • @irsanonymous

    @irsanonymous

    4 жыл бұрын

    Parleral you’re welcome!