I don’t understand why people can’t accept their parents rules. You’re just staying for a little while. Control yourself until you get home.

@intheshell35ify

2 ай бұрын

Besides...it makes it better when you're sneaking around. 😊

@MemphisTiger

2 ай бұрын

Then, if my parents come to visit me, they would also need to sleep in separate rooms!

@surlespasdondine

2 ай бұрын

Why do the parents have to interfere in their adult kids sex lives? So strange...

@intheshell35ify

2 ай бұрын

@@surlespasdondine because kids used to leave their parents house before sexin it up. Or they did it in the car. At the movies. In the corn field between our houses.

@intheshell35ify

2 ай бұрын

@@MemphisTiger my parents sleep in different rooms anyway cause they snore so bad. Just saying.

I get where Alyssa is coming from and I also appreciate that she understands how flawed her statement was. I definitely love this panel

@ceterisparibus8966

2 ай бұрын

How is that right?

@JeMangeLaPoubelle

2 ай бұрын

​@@ceterisparibus8966acknowledging bias is an important step in overcoming it :D

@kendallbedford2523

Ай бұрын

The yellow she has on is glowing and I'm here for it.

@myrtleheatherfield

Ай бұрын

It makes sense to have that instinct when for thousands of years it's been the woman left with the baby. Effective birth control is still relatively new to humans. And reproduction aside, sexual violence is a natural concern too. Though there are always exceptions, women are generally more vulnerable. Of course, aiming for fairness is ideal, but some of these concerns are understandable and not silly. On the other hand, teaching sons the need for self-control should be as important as protecting daughters.

alyssa was very honest

@edithputhy4948

2 ай бұрын

She was honestly stupid and sexist

Yes Joy it's very ridiculous what Alyssa were saying. The son and daughter should be held to the same standards

@kevin___

2 ай бұрын

It should be, but far too often that is still not the case.

@ConfidenceInSelf

2 ай бұрын

That’s what Alyssa basically said. She knows it’s sexist. She admitted that her thinking was not fair to her potential daughter and son.

@vienicestyles

2 ай бұрын

It’s a Republican thing! 😂

@nazaninmaily2030

2 ай бұрын

That annoyed tf outta her 😂

@lbj2320

2 ай бұрын

​@@kevin___ i know, it pissed me off so much hearing what Alyssa said. A girl should feel like she can have as much sex as she want to and feel goo about it. Alyssa is so selfish, probably just think like that wheenver she's not the one involved in the love making. I lost a lost of respect for her. Way to go Joy.

I'm with Joy at the end about Whoopi "oh my god" 😂

@Fluuuv

2 ай бұрын

😂😂

@808rocker808

2 ай бұрын

Right! She gets paid millions to be there and can't even do her job!

@kendallbedford2523

Ай бұрын

Those two are hilarious 😂

Maybe I’m slow on observation but it’s becoming really obvious to me that Whoopi is not a happy camper in her current job role. any patience she had before is just gone. If the topic isn’t political or of personal interest, her body language, tone of voice all shout “I wish I was somewhere else!” This is at least the 2nd or 3rd time this week where the other panelists noticed her intolerance for the topic and though they kept it lighthearted, the apologized to Whoopi and assured her it was almost over. If it’s such an undesirable topic for her, why not let one of the other ladies open then close out that segment. Let producers know what topic she doesn’t care about or annoys her or is a generational thing she doesn’t really get, or whatever… If she has anything to add, just let them know during rehearsal. But the rolling of the eyes, and the mocking tone of voice is not funny. I respect wisdom and perspective that older generations bring to the table. But not at the expense of an open mind and knowledge that there is still so much of the world and the people in it, that someone Whoopi’s age still can learn thing from. And who still wants to learn new things.

@user-cm4dc2rd2q

2 ай бұрын

Oh Pleaseeeeee. Whoopi is just expressing the fact that these topics have been discussed enough to the point that I have no more vomit to expectorant and I don't want to regurgitate it any more. These are topics generic to the social media crowd. Let's keep topics to those grown people business. Little girls, put on your big panties.

@naylas3908

2 ай бұрын

Agreed. I wish she’d just retire and stick to acting. She’s a bad moderator, too.

@frederickdiamond9651

2 ай бұрын

She is starting to be like Meghan when she was still there. Yes?

@lc.c6835

2 ай бұрын

Stick to acting Whoopi!!!

Loved that Alyssa was honest to share a feeling she knew was flawed logic, shaming her deeper is pointless

Sara’s mom thinks Sara magically got her children??? 😂

@kendallbedford2523

Ай бұрын

No she thinks the stork brought them

@partinyriktning6372

Ай бұрын

@@kendallbedford2523 Sounds accurate 😂

Go with the house rules. Don't overstep your boundaries. This should not be a big deal.

Whatever the parents say goes. It's their home.

@volcrazy89

2 ай бұрын

I agree but expect them to stop visiting or to not stay there when they visit.

@chanyisme

2 ай бұрын

@@volcrazy89 I agree. My parents did something similar with my husband and I before we were married. We just stayed elsewhere, no biggie.

@LucienWhite-fb5qk

2 ай бұрын

get ready to become childless then..."wHy WoNt mY kIDs tALk tO mE???"

@Fate862

2 ай бұрын

That's the issue. The dad says he doesn't want them to sleep together and the mother does. The kids aren't debating it, its the parents of the girl that have differing opinions. Do you americans all have the attention span of a peanut?

The Daughter should have more respect for her parents and abide by their wish and rules thta the boyfriend stay in separate rooms.

So tired of seeing Whoopi acting disgusted about the topics. If she’s that way then why is she even on the show?!

@tore705

2 ай бұрын

Good point. And getting a lot of money to be there.

@nellieweller8003

2 ай бұрын

OH, no, she only speaks for the royal family because she's friends to charles .

@sherryhillman9197

2 ай бұрын

She only likes politics and celebrities discussions. I’m surprised the Producers haven’t said anything to her. It’s really annoying.

@sharonswiatek5198

2 ай бұрын

@@sherryhillman9197 yes producers need to check this and do their job.

@sharonswiatek5198

2 ай бұрын

@@tore705 terrible Whoopie gets away with it.

The world is so weird. People have the right to live as they want in their home. My parents didn't let people smoke in their house. Some people said that made them feel unwelcome. Some people don't serve meat in their homes, maintain a kosher kitchen, don't allow loud music, etc. If you can't follow the rules of someone else's home, don't go, that includes adult children.

@surlespasdondine

2 ай бұрын

But those things affect the other people in the house. How is two people having sex gonna affect anyone?

@Ray03595

2 ай бұрын

@@surlespasdondine I don't think the parents have to have concrete logic for rules in their own house. Clearly it makes them feel uncomfortable, and they don't want to feel uncomfortable in their own home. Parents will ALWAYS see their their children as children in some way shape or form so when you're in their presence they prefer not to think of their son/ daughter having sex.

In the end it's the parents' decision given it's their house. However, their child is an adult and they'll have to live with their daughter potentially not visiting, or not staying at their house when they visit. Also, at what age does it stop? If your child has no interest in ever getting married, are they going to keep doing this when she's 30?

@surlespasdondine

2 ай бұрын

VERY good point! Even at 20 it seems infantilizing and strange.

@javiruiz8365

2 ай бұрын

20 is still young!!! If they are 25 that’s a different story 🙄🙄🙄

@volcrazy89

2 ай бұрын

@@javiruiz8365Why?

@javiruiz8365

2 ай бұрын

@@volcrazy89 because it is! It’s about respect and having class. Something that clearly most people don’t have. That’s the problem with humanity these days nobody has shame anymore or respect. I would not dare in my early 20s even when I was sleeping around to disrespect my parents

If you're in someone else's house, you abide by their rules. Parents or friends or aunts and uncles… No matter. If I own the house and you're my guest, and I ask you to sleep in separate rooms and not copulate together in a single room because I don't want that going on in my home… it is my prerogative. If you don't want to conform, go stay somewhere else.☺️ no shame, no blame. And no argument.

Whoever owns the house their rules when you're there

@Fate862

2 ай бұрын

Depends, if its the dad who owns the house then go with what he says and ignore the mother then. If they both own it then I guess just still listen to the dad? If you listened the dad wants them apart but his wife says let them sleep together.

@Mr.Cnothing

2 ай бұрын

@@Fate862 That sounds stupid. If dad goes against mom, HE is the one that is going to have to deal with her afterwards after the child leaves. And it's better to be with your mate in a warm bed then sleeping on a cold lonely couch. lol

I lived with my boyfriend and was told to sleep in a separate room when visiting, thought it was stupid then and now.

If you respect your parents rules you do this A true boyfriend will honor this ..if he doesn't..you dont need him around you

Either get a hotel room or follow their rules is their house.

If you’re not married you’re not sleeping together in my house.

You're evolving lmao Alyssa is low key funny

@jddII

2 ай бұрын

She actually is lol

Just stay at a hotel near by. Problem solved. Gosh... it is not that complicated.

I think the parents can decide if they are comfortable with it or not BUT if they are married then it would be very wrong to have husband and wife to sleep in separate rooms becasue the "forbidden" can happen in their "holy blessed home"

I'm with Ms. Sunny, my house my rule 🤨😄

I loved with my grandparents and when I was engaged I wasn’t allowed to sleep in the same house let alone in the same room. My grandmother stayed in the living room until he left early in the morning. (We had gone somewhere the day/evening before and he slept in the guest room.) She didn’t want our neighbors to see his car. I nearest neighbor was an acre away and it was my aunt and uncle on one side and my older cousins on the other side. LOL 😂

@susisiebert5942

2 ай бұрын

Love that ❤

Not at your parents home. They make the rules (it's their house)! Get A ROOM-HOTEL...LOL

@Fate862

2 ай бұрын

The mother/his wife says its okay, so they ARE respecting their rules. Its more like the husband and wife don't have their own rules in check or the wife is disrespecting the husband giving the okay to their daughter.

At 32 y/o and 8 1/2 months pregnant, my parents would not let me and my fiance to share a bedroom while waiting for our condo to be ready. I still tease my mom to this day about what she was worried about. But their house, their rules. So, I slept on the sofa because I was swollen and miserable and didn't want to go up and down the steps, he slept on the other sofa or in the bedroom.

You respect your parents rules in their house!!! Get a hotel if you can’t

@crystalsnow1138

2 ай бұрын

I completely agree.

@Fate862

2 ай бұрын

The mother/his wife says its okay, so they ARE respecting their rules. Its more like the husband and wife don't have their own rules in check or the wife is disrespecting the husband giving the okay to their daughter.

Nope! I don't think that's appropriate. I was a single mom when I met my now husband and was with him for a little bit before i introduced him to them. And when he did start spending weekends with us at first we didn't stay in the same room. So i would't let any of my children do that in my home. For example my son wanted to visit and bring his girlfriend. I explained they had to sleep in separate rooms and he was okay with that he has younger siblings and wanted to set a good example.

@sonyadrake7843

2 ай бұрын

🎯💯🤜🏾🤛🏾 I told my Fiance he would not be staying/sleeping in my Mother's 🏠 due to having Respect for my Mom and the other 4 living at home Siblings.

The father is right! His house his rules❤👨‍👨‍👧.

@StedeBonnetsCravat

2 ай бұрын

Yep. And the kids can decide whether or not they want to visit with those kind of rules.

@Elizabeth-tq7qw

2 ай бұрын

It’s not the father’s house more than it’s the mom’s house. The mother says the young couple can share a room.

@lbj2320

2 ай бұрын

the father is just butt hurt and another man is clapping his daughter, he needs help tbh.

So many people are saying follow the parents’ rules in the parents’ house, but that doesn’t exist this time. The dad doesn’t want the couple in the same room, but the mom says it’s fine. There’s no shared rule from the parents in this house.

Parents aren’t stupid. They know their kids are having sex but if it makes them uncomfortable in their house the kids should 💯 be ok with separate rooms. It’s respect.

Short answer No😅 I have been the boyfriend visiting with my girlfriend at here parents house it’s (Awkward) even if the parents are cool with it 🤔

Usually it’s what the parents say is what goes but they don’t agree and Joy is hilarious saying Sunny let go and let God okay😂

Why is Whoopi still on the show if she doesn't want to be there?

I’m a millennial. My parents were strict. Thank god. And when I brought the boys home from college, my mother made him sleep at my grandmother‘s house 30 minutes away! And I think when he did stay under the same roof, he slept in the guest bedroom. But there was no way I would even ask if my boyfriend could sleep in my bedroom with me. Now when you’re out of college and living on your own and paying your own rent and you come home with a boyfriend… That’s a different story. You’re still in school and your parents are paying for it and you’re visiting them and their house it’s their rules.

no accept the rules and respect the house

We're all still waiting for Sunny to pay those reparations.

I like these light hearted segments, a break from politics and wars. If Whoopi isn't interested in the topic, she should just sit quietly, no need to make a show of how bored she is. It's disrespectful to the rest of the panel that are doing their job.

Whoopi checking out again…..

I'm starting to appreciate these segments where Whoopi has nothing to say. Better that than her trying to talk over everyone with her incoherent babbling about topics she hasn't even bothered to research.

@naylas3908

2 ай бұрын

So true!

My mom has several siblings. One of her sisters (even in her 20s) had to sleep apart from the boyfriend when visiting the older old fashioned sisters. It wasnt just some random guy. She had been with him for years.

Your house, your rules!

I'm 36 and was brought up old school. If you're not married (no matter your age) you don't "play house" as the elders call it lol

My son and his partner csme to stay with us, and my husband said it was ok as long as the partner wasn’t just some random guy, or “flavor of the month”😄 I agreed with him and now both guys are in a “registered partnership” living in Helsinki and they are saving money together to buy their first apartment. I love them both! So lucky I am♥️🤗

Not in my house. Leave your lifestyle at home for a weekend. It's not going to kill you.

The dad is in the right it’s his rules!!!! Respect your parents!!

My mother didn't allow it. So we got a hotel room.

If my parents were like that, then I would make the rule that if they came to visit me, my parents would also need to sleep in separate rooms! Turnabout is fair play!

I don't mind them cohabitating, it the wild animal noises coming out of the room at 3:00 in the morning I don't care for.

@volcrazy89

2 ай бұрын

Who said they're having sex, and also who TF has sex at 3am? lmfao

@andrejackson8270

2 ай бұрын

Then separate rooms then

Joy telling someone else their feelings are Ridiculous 😮

I believe their house their rules-BUT then the dad doesn’t have the right to be mad if the daughter decides to leave and stay somewhere else with the boyfriend then. Ans it’s also different if the mom is ok with it they should be a team he doesn’t get to decide unilaterally

I was the opposite. My boyfriend's parents asked us to stay downstairs when we visited. I'm the one who felt weird about it. We have had sex before and they probably knew that but it still felt strange to me. 😮

I'm 40 and I've never talked about girls or sex or relationships ever with my parents. Then again, I'm also single, lonely and miserable.....😞

@dominique217

2 ай бұрын

That's terrible. 🫤 Sorry to hear that. 🤲🏽

@wendyfan8071

2 ай бұрын

Same 😅

Their house their rules. Just respect their rules.

Whoopi needs to go on sabbatical. Maybe she’ll rediscover why she signed up for the show in the first place.

@0:35. Sunny doesn’t realize the ego driven “my house my rules” when your children are adults just forces them to say “ok, I’ll stay away from your house and your rules then, if you’re that desperate for control”

If they’re both grown over 21 then let them sleep in the same room. They are both adults now. The daughter would probably be uncomfortable having sex in her parents house anyway. They can sneak off somewhere else in the car or get a hotel room for one day.

Can we please just avoid these fun segments Mon-Thurs if Whoopi is going to continue being like this….? I don’t what else we can say for her to get the message and I’m REALLY getting over it……. It’s best just not to do them at all.

@Mala_pua_9b

2 ай бұрын

Please remove her from a job she apparently hates.

Yes, you will be sleeping with separate rooms. It's my house my rules.

Whoopi needs to stay home if she hates these topics. In fact she should retire. Joy is a better moderator anyway.

Of course it's their house, their rules. However, the daughter is an adult with an adult boyfriend and they already live together. It's time for the parents (or at least the father) to get with it, and update it. How long is he going to apply that rule: into the daughter's 40s?

Yes

Absolutely not.

Yeah, well, there are alot of people that firmly believe in abstinence before marriage. They might not throw it in their kid's face, but the kid shouldn't throw it in their face either. Of course this is different if it's a homeless situation.

i wish whoopi would engage in ALL the topics!

It's her parent's house. He should abide by their rules.

@Fate862

2 ай бұрын

That's the issue. The dad says he doesn't want them to sleep together and the mother does. The kids aren't debating it, its the parents that have differing opinions. Do you americans all have the attention span of a peanut?

@peterlee584

2 ай бұрын

@@Fate862Don't be Idiotic. Of course the Parenta have to come to some agreement and present a United Front. However, the father is the Traditional head of the Family. His wishes should be respected.

@peterlee584

2 ай бұрын

@@Fate862 By the way, Genius. I'm not American, I'm British.

My answer is a big NO.

Nope. My house, my rules.

I understand if the kids are underage, but once they are legally adults, it seems silly to make these kinds of decisions for them.

Definitely no!!!!!😮

Whoopi needs a break from this show. She's not engaging in any topic that doesn't have to do with politics where she can remind everyone "It's in your hands!" The show's flow is better on Fridays when she's not there

Society today still has different standards for a man and a woman. The boys get an atta; boy and the girls gets a you'll get a reputation. Annoys the heck out of me. They should be treated equal

I'm 67 and a few years ago I was visiting my brother and his wife for an afternoon. They live at the beach. Anyway, my sister-in-law said to me that I was welcome anytime to come visit for a weekend and enjoy the beach. I told her that was very nice of her to invite me. Just before I left, my sister-in-law says "Oh Lisa, you are welcome to visit, but please don't bring any strange men to the house." I was flabbergasted, but I kept my cool and said my good byes. But as I walked out of their house, I was thinking "I will never set foot in that house ever again." And I haven't and I never will. I never brought any strange men to anyone's house my entire life.. I don't know what she was smoking, but it was the most ridiculous thing I had ever heard. My brother married her and I didn't and I'll just leave them to themselves. lol!

I remember my mom once said, only one woman lives in this house, so I figure if I want to be a woman then I would get my own place and do as you wish in it. I don't think its right to play house in someone else home.

Whoopee is speaking for all of us with the eye roll.

If the parents are standing by that, then don’t expect your kids to come home and stay at your prison errrr home. You don’t own your kids. They are their own people. Parents have every right to say whatever they want in their own house. But then accept the consequences gracefully that the kids won’t be sleeping over there ever again and it’s your fault.

Yes! It’s absolutely disrespectful! When I was dating this girl wow how things have changed! I would go on family vacations with them and I always stayed either in a different room or in the living room depending on the situation. I was in my early twenties and was not going to disrespect her family. Some people have morals and class still. Now if I’m in my late 20s early 30s that’s completely a different story

I understand parents saying "my house my rules". The only question I have is::what happens when they are 40 and they have been living with their partner? Not looking for an argument but just curious. When does this no longer apply to your adult children?

Joy has no morals, what a shock.

Sunny never talks about her daughter. Only her son.

@robnix4146

2 ай бұрын

She's a Minor for one and I've heard her mention her daughter.. Also maybe like Kelly Ripas daughter she prefers her mom to stop mentioning her 🤔

Children live at home Adults live abroad . When at home follow the Rules . Put a ring 💍 on it first .

If they are married i wouldn't care. If they have been together for a while I wouldn't care. If you just met, here's your room hun and here's the attic for you.

I agree with Sara!!

African parents have left the chat.

When my then boyfriend now husband and are were dating..... he didn't go to the second floor where all bedrooms are..I would never ask my parents such a crazy question...times are a changing

this was a question for the 90s

Depends. I think I wouldn’t allow it at 20 but as they get older, I’d probably allow it. And also depends on if they are already living together.

Let's keep in mind everyone. The kid isn't debating the dad, her mom is. The mom is the one who thinks it's fine, and I think I agree. They already live together. That's probably her best friend, and I'd hate to be separated from my best friend simply based on the chance we might have sex. I'd just have a talk about respect, but they're adults and I'd treat them as such

This is ridiculous. If your kids are adults now and they have their boyfriend or girlfriend sleeping over, just let them sleep in the same room. That is just weird to have them sleep in separate rooms.

@Lenasevilla-yb4ei

2 ай бұрын

Get a hotel

The kids are adults for the love of god

I love Whoopi but I grow tired of her aggravated schtick. She gets paid to sit there and talk, whether she cares for the topic or not. It’s off putting her making faces and seeming annoyed. Go do something else if you don’t like it.

No get a room.

Why is the implication that sharing the same room/bed means you're going to have sex? I have never been in a relationship, but from my perspective, I feel like a couple who has never had sex could be reasonably expected to simply just sleep in the same bed together. I know that'd be easy for me because I have boundaries, and sleeping in the same bed as someone doesn't have to mean anything more than sleeping or just chatting or watching stuff together. I'd imagine some couples would also have those boundaries where they both agree that sex is for after marriage, for example, and they can easily simply just share a bed to sleep and do other nonsexual things.

I am with Sony they could have gotten a hotel

I agree with the girl mother in this situation

When a man marries my daughter, he’ll enjoy the benefits of being her husband in my presence. If he’s doesn’t, I’ll treat him like a boyfriend and he’d better be glad that I let him in the house.

My son is 23, his 21 yo girlfriend practically lives with us 80% of the time - they are adults and as long as they are consenting, it’s none of my business. Rather them be here and safe

Whoopi's antics are getting old!

If you’re just visiting, I say abide by the parents rules. I have seen this question when the couple is actually married, and I think asking them to sleep separately in that instance is ridiculous. I guess if it’s a deal breaker, the couple can stay at a hotel during their visit.