SHOULD I COME OUT TO MY HUSBAND | OUR SEX LIFE SUCKS | QUEER DILEMMAS | Ep 3

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Welcome to the first season of our new segment: QUEERS DILEMMAS!
This is a segment where you can anonymously share your queer related dilemmas with us and we will happily give our advice guided solely from our lived experiences.
Your queer related dilemmas can be about anything from queer relationships, the queer streets and queer friendships, anything goes really.
Link to submit your dilemma: forms.gle/cwGZvM1Z1CXf93rPA
Enjoy!
Please let us know your thoughts on the episode in the comments.
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Music credits:
Imagine (Prod. by Lukrembo)

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  • @nosiphocele98
    @nosiphocele9811 ай бұрын

    You guys are truly my favourite queer couple 🥹

  • @gugu_and_kearabilwe

    @gugu_and_kearabilwe

    11 ай бұрын

    Thank you, thank you, thank you 💛💛💛💛

  • @energygoddess888
    @energygoddess8884 ай бұрын

    Society puts a lot of pressure on queer femme presenting women I feel to be in heterosexual relationships which results in them not being able to explore their sexuality entirely and SOME (not all) end up marrying men instead because of the stigma that comes with being queer. I agree with Gugu, you don’t get to plan how you navigate your queerness especially when you are surrounded by heterosexual people pressuring you to be with a man. Life just happens, and sometimes we go through certain situations to learn more about ourselves, to learn about our self limiting beliefs. There are so many things that restrict us from embracing our truest selves but I think getting to a point of self acceptance first would make it a little bit easier to navigate. I also didn’t get to explore my queerness in high school, I started exploring in my early 20’s (I’m 26 now) and I have also dated men in the past before I started dating women exclusively and I often felt the pressure to come out as bisexual to these men just to appear more balanced and when I did they would ask for a threesome 🙄but when it came to the support of other LGBTQ+ members their homophobia would show. Great video btw! Thank you both for sharing your beautiful energies ❤

  • @esonamadikwa9475
    @esonamadikwa947510 ай бұрын

    The first dilemma can watch this video together as they hang out and say, “Oh by the way… what would you do?” 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @mphomailane3990
    @mphomailane399011 ай бұрын

    Loving the segment . And I say this again… such quality content from you two … 😍😍😍 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽. Absolutely enlightening and thought provoking conversation.

  • @gugu_and_kearabilwe

    @gugu_and_kearabilwe

    11 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much 🙏🏿💗. We truly appreciate this message and we’re glad you’re finding the content enlightening. Thank you for the support 💛

  • @thembekakhumalo7287
    @thembekakhumalo728711 ай бұрын

    😂i was also in the same position at work, i took the shot...rejected, girl told me about work boundaries not mixing prof life with relationship blah blah😂...we are still good friends till today, hanging on to feelings bcoz you might be scared of rejections is not good for you long-term

  • @gugu_and_kearabilwe

    @gugu_and_kearabilwe

    11 ай бұрын

    Proud of you for shooting your shot! Agreed, you’d rather shoot your shot and see what happens. Glad you’re still good friends. 💛

  • @Tiff166
    @Tiff16611 ай бұрын

    I'm loving the new segment from🇰🇪🇰🇪 looking forward to more content like this ❤❤

  • @gugu_and_kearabilwe

    @gugu_and_kearabilwe

    11 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much, we’ve been enjoying filming it too. 💛💛💛 All the way from 🇰🇪, we’d love to visit one day

  • @Tiff166

    @Tiff166

    11 ай бұрын

    @@gugu_and_kearabilwe you are welcome 🤗🇰🇪any day

  • @kemunto_

    @kemunto_

    11 ай бұрын

    Same! 🇰🇪 🇰🇪

  • @gcinankosi4942
    @gcinankosi494211 ай бұрын

    Another beautiful and informative episode, love you guys 👍😍😘

  • @gugu_and_kearabilwe

    @gugu_and_kearabilwe

    11 ай бұрын

    Thank you, thank you. 🥰💛 Appreciate your support!

  • @kemunto_
    @kemunto_11 ай бұрын

    I watched this one offline after downloading it but I have to come back and say how amazing your videos are, from the travel vlogs to such segments. This one especially makes me wish I had a queer dilemma too hehe. Love! ❤ You’re both amazing, intuitive listeners who give the best advice. Yes yes follow up!🎉

  • @gugu_and_kearabilwe

    @gugu_and_kearabilwe

    11 ай бұрын

    Omg 😭, thank you for coming back just to type the most heart warming comment. 💛 Thank you, we truly appreciate this message and we’re glad you’re loving our content. Well we don’t want you to have a dilemma lol but if you happen to ever have one, you know where to go 😉. Thank you for the love and support 💗

  • @wnm8305
    @wnm830511 ай бұрын

    loving the new segment 😍😍

  • @gugu_and_kearabilwe

    @gugu_and_kearabilwe

    11 ай бұрын

    Thank you 💛💛💛 we’re enjoying filming it too

  • @oyamamazotana8179
    @oyamamazotana817911 ай бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @gugu_and_kearabilwe

    @gugu_and_kearabilwe

    11 ай бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️

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