Thank you Claudia. Some men want 50/50 finances, but want women to cook, clean, laundry, take care of kids, help with homework, take kids to activities, etc... while the man goes to work and comes home to sit. If it’s 50/50, then BE 50/50 on everything...

@joedon-hb4nl

4 жыл бұрын

You realize not every relationship has kids u bitches are dumb

@mrmoe110

4 жыл бұрын

Stop marrying these chauvinistic, patriarchal men who see women as slaves. In my marriage we both cooked, cleaned, did laundry. A lot of the time that was time when we bonded. We BOTH paid bills out of one shared account that both of our paychecks went into. Men that see women as equal will cook land clean just like you. The problem women have is the men most of the men that genuinely see women as equal are also the ones that feel both men and women should pay bills. But the "provider" men that women say they want, that pay all the bills, are often a part of the same toxic patriarchal system that women say they hate. You can't have it both ways.

@riddickj16

4 жыл бұрын

If a woman is going to hold a man to a traditional standard then that women should expect to be held to that same standard. In my opinion the only way a man should be responsible for a 💯% of the finances is if he’s is ready to get married and start a family and his wife agrees to be a stay at home mother. If marriage and kids is not the goal what’s the point in a man letting a woman live off of his money while she has a career and conserves her own 🤷🏾‍♂️

@paulkofa3238

4 жыл бұрын

DreadlocDivaNextDoor but how about taking out the trash mowing the lawn taking cars to mechanic or fixing it we 50/50 on that too?

@paulkofa3238

4 жыл бұрын

78mfleet crazy I heard women say 50/50 they list all the things their husband share with them like changing diapers but said they won’t mow the lawn 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

I feel like this was a immature conversation. Please get more mature women and men in order to have this discussion thank you

@derrickmason7457

4 жыл бұрын

Suga Hatch thank you

@yvonce7309

4 жыл бұрын

Suga Hatch Exactly!!!!!😁

@bobbybrown2873

4 жыл бұрын

Please!

@Cahluvca

4 жыл бұрын

💯....

@papitds2005

4 жыл бұрын

yal all watched it tho, you might not be their demo

Personally, I'd say go with what works for your relationship. I know a couple who splits the bills, I know another couple where the man pays all the Bills; they're both happy. Dont let social media or entitled people in the comments dictate what goes on in your own house

This was so cringe-worthy to watch.

@lovebug6388

4 жыл бұрын

Oh good....I thought it was just me🥴 that girl with the black tank top is a pickmeisha

@VintageAfro91

4 жыл бұрын

Love Bug oh no it wasn’t just you. I was fighting the urge to scream at the computer screen like “no! Stop saying you’ll do 50/50.”

@petrusedwardjr.2598

3 жыл бұрын

@@VintageAfro91 It appears you are a leech 😂

@realwomenfirst6919

3 жыл бұрын

This was disturbing. What happened to childbirth??? 50/50 ????

Married 19 years, never had to do 50/50.

@LexRuger718

4 жыл бұрын

Did you own your home ? Did you contribute for the down payment and mortgage?

@lovexoxo251

4 жыл бұрын

LexRuger718 Why does that matter if your husband owns it, you own it as well.

@LexRuger718

4 жыл бұрын

@@lovexoxo251 Typical

@hi-hy5ul

4 жыл бұрын

I completely agree with you bro..I kno actually where u are going with your questions?..to the female..typical is the right on response sad but very true..

@hi-hy5ul

4 жыл бұрын

@@LexRuger718 *exactly

Nope! I am African woman and I watched my parents, dad took care of the bigger stuff for the family like paying school fees for us, pay for the house, medical bills and so on. My mum took care of the smaller bills such as food, clothes, pay the nanny/house help and making sure the house was running well. This is how we do it with my husband and kids.

@LexRuger718

4 жыл бұрын

Sound reasonable

@riddickj16

4 жыл бұрын

Sounds like a marriage based on team work where the husband is the head and the woman is the help mate. I’m diggin it.

@bellaolum9515

4 жыл бұрын

@@riddickj16 thanks - it works for many African families on the continent. 50/50 is a foreign concept for us LOL

@riddickj16

4 жыл бұрын

annabelle olum it’s sad because once upon a time both genders in Black American where taught their role. Men took pride in being the head and women took pride in nurturing the family and being a homemaker.

@icygirlbox8114

4 жыл бұрын

Emmia B facts girl 💯

Welp, no hypergamy mindsets here. lol

Great topic! Wrong panel of guest to have the conversation though.

@godlovescouture8605

4 жыл бұрын

K Chaney omg, did you call it or what !

@bobbybrown2873

4 жыл бұрын

I agree!

@tcoleman124

4 жыл бұрын

K Chaney I’m finding that’s a problem with this show. #wrong panel

@mathulizagoba2103

4 жыл бұрын

Indeed...they lack Wisdom

@businessuser632

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely agree, I thought I was the only one who felt like that

What boss dude wants a "strong and independent woman" to be a partner??? A boss dude wants a feminine woman he can LEAD.

@jairusbryant3229

4 жыл бұрын

Say it Louder for the people in the back

@Cahluvca

4 жыл бұрын

America has it backwards.....

@nguzoloveinlofi3832

4 жыл бұрын

Only a weak man wants a weak woman. A strong, boss man understands he needs a counter part who can be his partner a woman he can trust not some weak idiot who will give you weak children and when you're down has no skill set to add anything to the relationship.

@lovexoxo251

4 жыл бұрын

I disagree a real boss man is not threatened by a strong woman. Relationships just take balance there will be times my man will have to trust me to be strong and handle things I’m good at and times I’ll trust him to lead me. Balance is key just have to know on both sides when to fall back and trust your partner.

@lamartruth6601

4 жыл бұрын

@@lovexoxo251 what's a "strong" woman??? Does it make you not a strong woman to be led by a man??? The average working guy has to settle for a stereotypical "strong" woman. He has no choice, but a high value, high earner doesn't want the stereotypical "strong" woman. As evidenced by the fact that "strong" black women are having a hard time finding what they want in the dating market.

There needs to be a more mature and seasoned pick of men on this platform. These guys sound like teenagers.

@spazz-ok9nr

4 жыл бұрын

This is a old argument or problem that needs new solutions or answers. Also the panels maturity level are on par with one another.

@TheDamnFarao

4 жыл бұрын

They sound like teenagers because they're not saying "I love to provide for and protect a woman, that's what a man does". You want some brainwashed men to sit up there and say what you want to hear so you can nod your head in agreement. Well it's 2020 ma'am....men know their worth and won't be taken advantage of anymore. If a woman wants a protector and provider, she must be completely 100% in submission, borderline slave. Why would a man want to protect and provide for today's women who can do whatever they want and leave whenever they want?

@nicholashayes5773

4 жыл бұрын

And the girls didn't? They all sounded like teenagers to me (except the host).

@nicholashayes5773

4 жыл бұрын

You want a broken, bitter man to sit there and say what's politically correct to benefit women. You can't stand the fact that these men look happy. You can't stand the fact that they are living life by their own rules and putting themselves first. So sad.

@petrusedwardjr.2598

3 жыл бұрын

@@TheDamnFarao TALK TO THEM‼️

I don’t know what this panel is talking about: My wife at one time was making more than me (almost twice as much as me). The bills I still paid... so it wasn’t 50/50... Then, I made more than her; I still paid MOST of the bills: Now, I work and she doesn’t work; it’s STILL not 50/50... Plus, my wife had cancer when she had our son... she had surgery and chemo... I had to work, take of her, a new born and a 2 year old until she was cancer free and not taking chemo.... THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS 50/50

@rapper4orty2

4 жыл бұрын

I hope your wife makes full recovery. I think this is before marriage and kids.

@kimberly0717

4 жыл бұрын

You’re a special kind...🙌🏽👏🏼 Bravo for your mindset and hard work ethic!!

@waynerileyart

4 жыл бұрын

Bryan you're a real person with a partner you likely knew over time and now (I'd assume) in ya 30s to 40s. The panel is in the same age group and debating a hypothetical with something they'll never have because they can't have what you have. You and your wife know each other and been through stuff now you married these people are single and in the same age bracket so the test of character required for them to know the concept of "who pays what" is yet to be tested in the real world and tbh that opportunity to take that test in life has PASSED them by they'll never get a chance to truly know because they are already middle aged. The time to learn who pays what is during your twenties with your partner specific to that relationship because like you said sometimes ya wife made more sometimes you made more. These kind of people on the panel end up just getting older debating theory with no practical application devoid of real experiences with someone like you and your wife and will stay that way. They are presenting the polished version of themselves with no real test of their ideas when it mattered hence why they on camera talking about what normal people do everyday. Basically you're beyond these people they don't live in the real world they are in a simulation.

@hi-hy5ul

4 жыл бұрын

Blessings to you and your Wife Man..But I have to disagree with you Sir..You guys did have a 50/50 agreement..Because clearly You both were there for each other regardless of who was making more money..It worked out that way because of the Love and respect that you had for each other..Thats what iis all about..I have a sayin.."The World aint round for nothin"..💯

@Accune

4 жыл бұрын

May God continue to bless you and yours.

I feel like a point is being missed... for one... is this based on being married? Because realistically a lot of people talking about if “you the man... then...” but are playing house and not expecting marriage. Two... let’s also remember that Lord forbid either one of you can get sick or lose a job at any point and one person would have to take on the load whether male or female. People don’t even have values anymore but setting expectations

@TONY-bo3mp

4 жыл бұрын

Acia Jackson these guys sound like they’re speaking on terms of being booed up.

@YoDaddyBlack

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly. It’s never within the context of a marriage just a living situation.

the fact this guy calls women, females tells me enough

@lexusindia9426

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly! And he had the nerve & ignorance to say it multiple times smh only black guys. Just throw the whole panel away

@petrusedwardjr.2598

3 жыл бұрын

@musima41 Girls call guys trash all the time but the moment a guy calls a woman a female (which she actually is) it’s offensive. You bitches are hypocrites

@missbabygurlgurl

3 жыл бұрын

@@petrusedwardjr.2598 bitches? U just proved their point . No respect

@petrusedwardjr.2598

3 жыл бұрын

@@missbabygurlgurl So it’s okay for women to disrespect men but wrong for men to disrespect women?I see where you’re at mentally and u need to grow

@theman9048

3 жыл бұрын

What is wrong with females

Should have had interviewed men who are PROVIDERS!! Not dusty men who quiver when finances are mentioned.

@TheDamnFarao

4 жыл бұрын

Interview men who are providers so you can be satisfied about their simp responses? 😂 It's 2020. Feminism has granted women the same (if not better) rights as men. Women have it better in todays society to be honest, with women winning in majority of divorce and child custody cases women are living an easier life. Women expect to make their own money but want a man to pay for dates and everything else while they get to spend their money on their own needs. The only way I'm not going 50/50 in a relationship is if the woman doesn't work at all, no income whatsoever .....and in that situation she would have to become a slave lmao. I ain't about to provide and protect a woman who won't suck my dick on command (and swallow). Wash my draws and clip my toenails...she gotta earn that lifestyle where everything is taken care of financially for her.

@felixhabarugira7680

4 жыл бұрын

It would never be 50/50 the world is unfair place something feminism need to get over it All you can is to train your kids to stand on their own that's it

@Sombra_Azul_

4 жыл бұрын

@@TheDamnFarao BIG FACTS!!

@4079907

3 жыл бұрын

The way you look bruh chill out..... dusty face ass😂😂😂😂

Urban women are the ONLY ones discussing this. If you watch the Real.Housewives Of New York.....Orange County.....Dallas. Those women go to college to get degrees to get married then stay home. None of those husbands are asking for 50/50. Our community.

@riddickj16

4 жыл бұрын

If more bw thought like this we have more intact families.

@doramilaje9750

4 жыл бұрын

@Alarak The Highlord we can all be role models. You can definitely make your point with addressing him as "nigga". 🙄 We gotta treat each other better. Each One Teach One

@Sombra_Azul_

4 жыл бұрын

@Alarak The Highlord Fair point!

It’s crazy every time they have a conversation like this the men they bring up represent men that don’t know what they’re talking about smh

@patmebro2429

4 жыл бұрын

Was thinking the exact same thing. This had the potential to be a great conversation but those two clowns had nothing to bring to the table.

@margeeter

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly!!!

@gurlm90

4 жыл бұрын

Righttttttt

@invadingminds

4 жыл бұрын

I know we all know intelligent men so where the hell are they finding these dusty idiots?

@sugahatch7026

4 жыл бұрын

@Timothy Robinson the question that's being presented is universal so there should have been an array of guest on the panal to converse about it.

where do y’all get these people from

@mobutter2879

4 жыл бұрын

Chidi Thank you!

@ronelam371

4 жыл бұрын

Chidi this makes black men looks bad. This sounds childish

@MicMurphy1981

4 жыл бұрын

Thats the same Question i keep asking its like she just went outside and said "you wanna be on tv? come on". These people are young with no wisdom.

@kdeezo326

4 жыл бұрын

Apparently from LA😂

@petrusedwardjr.2598

3 жыл бұрын

They have a point. 50/50 is the way to go

I'm married and I have never seen 50/50. I pay the mortgage and most of the bills, and her? She uses her money to pay her credit card bills, nails, facials, hair, lunches with her friends. Women talk alot of shyt but they can't handle "grown man bills.

@monas

3 жыл бұрын

You sound like a great hubby 👏🏽

50/ 50 is for roommates. Made a huge mistake by taking that mentality into marriage. Covenant is not 50/50. It’s whatever the day calls for to make the team great. Just the fact that you are measuring 50/50 says you’re holding back. Everything in one pot. What’s mine is yours and vice verse. In marriage, tho. You don’t mix finances with someone who has not committed anything to you

@pwrhitterp

4 жыл бұрын

God loves Couture dont mixed finances but make the man pay for everything wow

@godlovescouture8605

4 жыл бұрын

Newking_god why would the man pay for everything in marriage ? All monies go into one pot. In beginning stages of dating I do think women should hold back and use discernment concerning money. But after you are a couple, think of course the lady can spend money on dates. I don’t deal with men who don’t offer to pay. Even male friends will say, “put your wallet away”

@godlovescouture8605

4 жыл бұрын

Newking_god I also think of a woman really likes you, she will try and work with you, no matter where the date is. “ babe, I’m low on funds this week but I still wanna hang, I’ll get the tickets and you bring the snacks. If she never offers. She probably don’t like you that much, and or you’ve tried to date outside your lane and she feels she can take you for a ride... just sayin...

@godlovescouture8605

4 жыл бұрын

Lol you goin make me upload a video of my own

@pwrhitterp

4 жыл бұрын

God loves Couture that’s not how a lot of women see it ... a lot believe it’s a mans job to pay for everything

Date non-black men.... problem solved

@slylockfox85

4 жыл бұрын

LOL. Okay. You make it sound so simple. Most of the white guys I know won't date a black woman unless the woman is significantly better than what they can get in their own race.

@gorgeouslymade1754

4 жыл бұрын

slylockfox101 that is true!! White guys attract the best black women... what’s your point.

@slylockfox85

4 жыл бұрын

@Tasheri What a stupid comment. Only simps enjoy "providing." Many of the same non-black men that you speak of become bitter when their marriages fail and they realized that their wife only viewed them as a piggy bank. Great leaders? That's why they run things? This is some of the dumbest nonsense I've read this week. So I guess black women must be bad leaders since none of them run companies right? Not just black women but women period. And if that's the case, women have no business getting the kids in a divorce since they can't lead a family. Do you see how trash your comment is?

@slylockfox85

4 жыл бұрын

It's comical that women accuse men of being shallow yet demand men to pay/provide for everything. When you expect a man to carry all the weight, you reduce yourself to a financial decision. Don't be surprised when many men pass. Yet when women place a high emphasis on money, it's rarely called out for being "shallow." Women excuse it by saying that they want a guy that can support a family. Yet many of these women, especially in their early 30s, are done having kids. Hell, many already have kids from prior men. Some are on food stamps and Section 8 but want some high-roller. Please. But you claim you're going to date outside your race. Good luck with that pipe dream. Dating outside your race isn't a reality for 95% of black women. Most white guys wont touch a black woman, not to mention one that has kids. And the AVERAGE black woman has her first child at AGE 21.9. Let that sink in. Before she has a degree in her hand, the average black woman has a kid. But they want to set expectations for what a man should be bringing to the relationship? Most black women are not in a position to be dictating ANYTHING to any man.

@NaNa-er4sw

4 жыл бұрын

50/50 is an American thing!😕

50/50 hell no NOT NOW NOT EVER... MEN ARE TO BE PROVIDERS PERIOD, LADIES KNOW UR WORTH AND STOP CRYING ABOUT TIME! SMH

@kay.x-kay.x

4 жыл бұрын

Okay!!👌🏽 50/50 is A *ROOMMATE* & i Don't sleep with or care for romantically "Roommates"

@kay.x-kay.x

4 жыл бұрын

@Delonte Hollister Sooooo Angry😡 @Women & in Desperate need for Attention! I bet you're a part of the lil "incel or mgtow" group huh? All of the hatred & misogynist views you spew only further confirms the obvious.... which is a Angry little closeted homosexual that's too 😺😹 to live his truth.

@johngalt1967

4 жыл бұрын

Why???? Are men supposed to be "providers"??? If you got it from the bible, do you follow ALL it's teachings about men and women, or just the ones that are beneficial to YOU???

@hi-hy5ul

4 жыл бұрын

I agree with you..as far as Men being the provider.But there may be some time where you as the Women you should be able to hold it down..Babygirl..Alot of Ladies want treatment they dont deserve..u kno..For Men its simple..Are you cooking?..keeping ya sexy up?..Making our House looking like a Woman is in tha building?..Cuz trust u can tell..I appreciate tha value of a Woman..I love My Sistas!..💯

@greyahmarie0905

4 жыл бұрын

@@hi-hy5ul those simple things will def be done for the right man of means no questions asked

Yet another topic that appears to only be discussed within the black community. No other race of people takes issue with this. The man is the provider period. The woman can work if she wants or just take care of the home/children.

@jmatthews5685

4 жыл бұрын

@Delonte Hollister I know plenty white people actually, which is the bases of my statement (wasn't pulled out of thin air). My point is black people harp on this issue waaaaay more than others who don't mind if their woman works but is also okay with them being SAHM

@caooue7047

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you!! This is my issue. It is only a topic in the black community. I did work where I saw a lot of white women home raising the kids, while their husbands worked. Even in most cultures, this is how it is!! It is only a conversation amongst men who are not able to provide and don’t have a good career. The woman can work full or partime or not at all if she chooses but the main house bills are the man’s!! This is the norm in most cultures.. it is only an issue amongst black Americans.. I am African. It is considered shameful if you are doing 50/50 with your wife or she is providing for you. The woman’s main job as a wife is to tend to the children and home. To each is own though, Not for me however. 🤣

Ladies any man that wants to go 50/50 with you is a roommate and should be treated as such. A man that wants you will help when he can and not place a 50/50 limit on his contributions. What a joke.

@pwrhitterp

4 жыл бұрын

Bo Elle 😂🤣 so men must be used for their money

@Boelle.

4 жыл бұрын

Newking_god where in my statement did I say use men?

@mrmoe110

4 жыл бұрын

Do you help the man when you can and not place a 50/50 limit on your contribution too?

@Boelle.

4 жыл бұрын

Pernell Moore yes, like most woman like your mom probably did

@Boelle.

4 жыл бұрын

78mfleet you wish. But I know you definitely are.

Women want 2020 opportunities with 1950s benefits. They want equal pay but not equal spending.

@LexRuger718

4 жыл бұрын

Comment of the day

She brought up a false feminist talking point when she referred to women not getting paid as much as men. Thats a myth and missing the factors of women choosing lesser paying jobs etc...

@HoustonKhanyile

4 жыл бұрын

I wanted to check her on that as well.

Great Leadership Claudia! Thanks for bringing balance to the subject matter🔥💯🔥

I see why these Millenials can't find any happiness in relationships. Too immature. The way they speak u would think most people are millionaires. From what I see most of these younger people are broke. Some with degrees and a bunch of student loan debt. Living at home with Momma and Daddy. ijs

@icygirlbox8114

4 жыл бұрын

Timothy Robinson so the problem is that children were raised in broken homes. They don’t know how to come together as a union

@4everlovemusic101

4 жыл бұрын

@Timothy Robinson And where do the absentee or neglecting black fathers play a role in this?

@vcb1023

3 жыл бұрын

It's not just millennials. A 63-year old man told me this is the only type of financial situation he accepts. Needless to say, I kept my house, my finance, and my body and left him behind.

That Brother in the Air Force camy bugged the Hell out of me. *Stop* giving these "Ebonic" talking Black people a platform that just plays into that old stereotype of Black people. The other Brother came across as much more intelligent. Claudia, you need to better screen the people who you have on your show. You're an intelligent Sister and should know better. The two lady guests were alright. As far as the "50/50" it should not just be limited to finances, just as Claudia alluded. At the moment I don't make a lot of money, but I do legit know how to cook, clean, wash and fit sh*t. Like, I can cook a woman breakfast or dinner and unclog the bathroom sink. Women today often do make just as much or more than men due to changes in the economy. And like Claudia also alluded to, if a woman makes more money and "weaponizes" the fact, she can lose a man if she's not careful.

@kevikev214

4 жыл бұрын

The guy you talking about is a successful producer and actor lol

@TheCertifiedPretti

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂 @ Ebonic Talking Black’s” The Guest Did Speak As If He Was Illiterate. If I Heard The Word “Woman When Suppose To Be Women” One More Time. It Was Very Cringeworthy When He Started Speaking Of Equality And The Platforms Of Women. He Has A Hard Time Formulating His Thoughts And A Very Limited Vocabulary.

@CiaobellaAmour

4 жыл бұрын

Is he even into women🤷🏽

Many women want men to adhere to so many traditional male gender roles. But want to adhere to little of any traditional female gender roles.

Men should pay. Period. As long as women (not females) but women bear the children then men pay all the bills ! No 50/50 bullshit. If the woman wants to buy something then buy it but she's not required to. Also a man feels less of a man ultimately when he doesn't provide. What does she bring you ask? She's bringing a home, a life you love, children and her presence which is priceless. If you don't need those things then good for you you don't need her but if you do and most men do then you pay! Now get over it and get back to work!

@kevinlee9929

4 жыл бұрын

What about women who don't want to have any children?

@djme5419

4 жыл бұрын

@@kevinlee9929 I listed a whole host of other things along with bearing children. Did you read ?

@kevinlee9929

4 жыл бұрын

How is she bringing a home? Many women in 2020 don't feel like the home is their responsibility. And how is her presence to him any different than his presence to her?

@djme5419

4 жыл бұрын

@@kevinlee9929 go study some more then come back to this conversation lol.

@kevinlee9929

4 жыл бұрын

@@djme5419 What am I studying? As a man who talks to women I know there's women who feel like they don't have to cook, clean, or take care of the home. But yet think a man should pay all their bills and provide for them.

Great conversation! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

Let’s be real, majority of the population has student loans & car loans. If both parties are in debt, both parties need to take care of their financial separately. This isn’t the early years we’re a man working a factory job can buy a house, times have changed. Any economist will tell you this.

@angelaomolola3277

2 жыл бұрын

Lmao then share housework too.... Getting a house Help is expensive to be doing for free

@user-ol6nv6wf1q

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly.

@user-ol6nv6wf1q

2 жыл бұрын

​@@angelaomolola3277 men in 2022 do housework and raise kids just as much as women do. That take care house stuff doesn't even apply anymore in life today

50/50 should never be about money. A man should bring almost 100% of the money to home. A woman should bring almost 100% of herself to take care of the home. Relationship is something you build. If both of you are out there and giving only 50%, There will be 100% of key things left to be done. Evolution says that specialization is key to progress. When a home is not specialized, no one have the opportunity to become their best on something. When you take care of 100% of something, you become responsible. When you become responsible and you become good at something, you get two key rewards: 1) You become a master at something, and 2) You get rewards and recognition by other people (Spouse, children, family, neighbors, co-workers, church members) 50/50 people end up alone and divorced most of the time. If you can't give 100%, stay single and live the greatest life you can. If you can... God will send someone your way, no matter how long it takes.

The thing about the equal pay though is that you are not dating a guy with the same job as you. Different jobs have different pay. And the pay depends on more than just gender. The point is that in a relationship it's better when men and women have similar financial standards. But it can never be 50/50 cause men and women are just different. Slightly different but still different enough. Both sides have to bring enough to the table and value what the other one is bringing. The biggest problem is when the woman wants to be the princess and get spoilt by some rich dude and still act like she is calling the shots. No boo-boo, the guy with the money is calling the shots.

@seven92023

4 жыл бұрын

@Glow Up A female doctor will never be with a broke dude who works at Wendy's. So your point is moot. Most women, with a few exceptions, will be will be with a dude who makes more money. So that's why they can't run the show. But they try.

@seven92023

4 жыл бұрын

@Glow Up I said with a few exceptions. Can you read? And you don't know who calls the shots in her relationship anyway.

@seven92023

4 жыл бұрын

@Glow Up Oh you almost convinced me. Your argument is foolish especially since you say "you don't have to know". Then what the fuck are your arguing about? You just mad woman who is projecting insecurities. Fuck off you telling to be quiet. You are not the boss.

@treacherousjslither6920

4 жыл бұрын

@Glow Up There are plenty of women with broke men. And they're always complaining that he's broke. Yet us men have been taking care of broke women for the entirety of human existence. We in fact prided ourselves on our ability to do so. Women want the power of men but not the responsibility.

@treacherousjslither6920

4 жыл бұрын

@Glow Up Men aren't intimidated by women making money. We don't care about your money. We care about your beauty. A working class man would get with a upper class woman in heartbeat. But she doesn't want him. He ain't making enough money for her. He's low status in her eyes. So as she gets more and more successful, her pool of potential mates gets smaller and smaller.

We aren't having a realistic conversation. Many do not make enough for someone to just stay at home and live off one income. It will literally take a team effort to make it with kids in our country.

@LexRuger718

4 жыл бұрын

I live in NYC, earning 100k is not enough to live comfortably for a single man with a car. Owning your home is out of the question.

@ecop3698

4 жыл бұрын

So you want the working wife the stay at home mother the doing almost all the housework the have all the energy and pick her man up who has s e x frequently all while not having a marriage thru the govt and doing it with a smile 100%.

@LexRuger718

4 жыл бұрын

@Amor Ankh My point exactly.

@alibabasaluja6764

4 жыл бұрын

@@ecop3698 if you feel like emotional support and sex it hard work you should be single and a born again virgin .

@ricorogers9319

4 жыл бұрын

@@alibabasaluja6764 Right

I am living in the UK . My wife earns more 2x more than me.... but I have more free time due to the nature of my job (I am a firefighter and I work 4 days in and 4 days off) so I do most of the cleaning and stuff? We are a team , and as a team we’re batting for the same side and accomplishing goals together for the team.

When you are married, finances are TOGETHER, ONE, there's no 50/50. This show needs humans experienced in healthy love and relationships to guide those with less. wisdom or it's pointless.

@dniceque

4 жыл бұрын

I been married 15 years and I 1000% disagree with you on the everything equal in marriage. My wife makes good money no doubt and she is handles business. We both take care of the kids and we both do house work however my wife don't cut no grass, pump no gas and wash no cars.

@derrickmason7457

4 жыл бұрын

Dnice Smith I agree with you brotha been married 7 yrs this is why marriage percentages drop husband and wife step up when it’s called for doesn’t matter the job take turns with the kids. Like you said woman doesn’t do the mans labor as far as chores etc but it’s a team effort all the way

@bellaolum9515

4 жыл бұрын

And give birth while at it!

@adbc1f72

2 жыл бұрын

@@bellaolum9515 Yes and there’s definitely nothing 50/50 about carrying and going into labor to birth a child. That’s a 100% job that men don’t do. It’s okay extremely harsh on a woman’s body too!!

How the hell is this even a question? You are in a household, split all responsibilities between the two of you evenly. How the hell are people out here getting married/cohabitating and not operating under this premise?

@lovexoxo251

4 жыл бұрын

bigbraz I mean because that doesn’t work for a relationship that one person works a normal 9-5 and the other takes care of the house and children

@duffiedesigns

3 жыл бұрын

lol get a flatmate then

@drweemssoaps2048

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly, split all expenses and responsibilities equally. This is 2022, not 1922 where women didn’t work (black women had to even during those days) and didn’t earn money. Now, women work and earn money. It’s only intelligent for 2 income households to functions as such, not one person spends all their money while the other keeps all their money (inequality). There is a clear intelligence gap in relationships that compromise of women like them. This is 2022, not your parents generation. Stop being selfish

This conversation has gotten out of control when you truly love somebody it's not about possession it's about were loving each other as one. There is no longer me and you, there is us! everything is about about our relationship should be Oneness. And it sounds like some of the people on the panel are speaking out of fear when they want to be in control of a relationship and or a situation so that they will be in defense mode not to get hurt. And this is the reason why all of you on that panel and in Cali are single. Everybody has their own ideology about what they think of relationship maybe and this causes a separation because no one wants to come to grips with the fact that a relationship between a man and a woman means Oneness and not two separate people. It sad to think money and how much you make is keeping you all away from possibly a beautiful relationship. Wow that is shallow. Claudia you are a true wife why you ain't married?

Well said at the end of the clip👍

Ladies, this is probably why marriage is a thing of the past. What sane man will sign up for paying up to 80% of a womans living expenses when on average theyre only bringing another mans kids to the table??? Thats a shitty deal and men are opting out of that contract.

@listeningviayoutube7229

4 жыл бұрын

Then deal with a woman who doesn't have kids....

4 жыл бұрын

Y'all love hoes and most of them have kids. So that's on you.

Just rocking by myself . End of the day dudes dont want to do for women

4 жыл бұрын

@Andre Comer actually you are because Adam (if you're religious) requested God to create Eve because he was lonely. You were here first and you're suppose to be the head.

@kevinlee9929

4 жыл бұрын

@ This would work except for in 2020 many women don't want or adhere to traditional male/female dynamics.

@jeremy95ize

3 жыл бұрын

Y’all are adults you can do for yourself lol

Good topic. I would love to hear the 50/50 topic with a group of more educated guests on the topic.

I don't like the phrase 50/50.. When I'm in a relationship I'm putting 100% and I expect him to put in 100%.. No one wants half of a relationship. half of Intimacy or half of the loving.. I want 100% of what all we have to offer as I want him to have all of me~❤

@MzMary2U

4 жыл бұрын

More money🙄 .. what if he can't afford a bill.. Love cant pay the bills..

@yvonce7309

4 жыл бұрын

MzMary Exactly!!! If your doing 50/50 you might as well be a whole roommate. If you do 50/50 with a man don’t give him access to your BODY or WOMB. Tyrone or Pookie can keep it moving.🤣

@petrusedwardjr.2598

3 жыл бұрын

What exactly are u referring to when u say you’re putting 100%?Genuine question

@4079907

3 жыл бұрын

@@yvonce7309 Idiot they don't literally mean 50/50..... they saying that both people will BOTH HANDLE EVERY SITUATION TOGETHER...... DAMN.... GO READ A BOOK

@princejiminofbusan9209

3 жыл бұрын

It’s about finances

It’s never 50/50. The truth of the matter is that a woman enhances a man’s life while regardless of the income of the man. It grinds my gears heading men crying a river about “what a woman brings to the table?” How about your increased life expectancy. Let’s face it most of the men in the comments haven’t even hit 6 figures. A high caliber man would never!

@riddickj16

4 жыл бұрын

TheBohodiva i suppose to believe that women bring men longer life expectancy but your mentioning men not making six figures.

@TheBohodiva

4 жыл бұрын

riddickj16 www.google.com/amp/s/www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/health-news/the-stress-of-marriage-shortens-your-life-by-a-year-if-youre-the-wife-5335547.html%3famp

@riddickj16

4 жыл бұрын

TheBohodiva women who are homemakers(stay at home mothers), feminine and pleasant to be around don’t have years knocked off their life expectancy. The only woman this applies to is the woman who doesn’t adhere to the traditional way of marriage. If living longer was the deciding factor for men getting married then the marriage rate across the globe would be at a all time high. There’s other factors that come into play when a man decides to jump the broom. If a woman wants to hold men to a traditional standard they should be expected to hold themselves to that very same standard.

@TheBohodiva

4 жыл бұрын

riddickj16 I believe many women are still interested in some traditional values. Heck, many are working, cooking, cleaning, spending majority time with the kids, taking care of parents. We do it all. One thing certainly has changed with women pursuing careers and having the ability to provide for themselves. They no longer have to be controlled by men out of financial dependence. And some men can’t stand this. Just because we can fend for ourselves doesn’t mean we don’t still want a man to take the lead and be a provider. Real men know the value of a wife. And trust real women are waiting for a man who knows how to be a husband.

@riddickj16

4 жыл бұрын

TheBohodiva miss your comment is a oxymoron. Again your attempting to hold men to a traditional standard by looking for them to lead, but then claiming you don’t need a man for financial stability. Along with freedom and equality comes responsibility and accountability. It’s seems like many women can embrace this basic concept.

I like my women with an old fashioned mentality. Rely on the man of the home to provide, but be SMART enough to stash some bread away just in case. Take care and cater to your man and the children but always be ready for the unexpected. That’s a good woman💯

@nunkap8874

3 жыл бұрын

PREACH ‼‼‼‼‼

@MarcheleCampbell

3 жыл бұрын

This is what I call balance. Male energy and female energy 50/50 for a woman is masculine energy. Reason why women eventually feel resentful and burned out.

I see why these women are single or get divorced cause they do not know their place.

Been with my wife 15 years and I'm only 30. She's 29. Married 2 years. We take care of each other and this topic is irrelevant in my relationship. We get shit paid. 50/50, 30/70, 100/0 who gives a fuck!? No wonder so many people are single...

@cavaliothorson7755

Жыл бұрын

You're thinking that every single guy can find a loyal woman like that though?

women: aint no good men!! = a really handsome muscular wealthy guy wit no kids his own 7,000 square foot home wit a pool driving a $80k car debt free wit a 800 credit score and phd

WOW!!!!! I say this with love but these you g ladies have a jaded sense of reality. Like some of y’all said, this conversation needs to come from a stand point of being married. As a husband and a wife you must do what works for y’all as a couple. Irregardless of whether or not the man makes more money or the woman does, biblically speaking, the man is the head of the household and should be respected as such. The finances should (in my opinion) be combined and both sit down and see where the money is going. Never should you be in a relationship (marriage) and not know where your financial future is heading. (That’s ignorant). As a financial counselor, I recommend whoever is more financially savvy, take the reigns in developing a budget and keeping the couple on track of having a successful debt free lifestyle.

50/50 for me, I'm not supporting a whole ADULT...

@Sombra_Azul_

4 жыл бұрын

BIG FACTS

You can jus read the hurt in some of these comments smh

@bluewave3417

4 жыл бұрын

Its sad and downright disgusting. Black men and black women better figure out how to put it back together. As the pandemic is showing, families and households that work together are better off when the sh!t hits the fan. That rolling solo stuff is an illusion.

@TrueMystique

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly...it's truly pathetic.

@TrueMystique

3 жыл бұрын

@@bluewave3417 💯💯💯

So much for equality.

Hell no 50/50

I'm a black woman with more of a traditional mindset with flares of a modern twist. Man protects, provides, woman nurtures and teaches, we lead each other in the areas we are stronger in so that way we always have each others back. Now I dont mind if for a brief time I've got to compensate because his/ our circumstances change but I want for whatever happens that at all times we both feel appreciated, cared for and respected.

@757CitiesReppa

4 жыл бұрын

Fair enough. Peace

@busymom9997

4 жыл бұрын

Same here I don't mind to adjust myself for my husband I just want to be appreciated for all I do.

@busymom9997

4 жыл бұрын

@TGOOD2012 father's can be there for there kid's if they want. You just have to do it. My husband works 2 job's and I work from home. It's called scheduling. He said that it's important for him to spend time with our kids so we make sure he gets to do just that. Period no excuses

@goddessverb1924

4 жыл бұрын

@TGOOD2012 I wouldn't choose my spouse if I doubted that he would be nurturing to myself and my children. Anything less than that wouldn't be healthy. What I described was our primary roles as man and woman and the change in dynamic if circumstances were different. It doesn't mean that we are ill-equipped to do each other's roles in any way, shape or form.

Every one wants to have their cake and eat it too. I want to go left and still go right, oxymoron contradictory upside down discussion with no logic. Embarrassing!!

Its illegal to pay women less money then man. Women choose careers that make less. Not only that they don't ask for raises as much as men do. So many factors but women ignore them. Don't complain about how much teachers make then become one. Women go into the engineering field

@bigtheo03

4 жыл бұрын

@FLgirlinTX Women don't pick those jobs. Stop complaining about your life that patriarchy made. Unless you're miserable. You dont want equality. Feminists want power, that's the difference. Go after power position women. If they're are more men in that field odds are a men would get that position statistically speaking. Stop blaming men for yall problems. You are where you are is because of you.

@AEdavirgin

4 жыл бұрын

@FLgirlinTX If that was true then my father and I would've only hired female employees but there's a reason our company is 92% men.

Why must us dudes call women females. What are they livestock or something bruh. Geez!!

Yes

As they said at the end, it doesn’t have to be 50/50, but women should come to the table with something e.g. if I get the dinner, she’ll get the ice cream, as an example. But what I see a lot these days is entitled women who expect men to pay for most, if not everything, not matter how much they make. That’s not sustainable or fair in these modern times.

Most women want the benefit of picking and choosing between traditionalism and being the liberated modern day woman. While I do believe it’s the mans job to protect and provide I find it mind blowing that a woman with a career can ask for a man to be responsible for 90% to 💯 of the finances.

@yvonce7309

4 жыл бұрын

riddickj16 Only broke men say that. Alpha Men are wire to be protectors, builder and providers. You are trying to reverse the roles and that never works out. What your saying is a bs scam.

@mr_knowitall

4 жыл бұрын

@@yvonce7309 you wouldn't know an alpha male is he curbed you for some bombshell 20-something.

@kingmufasa366

4 жыл бұрын

Yvonce' actually an alpha man is not with being mooched off of. He doesn’t mind doing for his woman but if she making paper she will be breaking bread. An alpha is about preservation and if he allows a career woman to not contribute then he will be draining all of his resources unnecessarily. However, if she isn’t a career woman is your everyday woman in which he makes significantly more money than her then he is all for being the soul provider due to her inability to measure up financially.

@riddickj16

4 жыл бұрын

Yvonce' lol reverse the roles lmao. No miss I’m making sure the woman is bringing something valuable to the table. Riddle me this if the goal is not providing for a family in which my wife is willing to stay home and nurture our kids, then why would a man be providing for a woman with a career?? Man is a protector and provider only to a woman who is willing to play her role which is a help mate. What I find hilarious is that traditionally speaking women have all the knowledge of what’s a mans role but never seem mention what their role is🤔.

@user-xw4qs2nl4q

2 жыл бұрын

@@yvonce7309 lmao an "alpha male" isn't gonna put up with your bs

Sounds good

Grown adults pay bills. If you can't pay bills or have basic skills on both sides then you are not ready to date. Everyone should be able to clean house, do laundry and pay there own bills. If you are living together split the rent based on the income coming in.

As man best thing to be is single I'll hate to come from work from a 10hr shift being in traffic 45min then coming home to hear my girlfriend or wife complaining about her job in need me some quite time

50/50 relationships always backfire and is not a fair situation especially if the male is a Dustie. Dustie men love the 50/50 scam.

When you are with the right person and you’ve done the work of knowing that his self then it will be effortless to meet each other‘s needs wants and desires it will be a priority and it will be a pleasure are you will not have to choose one over the other you will have the energy to provide protect and for feel each others desires it is natural instinctual when you are with your match when you are equally yoked blessings❤️

The whole situation boils down to two basic questions..... first, would you date a man who makes less than you? Second, if you would, what would you be expecting that man to contribute to the relationship??

This is a conversation for experience couples who's been through some shit. When "girlfriend and boyfriend" is having these conversations, it's often time based on emotions and what they see or hear on tv.

If women dated like men y’all would get tired of it real quick of paying for every date

@LouisDapilma

4 жыл бұрын

Jezzy Christ aka thrilla I’d love this scenario but the simps and cap’n save a hos will distort the marketplace

@JezzyChristakathrilla

4 жыл бұрын

Diego Magellan exactly the mr clean up man of the world lol no female will want equality if it means sacrificing the societal privileges that has benefited them for decades

Any women "letting" a man lead is not dealing with a man. You're not going to let me do nothing. Either you get in line, follow my lead or step. There's things I delegate to my wife cause I don't really care enough about it. What color paints you want to do in the house, oh we need furniture babe pick it out. Just don't have us looking crazy with the colors I'm good. Where you want to vacay, me Idk pick somewhere nice. Now crucial things like discipline the kids, church we visit, house we buy, car we buy & friends in her circle. We not doing no little single bitter Ms Independents, Fembots & thots. You not going to mess my home up. My decision usually final with consideration however I'm not going to totally dismiss what she like or dislike.

Damn the women wouldn’t let the men answer honestly sheeshhh

Women want to look up to their man. The man is suppose to lead, it needs to be the right man so that the woman can be her best feminine self.

@4079907

3 жыл бұрын

NOBODY IS SUPPOSED TO DO SHIT....... STOP PUTTING THESE MADE UP OF EXPECTATIONS ON PEOPLE.

@sexyblackcharlery

3 жыл бұрын

@@4079907 what's made up is the way people are today. Look at history or science books or relationship books. Men and women are different, we have different brains, different bodies, we are looked at differently, we need different things from each other. But be yourself but please dont deny reality. For relationships to work their needs to be one person we a dominant feminine energy and the other with dominant masculine energy. Anyway I really hope this society can go back to family values. God bless

@4079907

3 жыл бұрын

@@sexyblackcharlery You don't need none of that nonsense. All you need is a man and woman who have genuine LOVE for each other. Im talking about the type of love that you will DIE or KILL for each other. Everything else after that is irrelevant. Also if we in a relationship like that it's ideal for BOTH of us to have a career, and be a example for OUR kids. You should have 4 bank account. 1 checkings account that y'all both contribute to that's for all the FAMILIES FINANCIAL NEEDS, 1 savings account for the whole families future needs, and 1 personally account for the guys needs, and personal purchases, and 1 personally account for the woman needs. We both help out with the Cook, cleaning, child care, etc. Problem solved.

But that same I can get the bag attitude ladies👀 is running men off 🏃 🏃 🏃

If you want me to treat you as my equal then shit should kinda be equal lol. If not sit back and be lead.

Men spend so much time with you in the beginning. That’s hope they hook you. Then, they just have to work so much and can’t make time anymore. They take you for granted after while.

Claudia hit it on the head as she closed out the segment... by saying first off she would not be with the man if she did not trust his judgement & decision making. Its not about if u going 50/50 or 80/20 or whatever.

50/50. Let’s build 2gether!!!!

Im doing all now; It should be all and all.

The comment section is in flames right now. I'll respond later on lol Let me watch the rest of the video.

can we speak on 50/50 also involving kids and chores because bills in one thing maintaining the home is another ! men want 50/50 on top us cleaning cooking and watching children with no ring !

@dla15park

4 жыл бұрын

Well if its 50/50 women gotta also mow the lawn, take out the trash, do self car maintenance or take to mechanic, move big heavy things around, fix things around the home with light or heavy duty tools, etc right?

@arielaava2102

3 жыл бұрын

@@dla15park Car maintenance and fixing things is doing once in awhile. Have to do cooking, cleaning and doing homework is EVERY DAY though. Plus cooking, cleaning and doing homework anyone can do because it's easy. Mechanic stuff is hard to understand for women if it was easy like cooking and doing homework then woman would do it.

@dla15park

3 жыл бұрын

@@arielaava2102 Idc like I said if you want to have equality it has to be full and total equality across the board. I fix cars and I'm an electrician these are hard laboring jobs. They pay good yet seems most women don't want to do them bc they are hard. I'm saying if its gonna be 50/50 then cool I can cook & clean etc np. Then some women gotta step there skills up and learn these laboring skills/things I mentioned. bc if things gonna be 50/50 then let it truly be 100% 50/50 across the board

@arielaava2102

3 жыл бұрын

@@dla15park That's a super petty mentality. Ain't no one want a tire falling on them, and cutting their finger. Men are stronger to handle that, women can't pick heavy things up (that's why nature made us smaller) If it's a doable thing - then okay, but obviously this is a dangerous job that women can't do, by nature they're not strong and not mechanically inclined. It has to be as easy as cooking and cleaning. I hope your grandmother, mother and auntie helped you with heavy laboring things and picked up heavy things for you.

@dla15park

3 жыл бұрын

@@arielaava2102 They didn't have pick up heavy things bc they didn't complain about having to cook & clean. The conversation is about things being 50/50 some women only want equality in aspects that's convenient for them. No that's not right, so my point is don't complain about 50/50 if its not gonna be 100% 50/50. The ladies my family didn't complain about cleaning while men were outside doing laboring work. So its no need to mention them, idk sounds like you only want something 50/50 that's in your favor mainly that's not true equality. Again don't complain if things aren't gonna be Fully 50/50 then

beta men and masculine females do this which is majority of black society

@pwrhitterp

4 жыл бұрын

Devin Haley get you a white king and be happy

@devinicole1278

4 жыл бұрын

@@pwrhitterp don't need to got a black one...

100/100 - determine the dynamics of that with your partner

Dude in the camo is a Clown

I absolutely loved this segment. I admire how everyone was able to have an adult dialogue, open mind and see different perspective(s).👌🏾☮💖

That's what my husband and I did in the beginning. Now that he's my king and I'm his queen, he takes take of everything!! I'm grateful💯

My guy juhann

It should be 50/50. This is not our parents day. Women are making the same money. Stop taking low paying jobs. You know you out here getting a psychology degree. You know you’re trying to teach elementary school. Don’t cry about your choices to men. Want to change it? Get an engineering degree or in stem cell tech. Choose a high paying career. Women and this victimization mentality is just pathetic.

50/50 is the way to go. We equally contribute to the house hold bills but we also equally handle all the household chores.

Relationships have peaks and valleys. Its not gonna always be 50/50 over the course of decades

@4079907

3 жыл бұрын

And these 2020 men, and feminists women are breaking the mold, of all these TOXIC traditional relationship norms of the past.....

If both of them are bringing something to the table then it should be 50/50

Can someone pls tell me how men benefit from marriage?

@cavaliothorson7755

Жыл бұрын

Easy. Be rich, pay for everything, possibly get cheated on, and when your wife is ready to divorce you pay alimony, and child support if the kid/kids aren't 18 yet. Oh... you said benefit well you got me there.

They say if we going 50/50 we roommates but if I pay everything doesn’t that make you my child 😂 the delusion is in insane

The pay gap statistically will never show that its equal until women perform in more blue collar & dangerous work like plumbing electrical oil rigs ect. There is a lot of fields women don't work in & as long as those fields are represented then the pay stays will always be scued

Wrong panel for such a mature topic. It’s about balance not 50\50

@hateisasignofenvy651

4 жыл бұрын

You're the only woman in the comments with common sense

50/50 with kids???Yup that’s DUMB

That man what's the difference between a wife and daughter he's 🗑🗑🗑

@lovebug6388

4 жыл бұрын

Well let's see, hopefully he's not f@#kg his daughter otherwise that's a WHOLE other thread 🥴😬🙄 He's a dusty and the girl next to him is a pickmeisha. Let them live happily ever after together 👫🏾

@HoustonKhanyile

4 жыл бұрын

I don't know if you purposely mistook the example he was trying to make. Which I wouldn't put past you women. He meant that a women who brings nothing to the table and just expects to be taken care off is no different from a child.

@angelina3378

4 жыл бұрын

@@HoustonKhanyile blackastain logic not surprised

Let's be clear, all living beings need love and attention to grow and thrive!!. There is nothing 50/50 about men and women. Therefore if you are married a man should pay the rent and the women pay light, gas and cable and her own phone bill. My parents lived that way and it worked. They were married for 42 years .

@riddickj16

4 жыл бұрын

debra james this is reasonable and realistic. I can dig it sis

@debrajames6316

4 жыл бұрын

@@riddickj16 Thank you for your response and honesty. A woman in 2020 is still not paid the same as a man in 2020. The NBA players are millionaires and the female of the WNBA are grossly underpaid. CEOs that are women are also underpaid and they are highly educated . Enjoy your weekend.

Love these convos 🌸Claudia is extremely intelligent and empathetic. I love the way she speaks from a understanding level on both sides instead of blabbing about the other sex based on past experiences.

50/50 if she is gonna hold it down and build empire together in that case I wouldn’t mind giving everything for that one special woman 🙏🏼

This whole conversation is just not mature that’s why marriages are horrible now a days low percentages. God intended a man to lead that doesn’t mean he has to pay all the bills to lead. Marriage has always been 50 50 my wife has been a bread winner and then other times I have been. Marriage is God first love and compromise

@Yahashuaskid

4 жыл бұрын

Lol horrible when a man doesn't lead properly which includes financially

@Yahashuaskid

4 жыл бұрын

That isn't a biblical marriage

@derrickmason7457

4 жыл бұрын

I so you agree you should obey your husband then right ? Because if I do everything as far as providing like biblical speaking they submit