I’m 38 years old and just recently got married for the first time….. I use to be a hopeless romantic myself and it’s so so hard to recognize the fact that I was in love with the idea of being in love. Do not settle, you have so much to offer someone and I guarantee the right one will come when you are least expecting it. I know that sounds so dumb but it is true. Trust the process and continue loving yourself because that is a rare quality 🥰

@JuliaAdamsMUA

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Tonya I needed to hear that. Sometimes it’s so hard to be patient but I will never settle again ❌

@tonyaraeschmidt1983

2 жыл бұрын

@@JuliaAdamsMUA girl you are going to land a super man!!! I just know it. You have such a sweet personality and the way you speak is so calming, it just sucks me in and puts a smile on my face. There is absolutely no way that you won’t draw in the perfect partner who compliments your beautiful talents. It’s hard for young men to balance a strong, independent woman so it doesn’t surprise me that you have dealt with some insecure individuals. Just remember that is their problem, not yours to fix. DO NOT dim your light based on a man’s insecure behavior. Shine baby girl!!!!

@mslibra3074

2 жыл бұрын

Ya I used to have a pattern where I liked toxic men as well. It is a sobering feeling when you think you found a guy who you really like and then suddenly he flips a switch and changes overnight. I have an ex that did that. After we had a misunderstanding that could have been easily talked out he literally acted like I didn't exist anymore. It was a very sobering feeling to learn that men that seem like they are prince charming can change instantly. I eventually learned that those people are just bad news and to just keep moving on. It was difficult at first of course but life went on and eventually I found my husband through work. We liked each other right away and this time it was different because everything just flowed so easily between us. I also didn't have to do any chasing down or acting different for him either. I know you will find someone who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated as well. It just takes time and like Tonya said just have faith in the process. Thank you for sharing your stories and your knowledge with us. 🙏🙏💛💛

@Kany619

2 жыл бұрын

I hope they hurry up and show up for me, I’m 32 and I would like to have babies too 🥹

@beckyann2000

2 жыл бұрын

Agree

The year I decided to get back into dating after a long toxic relationship, I went all in. My family said it was like I was the bachelorette lol. But the beauty of doing that is getting to see the difference between infatuation, crush, and something real. When I met my husband it was like a shock went through me. He’s never once made me feel insecure, unloved, or even unfunny. Trust your instincts and that you have taken the time to learn your lessons after a toxic relationship … which it seems like you’re already doing! You should feel proud of yourself and just have fun. I was 28 when I met my husband and we have been together four amazing years, have a lovely cat, and have moved in and out of the United States mid pandemic. Sometimes the apps work!

don't settle for just anyone! it sounds so cliche, but you will find your person when you least expect it. i found my boyfriend when i wasn't looking and now 2 years later we're planning to get married. you got this, you deserve the world

Curtains for you, weirdo dude! It’s awesome that you listened to your gut and trusted yourself to know whether you’re being treated the way you want and deserve to be treated.

@tigerlilytarot2402

2 жыл бұрын

Yes! We have been taught to over ride that to be polite, bunch of crap, the second something seems off, peace out.

@pennylynn1998

2 жыл бұрын

Diana Lee, how exciting a bunch of us won! I hope it’s a really good prize!🤣🤣🤣🤣

Some "men" really do be so intimidated by a successful, independent, beautiful woman to such an extent that they resort to breaking down her self esteem so subtly she doesn’t even realise it. Its almost an art for them. Stay safe ladies, your mental wellbeing, your self esteem and your life is worth SO much more than the headache of a crap partner who WILL tear you down stem by stem until they feel they are no longer intimidated by you. Unlearning toxic romance is very healthy and the best people can do for themselves

@so53190

2 жыл бұрын

This is so so true. It’s so upsetting especially when you use your energy to lift them up and they choose to use theirs to tear you down. I would honestly rather be alone then deal with that again.

@TheGoldenCapstone

2 жыл бұрын

No. Men aren't "intimidated" by strong women. This is just nonsense that women say to each other as if it's a sacred truth. It's not. Men just have no interest in "independent", uncooperative, self-involvement-masked-as-confidence women.

@jillstarkel4425

2 жыл бұрын

Spot on

Please never feel pressured to get personal here. But it is good to hear, that you really took time for yourself and now still choosing to put yourself first. You really are an inspiration, as an emotional and artistic human being ❤️ PS you look so much like what we all wished what shego looks like in real life!!!

There is something about blushes and you, like sometimes I feel like the concept of blushes suits you in a very unearthly way. Nobody should be looking so good in blushes, hello???! You are the one who got me into makeup and now I love blushes so much too!! Thank you so much!!!

@pennylynn1998

2 жыл бұрын

I won 2! Does this mean we have to share the win??? I don’t share very well!🤣🤣🤣🤣

I saw someone on twitter recommend asking a guy his favourite flower, which I thought was interesting! A question they might not get asked often (and you might catch some insecurity early 😏)

I’m so sorry the guy turned out that way. But glad those signs turned up early rather than later. I hope you find the right person! Also you always amaze me with your makeup looks!! I love your style! You don’t just look cool, you are cool.

never settle! it's worth the wait to find someone who makes you feel good, and who you have so much fun with!

it's the guys that haven't matured enough that find the need to "take girls down a peg" and hide it behind "jokes". that's unfortunate about that one dude but keep trying and you'll find someone who values you :)

I wholeheartedly recommend the book by Shani Silver: "A single revolution: don't look for a match, light one" She talks about letting go of the mandate for participating in a dating culture that harms women more than anything... That feeling of being tired of asking guys the same basic questions goes back to that same thing and the fact a woman is single does not mean she is obligated to change that. In any case I am happy you were able to pick up on red flags and put an end to it. I love your videos!!

I honestly wish the kitty intermissions are longer, it has become one of my favorite parts of this channel.

I just turned 28 and have never been in a serious relationship, It makes me feel like I'm lacking out on something but honestly I'm not ready! I hope people in the future wont judge me for that 😅

These colors look so beautiful on you! 💚

@JuliaAdamsMUA

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you lovely 💙

Thanks for the life update ♥️ you’re such a kind soul and it sounds like you know when toxic people don’t deserve you! Love all the looks you create!

This was by far my favorite video you have filmed in a while. The makeup looked great but I loved how open and honest you were. You have such a great personality and love hearing about your stories. Don’t ever settle for a mediocre man. I have realized that women have done so much work over the last years and we as a gender evolved, but men on the other side have gone backwards. We have so much to offer and shouldn’t settle for lazy, unappreciative and insecure men. Obviously ✨ not all men ✨ but a lot of them

I can’t wait for this video! I’ve had COVID for the past two weeks, and rewatching your videos has been helping me get through it. I love the colors you picked out for the shop my stash, and it’s inspiring me to reach for those kinds of shades in my own collection once I’m feeling less icky XD

@sweetsali18

2 жыл бұрын

Get well soon ❤️ I dealt with covid the last 2 weeks too and I am so hopeful to leave my apartment as soon as my tests get negative 😂❤️

@JuliaAdamsMUA

2 жыл бұрын

I’m so happy I could keep you company! You better get well soon, I demand it!!! 😂🤍

Your such an artist and that's just one of the reasons I watch you, this eye look is a must.....Sherry

We love an insightful babe that gives herself room for growth ♥️ there is so much beauty in self discovery. Love this look!

We love that you are back!! Your love life is interesting so please keep us updated. We love to hear it!

I have been loving your more fun eye looks ❤️ I use to only wear color on my eyes several years back but stopped and started doing more neutral looks, but now this makes me want to do more fun colorful looks again

Wow, who would fumble YOU??! Anywayyysss, this look was stunning and your energy is beautiful ✨️

@pennylynn1998

2 жыл бұрын

Oh yay a few of us one! How exciting! NOT!🤣🤣🤣

Hi Julia! So happy to see you back full of energy! If you want, I’d love to see a decluttering video and maybe you can include a bit of the makeup packing in your vlog? And the eye look… I’m in awe it looks sooo cool! Honest 😂

Welcome back, Julia :) I hope you got a much needed mental refresh! Love from your fellow introverts lol. You look gorgeous in this look! I would love to see a peachy coral version of it!

Julia, watching your videos make me smile so much! I have been a long time viewer/ supporter for YEARS. It’s amazing to feel similar about dating now that we have the confidence to know what we want and deserve. Taking the time to find out who we really is was beyond refreshing and rewarding. Sending love and good vibes. Thank you for always being you!

hold the crack🤣 what that guy you were dating said you you had me like😧 so glad you saw the signs early on. this has been such a happy way to start my day, thanks juliaaa🤍

@JuliaAdamsMUA

2 жыл бұрын

Right?!? And it was only four dates in 🚩🚩🚩

Your dating life and experiences seems A LOT like mine. And I am in the same time of my life, after taking time to heal and process and love being with me, I am also putting myself out there. Keep being a YES person, even though it’s hard sometimes. And ALWAYSSSSS listen to your ‘ick’ factor!!! That’s a big lesson I’ve learned. Those instincts are never wrong. You’re amazing and beautiful and I’m so happy for you, you literally radiate happiness and kindness ❤️

Julia! Loved this look so much! Hearing you talk about your experiences really made me feel less alone in mine and hopeful abt the future! So thanks a lot for that 💜✨ Also wanted to mention that the spot on your kitty's nose looks like a tooth and that's freaking adorable. Your videos are my faves honestly 🌸

“I’m so tired of asking a guy what his favorite color is” IM DEAD lol

This eye look ✨

It’s amazing to me your level of artistry. You can recreate anything you see PLUS you make these amazing looks yourself too. You are AMAZING! Take your time to find your love, you have all the time in the world.

Absolutely love the look and really enjoy how you experiment with colour and are very artsy! 💗💜

I looovvvee this look!!

Love this look 💚 and good job when you recognized the “ick” feeling from the boy you ran away! So many women ignore that.

Love your life update, your humor, and the looks you put together! Much love!

Dating in Alberta is seriously the worst lol Your stories reminded me of the bad ones I dated before meeting my current bf. The one for you is out there, I swear! Loved the idea of dating yourself before going back to the pool!

I really appreciate you talking about your dating life and how you've repositioned yourself mentally w your best interest in mind! Felt really relatable

I feel you. As someone who was a serial dater, that script that develops over time becomes taxing indeed. I'm getting married this year, but I still have nightmares about having to begin dating again. That isn't to say that I didn't meet some great guys; some of them became wonderful friends. I just had to kiss a lot of frogs first.

Hey Julia, I would appreciate if you did a few more tutorials with those DM colors. I purchased a few of them and am kind of "intimidated" to use them, because the colors are so vibrant and I have hooded eyes. Thanks 😊

@ellelee8760

2 жыл бұрын

as someone w colorful DM products and hooded eyes, my best advice is just go for it! use them all over without fear (own it!), use colorful pops in the inner corner, use them as eyeliners/ close to the lash line for a subtler look

I LOVED THE VIDEO!!

I LOVE this look! I have never done anything fun like this before and definitely want to try! So fun!

Wow, a real look into your life, so genuine and enjoyable to watch! Thanks for sharing, keep creating!

Yea!!! I love these videos from you!! Xoxo from Miami 🌴🦩🤗

Love that you’re feeling like sharing more of your personal life!! Adored hearing your dating stories. Unfortunately I feel that the only way we truly learn what we want/need is experiencing relationships we don’t (or that are toxic). My jaw literally dropped when you said that guy’s response to your blinds falling on you! Glad you’re having fun and getting yourself out there nevertheless 💕🥰

I love these colourful creative looks

The color green is stunning! I'm pretty new to your channel, so I didn't get to hear about your dating past. All I can say is to wait until you find "the one," your soulmate. You deserve that in life!! I met mine after all my friends were married ( I was in SO many weddings!) But I finally did meet him, my best friend and after 34 years, he is still my favorite person to be with, and he continues to make me feel so special. 💘💖💝

Love this look! It looks gorgeous !❤. And may you find the right person in your life, cause you're such an angel, and you deserve the best. love ya!❤❤

@JuliaAdamsMUA

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Criss 🥹❤️

So often I wish I was as insightful and reflective as you when I was your age. (God that makes me sound so old LOL). Would have saved myself a lot of heartache. I appreciate you sharing your perspective, it’s very inspiring.

I just love watching u. U r soo talented but so relatable and u always make me laugh. Thanks for opening up.. u r such a beautiful person

Looks gorgeous!! I love the eye makeup

love how open you are about your dating life, it makes us feel not alone lol

Just found you because I was looking for danessa myricks review and honestly I just fell in love with your energy and this eye tutorial!

That eyelook looks so good on you. The shape and colour!

I totally get what you mean about interacting with new people being really taxing. It so is! I left a toxic relationship years ago and I’ve been trying to use the apps for a while and it’s so much energy!

Kitty intermission EXTRA cute 🥺

Your vids are totally my faves! I love your creativity!!!

It's so fun watching you have fun with your products 🥰👍🏾. "Shop my Stash" videos are great & encourage us to use what we have ✌🏾

Love the green look, it suits your eyes and hair so well 😍✨

Love these videos so much 💚

Aww your kitties are so cute,they love each other.I have most of these products that I need to use. You look real cool! ! I'm going to try this look.

Looooveeee the look and your insights on dating in your 20s🫶🏼🫶🏼

Girl, you look SO cool! 😎 love love love your makeup vids, you encourage me to try bolder/brighter eye looks every time ❤

Had to not watch this because the content will be triggering but i gave you an upvote since youve never put up a bad video EVER I know it must be good ❤

I really love how this makeup look on you, you did a great job and all together look gorgeous 😍

OBSESSED WITH THAT EYE LOOK 🥰

Loved this so much!!! 💚

I'm so glad you listened to your intuition about the four-dates guy

You're looking amazing, Julia!😮😍 Loooove the look! 😍

ooo i’ve seen this eyeshadow shape floating around and now i really want to try it

Omg the updatesssss, also you can bring the tamagotchi out and about and take picssss too!!! 😂💐✨ love your videos so much! I’m so re-inspired by makeup too lately 🤩

I just got out of a 4 year toxic cycle with a guy who wasn't ick or horrible, just wasn't sure of himself so he wasn't sure of the relationship. I took a few months for myself as well and met someone who matched my consistency and kindness. He is one of the most genuine, kind, sweet, and funny people I've met in a long time. Not sure if he is the one, but I finally got some reciprocation. I also get frustrated with the apps and dating and shitty people, but this guy really showed up. Patience is hard but worth it :)

Do not settle! Ever!

YAYYYYYY U POSTED IVE BEEN CHECKING LITERALLY EVERYDAY UR MY COMFORT KZreadR

Long-message-made-short: you deserve the best, and I’m proud of you for being able to recognize these red flags and know to walk away. You go girl

I love your neutral and pop of color eye looks! And I love your new profile picture, so gorgeous as always x

Thank you so much for sharing ❤️ i have some of the same tendencies so it's so wonderful hearing your perspective and experience 😊

A stunning Tinker Bell!💚💚

You’re a lovely, beautiful, quirky human and I love your videos! I have no doubt that one day you’ll find a true companion, Julia. It’s not always easy but it’s well worth it in the end! ♥️ PS-your eye look is so galactic & gorgeous! How cool!

Beauuuutiful beautiful beautiful makeup😍 you really inspire me to be more bold with my make up and i love it. Really you bring me back my passion for make up💜💜💜

This look is STUNNING!!! 💚 And your date... you deserve so much more than this guy! I wish you all the best 💟

Looks so nice Julia! I like the eyeshape too. I feel like you are so down to earth! Thanks for opening up 🥰😃 hope you enjoy your travels coming up

So cool 😎 loved the look!

You do look cool! Love these kinds of looks! Creative and colorful!

Girl, you always look cool

I just bought a best sellers kit from Belif thanks to your recommendation!! Excited to watch this wonderful video!!

You have such an amazing personality 😌 Lovely makeup look 🤗

Yes you look cool!!!🙌 I love watching you create. You deserve to be treated like a precious partner, nothing less.❤

The ick is such a perfect description!

Plumber Julia. I knew you are a woman of many talents! 😊

Hi Julia so happy to see your cute face pop up on screen ! And what a look love the color scheme here 💛💗. And thank you for sharing that with us, you have so much to offer as a person do not settle for someone just for the love of love you deserve more than that girl 💪🏽😘

Not only u look cool but u do look super coolllllll Killing it girl 😍😍😍❤️❤️

Thanks for the life update. I was wondering how your last date went. You have an awesome personality. I am glad that you are able to continue and pursue dating even though you haven't bumped into the right one. keep your eyes and heart open for those red flags the sooner you realize it the better. The right one will pop up eventually.

You DEFINITELY look cool❤️ I just recently found you and I have fallen in love! I spend SEVERAL hours with you every day 😂 you are perfection P.S. From one introvert to another, I FEEL you. It has to be a conscious decision to get out of own head/world/house etc but you are so incredibly deserving of everything great and I can’t wait to see where life takes us both!

Hi everyone and Julia! I just wanted to give a huge thanks. Thank you for all your help.over the years. I am obsessed with this look. It looks so pretty and such a striking 💚 green!!

EXCUSE ME !!!!! Um this is like by far my favorite look you’ve ever done !!! Wow chefs kiss! I need this version in every color and color combo 🥵

I really like hearing these dating updates. It makes me feel like I know you better.

YAY! So happy to see your gorgeous face

@JuliaAdamsMUA

2 жыл бұрын

I’m so happy to see yours!!! 🥹🤍

Love this makeup! So fun amd fresh!! Kisses from Brazil

Idk why I'm only watching this video now, but I love your dating life updates!! They're so relatable and funny. You should never have to deal with an icky guy, but they do make for great stories! 😂😂