"A woman doesn't want a man that doesn't have control of his emotions." More men need to hear this, regardless of the pursuit of a woman or not. Without emotional control, you get smashed by the smallest amount of adversity. Great video, Issa!

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

Couldn’t have said it better than that Nick!

@JustSavwill

Жыл бұрын

This comment here 💯

@levlev25

Жыл бұрын

This is exactly why most men don’t feel comfortable showing emotions lol

@jameswillard-brown6697

Жыл бұрын

Control your emotions for God, yourself and your people. If you do it for a woman, you are faking it. Most women will call anything that you do that isn’t what they want “uncontrolled emotion” and weakness. When most women want you to control your emotions, what they are really saying is “Control yours so I don’t have to control mine” and “Control your emotions so my emotions can control you without reprisal”.

@wgp8ntballer

Жыл бұрын

Big facts!!!!

You were completely fine before she came into your life and you will be completely fine after she leaves your life.

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

You got it bro 💪

@StationOutlook

Жыл бұрын

I'm extremely fine now that I've left .

@wBrewsterboyjr92

Жыл бұрын

I was more peaceful with out her

@thiago8867

Жыл бұрын

@@wBrewsterboyjr92 Me too bro... had much much peace in my life before her. After her, everything went down...

@chak6990

Жыл бұрын

💯

Don't do it for her. Do it for you.

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

Better advice than mine 🙌 I think in the beginning every guy starts to do it because of the girl and then they realize how the entire process is for them and making the girl regret losing you is just the cherry on top. Honestly, I didn't care about the girl that broke my heart after focusing on myself.

The best revenge is none .heal, move on with your life , and let karma deal with it

@waltuh_the_cooker

Жыл бұрын

Ah yes But It takes so long to heal

@Cayoroots

11 ай бұрын

This, you are still losing if youre trying to get "revenge" Improve yourself for YOU

@Giovanni-rh1pw

11 ай бұрын

Karma doesn't exist

@sangohanuchiha

11 ай бұрын

@@Giovanni-rh1pwyou’re wrong bro

@michaelmich00

10 ай бұрын

@@Giovanni-rh1pw karma, God, call it how you want, it exists and ppl get crushed by it one day in their life, most of the time karma comes when you think life is going easy, u get punished and something breaks, relationship, car, career, you cant escape karma

As a 62 year old man, I have had my heart broken a few times. I agree, you should focus on your physical, emotional and financial well being, but dont do it to get back at her. Let it go. Dont give her another thought.

The girl that rejected you is definitely going to regret losing you after seeing this video 🤯😮

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

It’s okay, I don’t care about her anymore 😉

@anandmanda9181

Жыл бұрын

@@IssaIbrahim1 my man

@Kain_R_Heinlein

Жыл бұрын

@@IssaIbrahim1 same, i blew it and gave her my power when she was eating out of the palm of my hand before that. Never again, i learned those lessons within my 20 months of suffering with her.

@ravi.jangra

Жыл бұрын

​@@IssaIbrahim1you shoulda replied "who?"

@kiamrichardson4458

Жыл бұрын

Yeah but what if your face is ugly. Plus your not ugly yourself bro

Just wanted to make it clear to all my fellow guys out there, don’t fight your feelings, accept that what happened, happened and work through the pain like how you do when you workout. This will allow us to express our emotions without stonewalling and going cold for any future relationships. Peace ✌🏼

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

Great insight bro 🙏

@thomasgrabowski2202

11 ай бұрын

YES! Thanks for sharing this! YOUR EMOTIONS ARE VALID EVEN IF YOU ARE A MAN DOESN'T FUCKING MATTER! OWN THAT SHIT! BE WITH IT! ACCEPT IT EMBRACE IT! IF YOU CANT EMBRACE YOUR OWN FEELINGS YOU WONT BE ABLE TO EMBRACE HER AND GUESS WHAT?! YOU ARE GOING TO PUSH HER AWAY!!!!!!! #FACTS

@snhn_20

10 ай бұрын

​@@thomasgrabowski2202I'm the reason why we broke up, i cheated by stalking other girls on instagram and watching girls on tiktok. How should i feel?

“Once a woman turns against you, forget it. They can love you, then something turns in them. They can watch you dying in a gutter, run over by a car, and they'll spit on you.” - Charles Bukowski

She doesn't deserve to let you think about her at all. Break all contact, let her be alone, find someone who deserves you.

I’ve been going through this for the past 9 months, I’ve been doing exactly what you stated within this video. I’ve ghosted on all social media, quit smoking and drinking. Been building my business and training in the boxing gym consecutively and I’ve built a level of mental fortitude, but hear and there thoughts do ponder about my ex but I allow myself not to surrender to these negative thoughts. I’ve been indulging in cold showers EVERYDAY and started to meditate, I will keep the momentum up and use this anger and pain to fuel the fire.

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

Good shit bro, sounds like you’re crushing it. Keep us updated on your journey 💪

@Istghfar-12

Жыл бұрын

Thats the right thing !! You are becoming stronger than ever

@xbazx762

Жыл бұрын

Go get what’s yours bro. There’s no stopping you 💪🏻

@rishabhpartap

11 ай бұрын

💪🏻 😎

@Fastie

10 ай бұрын

Yo bro, how are things now? I'm 8 months in after a 6 year relo and it's sorta surfacing again idk why. I went no contact and deleted everything from day 1 and didn't think of her for a couple of months but it's gotten worse lately. Hope you're well my g

“Some people are going to leave, but that’s not the end of your story. That’s the end of their part in your story.”

Good man, just got told by a girl who I’ve been talking to constantly for the last month that she ‘can’t see it working out’. Feeling down but you are right, the energy and drive I’m getting from this is genuinely amazing. Great things are about to happen

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

Great things are about to happen brother. Put your head down and do the work. 💪

Your mission shouldn’t be to make anyone regret anything. It should be to become whole again so you can understand where things went wrong.

@adamshalabi1815

Жыл бұрын

I agree with you. That's the ultimate goal. On the other hand, rejection can give one fuel to show her that she did a mistake in her decision, which is ofc based on some things of you. I think it's not a bad thing in having the confidence and belief to think that it's her loss, because that's also related to your sense of self-worth and respect, which should always be high and prioritized. So taking the steps to focus on yourself after a rejection, whether it's based on fuel to "show her" or more about self-improvement, would both serve to heal you in the process and build yourself up again.

@user-sf3cu6nu9h

Жыл бұрын

Nah fuck that! Bas!!! She gonna regret!

@crt_head

10 ай бұрын

Yeah, I feel it is at odds with "creating your own value", because ultimately you won't until you let go of such "revenge". You are still basing your self worth based off of someone else, and what's more - by making them feel bad. Why be so cruel? This toxicity will eat you alive in the end. Next day you will be doubting yourself just the same.

Watching your vids made me realise how much of a dick i was to my ex, if i was her I would've left too. You've helped me come so far and actually become a better person over these last few months. I appreciate it alot brother.

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your support brother I wish you the best 🙏🏽

@takeshikitano3176

Жыл бұрын

he writes that she will regret because you will become strong (if you start taking steps towards this), and you write that she was right to leave you (because you were bad). The message of the video is different.

@illest220

Жыл бұрын

Dont think like that i think a relationship should be ended only when cheating is involved or daily fights that will not get better no matter how much happened or stuff like rape or such evil things but it is normal to fight to argue to scream to cry to laugh to ignore eachother no matter what love should always be the first thing in the relationship if love is not felt or shown and received… its over

I was cheated on in a 8 year relationship , a relationship which we had a kid together, I’m 27 and feel as if I’ve ran out of time to build a new me, it’s the first time in my life I’ve felt heartbreak, videos like this is giving me hope, to all the men out there dealing with heartbreak I feel yah.

@xXBlueHellFireXx

10 ай бұрын

6 years yesterday. It's a pretty fucked feeling to look back on every time a hunch made more sense, but eyes forward. Time for a new beginning and a new me

@gsb22

10 ай бұрын

I'm almost 31 and building my life again. It's never too late.

Heartbreak makes you stronger, for something to heal it first has to break for it to comeback and grow stronger.

The best revenge is no revenge, pursh yourself to be best version of yourself, be okay without her, and she’ll hate it.

Damn I felt that part when he said “when she leaves you she has options n you just gotta grind it out” 💯💯💯

Good advice to take a break from females in general to work on yourself. After like my 5th heartbreak I was done talking and interacting with girls and just put my energy into myself. Ended up going back to school, I found a much better job that allowed me to save up for some nice cars and mod them to death. Changed my entire wardrobe with high quality clothing. Fixed by teeth with braces. Fixed my physique, my mental became stronger. Grew my hair out and got a new style, got a consistent and rigorous hygiene routine to stay fresh, got into the habit of always carrying chapstick and gum too lol. I’m much different and much better after taking a break and focusing on myself. This video is 100% factual and I’m glad you’re spreading the word to other men who get lost after heartbreak cause we will all go thru it eventually, it’s inevitable.

Ghost mode : Doing fine for almost 4 months now and happy to say that I cut off everyone including social media, and friends and started a whole dopamine detox routine. Believe me this feels like after life. Things take time so keep going and have some discipline.

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

Keep up the good shit bro 💪

@whitewolf9547

11 ай бұрын

Hey man I’m on the first week after a breakup. This is definitely very tough but I’m not quitting. I cried many times already but I’m on it. I applaud you my man because 4 months is serious dedication

@xgiha

11 ай бұрын

@@whitewolf9547 Hold on bit more, you'll get there I believe in you. Trust yourself. Oh and appreciate your compliment.

@whitewolf9547

11 ай бұрын

@@xgiha this is my only option. I am ready for all the ups and downs. Thank you my friend

@drunkencitizen6168

10 ай бұрын

I don't think you should ever cut off your social circle, your friends are extremely important for living a mentally and physically healthy life

Needed this video felt good to hear that reassurance. I'm already following some of theses steps but now i gotta push harder 💪🏽

This is what I needed to hear. Thank you brother 💯

Thank you for discussing these topics.

your vid is great i really need that right now. thx!

Excellent Video Bro

I’m 36 and work as a social worker. I can tell you first hand, that more young men need to hear your message. Just talking with the younger Millennials and Gen Z as often as I do, they don’t have a f***ing clue on what it means to be a man in today’s society. Not all of them, but certainly a disproportionate amount of them act as such. They are lost. Confused. They hate the “normal” we’ve allowed to exist but also don’t know how to function otherwise. They have almost every song, film, book and tv show telling them to bow in the presence of females and worship them and that by doing so, they will get what they want in kind. Then they do that, and are more often than not, left with nothing. We NEED to create dangerous but good men again. Men that are strong. Balanced. Powerful enough to gentle but dangerous if messed with. Without intervention, if the young men that I work with are a sign of what’s coming, in less than a decade, we are going to be in very VERY deep trouble.

Very good video that went straight to the point and all the advices were relatable for me

I just went through a crushing break up, and I needed to hear this.. because of this video, I've subscribed to your channel. Keep making good content, bro.

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that bro. Glad you found the message helpful 🙏

Jazakallah for the advice

Philosophical in all the right ways, needed it today 🎉

great video men

Thanx bro. At least I ca see power and the energy coming back into me

Thank you for this video man

rejection is the ultimate motivator! I needed this video. thank you Issa. Subscribed!

Thank you brother. I also webt through this and its really wonderful advice. I really gave this girl attention and it turned out to be toxic to the extent of abusind me,plus being disrespectful and I regretted all the wonderful things I did for her.May GOD reward you abundantly.

Ty bro keep it up 😘💓

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

Let's stay on that grind 💪

Thanks man. Such a helpful advice

going through one crushing break up right now, this gives me direction and strength. Good content.

Left me after three years of our relationship , she wants to come back five months after we decided to broke up. truly loved her , to the point of chasing her. And yes , she got rejected from my side now. Remember a real lover will be next to you , ups and lows. Keep the grind everyone

@Justin-uc8sc

Жыл бұрын

Beans and sharknut tuna. We come over such , t

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

Keep your head up bro and keep on the grind 🙏

It is just so hard and painful. Hopefully it will help me go through. Great content, bro.

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

I hope you get through it bro, stay strong 🙏

Thank you for this video

Great video man, currently going through the same exact situation you explained at the beginning. Thanks for the good advice!

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

Glad I can help 🙏🏽

Thank you brother lets keep grinding and conquer the world💪

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

Stay on that grind brother 💯

Banger 🔥🔥

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

Respect g

Man you Said The truth. Rejections is a powerfull motivator.

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

You got it bro 💪

Thank you brother this is the advice l needed to hear - subbed l just want to be in abundance of your guidance

heyyy there, absolutely love your contents✨ keep it up bro

Man, these are the words i wanted to hear right now...🔥🔥

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

Love to hear it bro, let’s kill it 💪

Thank you man.everything you said is inspiring ❤

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

Appreciate your support!

Great video brother !! I couldn’t see it in the moment but I’m grateful I went thru that. Completely changed me for the better

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

Every hardship is a learning experience 🙏

Amazing video brother!! Thank you

@IssaIbrahim1

11 ай бұрын

Appreciate the support bro 🙏

This was so helpful for me to get back into the groove I didn’t do 2 years but almost and then fell for it again

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

Let’s get it bro! 💪

Damn amazing dude…may u stay blessed bro

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

Appreciate it bro 🙏

Beautiful message man, helped me through a tough time x

@IssaIbrahim1

11 ай бұрын

Glad to hear that bro 🙏

Brother thank you for this video i needed it 🙏

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

I’m glad you find it helpful bro 🙏🏽

Great video. 100% facts. This applies to anything in life. Use negativity as fuel and focus on working on yourself. You will become unrecognisable and they will ALWAYS regret losing you.

Great video man, thanks!

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

Glad you liked it!

It's funny, I got this video a few weeks after my breakup like KZread knew lmao, but it feels good that I've already been doing a lot of stuff to help my mental health meditation, journaling etc. This is a great video by the way keep it up man

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

I hope you get through your breakup and triumph all your battles!

Great video you said go ghost mode for 2 years I'm a year in and I see benefits physically and mentally I don't chase woman all I care about now is pushing myself each day

I needed this.

Absolutely epic video. Graphic cards were sick, And the B-roll was absolutely on-point. Is Cheers to your success my dude🥂

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

Thank you bro, let’s keep pushing our limits 💪🏼

Love this bro!! Looks like this one is popping!! Time for ghost mode 👻

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

hahaa respect bro

Thank you for this uplifting video ❤

@IssaIbrahim1

11 ай бұрын

Glad you liked it bro! 🙏

excellent video, subscribed

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

Appreciate the support 🙏

There's a lot of videos regarding this topic on youtube but I found this one the most motivating and down to earth. No BS just the truth. Awesome video!

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful! Appreciate your support on my channel brother 🙏

I’m officially a fan of yours. Looking forward to more content !

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

Respect brother

Absolutely fire of advice man!! Rejection hurts but using it as fuel is so important.

@IssaIbrahim1

11 ай бұрын

You got it bro 💪

Great Video Subscribed

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for the support bro 🙏

fire ass video thanks for the motivation bro👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

Aye I gotchu bro! Keep grinding!

Sick video. Not the first one, but very inspiring.

Thank you for this video man, great content!

@IssaIbrahim1

11 ай бұрын

Appreciate the support bro!

One of the perfect video of heartbreak and pain ever saw in KZread I really appreciate its really helps me Thank you Issa !

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

Appreciate the support bro!

Thank you man for this advice I really needed to hear this.. This was the best I've heard

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

Glad it could help bro 🙏

Im doing both ways to deal with heartbreak, enjoying my time by being with friends(smoking, drinking,etc), but also leaving time for myself to grow as an individual(the gym, healthy eating,etc) but also, dont do any of this for revenge, do it for yourself

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

Love this

Thank you

Thanks Bro, helpt a lot

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

Glad to hear it helped bro 🙏

I needed this video, thank you.

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

Wonderful 👍

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

Respect bro

@8:39 Brooo you hit the nail on the head with that statement. Nothing but pure facts 💯 👌🏾

Love all of this. Great advice. 2 years is a bit much. But other than that. Everything was spot on. 💪🏻

@IssaIbrahim1

11 ай бұрын

Thanks for the support 🙏

Ty I really needed this

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

Got you bro 💪

I love the content bro.

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

Thank you bro, I appreciate all the support I can get 🙏

Another banger 💪🏻

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

Respect g, waiting on your next video!

Good stuff

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

Thanks bro 💪

As a man who’s subliminally implemented each of these pillars, this is a video every young influenceable mind should watch. advice I wish I had years ago I had to learn each of these skills the hard way.

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

Respect bro! 💪

Hey issa thank you for this video. The pictures of you and your ex remind me of me and my ex fiancé. Your insight is great man and really helped me to gain a new perspective on my situation frfr

damn great video bro! god bless

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for your support bro 🙏

Thanks a lot bruh..

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

You're welcome!

Going through a tough divorce myself, found your videos and they are amazing and very helpful, this videos are filled with fire, wish I'd seen this videos years ago, but I guess it's never too late, keep up the good work, greetings from México ❤

I’m going through it now . Thank you bro . New subscriber 🔔

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

Respect bro 🙏

Man, These are the words I needed to hear right now. Im in a deep pain, suffering from a breakup of a 9years relationship thankyou for the message. keep it up ❤

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that bro, keep your head up. Good things will come 🙏

@patrickacosta3775

Жыл бұрын

Same here its sucks

@vipinkoul595

Жыл бұрын

God bless you brother.. don't worry

@MaxMax-th7uz

11 ай бұрын

18 months after a 17 year relationship break up ( including 2 children ) I am still broken ! It’s not her anymore ! Just having a broken family is the real pain !

@albertodiaz7139

11 ай бұрын

Stay strong, I been there and it’s so hard to deal with I wish I knew more about how to deal with all this but instead I drank and cry a lot didn’t get me no where was 15 years marriage.. it’s been 9 year since my divorce and all I tracked was toxic women.. I’m broken again but now it time to get back on my feet.. wish you the best bro !!

Like Tristan tate said you shouldnt make your life about revenage on your ex. It should come from you deep down the change your crave the successful life you want apart from that you spot on bro

thanks man.

You earned a subscriber from INDIA

Thanks so much , i really needed to hear this !!!

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

You got it bro 💪

i know what i need to do now. thank u

Eyo just wanted to say love the video, this is defintiely what i needed to hear. I loved my best girl friend that i knew for 5 years and got rejected but i kept on chasing her all those years and basically wasting a lot of time on her. In June she got her first boyfriend and now im standing here all alone feeling nothing but pathetic about myself. I basically stopped growing these last years because i was only chasing her. This month i already improved on so many levels: i started with praying, reading and no fap and havent stopped a day since. Im in a way better situation now but i still lack confidence. For now tho i will just keep doing what you say is best: grinding my ass off. Im tired of being soft and i know i have a lot of potential thats just keep getting waste if i stay like this. So Sir thank your for the video i really appreciate the message and to others reading this: Stay hard and never give up. Everything happens for a reason. - Tim

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

Keep up the grind bro! Everything happens for a reason 🙏

I needed this. It's been a difficult month. Thank you

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

You got this brother 🙏

@danielortega1121

Жыл бұрын

My world was crushed for the last month and a half. Started drinking again and barely scraped by with help from family. I am seeing from a diff Perspective now though. It can only get better but it hurts and I blocked her on all social media immediately. She was a thirst trap and one month she confessed to doing only fans content. I hated it but i let it go and I should have just broke it off there. Tried to change everything about our lives and forgave her thinking she would be a good woman but she was disrespectful and eventually the fights got really bad and we split

dunnno why I am here, but you talk facts brother. always put yourself first and no one eelse

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

Respect bro 🙏

@bowe3712

Жыл бұрын

@@IssaIbrahim1 with a auditory of 12k people brother responded as fast as possible. damn you really want to help men who need it. If I ever would be in the situation like that this video would help alot but I learned all by my own and what you do should be respect G. Have a good one mate.

Love this vid man💯

@IssaIbrahim1

Жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it bro 🙏🏼