I'd love to see Bailey tackle children's stories - Disney, Grimm, Christian Anderson, etc.

@AN36

Жыл бұрын

When I was getting my degree to become a teacher I actually took a class about children's literature and the history of it. It was really fascinating!

@caitlynguthrie5641

Жыл бұрын

Aesop’s Fables

@lillibenton9715

Жыл бұрын

can this comment get more 👍 please!

@michaelahesketh5719

Жыл бұрын

That would be awesome!!

@pri.sci.lla.

Жыл бұрын

Yes that would be great! Disney has stolen so many of the Grimm stories and changed them to much

“That’s what we do best ladies. Bring in shame to the family.” Amen.

The story I heard is that, since Spartan men weren't allowed to live with their wives until they were in their 30s, and started training at about 7, they had only ever really been around men. So some historians think that the hair shaving and men's clothes was supposed to ease the men into heterosexuality.

@karentalbot5798

Жыл бұрын

Wow!

@kassandraanderson6742

Жыл бұрын

I was looking for this in the comments lol I understood the shaving and clothes was entirely to ease them into heterosexual relationship and homosexual relationship wasn't frowned on, just if you were the femme one. 🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️ History. 🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️

@malikawatkins30

11 ай бұрын

10 months late but wow! I never heard this but it makes soooooo much sense.

@thesacredbombshell

6 ай бұрын

That's exactly it---- heard this years ago.

Bailey: "they would chase her around in the pitch black" Me: "yikes, sounds terrifying/traumatizing" Bailey: "yeah, idk. It sounds kinda hot. idk"

@raveneyes7191

11 ай бұрын

Shes not wrong 😂

You'll probably never see this but as I was scrolling your video to pick my night time routine video, my 10 year old daughter saw the thumbnail for this video and went " mom, what disney princess is that? I've never seen her movie before, she's so pretty". It melted my heart

@cherylmaden5989

10 ай бұрын

Bailey is our princess

@candycanelover101

8 ай бұрын

Aw that’s so sweet

@qo4914

5 ай бұрын

🌚🌚

@arditasopa1688

4 ай бұрын

The KZread princess👑

I wanted Bailey to do marriage but figured it was too broad. I am so glad she covered it! Dark History really is the first time I've considered myself to be interested in history!

@maryjane4432

Жыл бұрын

Same for me

@gaiaswildchildtarot

Жыл бұрын

Same here 🥲

@meglyda2219

Жыл бұрын

💯

@dazanii

Жыл бұрын

History is fun once you do away with the idea of only paying attention to specific dates and rich white dudes like how they do it school, lol

FINALLY someone who feels the same way about the cringey activities at weddings. Why can’t it just be a giant party with everyone we love? 😂

@Jpev2022

Жыл бұрын

I'd prefer small intimate weddings with the two families and close friends. I think the cringe-y weddings and activities are due to having too many random ppl there and everyone is nervous. Then it just gets weird and cringe-y. LOL.

@ohmyquadfpv6648

Жыл бұрын

The secret is most people think they are cringe. Idk the weird people who keep these going.

@deisycervantes9092

Жыл бұрын

Agree 😂😂😂

@jennagreer2659

Жыл бұрын

Literally my wedding. We didn’t do any traditions that didn’t mean something personal to us. No garter toss, no bouquet toss, my Dad walked me part way down the aisle, no rice throwing, no cake smashing…. It was just a giant fun party with all our favorite people, food, and games and bounce house for the kids so they wouldn’t get bored! We bounced too though😜

@laurenkay9292

Жыл бұрын

Eloped at the courthouse and have 0 regrets lol.

This history on weddings just made me feel even better about our choice of just going to the courthouse and getting married 50 years ago😊❤.

@cchastee0614

Жыл бұрын

I literally called my dad after watching this and told him "you know how you regret not making out little shindig (courthouse marriage) .. it's OK that you did bc I don't want to be given away as a transaction" 😅😭 So I'm right there with you ! Lol

@jasminejanelle1228

Жыл бұрын

Another sad truth is that they had to repopulate that early because their life expectancy was our equivalent to 21 years old…what a world.

@cherylmaden5989

10 ай бұрын

U are right

@baylorsailor

5 ай бұрын

My husband and I also went to the court house. We had a big party a few months later. Easy peasy.

would you ever do the dark history of hazing in colleges? it’d be so interesting!

@lisaswanson7442

Жыл бұрын

My Fathers brother died at USC due to hazing. The story is really sad. They killed him. The movie Fraternity Row was loosely based on what happened.

@chanelfitzgerald

Жыл бұрын

I am not American and have always been fascinated with hazing and why Americans do it.

@aliigatorwine

Жыл бұрын

I’ve never known why they do hazing!

@Vikki_G_

Жыл бұрын

Hazing??

@PamelaH_HappyVibes

Жыл бұрын

@@Vikki_G_ - hazing is done colleges (and other organizations) in the US. It’s were the newest people have to go through an initiation. They have to do humiliating things. It’s very harmful and people get really hurt or die. It needs to be made illegal.

The fact that the men thought it was a woman’s fault that they didn’t get pregnant is just mind blowing 😂.

@Nat-ff9wr

Жыл бұрын

Right?! I wonder is these men tried to get many women pregnant and they never got knocked up. So they still thought it was the women's fault or did they ever think maybe it was on them? Plus, some people's dna just doesn't mesh.

@inthelandofmorethansmall7582

Жыл бұрын

Seriously? That blows your mind? Why? Plenty of women can't get pregnant today. It was far more back then. Infertility is a huge issue for many women. So they weren't wrong. Ntm, many women didn't WANT to get pregnant. The risk of death during childbirth was super high. So ... how does it blow your mind that people believed something that is true in many ways?

@cheetahlover156

Жыл бұрын

@@inthelandofmorethansmall7582 they meant that men never considered themselves the problem, like perhaps it was men who were infertile

@Nat-ff9wr

Жыл бұрын

@@inthelandofmorethansmall7582 re-read Amanda's comment because you obviously didn't comprehend what was written.

@inthelandofmorethansmall7582

Жыл бұрын

@@Nat-ff9wr No... I definitely read it properly. Perhaps she MEANT it in a different way. But she LITERALLY SAID: It blows my mind that men blamed the women for not getting pregnant. Which is exactly what I replied to. Are there other words in her comment that only you can read? Bc my reading comprehension is fantastic.

“She brokey, no workey.” 😂😂😂 that’s awesome.

@suzimonkey345

Жыл бұрын

🤣😂🤣😂🤣

@kimberlyelliott7933

Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@keyasday7910

Жыл бұрын

Same 😅

@GHOST_BuR

10 ай бұрын

Still dying 12 minutes after😂😂

@Gossipbubble

10 күн бұрын

😂😂😂

I'm getting married at the courthouse next month and I've never been more excited to NOT be doing all of those traditions!

@TheKayCore

Жыл бұрын

got married at our equivalent to this, after watching this, kinda happy i did

@onecuet

Жыл бұрын

Save the money for a comfy home. You don't want to start out a marriage in huge debt. Congrats on your upcoming nuptials 💒

@evelinaz1548

Жыл бұрын

yeah im gonna be having a regular wedding (ceremony & reception with everyone) but also v excited to not be doing all those traditional things haha tbh i havent known anyone in so long to actually do them though, i thin it's very.... boomer-esque?

@InsaneLaughter01

Жыл бұрын

…..you are literally getting married. That is THE tradition.

@tat2mytoes

Жыл бұрын

5 months later congratulations on the marriage ❤

Bailey is honestly the best storyteller to exist. I'm excited whenever she posts.. so happy to see how much this channel has grown too! 🇯🇲❤️

@anitaramirez4427

Жыл бұрын

Yes! I've been following since she was around 50k! So crazy!!

@mariewhoo7616

Жыл бұрын

Yes!!! She literally makes me laugh out loud the ENTIRE video! And that’s rare for me 😂

@RedHotMessResell

Жыл бұрын

Yes she’s my favorite woman storyteller. And Mr. Ballen is the best male one imo. Just comes so easy to them.

@mercedezz

Жыл бұрын

Best storyteller and best KZreadr 💯 Infact imma go buy me some merch RIGHT NOW!

@gray8916

Жыл бұрын

So true!!

You should DEFINITELY do a Dark History of Diamonds, that could be a 3-parter, so much juicy history there. 💎💍

@katelyns419

Жыл бұрын

Blood diamond!

@samanthastikeleather4521

Жыл бұрын

she has to include jewels coming from a fallen angel ❤

@TheRumours13

Жыл бұрын

Diamonds, mica, general slaves and child labour today.

@nvm5016

Жыл бұрын

True... I don't want diamond. I want either rose quarts, amethyst, or black tourmaline. My christan grandparents are gonna be shook after my wedding. Nothing is gonna be like the traditional wedding.

@larenahernandez3995

Жыл бұрын

@@katelyns419 Came here just to say this!

Kinda wish she talked about some of the old pagan wedding traditions! So many cool things and pretty sure it's where "tie the knot" comes from

@felishatiepner5545

9 ай бұрын

🙌

@Synfulz.

5 ай бұрын

It is because Christianity comes from paganism.

@perrydixon344

2 ай бұрын

tying the knot... a Celtic tradition... the bride and groom would hold hands.. the person officiating the joining would tie their hands together.. the bound couple would then walk through an arch... signifying a new life together.

As Monroe from Grimm said: ‘A wedding is SUPPOSED to be overwhelming so you don’t want to do it again!’

@Diarrheagod

7 ай бұрын

That must be why people only ever get married once

Bailey seems rejuvenated thanks to her break. I love how she makes you feel like she is your one cool friend that is going to educate AND entertain you. Bailey is MAGIC! 💜💐💐🌈

@thoahxbzjsn6610

Жыл бұрын

Yes

@nyclady27

Жыл бұрын

I still feel her disappointment. But... 😔🌹☘ I eloped! That, and a couple of other choices I've made, and although a young women of 22, I didn't have a clue about marriage! I still don't and we've been married for decades. 👍 ☮ 😱

One historical account that Bailey should look into which is pretty dark is regarding the Pied Piper of Hamlin. At least 100-200 children disappeared under mysterious circumstances.

She is proficient in sarcasm I thought it wasn't possible to get this level and I just can resist my ears are beyond happy to hear her.

I was watching this with my husband nearby and when you said "This is Olga, she's beautiful if you squint hard enough, and if you take her you get this cash bonus!" My husband goes, where is my cash bonus? 😭😂

@xxxKida-Himexxx

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@Stephaniefarrah

Жыл бұрын

🤣

@jettsetgirl

Жыл бұрын

😂😂Is he still alive ? My husband half listens & then interrupts and asks me questions- I took his phone & hit subscribe 😂😂 - Let him watch on his time ..and he does cuz now he says That’s Suspish 😂

@allysondenton.5673

Жыл бұрын

i was like that’s kinda mean but then i saw your username

@janaskibo871

Жыл бұрын

Oh my goodness. Doghouse or couch? LOL

My partner and I thought it would be fun to have a "We are each other's Emergency Contact" party.

@tironnarexxmorriss2883

Жыл бұрын

Love this idea

@elaic19

Жыл бұрын

Love that lol

@amy-leacoopertwiggyvonlea8969

Жыл бұрын

amazing lol

@candacecasey5222

Жыл бұрын

Lol

"that's what we do best ladies, bringing shame to the family" 😂 a word

@Buggle7619

Жыл бұрын

Needs a t shirt with this!

@tracynorth2275

Жыл бұрын

😂

I double majored in history and women’s studies because I wanted her story too.

@sabrinacochran9808

Жыл бұрын

Love this ❤

Thank you for saying weddings are Cringe at every corner! That totally explains how I feel about them! I have felt so..... blech, uncomfortable, whatever, about weddings for years now. It's not because I'm single and bitter LOL it's really just.... a huge pointless and expensive performance for WHO?! I have seen a few of these performances and those folks are already divorced so i'm just like..... why...?..... but thanks for the food and drinks!

@Loralanthalas

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@Diarrheagod

7 ай бұрын

People have big egos and just wanna live the fantasy of being a celebrity for a day

@erinhansen614

7 ай бұрын

It's for your guests silly

You know what I’d actually really love to see you do on dark history? The dark stories behind the Disney princesse’s stories! I think that would be a fun episode. A lot of classic Disney princess movies are based off of true stories and most of them are dark, but I’d love to see Bailey cover them because I haven’t looked into them enough my self to have a clue about a single one however I’ve remained very curious 😭

@berthaschwarze6704

Жыл бұрын

Oh yes the original stories are grim. No pun intended. But the original mostly Grimm brothers stories are DARK. And they already lighted them up. The little mermaid original has haunted me. My grandma has a book full of the originals and I am traumatised

@datheamore6395

Жыл бұрын

Pocahontas, Snow White, Sleeping Beauty, Mulan, Beauty and the Beast... all rather dark origins. Sleeping Beauty and Mulan were always fiction, but the stories have been bastardized over time.

@AllTheHappySquirrels

Жыл бұрын

This could be a whole season of episodes! 🤯

@rachelellis8416

Жыл бұрын

Yes!!

@jodeemackenzie

Жыл бұрын

Yesss!

"Lets say you're a lady who loves another lady, you love an Arby's sandwich" I about died. 😂🤣😂🤣

@bagarozzi927

Жыл бұрын

Me to!!!

@kelliesaunders4905

Жыл бұрын

Roast beef 🤣🤣🤣

@vjquiles147

Жыл бұрын

I had to pause the video for second. 😂

@dorindadouglas2847

Жыл бұрын

Same! 🤣

@starboggle

Жыл бұрын

I'm sorry, I don't understand this. Someone please explain it to me.

I always thought the government wanted us to get married so if one of you dies, the other can just assume all your debt. 😳

I literally had a courthouse wedding we got our marriage license and then scheduled an appointment to have a judge sign it off. The judge was actually happy he really loved doing weddings, He said it was a nice break from the divorce proceedings.

@InsaneLaughter01

Жыл бұрын

As long as folks treat marriage like a trend, there will always be divorces. 🤷🏻‍♀️

@Synfulz.

5 ай бұрын

@@InsaneLaughter01Liturally this!!! I know people who get engaged to every partner and it lasts a year and there ends up being no wedding. I’ve never had that nor would I want anyone to propose so early on it’s just strange and pointless and a desp attempt of commitment. lol 😂” take this ring now u have promised not to cheat” like a ring has stopped someone cheating.

I love when Bailey says ‘exspecially’ because she is so consistent with saying it wrong. It makes me smile. I say ‘excsape’ wrong every time.

@PiXie232

Жыл бұрын

It is super cute:)

@coco-cliveasmrgenealogy6171

Жыл бұрын

I say yacht wrong and economy wrong

My husband and I agreed not to shove cake in each other's faces, he got all dressed up and I spent like 2 hours on my makeup

@laughingcorrpseholly4136

Жыл бұрын

Right?! Lol

@mariaharrington8708

Жыл бұрын

Same! Such disrespect

@derryceanderson2371

Жыл бұрын

She killed me with ladies who like an "Arby's Sandwich" she has the most hilarious descriptions for both female and male genitalia. I love her to pieces. 💞

All of these facts aside, its so much more important to be on the same page as the person you're with. If one of you wants a big wedding but the other couldn't care less and would be happy to elope in a McDonald's you're going to clash badly.

Me over here: “Babylon sounds like OG Handmaid’s Tale.” Bailey: “you know, like Handmaid’s Tale. And if the wife was caught cheating, she and her lover were bound together and thrown in a river.” Me: “ALSO LIKE HANDMAID’S TALE!”

Absolutely loving dark history, Bailey really genuinely seems to be enjoying herself now

@sfspurri

Жыл бұрын

Agree!! They finally gave Bailey the freedom to be Bailey and haven’t overly produced her. This is the Bailey we all have known and loved and I’m glad they realized there’s more than just her name for why we watch her! 💕

@chanelfitzgerald

Жыл бұрын

Really enjoyed this week too. I haven't watched many lately but definitely back on it.

@constanzaesposito6333

Жыл бұрын

Feeling the same there was really a time where she did the job was funny but over the top funny and it seemed masked. Now she kinda got over that. I love her!

@britnysnyder4991

Жыл бұрын

Was she not enjoying herself at one point? Or what do you mean? Lol

@constanzaesposito6333

Жыл бұрын

@@britnysnyder4991 yea I really felt like she was kinda just doing it because that's her job now. Tried to be funny and all but it wasn't really her, some mikro expressions gave that away. And now she really is in the tea having fun looking really destressed and happy

Joan makes such a beautiful blushing bride! I wish her and Paul all the happiness in the world.

@nicolebrown1927

Жыл бұрын

I love me some Joan!💙😁

@RowanWarren78

Жыл бұрын

Absolute cutie-patootie!!

My brother is getting married next weekend and I’m half tempted to share this with him just for fun 😂😂😂

@mamallama826

Жыл бұрын

Did you? 🤣

@user-rq3yh9ew8l

9 ай бұрын

Yeah did you?!?!

Hey Bailey just thought I'd let you know the true origin of the word "history", even though His Story fits like a glove, it comes from historía (Ancient Greek: ἱστορία, romanized: historíā) meaning to inquire or to judge 😊 Have a great day and keep teaching us more!

I’m 36, never been married, I’d be fine if it never happens. Especially having been in not one but TWO abusive relationships, freedom is glorious! I never fantasized about any dream weddings as a child like they do in the movies lol. But even if I had money to spend I still would never want a big expensive wedding. Literally go to the courthouse and have a fun party afterwards with loved ones.

@angelac141

Жыл бұрын

I could have wrote this only difference I'm 38 haha

@ohyesitsjackies

Жыл бұрын

Totally agree about not spending tons and going totally over the top! Both my siblings had big grand weddings, and although they were beautiful my fiancé and I are going a totally different route. Exactly what you said, we’re going to go to the courthouse and then have a party after with just family and close friends (not every person we’ve ever met lol). We want it to be about our love for each other and not about putting on a spectacle for everyone else.

What about the dark history of funerals? I feel like they are so unnecessarily expensive!

@cookiemonstersgirl5630

Жыл бұрын

Agreed!!!

@susannaj1758

Жыл бұрын

Yes!! And most funeral homes will prey on the emotions of the family to spend more, "show how much you cared for them" cause you know, the dead will know and care.

@DarkFire1536

Жыл бұрын

Great idea. I want to be cremated and then everyone can eat food. The end.

@emilymonson1

Жыл бұрын

@@susannaj1758 honestly! It is so crazy and sad how much they prey on innocent people and families!

@emilymonson1

Жыл бұрын

@@DarkFire1536 same lol

love how bailey has pajamas and a wedding veil on at the same time

You could do a series when it comes to weddings. So many different cultures do different and strange things for weddings. Not mention the ones where they marry the entire family. I did enjoy this episode.

My third marriage, yes my third marriage, was at a county clerk's office and my mother who had severe dementia was my witness 🤣. We are still actually married and four times longer than either of my first two marriages. My advice is wait till you're older to do that stuff. Life is crazy🤗

@nonniperkl6273

Жыл бұрын

My parents got married on a whole another continent fron their home with two Chinese dudes as their witnesses. Went to mcdonalds for lunch afterwards. They had their silver anniversary few years ago

@faylinameir

Жыл бұрын

I got married at 16 at a court house. Still together almost 20 years later. 😊

@tammyjoseph2417

Жыл бұрын

My ten marriage

@crazedmom23

Жыл бұрын

My second marriage was in 1999 and we're still hanging on. Lol....We drove to Memphis and got married at Justice of the Peace then went to McDonald's to eat. Lol. I did the whole fancy wedding thing with the first wedding and it lasted 5 years.

@gigijerrie322

Жыл бұрын

Agreed

I got married in a backyard and handmade everything, from decor to my wedding dress. My mom's husband made all the food, me and my mom made benchs and tables (and sold them after the wedding) and my sister in law did the photography. Cost like $1500 after selling the table sets 🥰 And my ring wasn't a 'wedding ring' it was a black stone (my fav) and like $400 lol.

@wolfiesasha887

Жыл бұрын

That's so cute 🥰

@cjofloorish

Жыл бұрын

The best wedding!

@Chefnxss

Жыл бұрын

That sounds so wonderful!! And way more meaningful

@b.a.j5168

Жыл бұрын

Yes!!!!! Mine was definitely a community effort... it was perfect 🥰

@cassandrarudolph1307

Жыл бұрын

I seen bench dyi very creative way to make things U thought smart how to save $ So many go out and spend thousands on 1 day of a event. Sure it’s important but I can’t see spending over $10.000 on one day! Those benches must of been upper nice

@9:50 after marriage she is no longer “a VEIL able” 🤣🤭 great line 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

I’m dying laughing at the thought of these Spartans chasing each other around a dark room 😂

@coleenfrancisify

Жыл бұрын

hahaha ur not the only one!

Yesssssss how I always have felt: “it’s like a series of unfortunate events…a cringe around every corner”

@RowanWarren78

Жыл бұрын

Without the addition of the bride wearing men's attire, it's actually tradition for some Orthodox Jewish women to have their head shaved upon being wedded. Of course, they would proceed to wear a wig, but shaving the head was viewed to be the removal of an element that existed before becoming someone's wife.

I told my husband that if he shoved cake in my face, I would turn around, walk out, and go straight to a courthouse to get the marriage annulled.

@shaec3405

Жыл бұрын

A men!

@BABYPINKSUSHI

Жыл бұрын

I threw the cake at my husbands face soo I’m the dominant being

@miltoncat

Жыл бұрын

@@BABYPINKSUSHI ha! To be fair, I didn’t smash cake in his face either. I love cake too much for that.

@abbynormal3068

Жыл бұрын

@@miltoncat 😄

@datheamore6395

Жыл бұрын

We just lightly put icing on each other's noses and handed each other a napkin. The photographer got a picture of us making funny faces as we went to wipe our noses. It is one of my favorite pictures of us.😊

Bailey! If those are Dark History Jammies go ahead and make those available so you can take my money.😅 So cute

His-Story... This feels like the time I realised Rapidash was a play on rapid-dash. I sat there doing nothing but thinking about how silly I felt for not seeing it sooner, about what other Pokémon puns I could be missing out on. The world is our oyster, and these puns are the beauties that are pearls.

i always looked up to my great grandma 'cause she got married at 28 in times where girls still usually got married at a very young age (15-18) and she agreed to give birth to only one kid and that's it, lived like a lady

@menmykrazycat8129

Жыл бұрын

👏👏👏👏👏

@jacquihesher5424

Жыл бұрын

She sounds smart

@RB-rd9lq

Жыл бұрын

My grandma was the same! Lived her best life and got married at 29 🤩

@mariadacosta7264

Жыл бұрын

She sounds like a smart lady! My grandmother married at 28, thinking she'd be a spinster forever, because her beau was forced to take over the family business when his brother eloped and left him in the lurch. But they eventually were able to marry. Had 5 kids (because they didn't know a thing about birth control) and were very happy together. Raised their kids in a Bristol, UK, during WWII.

I’ve always rejected the idea of being married since I was a girl. Always thought it was so misogynistic and patriarchal and I would have an extremely non-traditional wedding if anything. But the idea itself I don’t like the history of and what it has always meant. This just further confirmed everything I believed and felt. Thank you for doing a video on this! You had me cracking up the whole time.

I love that Dark History is going strong and that the MMM Monday episodes are back too! They are getting me through a very hard time and I love that Bailey is continuing this and just going hard for us all out here 💖

I got married two years ago during COVID and we kept it small. We did the dress, my sisters were bridesmaids, and we had a friend make us cheesecakes rather than a big wedding cake. It was more intimate and personal and we were with our nearest and dearest family members and friends. We even wanted that before COVID. We didn’t want to do the bouquet toss or the garter. We didn’t have a big dance party (just a friend with a speaker set up playing violin versions of popular music). And it was the best day ever. I’m hoping to see more of a trend that direction because for me, a lot of wanting a smaller wedding was because of cost and the icky consumerism of it all. And it ended up being absolutely perfect for us. Also-with what you said about Vegas weddings-I’d say it’s the same case with courthouse weddings too, which is so sad because those weddings can be incredibly sweet and intimate too.

“Cringe around every corner..”😂😂😂 lol I’ve never really thought about it but you’re right! me & my husband eloped and didn’t even tell our fam🫣 total cost was $50 to sign our license 🙃

Giving a diamond as an engagement ring is also rooted back to medieval times when they believed different stones held different powers of protection (described in their medical textbooks called "lapidaries"). Emeralds, for example, protected against poison, and pearls could prevent heart failure, etc etc. The diamond was believed to be the catch-all, be-all of stones, believing that it was the best overall stone to protect against most myriad of things, so to gift your new bride a diamond was to say that you were trying to protect her from most harm that could come her way.

@evelinaz1548

Жыл бұрын

this is so interesting!! literally only thought that came about because of the debeers

@LadyPictureShowMedia

Жыл бұрын

i seriously got an awesome one! it may make a pretty necklace one day!!!! jk

That lip is PERFECTION! I need to find a color that blends with my skin like that.

Okay, this episode was so interesting to me. I loved to learn about the history of marriage, I am getting married in May 2023 to my boyfriend, on our 10th anniversary. I am from the Netherlands so my dream was to have my wedding the "American way", because the traditions in the Netherlands are quite different. You see, my fiance is going to get me from my parents place, Where I will be sleeping the evening and night before the wedding, and that is where he Will see me for the first time in my dress and all. I never really liked that idea, because I always thought that me and my dad walking down the aisle was more of a "blessing" to my dad, since I am a real big daddy's girl. Now I'm thinking, this, the Dutch way, is really sweet too. Because it's a blessing for my parents to see my husband to be, taking me to our wedding location from their house, the house I grew up in, it has something special now i think about it. Idk, I normally don't comment because I feel like I have nothing interesting to say, but now I wanted to make an exception. I litteraly cannot wait to be wedded to him, because I always thought it was an honor to be able to carry his last name, although I'm not sure if that is also done the same way I'm America? 🤔 anyways thank you Bailey for helping me see the beauty in my own county's traditions. Now I see and understand not anything, including wedding traditions, have to be the American way,! I love you so much Bailey, thanks for everything and all your hard work!!!❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏

@MistaMaine.

Жыл бұрын

I wish you and ur boyfriend all the best. Nothing but happiness and joy🌼 This was beautiful to read.

@krisy-in-italy

Жыл бұрын

Inge, the Dutch way sounds lovely. I’d go for that. Wishing you the very best! 💜

@ingemoers420

Жыл бұрын

@@krisy-in-italy thankyou so much for your sweet and kind words! 🥺🌹 so sweet of you to comment! I am indeed going to do it "the dutch way!"✨️✨️

@ingemoers420

Жыл бұрын

@@MistaMaine. thankyou so so much for your sweet comment!! Brought me Joy! 😊⚘️🥰 same goes to you tho, nothing but happiness, bliss, and joy to you too!!

@joanodom2104

Жыл бұрын

Well, in less than three months, you shall be marrying your love of ten years! I don't even know you, but I am so very happy for you and your future husband. I actually love the tradition of your country and I definitely think you should have him retrieve you from your parent's home, in your wedding dress. I think it is sweet and more private and meaningful. I wish you every happiness life can offer! PS your English is excellent.

Usually when a groom smashes the cake into the bride's face, when she specifically asks him not to, and she gets upset as well afterward, it's a sure sign that it won't last. There's animosity disguised as something fun and cute mixed with disrespect. A million wedding photographers and planners can't be wrong. And as for the burning bush...there's a cream for that.

@The_Cherokee_Gypsy

Жыл бұрын

I tell you what. I know my husband wouldn’t smash it in my face, cause your right, it wouldn’t last. It’s disrespectful if you ask me. To each their own though lol

@summer-xt1gg

Жыл бұрын

I read a comment from a wedding photographer saying it’s a somewhat reliable litmus test to predict which couples break up too!

@butterbeanqueen8148

Жыл бұрын

To me it’s always been a power play from the groom. Expressing dominance immediately after getting married. Like I don’t have to respect my wife. So it makes sense that it’s a predictor of the marriages viability.

@lesliecall2923

Жыл бұрын

I've always heard it's bad luck to smash cake in the face. Definitely makes sense that there is some underlying psychology type of stuff to it too.

@marandadavis9412

Жыл бұрын

@@The_Cherokee_Gypsy same here. I specifically told him that if he did, there would be a fight and he wouldn't win

Bailey, could you do an episode on adoption, please? This episode was fascinating and no doubt it only scratched the surface. Xo

Can I just say: You should open a school for the neurodiverse. You're THE ONLY person that I can listen to for hours without needing to speed up the video and can keep my ADHD brain focused and pay attention and actually learn stuff about history. You are a goddess.

@cathychase663

6 ай бұрын

same

@carryemetcalf8216

6 ай бұрын

I could not agree more!! I would go to that school all year round! I listen to her literally all the time. Vacuuming, shower, driving, just sitting there watching her videos. She keeps my mind distracted and personally, I LOVE that way she tells us about these people and/or events.

@Synfulz.

5 ай бұрын

Can assure you it’s not an ADHD thing.

@FoxRogers

3 ай бұрын

Same

I sense extra sass in this one - and I am here for IT!

Hope everyone who sees this comment knows they are amazing and I'm rooting for you in all you do! Stay strong my perfects

@harmdizzle1979

Жыл бұрын

You too! We love a positivity queen!!

@seandersg

Жыл бұрын

You don't know everyone here... what if you are rooting for someone to be amazing at family annihilation or something? 😂

@avshay24

Жыл бұрын

Thank you Kay for the amazing positive comment. And YES, I totally agree with you and I too am rooting for all out there. I love a major positive attitude. It’s hard to find one lately, and it’s super sad.

@Jane-Doe.1126

Жыл бұрын

Thank you no one ever says that to me.

@amberyoung4425

Жыл бұрын

You have no idea how much I needed to hear this today! Thank you! 💜

I'm proud to say my wedding costed less than 2k for 2 venues, food, flowers, photographer, dress, husband's tux etc. Everyone thought it was a 20k wedding, but my dress was a closeout for $75, decor came from goodwill, we made the food and cake ourselves, flower arrangements were done by some volunteers from bulk bought flowers etc. Weddings can be done cheaply and still look amazing with creativity and hard work/planning. And a dash of luck 😆

Watching this after already being opposed to rushing into marriage and having a wedding , solidifies my choices and I feel so blessed to be woken on this money making traditions that so many fall into. Thank you Bailey for educating us on this topic, it was very much needed when being pressured at a young age. 🙏🏽❤️

Love your videos. I got married at a courthouse and I didn’t regret anything. My uncle spent over $75,000 and got divorced in one year. Marriage has nothing to do with the wedding ring or the party ( it’s nice to have) ❤

" I say some because I know some of you get tired and just go to bed. " Way to call me out bailey 😂😂

Hahahaha between "the dark room sounds pretty hot" and "nuts to your face", I'm dying. Great dark history video like always ♡

@PiXie232

Жыл бұрын

The nuts to the face had me dying too lol😂😂😂

Bailey's hair always looks so perfect.. can we get some product plugs for your hair too? 👀

I'm Hmong and in my culture (back in the day) if you wanted to marry a girl, all you had to do was kidnap her and she would have to marry you. My father is very traditional, but this was one of the traditions he said he was happy ended. He said because he wouldn't want to have to k!ll someone for taking me XD made my day when he said that.

As a Greek..I laughed a bit too much " bragging ouu my daughter is getting married to the olive oil family " 🤣🤣🤣

"That's what we do best ladies...bring shame to the family" 😂😂

@berthaschwarze6704

Жыл бұрын

Female history in one sentence

@leahflower9924

Жыл бұрын

True lol

@angelamurphy4938

Жыл бұрын

We ate the apple that started it all....

@karmica7591

Жыл бұрын

Favorite new quote. We nasty ladies.

@flyingfig12

Жыл бұрын

@@angelamurphy4938 what do they expect.. they started off as a man's rib after all.

My husband and I both agreed no cake smashing. He doesn’t like his face being played with, and I didn’t want the makeup ruined. Especially since I don’t really wear makeup, I wanted to enjoy having it on at least that day

DO A DARK HISTORY on Birthdays 🎉 and Funerals 🙂🖤🫶

The way dark history has evolved in less than a year is everything, go team!!! Love you and your content soo much Bailey 🖤

Everage woman: Marriage is about LOVE! Bailey looking at history: Marriage is about procreation, submission, social control and spending money.

@user-bx8sj6qm3w

Жыл бұрын

Based bailey

@maryg3143

Жыл бұрын

@@user-bx8sj6qm3w Bailey is correct.

@lilyt18

Жыл бұрын

She’s RIGHT and I’m here for it. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤️

@Kese157

Жыл бұрын

Many cultures still utilize the same practice

@tironnarexxmorriss2883

Жыл бұрын

Totally agree with Bailey

Watched this while getting ready for our Valentine's Day elopement at the courthouse! Completely agree, it's about you and that person.❤

My wedding day was very chill and simple. My stepson was with us and also my husbands sister and one of my best friends as witnesses 🥰 afterwards we went to a restaurant and had a nice meal. than we took some photos at a park. it was end of february and just perfect.

Petition for a series where Bailey deep dives into Disney stories and other fairy tales!!! 📝✍️😆

@shalinitiwariscorner5210

Жыл бұрын

Same ! She needs to dissect into those lores.

@leahgathoni3730

Жыл бұрын

I conquer 😂

@daisflowers99

Жыл бұрын

I'd sign

@2Madre

Жыл бұрын

Toooo dark 🙈

@hayliemarie1281

Жыл бұрын

YESSS

Watching this AS I do my makeup for my wedding today 😅💍

@neemaj15

Жыл бұрын

Congratulations!

@maresdreams8731

Жыл бұрын

Congrats some of us wishhhh

@elizabethhayward8238

Жыл бұрын

Hope you are both very happy and that you had an amazing day. LOL.

The whole money making industry isn’t just weddings. Every holiday, especially Christmas is a huge money maker for the industry and we all go along with it lol

I've Been married twice. The first marriage I was totally brainwashed into the American standard of weddings, though It was a smallish affair on a small budget with family and a few friends but it was extremely stressful with planning a venue, a reception and spending WAY too much on a dress that I only wore once! And of course it was a marriage doomed to fail. The Second time around we made an appointment to get married at the county clerk's building, the location was still really nice because it was outdoors on the harbor and with a simple ceremony. I ordered my dress from Amazon and only paid $40 for it and arranged my own bridal bouquet. We also ordered our rings off Amazon. Two friends attended and one took photos. My husband was happy because he could still wear jeans with a dress shirt and a snappy blazer. I loved how the photos came out! It was perfect and stress free!

I always look forward to seeing Joan’s dress for each episode

I had my wedding in my husband’s grandparents backyard…super small, cute, intimate, classy! Not stressful at all!! I think we spent $600 and that was just on the catering. It was absolutely perfect🥺❤️

@BreeValerie

Жыл бұрын

Props to you for doing it so lowkey with such a small budget. Hopefully more people choose this type of parties

@evelyonbyrd758

Жыл бұрын

Me and my husband did the exact same thing it was his family, another Evelyon j in the world

@Evehjm

Жыл бұрын

@@evelyonbyrd758 love that for us ❤️

I’m married, didn’t want a traditional wedding… got a traditional wedding. It was definitely a celebration for everyone else. It’s been 17 years and I still get a touch upset about it all. 😢

Loved this video Bailey, great content as usual. Maybe you could do a video on the Vikings sometime in the future? They really did a lot of interesting stuff and I haven’t found many videos about them on here. Thanks again to you and your team for posting these videos, they are the highlight of my week ☺️

“Let’s see that back-end Bertha” almost made me spit my coffee out 😂

@mariannahusztik

Жыл бұрын

"She brokey, no workey" 🤣

@packersgirl1978

Жыл бұрын

Same! 😂

My daughters were 9&10 when they started their menstrual, my oldest baby only cried cuz she wanted to go bac to the park and play! I couldn't imagine marrying them off at that age!!!🤦🏽‍♀️

@BaileySarian

Жыл бұрын

so wild, right?

@MelissaThompson432

Жыл бұрын

They put growth hormone in vegetables now: kids enter puberty years sooner now, and they grow to be 6+ feet tall....

@reginamushi6582

Жыл бұрын

@@BaileySarian Thank Bailey for doing this, you are doing an incredible job!

@RowanWarren78

Жыл бұрын

I was only 11. It's scary to think that, if that occured in this era, instead of 1989, and I had become impregnated at that age because of SA, I would now be required to carry and give birth to my attackers baby. Furthermore, if I couldn't prove the assault on court, he could ask for shared custody.

@dawnlilymc

Жыл бұрын

Definitely not trying to justify the tradition (it's horrifying!) but ancient women often started their cycles much later than modern women due to poor nutrition and other health issues. So there probably weren't any 9 & 10 year old brides outside of possibly nobility. Lots of early to late teens, of course, but not often before that.

Im once again asking for the episode "the dark history of getting thrown in the river" 🙏

"A lady who loves other ladies. You love an Arby's sandwich" 🤣 The scream I just scrumpt!!!

The nerve of Joan to show up to Baileys wedding in a veil smdh

@bbyjscx

Жыл бұрын

I love joan 🤣

@louisejohnson6057

Жыл бұрын

It's like those mother-in-law's of the bride that we hear about. They show up in a white floor length dress, that's also lace, and has a small train. Joan isn't that bad, but you're correct, she's got a lot of nerve. ✌from 🇨🇦

My husband and I had 10 people at our wedding and spent less than 1k. We also did NOT do the garter thing cause EWWW! We just got a room instead.. .

@BaileySarian

Жыл бұрын

love that!!

@AllTheHappySquirrels

Жыл бұрын

My husband and I had a hike-in wedding with no traditions or religion. It was a great day!

@aleishataylor973

Жыл бұрын

Mine was similar, we basically had no wedding traditions, especially the garter thing 🤢 if my husband put his head up my dress in front of my family, I’d knee him in the face

@alexshaw8167

Жыл бұрын

Since I was a kid I’ve thought the garter “search” is so inappropriate for a wedding

Hi just interested to know the history of marriage in Asia and Africa as well, granted i understand there are different tribes and groups within these 2 but it'd be interesting to see what they were about before it all became westernized.

This one made me angry, but I knew what I was in for. I hate marriage. Great job! 😉💜

I can’t wait until my kids are old enough to use Dark History as social studies supplementary learning. I swear I’d remember so much more in school with Bailey as teacher 🤩

i love how happy bailey seems 🖤

WoW! You could do a whole episode on diamonds & Americans obsession with them! 😳🤯

The checking of blood on the sheets gives me so much anxiety. I didn’t bleed my first time. Looked like a crime scene the second time. 😅

@lizjarvis689

Жыл бұрын

It made me feel so much sympathy for the women who had bad things happen to them before they got married, bc it was super common n very rarely punished, from what I know, especially within families. Not to mention the women who were actually virgins but just didn’t bleed. But.. like… what if your hubby was just itty bitty? Lol

I have no regrets getting married in Las Vegas back in 2015. Hubby and I had zero intention on having a big wedding. The ceremony was only $400.

@halfdeafdragon420

Жыл бұрын

We also got married in Vegas! Its the best! Elvis knockoff and all haha 💕🤙

@angelicataylor7179

Жыл бұрын

I sprung for the Gene Simmons impersonator, he was so cool

@drelle504

Жыл бұрын

@@angelicataylor7179 That sounds fun! 😛

@drelle504

Жыл бұрын

@@halfdeafdragon420 Very nice! I could've gotten Elvis for an extra $50.

Let’s get into marriage…my favorite 😂 as a divorcée I love this woman and her humor

"Your son Alexander, I see he's 30 now. Not dumb anymore?" 💀

❤ just got married on Sunday the 18th my husband and I are big fans we were both excited when we saw this episode was out!