something I love and apprieciate is that you separate thje christian and the 'scientific' part on your videos and I love that. Im an atheist, but I like that attitude so much that I always stay to the christian part and you know, I believe god loves me :)

@hautecouture2228

2 жыл бұрын

Protestantism is false teaching . It’s not even a real church. When someone believes in God then he just speaks the truth regardless whether others like to hear this or not. He does not need to separate anything. And btw all modern science is rooted in occultism. The science world is run by freemasons who all worship the devil and practice rituals and jewWish kabbalah

@trejea1754

11 ай бұрын

If God loves you then He exists, right?

@amberfahr5992

9 ай бұрын

Praise God..this comment was worth watching the series

@Kali08012

8 ай бұрын

I love your comment!

@motiveperson143

7 ай бұрын

Whereby even non Christian we can learn a lot ❤

What a gift you are to us who cannot afford therapy! Heartfelt thanks to you, friend💞

I realize Ive isolated myself so much, so my shame doesnt get triggered.

@joelsweeney4024

24 күн бұрын

I used to do that in my teens and early 20's, but then I totally flipped at 26, then I was obsessive at being an overachiever, and making something of myself. Much better, as it helped me to build priceless foundations, but now it's time for me to overcome the shame I didn't know I was carrying.

@shadowfax9177

24 күн бұрын

@@joelsweeney4024 we have the exact opposite life! All the way up until my 30s I was the overachiever/perfectionist with a masters degree and a prestigious career but medicated my shame with pills/alcohol. Now off them, 2 accidents and a chronic illness later I'm having a difficult time coping with the shame unmedicated so I isolate. Didn't even realize shame was the issue until this video. Crazy.

@joelsweeney4024

24 күн бұрын

@@shadowfax9177 I knew mine was co-dependence and trauma, but I had no idea it was shame. it really opens up my eyes. So I finally have an opportunity to make change!

YOU ARE LITERALLY SAVING LIVES WITH THIS MESSAGE TIM FLETCHER. YOU ARE TRULY A BLESSING

i been caught in a vicious circle of shame all my life. it's over

@ndndhhhhk1362

8 ай бұрын

RIP ☹️

Sir, I don’t have words to thank you and the amount of relief and insight I have learned from your series. It has played a key role in my self healing. I am really grateful that I stumbled upon your content.

Yes anger response has become a bad habit. I try & tell myself ' Easy does it.' The world won't end if I make a mistake.

My mom didn't need the subtle signs, she just said "Shame on you" or "you should be ashamed". :D

Why do no therapists in my area understand this?!!

@bloggerty-schmoo2698

2 ай бұрын

Therapists are really narcissists who get paid for it.

@mancubthescrub

2 ай бұрын

They have unresolved shame?

@Yousually_Me

2 ай бұрын

Paycheck maybe?

@9000ck

2 ай бұрын

i have a therapist who understands this. not everyone is shame afflicted though.

I can’t believe how revealing this is. Every word. It was shame all along and I didn’t recognize it as such. People like Tim who explain it like this, so simple and with lists of examples so we -people who never learned to properly feel and name their emotions- can RECOGNIZE ourselves are even more important than the therapists we visit to heal it. No therapist ever told me anything about 90% of all that’s on this channel, and they were pretty good. They didn’t see all this. Thank you so much Tim, I keep listening to everything (even sometimes bits of the religious parts) and I still don’t even know who you are.

@joelsweeney4024

24 күн бұрын

Therapists Ive seen have broken the surface level, but never much further that that. I learnt about attachment theory, and that I had to learn to be more confident, but it was the how, and the depth of WHY I was the way I was that this has revealed to me. Tim Fletcher is truly a blessing, something Ive prayed to God for very intently.

your resources have been so good to me. Im in therapy and im working on it, but for the rough weeks, i come back here in between therapy sessions as a way to keep myself aware, and prompt me to write about it and not just go into avoidance and as a non-christian, i appreciate so much that you separated it as a thing post-lecture. I feel actually freer to enjoy the christian segment and follow it with a nice sense of curiosity without fear of it being like a pushed agenda, since everything is so clear and well adressed. Thank you not only for these talks but also for the thoughtful way you went about them

If shame was a liquid I would be soaked in it. That is how "shame based" I am. 😢😢😢

@nannue

4 ай бұрын

It get less shameful and became courage soon. Keep healing, accepting and letting go.

@jessicas1918

3 ай бұрын

But it's a win that you are recognizing it all❤

@carolburnette2019

18 күн бұрын

Same

And this can also go to a ‘self-defense’ mode of “I will do it All myself” - do everything - because ‘needing help’ means I am weak or incapable.. and then Shame Also using Please or Thank You illicit shame .. again because of self-perceived ‘weakness’

Thank you so much for the highly detailed, relatable and free information about such an overlooked and dangerous topic!

I'm struggling terribly and this helped me quite a bit. 😮😮😮😮

@Sadbuttrue-ThatSwedishGirl

4 ай бұрын

❤❤❤

@joelsweeney4024

24 күн бұрын

Glad to hear that sister. Keep it up! I feel the same way.

little 8 year old Miriam saved her own people by being such a good bigger sister!!

Thank you so much for this series. It is beyond helpful. I started this one feeling pretty low. The hope you speak especially the the end - of being of service to God in whatever the Divine chooses to use me - has left me much less depressed and more hopeful. I have already done so much work and walked through so much Darkness. I am trusting Source to carry me. I choose Trust. Thank you again 🙏🏼💫

I have a new addiction at it is to your channel. I read so many books, went to psychologist and never was able to understand human behavior and myself more than after watching your videos. I am so so so grateful. I am making a change and being a better human because of you.

What a legend. Wonderful explanations using examples to show the way the brain adapts and with humour too. Makes me feel embraced as part of a special society lol!

I can't believe this is not viewed more, this series is incredible. It feels like this is the primary issue of our times (though maybe I'm just projecting ...)

@sebastienmorand2479

2 ай бұрын

I agree. This 6-week serie is key stone of so my problems people are facing.

Thank you so much. It touches me deep inside! Little note: there is actually a bible text that says that Amram and Jochebed are the parents of Moses, ex 6:20.

@user-ht2tc5uj7w

3 ай бұрын

Thank you, i read that chapter and verse, so glad you passed that on 🙏🏼

It crazy how shame drag you back to his game.

Thank you so much. I am so thankful to God for this message and also to your mother Fletcher for being so an important person in your life. This message is healing to my life. May God continue to bless you.

I have so much shamre of my disability due to CPTSD..😓

So sorry to hear about your mother. She sounded very humble. You are a great teacher and speaker and I'm sure she was very proud of you. Thank you for all these videos. They really make sense.

Appreciate all the biblical illustrations...most of all the hope for shame based people....like myself.Thankyou

I've been isolating for 5 years with a few days off. I'm suicidal I stay that way and I try not to talk about it. The guilt about telling anyone i Care about what I'm thinking makes it worse.

@carolburnette2019

18 күн бұрын

How are you?

@clarksondarling

18 күн бұрын

@@carolburnette2019 thank u for asking. I am seeking God and being delivered and I have been out of bed and feeling much relief. I have sought out a womens ministry called mountain movers and they are helping me. I recommend them to anyone who feels they are being oppressed in the way that I was.

@alhana8293

23 сағат бұрын

I hope you are doing well. Hang in there we can do this. We're on the path to healing and pain is just normal to get to where we need to be. Sending you love and positive vibes ❤

Thank you so much for every video you share ❤️ I have been searching for this information all my life. No one have ever taught this to me and I am very grateful for this information. Thank you for sharing your amazing competence! ❤️🙏

Thank you, every word you say is validating. This is a safe space, you are protective 👍🏽

Ive always felt shame for making mistakes and disappointing my parents, so i hid that from them and carried the shame. They did not know how to acknowledge my mistakes without dismissing them and over time its made me feel abandoned and that im unlovable to them and every one. Ive coped with porn and alcohol to escape from feeling inadequate to others.

Due to the painful events of the past two months, shame really showed up like an unexpected tsunami. It started 2 months ago with a harsh criticism after I really went all out to serve others on a retreat weekend. It started a surprisingly painful emotional response. This was shortly followed by a negative job situation which really made me look stupid. This was then followed by a serious false allegation from my Landlord. I have not been the same since. I've been successfully in recovery for 2 and a half years. I've actually had panic attacks and even complete meltdowns which seemed. Be be a thing of the past. I even started hitting myself out of exasperation. I came very close to drinking put if desperation. My recovery has been seriously compromised, but in spite of it all, I'm still trying in spite of it all. I still feel demoralized, and dehumanized

I started with part 4. So far, amazing. Thank you for posting this here - I am hopeful for the future and “healing”. Sincerely

Thanks, Tim, for all your wonderful messages. I've been listening to you for more than a year now. Just want to add that Moses' mother was Jochebed 😊

Wow! You are speaking to me. 😢thank u for this. Shame sums up a lot of what I feel everyday for the smallest things yes due To my upbringing with my dysfunctional family dynamic. I realize I can rewire my brain. I’m in tears because I’m so grateful for you that this isnt the way that I’m supposed to feel and it’s such an ugly feeling. I’m so thankful for you and your scientific approach and the Christian approach. I love it all❤

You're talking about emotional disregulation.... And if we grow up in chaos with no role models teaching us how to grow into our emotions, this is what happens; it is not our fault. Yet it is still our responsibility to heal or fix it.

Lifetimes of possible time to spend time with you and your pricklee family may be in the best possible way.

im so blessed to hear this. i take it as a proof of Gods love...

So many stuff bring shame for me. Even just a look, any kind of eye contact can bring shame

Thank you. I found these talks so useful. God bless you.

These talks are so very truly helpful! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!

I love this guy so much right now. Thank you Tim!!

Is really hard with ppl w Shame to be Shamed by this guy

Amazing lecture. Highly appreciate yr professional acumen.

Thank you 🙏🏽

I've watched three of his teachings today

You know this work Thanks for your touching explanations that clears feeling shame 🙋🏽‍♀️

Thank you... What you taught here is very valuable to me By teaching little gr 1 children I could spread the Gospel by hopefully, in a loving way, taught little ones about God. And they responded so heartwarming. They could read, write and do elementary maths when 1 had to let them go to the next grade. That was my purpuse.and made me happy

You're amazing. Thank you so much for sharing these valuable information and eye opening topics and the way you lecture is not boring at all❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

Thank you. This information is life changing ❤❤❤❤

These courses really helped. Thank you so much

Great Videos Tim HALLELUYAH

Thank you!

Thank you.

This is amazing

Thank YOu

Thank you for lectures. They are great 👍. But shame eventuality looks incurable. We only understand how it affects our lives, and that’s all. Nothing works. Especially if we know this is a deep belief, not an emotion. So sad and dead ended. 😢

Wow this guy always cooking me 😂

@shadowfax9177

2 ай бұрын

For real. I feel so exposed and yet relieved I'm not actually a complete idiot.

❤ Amazing so helpful

Thank u so much it was great

Shame kills

22:59 golden

First thank you for your great heart and mind. I think also shame may trigger body sensation which is so hard. Also sir I want to subscribe to your online program but I didn't understand what I should buy or how I can get all the modules.

When it comes to obsessive or negative thoughts about oneself, that come from lies about us or shame inducing words, can ways of treating someone be included. for eg your family treated you like a slave or used you to fight against a relative or ex.

shame, shame, shame, all shames! evils mom, evils family members, everything leads to shame

I have complex ptsd and i have a lot of anger .And isolation for many year

@carolburnette2019

18 күн бұрын

Prayers going your way, I am the same.

@maritaandersson9394

18 күн бұрын

Why do i avoid pepole so much .And i have do that after many years of been so social .I chrasd and go 7 years psykolog and since a avoid awerithing ?

That was beautiful ending, thank you

What do I do if every single time I screw up people treat me like I didn’t do it perfectly therefore I’m worthless?

Shame is not always positively correlated with low self-esteem. Sometimes shame is part of a pernicious game.

Shame everywhere

What if you deal with shame but don’t have drug addictions? Then what?

Has he done anything geared towards the people around us, to help them understsnd us better?

@TimFletcher

4 жыл бұрын

Check out his 8-part series on Complex Trauma

@aprilerickson5433

4 жыл бұрын

@@TimFletcher that wa the first series i started with. I found it extremely helpful, but getting someone else engaged is difficult. A lot of time to invest for "you". Make sense?

@TimFletcher

4 жыл бұрын

Have you watched the series on the 50 characteristics?

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After this I'm so ashamed 😶😶😶😶

... very very helpful ... thank u so much ... & may God bless u ... (-_'|

4:47

Hi! Part 2/7 and 3/7 from shame is exactly the same video. You post it 2 times the same video. Can you change the mistake? Is important for people.

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How can you possibly understand shame so well and then think religion is the cure for shame, rather than the cause of it?

@astridkessler1708

13 күн бұрын

Religion in it self is not the cure for shame. But Jesus Christ is. He has come to free from shame and guilt and not to put it on us. He has the ability and love and sensitivity to heal the deepest wounds of our heart and soul through trauma and rejection. Iam experiencing it myself right now and am so thankful. Its about a personal relationship with him, not just a religion. The power of the cross, what Jesus Christ accomplished there. Guilt and shame ist not of God. I hope that you would reach out to him and experience it too.

Where are you based. Canada or usa.

@TimFletcher

3 жыл бұрын

Canada

Please worship the Most High Elohim.

Amazing how they have to put a trigger warning for atheists

Amram & Jochabed were Moses’ parents (Exodus 6:20)

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The standard that men are the providers is in the Bible. Children are the future who will become adults

I thought Moses Mom was named Jachobed

@gimongi77

2 жыл бұрын

And she married Amram

@gimongi77

2 жыл бұрын

They were both levites

Technically you don't need a gall bladder.

She came to me in the sleeping hours And she sang to me in the moonlight: "Where did you dance when you baffled our chance, And when did the motley bells chime?" I summoned a verse from a chorus of blame, But it drowned in the ghost of her song. He came to me in the sleeping hours And he called to me in the moonlight: "Why does the fold now weep to behold, And how does it feel to be free?" I tendered the words from the tears of the same, But they dried as the dawn came upon. They came to me in the sleeping hours And they whispered to me in the moonlight: "What did you reap when you floated the keep, And whom did you trust with the key?" I buried my head in a cushion of shame - And I woke to find them all gone.

@cuddlemuff6632

9 ай бұрын

Who wrote this poem, please? It is very beautiful.

999-trillion oceans of grief - 999-trillion oceans of rage - 999-trillion endless PTSD flashbacks - I CAN NO LONGER BEAR THIS TORTURE I'm dying on the inside he raped my soul. he gave me SEVERE PTSD. SEVERE SEVERE SEVERE!!! and now he's gone. I blocked him. I want to die. how and when will I ever heal from the PTSD flashbacks? nothing more horrific and debilitating and paralyzing than the PTSD flashbacks. the man I revered as my best friend, betrayed and abandoned me, and discarded me like garbage, and replaced me with another. this happened at the start of last year (2023), we're now in 2024, and I'm nowhere near healed. I want to die. I can no longer tolerate the pain. the emotional pain is hell. I hate my life. I am tortured and tormented with every breath I take. RAGE RAGE RAGE I want to die I want to die I want to die I can no longer bear the darkness it consumes me; suffocates me I am drowning oceans of tears the man I revered as my best friend, he raped me, replaced me, discarded me like last week's garbage... ultimate betrayal!! this grief and loneliness... they rape me; torture me; on a soul level my only prayer is for death I'm in hell and I can't find escape God has forsaken me my whole life I've been tortured, bullied, abused, raped all I do is suffer my life is hell SO NOW, IN HOPES TO HEAL, AND TO CHANGE MY LIFE AROUND, I LIVE BY THIS MODUS OPERANDI: When there’s a disagreement, when I need to say YES or when I need to say NO, when I need to state my needs, and ask for them to be met... When I need to create boundaries... There's a possibility and a probability, that someone will inevitably, most likely, be disappointed in me... So I engage in every encounter, interaction, and relationship... In a way that ensures, that the person disappointed in me... NEVER ends up being me! I aim to never repress, never suppress. I aim to never lose a part of myself. Radical honesty only: 100% of the time. Always, all ways.

@Vjm47Bigpond

3 ай бұрын

Very intense GodHelpMe. I used to feel like you are now feeling. After 68 years it is getting slowly better. Love to you

@Yousually_Me

2 ай бұрын

Seek help, I feel it

the key , how to remove the shame

@sll110

3 жыл бұрын

@Ken Richard 🍀🍀🍀🍀

Have you ever been told that you sound like, and have some of the same oratory mannerisms as, George Carlin??

Good info apart from the religion

3 million israelites? around 1000 bc there had been 50 million people - on the whole world. Considering that the Israelites didn't straight up conquer egypt, egyptians must have been at least 6 million people?

I wonder how much my chronic shame contributes to my anger at Christianity. “Jesus died for your sins’. Talk about a shame trigger! The entire Old Testament triggers me; oops just had to erase a lengthy, unproductive rant. In my current state it all seems so patently unfair; a God who plays favorites and slaughters or commands or tolerates the slaughter of so many cities. And I, with my shame are supposed to TRUST this God, or be sentenced to eternal damnation?!?

Why do people call the Israelites “Jews” ? It’s disrespectful honestly 😣

The chosen people are not the Jewish but the Jews and israelites. The most hated and poorest are the chosen.

AFFIRMATIVE PRAYER 1) I'm in love with myself and my life 2) I'm in love with being alive 3) I'm a magnet for: love, miracles, money, happiness, joy, prosperity, wealth 4) I have total and complete and permanent: FINANCIAL FREEDOM 5) Always and in all ways: I totally and completely and permanently surrender to Jesus 6) I thrive: in my career and in my relationships 7) I am a master alchemist 8) I am world-renowned in my area(s) of expertise 9) I magnetize my ideal and perfect clients to me: easily, constantly, consistently 10) my twin-flame and I are magnetized to each other, we belong together, we are destined to be with one another 11) I am the epitome and the embodiment of perfect vibrant radiant health and wellbeing

I like how he uses the myths of the bible for people that believe in them . Moses story is a myth . Myths can teach us good things .

When someone says, ‘This is what god thinks’ or ‘This is what god wants’, they are gaslighting you. We don’t know if a god exists, much less what it thinks or wants. So sad that Tim ends up gaslighting us.

@shadowfax9177

2 ай бұрын

That isn't true. YOU don't know that God exists, but I do. So does Tim. That's what happens when you have a personal encounter of Jesus Christ. All doubt is gone. I hope and pray you can have that one day as well.

What if it has progressed so much that it's reached the limit. What do I do then?

Thank you.