sexual trauma, moving again, pregnancy series ⎮ chatty catch up

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Hello beautiful friends! In this vlog we have a chatty catch up. I answer some of your questions about moving again, talk about my thoughts on releasing the pregnancy series, share my recent book recommendations, and kyle & I also go look at a car.
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  • @childofchrist7625
    @childofchrist7625 Жыл бұрын

    The more REAL/RAW the content... the better😊IMO

  • @Kian_Wolfgang

    @Kian_Wolfgang

    Жыл бұрын

    lol noted 💩

  • @candylh3440

    @candylh3440

    Жыл бұрын

    Especially if your on a pregnancy journey. There is no getting around it lol.

  • @BuckleyBrittany
    @BuckleyBrittany Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for always being transparent and allowing us to see Jesus working in your life 💛

  • @Kian_Wolfgang

    @Kian_Wolfgang

    Жыл бұрын

    aw thank you Brittany!!

  • @cindizdrinc7320
    @cindizdrinc7320 Жыл бұрын

    This 👏🏼 is 👏🏼 the 👏🏼 content 👏🏼 I 👏🏼 come 👏🏼 here 👏🏼 to 👏🏼 see 🙌🏼 Kian, I love hearing your style of humor and how that obvs translates into your editing (the ending of this video, for example) and the dynamic duo you and Kyle are make it so such a joy and fun to watch. The whole beatbox “look at my hair”/“look at my dog” bit had me laughing out loud 😆 Also, I am so for potty talk lol Though I do agree maybe a disclaimer would be a good idea for those who are more sensitive to that kind of talk (I found it a comical editing choice for you to leave in the whole bit about potty talk as well as the part where you said you were gonna just cut it all out-and then you leave it in! 😂 If that was all intentional, bravo to you 👏🏼👏🏼 that’s funny stuff, my friend! And again, goes back to what I was saying about how much I appreciate your sense of humor and editing!) Love to hear you’re coming back more full-time to KZread. I hear you when you say you don’t want to put any hard deadlines on any videos in order to keep it an enjoyable process. I edit the videos for our friend’s KZread channel along with my husband and we all had to loosen the reigns a little bit as we learned too how we would rather keep it enjoyable than a chore Anyway, loved seeing the first pregnancy video and looking forward to the rest of your tv series ☺️

  • @nourishedheiress
    @nourishedheiress Жыл бұрын

    you seriously seem so much happier. it's so beautiful to see!

  • @cassidykowalski1869
    @cassidykowalski1869 Жыл бұрын

    Love the raw content! Pregnancy journey is very fun as I am in a similar stage in life, not yet trying but will be in the next year or so. Also the long videos make me so happy, when I saw this was half an hour I get to settle in with a snack/coffee. Your videos are not just background noise like so many others. Thank you for sharing your heart and always being authentic ❤️ Just got to the end of the video - no such thing as a Kian vlog being too long!!!

  • @natashar263
    @natashar263 Жыл бұрын

    got so happy to see a new video from you, love your authenticity so much! vlogs, chatty videos, and advice are my favorite :)

  • @Kian_Wolfgang

    @Kian_Wolfgang

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Natasha! That’s so helpful

  • @BiggyCheeseCentral
    @BiggyCheeseCentral Жыл бұрын

    The “look at my hair” song actually killed me 😂😂

  • @antonellacanale1719
    @antonellacanale1719 Жыл бұрын

    Hi kian! I've been watching your channel for over a year and I love how real and honest you are. I really want to see you thrive and see your dreams come true I also get extremely uncomfortable wherever my dad tries to haggle and I need to leave the room every time it happens

  • @anecoomans9320
    @anecoomans9320 Жыл бұрын

    I love your honest and raw vlogs and chit chats. Always enjoy your honesty and raw approach towards life and faith. ❤️

  • @Kian_Wolfgang

    @Kian_Wolfgang

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you 🤍🤍

  • @manders8484
    @manders8484 Жыл бұрын

    The more Real you are the better! I love it when people are open and honest and your content is always so interesting!

  • @candylh3440
    @candylh3440 Жыл бұрын

    So, I always have a plan with my hubby. Don’t look to excited about the car. My husband haggles and I just look at him the whole time and affirming yes. Also they will always put the pressure on. Be ok with walking away! Just saw the end!! LOL way to go guys!!

  • @Claudia_K.
    @Claudia_K. Жыл бұрын

    I love to watch cosy home vlogs, with book recommendations, honest chats, food, fitness, mindfulness etc. x

  • @kinseyjordan7327
    @kinseyjordan7327 Жыл бұрын

    i love all of your videos and how cozy they feel. but i do love watching your videos of you out and about! love seeing Hawaii in your videos ☀️🤍

  • @arianacelestepena5622
    @arianacelestepena5622 Жыл бұрын

    I feel so seen!!! 😂 I am the person who feels OVERWHELMINGLY uncomfortable when people are haggling around me. My husband and I are also in the process of purchasing a new car and I literally don’t even want to be in the room when they start discussing price. I’d rather pay for a car full price than deal with the discomfort of negotiating price😅

  • @kierstinnesbitt9984
    @kierstinnesbitt9984 Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely love watching your videos! You’re such a inspiration to me ! ❤️ Inspiriting woman of God

  • @robyn905
    @robyn905 Жыл бұрын

    That car saga and Kyle rambling way too interesting for me why did i wish you kept filming it all lol

  • @eslibravo-ulloa3238
    @eslibravo-ulloa3238 Жыл бұрын

    The ending 😂 I love your videos, I truly enjoy them 💖

  • @nancydroge7682
    @nancydroge7682 Жыл бұрын

    You are the BEST; genuine & ‘real!’ First, the poop & then your time on the road with Kyle …. I have not laughed so hard in a long time! I AM ONE OF THOSE PEOPLE who gets TOTALLY UNCOMFORTABLE WHEN MY HUSBAND STARTS HAGGLING with someone selling a car, or etc. !! Once Kyle is back in the car with you & the 2 of you are back on road, you & Kyle, unpack what happened throughout Kyle’s viewing of that first car…& I just lost it! 😂 The ending of this video was so happy which made me happy! 🚙💨Congratulations on your new used vehicle! (We only buy used vehicles.) Thank you for your powerful dose of uplift & encouragement! God is working in & through you in a mighty way! ❤️🙏🏼

  • @Bleigh1584
    @Bleigh1584 Жыл бұрын

    I love videos of you just chatting, doing things around your house, maybe showing what you are eating. I loved in the past when you would share home decor. Also Kyle and Handsome we’re so funny!

  • @Kian_Wolfgang

    @Kian_Wolfgang

    Жыл бұрын

    So excited to do a lot of home content when we move 🥰🥰

  • @debraroth2388
    @debraroth2388 Жыл бұрын

    Always love watching your videos glad Kyle found a car he liked. 😊💞

  • @heaven-leeneville3156
    @heaven-leeneville3156 Жыл бұрын

    "Praise God because He wants to break you out of that stronghold."🤣🙌🏽😅

  • @jennifermorley6487
    @jennifermorley6487 Жыл бұрын

    I can't wait to see how you decorate the "dream" home when you get there. I love your style Kian!

  • @growwithchristianah
    @growwithchristianah Жыл бұрын

    Kian you have no idea how many times I kept on checking if you’ve uploaded 😅. Finally I can soak up some good content

  • @Kian_Wolfgang

    @Kian_Wolfgang

    Жыл бұрын

    Aw thank you!! Had to wait for the sponsor approval on this one so it came in late

  • @ycquanx
    @ycquanx Жыл бұрын

    Love this, you're definitely one of my fave KZreadrs! 💕 Just a suggestion but I think you should buy a car harness for Hansy, to protect yourself and also himself 🥰💕 xxx

  • @isabellaseely6625
    @isabellaseely6625 Жыл бұрын

    Love you Kian!!💗💗

  • @Kian_Wolfgang

    @Kian_Wolfgang

    Жыл бұрын

    love you too 🥲

  • @1love1hope1faith
    @1love1hope1faith Жыл бұрын

    😂I loved how you ended this vlog! And I definitely would stay in the car as well! 😂

  • @KAYUnwaveringInTruth
    @KAYUnwaveringInTruth Жыл бұрын

    Yaaayaaa im glad the car shopping was a great outcome

  • @MoTheCrown
    @MoTheCrown Жыл бұрын

    Loved this ❤️

  • @butterfly-kb4cn
    @butterfly-kb4cn Жыл бұрын

    Kyle and Kian I am the same way. I am both uncomfortable to haggle and be around my husband doing it. I walk away if he is doing it. If I had to I guess I would but he is definitely better at it than me.

  • @megganjeffers4414
    @megganjeffers4414 Жыл бұрын

    I am with you Kian, my husband is big into haggling and I don't want to be around when he does it, it can be so embarrassing at times.

  • @workofivory
    @workofivory Жыл бұрын

    There’s always a bit of discomfort with haggling but it’s also kinda awesome when you walk away with your asking price haha. I agree with Kyle on this but for me it’s thinking the worst thing they could say is no so I always feel like it doesn’t hurt to negotiate! Congrats on your guys’ car!

  • @jennifermorley6487
    @jennifermorley6487 Жыл бұрын

    I get very uncomfortable when the haggling takes place. I always leave during that point of the conversation. I am totally with you Kian!

  • @hannahann6219
    @hannahann6219 Жыл бұрын

    Love it when you are super real 😂 very relatable. Right after I gave birth to my son my family came to stay with us for a while and my husband and I were playing some board games with my my sister and her boyfriend and I started laughing and fully peed my pants in front of everyone. It was the funniest thing and everyone laughed so hard😂😂😭

  • @Kian_Wolfgang

    @Kian_Wolfgang

    Жыл бұрын

    I love a good pee the pants story 😂

  • @FairlightChristianna1Cor318
    @FairlightChristianna1Cor318 Жыл бұрын

    Loved Kyle goofing off about his hair and the dog! 😅

  • @krisannette84
    @krisannette84 Жыл бұрын

    I Vote no Poop details pls! Especially if I’m eating while watching your video 😅🤣 but I’ll still watch your videos no matter what you decide to share lol

  • @aineraffertyart
    @aineraffertyart Жыл бұрын

    Kians videos just feel like catch ups with your bestie 🥹 love to see Jesus working in your life! ❤

  • @cassidylouise
    @cassidylouise Жыл бұрын

    the music at the end had me dead lololol

  • @KizNic
    @KizNic Жыл бұрын

    I get uncomfortable when my father haggles and points out flaws! Just the other day we were in a garden shop and boom off he went!... I slowly drifted off to check out plant pots and fertilizer 😅 The plant pots were very cute!

  • @syrenatorres4463
    @syrenatorres4463 Жыл бұрын

    Video recommendations: Blogs, I love blogs! Like going to a coffee shop, adventures ect 🫶🏼

  • @cherirossouw8066
    @cherirossouw8066 Жыл бұрын

    When wil the series start? So excited because I love your videos

  • @SL-xw4sf

    @SL-xw4sf

    Жыл бұрын

    It already started in the last video lol

  • @CarolenGrayToday
    @CarolenGrayToday Жыл бұрын

    Your husband reminds me of a younger version of my hubby (whos a GREAT man so its a compliment!) and you remind me of me, with the uncomfortable feelings in haggling/confrontation. Over the years, with lots of biblical counseling, Ive learned that im not in charge of anyone else's feelings.(Codependent No More by Melanie Beatty and Boundaries by Cloud and Townsend are two phenomenal books that go hand in hand) In the instance of a haggling situation, if each person feels that they are leaving something on the table once a number is agreed upon, then it's a fair deal. Ive also learned that Im always willing to walk away if someone doesn't meet what Ive deemed something worth and what Im willing to pay. You never know what God has in store for you and trusting that there's something better has been a big lesson in trust for me (repeatedly) Im definitely not perfect in high pressure situations but Im getting better with practice and you will too! 🙂

  • @bygrace3113
    @bygrace3113 Жыл бұрын

    I saw the Willis family TV shows in the UK and then later the saddness of the children talking about the abuse they suffered at the hands of their now imprisoned father. I always wondered how they're doing and how their mother is. No potty talk please 🙈. Also, how I am is I like to keep things quiet, like being pregnant until at least 12 weeks into it, that's just me, less pressure.

  • @kiarabethune
    @kiarabethune Жыл бұрын

    Kyle’s trade explanation makes so much sense lol

  • @Jjjjjj-to6wd
    @Jjjjjj-to6wd Жыл бұрын

    Request for future videos: comfy Bible reading /stydying/ Bible journaling videos. Having time with the Lord without any hurry just meditating in the Word. some teachings on biblical womanhood. Anything Christian living related has been my favorite on this channel.

  • @elizabethwilliams3397
    @elizabethwilliams3397 Жыл бұрын

    Faith videos? What are you reading in your Bible? Day in the life..routines? Foods you eat? Anything really lol

  • @Katesbrightside
    @Katesbrightside Жыл бұрын

    yes i get so uncomfortable around people haggling. In bali I just left my boyfriend to it all of the time

  • @tiegz9770
    @tiegz9770 Жыл бұрын

    I think Handsome was loving Kyle's hair😂

  • @catlynnfrazier9282
    @catlynnfrazier9282 Жыл бұрын

    I’m uncomfortable in almost any checkout situation in general, unless I’m paying. Even if I’m with my mom and she’s buying groceries, I have the strong desire to get away during the checkout process. I didn’t grow up in poverty and never had a significant “I can’t pay for this” situation, so it’s always confused me that I’m this way

  • @AmazonMoss

    @AmazonMoss

    Жыл бұрын

    Ýytù

  • @mariakristina5526
    @mariakristina5526 Жыл бұрын

    I a 100% hate witnessing haggling, so I feel you Kian😅

  • @michala8239
    @michala8239 Жыл бұрын

    I definitely get uncomfortable around negotiations

  • @briggyjudith
    @briggyjudith Жыл бұрын

    "I pooped my pants" oh Kian you have never been more relatable to me!!

  • @miaroman9320
    @miaroman9320 Жыл бұрын

    To answer Kyle’s question, I’d be absolutely uncomfortable. I cannot negotiate haha

  • @elizabethshaklee8450
    @elizabethshaklee8450 Жыл бұрын

    My husband is a pro at haggling, and yet I still cannot stand to be near when it’s happening. I get so uncomfortable and start making the most odd faces so I have to go walk away and pretend to be busy

  • @chichielem1843
    @chichielem1843 Жыл бұрын

    The ending though 🤣🤣🤣

  • @HannahEmily1999
    @HannahEmily1999 Жыл бұрын

    I want to leave when my husband haggles haha he doesn’t take me now when he knows he plans on doing it 😂

  • @KimlovesOT
    @KimlovesOT Жыл бұрын

    I am completely uncomfortable when someone around me is haggling and I leave! 😂

  • @Kian_Wolfgang

    @Kian_Wolfgang

    Жыл бұрын

    Lol I’m glad I’m not alone in this 😂

  • @NowBloom
    @NowBloom Жыл бұрын

    Yes me - uncomfortable when my husband negotiates, I can’t be there at all lol 😂

  • @samanthagiron5520
    @samanthagiron5520 Жыл бұрын

    the ending 😂

  • @hannahmcclure9856
    @hannahmcclure9856 Жыл бұрын

    Habitat for Humanity has great furniture deals! Also, your vlogs are amazing. Hope you're doing well!

  • @kylewolfgang
    @kylewolfgang Жыл бұрын

    Insert *habitat for humanity* for "humane society" 💀😂😭

  • @ItsEverythingEuodia
    @ItsEverythingEuodia Жыл бұрын

    “Stop trying to seduce them.” 🤣🤣🤣 you guys crack me up

  • @hopevitale8050
    @hopevitale8050 Жыл бұрын

    My husband is the car person in our relationship and I find haggling SO cringe I do need to walk away 😂

  • @marinaharris5093
    @marinaharris5093 Жыл бұрын

    Yes 100% leave when negotiating happens

  • @kaitlynianni5027
    @kaitlynianni5027 Жыл бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @natashaettema39
    @natashaettema39 Жыл бұрын

    you should read Until Heaven Parts Us by Alyssa Patterson. 10/10 recommend it’s amazing

  • @charityalyse1514
    @charityalyse1514 Жыл бұрын

    Hi Kian! Not sure if you’ll see this but if you’re looking for a good YA fiction rec, I’d love to recommend Other Side of the Tracks! It’s a modern Romeo and Juliet retelling with mystery and romance! It releases with Simon and Schuster (a big 5 publisher) on November 22! I actually wrote it lol and would love to send you an early copy! ❤

  • @amygiommetti1661
    @amygiommetti1661 Жыл бұрын

    I hate when my hubby haggles as well

  • @Corinthians--ek4kt
    @Corinthians--ek4kt Жыл бұрын

    I Love you Guys Kian, But I Love your Love for CHRIST most.❤

  • @gamewarden2813
    @gamewarden2813 Жыл бұрын

    Just a theory, the last epsiode you will reveal your pregnant or you decide your will adopt a baby first or something , just a theory

  • @Kaya084
    @Kaya084 Жыл бұрын

    My husband and I have always felt comfortable talking about potty stuff. My husband has pooped his pants a few times in the past few years. One time, he woke me up in the middle of the night to tell me he pooped his pants. Lol.

  • @kaessey
    @kaessey Жыл бұрын

    I also am very uncomfortable in haggling situations lol

  • @laurelwemyss1266
    @laurelwemyss1266 Жыл бұрын

    🤚 I get so awkward when my Fiancé starts to haggle. I will wait in the car to avoid 🙃

  • @danaevs2232
    @danaevs2232 Жыл бұрын

    You should check out Alive & Free consulting / counseling. They are a Christian couple located in Hawaii! They also have a KZread channel with great content

  • @carlajoyswan
    @carlajoyswan Жыл бұрын

    yesss its soooo uncomfortable!!!

  • @Kian_Wolfgang

    @Kian_Wolfgang

    Жыл бұрын

    lol for real!! 🤣

  • @carlajoyswan

    @carlajoyswan

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Kian_Wolfgang our husband's have to give us some lessons😂💖

  • @belyndareidda2276
    @belyndareidda2276 Жыл бұрын

    If you are looking for a great fiction series Try the green rider series by Kristin britain. Once you start you won't want to put it down.

  • @haleybrewer7729
    @haleybrewer7729 Жыл бұрын

    I was uncomfortable when my dad was negotiating the price down on my car when I was buying it

  • @kelseyconner9370
    @kelseyconner9370 Жыл бұрын

    I’m offended you think you would need to put a trigger warning 😂 for real, you are the only KZreadr I follow for the sole fact that you are actually real. More poop talks, pls.

  • @suzique6924
    @suzique6924 Жыл бұрын

    My husband and I both are uncomfortable making deals we end up paying full price haha

  • @chiaravisconti9619
    @chiaravisconti9619 Жыл бұрын

    Please do warn to skip ahead and put a trigger warning for potty talk!!

  • @ashleyjaylene6278
    @ashleyjaylene6278 Жыл бұрын

    haha say goodbye to my little friend. lost it... random.

  • @milliemay-rose5008
    @milliemay-rose5008 Жыл бұрын

    🌿

  • @Kian_Wolfgang

    @Kian_Wolfgang

    Жыл бұрын

    🌻

  • @genasseeceline
    @genasseeceline Жыл бұрын

    Haha yes I don’t care about potty talk. There’s not really such thing as TMI for me 😂 Maybe a warning before hand for people who do care

  • @lonikruse319
    @lonikruse319 Жыл бұрын

    I like when u r real & transparent. I don’t mind potty talk cuz God created us to poop or pee during the day.

  • @samanthayoung4956
    @samanthayoung4956 Жыл бұрын

    I 2000% get negotiation embarrassment 😅

  • @carissavalov1888
    @carissavalov1888 Жыл бұрын

    I thought it was heckling?

  • @jerusalem4492

    @jerusalem4492

    Жыл бұрын

    Heckling is when someone interrupts a speaker or event

  • @kita3256
    @kita3256 Жыл бұрын

    Totally off topic with your video but I would love to see you with darker hair lol I think it would suit you so so well. Like a deep warm brown. 😊

  • @Kian_Wolfgang

    @Kian_Wolfgang

    Жыл бұрын

    I have had dark hair before in highschool. If I did it again it would probably fade really fast with the sun and salt water 🙃

  • @annah3050
    @annah3050 Жыл бұрын

    I poop my pants all the time I think it’s hilarious we wanna know

  • @ashleyjaylene6278
    @ashleyjaylene6278 Жыл бұрын

    Yes... woman need negotiation training. I feel like negotiation is dude language of respect.

  • @jerusalem4492
    @jerusalem4492 Жыл бұрын

    Do not want to know the potty talk lol

  • @nivieaa4467
    @nivieaa4467 Жыл бұрын

    Idc about accidents. They happen! talking about ac accidents makes people less nervous about their own. I can't stand when people make potty jokes ABOUT ME to my face. Tbh it's like people have no decency!

  • @JennyZetterstrom
    @JennyZetterstrom Жыл бұрын

    Yes i wanna know you peed your pants and this is so random but if you ever get Handsome a sister, you should call her Precious. Just name your dogs adjectives lol

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