My husband was a top 10 guy because he was loyal, kind, and devoted. He was trusted, loved, and admired. He was the greatest person in my life. He died 3 years ago and I will miss him forever.

@Elegan_te

3 жыл бұрын

💕

@gretchenburton7184

3 жыл бұрын

❤❤❤

@mino3d1

3 жыл бұрын

😔

@hlobisileskincare3837

3 жыл бұрын

So sorry for your loss💔 but you are blessed to have experienced a love that most of us only hope for❤️🙏🏻

@lydiapicano8806

3 жыл бұрын

He sounds like he was a diamond. It sounds like you had a great relationship together God bless you both.

My father taught me long ago to make my own money in order be free from ever feeling stuck in a toxic marriage out of fear of losing security....So, I did just that --now I have the most amazing husband...

1. Location,location.location 2. Don't be easy to give 3. Recognize the trade-off. share your values with your partner 4. Let go desperate, dont be needy 5. Create life, be joyful 6. Never give more than a man 7. Dont too many questions to a man That is me, John. Thank you of your guidance about relationship with top ten man in the world.

@lajensi4998

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks

@afshah.7972

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@EdelweisSusie

4 ай бұрын

What the heck does No.7 mean?????

I asked a guy that I was dating which kind of ground cover would work best in my garden. He immediately got on his cell phone and looked up 3 types of ground cover and sent that to me. That is meetting my small need. I let him know how much I appreciated his time and effort.

money makes a man attractive but integrity is gold.

@clybilmwamba9739

7 жыл бұрын

dbedazzling1 😂😂😂very true😂

@paulagamber3088

7 жыл бұрын

dbedazzling1 🐳🐉🐉

@axalissuintoyr4107

7 жыл бұрын

+DateTop10Men I have spent months studying get a date and found a fantastic resource at Shawthing Dating Advice (google it if you are interested)

@RAMB0VI

6 жыл бұрын

Very untrue. If a rich man said the truth to women, he would not get any action.

@lisamcguire7778

6 жыл бұрын

LoveIsNotReal I came to this video Due To AUTOPLAY. But I read some comments including yours and thought, Oh! "God Hath Spoken!" (Please Return to your Mountain top on Mt. Olympus). You're just a bitter person. I see all kinds of comfortable couples out and about, old, well to do, moderate income, or not so rich, homely and handsome. Love is REAL!

I love that men are actually pushing women to level up and get a game changer

@ibrahimhamada5910

2 жыл бұрын

Greetings Gigi from Egypt 🇪🇬

@videoettaceo8900

4 ай бұрын

Hilarious. Menz have stolen from us for years. But you tell your story.

To make the most of a love interest, let the man lead. Allow the man to initially initiate contact and reciprocate by behaving like a lady. Be enthusiastic but not over eager. Keep your calendar open for other suitors and do not put all your eggs in one basket until mutual exclusivuty is established. It's all about Self Respect 💕

@gonza8824

3 жыл бұрын

bella not all men like to lead.....or passive women...

Money doesn’t make you laugh when you’re feeling down and doesn’t give you a warm hug when you feel all alone.

@laurawilson2145

3 жыл бұрын

My mother used to say that it was better to cry in the back seat of a Rolls Royce than to laugh in a bus. Maybe she was right for her times but I'm a hopeless romantic. What time does the next bux come by? Lol.

@user-vk5kn9ox8k

3 жыл бұрын

Yes it does, you can pay for a comedian, if you are cold at night, buy electric blankets. Problem solved.

@TheWilDOn31

3 жыл бұрын

Poverty doesn't either ...

@feline_star

3 жыл бұрын

@@user-vk5kn9ox8k 😂😂😂, well that’s a way to go about it

@user-vk5kn9ox8k

3 жыл бұрын

@@feline_star 😂😂

I love men with high vibrations. The lower the Energy field the more egocentric they are..

@rangrew7868

2 жыл бұрын

How do you feel vibrations of a guy?

I only think the man that loves you and gives you the attention you need without being selfish is a top man who can make you successful

i'm tired of all the rules. i just want to be able to be my natural self and that be ok for somebody. otherwise, just forget it.

@julian19741974

6 жыл бұрын

Your best can improve though, you can evolve to become a much better man, you are not same at ages 30, 40 or 50, you grow as a man.

@pariyaava5823

6 жыл бұрын

I agree with u, I want to be myself instead of acting someone else

@Just.The.Next.Step.

6 жыл бұрын

the Universe is based upon principles that are irrevocable, immutable. So to think that we can manifest anything in the Universe without adhering to these spiritual/moral laws is to avoid rationality. When we recognize that our meaning for life is to grow, to transcend, to overcome... we will see that we are NOT the same version of ourselves which we were so many years ago... how can we demand a man accept just any version? We certainly want a good version of a man. Hence why we click on this video. In harmony, healing

@bberwald123

5 жыл бұрын

THE BEST ADVICE! And a corollary of "Be yourself, everybody else is taken."

@Glad2BGolden

5 жыл бұрын

saycheeze4mi Men want a feminine attractive women who are put together. Do what it takes to get what you want. You are just being lazy. It’s beneficial to put time into yourself.

A filty rich man can't promise you happiness in a relationship. Financially stable with good values in man is most important.

@fredjohnson5458

3 жыл бұрын

Hello siti

When a man uses criticism or sarcasm to point out my flaws, that is an instant turn-off, and a red flag that he has a narcissistic streak. Also saying yes to a guy I'm not attracted to usually ends badly. That's how I ended up with my ex-husband. Actually it was my mom who pressured me to commit to him. Isn't there just a nice man who can forgive my needy moments, and who likes closeness and affection? All this strategy and GAME gives me a headache. And most men are so profoundly selfish anyway. Why bother.

@tenaciousone3646

3 жыл бұрын

Amen.

@Alfakkin

3 жыл бұрын

He is certainly not a gentleman...we love gentlemen and gentleness 😉

@christinamckinney2370

3 жыл бұрын

He may also have severe low self esteem and he’s projecting his fear of imperfection.

@marlenecalderon5830

3 жыл бұрын

That is THE RED FLAG..... RUN!

@bonniel4325

3 жыл бұрын

@@christinamckinney2370 I agree, pushing someone else down because you are insecure is the psychological make up of a bully/narcissist.

Talking about interviews and dating, during a job interview I was once asked what my partner did for a living. As a woman, I felt that was rather intrusive, and completely irrelevant. I was single at the time, but I said with a smile "oh, he just messes around on his yacht, and plays golf, we don't actually need the money from this job, but he felt it might be nice if I had a hobby." We all laughed, because I was clearly joking...but seriously? WTF? 😂 Side note: I got the job 🙄

@StaceyBing

4 жыл бұрын

@ayokilaza not really, I don't know why they asked if I'm honest.

@Sandra-bx6yy

3 жыл бұрын

@@StaceyBing I am wondering if the interviewer was"sussing you out" in terms of your availability and happiness in your relationship. Maybe he wanted to see if he had a chance with you..or to test your integrity. Anyway, sounds like you passed with flying colours... and thank goodness our changing society means that those sorts of inappropriate attitudes/behaviours are being called out and exposed... meaning that those who say them are having to re think their reasons for doing so! I think it's great to have a public platform to share and discuss our experiences.. and I think that that is the key to knowing if a behaviour is appropriate or not.. if it doesn't feel right,it probably isn't.

@Sandra-bx6yy

3 жыл бұрын

@@StaceyBing 🤣🤣 Yes, indeed! Oh well, that's amateur psychology for you!😁😁 Nice chatting with you, anyway... have a wonderful day!🌞🌞

John is really a pro-woman man. What a quality! Respect

@PriyankaBhardwaj1

7 жыл бұрын

I meant Adrian. Though John is also great!

@gaizkamoreira7316

5 жыл бұрын

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@alaalfa8839

3 жыл бұрын

Some men have feminine and masculine characteristics.... like the tenor singing a romantic song doing romantic gestures butt you see in his face he understands what the song is about, he understands the harmony Its like having empathy for people not just for one gender but both.artistry, technical stuff or the passion of it.... Maybe even athletes may have feminine and masculine who knows...For example I like German tenor Patrick Grahl and even the fact he doesnt use social media...but he sees the kind of person who isn't just good looking but very calm, intelligent and entertaining in same time...and doesnt make himself look like he is better than everybody else..He has only8 followers at youtube..which is good for him, His success isnt based on social media success except his website... Maybe even women may take inspiration from him..to be more nice, feminine, natural. His voice is charming and gentle. It seems like if they have this gentle feminine characteristics along with masculinity...they have great intuition for nice things and music and art...And maybe such people get good behavior from other colleagues.

@Katherine-mo8fl

3 жыл бұрын

Correction: FEMININE woman!

@sirennem.6890

3 жыл бұрын

pay him a dinner, dont wait Alpha men, men appreciate them a lot.

My mom always say never give yourself to anybody respect yourself and the body unless being married a guy will be serious with you and keep running after you 🇸🇽🇺🇸

I've met few millionaires and unfortunately they were the most boring people and cheapest people. I run away from some of them as fast as I could.

@cocogomez2278

6 жыл бұрын

Petit White - and cheapest men I've dated

@fishstickbio594

3 жыл бұрын

They are afraid that people likes them for their money ? They live with a lot of anxiety 😂.

@TheDriftwoodlover

3 жыл бұрын

I work for a multi- millionaire and he is nasty, insulting and cheap once you work for him. Can’t imagine living with a man like that. I’ll stay alone.

@nicoletakasamas9201

3 жыл бұрын

@@TheDriftwoodlover and he is single?

@faceintree

3 жыл бұрын

This is true. So have I and they bored me.... blah personalities.

I believe that technology has destroyed the dating game. A lot of men, and women feel they have a lot of choices now. If your not giving it up, the one down the street will. Men are not courting women anymore, and its really hard for black women in my opinion, unless you are dating outside of your race. These are just my opinions, from my own experiences.

@TheFleurChic

8 жыл бұрын

Yes it's hard for black women. Well I'm muslim so it's quite easier because men are still courting women; we can have an arranged marriage (which is not forced, by the way. It's like my friend telling me: "I know this man, you guys should meet" then I choose if I want to meet him or not; then we meet with our families and talk and get to know each other but we don't "date", we don't touch and stuff lool) . But yeah I agree it"s more difficult! Why is it different when you get to know someone from outside your race ???

@TheLovely990

8 жыл бұрын

A lot of times the different races or cultures clash, because of a value system, or because of racism. I've dated outside my race, but I also made sure I was not an experiment. I use to work with a young lady from India, and she never dated her husband, they just got married at sometime.

@TheFleurChic

8 жыл бұрын

Miss V Ohhhh I see, it makes sense. I guess it's different for us muslims because even though we come from all over the world - like Indonesia which is home to the biggest muslim population, pakistan, west africa, india, egypt,etc - we share the same values (belief in God, His prophets like Jesus, importance of family, honouring all humanity wether black or white, etc) so we don't care about race - some do - so there is no races clash because well we're just muslims with different skin colours and different treasures (cultures). For example, yes Muhammad Ali or Malcom X were black but they were muslims so the difference is just the surface, it adds to the beauty of the individual, and deep inside we're the same, lol that's how we think ! I'm black too by the way, and I don't know why but a lot of men find us intimidating lool, I wonder why?? maybe the media... Oh that's cute! Yes that's what we do, we only 'date' after we get married and it's awesome, the love keeps growing :). ps: I apologize, english is my 3rd language, I mostly speak french :D

@YolandaBriggs401

7 жыл бұрын

remove the sex and just get alot of friends. i sometime search dating sites and look at thw guys hobby. if its something i never tried i send him a general message and eventually i ask him about the hobby. you learn new things and you gain a friend. take the sex out of dating for now. but try and really get to know people. be open to what they have to offer but if its not something you need move on.

@TheLovely990

7 жыл бұрын

Thefleurchic - Values are so important, but some people just don't have any.

Never been attracted to a mans financial status. Always been attracted to looks and character and his level of interest in me, and I believe that's most women. I do not believe most women view men through a lens of "How spoiled will my children be?" They want LOVE.

@reginasemenenko148

4 жыл бұрын

100% AMBER! I've never been attracted by money because a lot of the men who have it are UNFAITHFUL and have bad character! I make a little more money than my husband and we have most of our needs met and several of our wants. We cannot go on a vacation every year, but that's OK!

@beetabug1109

4 жыл бұрын

There were two men with money during my life who were attracted me. I did not like them. I think it's kind of difficult to find a mate that has all the of attributes one is looking for. I did have the love of my life. He was absolutely wonderful. He passed away a few years ago. He was not rich as far as this world goes, but he worked hard and made a good living. We got along very well. We both treated each other with respect.

@weekend1rocks

3 жыл бұрын

Personally I feel the most loved when a man is willing and able to provide for me. I also believe a man's desire to provide for his family can say a lot about his character and level of interest. Also statistically men are more likely to be unfaithful when they make less money than their wife. To each their own though.

@tanaicannon5843

3 жыл бұрын

I was thinking these exact thing whilst reading these comments.....

@berryyrreb1946

3 жыл бұрын

I guess in terms of money they were talking about financial security, or maybe its not about financial security, coz women do earn alot nowadays, but about how a women would not really prefer a broke guy as a partner.

¨Ëxcept if he´s broke.¨ I don´t need a man to provide $ for me. I also don´t need a man who expectst me to provide for him!

@reginasemenenko148

4 жыл бұрын

100%!

@Sheyviolet

3 жыл бұрын

Been there, done that and ended up so angry at both him and myself it was not good.

@videoettaceo8900

4 ай бұрын

Exactly!

I love that you say that a woman needs a sense of security to know that she can be all parts of herself without some guy taking it personally. YES!!!

We (me) ask men lots of questions on dates, because we are judging you 😂 If we keep asking lots of questions it means we like you, and you've passed all the previous questions (we're just waiting for you to f**k up). If we stop asking questions and sit back, you're either definitely in, or you've definitely failed. It IS an interview. The question we're trying to find the answer to in the interview is "my life is wonderful, can you make it better?" (I'm clearly single 😂)

@miranda6738

3 жыл бұрын

Totally agree

Free advice: Create situations to allow him to prove himself to you and finally really see if your love interest deserves to come into your castle. Example: mention that you have car problems, see what he’s willing to do for you jus to come and help you. If he’s not willing to be your hero, just let him go. It’s a real moment of truth but only if you are willing to see the reality.

@AuroraNatureSounds

2 жыл бұрын

Excellent advice Carmen! :) How do you do this if a relationship begins to be a Long Distance one?

@CarmenGomez-pc3fz

2 жыл бұрын

@@AuroraNatureSounds Easy, mention to him that you’re going through some financial problems. Very casually, nothing deep. If he asks if there’s anything he can do to help, and he actually sends you the money then he’s your man. Don’t take advantage by asking him for an exorbitant amount of money, maybe one month’s rent, and no more. The last thing you want to do is to damage a person who might care a great deal for you. And by all means, do pay him back!

@AuroraNatureSounds

2 жыл бұрын

@@CarmenGomez-pc3fz thank you Carmen :) maybe even if he offers is already good enough. Thank you🌺🤗

@CarmenGomez-pc3fz

2 жыл бұрын

@@AuroraNatureSounds Nope, not good enough! You’re settling if you think that’s good enough. And don’t feel bad for using money as a revealing factor of his true feelings, because: 1- You will return his money 2- It is the only way he can play your hero in a long distance relationship. A man who cares for you wants to be your hero, remember that. If he doesn’t care, he’ll pretend he can’t hear you and you’ll never hear from him again. BUT, you’ll never wander again whether he likes you or not, you will know for sure. All you have to do is be brave enough to find out. Good luck🙋🏻‍♀️

@AnimalSpirit777

6 ай бұрын

So true! I had car troubles and told the guy i had been talking to, he basically laughed and said good luck with that, UHHHM ok... these dusties 🤢

I used to be the type of woman that would say I don't care about money and I ended up maintaining and paying for all my boyfriends needs and bills. Now pay attention, there is a difference of being broke because he is happy with a simple life or he is going through a season of losing his job vs being broke because he is lazy

@Gradinaeconomicapespatiimicicu

2 жыл бұрын

I think John Gray would say if you pay for him his testosterone goes down and ends up leaving you. Just seems unfair. Keep it equal, no?

When a person having self confident self esteem and having a high standard you dont feel needy and always use the head 🇸🇽🇺🇸

Thats true regarding when a men chooses to work hard. When my husband I met and fell in love he didn't even have a job then it was the early 90s and there wasn't any available but a couple years later during our engagement he found a job in construction and from there I helped him get his licenses and he became an engineer. My husband worked hard to give us a good life together but he worked so much he worked 80 hours a week he barely made any time for his family and for us as a couple there was a huge price ,he past at 54 He didn't start that way. It's nice to know that a man can take care of himself and willing to work but shouldn't work so little, that he makes his family suffer and he shouldn't work so much that he makes his family suffer. It's important to find the balance .

@esotericsolitaire

3 жыл бұрын

I guess people can work themselves to death when there is no relaxation balance. Fifty-four is young. May you heal and enjoy good memories.

Wow, that is what my father did to mother, persist in courtship and caring until she believed he was serious. She really needed security. And he never made much money, but was economic and responsible. I wish i could have got to know him better.

So funny listening two men talking about what women should do (in a nice way). Also funny, that James and John seem to be talking about two different things. James keeps reverting back to money, and John keeps trying to point out that it's not about that. There's a trade off. If you get a millionaire, there's a million times he won't be there. That's the trade off.

@Victoriaward

3 жыл бұрын

Great comment

@Lexi_Con

3 жыл бұрын

Wealthy men are more likely to cheat. Not saying they ALL do, but there will be plenty of opportunities. John was correct in saying people let it go to their heads. Big egos contribute to controlling behavior (or perhaps the opposite, apathetic). Idk which is worse. Don't even get me started about narcissism!

@selectiveoutrage6617

3 жыл бұрын

@@bronze2956 It's important to find out a guy's family background when you date him. Hunter Biden is a perfect example of the spoiled rich kid who failed at everything, was a drug addict who only got attention because people wanted political favors from his narcissistic father who used him as the bag man for bribes from foreign countries. His sister is equally fucked up.

@jsa3458

3 жыл бұрын

Perfect then 👌

@reginapolo3357

3 жыл бұрын

@@bronze2956 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣you are so on spot!!!!

Here's my tip...look for a person that makes you laugh! And do it in Marin County, California on a bicycle 🤗 You can thank me later 😍

@pinkflamingo8088

3 жыл бұрын

So agree with MAKES YOU LAUGH.

@Dreamer_-zn4qv

3 жыл бұрын

✍️ search bike riding events at Marin County, California. ✍️

@svitanok3891

3 жыл бұрын

too simple, have to study a person for a long time (without sex) before he proposes, narcissists can make a woman laugh very easy

@janiqu3L

3 жыл бұрын

I wish I could. That would work!

@debbiedebbie9473

3 жыл бұрын

@@svitanok3891 You're very correct. Some really funny people are actually narcissists and cruel, abusive.

NEVER seek a wealthy man. Seek a man with character and integrity! That man will go the distance. If he is arrogant and entitled, it's a major turnoff. Of course, there are also some women who have this personality type because of their beauty. I didn't have sex until I got married and he knew that I was NEVER going to be easy. I am not stunningly beautiful, but my Mother always raised us to NEVER be an easy woman because most men will never appreciate that type of woman. She also taught us that it's important to like yourself and to know what you want. Also, who in the world wants to get a STD?!

@romainecalm1108

4 жыл бұрын

Having worked in an ob/gyn office I think this is solid advice! Learning about Nagalase testing for total viral load makes me believe that today’s STD testing is far from comprehensive. So many things are passed through saliva as well...Waiting until marriage may not be in vogue but the science makes me think it could make a come back.

@4gma59

3 жыл бұрын

Same here. My mother told me the same, and she was right. I'm 60 and married a man who is very successful -- thanks to his father's wisdom (he and his father started a banking and financial services business long ago). He was tired of women throwing themselves at him, and men who are successful are always on the lookout and suspicious. I never slept with him until we married and I have no regrets. Neither does he.

@4gma59

3 жыл бұрын

@@romainecalm1108 : I agree.

@artisticagi

3 жыл бұрын

4gma59 how long did you have to wait until you were married

@4gma59

3 жыл бұрын

@@artisticagi : I was 33; He was 38. We dated for a year. Engaged for 6 months. Had a small family-only ceremony. And it wasn't easy waiting. But, as I said, I'm glad I did. I grew up with very little, and he never wanted for anything. I had (have) a very strong sense of self, was independent, and I remember hating it when he gave me gifts. I wasn't used to it. He was always bringing me little things, and finally I just told him: "Listen. I know you mean well, but this makes me very uncomfortable and it makes me feel obligated. So please -- hold off with the gift-giving until you know me better. I know you want a woman who likes you for you, and not the things you give her. So please wait with all this. I would really appreciate it." He ''got it." He wasn't offended, and everything went well after that. Just thought I'd share that with you. Don't know why. LOL

Entrepreneurs and doctors, lawyers...it's true. They are usually workaholics. You will have lots of houses, cars and jewelry...but I want to spend time with a companion, a best friend. That means more to me, especially in my 50s.

@pinkflamingo8088

3 жыл бұрын

very true..workaholics are the worst

@LisaGemini

3 жыл бұрын

@@pinkflamingo8088 Sounds like you were married/partnered with at least one. I was married to two of them! So I wasn't always tops on the priority list.

How a man treats you his personality and sense of humour is important, money is nothing more than a bonus

What a great video! Thank you James and the very insightful John Gray. I think here "Top 10 men" means "men who are leaders in their own field." All the tips are very helpful, they're: 1. Location location location. Be where "Top 10 Men" are. 2. Don't be easy to get. Follow the truth in your heart. Go slow, let him earn your response. 3. Be clear what your values are (in your mind, at least.) 4. Don't be needy. Let go of desperation. Continue to create a series of positive dating experiences. 5. Find happiness from inside. Joyful people are attractive people. Create a life that is full and rich. when he's talking, say sincerely "Wow that makes sense." "Good idea!" "You're right!" Make the guy thinks the good idea is his. 6. Never ever give a man more than he gives to you, because you will appreciate him less. Men bond through doing, women bond through receiving. Men want to earn it. 7. Dating advice: talk more than the man. Remember it's NOT an interview, it's a conversation! Stimulate and engage.

@fitandbeautiful9173

7 жыл бұрын

Journey Thank you for this! it saves me so much time.

I'm 38 and just a couple years ago I started accepting that no one is responsible for my happiness and personally it helps me to stop being upset in most situations. and when i AM still upset I let my partner know straight forward that talking about it IS going to help me talk about it so i can move on. But for the most part, John Greys concept of "you are only responsible for your own happiness" has taken a lot of me putting blame on the other person (of course if they name-call, i do not tolerate that and i'm very quick and firm to say it's NOT OK to go that far in an argument) LOL

@Lisa_M_V

6 жыл бұрын

Alicia Mapp yes the 90/10 rule. 90% of your happiness should come from you and only 10% from a man

@laurawilson2145

3 жыл бұрын

@Sophie I became spiritual when I discovered that God was female.

@watchmanonthewall14

2 жыл бұрын

@@laurawilson2145 God is Spirit. God CREATED men and women. How did you "discover" that God is female?

@chris532008

2 жыл бұрын

make sure u re opposite has no serious mental handicapps as counseling only gets u to tolerate that which is intolerable and problems magnify with age and worsens an outcome u can t save the unsavable and if u try u will drown with them

I absolutely loved the analogy about buying the house, verses coming to visit... would make dating so much more relaxing and fun.

Integrity is number 1 along with compassion and sense of humor and well read in academic knowledge. A guy can be a construction worker whatever.

@Vexarax

3 жыл бұрын

I agree with this!! Compassion, kindness, a sense of humour, and knowledge. I don't care what job he has as long as he earns enough that he can cover his share of the bills :)

there's only one way. be a top 10 woman! Also, I appreciate ppl like John Gray who recognize different values, and doesn't disparrage ie a person who values money and success

BEST PHASES 2 USE: 1) "WOW, THAT MAKES SENSE!; 2) "GOOD IDEA!!"; 3) "YOU'RE RIGHT" (PRIMITIVE POSITIVE RESPONSE).

These rules r not set in stone. I have dated 2 millionaires for fun. I am a plain girl. I love working and these guys resented it. They were happy when my work situation was over but that made me unhappy so I just broke up with them. I don't care about anyone that much. So most important is don't put a man first

I loved this, great advice. Will be watching more and rewatching this before going on a date. Thank you

Not all women are looking for a financially successful man. My main thing in a relationship that i look for is his good heart, his soul, his love for me, kindness, compassion and family values.

This man is GENIUS...it's 2020 he wrote his book in 1992- wish i had read it then :)

19:53 "if it's easy, you won't bond"

John is great as always , and this interviewer is keeping everyone on track to get the most out of the information. Thx Guys .

this guy is brilliant, he makes sense all the way. no wonder he is in the top ten!!! great video

Great interview James, thank you very much! Many thanks to John Gray too! He's awesome!

John is the best, I have all his books! He has helped me tremendously through the years. Thank you to the Gray family!

John has brilliant energy and gives off such a positive vibe :)

@salmanesultane3482

8 жыл бұрын

Yup

I love listening to these amazing tips thank you so much,why didn't I think of this before?

I was talking to this guy and said, U right,” and he got so enthusiastic. I was confused because it wasn’t even that serious. We were joking around about something.

"What makes a long lasting relationship is sharing values"! Absolutely! Really got sick of you guys going back to 'attracting a millionaire'. I think that's more your issue. AND the video is all the way from 2014. It was a different time then.

@oscarwilliamson1264

3 жыл бұрын

Canda,you are absolutely right 🤙

Oh my gosh! Money comes and money goes. It's a man's personality that really matters. Is he treating you with respect? That's way more important. I don't care about his bank account. I want to be treated like his No. 1 priority.

@Alfakkin

3 жыл бұрын

True but I appreciate a person who is capable of taking care of his finances...be responsible with maney 👌🏻

@louiseboyd8896

3 жыл бұрын

I would be happy with a $5.00 bunch of flowers and an inexpensive meal......

@angelwings4437

3 жыл бұрын

Lisa Cunningham I agree with you...woman wants to be treated number one priority

@edith324

3 жыл бұрын

Beautiful things are not always beautiful, but beautiful people are always beautiful beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

@edith324

3 жыл бұрын

WHOO WHOO I second that no seconds

I met many millionaires as a cashier working in a grocery store!! Do they shop for their own groceries? Nope. But they do rush in and out for something quick for dinner.

@Journal2Awakening

3 жыл бұрын

4gma59 you mean you “assumed” that they were millionaires? I can’t imagine they would have shown you their bank accounts

@4gma59

3 жыл бұрын

@@Journal2Awakening : Well, I'm 60 now. I was in my 30s then, and cashiering was something I did to pay tuition back in the day. I didn't have to "assume." They were prominent in my city and their children are just as nice. Everyone here knows who they are. One would slip me two $100 bills occasionally, and say, "Here, go buy yourself a nice sweater." They dressed simply; there was nothing ''flashy'' about them; and they hated rude, unkind women. They were/are very kind, down to earth, humble, and friendly -- at least when I waited on them. Qualities someone like you would never understand, based on your comment.

@Journal2Awakening

3 жыл бұрын

Ok, my mistake....

Beautiful interviews and wonderful tips. Thank you!

I absolutely LOVED this discussion! Thank you both for sharing!

Great! Info is good and easy to follow. Both from the host and guest.

Thank you for this! John Gray, you're amazing and on point!! This is so appreciated!!😊❤

@oscarwilliamson1264

3 жыл бұрын

angel,Yeah🤙

One of the best dating videos on KZread! Thanks.

Great job James! Thanks for this! Love your videos.

Liked this video cause u did it together. Very good tips i could understand and seem easy to do.

I love this video! So many great advice.

What happened to saving intimacy for marriage? Not 6 or 7 dates...?

@SP-ig3vs

3 жыл бұрын

A video on this would be great.

Thank you John! Great & accurate information! Very helpful!

I really love this video. Very clear with a high quality expert being interviewed. Thank you!

Interesting and informative.

wow, thanks. you opened my eyes... I absolutley need a man who fulfills my emotional needs!

Wow, what great ideas, I never would have thought of them! Thanks guys!

I trained with John Gray and got a radio show based on my perspective of men. Non-judgemental, just different. No male bashing. His work is so helpful.

Men, never hesitate to put a restraining order on your female partner if you feel your health and safeties in jeopardy! Placing a permanent restraining order on my female partner was absolutely the best act of my adult lifetime and my only regret is not doing it years earlier. Men are conditioned and expected to take abuse. Men, be safe!

A top ten Man it’s not always about how much money he makes. I’m not saying ladies be happy with a man who wants nothing in life and absolutely has no potential. A top 10 man is a man who really truly cares for you he’s consistent and he treat you with kindness and dignity and respect

@mimiela2261

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely well said 👍

This video was so upbeat and refreshing! Using trickery to "ensnare' a mate is so distasteful... These tips seem more like a reminder to be organically yourself! 🦋

Amazing John I love you and Lauren and your work thank you for all the advice 😊

The more I know about men , The more I love my brazillian Mastiffs and my guns

@nofybn7794

5 жыл бұрын

Yes, my dogs.

@kelleybright3113

4 жыл бұрын

Lol love it

@VictoriaWhitlock

4 жыл бұрын

the more boys I meet, the more I love my dog

@iinlove118

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@cwest3020

3 жыл бұрын

On a serious note as someone says finding mates that didn’t experience childhood trauma and had a quality up bringing.. soo true ... very rare

As you said a woman has to have security in herself and friends to go to so she is not needy. There needs to be a balance when you are married to a millionaire. Usually the couple grows wealthy together and the wife is willing to make all the budgeting sacrifices, and work along side her man right from the start in order to become rich.

@maryokeefe5351

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, and many times the man then dumps her for a younger version after all those years.

THANK YOU JAMES! A GREAT VIDEO! VERY INTERESTING AND VERY WELL PRESENTED BY YOU. BLESSINGS.

Thanks so much for this helpful video

Wow such a great advice , eye opener

Lol this guy is much like the guy I fell in love with. He meets my needs for intimacy and I haven't a care in the world that he isn't made of money right now, because intelligence and a motivating supportive system can change that quickly! Here's a hint: If sex feels like a chore, it's not the relationship for you.

Oh my God. your channel is a TREASURE to me. I feel so lucky for finding it today! I am grateful to you !!

James Swanwick, you are such a great interviewer! Thank you for asking the perfect questions!

The key is getting to know the guy. Pick a quality guy. You can play hard to get, and he could be a turd who will work to get you but then forget you once the chase is over.

Lol it so funny what he said. “In the US dating is definitely like a job interview “ you are so right, I made the same reproach as my dating experience which I found weird and superficial

Fab interviewer in extracting key areas and ensuring the tips were clear - well done!

you are a great moderator! truly gifted at extracting the most interesting pieces of information

WOW! THIS IS MY VERY FIRST time EVER to leave a comment in the 3 yrs of studying this subject on "dating/ how to attract what you want" etc. THIS IS SO good! EXCELLENT MATERIAL! So good that I had to post! In this short hour you two have managed to sum up what EVERY expert makes EVERYONE pay LARGE amounts of money for. I am grateful for this video post and for the generous information you put together Here. Thank you both kindly for taking the time. Awesome stuff! Really just WOW! keep at it ;)

I love his honesty! That is generosity! That is true wealth!

@patriciacole8773

3 жыл бұрын

I love Truth.

Very good interview. Interviewer did an excellent job of guiding and summarizing

Glad you mentioned the Languages- it made things so easy for us when we met. John's advice coupled with the languages- We are HAPPY People!! Thanks!!!

I read this book many years ago, and it was very interesting. Made me understand men a lot more. I also read "Mars and Venus on a Date" based on singles. One thing I did learn is do not chase men, and the rubber band effect.

@niviamaeva

6 жыл бұрын

Miss V Rubber band effect ? 😳

@Lisa_M_V

6 жыл бұрын

Never chase a man! We are the prize!!

@Lisa_M_V

6 жыл бұрын

nivia Maeva Trindade men pull away like a rubber band and if the woman lets him he returns

@niviamaeva

6 жыл бұрын

Lisa Marie Thanks Lisa

Well said omg I’m nodding my head agreeing with what he says..

Thank you ! You, two, made me have great afternoon !!

Thank you for this interview...I learned a lot!!!

that make since !! good idea !! your right !!

This is the first of your videos I've ever seen. I love it! You are a very skilled communicator! Keep up the great work!

Great as ever. Thanks a lot John!!!

Thank you! Love these tips!!

"Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus," started the manslation genre: "Act Like a Lady, Think like a Man," and " He's Just Not that Into You." Kudos!

Great discussion. I pray we all seek deeper and richer humility and love along with living and building moral conduct in all our relationships as well.

This is amazing! I hardly noticed this took almost an hour 😁 Kudos to your channel and Dr. Gray!

So obvious, yet so complicated. Thank you for sharing guys!!