I went to school with the girl. And every time she would have her period she tells people she's miss carrying.She told me once that she had a miscarriage during our passing period?! I asked her what it looked like and she said “just like a teeny tiny baby”, at that point I was convinced she was lying every time And we told her no , you're just having your period she had something wrong with her mentally.

@carcher3279

28 күн бұрын

Girls like that love to be the centre of attention.

@brookemcgilvray3781

28 күн бұрын

Yeah. If she said it looked like a weird little alien thing. I would believe her. They do not look like babies early on. Such a strange, wants be a victim girl. 😳🙄

@sludge8506

28 күн бұрын

I worked with a woman who used to tell people she was pregnant. Then she would go to the washroom, and when she came out, would say she had a miscarriage. 🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️

@Brainjoy01

28 күн бұрын

@@brookemcgilvray3781 I had a 10 week miscarriage and it was obvious what it was, by 12 weeks they have fingers, but not monthly?

@BLUYES422

28 күн бұрын

Strange I know that's only 2 cases of this but I wonder if this behavior is worth classifying or maybe it already in the dsm or something, seems like bpd and Munchausen.

I’m glad they arrested her before she took it a step further and kidnapped an infant.

@5dorkycastillos

28 күн бұрын

No freaking kidding!

@maryd253

27 күн бұрын

Exactly

@Jujubean9795

27 күн бұрын

She didn’t want a kid or baby. She wanted the trauma bond. She wanted them to feel sorry for her.

@stancexpunks

27 күн бұрын

Or worse.. stole a fetus out of a pregnant woman’s body

@stancexpunks

27 күн бұрын

@@Jujubean9795 well she said the baby would be stillborn so if she actually got a “stillborn” baby that would get her even more attention and sympathy

This just in: Kaitlyn has accused a prison guard of an assault of a sexual nature.

@Ann-sj4pt

28 күн бұрын

Not a surprise 😩

@dextermorgan1

28 күн бұрын

​@@Ann-sj4ptI think OP was joking, but it wouldn't surprise me either if it were true.

@tonyking3125

28 күн бұрын

Ewwwwww

@68404

28 күн бұрын

It actually makes her very vulnerable to a real sexual assault, as her history makes anything she claims unbelievable.

@micnorton9487

28 күн бұрын

​@@68404Good point...

I had a roommate who had a tenuous relationship with reality. She was a low-level administrator at a hospital and accused several doctors of making inappropriate advances at her (turns out, they didn’t). She would also follow me on dates and say several men were stalking her. I had to move out. The next time I saw her she was in a mental health facility, which was probably the best place for her. She was very childlike, but her accusations almost cost a couple of doctors their careers, so she wasn’t harmless.

@AmonAnon-vw3hr

28 күн бұрын

Extremely common behavior.

@edvh88

28 күн бұрын

People really suck sometimes. The good doctors get accused, and the bad ones get away with their crimes? It’s a mess. One jerk like this woman and people are so much less likely to believe a legit report of assault.

@lachlanwilson6389

28 күн бұрын

Typical BPD behaviour. It's like they're sympathy junkies, they crave sympathy & victimhood like a junky craves the next hit.

@mariec3527

28 күн бұрын

They never are

@MalachiWhite-tw7hl

27 күн бұрын

Could we know the same person? I was accused of "sexual harassment"--unfounded--back when this was really in the news. Fortunately my accuser had divulged to her female coworkers that she needed more money for retirement, and was envious that other women were "getting rich" from such claims. It must have been a surprise when the investigation revealed that fact, and her FEMALE coworkers testified in my defense. Her case was dismissed, and her reputation irreparably damaged. She retired soon after. She was 71 years old (decades older than I), obese and unattractive, yet bragged to her coworkers that men were constantly pursuing her and her husband had to all but fight them off. The coworkers said that it was a sort of psychological "game" played on her spouse, allegedly to "keep things in the mood, sexually." Odd.

Remember guys, this channel is not only for weirdos anymore.

@stantheman4964

28 күн бұрын

But we're still welcome.

@sarastewart1796

28 күн бұрын

Yet here we are.

@holidayarmadillo8653

28 күн бұрын

I don’t get it?

@bold810

28 күн бұрын

Damn, it took forever, too. 🤠😐🤙🎉🥶

@rayross997

28 күн бұрын

We weirdos helped build this channel.

I'm a doula and this scam is very common in many doula communities however I dont know anyone who has actually gone to a client's home and supported them without payment or proof of pregnancy. Doulas are more inclined to validate our clients' feelings and experiences so this woman chose the perfect targets. If you're a doula or want to be one you have to meet the client in person before they are due and have boundaries in place to protect yourself (payment, in-person meetings, contracts, not taking anyone who is 37weeks+ etc), nothing would make me go to a stranger's house who claims to be in labor, but I do empathize with the victims. This woman manipulated them and tugged on their heart strings, anyone called to do this work can relate to that, I hope they get justice.

@sludge8506

28 күн бұрын

Well put!! As the doctor said, some skepticism is healthy.

@Fiona2254

28 күн бұрын

I was wondering about this. They were too nice to someone who cold called them .

@stst77

28 күн бұрын

Wow, this is my first time to hear of this. I after hearing the video, i thought it was a very unusual mental illness not a common thing. Women can be weird.

@zol2415

28 күн бұрын

@@stst77 I think it's partially a link as well.

@montsesalazar6457

28 күн бұрын

Sadly, they didn’t get the justice they deserved 😔

She sounds like one of those people where everyone who interacts with her in real life finds her to be an attention seeking liar, annoying, and overall a bit weird. I bet she struggles making friends but lacks the insight to understand that her pattern of lies may gather some initial curiosity and sympathy but only ends up isolating her further.

@alandareed3672

18 күн бұрын

Spot On‼️💯

I'm really kind of sad for the world that there is endless material for our good Dr Grande. 😔

@alandareed3672

18 күн бұрын

2 Infinity and beyond ‼️💯ENDLESS 😢

@It-is-me...Melsie

17 күн бұрын

So many defective humans which gives him material.

@lachlanwilson6389

8 күн бұрын

You wouldn't appreciate the good people as much if bad people didn't exist :)

@It-is-me...Melsie

7 күн бұрын

@@lachlanwilson6389 That's a weird take. I only surround myself with good people who I appreciate for various reasons. I don't need to know any bad people, nor want to, to appreciate those in my life.

Instead of house arrest and probation why wasn't she given mandatory psychiatric hospitalization?

@celestesenters1052

19 күн бұрын

they closed them all

@ferninthehouse

7 күн бұрын

because our justice system makes no sense

"She was never going to be arrested again. On April 30, 2024..." LMFAO Doc, never change XD

@AmandaLeigh1004

26 күн бұрын

As soon as I heard "she was never going to be arrested again" I thought to myself "Oh boy here comes the next arrest!"

"The trauma of being exposed to her naked body was severe", one of your best Dr. Grande.

@rhondajohnson8310

28 күн бұрын

Listen!! I feel bad but I just cracked up laughing at that comment!!

@kitty_765

28 күн бұрын

If I ever get famous, I want Dr. Grande to host my roast.

@sludge8506

28 күн бұрын

@@rhondajohnson8310 You know, medical people have to see and treat people with all kinds of bodies. Maybe they get desensitized to what they see.

@tomheineman4369

28 күн бұрын

At our 20th class reunion a man and a woman followed each other around lifting their shirts and showing their bellies to each other and screaming at the top of their lungs.

@BlackSheep_216

28 күн бұрын

I lost it!

To be clear, Dr. Grande's video paraphrased quotes from the victimized doulas who were duped into performing perineal groin massages with two fingers upon a physically grotesque and morally repulsive sexual predator who was born a biological woman, but who was not actually pregnant. (There are some biological women who are predators, too.) "The trauma caused by being exposed to her naked body was severe. Some victims were not certain that recovery would ever be possible." My goodness . . . . My heart breaks for the victims of this crime. After reading the following comments, in no way do I believe that Dr. Grande was fat shaming overweight members of human society en masse. That would be falsely conflating (i.e., merging of two or more sets of information, texts, ideas, etc. into one) the evidence. Whether they use politics, intellect, or religion, a sense of moral superiority often drives people to virtue signal through the justification of their own core values, belief systems, attitudes, and behaviors. Thus, everybody is entitled to his or her opinions, but not every opinion is equally valid. It is the outcome of one's temporal personal decisions that matter in the long run.

@CinemascapeReview

28 күн бұрын

Cold blooooded Grande roasts😂

@mtss9566

28 күн бұрын

Horrible😁

@OZZIE303

28 күн бұрын

Hahahah right??? I mean I thought they were used to seeing naked women but maybe the manipulation and touching a woman who wasn't pregnant was just too traumatic.

@Katiekay.

28 күн бұрын

@@OZZIE303 I don't think you understood the comment.... He's embellishing for comedic value. He's so dry it's hard to pick up on

@anitakaul8323

28 күн бұрын

Yeah, this "joke" was disgusting, Dr. Grande. I hope he isn't a practicing psychotherapist.

This woman was a social worker, people! 👀

@Cashhhhew

28 күн бұрын

Something was Wrong podcast has a season on this case. One very important piece that’s missing here is that she also accused a CHILD that was assigned to her of SA years prior to the doula stuff😡 her mom knew she suffered from this and never spoke up once. Just allowed her to keep the accusations going of countless people (and a kid) and then essentially torture unsuspecting doulas under her own roof. Even being in the next room over at times

@mariec3527

27 күн бұрын

​@@Cashhhhewwhy is this so common with these psychos .? I heard another story about a woman who lied about cancer, other traumas Etc Like this woman but her name was Sarah and she went YEARS lying and frauding people and her family knew she had a history of this behavior and seriously never took a moment to stop her behavior!

@mariec3527

27 күн бұрын

What episode was she talked about on ?​@@Cashhhhew

@Cashhhhew

27 күн бұрын

@@mariec3527 it’s all of season 18. It’s long but covers everything

@Cashhhhew

27 күн бұрын

@@mariec3527 all of season 18! It’s long and hard to listen to but worth it to get the full scope.

"The doula went over to Kaitlyn's apartment. Based on Kaitlyn's size the doula thought that she could be pregnant."

@edvh88

28 күн бұрын

This is accurate. I knew a very overweight woman who was a mom, and during her second pregnancy, when I knew her, you really couldn’t tell. I’m sure different body types all carry pregnancy differently; some people hide it better than others based on build as well as weight.

@mariec3527

28 күн бұрын

I mean most of these women who lie about these pregnancies tend to be heavy set . Only one girl I've seen who lied about being pregnant was pretty skinny and wore a fake belly

@Libbathegreat

27 күн бұрын

@@edvh88 It's also true that heavy girls often have irregular periods. I've known of a couple cases of young girls who when this happened, they jumped to the conclusion that they were pregnant. Even after it was proven they weren't, they became fixated on it.

@pameladee

27 күн бұрын

My thoughts are poor Dr. Grande! He falls on the sword for us all the time, analyzing and trying to make a sense of peculiar people doing bizarre things…and I’m grateful for his thoughts on these things 🌵

@Socal420

20 күн бұрын

Exactly! My daughter in law had twins and you could not even tell if she was pregnant or not. My daughter on the other hand looked VERY pregnant each time. Both girls are size 24 or so. It’s interesting to me. But, I’m only about 150 and one out of my 4 I didn’t show much until 6 months. The rest I looked giant by 4 months! Bodies are weird. Have a great day everyone!

This is hilarious how she smiles in all the pictures. She's crazy.

@longwhitecloud8059

27 күн бұрын

the eyebrows are just as consistent, and every bit as bonkers!

@DomoArigatoRobot0

25 күн бұрын

Smiling a bit too wide, too energetically. Joker smile.

@MateDrinker33

22 күн бұрын

Yeah, she kind of reminds me of Buzz's girlfriend from "Home Alone"! :D

"The trauma from seeing her naked body was severe and many thought that recovery would never be possible." Pure internet gold.

@DokisKalin1

4 күн бұрын

🤣😂😂

Just a point of clarification here. In NJ Doulas are certified and covered by insurance. They are a legitimate support provider and not just new age.

@frankpaya690

28 күн бұрын

Hey, if biological men can play against biological women then any delusion is possible for legitimation.

@mariec3527

28 күн бұрын

Wouldn't it be insurance fraud for using these services and not needing them

@thelogicaldanger

27 күн бұрын

@@mariec3527 Yes, if someone billed their insurance for them. The psycho in this video got gullible doulas to treat her for free, so no insurance was billed.

@user-fk2ud9lk2o

27 күн бұрын

Doulas are also certified in Ontario if they choose to do so, and also are covered my insurance companies 🤦🏻‍♀️ doulas are not regulated in Canada or the US. Certified and regulated are two very different things.

@leelaural

20 күн бұрын

my dtr had a doula along with her midwife...doula was like a helpful friend and stayed the whole day during my dtrs at home delivery.....

Sounds like a pretend doula service might find a market here. Doula Role Playing.

@scarletamazon3455

28 күн бұрын

Wouldn't help. It's the act of deceiving others into falling for their lies that seems to be what appeals to munchies like this one. Acting it out isn't what she's after, it's tricking others into believing her, same with other munchies that fake chronic conditions/cancers etc. Unless they're doing it only for financial gain, most of the time it's the attention, sympathy, and knowing they've successfully convinced people into believing their lies that they get off to. Like some other perverse conditions, if the other person is aware and consenting, it's not going to give them the thrill they're seeking.

@lindas5964

28 күн бұрын

Lol there’s always something for everyone

@mariec3527

28 күн бұрын

😂😂

@nixm9093

27 күн бұрын

That's a fantastic business idea. I'd never heard of anyone doing this but reading the comments, it seems like it's quite common so there would be a market for it 😊

@Xr2-8fan_810

26 күн бұрын

it would be a profitable grift.

This is so disrespectful to so many vulnerable people who are actually in labor or having pregnancy complications and can’t get get proper care.

@stst77

28 күн бұрын

I think she’s probably crazy rather than disrespectful. She probably should be locked up in an asylum rather than given house arrest. With house arrest she will just be sitting around dreaming of her drama scenarios.

@user-jh5hq8fk7u

28 күн бұрын

Annnd? Why is that Dr G’s fault?

@edvh88

28 күн бұрын

Agree, it makes me so sad for the doulas. And enraged. Still birth and rape are not things to joke about.

@erikamccarthy1457

28 күн бұрын

5/7/24 Imo, not knowing person prior with various medical issues. I’d refer her to hospital for care. Too many other complications may arise.

@mariec3527

28 күн бұрын

Yess ! She basically wasted these people's time and resources they could of given to REAL pregnant women

This makes me so mad. All the people who HAVE suffered assaults, all the people who HAVE lost a pregnancy or had a stillbirth, this makes a mockery of them and makes authorities less likely to believe folks when they report assault.

What a whacko. Perhaps she should have been forced by the judge to contact that psychotherapist. Sitting at home alone for 2 years isn't going to help her mentally.

@rickyspeople

28 күн бұрын

I totally agree

@scoobydewbie

28 күн бұрын

i agree!

@mariec3527

28 күн бұрын

I swear especially if shes allowed on the internet

Her crimes need to be made public so any unsuspecting male avoids dating her at all costs. She's a walking false rape accusation

@MrHemi4spd

28 күн бұрын

Absolutely she is. Thankfully she looks like she does, that will keep most with any self respect safe.

@caissafrass6631

28 күн бұрын

Or, far more importantly, so Doulas and other care and medical professionals can avoid her. Given that that’s what aligns with her actual criminal history.

@MrHemi4spd

28 күн бұрын

@@caissafrass6631 I dunno, she claimed every fake pregnancy was a product of SA. Don't gloss over that fact.

@roywilliams6355

28 күн бұрын

She'd probably do a "Species" move and call the guy a day or two later and say she's pregnant.

@Cashhhhew

28 күн бұрын

She’s a lesbian but yes. She also claimed a CHILD SA’d her and said child was under her care as a social worker. She’s extremely dangerous. The podcast Something was Wrong season 18 does a deep dive of her history and it goes wayyyy further back. The doulas were just the first victims to come forward. She did severe damage to the child and nobody believed him until these further crimes came to light.

I think she's what they call an Energy Vampire. 😮According to the book, The Sociopath Next Door, a hallmark of sociopaths is that they try to make you feel sorry for them. I'm doing so much better since I learned that.

@MariAsherahRose

28 күн бұрын

The Sociopath Next Door is a great book. Highly recommended!

@kennethscott4997

28 күн бұрын

You should probably watch Dr Grande's videos on Psychopathy, Sociopathy is not in the DSM and Factor II Psychopathy is not at all like the popular understanding of the construct.

@MariAsherahRose

28 күн бұрын

@@kennethscott4997 - Dude, I don't think we are talking about the same things. Just keep the DSM out of it as no one is diagnosing anyone here, just helping average people deal with stuff.

@kennethscott4997

27 күн бұрын

@@MariAsherahRose Recommending books that spread mis-information is not responsible. A true sociopath is a criminal who has no impulse control and no respect for the laws, rights, and safety of themselves and others. They are so antisocial that they do not make it through childhood without breaking the law, and spend most of their adult lives in prison. Unless you are in education or law enforcement you will probably never meet one in your daily life. It's not a personality style that can fly under the radar.

@thelogicaldanger

27 күн бұрын

@@kennethscott4997 I think we are all just talking about "sociopaths" as used in layman's terms, not actual diagnosed medical terms.

Kaitlin looked like she was in the sixth trimester.

@tantelila7464

28 күн бұрын

Twins ? 😂

@michellesartori6695

28 күн бұрын

Ouch!

@awkwardautistic

21 күн бұрын

​@@tantelila746439 weeks pregnant with twins, I weighed 160 and felt like a whale.

"She was never going to be arrested again. On April 30th 2024, Kaitlyn was arrested again." 💀The comedic timing on that one really took me out.

@AVSgirl1985

24 күн бұрын

I listened to that part several times, cackling each time 😂

@sp00kyg1rl

23 күн бұрын

Lmao April 30 was my 30th birthday, not that it matters just thought it was funny 😂

@TheRealBamboonga

21 күн бұрын

You look so serious in your pfp...

@AbbeyAnn

19 күн бұрын

I love that this moment is the “Most Replayed” section lmaooooo

That first dula was literally an angel. I hope she goes on to have a positive career.

Ah you changed up your wording here doc!!! I'm autistic and a ruptured brain aneurysm surviver and I always say the entire intro out loud with you LOL. You caught me off with ths one. You didn't say "move to the timeline of the crime" you switched it up a little 😂

@bfrick4167

28 күн бұрын

It’s either crime, controversy, or incident every time

@trevors6379

27 күн бұрын

Man, I take note of the slight differences in the volume of his voice in the intro and wonder things like "is he slighty further from the mic in this video? Or is he just talking a little quieter.."

@doritos80

22 күн бұрын

It happens. Life

My outlook on life is, Don't be weird and usually things workout. Everyone on Dr. Grande's Chanel has a problem with this lol

@Nylak-Otter

28 күн бұрын

I mean, I'm pretty weird but I have empathy and I want the best for everyone, so things still work out really well for me. These folks have something more up with them than just being weird. This is extra special weird.

@londonspade5896

28 күн бұрын

@@Nylak-Otter They're sociopaths, they don't care about other people, bad combination

@codexmachina1358

28 күн бұрын

It's fine to be weird on the internet (generally speaking) just keep it there and be a normal person IRL

@Nylak-Otter

28 күн бұрын

@@codexmachina1358 That sounds like it would make for a very dull existence. I come off far more normal online than I am in practice.

@codexmachina1358

28 күн бұрын

@@Nylak-Otter yeah, that sounds like a dull existence to me.

I wonder how many women like this are out there? It’s mind boggling how these women create these wild stories and pull them off. Kaitlyn seems like the type who would befriend a pregnant woman then steal her baby.

@AmonAnon-vw3hr

28 күн бұрын

Way, way, way more then you'd think.

@user-wh6ij9ex4u

28 күн бұрын

There is a story about the woman who befriended a pregnant woman, killed the expectant woman cut the baby from the womb and brought the child home as her child .

@stst77

28 күн бұрын

It sounds to me like she isn’t doing this because she wants a baby but because she wants the indulging attention that a doula gives.

@davidcox3076

28 күн бұрын

@@stst77 Really good supposition. You can get that kind of attention for far cheaper in Bangkok. Or so I've heard.....

@cassie1264

28 күн бұрын

​@@stst77That's exactly what she was doing. She just wanted sympathy and attention.

I was recently in Brantford; they have some really good thrifting and antique shops, and also maniacs apparently.

@cookie_dough_hangover

27 күн бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

What a sad way to live.

@legitbeans9078

Күн бұрын

Right? I almost feel bad for her, almost.

@AliceDont333

Күн бұрын

@@legitbeans9078 Same!

Oh no, she reoffended? Who could have seen that coming.

Sadly she is facing two new charges stemming from the same conduct in April, she is currently in jail. Reoffending within months. House arrest was not the deterrent. 🇨🇦

@inheritmyshoes9559

21 күн бұрын

That's in the video. We know.

I've been a midwife for 13 years and know many doulas. In addition to what you first mentioned, they offer important advocacy and help women decide when to go to the hospital or when to call the midwife. I don't know any doulas who facilitate religious transformation. Doulas' value lie in their continuous presence, help with comfort measures during labor, knowledge of position changes that may facilitate labor progress, and advocacy in the hospital. Some specific skills such as hypnobirthing or hypno babies techniques help by facilitating a trance-like calm through guided meditation and positive affirmations... I may not be describing that exactly correctly but it's close. Other doulas incorporate yoga and breathing prenatally to help during birth, and some specify that they are Christian.

@amberwild-ms4co

28 күн бұрын

^this^! It's all about protecting the space. Mine sat quietly in the room and didn't touch me at all but the calming presence and knowing I had someone who would skilfully advocate for me as needed made all the difference

@stst77

28 күн бұрын

Yoga, guided meditation and hypnosis are all forms of new age religious practices.

@h.a.l.3980

28 күн бұрын

Doulas are for hippy yoga moms with more money than brains. And anti-vaxxers.

@barbaragremaud3499

28 күн бұрын

@@stst77 guided meditation and hypnosis could be religious but are not by nature religious. Similarly, yoga is not by nature religious but I think it originated in Hinduism and Buddhism.

@edvh88

28 күн бұрын

@@barbaragremaud3499I’m pretty sure yoga is a spiritual practice but either way, however they help, doulas are great and have so many different methods.

Dr Grande "we are all trauma bound, and I don't ever want to get rid of you"

Flashbacks to my time dating a girl with schizoaffective disorder who was often off her meds. If you love someone with mental illness, bless you. ❤ support groups are fab.

@kitty_765

28 күн бұрын

Can I ask what your experience was like? Someone close to me is suffering from the same and I’m not sure how to support my family member who is dealing with it.

@ilovemycat___

28 күн бұрын

@@kitty_765hey i have some insight if it helps. People off their meds and refuse to stay on them without insight are incredibly draining. If your family member is not too attached I would personally advise they back away for their own sanity. I have bipolar

This happened a hop, skip and a jump from where I live. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us Dr. Grande!

Advice to doulas: only take on clients who have referrals by an MD or Nurse Practitioner.

Basically she was crazy

@Farcehole

28 күн бұрын

sigh…why is it always the pretty ones?

@MrHemi4spd

28 күн бұрын

​@@Farcehole lol savage

@AllergicToMakeBelieve

28 күн бұрын

@@Farcehole 🤣

@TheRealBamboonga

21 күн бұрын

@@Farcehole 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 You're wrong for that one lmao

I have borderline and so I’ve studied cluster B disorders and as soon as I heard that she was faking multiple pregnancies I was like- yup, she’s a histrionic and it’s manifesting as factitious disorder. Glad dr grande called that at the end because there are no borderline traits discussed here so that part confused me.

Ol' Toddy looked super discombobulated while trying to explain the duties of a doula.

Fascinating, Dr. Grande. I would suppose sadly that loneliness is behind this crime spree.

@edvh88

28 күн бұрын

Wish she would have volunteered with some worthwhile local org then. To me it smacks of someone who is an egomaniac and wants all the attention on them.

@bretfisher7286

28 күн бұрын

@@edvh88 Yes, I agree, but some kinds of loneliness are deeply pathological and become malicious. It's good she was contained before getting any deeper.

@SoundsBogus

27 күн бұрын

​@@edvh88 I immediately thought of narcissism.

2-for-1 Fraud Deal is the new term in my dictionary.

The Doula coming to her house was very dangerous. That Doula doesn’t know who she’s meeting up with. She should have had a person she knows come with her to Kaitlyn house only after she spent time with Kaitlyn in a public place a few times. Also, staying with her for two days put her at risk if anything happen to the “baby” she could have been held liable. The doula should know when to call it quits and insist on the patient going to the hospital. EDIT: To the people commenting that you had doulas coming to your house on the first meeting and everything worked out fine I’m glad it worked out for you but that’s still a gamble you took without vetting them first before allowing them to know where you & your partner live. There a lot of crazy people in the world. I work in healthcare and it only takes 1 wrong decision and the rest of your life is changed forever and you can’t take it back. In this case the Doula meet Kaitlyn on Craigslist!!! Craigslist !!!! The doula is lucky that all she got was her time wasted and it wasn’t a man pretending to be a pregnant woman to lure her to the house.

@carcher3279

28 күн бұрын

I didn't even consider that part... it's so true.

@amberwild-ms4co

28 күн бұрын

I met my doula for the first time at my house, I'm assuming she will have told someone where she was going and what time to expect her back but it would have seemed weird if she had brought someone else with her. I wasn't in labour at the time though, that would be an odd first meeting! This story is wild and beyond most people's comprehension in the league of bizarre things

@amberwild-ms4co

28 күн бұрын

I first heard about this a couple of months ago and there was a really good interview with one of the doulas who explained so well how this woman pushed boundaries and manipulated them into doing things against their better judgement

@Rebecca-hc5ju

28 күн бұрын

​@@amberwild-ms4coI also met my doula at my house with one of my pregnancies. Another, at the birth center where I was planning on having my son. However, I don't know any doula who would drive to a new client's house after they said they're in labor?!

@amberwild-ms4co

28 күн бұрын

@@Rebecca-hc5ju I wish I could find the interview because it was so expertly explained. It all sounds so crazy to us who were not there but she totally manipulated these women and a lot of the questionable choices came after days of sleep deprivation from supporting someone they believed was vulnerable and going through horrendous trauma

I remember feeling violated one time when caring for a borderline woman. I had to catheterize her and after I was finished she said, "Oh honey that felt sooooo good! Yes, it was traumatizing. I still cringe when I think of it.

@cassiemontgomery45

28 күн бұрын

Perhaps she felt better after being cath'd because she couldn't void on her own. It just came out wrong. I had this happen after an operation and after the catheter was inserted and draining....I felt much better.

@Tilly-bd4hc

28 күн бұрын

@@cassiemontgomery45 Yes, I was a nurse for 35 years and know when someone's sincere. She was flirting cuz she winked and grabbed my hand.

@cassiemontgomery45

28 күн бұрын

@@Tilly-bd4hc Oh, dear...yes, that's completely unacceptable and inappropriate.

@rickyspeople

27 күн бұрын

Disturbing. Reading that sent a shiver down my spine. So many different flavours of sickos out there

@RT-pi4pv

25 күн бұрын

That’s wild. WHO tf enjoys a catheter 🤢

I also knew a girl in high-school who lied about having either a miscarriage or cancer every other week for 4 whole years.

Kaitlyn doesn’t need to make up stuff that’s wrong with her. There’s already a lot wrong with her.

"it was like a two for one fraud deal" 😂 you have the funniest, unexpected jokes ever.

This is a form of SA that occurs every day against healthcare workers. Unfortunately no charges are ever brought.

@It-is-me...Melsie

17 күн бұрын

Well that's just weird!

@twocents7495

17 күн бұрын

@@It-is-me...Melsie tell me about it

Dr. Grande as a clinician with 25 years of experience I learn so much from you. When you make assertions (one cannot have mdd and BPD at the same time), it allows me to do my research and learn new things. Thank you for educating the masses!!!!

Dr. G, uploading one video everyday...undefeated, undisputed

Emotionally scarred from seeing her naked. That's rough.

"the Trauma caused being exposed to her naked Body was severe, some Victims weren't certain if they would ever recover" 😂 Yeah Man, just looking at her facial Pic, I think I can relate to that 😂

I heard this case from one of these Doula’s point of view on a podcast. This poor woman was so traumatized. 😢

@AbsurdExistentialist

21 күн бұрын

Was it Something Was Wrong? Or Pretend?

Man, I thought I was in a bad shape but when I heard that the doulas where traumatized by seeing her naked I felt a tiny bit better

@user-fk2ud9lk2o

27 күн бұрын

Seriously…you clearly are in bad shape. Since when did victim shaming become cool. 🤦🏻‍♀️

@heloramos82

27 күн бұрын

@@user-fk2ud9lk2o she was never a victim.

@MateDrinker33

22 күн бұрын

It gets worse; supposedly, she duped at least two of them into performing a pelvic massage.

@heloramos82

22 күн бұрын

@@MateDrinker33 OMG!!

@TheRealBamboonga

21 күн бұрын

@@user-fk2ud9lk2o I'm sorry...how exactly is that victim shaming? My better judgment told me to just ignore your comment as obvious trolling but I couldn't help asking on the .001% chance you were actually trying to be serious.

Love the textbook clinical personality. So raw and uncut. Thanks Doc for your knowledge and compassion. It is all a journey. Love and blessings from Memphis Tennessee 🐈🐾

Very bizarre crime spree. This lady gets no play to such an extent that she tries to make friends by pretending to be r worded

I wonder if Kaitlyn wanted the recognition that pregnancy often brings while lacking the social skills for a relationship that results in pregnancy

@yourfuturewaifu9061

27 күн бұрын

I think it's sweet that you think in this day and age you think a pregnancy needs a relationship. Don't change.

@wendiwonderly1419

27 күн бұрын

@@yourfuturewaifu9061 I’m not always sweet but I have more insight than Kaitlyn did. And things do change. I had a hysterectomy 20 years ago

I mean.. wow.. I'm impressed. In 100 years I don't think I'd ever think up something this crazy. Like if you said this lady is crazy, what do you think it is? I'd die on an island before I said "Messing with people who are trying to make labor and birth easier.. " Insanity really is fluid and fills every crack.

Due to her nakedness some victims did not feel that recovery from the trauma would ever be possible!! This & the previous episode featuring a sex doll have me laughing my head off-l never thought it likely that l would laugh listening to true crime stories, but your dry humour just cracks me up! Keep 'em coming Dr G!!!

@rayross997

28 күн бұрын

I am wondering if Dr.Grande's wife is aware of the sex doll research? It could be hard to explain.

@louise4693

28 күн бұрын

@@rayross997 Very true, it might be best if he doesn't go there, he would end up.just digging a bigger hole!! 😁

@david-dj8or

28 күн бұрын

@@rayross997 He may have got caught trying to buy one, then quickly looked to find a case to speculate on as a cover up.

What a sick puppy. Glad she was charged.

There is also death dulas, didn't realize there were others. What a bizarre case again. Great points & title again. Thanks Dr G😊💖💖

I always enjoy hearing Dr. Grande only speculate about what could be happing in cases like these

Thank you so much for being so consistent, Dr. Grande! I always know that I can come to your channel on a daily basis to watch a new, interesting video.

False pretenses? Are there any true pretenses?

Think about Kaitlyn the next time you or a loved one are referred to a "social worker."

@Cashhhhew

28 күн бұрын

Grande missed a critical part of the story. She actually accused a little boy she worked with (was tasked with helping) of SA as well. She’s truly ruthless. That happened years before all of this came to light when the doulas finally started reaching out to one another and piecing it together

@SoundsBogus

27 күн бұрын

Think about whether you'd want to hire a Doula. How many were deceived?

@marlenestewart7442

27 күн бұрын

@@SoundsBogus Seriously. When Dr. Grande mentioned that so many have New Age (i.e. unscientific, and/or idiosyncratic religious leanings) beliefs that is a huge red flag.

@It-is-me...Melsie

17 күн бұрын

They tend to be some of the best and some of the worst of people. Unfortunately the profession does appear to attract nutters.

This kind of reminds me of people with munchausen syndrome.

@avoiceinthedark2028

28 күн бұрын

That’s the same thing as factitious disorder.

@camellia8625

24 күн бұрын

I wonder if she had it.

Anytime Dr. Grande says “she surely would not be arrested again”, you know he’s about to disappoint you.

You analyze the best cases Dr. Grande!!! I always look forward to your videos!!! Thank you!!! 🙌

This sounds like a good plot for season 2 of Baby Reindeer

My apartment neighbor dated a girl for 3 months before she claimed she was pregnant. He found out she was lying and left her (obviously), and she proceeded to stalk him for the next couple of years. It finally stopped when she met someone else and he we never heard from her again. 🤷

I had a good friend who behaved similarly. I was there for 25 years of apparent nonstop lying. He eventually confessed but never apologized and just assumed Id forgive him and we would finally have a genuine relationship. People like this baffle me because life isnt boring at all.

Always appreciate your videos

One of my Psychology Major classmates would say " She will finally tell a story that she was hit by the plane in the runway at the Airport after making up too many tragic stories " 😂

@mariec3527

28 күн бұрын

Thats a good one 😂

Thank you for your content Dr. Grande. I still can't believe we get this for free on KZread. You're awesome and very appreciated ❤

She's a menace

Thanks for the upload, Dr. Grande! Your true fans love your humour and sarcasm. May 7 is National Cosmopolitan Day, National Roast Leg of Lamb Day, National Beaufort Scale Day, National Barrier Awareness Day, Children's Mental Health Awareness Day, Fair Trade Day, National Tourism Day, and Edgy Killer Bunny Day.

@jaytee2642

28 күн бұрын

Barrier Awareness?🤔🤔 Acknowledge those guardrails!👍🏻❤

@Flamsterette

28 күн бұрын

@@jaytee2642 "On May 7th each year, we teachers are charged with breaking down obstacles on National Barrier Awareness Day. We are responsible for dissolving stigmas keeping people with disabilities from advancing in education. "

The stuff leaking was her soul

“House arrest.” WHY?!?! That’s precisely where she commits her crimes!! 🙄

"It was a 2 for 1 fraud deal" HAHAHAHAHAA!!! Dr. Grande your dry humour is epic!

She is just a pathological liar who wants attention. Nothing more nothing less.

Thank you so much, Dr. Grande!

"Crimes against doula's"😊😊😊 Good one Doc!

"there is no such thing as a licensed doula" - 😂😂😂 says it all

This is the wildest story I've ever heard

Her eyebrows alone are terrifying 😳😫😅😂😂😂😂😂

@longwhitecloud8059

27 күн бұрын

thank you! finally, someone else named the other serious crime taking place here

Dr. Grande, your sense of humor is unmatchable.

Thank you for your content Dr. Grande! I can listen to your videos for hours. Could you analyse the case of Asunta Fong Yang?

Did she ever get charged for falsely claiming that those doctors had molested her?

@user-wi8wz4mh9g

28 күн бұрын

Hahaha

@johng4093

28 күн бұрын

There should be serious punishment for that.

Soon there will be just cacti and Dr Grande’s eyes just peeking through 😂👀🌵

How unfortunate! Doula's have to screen their patients too, not just the other way around! But wow such a social engineer, a hacker, using someone's kindness as their vulnerability. Sick.

Ur punchlines r the best u keep em coming doc ur my favorite doctor keep up the great work

The pics just get more and more crazy.

Narcissist at a minimum, possibly a sociopath.

Hi Dr. Grande….always interesting material.🌵Thank you and I like your shirt!!😇❤️from Jean

Dr. Grande having a sense of humor! I love it!

Never heard of a doula until now.

@francinejones2524

27 күн бұрын

Really?? I always viewed them as “Airy Fairy Pretend Midwives”.

Attention seeking was the motive and her objective. She clearly doesn't understand how to make friends in a healthy way because she doesn't comprehend how others think due to her lack of empathy. In desperation, she comes up with outlandish schemes to entrap others using their empathy, something she herself cannot comprehend, so she likely despises the trait & sees it as something to exploit. That's my two cents.

My first thought was factitious disorder, too. A very, very strange route to take, though...

Wow! We should be very careful out there