Self reflection allows both the clearing of fog, but can also produce a veil of its own. Reflect not on what is viewed as detrimental, but instead fruitful and the detrimental parts respond by feeling ignored and eventually disappear.

What courage of you. Once in middle school all the girls of my class decided to elect the ugliest boy in there. I've won it, with a massive parcel of the votes. That marked me deeply, maybe because some emotional sensitivity. Over time I grew up, but didn't matter if someone called me beautiful or ugly, for both compliments I could only feel a void. Now I'm a little better, not necessarily because I feel prettier, but because i've been learning, with a light heart, to see love in all things. In fact, Most of our burdens are related to the way we see things, the way we see the world, the things that we insist to hang ourselves due to fear.

@kevenrocha4467

24 күн бұрын

There's aways something we can let go. "The eye is the lamp of the body. If your eyes are good, your whole body will be full of light".

@gentlemanx7987

24 күн бұрын

What an experience to have as a child. I guess that is a tough lesson to chew through. Your statements in the second part of your comment - to me - are truth. Thank you. Much love.

@yamina444

24 күн бұрын

I’m sorry for what you experienced in school, humans can be so mean sometimes

This is a special pressure women, especially young women, face in our society. It's a counter-force to the spiritual path, as the path tells you "you are not the body," but society shouts at you "you are your body," with all its advertising and algorithmic power. - Wearing some make-up etc. is not an issue in itself of course; everything in moderation is OK. - You are a perfect flower. - However, nothing I or anybody else says will magically influence the way you feel about these things, I believe. I've interacted with someone in the past who had a similar fixation about not being pretty, and even when they received attention and compliments, it didn't help at all. The individual just dismissed it as "they're just being nice to me," etc. It is rooted in something else, related to something subconscious and perhaps traumatic (I don't mean traumatic in a necessarily dramatic sense). This might sound surprising and perhaps even hurtful - hopefully not - but in psychoanalysis, it's said that whenever a fixation like is taking place in a loop, even if it's unpleasant, there's a part of you that derives some satisfaction from it. Isn't that strange? You are both the torturer and the tortured (just as in starving yourself, or insulting your own appearance mentally, etc.) - and there's actually a part of you, the torturer, that secretly enjoys some aspect of this. Yes, the human mind is a marvel of complexity. Nothing is as simple as it appears at first glance. - As you mention, this will get progressively better with age, but also, you're very fortunate to have encountered the spiritual path in this life. Many never do, and remain trapped in the Instagram hall of mirrors forever, measuring themselves against arbitrary standards. Consider how miserable their situation is, to remain locked in that for all of life. As you were fortunate (it was your karma, to be more precise) to meet the spiritual path in this lifetime, you will completely overcome this as you dissociate from your body more and more. This doesn't imply anything extreme; as I said, one can still "role-play" as a woman, put on make-up, wear nice dresses, and so on, if one pleases, but one no longer feels the force and compulsion of that identification. It is done only in a playful way (lila). - ("Be in the world, but not of the world.")

@yamina444

24 күн бұрын

Oh definitely, you're right. I think one day I started to think : "what would I think about if I stopped worrying about everything?" And I got a little scared, I think the hatred towards myself plays as a distraction to avoid looking at my true self. And yes, I'm so happy that I'm aware about all of these things, even if it hasn't changed yet, I feel like the most important step is to be aware, that's where everything starts

@AirSandFire

24 күн бұрын

@@yamina444 "I think the hatred towards myself plays as a distraction to avoid looking at my true self" Good insight, yes! We are afraid of looking at our true self, and the great irony-le comble du comble-is that what we're afraid of is ultimate peace and bliss! Reality really has the structure of a comedy... A divine comedy. But to the one playing the part, it's all but a comedy. It can all seem very tragic.

@shaofist

13 күн бұрын

Very perceptive my friend. Love the way you articulate yourself. That was a pleasure to read, honestly.

This is something I rlly relate with. My hatred for myself is something I've struggled with forever. Even as a little boy I hated the way i looked. I had convinced myself that I was just paranoid but I was just so fkn insecure all the time. It's worse now. Someone had called me 'not that bad' once and I still cry about it sometimes (i think they were joking). And it always feels weird when someone does something nice for me in general. (like u did something for me even tho im so ugly rn?) It feels so validating when someone does do something nice for me, makes me feel like im also a human ifykwim. Idk, i feel so weird in public. I share ur feelings tho, im also rejection, scared of people not liking me for me. Its pretty sad but thats just how i feel. ILY yamina 💓

@yamina444

11 күн бұрын

I love you, thank you for sharing this with me, you have to KNOW that you were made to be loved, if you haven’t found anyone that loves you for who you are right now, be the first one to do so. I am telling you, I love you, just the way you are, you don’t need to look a certain way to be loved, trust me, and I still struggle to understand this, but it’s the truth. Give yourself some love, allow yourself to live, like a child who’s not caring about the external world and who only cares about playing 🧡

You look beautiful to me. Vulnerability is good for the soul and you have a wonderful soul. Don’t try to resist the need for external validation allow it to happen. Non resistance is the way toward surrender. Just observe the tendency and realise there is no free will in emotional conditioning and desires. All the best on your spiritual journey:)

@yamina444

24 күн бұрын

Thank you so much for your kindness 🧡🙏🏼

In the other commenct, I just talked about how weird it is to feel certain ways when it is obvious that it is entirely unfounded. And here you are, once more, being a perfect mirror of sorts. As someone who is glimpsing in from the outside, statements like "I don't like how I look" and "I don't like my physical appearance", coming from a girl that looks like you, seems absolutely bizarre. As bizarre as my own statements, I guess, even tho they regard other things, but are nonetheless equally unbalanced, equally out of balance with self-love. But I still state them, again and again. There are tons and tons of girls out there who would kill to look like you do. Metaphorically speaking. Oh, and I am thankfull for your ability to be and make yourself vulnerable. This - to me - is true strenght. True power. Speaking - again - from a male perspective: Being and behaving like for example an Andrew Tate is nothing but a clear, big, glowing sign of endless insecurity. Overwhelming, I guess. Yet, we tend to call that "strong", because at first glance it looks strong, it gives off the impression of strong. Yet, being vularable, the humbleness in it, is so much more powerfull. Again: Thank you. Much love.

Try and always remember…. YOU are only as good, beautiful, smart, etc as YOU believe yourself to be. This world…. The 3d… is not real. But the energy our thoughts create is. Which in turn.. shapes our reality. BE… be exactly who you are… embrace who you are… in every aspect… you , we , I , was/were created by Source. Exactly how we were supposed to be created. For the purposes that we were created for. Let YOU shine through…. Regardless of the dualistic world around you. That is how you can detach from the ego… and further your journey towards unity consciousness. Simply BE. Much love your way, and anyone else reading this.

@yamina444

24 күн бұрын

Thank you so much 🧡🧡🧡

Truly thank you for your videos. They found me just today, and I couldn't have needed your channel more right now.

@yamina444

Күн бұрын

@@sunnidae5024 this touches me deeply, you are never alone, we’re together, and you are loved

Been a minute but do you remember Ram Dass' "space suit" concept? Essentially, that we are pure consciousness, trapped inside a space suit. Of course being the infinite, stuck inside a fleshy space suit can be really uncomfortable at times. Of course there is an ick, an uncomfortable feeling we can have when we look at 'ourselves' in the mirror. I often remind myself of this, and that these feelings are super normal considering. We are much more than the suit itself. You are much more than the suit itself. I hope you can pay these thoughts less mind. Sincerely you are really pretty too, but there is also a natural and genuine glow from the inside out that you deserve to be proud of

i just found your channel and i’m absolutely in love with it. i resonate and relate to so many things you say. i wish i had someone like you in my life to confide in and have these kind of conversations with. everything you say speaks to my soul

C’est fou à quel point notre regard sur nous même peu créé notre réalité et comment on réagît alors que les gens nous voient d’un toute autre manière. J’ai également ce problème et ça me bloque tellement dans la vie, mais ce dire que tu n’es pas prête pour une relation ou être vulnérable te détruira au long terme.

What helps me maintain weight is slowing down what I have to do and just doing the things that reflect the character I want to refine in myself and heal and such. I find my cravings get fewer when I take this approach. Hope this helps.

I also often feel like this and I agree with what you are saying. I think therapy has helped me improve faster.

I sing Juice Wrld - Lucid Dreams and I still have a long way to go! Nice topic

thank you for your honesty and vulnerability

@yamina444

24 күн бұрын

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In regards to the music: I find the fact that - if you really open up to it - modern (mainstream/charts) music is filled with certain sybolism and I almost entirely stopped listening to it. (Whoever reads this: Don't believe me on this, do your own research on that topic and make up your own mind, or don't, whatever you prefer. Please feel entirely okay with ignoring this statement of mine.) In regards to the theme of the video: It is weird, I agree. Even tho there does not seem to be an abvious reason for it - I always made friends quick, people mostly always tended to like me more than they dislike me - I share these feelings. Alot, like alotalot is doubt, especially self-doubt, another big piece of the pie is this deep, piercing, ever present feeling of "not being enough" and "nothing I ever do is good enough". In one word: unworthyness. And lastly... propapbly partly because I am german and feel the collectice energy, alot of shame, and guilt. Nothing in my life and nothing personal points to where this might come from. It always seemed to be without any reason to me. Yet, it was always considered "normal" by myself. It was always there. It always has been with me. It is not exactly self-hatred, but I guess the difference is minor. Going from that into self-love, unconditional self-love, if possible, is the key... I know it, even tho I am not yet able to love and accept myself as I love and accept others. Yet, how I behave towards others is only ever so much worth, if there is no balance, if I not also love and respect myself. I know. But... we'll manage. We get there. You, I, everyone that really sets the intention for balance. It might take a moment, tho. Haha. Thank you for your videos. You are amazing and you are inspiring. Much love.

You're super cute and feminine. But as long as you're not ready to hear it, you probably wont believe what someone else's say anyway. Also good on you for not getting in a relationship while not satisfied with who you are, it would make working on yourself and getting where you want a lot harder when sharing space and time with someone else. I've been through a phase of hating myself too, and what solved it was taking care of my appearance and health as best as I could. It builds confidence a lot and makes it so I have no regret because at least I tried my best. Good luck in your journey.

@yamina444

24 күн бұрын

Thank you for your comment! And yeah, when I eat healthier I feel way better about myself, so I think it's super important to take care of our physical body, but I need to remind myself to not get obsessed over it, because it can very quickly happen

I just found your channel and I gotta say, your videos are truly amazing, I love the way that you put yourself out there and speak on things that we as a society should really be discussing more. You're doing great and I really enjoy the content you provide. It's refreshing to find such great creators out there who are dedicated to their craft and still speak the truth. 🔥 Also P.S. If you're looking for an editor for your videos I am willing to work for free!

@gentlemanx7987

24 күн бұрын

I am so happy to see that there are others out there that offer their services (especially in video- / image-editing) openly for free. From the heart, my friend. I am thankfull that you are. Much love. :)

You have to remember that the only reason you feel beutifull some days and some not are only the way you feel. For other people you are always the same. So it seems other people think you are pretty so it mean so you are always like that. In the other way pretty or not is something objective. For some people you are pretty For other not. I personally find beauty in most of the people. The trick is to look in the eyes. Just look at you in the eyes. And you find beauty in it. There is the beauty'. When you look someone you look them in the eyes not on the imperfections that they have in their face.I hope this helps

Hi Yamina, have you heard of Tony Parsons? He will not give you a new technique for self love, or a path towards happiness. Best wishes!

Hi Yamina, I jus want to let you know You are extremely attractive in my eyes 👀 and lets not start on that beautiful accent 😍 Stay fly ❤

Don't do drugs! You are smart but sound like you do drugs because you talk about deep stuff. If you don't do drugs then I'd say cool