Selena Gomez - The Heart Wants What It Wants (Extended Intro Version)

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Music video by Selena Gomez performing The Heart Wants What It Wants.
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  • @dayainsomnia4364
    @dayainsomnia43645 жыл бұрын

    4:49 i love this part 😭😍

  • @jennifercondor1746
    @jennifercondor17464 жыл бұрын

    This hits differently when you have actually experienced the pain :(

  • @dylan._.nicolas

    @dylan._.nicolas

    3 жыл бұрын

    Or going through the pain at the moment

  • @wow_dilbarkhon

    @wow_dilbarkhon

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's the saddest part))

  • @wow_dilbarkhon

    @wow_dilbarkhon

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@dylan._.nicolas ☹

  • @polonevA

    @polonevA

    3 жыл бұрын

    That’s what I was thinking right now

  • @polonevA

    @polonevA

    3 жыл бұрын

    Dylan Emerson Ik what u mean 💔

  • @axmarie0649
    @axmarie06495 жыл бұрын

    "I picked someone who was going to break my heart.." *damn I felt that...*

  • @farheenansari6696

    @farheenansari6696

    5 жыл бұрын

    Me too. 💔

  • @josworld6211

    @josworld6211

    5 жыл бұрын

    😪😪

  • @karam605

    @karam605

    5 жыл бұрын

    💔

  • @savannahcarranza6732

    @savannahcarranza6732

    5 жыл бұрын

    We all do when we’re young don’t we🤷‍♀️

  • @anyways.8842

    @anyways.8842

    5 жыл бұрын

    I relate to that I picked somebody that hurt me so badly. He even made me depressed.. 😢💔

  • @ivypostell
    @ivypostell4 жыл бұрын

    This is my first time hearing the extended audio and I started crying because I know exactly how she felt because it's how i feel right now.

  • @natha.h

    @natha.h

    4 жыл бұрын

    I feel the same right now 😭😔... You're not the only Person who must to go through it.... 😢 You're not alone.... 😓

  • @joana-cf1bs

    @joana-cf1bs

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm sorry ❤️ that sucks but you'll get through it, just like Selena x look at her now is what you'll say in no time too ❤️

  • @saadanisoumia8537

    @saadanisoumia8537

    4 жыл бұрын

    I feel the same

  • @ivypostell

    @ivypostell

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@joana-cf1bs thank you and that song Look At Her Now is my favorite

  • @erikaribeiro9624

    @erikaribeiro9624

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me too girl, i‘m struggling so hard 😢

  • @ughasif7262
    @ughasif72624 жыл бұрын

    They missed the "He made me feel crazy, he made me feel like it's my fault. I was in pain."

  • @nobitch6421

    @nobitch6421

    4 жыл бұрын

    shit hits differently once you reflect on what broke your heart 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @ughasif7262

    @ughasif7262

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@nobitch6421 true

  • @marcisaacmartinez2129

    @marcisaacmartinez2129

    4 жыл бұрын

    bitchy slayer aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

  • @marcisaacmartinez2129

    @marcisaacmartinez2129

    4 жыл бұрын

    Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

  • @AB-yk2pq

    @AB-yk2pq

    4 жыл бұрын

    They didn't 'miss' anything. Selena said that her speech is about 5 minutes so we didn't hear all

  • @blinkeuu3107
    @blinkeuu31075 жыл бұрын

    “I guess I don’t love myself first” So relatable 💔

  • @alexventura1947

    @alexventura1947

    5 жыл бұрын

    Exactly :(

  • @mhm77887

    @mhm77887

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm 14, and as most teens I'm insecure. But I think I hate myself a bit too much. If after I stop being a teenager it'll keep up, I don't know man...

  • @genericchannel126

    @genericchannel126

    4 жыл бұрын

    Man, its a life long journey to 100% love yourself.

  • @genericchannel126

    @genericchannel126

    4 жыл бұрын

    So yeah, dont let that stop you from loving other people 🙂

  • @cutienerdgirl

    @cutienerdgirl

    4 жыл бұрын

    She has a tattoo that says "Love Yourself First" now!💗

  • @JazzyJ96771
    @JazzyJ967715 жыл бұрын

    I love it when artists make themselves emotionally vulnerable, it's so beautiful.

  • @Victoria-op8xj

    @Victoria-op8xj

    5 жыл бұрын

    Jazzy J it sells

  • @blinkeuu3107

    @blinkeuu3107

    5 жыл бұрын

    go listen to her others songs “perfect” & “nobody” they’re so beautiful and deep at the same time

  • @romarijhwani5380

    @romarijhwani5380

    5 жыл бұрын

    Jazzy J that’s why they are called artist right ?

  • @randomlyysillyy

    @randomlyysillyy

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@blinkeuu3107 perfect is so deep 😭

  • @milkytaro3201

    @milkytaro3201

    5 жыл бұрын

    this is true art 💗 art is meant to make you feel

  • @michiletics13
    @michiletics134 жыл бұрын

    Who listening to this after hearing “lose you to love me” just to see how much she’s healed?😭

  • @user-zm8ji2or8w

    @user-zm8ji2or8w

    4 жыл бұрын

    michelle santana Me, cause I want to know If it’s true that he sang the chorus in this song. In her song she said “ you sang of key in my chorus, cause it wasn’t yours” ? What does she mean by that?

  • @yaniamarytza

    @yaniamarytza

    4 жыл бұрын

    The chorus is the HEART of a song. He played around with it because it wasn't his.

  • @user-zm8ji2or8w

    @user-zm8ji2or8w

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yania Madariaga Ohh that makes sense! Thankyou for explaining!

  • @AlbertoRodriguez-kc9ji

    @AlbertoRodriguez-kc9ji

    4 жыл бұрын

    michelle santana me

  • @ryliewoods336

    @ryliewoods336

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@user-zm8ji2or8w Baningalsbffgoids 💖💌🐼💌💖💖💖🎁💚💾💾🐣😌

  • @hedrayoel6701
    @hedrayoel67013 жыл бұрын

    Its been YEARS and this song STILL plays on my heart strings

  • @dieterwolfbiggestfan5580

    @dieterwolfbiggestfan5580

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah...

  • @karlab7478

    @karlab7478

    2 жыл бұрын

    hell yeah ❤️❤️❤️

  • @karlab7478

    @karlab7478

    2 жыл бұрын

    love her

  • @dalalalqallaf8752

    @dalalalqallaf8752

    Жыл бұрын

    True🥺❤️

  • @anajah276

    @anajah276

    Жыл бұрын

    Truth...

  • @TylerJo666
    @TylerJo6665 жыл бұрын

    The worst sound ever is the crack in the voice of a person who is about to cry

  • @mathankir4070

    @mathankir4070

    4 жыл бұрын

    Well she is singing something very painful that happened in her life so of course she'll cry. like what were you expecting for her be happy about her heart being broken ;-;

  • @waqaralishah5446

    @waqaralishah5446

    4 жыл бұрын

    im copying this line

  • @eeee504

    @eeee504

    4 жыл бұрын

    Well known quote !!

  • @Chyna627

    @Chyna627

    4 жыл бұрын

    Tyler Black man what this is so true💯💔🥺🥺

  • @genm5998

    @genm5998

    4 жыл бұрын

    I know, makes me wanna cry too 💔😭💔😭

  • @dianahernandez5878
    @dianahernandez58785 жыл бұрын

    A year ago I didn’t understand her pain.. and now that I’ve gone through the same pain I understand.

  • @kimmaram9747

    @kimmaram9747

    5 жыл бұрын

    Diana Hernandez me too

  • @purplerain1081

    @purplerain1081

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same..

  • @penny846

    @penny846

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @Fahad1999win

    @Fahad1999win

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@penny846 same

  • @yeimiortiz7035

    @yeimiortiz7035

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same sis 💔

  • @brunorocha4464
    @brunorocha44644 жыл бұрын

    2014: I guess I don't love myself first... 2019: I needed to lose you to love me.

  • @mookiemookie7144

    @mookiemookie7144

    4 жыл бұрын

    Bruno Rocha fr😒💛

  • @rinichristian8252

    @rinichristian8252

    4 жыл бұрын

    Growth baby ❣️

  • @harrlena7677

    @harrlena7677

    4 жыл бұрын

    The glow-up she needed

  • @Dbby888

    @Dbby888

    2 жыл бұрын

    2021: I’m so rare

  • @user-fw8lv1ov2e
    @user-fw8lv1ov2e2 жыл бұрын

    "Everybody goes through, I guess, something like this but... I didn't really understand it and, I have no other option but to laugh at it this point because everybody asks why do you still stay, and I'm like... I guess I don't love myself first. That's it. It's not really... that's it. When I was on stage and I was thinking of... I felt like I know him though and I know that I know his heart and I know what he wouldn't do to hurt me. But I didn't realize that I was feeling so confident and feeling so great about myself and then it just be completely shattered... by one thing. By something so stupid. He doesn't know who I am anymore... And it doesn't matter because I guess I picked someone I knew was gonna break my heart."

  • @preachpeace7068

    @preachpeace7068

    Жыл бұрын

    That was*

  • @nooneofconsequence7920
    @nooneofconsequence79205 жыл бұрын

    "I picked someone who was gonna break my heart..." You never really understand why she stayed and why she was in so much pain until you experience it yourself.

  • @enriba7842

    @enriba7842

    5 жыл бұрын

    Violet Elizabeth 😒....thats why you girls complain, you guys do this to the nice guys🖕🖕. Always wanting the bad boy smh I don't feel bad at all, you girls put yourselves into this situation.

  • @nooneofconsequence7920

    @nooneofconsequence7920

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@enriba7842 I wasnt asking for sympathy?

  • @enriba7842

    @enriba7842

    5 жыл бұрын

    Violet Elizabeth I know. Im just saying though, that YOU girls go for the bad boys, and deep down know is not going to work out, but still you girls for them right? of course and complain and complain thats where the thought comes in "all guys are the same" If you girls don't want to complain make better choices.

  • @nooneofconsequence7920

    @nooneofconsequence7920

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@enriba7842 the guy I was talking about isn't a bad boy hes a good guy. But sometimes shit doesnt work out and I should have known it wouldnt but I cant tell the future. So therefore, I picked someone who was gonna break my heart. Idk if that makes sense.

  • @enriba7842

    @enriba7842

    5 жыл бұрын

    Violet Elizabeth You should be my girl, fr fr, you sound like a genuine girl, i like that.

  • @jennifercates6888
    @jennifercates68885 жыл бұрын

    This is the definition of true pain.

  • @sharadharne7405

    @sharadharne7405

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hi friend good morning

  • @sharadharne7405

    @sharadharne7405

    5 жыл бұрын

    I like you

  • @henriqueafonsooliveira5576

    @henriqueafonsooliveira5576

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, baby!

  • @adrianarogeligo

    @adrianarogeligo

    4 жыл бұрын

    💔💔💔

  • @sharadharne7405

    @sharadharne7405

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@adrianarogeligo hello adree lovee 😊

  • @ferencfehervari5860
    @ferencfehervari58604 жыл бұрын

    Who’s revisiting this gem right after listening to “lose you to love me?”

  • @marymantanyani3528

    @marymantanyani3528

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me♥️♥️

  • @michellea6598

    @michellea6598

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ferenc Fehervari ofc ❤️🥺

  • @TheN92

    @TheN92

    4 жыл бұрын

    Revisiting this song because the new song did nothing to me. It’s boring. Selena can do so much better. Also I can’t believe she’s still singing about Justin 😭 this song has actual emotions

  • @jaylinntorres53

    @jaylinntorres53

    4 жыл бұрын

    Omg- same

  • @kittenkaterinaxoxo9986

    @kittenkaterinaxoxo9986

    4 жыл бұрын

    Noah oh my gosh finally someone that agrees with me. Her new song didn't give me any emotion this song however made me cry a lot.

  • @kaylabrooks_28
    @kaylabrooks_284 жыл бұрын

    There’s so many girls who can relate to her story

  • @actuallymilo

    @actuallymilo

    3 жыл бұрын

    boys too... i could relate to this song for my whole life.

  • @srinidhiaithal1999

    @srinidhiaithal1999

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@actuallymilo Mee too bro😭😭

  • @grahamwolfie2203

    @grahamwolfie2203

    3 жыл бұрын

    Boys too. This song describes the relationship with my ex boyfriend dead on

  • @brianfarley3239

    @brianfarley3239

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@actuallymilo same here brother

  • @tlalimaya

    @tlalimaya

    3 жыл бұрын

    100% for sure I do

  • @melinaonal7780
    @melinaonal77805 жыл бұрын

    2021 and it still feels...

  • @BubblyRens

    @BubblyRens

    5 жыл бұрын

    it really does

  • @kyra2004

    @kyra2004

    5 жыл бұрын

    I am, it’s a great song but I honestly forgot what it was written about

  • @melinaonal7780

    @melinaonal7780

    5 жыл бұрын

    Kyra Tolbert what was it written about?

  • @kyra2004

    @kyra2004

    5 жыл бұрын

    Melebra Onal idk i forgot

  • @syafiqahhafizullah2905

    @syafiqahhafizullah2905

    5 жыл бұрын

    how u tm ft of uh rglhf😗😇💑👥👰💔

  • @kelly_ckm7705
    @kelly_ckm77054 жыл бұрын

    When she said:" He doesn't know who I am anymore..." that shit hurts...

  • @Kimberly-wh4fe

    @Kimberly-wh4fe

    4 жыл бұрын

    Kelly _ckm I KNOW! 😭

  • @Tiaaa-rk5yc

    @Tiaaa-rk5yc

    4 жыл бұрын

    omfg. I know right 😣😣😣

  • @brittlynnxx

    @brittlynnxx

    4 жыл бұрын

    What did she mean by that?

  • @mookiemookie7144

    @mookiemookie7144

    4 жыл бұрын

    Kelly _ckm 😩💔

  • @kelly_ckm7705

    @kelly_ckm7705

    4 жыл бұрын

    To me it means that you get to know someone..who they are, what they're like, how their mind and heart works...their weaknesses and everything they're passionate about, the little kid they hide inside..just everything....and then there comes a moment were that person acts so cold like he doesn't know you like he doesn't know your heart and soul that he doesn't know where you're coming from when you're talking to them. You start to wish that he sees YOU again....but it doesnt seem to happen...and you know you are slowly losing him.

  • @suuh1996
    @suuh19964 жыл бұрын

    He may be married, but these songs will never be deleted. And their love too.

  • @katarinastanacev8143

    @katarinastanacev8143

    4 жыл бұрын

    love will remember.. ❤️

  • @suuh1996

    @suuh1996

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@yezbelify Agree hun. 😕

  • @saminouminou

    @saminouminou

    3 жыл бұрын

    Their "love" was toxic af tho. I never understood why so many people like them together when it was so obvious that they were poison for each other mind. I'm happy that he finally found a supportive wife who make him better and healthier. And selena really needed to focus on her health and let all this jelena bs in 2013.

  • @sidneysanchez962

    @sidneysanchez962

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@katarinastanacev8143 move on

  • @misspriss2482

    @misspriss2482

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@saminouminou I watch videos of him and his wife. She puts up with him just like Selena used to. I feel sorry for her.

  • @micaela8340
    @micaela83403 жыл бұрын

    No woman should feel like this, like, NEVER. For all those men that play around with a girl’s heart, remember that karma is a bitch and you’ll pay for what you’ve done someday. Sending love to all the people in the comments and to Selena too.

  • @nataliawashington872

    @nataliawashington872

    2 жыл бұрын

    No Woman or Man, I feel so bad for the men and women that have to put up with what Selena went through

  • @micaela8340

    @micaela8340

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@nataliawashington872 yeah that’s true, everyone can experience something like that, is just that is a very common behavior in man

  • @eunicekadzima3753

    @eunicekadzima3753

    2 жыл бұрын

    It feels like you can't breathe

  • @netninja8981

    @netninja8981

    2 жыл бұрын

    What about women playing with men hearts? Nobody should give false feelings to someone.

  • @katty5017

    @katty5017

    Жыл бұрын

    Say it louder....

  • @marrmm4554
    @marrmm45545 жыл бұрын

    "...Everybody goes through,I guess something like this,but I,I didn't really understand it and,I have no other option but to laugh at it at this point cause everyones asks "why do you still stay?" and I'm like " I guess, I dont love myself first" thats it,its not really.. thats it When I was on, when I was on stage And I was thinking of.. I felt like I know I know him though And I know that, and I know his heart And I know what he wouldn't do to hurt me But I didn't realize that I-I-I Feeling so confident, feeling so great about myself And then it just be completely shattered By one thing, by something so stupid He doesnt know who I am anymore And it doesnt matter because.. I guess I picked someone that was gonna break my heart..."

  • @Marina-qb2mu

    @Marina-qb2mu

    5 жыл бұрын

    Currently dying inside....💔why after years I still love him even thoe he breaks me and pretends it's my fault ... that his cheating is my fault for not being good enough ..

  • @Nnv630

    @Nnv630

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@Marina-qb2mu you are good you are a beautiful heart and you deserve more than that I wish you to find someone that will make you happy

  • @Marina-qb2mu

    @Marina-qb2mu

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@Nnv630 thank you....I will keep keep hope .. you do too

  • @glow2500

    @glow2500

    5 жыл бұрын

    thank you. but ..shit 💔

  • @henriqueafonsooliveira5576

    @henriqueafonsooliveira5576

    5 жыл бұрын

    aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa thank you so much!

  • @evelyndiaz9543
    @evelyndiaz95435 жыл бұрын

    Selena has honestly been through a lot , and who wouldn’t admire her strength ? She’s probably the most strongest female singer I’ve ever heard , idc what anyone says , she’s just so strong and amazing 💗

  • @ptyh27

    @ptyh27

    Жыл бұрын

    It's why she is going through health and mental issue. The stress is killing her, sadly

  • @kylahearts213
    @kylahearts2134 жыл бұрын

    *2014: “Everyone asks, “Why do you still stay?” and I’m like, “I guess I don’t love myself first.”* *2019: “I needed to lose you to love me.”* I’m so happy she’s found her peace😕

  • @vitorsozza1941

    @vitorsozza1941

    4 жыл бұрын

    I Hope that i'll find mine soon

  • @Mariemarie-uw7id

    @Mariemarie-uw7id

    4 жыл бұрын

    Vítor Sozza you will you are strong 💜

  • @deihoward

    @deihoward

    3 жыл бұрын

    currently sobbing :')

  • @kylahearts213

    @kylahearts213

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Olives Tea And you’re obsessed with her. Seek help, it’s not healthy❤️

  • @TheBestOfSac187

    @TheBestOfSac187

    2 жыл бұрын

    Does that mean that it took 5 years? Pain.

  • @lululala233
    @lululala233 Жыл бұрын

    Been listening to this ever since it came out and never felt her pain because I never went through what she did. Today I sit here listening to this and crying like a maniac because I finally understand each and every word down to every single emotion she felt in that moment. A person who loves you would never let you sit alone to cry the way I cried. Get yourself together and fight that sadness.

  • @worldofivy8816
    @worldofivy88165 жыл бұрын

    My poor baby...this hurts so damn much :( She came back like a queen.

  • @marcirwilcox1160

    @marcirwilcox1160

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yesssss 😍 ☝️ 🦋 😍

  • @user-xu8wj5dj4f

    @user-xu8wj5dj4f

    4 жыл бұрын

    Who is she shhh it's getting cold

  • @316arcangel
    @316arcangel4 жыл бұрын

    Never get 2 attached to anyone unless they also feel the same towards you, Bcuz one sided Expectations can mentally destroy you💔💯💯💯

  • @lilyhill5412

    @lilyhill5412

    3 жыл бұрын

    Your right

  • @misspriss2482

    @misspriss2482

    3 жыл бұрын

    True. The problem is that abusers pretend like they care when in fact they are either using you to avoid loneliness and/or using you as a placeholder until they find what they want. As soon as you start to pull away, they reel you in. People like this are masters at reading people. They know just when to turn the temperature back up to keep you holding on.

  • @qazedc3

    @qazedc3

    2 жыл бұрын

    I've always caught feelings fast and then was disappointed when my expectations were not met

  • @anitalorraine4607
    @anitalorraine46074 жыл бұрын

    Can’t believe I judged Selena’s relationship when I was in middle school until in 2017 i fell inlove with the wrong person and despite knowing that still came back ..countless times and used me for two years. It’s such a strange thing to see the red flags from the outside but when it’s you it’s impossible to see

  • @skovand

    @skovand

    2 жыл бұрын

    Me too sis. I feel all her pain and most of us we say shit about her, like damn. Karma baby

  • @nicolemarquez6861
    @nicolemarquez6861 Жыл бұрын

    you know you’ve been through it when you have the whole beginning of the extended cut memorized

  • @fannyalba7953
    @fannyalba79535 жыл бұрын

    It’s not just the song it’s the WHOLE thing that she says every single word describes what I have been feeling lately. It’s my fault for thinking he was the one

  • @SlumD0gMillionareFan

    @SlumD0gMillionareFan

    5 жыл бұрын

    Fanny Alba I know how you feel...

  • @thegirlwiththethorninherside

    @thegirlwiththethorninherside

    4 жыл бұрын

    Sometimes I feel like our breakup was my fault.

  • @njsjxndnsnkakdnjdjw1389

    @njsjxndnsnkakdnjdjw1389

    4 жыл бұрын

    Fanny Alba it’s not your fault💓

  • @firebenderkitty313

    @firebenderkitty313

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@njsjxndnsnkakdnjdjw1389 You don't know that. It's usually on both people.

  • @milysampson

    @milysampson

    4 жыл бұрын

    Firebenderkitty3 not really.

  • @Queexn
    @Queexn5 жыл бұрын

    The ending was from her singing it live and I swear it’s the most genuine heartfelt performance she’s ever done ❤️😭

  • @teteali7697

    @teteali7697

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ikr!! Thought I was the only one that thought that

  • @JuanFlores-mx5dx

    @JuanFlores-mx5dx

    5 жыл бұрын

    Jdnk I am not. Dank. Snks Osbus. Snksbj. Smksbi sm Osbu I nocs I have. Snksm Bubkfs. Thanks snks snk Ybksnk me know what you Busnks me and. Snksb sm

  • @doris__

    @doris__

    5 жыл бұрын

    True💝💝♥️♥️♥️

  • @denisedenise1812
    @denisedenise18124 жыл бұрын

    Uggg I feel soo bad for her and I know that there’s still a part of her that wants him still.. I know the feeling ! I wish I could just hug her like omg

  • @jazminemaquin1

    @jazminemaquin1

    4 жыл бұрын

    I dont think she would ever take him back but yes she loves him and he loves her. There love will always remain I believe, but he knows he hurt her to much and there is no rewind button from what he did getting married and now he has to try to fix the mistake he made by actually trying to be happy with hailey now. I do think he loves hailey, there is no doubt, but not the way he loved selena. I think Selena will come out strong because she has given herself time to heal

  • @rileybfree1913
    @rileybfree19132 жыл бұрын

    the intro is heartbreaking

  • @emilysaunders7903
    @emilysaunders79036 жыл бұрын

    This song always made me cry.

  • @clarissacuriel1489

    @clarissacuriel1489

    6 жыл бұрын

    Emily Saunders me too 💔

  • @kyriecoleman9447

    @kyriecoleman9447

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @rasmitamag5558

    @rasmitamag5558

    5 жыл бұрын

    me to 😢😢😢😢

  • @alonefox3300

    @alonefox3300

    5 жыл бұрын

    Me too 😭💔

  • @AnaKnollOfficial

    @AnaKnollOfficial

    5 жыл бұрын

    same! :(

  • @beachedsirens
    @beachedsirens5 жыл бұрын

    "You still love them, even if they no longer love you. There is bravery in letting go of a love you thought you knew. There is no shame in wanting someone who doesn't want you back. But darling, you deserve someone who wants to love you just as much." - Courtner Peppernell, Pillow Thoughts II

  • @angelazhang2411

    @angelazhang2411

    5 жыл бұрын

    priscilla ortiz I LOVE COURTNEY SO MUCH 💓😭

  • @lexiehelm8884

    @lexiehelm8884

    4 жыл бұрын

    I felt this deep in my soul

  • @badhabit7553

    @badhabit7553

    4 жыл бұрын

    Wowm never crossed on my mind all of those beautiful words. Thanks dear for wake me up

  • @bartusenpire4586
    @bartusenpire45864 жыл бұрын

    From “I guess I don’t love myself first” to “Why don’t you recognize that I’m so rare” 🦋✨

  • @keimanigrant737
    @keimanigrant7375 жыл бұрын

    "He doesn't know who I am anymore" that hit me hard when she started crying when she said that:(

  • @Marahezzat
    @Marahezzat5 жыл бұрын

    selena deserves the world i swear

  • @helloitsarandomperson

    @helloitsarandomperson

    5 жыл бұрын

    no name !! I know 😭 I cried when I heard she had an anxiety attack

  • @soulsearching7240
    @soulsearching72405 жыл бұрын

    Nobody should have to go through what she did with her first love. Pure torment. I will always hold a place in my heart for you.

  • @winterflower8930
    @winterflower89304 жыл бұрын

    "after this fever I'll survive" It kills me! If you read this comment and your are passing through a hard period, I want you to know that you are strong, beautiful and you deserve to be happy! Just keep going, you are not alone! You will make it! ❤️

  • @syuhadazamri91
    @syuhadazamri91 Жыл бұрын

    “I thought u r the one” at this point i just cant hold my tears brooo

  • @NFKhan-eu3ff
    @NFKhan-eu3ff5 жыл бұрын

    Love will make you, break you and then transform you completely.... into someone you never imagined to be....a someone who's the exact opposite of what you used to be. You're staring at the reflection in the mirror and how much it has changed physically, mentally and spiritually. With arms and legs having red streams flowing down you look at yourself....in desperation....but you don't know yourself anymore. You can't look in the mirror and not feel regret these days. You think the pain never ends. You think you're so broken you can't be fixed. You look at yourself and your shattered dreams...and how with each gust of wind the pieces travel away further making it even difficult for you to pick yourself up and fix yourself but the biggest misconception is that love doesn't destroy us but Its absence does.

  • @andreahoman1610

    @andreahoman1610

    5 жыл бұрын

    100% perfectly said! 💔

  • @josephmaya1669

    @josephmaya1669

    5 жыл бұрын

    The last sentence is so fucking true

  • @nadiashaik7742

    @nadiashaik7742

    5 жыл бұрын

    Well said... Totally agree with you here

  • @kiranchauhan4976

    @kiranchauhan4976

    5 жыл бұрын

    Omg it's so true😍

  • @mersjay4519

    @mersjay4519

    5 жыл бұрын

    💯😭

  • @mayrineinparadise5766
    @mayrineinparadise57665 жыл бұрын

    Her last words of her interview ,broke me . Same girl same 💔

  • @matheossky9128

    @matheossky9128

    5 жыл бұрын

    l literat cry with the laste words...l feel so bad

  • @sharadharne7405

    @sharadharne7405

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hello Mayrine haw are you

  • @jennagomez9862
    @jennagomez98624 жыл бұрын

    “He doesn’t know who I am anymore😭” bruh that shit hit me😭😭💔.

  • @bishamoon_
    @bishamoon_4 жыл бұрын

    Just when i thought the song is already sad enough, i started to read those comments. God bless every one of you, I hope you all will overcome your heartbreaks and smile again. Not many people are going to read this, but even if we all don't know each other, we're all human who experience kind of the same things so, just tell me if you need someone to talk i'm sure a lot of people here are willing to speak about each others problems 💖

  • @gotopinions9087
    @gotopinions90875 жыл бұрын

    “I guess it doesn’t matter... I picked someone who was gonna break my heart.”

  • @mookiemookie7144

    @mookiemookie7144

    4 жыл бұрын

    Got Opinions 💔💔

  • @shree1772
    @shree17725 жыл бұрын

    SELENA DESERVE THE WHOLE WORLD

  • @xrome6619

    @xrome6619

    5 жыл бұрын

    Shrashti Rajput there’s people out here getting it worse than her and you think she deserves the world....

  • @1..0w0..3

    @1..0w0..3

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@xrome6619 *Just because someone has a problem worse than yours doesn't mean your problem magically disappears or become irrelevant.* So stop with the "someone else has it worse than u, so you don't deserve the best, only they do" bullshit. No it's not. *This is just a stereotype towards problems in life..* Ex: You got into an accident, you didn't die, but you lost your leg. Now someone else died in that accident. It is true that someone else had it worse, but *does your pain of losing a leg disappear or become less relevant?* Nope. What hurts still hurts. The pain is real regardless of someone else having it tougher.

  • @xrome6619

    @xrome6619

    4 жыл бұрын

    T҉h҉e҉ ҉D҉a҉w҉n҉ ҉R҉i҉g҉h҉t҉ ҉B҉e҉f҉o҉r҉e҉ ҉ T҉h҉e҉ ҉S҉u҉n҉-҉R҉i҉s҉e҉ ҉I҉s҉ ҉T҉h҉e҉ ҉D҉a҉r҉k҉e҉s҉t҉ then everyone deserves the world not just her

  • @Corp0ratehippie
    @Corp0ratehippie5 жыл бұрын

    I’m still recovering from being in abusive relationships, and this song is so relatable. You can tell she meant every single word of what she sang. You make up this idea of someone in your head because they put forth an image or only a piece of themselves. Once you see who they really are, it’s hard to leave because the love you have for them convinces you that they’re going to change and go back to the way they were.

  • @ln3675

    @ln3675

    2 жыл бұрын

    exactly, you're so right !

  • @sashas.6736
    @sashas.67364 жыл бұрын

    Ive never been in a serious relationship and this is why. I don’t wanna get my heart shattered into pieces by someone who Is supposed to love me. My family does that enough. 😔

  • @cc.cat95
    @cc.cat955 жыл бұрын

    Now that I’m older, I understand her pain she went through. I’ve been there and it hurts so much. Selena is so strong ❤️

  • @thembelihleportiankosi7072
    @thembelihleportiankosi70725 жыл бұрын

    When she says" but then u make me feel crazy, you make me feel like it's my fault... I was in pain".. I felt that

  • @andreadunnuck4028
    @andreadunnuck40284 жыл бұрын

    The emotion she poured into this song shows that this was something that was super real for her. Nobody on this Earth deserves Selena. I have so much respect for the woman she has become. She is such a queen!

  • @baebay6015
    @baebay60154 жыл бұрын

    October 2019 and still love this song 💔😓

  • @dodoalsaleh4820
    @dodoalsaleh48205 жыл бұрын

    This song never gets old

  • @DiegoRamirez-et5ig

    @DiegoRamirez-et5ig

    5 жыл бұрын

    i was just thinkin that

  • @sammyruiz9466

    @sammyruiz9466

    4 жыл бұрын

    And it never will

  • @anjali9712
    @anjali97126 жыл бұрын

    This made me cry. Why'd you mess with my heart like that? She was going through so much when she released this song. I can't help but cry because I can literally feel her feelings through the song😢💔. Glad she's happy now and in a good place😊♥

  • @zaidah1988

    @zaidah1988

    5 жыл бұрын

    Anjali Pankaj Morning

  • @brifontaine5149

    @brifontaine5149

    5 жыл бұрын

    Never really happy just learning to accept I been there still going through it.b

  • @brooklynallen796

    @brooklynallen796

    5 жыл бұрын

    Anjali Pankaj Suck it up bitch you're better than them

  • @stelio196

    @stelio196

    5 жыл бұрын

    She does this, makes us feel these strong feelings with her, she is an incredible person, can not understand how Justin did not do everything to stay with her.

  • @syafiqahhafizullah2905

    @syafiqahhafizullah2905

    5 жыл бұрын

    💩😽😽💑👫

  • @chasingghosts1090
    @chasingghosts10903 жыл бұрын

    “I thought you were the one...” Jesus Christ I’m going through this rn....

  • @cblue5885
    @cblue58854 жыл бұрын

    Feeling so confident in myself then be completely shattered by one thing...by something so stupid..

  • @brittlynnxx

    @brittlynnxx

    4 жыл бұрын

    What was the one stupid thing

  • @Danielsmith-ek8ng
    @Danielsmith-ek8ng5 жыл бұрын

    This makes me cry for the person I never had

  • @paulina5693
    @paulina56932 жыл бұрын

    I think it's one of her best songs ...

  • @liitleb0nez
    @liitleb0nez4 жыл бұрын

    I think It’s better that they split. They were so toxic, so on and off and now they both seem so much happier. The words In this song explain how badly her mind was manipulated to excuse all of his actions at the cost of her feelings. She’s purely miserable In this song and so deeply codependent that It’s unhealthy. Sometimes what we want Isn’t what’s best for us. I understand all too well what she went though. Nobody deserves to go through this.

  • @tybrass5543

    @tybrass5543

    3 жыл бұрын

    HI there hello to do something

  • @emaaniqbal7685
    @emaaniqbal76855 жыл бұрын

    listen close your eyes dont skip and remember someone loves you

  • @cassiejaide
    @cassiejaide5 жыл бұрын

    I just got out of an abusive relationship...and I’m SO happy !!!! 😁😁😃😃 I didn’t realize how unhappy he made me until I had no other choice but to leave

  • @sampeters7350

    @sampeters7350

    5 жыл бұрын

    Cassie Jaide Been there 9yrs I stuck it out unbelievable the heartbreak unhappiness trauma illness etc etc. One person can cause through Abuse Domestic Violence bloody incomprehensible at times. Good luck

  • @chips_guac68

    @chips_guac68

    5 жыл бұрын

    Good for you girl!

  • @amberday3918

    @amberday3918

    5 жыл бұрын

    Cassie Jaide Im happy you left !! ❤️

  • @joycetarabay9624

    @joycetarabay9624

    5 жыл бұрын

    Youll be proud of yourself later on

  • @princessabarquez5588

    @princessabarquez5588

    5 жыл бұрын

    Cassie Jaide You were brave. I’m proud of you. ❤️

  • @she4101
    @she41014 жыл бұрын

    When she says "I guess I don't love myself first" 0:21 I just feel so happy listening to her new song "lose you to love me" because now I know that she has loved herself and she is full of joy

  • @crazyy_giio
    @crazyy_giio6 ай бұрын

    I can safely say that I feel her tone of voice, her words and completely relate to her! Not just the lyrics, but her personal voice and can safely say that I am currently hurting from an ex still & him cant shake it off 😢 hearing this song this time around does hit different, Selena has helped me heal in all my years with her music. But this one is tough to heal cause her voice words are honestly my feelings currently 😢

  • @Krodri7229
    @Krodri72295 жыл бұрын

    This made me cry!!! I’m going thru this heartbreak and this song just makes me cry😭😭😭 it’s so beautiful and I can feel Selena’s pain!!!! My queen!!!!

  • @victoriousexotik_eurobornb3

    @victoriousexotik_eurobornb3

    5 жыл бұрын

    Me too 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @jessicacaceres8301

    @jessicacaceres8301

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same here😔

  • @_737
    @_7375 жыл бұрын

    Feeling very sad about recent moments of Selena's life. LOVE is like this, 99% brings pain at any point of life . Her this song is heart touching & makes me cry.

  • @canadiandcute

    @canadiandcute

    5 жыл бұрын

    She still has money she’s still young she’s still pretty it’s not that bad. There’s literally 3 billion people in the world right now who don’t have food. Kids with cancer that don’t have medical treatment and dying slowly on the ground surrounded by garbage and animal feces. The biggest destruction of the planet since the dinosaurs were wiped out is literally happening in front of our eyes. But no I feel sooo sad about Selena throwing a temper tantrum and going to the nut house over the Biebs marrying his twin sister. Just end it now I can’t take anymore 😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @_737

    @_737

    5 жыл бұрын

    Sometime we forgot that each and every persons feelings and way of love is different which shouldn't be compared with other crisis in the world. Depression comes from the way to approach their own situation of love in their life . It can't be measured by wealth. AND every single person is different , we can't put our thought/ thinking or even decision on them !

  • @SammyVidalMusic

    @SammyVidalMusic

    5 жыл бұрын

    _* d

  • @bassyreyes6999
    @bassyreyes69992 жыл бұрын

    Omg thank you so much for also putting the end part from her live version. That's my favorite part...... "I thought you were the one......"

  • @indredu2
    @indredu24 жыл бұрын

    "I guess...I didn't love myself first..." Felt that, so true .

  • @christinainthecity
    @christinainthecity6 жыл бұрын

    I think we’ve all been there... 💕

  • @natalievasquez5808

    @natalievasquez5808

    5 жыл бұрын

    I fell bad for her

  • @saesae6730

    @saesae6730

    5 жыл бұрын

    victoria justice be like

  • @shrutibathla2784

    @shrutibathla2784

    5 жыл бұрын

    and sometimes u just stick around waitin' for stuff dats never gonna happen u know..

  • @johntripler3851
    @johntripler38516 жыл бұрын

    Selena Gomez very beautiful song and amazing and your voice and vocals are absolutely and incredibly fantastic always truly enjoy your music love ya

  • @julioramos924

    @julioramos924

    4 жыл бұрын

    John Tripler Jessica Ramos

  • @kylemichaelcavanaugh
    @kylemichaelcavanaugh4 жыл бұрын

    “He doesn’t know who I am anymore” that part hurt cause it’s so true. “It doesn’t matter anymore because I picked someone who was gonna break my heart” Damn... selena. Girl, that just broke me, why do we do this to ourselves. 😪

  • @Chyna627
    @Chyna6274 жыл бұрын

    Omg the part when she was talking in the beginning😩💔🥺🥺

  • @rajashrijoshi9763
    @rajashrijoshi97635 жыл бұрын

    your first love is Your weakness allows you never forget this and no one change the first love feelings or 2 love or 3 love you always remember your first love in life time 🙂

  • @gabriellaromao382

    @gabriellaromao382

    4 жыл бұрын

    I never forgot my first love... I will always love him😔

  • @pjfl1998xx
    @pjfl1998xx5 жыл бұрын

    Jelena is one of the most beautiful love story yet the most heartbreaking one, i guess fame, people and pressure ruins their relationship but i know that they both still and frvr holds a place in each other's heart

  • @unapologeticcornball1826
    @unapologeticcornball18262 жыл бұрын

    I guess I didn’t live myself first that hit hard

  • @HonestlyMayahh
    @HonestlyMayahh3 жыл бұрын

    My mom listened to this when i didn’t understand the lyrics, Now that i’m 3 years older I understand the lyrics and I can feel her pain.

  • @pennyz5658
    @pennyz56586 жыл бұрын

    This song always be my favourite

  • @sarafinafaustin9621
    @sarafinafaustin96215 жыл бұрын

    I felt that intro.

  • @deborahtravers6342

    @deborahtravers6342

    5 жыл бұрын

    Sarafina Faustin = YES ' KNOWS what's going on 😉😙😂😂😁😀😆😆😆😲😔But we LOVE YOU

  • @Giddianyxo
    @Giddianyxo2 жыл бұрын

    used to say "wow , shes so dumb , why cant she leave him already? its not that hard" now im like "wow." we love u selena im so happy ur doing amazing baby

  • @brinawilson2639
    @brinawilson2639 Жыл бұрын

    This long version needs to be on 🍎

  • @patrciaog.3439
    @patrciaog.34395 жыл бұрын

    I love her explanation. I've been through that so I understand. It sucks mire when your famous and people call you names based on your partner. This song is so raw I love it. Good job Selena!

  • @liar8645
    @liar86455 жыл бұрын

    “i thought u were the one”.

  • @joselupercio2207

    @joselupercio2207

    4 жыл бұрын

    I think she is a good girl 😊.

  • @jayjay1781
    @jayjay17814 жыл бұрын

    My boyfriend lied to me to my face countless times about him cheating then turned around told the truth then told me it was my fault.... But yet im sitting here about to lost my career, lose myself, and lose my sanity over a guy who could care less... God Why Me

  • @horacemarley4433

    @horacemarley4433

    4 жыл бұрын

    Cry your river if you need to... it's going to take some time but you'll get through this!

  • @rhondajohnson4053

    @rhondajohnson4053

    4 жыл бұрын

    LOVE can make us BLIND, and make us make bad choices & decisions, but ONE thing I have had to learn the hard is that “Real Love” is g one sided and it doesn’t work ONLY 1 way. That is the TRUTH, no matter how much I or anyone else doesn’t want to hear or believe it, UNFORTUNATELY it’s the hurtful Truth. ❤️

  • @voyezmevoyage

    @voyezmevoyage

    3 жыл бұрын

    saw your comment and all i can say that you’re not alone...you’ll be healing in time..I’ve been through it.. and its hard but everything will pass as time goes by ..so keep alive

  • @kellyloves5324

    @kellyloves5324

    3 жыл бұрын

    I can relate my ex lied to me countless times then I found out he was really cheating and come to find out he had a history of cheating before that I never new bout, honesty it still hurts even tho the break up was in April 🥺🥺 I mean I don’t have strong feelings for him anymore but the care is still there and that’s what is tearing me up

  • @ashwini1665

    @ashwini1665

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@horacemarley4433 it's been an year..I'm not healed..getting worse..and I don't want him anymore..but the self love I had is broken..

  • @anisaababyy
    @anisaababyy4 жыл бұрын

    im going through this pain rn, it's the most terrible thing I've ever felt. it’s so hard being so vulnerable with somebody , somebody you love , and would do anything for. but aren’t sure if they’d do anything for you .

  • @anisaababyy

    @anisaababyy

    4 жыл бұрын

    N KIRANKUMAR i’m getting better :) thank you

  • @firasanees2293
    @firasanees22935 жыл бұрын

    4:09 you can’t tell me that this isn’t Justin‘s voice

  • @TheSecretdiary2

    @TheSecretdiary2

    5 жыл бұрын

    same

  • @selinerguvenli3525

    @selinerguvenli3525

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @annamariapartono641

    @annamariapartono641

    5 жыл бұрын

    wat

  • @cutecutexox

    @cutecutexox

    5 жыл бұрын

    yo deadass its justin

  • @lilulumi

    @lilulumi

    5 жыл бұрын

    I didn’t even hear that at first 😱

  • @jhonoviedotaborda
    @jhonoviedotaborda6 жыл бұрын

    Voice Broken, it hurts.

  • @isamalfoy8120
    @isamalfoy81204 жыл бұрын

    "i guess i don't love myself first." holy shit.

  • @alainadorgan1889
    @alainadorgan18894 жыл бұрын

    Man, this song hits the same no matter how many times you hear it💯

  • @LindzFletch17
    @LindzFletch175 жыл бұрын

    Wow, that’s a powerful intro

  • @kathyjansen7129
    @kathyjansen71295 жыл бұрын

    She will always love him deep in her heart. And he too.

  • @naimabegum7216
    @naimabegum72164 жыл бұрын

    "I picked someone who was going to break my heart" "damn I felt that"💔💔💔💔

  • @user-xu8wj5dj4f

    @user-xu8wj5dj4f

    4 жыл бұрын

    Forever inked

  • @mhdwantz6214
    @mhdwantz62144 жыл бұрын

    This is what I’ve been through for 7 years! This is really sad when you know that your wasting your time with someone that will never truly appreciate you 💔

  • @Fairiez4u
    @Fairiez4u5 жыл бұрын

    I LOVE HER VOICE SO MUCH

  • @samanthamarie3891
    @samanthamarie38915 жыл бұрын

    This song gets me on so many levels .

  • @sharadharne7405

    @sharadharne7405

    4 жыл бұрын

    You are very good i can friend you

  • @tittonegocio
    @tittonegocio4 жыл бұрын

    October 2019 and still love this song❤️

  • @bcrbes
    @bcrbes3 жыл бұрын

    The intro got me 😭

  • @julis2005
    @julis20053 жыл бұрын

    It's only when you go through this you get to understand her and how much hurt and pain she had to suffer for a man that didn't deserve her.

  • @helsa6168
    @helsa61682 жыл бұрын

    You got me sippin' on something I can't compare to nothing I've ever known, I'm hoping That after this fever I'll survive I know I'm acting a bit crazy Strung out, a little bit hazy Hand over heart, I'm praying That I'm gonna make it out alive The bed's getting cold and you're not here The future that we hold is so unclear But I'm not alive until you call And I'll bet the odds against it all Save your advice 'cause I won't hear You might be right, but I don't care There's a million reasons why I should give you up But the heart wants what it wants The heart wants what it wants You got me scattered in pieces Shining like stars and screaming Lighting me up like Venus But then you disappear and make me wait And every second's like torture Heroin drip, no more so Finding a way to let go Baby, baby, no, I can't escape The bed's getting cold and you're not here The future that we hold is so unclear But I'm not alive until you call And I'll bet the odds against it all Save your advice 'cause I won't hear You might be right, but I don't care There's a million reasons why I should give you up But the heart wants what it wants The heart wants what it wants The heart wants what it wants The heart wants what it wants This is a modern fairy tale No happy endings No wind in our sails But I can't imagine a life without Breathless moments Breaking me down, down, down, down The bed's getting cold and you're not here The future that we hold is so unclear But I'm not alive until you call And I'll bet the odds against it all Save your advice 'cause I won't hear You might be right, but I don't care There's a million reasons why I should give you up But the heart wants what it wants The heart wants what it wants The heart wants what it wants The heart wants what it wants The heart wants what it wants, baby It wants what it wants, baby It wants what it wants It wants what it wants The heart wants what it wants, baby It wants what it wants

  • @rubynayeli5296
    @rubynayeli52964 жыл бұрын

    Imagine breaking Selena’s heart.

  • @mercedesrogers9951
    @mercedesrogers99514 жыл бұрын

    2019 Selena: "He doesn't know who I am anymore". Me: 💔😔

  • @lilibooba7317

    @lilibooba7317

    4 жыл бұрын

    😭❤

  • @francenepiazza3464

    @francenepiazza3464

    4 жыл бұрын

    Mercedes Rogers she didn’t even know who she was....yet.