simp clubs

@andydhillon1977

Ай бұрын

Exactly!

@handsomeX

Ай бұрын

💯🎯

@mikejohn29mj

Ай бұрын

Why go to strip clubs when you can watch it on the internet for free?

@pontoilet

Ай бұрын

or pay for cat

@christopherlarkin8524

Ай бұрын

😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣 I never thought about it like that, but it’s TRUE

Worked at a peep show. First thing the manager warned me about was never trust the dancers. They were like children, constantly testing boundaries.

@joeskwara5823

Ай бұрын

That’s because they have borderline personality disorder

@ojosazules8828

Ай бұрын

Fast money...Slow problems...

@sole__doubt

Ай бұрын

You could just replace the word dancers with women and the comment would still be totally accurate.

@rocstarang5747

Ай бұрын

Key word "children"

@brunoqnzbk7891

Ай бұрын

​@@sole__doubtSorry, not all women are for hire. Maybe your moms.

I feel apart of becoming an adult is realizing that casinos and strip clubs aren't the fun places they're made out to be.

@dimitralex1892

11 күн бұрын

also realize most adults are not as adult as you thought

@bobcantstandzyobitz9778

10 күн бұрын

bars, too. Not that fun.

@ylysergic1749

9 күн бұрын

@@bobcantstandzyobitz9778 for the most part. There are a few that are cozy.

@andyisdead

9 күн бұрын

​@@bobcantstandzyobitz9778nightclubs too

@ViceCoin

9 күн бұрын

Beats the hell outta church Bible study with seniors!

Being a bouncer for 6 years changed me forever . Can't be in crowded venues, can't sit with back to entrances, don't trust humans, always have to find a corner to watch the room, can't get drunk - a part of your brain is always switched on.. to name a few.

@popovski4385

Ай бұрын

calm down, jason bourne

@synewparadigm

Ай бұрын

Sounds like PTSD

@DwyaneWadeCounty

Ай бұрын

Yeah, after a friend of mine died from alcoholism at the age of 20, I can never drink.

@JR-Canada

Ай бұрын

I have 1 question: were those clients guys hideous looking? What percentage you think would NOT have a chance with a good looking woman?

@mps9649

Ай бұрын

​@popovski4385 hahaha I'm far from Jason Bourne mate. Just a regular guy who stayed a bit too long in the security industry.

One of the things I love about KZread is that it has given people like yourself the ability to share your stories instead of only having to listen to the talking heads spewing the approved propaganda.

@gdcat777

Ай бұрын

As long as touyube doesn't ban the "wrongthink.

@caesar349

Ай бұрын

This platform has become very Orwellian

@deathuponusalll

Ай бұрын

100% agreed with this whole thread

@jrossofskb

Ай бұрын

@@gdcat777 They're doing it in drips and drabs for now.

@jrossofskb

Ай бұрын

@@caesar349 Yes it has!

Going to a strip club is like going through the drive thru when you’re starving, paying an exorbitant amount for stale food, only for them to dangle it in front of your face and you drive away still hungry.

@lovetruth8549

Ай бұрын

Best metaphor I've heard all week

@VideoArchiveGuy

Ай бұрын

I've heard it expressed similarly - you go to a restaurant, but you have to pay $100 to look at the menu and the food, but they don't actually serve any food.

@VegasAlien1

Ай бұрын

You can eat whats on the menu at both places, but fast food is cheaper and in this case actually better for you.

@lyndachristina9955

Ай бұрын

That's how they ensure you return

@BillViets

29 күн бұрын

If you consider leaving after a hand relief akin to leaving hungry.

I was an Uber driver for a year in Phoenix. I realized after a while that picking up the drunk guys at the strip club at 4 AM was usually the best ride to get. They were just like you described. Very nice, sweet, young innocent men. they would always joke about how much money they just lost. Tell it was just guys who were super awkward with women, but wanted that girlfriend connection. I would also occasionally take the dancers home. They were conceited party girls who didn’t care about anyone who were the opposite of sweet.

@thatgearguy

Ай бұрын

About sums it up.

@ipodman1910

Ай бұрын

It sums it up for the external world as well…

@bronwench5055

Ай бұрын

Yeah, my mom was a dispatcher for a cab company for many years, she told me the drivers hated picking up girls from the strip clubs. Like dancers, hair dressers etc., cab drivers are private contractors who pay the cab company a fee each shift that doesn't include gas, cleaning and so on so it was entirely possible on a slow night to work a 12 hour shift and actually lose money. So the dancers should be sympathetic to the drivers needing to get paid, right? Wrong! Even though they had probably just made several hundred dollars or more, bragged about it, at the end of the ride they wanted it free for the privilege of being a hot girl or maybe for a quick flash or watch two of them play with each other for a bit. When the drivers said no, they need the fare- the girls became whiny, petulant or just down right nasty to them. Didn't even think about the body glitter clean up factor.

@darlenetroise7079

Ай бұрын

Innocent, naive, poor wittle boys who got taken advantage of by those evil, selfish, no good woman 🎻😂

@ipodman1910

Ай бұрын

@@darlenetroise7079 truth hurts, huh?

I've heard a few stories from friends that strippers were "really into" them and liked them so much that she organised to go on a date with them next week (but they're not allowed to give out their phone number) and when the girl didn't show (surprise, surprise) the guy will mope back to the club looking for her and she'd say "Oh I'm so sorry, I forgot." or "Oh babe I needed the extra shift and had to work tonight. Since you're here, do you want a private dance?" and string the guy along for months until he realises it's just a sales technique.

@JKDVIPER

Ай бұрын

Yup. I had a lady at a strip club tell me wait outside she's coming out to go hang out with you. 😂❤she never came out.

@demigod8522

Ай бұрын

That's some brutal manipulative shit. Those are not good women at all if they don't feel guilty about doing that kind of behavior.

@isaacvale918

Ай бұрын

​@@demigod8522 its difficult, because we'd call them stupid for falling for that "lemme save you😊"

@caesar349

Ай бұрын

@@demigod8522that’s why they’re strippers. They don’t need a moral code.

@torachan23

Ай бұрын

​@@demigod8522 women never feel bad about manipulating men

He speaks the truth. Strip clubs in the US operate 98% in the exact same manner. It is a seedy business and it preys upon weak people.

@ravishingrickrude8016

Ай бұрын

Zero sympathy for lonely fools

@senecanicholson1090

Ай бұрын

I was telling my friend about strip clubs and massage parlors are for the single, lonely, and completely cursed.

@josephj6521

Ай бұрын

@@senecanicholson1090you’ll be surprised how many married men go to clubs, massage parkour and brothels. Men always want something new and exciting.

@Pikachu-qr4yb

Ай бұрын

While true, is that so shocking? It’s pretty obvious

@paarker

Ай бұрын

Isn’t that just nature. I think people generally have no sympathy for people who don’t help themselves. Those who bring it on to themselves, time after time.

I was a county sheriff for 10 years. We had a strip joint on the edge of an Indian reservation and it was bar none the roughest place I’ve ever had to go into. The girls were all Native, some underage, most on drugs and all were turning tricks. We finally told the owner that no shit will be tolerated anymore so he hired a bunch of goons to keep the peace. It got 10 times worse when they started. He finally went to prison for human trafficking.

@user-eg3zs6oi7c

Ай бұрын

i always saw these strip clubs as SCAMS. i always watched p0r n since i was 13 (now 47). no video has ever scammed me. how nice!

@leftseat30

Ай бұрын

Where was that...approximately? If you dont mind....I'll be fair and go first....grew up in far northern Wisconsin lots of tribes around there

@risinbison1106

Ай бұрын

@@leftseat30 good old Ft Yates on the ND side of the Standing rock Indian reservation. Pretty sure that club has switched hands about 80 times since then. Tribal police were corrupt as hell and had to have federal marshals intervene , makes the mafia look like the Boy Scouts. I was fresh out of the academy and got a real quick education in how reservations really work.

@leftseat30

Ай бұрын

@risinbison1106 I grew up around the reservations and went to school with tribal kids. Its obviously a hugely touchy subject so I'll lead with love so to speak...I think the tribal people are having the worst time of any demographic in america, but since it's bascially confined to the country and poor people like me, no one really evens knows about this situation. I can't imagine policing on or near a reservation. I know of one cop who shot a kid ---the kid coming at him with a knife---I am pretty sure a verified "good" shoot after the review....and the tribe still went for the "throat" of that cop. That was just too far for me!! I lost so much respect for the tribe after that....

@risinbison1106

Ай бұрын

@@leftseat30 I can’t think of a people, full disclosure my grandfather is Lakota Sioux, that has had more misery brought upon on it by others and sadly, by itself. Reservations are a never ending cycle of dependency, they’re given enough government money to survive but too much to want to better their lives. Tribal councils, in the area I worked, are corrupt, give kickbacks and have their own enforcement that keeps them in power. I hated going onto the res because I knew it wasn’t going to end well because their system is just too well engrained generation after generation. I seriously don’t know how to end this other than the government just giving them the land and cutting all assistance and say you’re on your own but I know that’s never going to happen. What happens on the res is a closely guarded secret and most of the violent crimes are never reported, it’s just the way it is.

Man, respect to you for willing to admit that you eventually succumbed to the offer to dance for 500 pound. I think you could have left that bit of the story out and nobody would have thought twice but your willingness to be transparent is admirable.

@dmacrolens

24 күн бұрын

Truly.

@laurabeaty915

14 күн бұрын

he’s a man of the people

@jabe3780

10 күн бұрын

Why are you caring about his dancing for 500 pounds?

@Alienalloy

9 күн бұрын

lol, were all prostitutes, its just down to the numbers offered.

@ForgeMasterXXL

3 күн бұрын

Most men would do it mate, it just a question of the right price.

Funny how the common lie society wants you to believe is that the dancers are poor helpless victims when in reality that's more often the customers that they prey upon.

@dantefernandodantezambrano7910

Ай бұрын

As I once have heard that every customer who walks into a strip club is seen as a walking ATM.

@smasherblues5322

Ай бұрын

If you spend all your money at the peelers, you’re not a victim, you’re an idiot.

@threat645

Ай бұрын

They are victims and predators at the same time., They were victims as children, stuck in child mental states in adult sexy bodies, now praying on weak men.

@d.optional3381

Ай бұрын

Lmao ok

@Durkakunibakalaka950

Ай бұрын

Women have been putting men into the trick bag since the beginning of time. It’s these simps that want to save a ho-ho-ho.

This is why youtube is so amazing. Id never run into this guy but now i get to hear his extraordinary story. Thanks for sharing!

@stellviahohenheim

Ай бұрын

Basically, anything you hear from Hollywood is lies

@jamespell8091

Ай бұрын

Yes it's like news from the other side.

Just monetizing loneliness

@AlexJonesFool

Ай бұрын

Sad and pathetic to be honest

@TheoCynical

Ай бұрын

Before Only Yams there was this after all...

@fantabuloussnuffaluffagus

Ай бұрын

And monetizing teenage horniness. The only time I've been in a strip club was when I was very young. I just sat there and drank my beer and watched. One of the girls still got offended by me and threw a drink at me. She missed and soaked my friend. I have no idea what set her off.

@Anthrolithos

Ай бұрын

​@@TheoCynical"Only Yams" 😂😂. Whatever you do, don't go on there expecting to find your sweet potato.

@horatiohuffnagel7978

Ай бұрын

Mostly yes but some people coming through town for a night just like to see some nice boobs and a nice can. It's nice to see them dance sexy and have a nice bod. Most girls these days let themselves go at a young age. Seeing a chick that's fit, hot and can work a pole is nice to see every now and then. 😊

I was a bouncer for 16 yrs. Everything he’s saying is correct.

Had a buddy of mine who was a DJ at a strip club. We used to say “you’re lucky to be surrounded by all those beautiful strippers”, and then he told us the truth. He said that most were entitled toddlers in adult bodies. Most were either alcoholics or drug addicts, and pretty well all were tied up with motorcycle gangs in one way or another. They’re damaged goods. He used to try and break up cat fights, but got to learn that it was futile and he would end up getting the worst of it. Instead, he would just stand back and let nature take it’s course. Can’t say as I blame him. He only worked there for a few months, and when he left he said he’d miss the money but definitely not the drama.

@autoclearanceuk7191

Ай бұрын

So, you used to know a guy who worked at one place for a few months who reckoned this. Hardly evidential.

@kvntsuay

Ай бұрын

@@autoclearanceuk7191it wasnt a court case just someones oppinion !

@matsu820

Ай бұрын

@autoclearanceuk7191 evi- what?

@bupkis1445

Ай бұрын

And that’s considered stunning and brave in the US The stripping that is

@NotGoodAtNamingThings

Ай бұрын

​@@bupkis1445 - By a very loud minority of people, yes. Most people agree with you.

A friend of mine was a dancer, said that about 90 percent of the women are L's, many of them dont like men, and will drain every cent they can from them. A small percentage are dropped off by guys and make their money for some guy who is their "boyfriend", and a very small percentage use it to advance themselves by paying for college and such, but that is a very small percentage.

@josephvillines9766

Ай бұрын

Most women today in general are lesbian just undercover

@James-xb2yj

25 күн бұрын

yea forget where i read it. but theirs a psychology penis envy thing going on in some women where they think just cause were men and have a clear advantage in life means they can trick, steal, take advantage of us.

@oldenoughtoknowbetter5824

16 күн бұрын

if you pay attention you see that in the clubs. The women who are strickly business and aggressive are usually the ones

@FlorenceLamb

13 күн бұрын

I submit that if this were anyone's livelihood it could be challenging to see the best in men who simply look at them as if they were a porkchop who owed them something. Interesting the resentment on this thread about women who may not have had a lot of other opportunities practice unfettered capitalism to pay their bills. For grown azzz men who frequent such clubs and then complain that they did not receive whatever they felt 'entitled' to and that the women were transactional, I only can come up with one word: DUH!!

Bounced for 2 years. I’ll never look at the world the same again.

@Ricobaca

Ай бұрын

Why?

@thatgearguy

Ай бұрын

Because you see repeated shitbag behaviour from alot of seemingly nice people. It makes you permanently suspicious!

@KarenLopez-in5ih

Ай бұрын

Especially.womem..they all live double live s

@JDStone20

Ай бұрын

Well when I bounced I was already a street hoodlum, so bouncing was almost either normal or a small break I got to do fun stuff and get paid for. Cleaned up my life 15 years ago and never looked back. Don't miss it. Well, maybe a little every once in a while.

@adandiaz7053

Ай бұрын

I did it for one night, but i didnt like what they paid me, so i went back to what i knew best. Tires!

Before army; I worked in a night club. After working a year; helping whatever needed in club. The nights, I had to assist security. Turned me off completely to going to places just like it. Gentleman clubs; night clubs, dark buildings loud music lots of drinking. There’s one night in my youth working at a night club; when I realized, human nature is nasty. Then went to sign up for Army, I was so disgusted working in that environment.

@Amanojaku8

Ай бұрын

You were so disgusted with your society at home that you signed up to kill people half way across the world. Nice.

@MrMrtvozornik

Ай бұрын

Lmao, went from "nasty sexual industry" to "nasty violence industry". At least, the second industry is male dominated and men like hierarchy, structure and don't have PMS.

@JT-bc5cd

Ай бұрын

Don’t let the darkest places colour your entire nature of humanity. Humans are just as capable of great virtue as they are of great vice.

@BlackopolypsePodcastsandMedia

Ай бұрын

You went to join the only thing worse than working at a nightclub? At least in the club, you can choose to go back outside. Most times, the army is a one-way ticket to hell! Actually, I have never met a happy soldier, and I live near and have worked on multiple bases.

@Pepe-ts9ec

28 күн бұрын

@@BlackopolypsePodcastsandMedia Pretty ironic. I’m active duty military. Guys I know who get out end up working security at clubs. It’s like the opposite of this guy’s story.

I started out as security for a stirp club in South Florida. After roughly 15 years, I worked my way up to ownership partner. Most of the girls were very well educated, self-supporting students. Maintaining the "girlfriend experience" illusion is paramount. At closing time, the parking lot was cleared of stragglers, then a mandatory 20 minute "all-clear" time was imposed before the ladies were escorted to their cars by security. The dressing room was an entirely different experience. Keep in mind, naturally a group of women who spend a considerable amount of time together they tend to synchronize their biological functions. So,.... bluntly speaking, you could easily have 20 girls all on PMS psychosis. Not fun.

@THEONENONLYMJO

Ай бұрын

Dam 20 girls pmsing at the same time must of been hell lol

@kevinford6420

Ай бұрын

Shit,run for your life 🤣🤣🤣

@Mr.Bathelus832

Ай бұрын

Yeah, and those girls have been sexually abused/rape. Did you forget?

@PepeDeezNutz

Ай бұрын

Did you have a mop for the stage?

@andrewcarlson2178

Ай бұрын

Half of them call out at that time of month. Scheduling is a bitch

Probably the same in U.S. strip clubs. I always tell guys that the women do not like you and just want your money but they don't listen. If a stripper agrees to date you it's because she's trying to wring every penny she can out of you. The lives of most strippers are a mess and you don't want to take that on.

@andydhillon1977

Ай бұрын

An old friend of mine, who was somewhat of a loser, started dating a stripper. I politely told him to be careful. 2nd date, she tells him she had ovarian cancer and couldn't afford treatment. Smh

@DavidLLambertmobile

Ай бұрын

I worked in 2 places Orlando.gov 2009, 10+ weeks summer. I wasn't security directly but saw a LOT 😟 . Many "dancers" had 0 rap, 0 game. They acted like they were doing the male customers a big favor. 25-35% of the guys even said directly to me the dancers were bad, not worth the $$$. Only 10-15% of the women were decent looking. 2-3 I had close contact with. Not sex but a few clearly wanted male attention. A few were messes. Like Jerry Springer show bad.

@QuartuvLarry

Ай бұрын

You’re right. But for truckers who have no life outside the sleeper cab and truck stops, they are the closest thing to relationships

@kurrwa

Ай бұрын

@@your_very_bestthat’s so true

@Neoquaker1

Ай бұрын

You basically described marriage. There is no difference between a stripper and a wife. At least you're not legally bound to a dancer.

One time the girl really liked me. We really had a connection. I’ll never forget you Diamond Fantasia! Hardworking college girl studying to be a Doctor.

@annehechesliverdonation9624

Ай бұрын

Lmao

When my daughters were young, another mom of their friend had a sewing business making outfits for strippers. She took over for her mom. She enjoyed it , liked the girls but when her husband visited her at a costume fitting in the club once, all the ladies swarmed her husband. She asked them before the visit to back off her man. They totally disregarded her.

I know this might be a weird compliment but you are a good story teller. You set the scene for an interesting look to an industry not a lot of people see.

@thatgearguy

Ай бұрын

Thanks bud! Appreciated!!

@MegaJackpinesavage

27 күн бұрын

@@thatgearguy A career barman w/ experience in "The Industry" I'll attest to Mr Shaw that a lot more people catch "interesting looks" than they ever let on to in confession --- women included.

I was not able to understand the OnlyFans (why would you pay for something which is free online). After watching this I have finally got it. It's not about porn, it's all about the company and attention. Simps will be simping.

@NotGoodAtNamingThings

Ай бұрын

That's it exactly. Simps. Women online get massive amounts of attention from simps. That attention drives all kinds of female bad behavior.

@ahobimo732

28 күн бұрын

Always has been, man.

@EduFirenze

27 күн бұрын

Onylfans is a stripclub at home for those who are too insecure to take the trip

@redseven4040

27 күн бұрын

You got it, man. A false sense of emotional connection, something you can never buy

@richborn6700

24 күн бұрын

Had stripper friends tell me they switched to OF during the pandemic. The regulars who would go to their club just switched to paying the monthly for their only fans out of support

I dated a 38yo ex-stripper for a few months when I was in my mid 20s. We both worked the same retail job. It was an absolute nightmare. She seemed exactly like the girls you were talking about here. She was still playing those games with men. She still had guys on the side that would give her money.

@PepeDeezNutz

Ай бұрын

At the age of 20 you dated a 38yr old stripper? What’s wrong with you man? The age alone is a deal breaker

@SavageKillaBees

Ай бұрын

There is an escorting element to it, most of them take on "clients" outside the club environment. I've dated dancers too in the past and even recently.

@andrewcarlson2178

Ай бұрын

That's all they know. They get rewarded for manipulating men. They better they are, the better they're rewarded

@LegsON

Ай бұрын

​@@SavageKillaBeesAre you calling prostitution an "escorting"?

@SavageKillaBees

Ай бұрын

@LegsON In case you didn't know it's the same term they use in Canada and USA. Escort=prostitute. You may have not heard that before depending on what country you are in. It's not a term I made up fool.

Worked as a bouncer while in college. Scared me off one night stands forever when a patron who was HIV positive took home a different woman each night he was there.

@maxvoloshin_nefariousaquarius

Ай бұрын

How did you know he was diseased?

@didierduplantier8359

Ай бұрын

@@maxvoloshin_nefariousaquarius He told us. Dude was always friendly with the staffs and tipped generously.

@richborn6700

24 күн бұрын

​@@bodhitree33 I used to brag about sleeping with a lot of women until my late 20s when I realized I scared away a lot of potential girls who could have been real relationships because I was focused on sex only from 22-26. Did myself a disservice in hindsight

I’m surprised that anybody is surprised at these stories. You’re dealing with people who are morally bankrupt. They lead messy lives and associate with unsavory people. Shocker!

@NotGoodAtNamingThings

Ай бұрын

It's not as easy to identify morally bankrupt people as you make it sound. A lot of morally bankrupt people are thought to be paragons of virtue. Lots of people live a double life.

@user-jq4fz6co8b

Ай бұрын

@@NotGoodAtNamingThings Uhm, we're talking about a strip club here...if you're taking your clothes off for money, you can make a pretty good guess about that person's character. The exception doesn't define the rule.

@NotGoodAtNamingThings

Ай бұрын

@@user-jq4fz6co8b - It's true that a good fraction of the workers and customers at such a place have unstable lives with lots of drama. I agree with you that no one should be surprised at the stories. I've been to strip clubs on exactly two occasions, once when dragged by a friend who found out I'd never been, the second for a bachelor party of a friend. I have no interest. I'm not going to defend the regulars or the workers. I don't feel the need to be morally superior to them either, though.

@AuroraBoarder1

Ай бұрын

Actually, I find these stories tame. I knew a stripper who had 4 kids by 4 different men.. She contracted AIDS; this was back in the 80s, when nothing could be done about it. She married man #4, had baby #4 by him, gave him AIDS, then divorced him for being "too controlling". All the while, she bragged about being a strong woman.

@BlackopolypsePodcastsandMedia

Ай бұрын

Pretty much anyone under 30

The best comic and true sentence ever written about strip clubs is : Strip clubs are half-lit places filled with half-lit minds 😂

@kentclark6420

3 ай бұрын

Maybe. But a lot of fun. You can waste money in lots of different ways in the name of having fun, you know. In fact, is it really a waste if you're having a good time? As long as you can control it.

@richborn6700

24 күн бұрын

​@@kentclark6420had friends who would always rather waste money at a casino play slots. If I'm losing money either way I'd rather look at girls slots and do shots

"I don't care, £500 is a lot of money" 😂 Legend!

@makmcqueen8634

Ай бұрын

It is a lot of money fair play to him.

@drizzo4669

Ай бұрын

Nope. No g-string for me. You can keep your 500

@JB-hf9sd

Ай бұрын

20 dollars is 20 dollars

@harorider96

Ай бұрын

That’s how little it took for him to degrade himself

@skweeid

Ай бұрын

​@harorider96 right. Not even 1000USD. He did the strippers Job for less than they make a week😂

Bounced for a year. I learned more about people that year than the previous decade.

@KGSpradleyAuthor

Ай бұрын

Yes.

@erinchilds

Ай бұрын

What did you learn?

@pugnome

23 күн бұрын

Honestly if you really want to learn the true face of humanity, just work in the sex industry, does a real good job at showing just what's wrong with the current human condition, both men and women, just the sadness of being a man more than anything

@badballiance87

11 күн бұрын

For example what

The guy sitting next to me on a flight once was a bartender at a strip club. In our conversation much of this same content came up. In addition, something not mentioned in this video that the bartender strongly emphasized: Never date a stripper and God forbid absolutely never get one pregnant. He described several case histories of men he had known who managed to ruin their lives by doing so. Albeit there may be exceptions to the rule but the odds ain’t worth it.

@VegasAlien1

Ай бұрын

I worked as a bouncer then later handled the photography and marketing for 2 clubs. You think I would know better, but ended up engaged to an ex-stripper for a few months. She was a grifter deluxe. Luckily I got out relatively unscathed. Not all men are as fortunate.

@MegaJackpinesavage

27 күн бұрын

@@VegasAlien1 We should start our own "Me Too!" movement.

Bro. Strippers are so fuckn smelly and gross in private life 🤣.

@vahjayjayaddict

Ай бұрын

They all smell in my experience, maybe not when they are new, but once they get in to it. I've met tons of prostitutes & strippers & they all douse themselves with fragrance to mask the inner smell that's always there. That odor is a deal breaker for me, just ends the attraction. I met 2 who smelled awesome, 1 in Fort Worth & another in Florida. I admire that they are able to do such a difficult job, but I would take a fat chick without much looks any day over odor thats unpleasant. I never hired one but you meet a lot of them in the jobs I do.

@jaxripper251

Ай бұрын

Yep smell like rotten Tuna

@stevenbrooks1243

Ай бұрын

Lol smelly

@fredhammer6413

Ай бұрын

I dated a stripper once named Marmalade Sally and she smelled like copper pennies. She never used toothpaste, only baking powder and her teeth were white as snow. Everywhere Marmalade Sally danced her simps were sure to go.

@user-oh7tq4vn4w

Ай бұрын

Correct, I dated plenty of them for fun when I worked doors, party use only. Desperately insecure and needy.

" When a girl goes up the pole, she's never coming down ". A spiritual contract is forged.

@OK-pi6fq

Ай бұрын

You’re gross. Spiritually you can’t come down either from that attitude.

@foursamm

Ай бұрын

All sins but blasphemy of the Holy Spirit can be forgiven under the blood of Jesus Christ.

@TwinMcQuerns

Ай бұрын

​@foursamm That is true but you must repent first. Wealthy women like wealthy men often never repent or only repent late in life.

@Qwackdawack

Ай бұрын

​@@TwinMcQuerns how and what is repent

@foursamm

Ай бұрын

@@TwinMcQuerns Absolutely! Thank you for that wonderful point. When one realizes who Jesus really is and how we all fall short of the glory of God - then hearts soften and can repent. Jesus says a wealthy person can't enter the kingdom of heaven - but with God all things are possible :) - May the Spirit be upon you and may you have the peace of our living God.

You sound like a good man but were surrounded by self absorbed individuals, thank you for telling honest truth.

@jamesbyrne9312

27 күн бұрын

Hes not a good man. He was part of the problem

"You have the best job in the world!" I used to hear that line several times a night. It was the worst job I ever had.

Never could relax at nightclubs when I was younger. I wasn't a bouncer but obnoxiously loud music, expensive drinks and cover charges, girls getting their boyfriends into fights, seeing people glassed and kicked in the head. I often wondered how people enjoyed themselves here when it just felt uncomfortable and very hostile.

@martindennehy3030

Ай бұрын

Same here, could never understand the draw.

@aznluvr7

25 күн бұрын

You went to the wrong club, the club I went to when I was younger only had one fight when I was there and it was quickly broken up and sorted. Good vibe, good music and hot-ass girls.

I dated a dancer for a year. Had no idea she was one. This sheds alot of light on things i never put together. Thanks for sharing

@DROGOC0P

14 күн бұрын

no disrespect meant at all by this question: how do you date someone for a year and not know what she does for work? did she outright lie or you just didnt look too much into it? again, zero disrespect intended

@danielosmon

14 күн бұрын

@DROGOC0P she had been one for years. Stopped right before I met her. The damage was done imo. Not just from that lifestyle, also toxic connections

I dated a stripper for about a year on and off. She was definitely not a helpless victim. She was mentally unstable in the deepest way. Beautiful on the outside, really really disturbed and confused on the inside. It’s was actually really heartbreaking to watch her decline. Not sure now, but I know she ended up hooked on drugs. Wonder if she’s still alive?

@winstonwolff

24 күн бұрын

Sounds about right, likely 75% of the girls would fit into this description. Beautiful on the outside, f'd up upstairs.

@theactualdoomslayer

6 күн бұрын

Who cares?

Hearing these stories is exactly why I've never bothered with strip clubs or anything of the sort. No matter how sad and lonely I get I refuse to let myself ever pointlessly spend money on either being sexually frustrated or simulating a girlfriend experience in such a hollow way. No way no how.

@marianotorrespico2975

Ай бұрын

--- EXCELLENT EXAMPLE OF SELF-RESPECT . . . but let me tell you about Killeen, Texas, just outside an Army base.

@juliehernandez80

Ай бұрын

@@marianotorrespico2975Killeen! 😂😂😂 Ghetto.

@marianotorrespico2975

Ай бұрын

@@juliehernandez80 --- YES. I HAD RETURNED FROM Germany . . . and thought I was still in a civil world, but . . . . Texas. The chain of command recommended a supply of booze, food, and a bimbo until PCS back to an overseas infantry unit.

@juliehernandez80

Ай бұрын

@@marianotorrespico2975 Texas is changing period but Killeen/Fort Hood or now Cavazos - all ghetto.

I dated a few of the dancers (none of them did drugs). A few (not all) made a gross amount of money, some women in NJ, were reluctant to get another job. I did not meet any of them at the club, and some I never saw dance. But I did not like the strip clubs. Two of the women made great money, and the others eventually quit. Shockingly, one 41 year old dancer, died of a heart attack, and another dancer got deported (ouch). You are right. Some of the girls could never change careers, as some were making too much as dancers. one woman, got two degrees. blond hair, blue eyed, nice figure, she could never stop dancing, because the money she made was just gross.

@user-gk2bk7ph5t

Ай бұрын

Ur gross for ever dating a stripper 😂

@denisedoherty4909

Ай бұрын

I have to ask you.....why would you want to date a stripper? And you didn't just date one, but several. Why?

Every divorced guy who got fleeced is thinking all that's missing here is the wedding cake.

@notusingmyname4791

Ай бұрын

expensive divorce lawyers?

@fitnesspoint2006

25 күн бұрын

Nah, just dealing with straight women.

Were friends once briefly with the manager of a strip club, met some of the girls, had a drink their for my birthday, everything he said about the women is true, and they really are experts at fleecing men of their money.

@stellviahohenheim

Ай бұрын

Most attractive women are

@santinabellydance

Ай бұрын

it’s their job. You’re paying for their company.

Its a hustle....pure and simple.A hustle.

@ozzyolof9209

Ай бұрын

Sounds like the state of the US;morally bankrupt

@davidthomspson9771

Ай бұрын

@@ozzyolof9209 state of the whole world....ran by psychopaths and pedophiles.

@wyattb6066

Ай бұрын

@@ozzyolof9209damn right!

@princered10

Ай бұрын

Thanks captain obvious

@m.rivers9201

Ай бұрын

Not just in strip clubs either, Women are always on the Hustle and we men fall for it time and time again.

Everything you talked about is true. I've been through it all just like you. I worked in one club in Los Angeles for over four years and then not quite a year at a club in Hawai'i. I was a doorman, DJ, and manager. I even had to strip down to my underwear each year on my birthday for the dancers after the club closed. I made close to a thousand dollars each time. I would average about $500.00 per night in tips from the dancers. We had 75 girls on the roster and any night we could have between 40 and 75 girls working. Some did 4 hour shifts, some did 6 hour shifts. We had one large stage with two poles and two girls would share the stage for two songs. Then they could change outfits and they had to wait tables serving drinks while on the floor. Or they could sit with a customer if he is buying drinks and or paying for table dances. It's funny how you become so jaded from working in that business. Some dancers are so hot you never get tired of looking at them but most of them you've seen naked so many times and without makeup in baggy sweat pants and sweatshirts and you wouldn't look at them twice on the streets. We hear every line, every scam, every hustle, every lie, every complaint about how the customers are tipping and how they don't want to be there and can they go home. Then there aee the ones who leave without tipping the doorman, the dj and they will give the bartender's the smallest possible tip. And say they had a bad night forgetting or just too dumb to realize our job is to watch every girl all night and we see how much each girl is making so they are the ones who don't get any favors and don't get to dance to the full song because we cut it short so she really won't make any money. Our club had a capacity of just under 300 customers and it would be packed beyond capacity with a line outside with another 30 guys wanting in. It was a crazy place. We had business men, truckers, college frat boys, Black gang members, Latin gang members, White gang members, bikers from different gangs, construction workers, bachelor and bachelorette parties, rock stars, sports stars occasional actors, we had strippers from the the other local clubs come in and hang out, hookers weren't alliwed in if we knew they were hookers, we had two pool tables so we had the pool sharks hustling drunks, there would be fights almost every night, the cops would hang out in the parking lot and sonetimes come in for a coffee and talk to the girls and a lot of cops would come in in a group off duty and drink and get dances. I'm sure we could talk for hours about the different stories and the same stories we have. It was fun and it was also a job that could get dangerous real fast. And you learn a lot about women if you didnt know much before you started working in strip clubs. You get a whole new perspective on women, how they think about men, how they deal with other dancers, their promiscuity, their alcohol and drug habits, etc... It was a wild experience but just another small part of my extraordinary crazy life. Take it easy or any way you can get it. LOL

@thatgearguy

5 ай бұрын

Awesome comnent bro! Thanks for sharing!

@13_13k

5 ай бұрын

@@thatgearguy --- I hope life is being good or at least fair to you my brother? Both of our countries are fucked up right now and seems like us White men are blamed for everything. Stay well, be safe and don't comply

@katiebragg4417

4 ай бұрын

Yet, married men go in hopes of cheating .so it's trash

@thatgearguy

4 ай бұрын

@@katiebragg4417 Yes that happens for sure and in those cases the guys are trash. Agreed.

@13_13k

4 ай бұрын

@@katiebragg4417 --- that's not always the case. I also know for sure that there is more cheating and more sex happening at clubs and private parties when women are interacting with male strippers. Way more. Married, engaged, etc... . Men may go to strip clubs with the thought of, wouldn't it be cool if I got to hook up with a dancer, but female dancers aren't there to fuck or be prostitutes. A few are there to see if they can turn a trick on the side. But the majority of clubs won't let the girls do anything that can get the club, the managers and or the owner in trouble with the ATF and or their city vice squad. They will pay heavy fines and have their personal manager's license 30 day suspension the first time. Sometimes they will shut the club down for a month or more. Huge loss of revenue for the owners and all employees, dancers, bar tenders

That was more informative than any documentary I've ever seen about that industry. Thank you for sharing.

I think this is legitimately rich psychological study material

I worked in strip clubs here in the states for around 22 yrs...after the military. I stopped around 2016 or so. Some were very large 30-40 dancers a night ( on weekends more often ). Others weren’t quite so large. But i always made good money. Which is the exact same reason that it’s hard for dancers to quit! I only worked at two nightclubs that were not stripclubs! One in a college town when I was in the military. And the other was in a large military town after I had gotten out! A gym buddy of mine owned it and they had some pretty big concerts there. So I got to sit at the front on the stage and just watch the crowd and listen to the music until someone came over the barricades! Not a bad gig at all! Got to see and meet Godsmack, Stained, Candlebox, Buckcherry, Bush to name a few. I think it’s proven fact ( at least it is to me, lol ) that you have way more fights in regular nightclubs than stripclubs. Customers run into guys they grew up with and dislike , guys that dated their girl, guys that want to get with their girl, guys that did their sister wrong, played on a different rugby squad etc...To whereas in a stripclub everybody’s there to see the same naked women! Every now and then you’ll get a guy who thinks he’s special and thinks that “ she really loves him and only him” and he’ll get all bent out of shape about it, or some guys get too drunk and try and show off. But most of the problems are jealous boyfriends who haven’t figured out how to deal with their girl being a stripper yet, OR , an ex boyfriend coming in with friends and acting like a fool and making the dancer ( his ex ) feel uncomfortable Or the little punk drug dealers who try to get some ass for some weed! I had dual roles in some clubs, mgr.and security, others just one or the other. Never worked the door ( well, a few times actually) ! Firstly I hated it, lol. Second, I probably would’ve hurt the clubs money, because I didn’t like a lot of nonsense ( code for short tempered ) and to pat down and/or wand someone you always heard a bunch of mouth about it! So, the few times I did on a couple of occasions work the door, I just told problem guys, look if you’re that much problem here at the door, I don’t need you inside the club because we’re gonna have to deal with you then, and it’s just not worth the door fee so just go ahead and leave now! As far as the girls go...we run across ALL TYPES! You’ve got the professional strippers, who do it for a living and don’t care about anything else, they live, eat, sleep and breathe stripping, have a hundred outfits and boots and heels and wigs etc...and will most likely go from that to sex work ( or Walmart, lol ) because they never learned another skill set. These are the girls who hope to meet their future rich husband in the club..Then you have the chicks who are separated from husbands or boyfriends and have a kid (or five, lol) that had to find a way to make money quickly and probably had a friend who talked them into trying it. They don’t really like it but they kind of start to like the attention ( and money ) so they’re still there 5 yrs later talking about quitting, lol !!! Then there’s the very FEW ( I might’ve had 2 at one time in the same club but usually more like just 1 ) who are actually going to college ( like Sooooo many of them claim to be ) and they’re doing it because it’s damn good money and they can work it around school...these usually pick a club in a larger town within driving distance, but not too close to where they actually live or go to School! Hoping not to be noticed by friends or relatives! I had one of these girls dive off stage one night, right into my arms because she saw her uncle walk in the door! I caught her and she hit the floor running in her 5” heels like a damn track star, 😂! Then there’s the hotel skanks! These are the girls who usually live in a hotel and need to make enough to pay for their rooms and are mostly drunks or addicted to something and usually go eat at a Waffle House every night after work and then go to Walmart and spend every dime they made that night! These girls usually have boyfriends who are more sorry than they are and take them to work ( usually on the girls own car ) then they take some of her money and her car and go buy weed or get drunk somewhere else and cheat on them then come pick them up from work at closing...AND YEP, these are one of our biggest problems. Those idiots come back and get in an argument with their girl, she’ll hit him, or he’ll hit her and WE have to deal with it. Sometimes the money just doesn’t seem worth the BS you deal with! Most, not all, clubs I worked at had a policy of NO boyfriends inside the club or sitting in the parking lot waiting for hours! But contrary to public opinion strippers aren’t all dumb. They don’t all tell us they have a boyfriend! We hear the roommate, brother, gay friend, brother in law BS a lot and we have to decipher the truth from the BS. But there are certainly the good times and upside to the job. Meet A LOT OF PEOPLE from all different walks of life. Date ( sleep with ) MARRY (Ugghhh, what an idiot) some of the best looking women around , that most guys watch porn to see or can only come pay to see naked! We have a lot of time for the gym, not to mention the hookups from friends who are bouncing at other nightclubs ( getting in and drinking free ) when we’d go out. It’s kind of like a fraternity...we all know each other ( our girls know each other, they’re usually all bartenders, waitresses or dancers) where we each work, who’s good at the job, who might get you themselves or someone else hurt! Who can definitely handle themselves, and those who “ Think” they can etc...I never had a bouncer job stay vacant for more than a day! I always knew someone that was either looking for a spot or was ready or thinking about leaving the club they were at currently. I fired a guy one night and called a buddy at another club to ask him if he’d be interested, that crazy fool quit right then and came and finished the night out at our club! LOL...I had some fantastic times that I’ll never forget in the different clubs I worked in...some bad times...aggravating times and some downright scary times! Me and this dude could talk for days about our experiences in the “entertainment industry” as we call it, lol. If I have/had any advice for someone considering going to work security or another spot in a nightclub, it would be this! We all started by having to clean up vomit at some point from a urinal, it can’t all be glitz and glamor, and NO ONE deserves to die in a bar fight! And don’t MARRY the dancers!!! That’s mostly for me to remember! LMFAO

@jcrawford5674

Ай бұрын

I thoroughly enjoyed reading this... let me know which one you marry 😂

@gambianice

Ай бұрын

This was Gold 😂

@moniquetheobald889

21 күн бұрын

Thank you for your honest and enlightening story, hope you are doing ok, bfn x

@udirt

15 күн бұрын

Love reading this long account from someone who can take life as it comes and appreciate the experience.

@aliorr9356

14 күн бұрын

Make a video when you marry the next one.

Lol dudes were so happy they went up to the security man and bragged that she “likes” him

Started off working behind the bar in the UK. Then as I filled out and became a pro-fighter and fight trainer I had the confidence, mindset and skillset to work in security - 'bouncer', 'personal', 'guard' etc... but the club scene was definitely - eclectic - at times you never knew what you were going to get. And you bet that everything you stated was standard. In every club environment I worked in, it was the women that usually were the catalyst for issues, and always about ego and manipulation. I never had a personal time of really 'clubbing' as it was always a job. So even if I went out with mates, it was like I was on the job, never really relaxing. It was as if you were a movie director that had the inside working knowledge, so it kind of spoiled many movies you would try and see because you were forever analysing with your movie director tinted glasses. It also made it hard to find fulfilling relationships with women because you were all too aware of what they were REALLY like when the veil dropped and they couldn't hide their true self. You are absolutely correct; the two girls out of 500 in my decades of experience is about right - they are so rare. You are also right that the girls get institutionalised.... but then again, I found so did I :) Thanks for the nostalgic trek....

@thatgearguy

Ай бұрын

Great post bud and very true!

@fredhammer6413

Ай бұрын

Please stop bragging.

@leagreenall5972

Ай бұрын

@@fredhammer6413 I'm sorry my told experiences makes you feel so inadequate, that you feel the only course of action you can resort to is ad hominem.... but at the end of day friend, it is your problem and not mine ;)

@fredhammer6413

Ай бұрын

@@leagreenall5972; be quiet

@odinanithegreat7544

Ай бұрын

​@@fredhammer6413 If it reads like bragging, that's on you.

These are important stories for society to hear. Thank you

@jamespell8091

Ай бұрын

Yes., he has a grasp of the mechanics. From there a lot of the chaos is explained

While I was listening your story I thought to myself more and more how depressing that environment was.

40 years ago, 63 now, I worked security for a so called talent agent who booked strippers to perform in various clubs. It actually was a good job, no real drama, I would pick up 3 or 4 strippers from their homes, take them to a club and watch over them until they were finished. Then I would drive them all home. Made 100 bucks a night, 40 years ago. Never really had any issues and they were all very pleasant, down to earth girls. Only problems were other so called talent agents trying to muscle in on territory, never amounted to much because the clubs we dealt with wanted quality girls which we had and the other talent agents were more like pimps.

In the end a form of prostitution without the sex.

@levansegnaro4637

Ай бұрын

Imagine paging to get blue balls 😂

@Metallicarule1991

Ай бұрын

Might as well pay for an escort, probably cheaper in the end as well

@martyk1156

Ай бұрын

That comment references marriage

@mitchellbaldridge1281

Ай бұрын

If they like you enough, they will agree to have fun someplace else after the show for no extra fee ;)

@JosefK2275

Ай бұрын

I think you're referring to marriage.

I worked Security at a Japan / Chinese dance club for 2 years. You paid to dance or sit & drink. Its just like the strip club the girls would lead on the men thinking they would get some where they would blow all there money week after week . The girls were ruthless and mean, they would not give the men a second look outside the club but inside the kissed up big time. They were Beautiful Girls no dought but gold diggers. I learned a lot there about human nature working there , I learned Nice Guys Finish Last & Don't chase Girls.

@lamusica1592

Ай бұрын

If you go to hospital do you expect the nurses to hang out with you afterwards? They're not ruthless or mean, its a job, fool!

@Ultamami

Ай бұрын

*no doubt

You, my friend, are a real man. Glad I clicked this. Stay real.

@jamesbyrne9312

27 күн бұрын

The guy chose to work in a strip club. He ain't a real man

That was such a detailed breakdown of behind the curtain. Much appreciated

During my idiot days, whenever I asked a dancer her real name at this particular club, it was always either Stephanie or Jill. Finally stopped taking my stupid pills.

@dantefernandodantezambrano7910

Ай бұрын

They never reveal their real names. In fact, they make up their life stories to attract guys.

@LilC1deep

Ай бұрын

"Finally stopped taking my stupid pills." Brother that was gold lmao

A few off my pals were working close to Soho, in the 80s, only 18/19 at the time, one day they went into a strip club, for a laugh. Birds wrapped round them ordering champagne, which was cheap supermarket crap, cost them a fortune that they couldn't pay? Was frog marched to the cash point, still wasn't enough, took their watches and jewellery. Lesson learnt for them and the rest of us to stay clear🤷

@dreamok732

26 күн бұрын

Did you ever see the story, probably in the Sun. That this happened to a young 17-18year old boy a few years ago. Got out of his depth with the drinks, was marched to the cash point and had his account emptied out and sent home. Next day his rather posh mum turns up at the Soho club, found the girl responsible and frog marched _her_ to the cash machine and got her son's money back. I hope the story was true.

Spent a lot of time in strip clubs during my late teens and early 20s-- the locker room talk CRACKED ME UP!! So true!!

A college acquaintance got a stripper pregnant. His life turned into a nightmare overnight. $5k/mo child support, multiple baby daddies, domestic disputes, endless legal bills, and forever being known as the idiot who couldn’t keep it in his pants when a woman paid attention to him.

@cjackfly

25 күн бұрын

Yeah but what does her being a stripper have to do with it?

@jd43tv56

25 күн бұрын

​@@cjackflythat part is what makes her a bad person..

@zidan40o0

23 күн бұрын

5k/month in child support? Dude you wat? I hope this is fake because average American income is like 4k a month or something. Also diapers don't cost that much, a child would cost a maximum of 300 dollars a month. Max

@shannon6876

22 күн бұрын

@@zidan40o0 Nobody said family law in the US makes a fucking bit of sense, mate.

@theendofmyropemydude

15 күн бұрын

​@@zidan40o0child support in north America is a flat percentage of your income. It's why women try to fuck professional athletes. 18 years of guaranteed 10k+ tax free income per month, when they might get 2-400 bucks/mo from a broke guy.

I've worked as a waiter in 2 strip clubs. They are just awful places.

VERYY INTERESTING! I was a male dancer (in Florida) years back and everything he is describing is true and similar to the place I worked at. We had to pay a "stage fee" when we arrived too. I treated it like a hair stylist, you made your good money from your regulars and then additional from walk ins (who could BECOME regulars!) My style would be to converse with these often lonely, nice, awkward men, which is what they wanted actually. Just someone to pay attention to them. The other dancers from Latin America who couldn't speak English well had to rely on their bodies and turn more tricks.

6:40 As a man working in health care i can totally relate to listening to various female problems and arguing. It is like dealing with children but with an adult body.

@williamclayton9566

Ай бұрын

I've always said that they're just the most responsible teenager in the room.

@pigknickers2975

Ай бұрын

I regard women as strange children nowadays. That's what they are. Till they are about 60+

@ColonelHoganStalag13

Ай бұрын

They grow old but they never grow up.

@johngalt1967

Ай бұрын

The sad part is that we gave children the right to vote

@conq3097

Ай бұрын

Lol 😂

I dated a stripper for 4 years and can confirm every word spoken is absolutely the truth and it is universal.

@ronmka8931

24 күн бұрын

lmao why tf would you do that?

@louispantke139

23 күн бұрын

@@ronmka8931 I liked the attention, there are also a lot of other dynamics to the relationship, but I won't bore you with that. Another reason was that I could, I never married her.. Anyway, its is a good question, but I must also confess I like women with sexy bodies, typical eye candy, lot of guys paid to see, but I was getting it. I'm older now and moved on. No regrets

@user-ql2ce5tx5c

11 күн бұрын

How on earth could you know “it is universal” from once having dated a stripper?

Nightclub/Strip Club bouncer for 20+ years. Seeing the amounts of money and the things these men will do for these women. I had a doctor that would buy a girl a $20k engagement ring, buy her a car and never see her outside of the club. I have been wanting to post some videos telling my stories as well glad i found your videos.

I went to a strip club when I turned 18. Now, I'm 36 and have never been back. It was a depressing night for everyone involved.

Fools and their money are soon parted.

@RandomPerson28337

Ай бұрын

Wise words of the Preacher.

@m.rivers9201

Ай бұрын

Amen!

@danielahern3560

Ай бұрын

Fools and their money are soon partying.

Bro this just brought back a lot of memories. I did this for quite a few years and everything in this video is dead on accurate

Thank you for your experience, mate. And for sharing it with us. This was amazing to hear.

Your honesty is refreshing and your insight into that world is rare. Thankyou.

Im 32 and never have been into a strip club!

@nerdsserverevengecolder..212

Ай бұрын

🙋🏻 43; same

@Dastardly_X

Ай бұрын

congrats 👍

@georgeburns8447

Ай бұрын

That's a good thing. The first time I ever went into one was for my 30th birthday (and it wasn't my idea). I went maybe two more times in life around that same period and that was it. I like girls, but strip clubs don't do it for me.

@WarbirdPhoenix

Ай бұрын

You're not missing anything. It's just a waste of time and money and full of risk and trouble.

@magikjoe3789

Ай бұрын

53, same. Also never been in a bookies.

I love your security stories mate!

@thatgearguy

Жыл бұрын

Thx Joe!!

Your story was fascinating. I subscribed on the strength of that tale . Thank you!

It is well known that her name isnt Roxy or Mary, she isnt meeting you outside the club and she will never be your girlfriend so it's best if you keep your Doctor's appointment.

Idk how I ended up here, but I'm glad I did. Cheers from the US, bro. You seem to be a very nice genuine guy interesting story, and you tell it so well.

@thatgearguy

Ай бұрын

I appreciate that!

That was a fascinating insight into the behaviour of people when incentives are aligned in a certain way.

@thatgearguy

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching Pip!

Used to do security for a brothel, sometimes as a driver, shattered my world view in many ways.

@JT-bc5cd

Ай бұрын

“I work in a cancer ward, and I realized that most people get cancer” C’mon dude, you spend all your time with the devil, of course you will only see the world with the devils eyes.

Excellent narration, and a fun ride to listen too! You have a knack for bringing back a moment and giving it life. I was laughing and learning at the same time. Thank You OG, for sharing the real side of life. I will stay tuned for more. Stay on the rise Brother. 🔥💎🆒💯

Biggest waste of money ever lol. Strip clubs are for chumps never going to get anything in one.

@andrewevans7992

Ай бұрын

Fr.. only time i went to the clubs was when i was in the military.. its a weird feeling place, i honestly don’t like touching women cause they aren’t anything special. Idk how dudes spend tons of money on them

@andrewevans7992

Ай бұрын

Fr.. only time i went to the clubs was when i was in the military.. its a weird feeling place, i honestly don’t like touching women cause they aren’t anything special. Idk how dudes spend tons of money on them

@georgejetson3648

Ай бұрын

They like pills.

@NYCZ31

Ай бұрын

Oh you can get something, but you’ll pay for it. Some of the dancers are straight up sex workers.

I think my ex Girlfriend had worked in a strip club! She admitted to me that she went for an audition and she was an ok ish pole dancer, she did a lap dance for me that was way too professional for someone who claimed to have never actually worked in one. She admitted heavy drinking and cocaine use in her past and that she’d taken a law degree but decided not to practice which i found unbelievable as she couldn’t even read the first 10 pages of Animal farm! She had a totally unrealistic view of money and how a man should shell out for her and how she could drop and dump you really cheaply. She had the behaviour of giving strange men a lewd glance so that they would think they could get some from her in front of me! They could literally have come off a sex offenders wing the previous day so oblivious she was to any danger. She wasn’t interested in any of these men (they were just objects used to boost her self esteem at the expense of mine) and would just walk off leaving me with them. This happened in some isolated areas too and from the things you’ve said in this video i believe she picked this risky behaviour up from working in a U.K strip club where she was used to the protection you speak of. Without me she couldn’t use public transport and had to drive everywhere! None of these things ever happened with another girl i dated and she lived in an area filled with impulsive men over a six year period of me going out with her; and she had many of the attributes those men lust over more than the pole dancer ex girlfriend and no man ever bothered us as she stood by my side and never gave lewd and suggestive glances. Thanks for your insights you shared with us in this video!

@thatgearguy

Ай бұрын

Amazing comment. You summed up exactly what it is like to date a stripper (majority of). I to have had these issues! Eloquently written Sir!

@fredhammer6413

Ай бұрын

Eloquently written? Seriously?

@sleep3417

Ай бұрын

Wow. How did you last 6 years with her? That's insane. Nevermind, i can't read. Good story, though.

@mcfrisko834

Ай бұрын

Sounds like you were with a narcissist

@Canadian_Eh_I

Ай бұрын

@@fredhammer6413 LOL the comments on this video are both informative and hilarious !

That was really interesting. Thank you for sharing and you presented everything really well.

This was fascinating to listen to! Thank you for sharing your knowledge.

Thank you for sharing your stories about your time working security at the clubs. I found it a very interesting and honest account. I worked as bouncer at nightclubs and also private functions. Working in the security industry, clubs in particular, is an eye opening experience. You do come across all sorts of people...and when booze is in the mix...things get really interesting! I would definitely like to hear more about your security days 👍

@jkaugust3586

4 ай бұрын

Wow! You hit it. Some very disciplined you ladies can use it to pay for college, but you have to have focus, and know what your end game is. It's a sad commentary that so many young women are just used. Worse, some fall into a negative lifestyle. Men are using them. You have the best male perspective I've ever heard. You rock!

@blackopal3138

Ай бұрын

@@jkaugust3586 Your reply is on the wrong comment.. and, WTF? Why so biased? There were a lot of men being used and 'fleeced' in this story. Including the storyteller. The club owner is he embodiment of evil, and he used everyone, men and women, to enrich himself , while humiliating as many people as he can.

@Leec_1972

Ай бұрын

@@blackopal3138 Just another woman hearing what she wants to hear and not what is actually being said. Hard to tell if its an actual female or a bot.

@blackopal3138

Ай бұрын

​@@Leec_1972 lol, it is a little bottish isn't it There are spelling errors though. Now that I read it again, it's even worse than my first ipression. The first sentence. She's not only ignoring the male victims, she is quite fine with it, if the girl is empowered and independent, lol, fleece away. Instead of condemning the whole scene. It's like, for her the criminals are ruining a good opportunity for young women to fleece lonely, depressed men. Bastards.

I'm a former Chippendales dancer and that experience was completely opposite. It was a 2hr choreographed s broadway style stage show with lights and costume changes. It was a legit show. We didnt have to "hustle" for money/tips like the women typically do. Although we would go in the audience between numbers and do what's called "kiss and tips". We'd have security stand by the stage and our dressing rooms in order to prevent women from rushing the stage and sneaking in our dressing rooms. It was a wild time.

@TikeWates

Ай бұрын

Hahahahaha dude that's awesome

@KelvinWKiger

8 күн бұрын

I wish you could share your experiences like the man in this video, no need to show your face though. Men need to listen to authentic stories to better understanding what is really going on around. RP

This was really interesting. Great delivery and thanks for sharing!

Very interesting perspectives 👍🏻 thank u!

Las Vegas had a strip club in Industrial Rd., behind the old Stardust. The cops used to find passed out guys that security had thrown out. Most of the trouble started when guys found out their credit card had been padded, then if they complained, the rough stuff started. A biker had a shop next door to the club, so he was not happy having overflow with some guys tossed over on his property. He was a big fellow and had a few run ins with security at the strip club.

@djyua9157

Ай бұрын

Idk I would have loved to see all this play out like not be involved but watch the story progress after every visit to the club 😂

@charlesharmon4926

Ай бұрын

That sounds like the Crazy Horse😂😂

@mikelmeadows6254

Ай бұрын

The next door neighbor who was a ex pro wrestler ended up dieing under very strange circumstances

@GuitaristDog87

Ай бұрын

Was this on a Netflix Unsolved Mysteries episode?

@wesleybarton3871

Ай бұрын

@@GuitaristDog87 Probably. I moved here in 1995 and did most sports betting at the Stardust The guy who owned the motorcycle repair shop was at County Commission meetings complaining many times. The shop was in Clark Co., not the City of Las Vegas. A lot of billion dollar hotels went up, and strip clubs became more expensive and glitzy. The motorcycle shop owner was an ex wrestler and a big guy, who didn't put up with the bouncers on his property.

We had a no pimp rule in our strip clubs. Here in the US if you make the pimp take his hat off, he won’t come in.

@KarenLopez-in5ih

Ай бұрын

What wild stuff...this crazy ness is why people go nuclear

@mayanboricua

Ай бұрын

Whats the deal with the hat?

@billshearer3984

Ай бұрын

It was the thing back in the 70s and 80s about pimps and their hats. It was a respect thing. So they would refuse to take their head off therefore they could not come in.

@beatsandstuff

Ай бұрын

@@billshearer3984 hahahah everyday I learn something new

Really interesting and insightful description and analysis! Very well organized and presented. I appreciate your wisdom. Thank you!!

@thatgearguy

Ай бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

I really appreciate that you point out the Good in the Bad. Your videos leave you with a good feeling. But a realistic, honest the bad things as well.

@thatgearguy

26 күн бұрын

Glad you like them!

Idk why this did not blew up any further. Very interesting stories xD. I love the honesty I think most people would have taken up their offer :D

Very interesting. Thanks for sharing your story mate! Have a great weekend... 😎👍

@thatgearguy

Жыл бұрын

Thanks Callum! You to!

I bounced at beach bars for 4 years. It is amazing the level of crap humanity you meet at those places.

Very interesting. I appreciate your Frank and realistic recounting of an environment I have never experienced and have no desire to experience, but I was curious about. All in all it sounds like a miserable experience for everyone: customers, dancers, owners, and everyone else.

Like going to a zoo. You have the viewing area and petting area 🤣

Excellent mate down to earth good info straightforward no nonsense appreciate it

@thatgearguy

Ай бұрын

Much appreciated!

Excellent video, interesting experience and commentary you provided.

Apologies as I was definitely laughing at your pain a bit, but you’re hilarious man. Subscribed.

Been in the security industry for 20yrs in the US. Everything you said is 100% accurate. I can sense women who are sex workers.