There were a lot of good things discussed in the video but nobody is talking about justice that a man has to do from the Islamic point of view between wives. Can they do that? Isn't it a difficult thing? Can they discuss it as well?

@ditasen5893

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I agree that man should do justice between wives but this justice is often regarded as something too complex but in reality you just have equals nights to the wives and basic rights .You also have to provide equal rights to kids but we all don't have any problems when it comes to kids but as soon as it comes to wives we think that we have to provide them some kind of special justice and that we are incompetent for that but in reality its quite the opposite.

Control issue is more from the side of men than women. Pehele to aadmi apni biwiyon ko konch kar rakhte hain, isse baat karo isse mat karo, kisi se mat milo etc etc. Phir jab doosri karne ka mann hota hai ( read jab organ phadphadane lagta hai doosre rukh ki taraf) tab fauran pehli ko abandon karne tayyar ho jaate hain. Let me tell u sahil, it is not so much emotional dependence as it is about the feeling of abandonment and hence betrayal! Bharosa dilana pehle ki main hoon sabkuch, mujh par dependent raho, aur phir chhodna na sirf din mein but raaton ko bhi. I tell u, throw off the bus aadmi zyada karte hain aurtein nahin. Pehle haath pair kaat dete hain phir bolte hain apne aap ludakti phir

@ok-uc4jy

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Who told you that this happens? Not every man is an oppressor, have you got the bad influence from media or videos? If you would've done it for the sake of ALLAH, you would have no problem in polygamy, imagine if you married a guy at the age of 21 and he died after a week in an accident, you know because of Pakistani women's arrogance, you would remain widow for life and you won't be able to get a husband, why don't people think for society? you'll know the effect of it when your sister, mother or you yourself will be widow or get divorced.

@noorshuja7304

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True

@abuumair415

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@@noorshuja7304 feminist mindset, haha TALK about islam, what does it say? a man can marry 4 women if he can do justice. so whts the matter? and i 100% recommend marrying more than one at present time as its very much needed. i think u like the freedom of the western societies dnt u? where a wife has many boyfriends and husband has many girlfriends. then its okay isnt it. our society is much more better tha the wstern alhamdulillah. obviously there are black sheeps in every societies.

@samreenrafiq7167

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@@noorshuja7304 don't reply to this man, he's mentally retarded and doesn't have anything better to do. He's coming and attacking me on every comment. Here you've said nothing other than "true" but just see what nonsense he's talking.. believe me just looking for a chance to get in touch with you...

@AliAhsanJoji

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You also said right, That's why I always think and say that must marry a man jis ne Quran perha or samjha ho, Surah Nisa main Allah Pak buht clearly is sab ke bare main guide kerte hain..... Keh insaf zaror kro, bs insan ko Khof e Khuda na rha.... Wesy to dono hi must hain but insan ke pas 2 main sey aik cheez hona buht zarori hey, Ya Allah sey Muhabbat ya Allah ka khof, otherwise sab kuch jante hue bhi, ache bure, ajr or gunah main ferk hone ke bawajud bhi insan ka hdayat pr rehna asan nhi.... Buht sochne ki bat hey keh aik hadees main Allah ke Rasool ( SAW ) yeh fermate hain keh agr apni wife ko khush kerne ke liay jhut bola jae to jaez hey, is ka koi ghalt meaning nhi that ap is hadees ka bure kamo ke liay sahra lain etc.... Balkeh aesi situations main hi yeh hadees kam ati hey keh agr 2 wife bhi houn to dono ko ye hi lage keh Hmare Husband hmara ziyada khayal rakhte hain keh or ham sey ziyada Muhabbat kerte hain.... To dono hi khush rahain

Although hazrat khadija was elder then prophet saw and she sacrificed every thing on mohummed salalahu aliahi wassalam Hazrat bibi khadija razi talah unha supported our prophet saw so deeply emotionally and tried to kept him at peace in mind

@moneebayousaf7381

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Yeah it's beautiful ❤️true love

@nehazafar277

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Khadeeja a.s is the best women among the whole humanity. So is her daughter Fatima a.s. ❤️

@hafsabano2208

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@@nehazafar277 true

@hafsabano2208

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@@moneebayousaf7381 true

@MUHAMMADASLAM-bt7df

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Tu ap yai kaihna chahtti hain k wo age mai bari thi is liye?? Plz clear it

Root of the problem is that girls are restricted to their houses jahan wo sara din kaam kaaj kerti hain aur sham ko husband is the only entertainment they get. Women should be made more independent and educated so that both husband and wife can breath in their own spaces

@salmanislam7600

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What type or freedom you are saying women lacking.?? If women are restricted to houses and only husband is the entertainment... What kind of entertainment u r saying outside... Take in mind we are talking about islam also as we are muslim we believe in every word of Quran... I didnt understand ur point..??

@abuumair415

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what do u mean? u mean sh will do a job? or drink coffee with colleauges?

@samreenrafiq7167

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@@salmanislam7600 she means exactly what this lady in the video meant ke jao ghoomo phiro bewakufo. Lekinn wo nhi gher Islamic laga hga na??

@samreenrafiq7167

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@@abuumair415 same reply goes to you!! Btw you can go to office and sit with non-Muslim female colleagues, right?

@abuumair415

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@@samreenrafiq7167 nope. u cant compare men with women in everything. womens place is their house. they dnt need to earn money for their family, but men must. why do i need to talk to to those "non muslim female" colleagues? or have a coffee? ill just do my job. dnt try to be oversmart

Incredible talk both of you.

Keep on uploading ❤

Yes the real and deep love if it is there needs no one else

My husband refused to be in that role of a friend. If I were ever vulnerable in front of him he used it against me. Despite my body reacting to my hormonal changes in a severe way I have 5 children.

@samreenrafiq7167

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May Allah make it easy for you, ameen ❤️

Very good discussion, impressive 👏

What a perspective ….nice

We are here for Islamic messaging system... For a purpose.... learning Islam and for the implementation of Islam Right? Kisi b aorat ka chehra hamy Yahan nhi dekhaya Jana chahye 😊

InshAllah my 5th one is on the way :)

wonderfull session💯

Masha Allah ,❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

We need more explanation from sir sahil. 12 munites are not enough

@shahbazkhan-ek7hp

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I was searching for the full video😅

@noorshuja7304

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I don't agree with sahil

Both of you are missing out many other points here.Getting married is one point but what about all the other expected problems coming with it.Have you had any ideal second marriage presentable scenario case witnessed in your surroundings.This marriage making a single man happy but produces hatred,hostility and antagonists inside that particular household and blame comes on the woman,so better tame that man who is behaving weak and sick here.Teach him to fight the big fight here.Why he considers taking a second wife,his big fight and why not he fights with his given strength for the destitute women and children as charity or social work.Never heard seven nanis one had ,all the people near and around don’t have such ancestors since more than a century for sure. This is just a statistical statement that women are more in number than men ,so men should be marrying more than once like women can’t spend a happy life without marriage.The reality is this that many women die in childbirth and many don’t want to get married because of the bad marriages they witness around and the hard times children have to go through because of polluted environment,so it high time to consider not bringing this point as one of the basis for supporting second marriage.And 99 percent men wish to go for second marriage just for lust in our society and it should not be the reason but sadly it is a fact.All the good or authentic purposes these wise intellectuals are presenting are not being followed,so this discussion takes us nowhere and it just gets wasted.It is a dream when men will be enjoying this religious allowance and there will peace prevailing and everyone will be happily living after.If women don’t understand,then men are also at far end of understanding this marriage game!

@mjawad43

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What you want to explain to men is being done by West, ending in multiple sex partners of hudbands and now wives. Now, their social and "moral" system has failed. Why don't we stop finding an example and keep trying to improve relationships. Perfect things are not expected by humans.

@falak300

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Yes i do have case of second marriages where both of the woman are happy with each other and the husband as well. Secondly there's no such thing as ideal in both marriages either in the case of 1 wife or more than 1 wife. THERE'S NO SUCH THING AS IDEAL. yes a man have to be just between every wife. The issue is in the psychology of both male and female muslim. We are more inspired by our culture which mostly came from our ancestors (Hindus) and less inspired by our religion. Both men and women need to understand what is the purpose of marriage and what is the role of muslim men and women in islam.

@Ukmahi

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Sorry, You are looking it in a different angle if you,r a science student an average female is present in more number than male in every country by birth so let,s suppose a senario if we are living in USA where female is 15 lack more than male(without engagment) if i have two sister and one of my sister got married through proper Nekkah and other is not got married and the US govt don,t give permission for polygamy so my sister have two options 1 Do a Nekah with already a married person 2 Another way which am not mentioning here. USA have sex abuses more than combined islamic countries , polygamy ban side effect. Sorry

@asgharikhatoon4934

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Aaj kal monopoly k chakkar me parents apni beti kisi na ahl bande ko v saup dete hai .....I think husband first hand ho ya thired hand but eligible ho apni responsibilities k liye.... because men at that time are irresponsible ...they don't know their role in house , society and world

@khanakash9631

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Due to asian culture these problems arose

Plz upload full session

Upload complete session plz

The husband and wife can be best friend Only with compromises

Ma’am! You relate to that pain because you are told to act so, not by nature but by culture & media. A women doing for men is so highlighted on the contrary men do & forget in few moments. It’s Indus cultural issue (Hindu culture) which we saw & accept without any context.

@anu-lk1oc

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Oh woww...."bcz women are told to act so???"its men's rsponsibilty to take care of wife n children in every aspect of life he is going to be ansrabl for that but on the other hand its not women's rsponsibilty its her choice...so if she is sacrificing her life her mentl n physical helth for you guys "by her choice" or phir wo orat ap logon ko bdsurat or ziada umer ke lgny lg jate hy or phir mrd ko dosre shade k khwaab any lg jaty hain to yh orat ke ghlti hy k wo apke marriage ko accept nhe kr rhe?? Jb ap bhoky nangy hoty hain jb apko koi mon nhe lgata jb nhe yaad hote 2nd marriage? jee zrur krain ap 2nd 3rd 4th upto 11 but the point is dn't blame first wife for your mentl sickness n dn't abndn your "childrn" here.

@fawad7970

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Well said

@samreenrafiq7167

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Ohhh, yeahhh that's why we see so many women suffering and husbands are torturing them mentally, physically and emotionally.

@abuumair415

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@@samreenrafiq7167 u here tooo. pls show the ratio of tortures. see the divorce rate in ur country. its increasing super fast. only because of people having mindset like u.

@samreenrafiq7167

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@@abuumair415 what's ur problem???? U here too to why ur replying me on every comment, get a life!! Show you the ratio??? Really??? Is this something unknown?? Jis hadh ka tashaddud ka shikar khawteen hai koi nahi hai. And what about you??? Women live their lives in pain because of the people like you..who believe that women are born to be beaten up, compromise and serve the males.. Hell with your mentality.... when ur mother and sister will face the dame situation then you'll come to know.....bas dsro ki betiyo pe zulm krna ata hai..

Aaj to aap ne mere dil ki bat krdi😄😄😄

Why did you uploaded only 12 minutes video? May I ask whyyyy?

Where will I get the full video ?

How to talk to Sahil bhai directly???

Full vedio kr dein upload please

Strongly agreed ……

Where is the full video?

Please guide me how to talk to him

Yar Sahil Bhai ap aisi aorton se bat mat Kiya karyn jisky sar pe Chadar b nhi ha, aor Islamic topics discussion? we truly respect you, we love you, so please Sahil adeem 💎 😊

full video please

We are that generation that will see how changes are occurring ?

@adilshafique2344

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We are the ones that will make the change

Full video Kab ayegi

Dear mam and sir talk about the role of second wife in our society she also very negative most of the time and mostly husband when get married second time he also cut the relation with first wife and some times totally ignore her

Sahil bhai ki to bat he alag hai but ma'am ap ka jawab ni mujhy ap ka mindset bht Acha laga ❤❤😇

@zainabaliakbar2332

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Sadly, once again both these enlightened personalities are talking about men and 2nd marriage as a glamorous thing to do. When a woman is 45 and done with harassment of extreme social physical emotional upheavals. She wants companionship recognition appreciation kindness for all that she has survived for A MAN HIS HOUSE HIS KIDS HIS PARENTS AND then at the end when it's the wife turn for the same treatment you are justifying a 2nd marriage for the man. Why are two not talking about compassion empathy kindness. Same old topics u talk about that cause rift and divide in relationships. Talk about mental and emotional change plzZzzzz. Talk about developing a humanistic mindset first islam will surely flow into into. Its so suffocating to hear you both.

@anjala101

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@@zainabaliakbar2332 I think shadi se pehle aik dosre ki values aur preferences ko discuss krlena chahiye...not related to this video pr mere khayal se shadi se pehle Banda aik do chakar therapist ke bhi laga le bajaye wasting alot of money on kapre joote and functions...aik dosre ko jante hen nahi aur shadi kr lete hen.... result:Desi household=prison, center of negativity and what not

@anjala101

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@@zainabaliakbar2332 aur aurton ko strong huna chahiye bus buht dekh Lin hen miserable aurten ab bas we should take control of ourselves and our decisions Baqi Allah kher kre

@samreenrafiq7167

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@@zainabaliakbar2332 and just see no one is commenting on her for not wearing hijab or anything, just because she's favouring multiple marriages. How poor these men are!! Remarriage was commanded for the betterment of a woman in the society, how unfortunate to see that they're discussing it as a tool to lift the burden of responsibilities of a man towards his wife and his own character. If a wife isn't allowing him to remarry then he'll be committing zina, as if that's her duty to tame a little boy!!

What is the point of this conversation?

Sometimes wives sympathetizes their husbands The husband cares for them Is marriage anything more then this??? They really adore other women

Yes I have 3 nannies

Hazrat khadiza and fatima ka quality to bataya

Achi baat hai nahi hoti dosri shadi As a male i fully support it Bcz Males r lesser in pakistan in all classes Phir humko hamari ooqaat se barh kar biwi milti hai So keep opposing multiple marriages Lagay raho

❤❤❤

Let him talk!!

❣️❣️❣️

I also have 4 GRANDMOTHER I'm from Rawalpindi Not from Rural area

@dustyarain

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Wish my grand childern could say the same...😅😅😅😅😅

@unclesamwantsyoutoheil

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@@dustyarain 😂😂

We should know the purpose of marriage..both men and women have certain role and laws to follow In marriage in Islam which they both are bound to follow...but Quran actually tells us the purpose it's the peace u get from ur spouces .in this world which is full of test and pain and struggles u go home to person who brings u peace by simply be there for u.

Nice lecture. But sir chotey se ghar me 2 wives kaise Reh Sakti Hain secondly aik wife apni koi cheez bhi disri k sath share ni karna chahti then what?? Please reply

@thisnoman

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Sahil 2nd marriage k leye force nahi kar rahe. There are a lot of things should be consider before even thinking about 2nd marriage. Jo halaat hain Muslim Mens k Sahil sir k according Mens ko to 1st marriage bhi nahi karni chahiye.

@waytoguidance

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aik ghar main kon pagal 2 biwiyan rakhna chahta hay? usne burhapay se pehle ganja hona hay?

And what about those women who do not love their husband but living perfect life? They can not leave becoz kids can not be separated from father

MERE BABA KE SIDE PAR 3 SHADIYAA NORMAL TAHAA.. AND IS BEAUTY FULL EXAMPLES THEY ALL ARE VERY HAPPY FAMILIES... MASHA-ALLAH

My husbund betrayed me 5 years through his 2 marriage because he hide it from me and his Family and those five years he became a social monster he abused me when I asked him where were u he tortured emotionally with 2 little kids, and we had love marriage,

@howyou2035

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That's why we should not do love marriage. Its western culture.

@shahbakhtazeem2526

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v common practice that once a man gets his hands on second he forgets the first old relationship.

The elephant in the room is that women in pakistani society after marriage have to live up to expectations and demands of the household, i.e. in laws and husband. This is the most prevalent issue. It is such a toxic environment where a husband and a wife cant even enjoy their life the way they want. Every aspect of a newly married life is under surveillance by the extended family. In such an environment, how can she create space for herself? Secondly, the mental trauma needs to be treated first. So that before she becomes a mother, she knows how to live a balanced life and stand up for herself. And men need to realize this too

If men need to be socially active it means he has multiple wives nothing else come under the umbrella term “ socially active “. Tu phir woh biwion mein he busy rehe ga ummat kai wasi tar mafad kai kaam kub hongey ? Sirf muslim population he increase hoge i guess….

Never got an answer..but plz someone answer.woman who are divorced or widowed needs to gets married.good practicing muslim man should do it as it's permissible. Physical needs which are totally ignored for woman in our society...it prevents from zina. Period.its human need.i saw young widowed or divorced they can't get remarry because of 2nd marriage myth.again I am.not talking about muslim man who doesn't follow islam .many wives knwongly tolerate affairs which are haram as long husband doesn't get married which us halal..so when u choose to haram(which is convenient) over halal (difficult but permissible)..consequences happens.and yes i am 40 years old married woman and I said to husband he can remarry...it's up to him if he can I won't stop.see the wisdom it's not cheating

@farmanali9181

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Yes my wife also said the same to me. I see more tolerant women around now.

@Xerox482

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One of my teacher have 4 wives , 3 widows which had already children's from their previous marriages. ya if man have resources he should marry to more than one women.

He is right, I have two nani's and two dadi's

Well explained

His second wife totally hold him now coz of negative attitude and she always tried to snatched him I m living in joint family and that is a horrible experience for me,

@cheftahiraishrat377

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Assa humeray desi admi karty hain k aik taraf hojaty hain or aik ko bilkul chordyty . Agar assa,karna hota hy to first wife ko chor dyna chaheya ta k woh sakoun ka sas lay...likin latka k rakhty hain yeh zalim hy ....mostly yeh second wife awara type la ty hain woh assa karti hain khandani achi aurat assa nahi karti.

Here on this channel such things should not be shown 😊I'm so disappointed... No words Just speechless

Aur haan, sirf zina aur chhodne ki wajah ka naam hi shadi hai? Bacche kahan gaye is equation mein. Saari asli gehri dushmaniyan sautele behen bhaiyon mein hi hoti hain. Kisi ke baap chinte hain ya paisa! Nabi kareem SAW had the advantage of having children only through one wife. So more than half of the problems were non existent

@zahrasaman7759

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No we can't say that Prophet SAW had this advantage. We cannot presume anything in this regard as that would be disrespectful. But other than that I totally agree with you, zina se toh unmarried mard ko bhi bachna hai. Ye koi excuse nahi hai. To lift all the burden from a man by giving this argument. Marriage isn't a way to get rid of zina but to have a life in peace with ur spouse. Second marriage is just a matter of choice not any compulsion. But look at these men in the video or comments.

This is cultural or Hindu dilemma in Pakistan not an Islamic issue! She is wrong.. women think so because they have watched srk movies, as an idealization of love! & Have unrealistic expectations

@waytoguidance

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don't give us srk romance type of love.. but its true a woman can tolerate many other things even the batameezi of in laws but she draws the line at having a co wife

Allah pak hamy hedayat de seedhy raston par chalny ki 😔

may be there is a problem with myself (masla meri khopri main hai..!) , but seems like the videos with Ms. Eram are not being appropriately edited and uploaded, seems like a half-baked work, and though I can scroll down to listen to voice and not watch video, yet the big face of a lady does not seem like I would like on this channel... issue with lowering gaze..!

Why is sir Sahil talking to this woman ? Who is she ?

@farihanasir8606

Жыл бұрын

She is a famous psychologist

@ibrahimmohamed2085

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Why is it a sin?

@musaaholic

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@@ibrahimmohamed2085 having a debate with this lady is not a sin, but yes the way she is exposing her awrah is a major sin

کیونکہ گوری اک شادی نیں کرتی

App Sahil bhai kub dosri shadi ker rahey hain?

@thisnoman

Жыл бұрын

ager un k ghar me koi issue nahi to q karwana chahty hain ap?

@mashriqi6456

Жыл бұрын

@@thisnoman He is not saying keh issue ho to man should get married for second and third time.

@mobeenakhan3630

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Dosri shdi wesy bi kisi zaroort k bager bi ki jasakthi ha

@thisnoman

Жыл бұрын

@@mashriqi6456 He literlly saying this. bhai zara goor se sunein.

@mashriqi6456

Жыл бұрын

@@thisnoman there are few if in second marriage if we are going to do it accordingly Islam. Like if you can afford it or if you can give equal rights. Pakistani man has a different thinking about polygamy. He is not doing it for the sake of ALLAH. First Sahil Adeem has to change their psychology. Lust shouldn't be the reason.

Please blur the awrah

@musaaholic

Жыл бұрын

No way brother, ye bat tu bhool k b na krna wrna aisi daleelen milen gi k dimagh chakra jaye ga ap ka🙂

@captainsalif4752

Жыл бұрын

@@musaaholic Nahi bhai ye banda hamesha sahi kahta h. Haq ki baat karta h bas. Bas iss video main thoda masla huwa

My husband has second wife I don’t mind at all

Wa wa jo apni biwi ki skyat kertha apni ma se wo peli shadi k qabal bi ne hoaw

Wives should move on in to either another relationship or just have a life on their own without a husband if they choose not to live with the husband who opts to have more than wife.

Inscurity is the basic problem

Shahil bhai Aapne bahut khub jabab diya allha आपको slamt rkhae

U know what do I saw if man does second marriage he is putting more responsibilities on his shoulder for this world and hereafter because he will b Hakim for both of them will b responsible for Nan nafqa need to balance among them ,so he is making his life miserable only for one thing so let him.make 😋

11:00 James Bond chayye

Teen teen or char char shadiyan dakhi han na hamra par dada na ki thi or khud to kamana k kabil ni rahta phir bara beta sirf kama hi ni raha hota chotta behan bhaiyon ko khila pila raha hota tha kanghi krna mtlab bal pos bhi raha hota han or ya mard doosri shadi kr lan in ka pora control pehli biwi pa hi hota ha lakin dono taraf sa psychology hindu psychology ha or Arabian culture or indus culture bohat different ha or psychology bhi zahir ha different hi ha.

"ghoomo phiro" I think this woman doesn't know how a practicing muslimah is supposed to live her life :)...

السلام علیکم ورحمتہ اللہ یہ خاتون جب قرآن کےاحکام کا حوالہ دیتی ہیں کسی معاملے میں تو غامدی صاحب کی یاد تازہ کر دیتی ہیں غامدی صاحب کا فی میل ورژن

Is she, Bushra Ansari's sister?

Whose she ?is she wearing a mask ?

@aneeq.q6614

Жыл бұрын

What mask ?

@thisnoman

Жыл бұрын

huh ?

It makes me laugh because ( The men) can’t fulfill other responsibilities and requirements of his faith yet as soon as it comes down to another marriage he is the first one to follow that through!! These are men who pick and choose from their faith only that which suits their desires.. I’d say needs but I can’t as majority of the multiple marriages are based on anything but a specific need something perhaps that’s missing in which is important to him and could fulfill that what is missing from his first spouse .

@RajaMohsinDaniyal

Жыл бұрын

@Awais Ali yep💯

@mjawad43

Жыл бұрын

Stop spilling your silly below practical opinion on divine teachings.

@noorbanusheikh7770

Жыл бұрын

What you about sahil sir... what is that he is not fulfilling asa part of faith.. second marriage is not even the topic he is upto explaining people ... he is just saying that which is permissable in islam is the husband wishes for it.

@straighttalknomessing3934

Жыл бұрын

@Awais Ali perhaps if you are able to read and understand what I said then you’d not have such a biased opinion. Did I mention anywhere that Multiple marriages aren’t allowed ??? Get your facts straight then comment!

@straighttalknomessing3934

Жыл бұрын

@Awais Ali when I said he I’m referring to the individual who think they are allowed to just go around and marry for the fun of I’m not directing this to Mr. Adeem at all !

Erum baat hi nai krny dehri sahil sb. Ko 😂

Assalamualaikum! We women are parasites, we rely completely on our husbands/family for our survival. We don't have our own identity/sense of identity, our own personality and personal ideology. It is our this ignorance which is holding us back from being a better person, a better muslimah

@arzoozra8957

Жыл бұрын

Kuch samjh ai kuch nhi . Maghr Jo samjh ai wo bath byhtareen hi. Baki aghr ap Urdu may samja dy to mahrabani hogi

@egoiisticprince7977

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Yeah thats a huge problem we r facing.

@zahrasaman7759

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I doubt, if these can ever be the words coming out of the mouth of a woman!! Please have some shame, you'll be questioned for this as well.

@egoiisticprince7977

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@@zahrasaman7759 She hasn't said anything that she needs to be ashamed of. Stop shamming other people and thinking yourself off as superior.

@zahrasaman7759

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@@egoiisticprince7977 she shouldn't be ashamed of saying and degrading that we women are parasites, they don't have any identity etc? Ohh you lil saviour!! Couldn't you see her/rather him degrading the whole gender or the half of the Allah's creation on Earth? Yet find my comment offensive. You poor thing..

old era main wife ke death honay kay bad wo second or third shadi ke jati the magar eik sath zayda wife nai rakhi jati the

@samreenrafiq7167

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Nahi ek sath bhi ki jati thi, pehle wo imaan toh le aao. Ek ko toh pagal bna ke rkhte hain torture krte hain, ek ke lye paise kama nhi pate inhein 4 karni hai. Muslims pe itni preshani aayi hui hai..kaha dikhte hai mard?? Aurte hi roads pe aati hain...lekin ek ye wahid sunnat ada krne ke lye sab se agey.

@AQSA4029

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@@samreenrafiq7167 hota ho ga margar apnay khndan ke histroy main mainay aysa ke paya hai

This lady is so much irritated. How Sahil bhai tolerated this lady... ufff

@mobeenakhan3630

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That’s mean she is not irritated @ all that’s why sir tolerating her

@suhailaazam

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@@mobeenakhan3630 She has cut him many times and not giving a chance to speak him. when you will understand the tolerance ladies? She just want to interrupt and prove her points

@mobeenakhan3630

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@@suhailaazam we have to watch the whole session then decide

@suhailaazam

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@@mobeenakhan3630 It's enough to watch and decide. This is like a trailer and you can get the sense. I am unbiased because i don't even know this lady

@marshmellow4508

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She is very good in her talking.

Its Sunnah and encourage to do so.. now dont bring huqooq b.s into it.. 1 biwi ajkal kon sa shohar k huqooq pory kar rahi ha to kia usy talaq de k ghar bhejden.. this world isnt perfect feminist people ❤

dusri shadi brdasht o jati hy susral ki preference bv k uper ni brdasht hoti

@waytoguidance

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mere liye tou opposite case hay.. I can probably tolerate susral but not a co wife

3een 3een shadiyon wala par dada or hamri par dadiyan kiya un ki bachon ki taleem pa koi focus tha jasa ab kiya jata ha or bacha ki care asa thi jesa ab ki jati ha sb kuch bara beta hi kr raha hota tha jesa mera dada na kiya tha pasa bhi kamao or bahan bhai ko palo poso bhi or deeni taleem zara bhi ni us waqt culture ki tarbiya di jati thi.Ab phir bhi kuch na kuch deeni taleem pa bhi focus kiya jata ha.itni shadiyon wali pichli naslan sb kahta han k bas apni ash man shadiyan kro or bas acha acha khao piyo or bacha ziyada hona chahiya k ya asal dollat ha or us dollat ko bas pada kiya or chor diya bas larki ama k kam kra gi or mard kama k family ki zimadari uthai ga or aama aba skon sa aash man.Ya ha haqeeqat itni shadiyon ki bachon pa koi focus ni.

Or jin k husbands kehnay k bawajood bahr ni jatay unka kya kia jaye 😂

ایتھے رولا دوسری شادی دا نئیں رولا یہ ہے کہ نہ مرد مرد ہیں نہ خواتین خواتین صنفین اپنی ٹرو سیلف کب کی چھوڑ چکے نمبر دو یہاں کسی کو مقصد زندگی ہی نہیں پتا تو مقصد شادی کیا پتا ہو گا لہذا انھے واہ سب دوڑ رہے ہیں اور بطور جسٹیفائر کبھی دین کو استعمال کرتے ہیں تو کبھی کلچر کو تو کبھی کسی اور چیز کو محبت محبت کا راگ الاپنے والوں کو ککھ نہیں پتا کہ محبت ہوتی کیا ہے کبھی ہوس کو محبت کا نام دیتے ہیں کبھی حاکمیت کو تو کبھی غلامی کو محبت بیچاری خود کرائسس کا شکار سر پیٹ رہی ہے دوسری شادی پہ پابندی لگانے لگوانے کی بجائے اصل مسائل پہ فوکس کرو بھئی بندہ جے بندے دا پتر ہووے تے چار ڈیزرو کردا اے تے جے کھوتے دا پتر ہووے تے بس لتر ڈیزرو کردا اے سیم گوز فار وومن اصل چیزوں پہ کام کرو بھئی

@musaaholic

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Salute you 😅

100% domestic husbands 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Khadeeja k hotay way koi shadi nai ko, us k bad sb k samne aur shadian kr leen. Meri smj se bahar h

The problem is for most married women their whole life revolves around their husbands....if it revolved around Allah she wouldn't mind too much if the man took another wife.

@aiman216

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Incredible and very appreciated

I love to have multiple beautiful young women as my lawful wives. Islam gives me "permission" for it with certain prerequisites. I don't care what society thinks about me. I was born as a slave of Allah ﷻ and Allah ‎ﷻ has permitted His slave.

@waytoguidance

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then why not follow sunnah and marry divorcees and widows? Deeds are judged by their intentions mister "beautiful young women"

@waytoguidance

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most of the pious predecessors married for sake of ALLAH not their selves but whatever

@SaadAziz318

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@@waytoguidance Did Prophet ﷺ only married divorcees ? Have some flexibility in your thinking. Prophet Muhammad ﷺ, through his example, created variable options for believing men and women. Why should we narrow down those options? Let he wo wishes to marry young women, marry them. Let he who wishes to marry older women, marry them. Let he who wishes to marry divorcees, marry them. We all go through different experiences and thought processes in life and that is why we have been allowed to choose from variable options. We should not narrow these options. This is my main point ya akhi. And now we should end this men vs women rivalry. Quranic rivalry is Believing men and women Vs Unbelieving men and women.

@waytoguidance

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@@SaadAziz318 Yes actually He (Peace be upon Him) DID marry only widows and divorcees after Hazrat Aisha (R.A).. and He lived in a monogamous marriage for much more years than a polygamous lifestyle. Our Prophet (Peace be upon Him) did everything for the sake of pleasing ALLAH.. He didn't prefer His own nafs over ALLAH's pleasure. He loved Hazrat Khadija (R.A) deeply and after her death His favorite wife was only Hazrat Aisha (R.A) and he even had His last moments of life with her only.. still He never even hesitated to tell hazrat Aisha how much Khadija R.A means to Him. my point is polygamous lifestyle isn't for everyone and a man can never love two women equally.. If a women is strong enough to bear such a situation than good for her but she should never be forced to live this lifestyle. If a man intends on having multiple wives in future, he should be honest about it to the first woman before marrying her.. not forcing her into it after she has the man's children and now feels stuck..

Very disappointed... yaar baat to karnay do baar baar baat kaat deti hai. Ya sir ki suna lo ya apni suna lo aunty

Let him speak aunty plz

Wemen doesn’t need physical relationship after fiftees 50

@khan-pakhtun

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Lol nor does a man need it. He is almost finished too at 50. Ziada se ziada 55 tk chal jata hoga lol. Tm mardo ne mardo se superman batman banaya hua hai ahhahahahahahaah jese kbhi woh expire he nhi hota woh lolllllll

@hassanabdullah4419

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@@khan-pakhtun Aap village chali jao, wahan 80 yrs ka uncle bta de ga...

@khan-pakhtun

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@@hassanabdullah4419 village ki baat kaun kr rha hai. Im talking abt shehri mummy daddy burger like u.

@waytoguidance

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@@hassanabdullah4419 village ke welay logo ko aur kaam he kya hay

Iss topic pr pakistan ki youth sahil adeem se behtr explain krskti

@thisnoman

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Can you start from somewhere

@rabeeyaosama5169

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elaborate some brother...

Two jahil

@HALAL_CONTENT_MAN

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jahil bnde ko sare loog jahil nzar aate hai

@thisnoman

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Jee Allama Sab 🤣🤣🤣

@AutismtogetherUrduUKUSAEU

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@@HALAL_CONTENT_MAN yes only a jahil can reply to jahil hahahaha

@AutismtogetherUrduUKUSAEU

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@@thisnoman Aakhoooo…. I like seeing two idiots together….. Qasim Ali shah ki behan Aur bhai….. bongiaaan sun lo…. Personal opinion ko sell karty hain in religion raper…. F***

@thisnoman

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@@AutismtogetherUrduUKUSAEU Jee bikul ap ki langugage se bhi pata chal raha k ap kitny genius hain 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣