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@oldbastard2149
2 жыл бұрын
Demand a video chat within 48 hours after meeting someone online. Granted , yes some people are shy and that's okay so you can give him or her the benefit of the doubt. Tell them you want a video chat to confirm both of our identities. If they don't agree to a video chat , delete the chat. If they continue to chat , the Catfish is in pursuit , block them. Additionally , don't send you're pic to him or her right away after initially meeting online , that's a sure way of stealing pics for scammers.
@renalove2537
2 жыл бұрын
Just by keeping up the good work.
@StellaFl
2 жыл бұрын
'You can lead a horse to water but you can't make them drink' . Keep taking them to water, guys. You're not their mother after all.
@RndmMcRndmnss
2 жыл бұрын
Further inform and warn about scams and have them propose ways to prevent being scammed. Tell them not to send money/gift cards/crypto and if someone asks for money, they're probably a scammer.
@ickiedeer-lamb7282
2 жыл бұрын
They need to learn not to send $$ to ANYONE you dont need really well. I don't senďmoney period.
So Donald likes younger women cuz they're easier to mold into who he wants them to be. Got it. Definitely don't feel bad for him getting scammed
@lcct635
Жыл бұрын
Imagine whow he treats this Young girls If he really found one? He deserves what he get.
@LindaMadisonPR
Жыл бұрын
Donald gives me the creeps.
@gourdtube
Жыл бұрын
Yeah after binge watching all of these videos i've realized that 80% of these people deserve to get scammed.
@trekkiejunk
Жыл бұрын
You don't know if that's what he is. He never said any of that. Maybe it's because he sees himself as a free spirit, and likes people that are also more free and open to different things. Some people don't feel mature as they age, and they feel comfortable with younger folks because they are more like them. Just don't judge when you have no idea.
@shonii119
Жыл бұрын
@@trekkiejunk yup so true, the actor Tony Curtis was 73 and only dated girls under 25 cause he "identified" with them more than older women. I saw him say that on late night tv, they booed him off the stage
What bugs me about these victims is that they would never give that amount of money to their family or a charity. But in the name of "love" for a person they NEVER MET IN REAL LIFE - they send THOUSANDS. Seriously?
@claire6650
2 жыл бұрын
In aint in the same of "love", it's in the name of lust Those men are blinded by their own thirst for a "hot girl".
@Michael-mt6yb
2 жыл бұрын
How do you know?
@rubbersoul4469
2 жыл бұрын
@@claire6650 Yep. It makes women vulnerable to scammers too.
@juniorgrant5495
2 жыл бұрын
@@Michael-mt6yb I've listened to numerous videos of this type and not A SINGLE victim remarked that they're normally a generous person. Not one. You're telling me they would omit that kind of detail about themselves despite giving all other type of info about their personality in the interview? Oh please
@charmainewalker8627
2 жыл бұрын
It’s not even love but lust. I am sure they could find someone in person but they are drawn in by these so called hot women.
The internet has created delusions, everyone thinks they deserve a supermodel. It's wild out here!
@emmadownunder3833
Жыл бұрын
You’re right. 😂😂😂🤦🏼♀️
@toomanymarys7355
Жыл бұрын
Porn star. Lol.
@sergiomacias5145
Жыл бұрын
Not as delusional as most women thinking they deserve the tall, dark, handsome successful man😂. Like bruh, they all think the same 😂
@ipodtouch470
Жыл бұрын
And that delusion has gone both ways too. We have too many women sell Punani pics and having their ego inflated by some online simps lmao.
@Bjohn137
Жыл бұрын
It's just ridiculous. Everyone knows what they look like in the mirror. Pure delusion
I love how the scammers know that to trick women to fall in love you create a fake decorated soldier, doctor, make them in their 50s, with pics of them traveling and with pets. To trick men into falling in love, be 20 years old with a hot ass. The end.
@serious7179
11 ай бұрын
Yup lol
@alexbush714
9 ай бұрын
Women are interested in men as people. They want a man who's interesting, smart, around their age (probably a couple years older) and at least somewhat stable income. Men don't care about women as people. Just whether or not they're hot. And even into their old ages, men don't change. If we lived by mens standards, we'd have a bunch of autistic and schizophrenic babies everywhere due to their old expired sperm being in healthy young wombs. They'd have nice bone structures lol, but our society would be fucked. Mens standards have 0 logic. It's all about whatever gives them the tingles down there. Women are the gender who's standards actually progress society.
@whichgodofthousandsmeansno5306
9 ай бұрын
It's just people thinking with everything but their brains.
@uptownpotatoes
8 ай бұрын
😂😂😂. Every time.
@xdranzer0004
8 ай бұрын
Aka people who only follow their animalistic instincts:
This man says he does this because he's insecure...BUT he keeps going for women that are waaaay out of his league online. How does that work? 🤔
@rightweaponry908
2 жыл бұрын
This is what i will never understand about men, they always project their insecurities onto women and try to find the solution in women. It's not that hard to work on personal insecurities to feel better as a man. They never want to do the work.
@lc86_65
Жыл бұрын
I think he knows it's a scam, but stays for the fantasy 🤷♀️
@angiebenedek7039
Жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@gabesmom5615
Жыл бұрын
He’s thinking with some other body part instead of his brain.
@friendformationbot
Жыл бұрын
Narcissists are the most insecure people in the world.
I just don’t have sympathy for these men getting scammed. They are delusional and controlled by lust.
@susanb.1113
2 жыл бұрын
The money they squander could go to their kids or even an animal sanctuary.
@charmainewalker8627
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@ileanamuntean7338
2 жыл бұрын
Or fantasy.
@newmankidman5763
2 жыл бұрын
Angelica Pickles, the young guy is not delusional because he is young and not bad looking. However, he should not have sent money
@Maki-00
2 жыл бұрын
@@newmankidman5763 He is delusional! He’s an average Joe who thinks hot, model-looking women will be attracted to him. He’s shocked that the latest woman was a scam, despite being scammed twice before. If that’s not delusional, then I don’t know what is.
She wears designer clothes and her hair & nails are done and she's sending model type pics lounging in front of a pool yet he really believes she's penniless & hungry?
@daniellereid7576
4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂ryte
Romance Scammer Checklist: 1. He or she is out of your league 2. He or she started asking for money $$$ 3. He or she wants gift cards instead of real / actual gifts 4. He or she sends his or her Identification Cards (or other legal documents as proof of legitimacy without being asked) 5. He or she always has a back story with drama and need urgent financial assistance 6. He or she asks money for food 7. He or she asks if you’ve eaten 8. He or she calls you King/Queen, Dear, Hunny, and very poetic (not to mention confesses love early on) 9. He or she won't video chat often (mostly due to a bad internet connection) and will usually refuse to answer phone calls 10. He or she will delay your meet-up for months or worse, years Let me know if I missed other signs. Hope this helps!
@darcylett486
Жыл бұрын
A widow or widower, 1 child in boarding school, parents are both deceased, and no family to speak of. Also when thy send you a poem they claim to have written and the spelling and grammar are perfect but when they ask you a question in their own words the grammar and spelling is atrocious
@theotherwise3102
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@alr.3137
Жыл бұрын
He or she will work for the military, the UN, an oil rig, or a secret service
@alr.3137
Жыл бұрын
They will be widowed
@jodirook71
Жыл бұрын
gold bars
Don't send money to people you have never met. Why is this so hard? Don't want to be scammed? Don't send money.
@MrBrandonStar
2 жыл бұрын
Love makes you do crazy things
@Whiteyy191
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Einstein
@deniseyweesy
2 жыл бұрын
@@MrBrandonStar It's not love, it's lust. LOL And people can't make you do things (usually) it's a choice one makes.
@newmankidman5763
2 жыл бұрын
deniseyweesy, you are correct, and people should also never allow themselves to be tricked into laundering money for them, and the person can avoid it by NEVER giving the scammer their details and bank account number. Often the scammer will also create a fake bank account with a huge fake amount, and ask the victim to access it and make some fake payments. They do this to scam the victim into thinking that they have a lot of money and are therefore good for any "loan" for which they might ask the victim in the future.
@Whiteyy191
2 жыл бұрын
@@deniseyweesy “don’t make bad choices” do you have any other sage advice for us?
it's hard to feel sorry for people who willingly scam themselves.
@bpr9534
2 жыл бұрын
exactly
@ronnieroo227
2 жыл бұрын
1st time is a lesson, after that your just a sucker.
@princesabonita79
2 жыл бұрын
@Colleen Kelly it's possible. Like the men who pay for the "girlfriend experience".
@AndyinMTL
2 жыл бұрын
so true
@petepeter1857
2 жыл бұрын
@@princesabonita79 Yeah but that's at least real human contact
These guys are more than happy to send thousands of dollars over the course of months/years to women that they've never even met in person but probably wouldn't spend $100 on a half-assed date with a woman who actually lives in their zip code. 🙄
@shaylatorch
Жыл бұрын
💯 percent
@Isthisjoebiden
2 ай бұрын
It's too funny. That's why the whole passport bro thing scares no one, nobody _actually_ wants them and they're only overseas because that's true in the states
This isn't LIKE an addiction, it IS an addiction. This isn't any different than being addicted to drugs, food or sex. Addiction is obsessing over your vice, and compulsively seeking it out, even though it's destroying your life. I think we can all agree that's exactly what's happening with these people.
@msjhern3
Жыл бұрын
💯
@stonehengeconstructioncc1705
Жыл бұрын
That is very true, these are people who are prepared to pay for the illusion that the people in those photos are talking to them. But they very well know that in real life that is just not possible,🙄
@junemarshall-kingsley566
Жыл бұрын
@@stonehengeconstructioncc1705 And they will sacrifice everything as their lives go down the tubes--just as with a crack or heroine addict.
@BlakeC27
Жыл бұрын
After watching a few of these videos, this is an addiction for these guys. A very expensive dopamine addiction.
@pandorasboxer
10 ай бұрын
I think you nailed it.
How to help your male victims? Straight up tell them, dude, you’re talking to a guy. It’s his full time job.
@debbiegrimison6705
Жыл бұрын
Great comment! And you hit the nail on the head!
@shay4ojibwa638
Жыл бұрын
It won’t stop them.
@emmadownunder3833
Жыл бұрын
LOL. Brutal. 😂😂😂
@junemarshall-kingsley566
Жыл бұрын
So stop calling them, "she" or "her." Don't even call her "Linda" when it could be Bunkechukwu, Abayomrunkoje, and Chibundu--working together in a Scam Shop.
@Plethorality
9 ай бұрын
@@emmadownunder3833but true and necessary.
I’m sorry but Donald is pure comedy. That man is out of his mind 🤣🤣🤣
@ronitaeler9000
2 жыл бұрын
Stop getting Scammed!!! Spend that money on therapy
@GrubbinwitKeisha
Жыл бұрын
He was lusting..think with your 🧠 not your penis..They were way out of his league..
@Gurra88
Жыл бұрын
Did you hear about the lady who paid $3000 to lift a spell and was instructed to boil an egg in her own urine? She's on this channel too.
@juancarlodelosreyes2383
Жыл бұрын
He lost his brain
@chanel113
Жыл бұрын
@@Gurra88 what episode is this!!!??
These men are so quick to throw around the word love but it’s mistaken for lust.
Being single is not the worse thing that can happen to you. Our culture has placed such an emphasis on “romance,” “love,” and acceptance to validate your importance. It’s wrong, and an illusion. There comes so much peace, and joy when one embraces with contentment their status in life. That’s my opinion, for what it’s worth! Our worth is not found in another.
@junemarshall-kingsley566
Жыл бұрын
And the "romance" is so cheesy. The "love" is a joke when they aren't even there for you. And the "acceptance" comes from a script the scammers have used for a long time--like the hook, "Hi Handsome," or "Hi Beautiful!"
@ms.ellenlevy5667
Жыл бұрын
There is nothing wrong with being single and not being in a relationship. Find friends in real life, find hobbies you enjoy,get a pet to spend time with.lonely is a state of mind.
@bassssaasuuuup
Жыл бұрын
LOUDER! Everyday it’s “ how to attract a man in 40 days” or “ this is how to get him obsessed with you” 🤮
@NLR759
Жыл бұрын
True, but many of these victims of romance scams are actually married! They reject their own spouse because of these scammers.
@ninairish763
Жыл бұрын
Exactly! The same with money and materialistic things!
Being superficial is what gets these people scammed. They need to be honest and ask themselves if real people, who look like their online interests, would be interested in them in real life. Why do they think that these “online” people would be then?
@denisedenise3602
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!! They're all ALWAYS so SHALLOW!
@TheFitnahPodcast
Жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@Gurra88
Жыл бұрын
Some girl literally just said she would date Denez because he looked good without stating another reason. Ironic
@j.darryllittle5641
Жыл бұрын
You are completely off-base
@Brocurran
Жыл бұрын
Yep....maybe if he went for someone with less 'nice tits' 🙄 zero sympathy
Demiz is insecure, but he believes he deserves a tip-top woman. How's that? What does he come to the table with for her?
@joannajourneys
Жыл бұрын
lol money in exchange for their attention lol
@Chubbbbyyyyyy
Жыл бұрын
Money and more money 💰
@Sinsteel
Жыл бұрын
He has a first-class hat collection. But seriously, the answer is he's willing to throw thousands at her. The saddest thing is if he'd given it to the Onlyfans model that was actually in the pictures he would have gotten SOMETHING for his money, and he could have basically paid a series of attractive escorts to take care of him for some time.
@InsShogunGage
Жыл бұрын
@@Sinsteel right that's what I'm saying. These guys are too caught up thinking they still got it and are "players" who don't need to pay for sex yet get scammed for their livelihood smh. Like, you'd be SAVING money AND actually having sex and company by hiring an escort.
@stonehengeconstructioncc1705
Жыл бұрын
Please ask that question again because they send substantial amounts of money as a way of creating the impression that they are in a position to "afford" these women. But if he is already running out of money maintaining that woman online, how is he planning to maintain her for the rest of her life, seeing that they all talk about the promise to spend the rest of their lives together? Is he going to rob a bank at some point or is he just going to toil as a slave until he dies from old age?🤔
He’s like “I knew it!” *Still sends thousands of dollars.
Denese was so nervous for no reason when that girl came on camera to talk to him. It was actually funny 🤣🤣🤣
@eatmywords
Жыл бұрын
was he trying to run away?
@melaniepowell4693
9 ай бұрын
He even went for a walk
No, it’s not that “they can’t find a real person online because scammers are flooding their inboxes.” It’s because they’re delusional, expecting a “10” who is 35 years younger than them will be available to them.
@abccba1433
2 жыл бұрын
100%
@mmhthree
Жыл бұрын
They're paying big bucks for a fantasy, and they don't seem to mind.
@bethanythatsme
Жыл бұрын
Louder for the folks in the back 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@dharmallars
8 ай бұрын
I wonder how difficult it must be for actually smart older people online dating. Even if they don’t fall for the scams they must get hundreds of people trying.
@sauronthegreat489
8 ай бұрын
True, i would have to add that internet dating is full of bots and scammers. I've never sent money to any but have had inboxes flooded with them
At this point they're just paying for a virtual GFE. I don't see any victims.
@ladygumshoe7402
Жыл бұрын
Exactly....they are paying to hear words
@lc86_65
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely. These people are narcissistic, surely!
@TheNatscrat
Жыл бұрын
What's GFE?
@simanity
Жыл бұрын
@@TheNatscrat Girlfriend Experience
@justinebailey5333
Жыл бұрын
Right
Did he ever think about dating someone that just normal, someone that’s not a social media model. one that’s hard working has a big heart, self respect & integrity.
@kavi212
5 ай бұрын
Gosh no! They’re much too good for that
Donald looks a lot older than 61. I think he’s 70. He also needs a dermatologist.
These guys are carrying on (what they believe is) relationships with multiple "women", so they're basically players and users. It's hard to feel sorry for them, especially the 61 year old who's sleazing on 30 year old women.
@mamadude505
Жыл бұрын
Losers.
@ihanakaunotar2741
Жыл бұрын
Yeah, they see themselves as victims while they’re players themselves lmao 😂 karma
@MyNameIsUnavailable
Жыл бұрын
@Hummingbird YOU'RE JUST JEALOUS HE WONT HAVE YOUR BABY😂 HE CAN BE A DAD AND BREASTFEED
@Woo_Woo_Woman
Жыл бұрын
@cakedeluxe, the fact that they even get tempted means that they're dumb.
That man should be ashamed of his self thinking that girl wanted him 😂😂
@shirleyanthony5840
Жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing like really!!!!!
@lailas.3205
Жыл бұрын
Emphasis on GIRL. She looked 14. Where is Chris Hansen?
@dashanee0390
Жыл бұрын
Lmao!!!😂😂😂😂
@openyoureyes4799
Жыл бұрын
He's disgusting.. I wouldn't touch him with a ten foot pole!
@Bongwater33
Жыл бұрын
dirty old men! and women too!
She took an hour out her time to video chat with him and he’s just randomly walking about with shaky cam. I would have hung up
These people are beyond help. Don’t waste your time with them. They want to pay for the illusion to be in a relationship with a woman that looks like a porn actress. One day their money is finished and the whole thing will stop by itself.
@hellekimery9537
2 жыл бұрын
Omg so well said. I’d never date guys like the ones we see on here, they wanna date women who are 30 years younger than themselves! Yuk honestly
@vellmaliuy3974
2 жыл бұрын
Shut up
@ms.voicer3214
2 жыл бұрын
Lol truth!
@georgettethomas2540
2 жыл бұрын
Yesssssss
@jaykaye7025
2 жыл бұрын
@@hellekimery9537 it ain't just about looks but I know what you mean , I am well groomed and I wouldn't do online dating period
sometimes these people deserve it because they are so shallow. it’ll always be surface level “love”
@rockon8174
Жыл бұрын
LUST
@Sinsteel
Жыл бұрын
Then the same is true of all those deluded grandmas thinking some buff soldier boy wants to marry them.
@josie9583
Жыл бұрын
@Don lol I guess we'll never understand people. Def not a gender issue, just people in general looking for love 😂 lost of feminists on here getting angry at the men, when the women are just as bad
@norodzubara8888
10 ай бұрын
yes very shallow its called "lust" rather than love
@CountryLifeEngland
9 ай бұрын
@@norodzubara8888Yes. It’s all fantasy with them. They think below their belt.
Imagine the feeling of utter shame those people have for being on the 'sucker's list' 😮 As for Jodie, she is a lost cause.
@MarciaHooley-fr7qj
8 ай бұрын
Jodi likes it. She obviously has nothing at all going on in her life and won't get off her fat keister and DO something. So this gives her boring life excitement & meaning. Plus everybody who runs this page sits & boo hoos with her and people are giving her the praise & attention she craves. I think that's why most of these people get scammed
There seems to be an overlap to all these stories. I feel these people have certain traits in common. In all cases: - Always looking for hyper-sexualized imagery; someone young, someone beautful, someone greatly skilled; going after the proverbial "10", while being a 2, 3, or 4 - a general unwillingness to look for a fitting mate "closer to home", closer to their own age, and closer to their own physical beauty (which, painful as it might be, is a fact of life - a 10 dates 10's, perhaps also 9's, 8's, a random 7 with humor, but never a 6 or lower); common modern beauty standards have poisoned many minds, insofar that many people get bored with their vanilla spouse, even when they're also vanilla; a smarter, more realistic person dates in their own pool, and will find a mate they can be happy with; In most cases: - Extremely poor self-reflection; e.g. a poor 60-year old woman, with no teeth, with no personal hygiene, dating a 23-year-old pilot, who looks like Brad Pitt; or, a 65-year-old alcoholic tractor mechanic, with no teeth, dating a fashion model from Paris - I mean, really? - Extreme detachment from reality; not seeing they already have fantastic people in their lives; or sometimes a loving spouse; or recognizing they can find someone in their town, around the corner; only seeing this beautiful figment online, unable to wake up from their day-dream; - Extreme gullibility; taking every compliment & "I love you" as religious scripture; even if the person starts saying "I love you" after 10 text messages; even if the other party looks like a model, and you look like a slob who didn't shower since March; proved in many cases, in that when it becomes quite clear the other party is in reality a "Nigerian prince", and seeing proof, or even talking to the real person behind the photo, continuing to talk about the phantom as "her", and want to talk to "her" face-to-face, to confront her, and ask why she did it; - Extreme lack of impulse control; paying $400K, remortgaging the house, paying for the frills and unnecessary luxuries of a spoiled pretty phantom; like sending a Google Play card of $200 so they can get a coffee; In some cases: - Low IQ - Low social IQ - Social awkwardness - Extreme inability to reason logically In the most poignant, reckless & damaging (for themselves & loved ones) cases: - Being on the autistic spectrum; having tunnel vision; extreme shyness, therefore being more prone to going online, then meeting people in real life - which might also function as a safety mechanism (while they might not like the results, they hide online, for fear of being seen, resulting in a neverending loop of same behavior), which they might actually subconciously prefer to actually meeting someone; - Addictive personalities; inability to stop & wake up to the music, even after friends & family warn, and threaten to kick you out of the house; even when they're broke and can't make rent anymore; - Lack of morals, or even a complete moral void; resulting in risking, without hesitation, to lose the mother/father of their child, or long time spouse, to a phantom; I think in all Catfish videos, all victims have at least 8 of these 12 traits. I have a younger sister, who could also easily be duped. Luckily she has no online presence. My sister does not have an addictive personality, nor low moral standards, but fits all other criteria above. Therefore, she would definitely be an easy target for online romance scams. I have been targeted myself a few times too, but saw through the mirage, in less than 15 minutes of chatting. The request for money is a definitive proof, 100% of the time, it is a scam. No real date would ever borrow or request money from you. N E V E R E V E R !
It just kills me how these very average guys fall for these Thirst-Traps. Would these guys be nearly as interested and willing to fork over money for a more "average" looking, older woman?
@mildredpierce4506
2 жыл бұрын
Denez is not bad looking but Donald is old (compared to the women he wants), fat and in need if dental work. What young, porn star looking, stripper pole looking woman would want him? With his scammer, he offered to send $2,000 without the scammer even asking for it. Even in his real life, he believes in buying a woman’s affection.
@inactiveaccount6106
2 жыл бұрын
Not Donald. That's for sure. He said in the video that he doesn't date women his age. That's always a red flag & a sign of childishness. He's way BELOW average in the looks department & thinking he is someone's prize. I don't feel bad for dude at all. lol Dude is lucky anyone wanted to procreate with him.
@aaronbirook4367
Жыл бұрын
Men don't do older. avg age gap is 3-5 years for marriage buddy
@LunarChaos
Жыл бұрын
@@aaronbirook4367 he is 61…that means on average a woman between the ages of 55 and 67 should be his range. But he is messing with 30 year olds… The average black man is living to be 65 tops. So if he gets someone pregnant right now…the likelihood of him being around to support that child is low. Why do you think the biological clock for women slows at 40. Who wants 80 year old parents at 10? This is first wave maleism that they is delusional at worse, stupid at best. That’s why these men are failing.
@aaronbirook4367
Жыл бұрын
@@LunarChaos Lol, "the average life expectancy for White men was 76.6 years; for Black men it was 72.2 years" src: The National Institute Of Health. Stop watching Boyz in the hood and other ghetto movies showing bm dying at tender ages. BM Have a short life span but men in general die young. 72 AINT 65
Pro tip: do the reverse image search BEFORE you toss bands at these scammers.
@NOACCEPTANCE772
2 жыл бұрын
I reverse image searched your PFP but nothing came back. Does this mean you actually have arms that can stop a train?? 🧐
@ricslick
2 жыл бұрын
@@NOACCEPTANCE772 depends; you gonna send me 8k in bitcoins???
@krislatoya7556
2 жыл бұрын
😂
@hoosierbaddy3052
2 жыл бұрын
@@ricslick 8k in itty bitty coins. How’s that grab ya Slick?
@ricslick
2 жыл бұрын
@@hoosierbaddy3052 just make sure you pass it along in the form of a gift card. Thanks!
Could you get a psychologist on your team? Because the reason they can't give up their scammer is likely deep rooted issues they have mentally that a psychologist could help with.
@tizi2003
4 ай бұрын
They are beyond help and are quite sociopathic and potentially dangerous!
Donald (and Jody) definitely are NOT the sharpest pencils in the box.
Those men are creeps, they deserve to be scammed. There are good men around. But those are creeps.
“They didn’t do what I wanted to do” translation: “they’re not young enough to mold their minds to do what I want them to do” Women who are Donald’s age can see what’s up with him and are not willing to put up with his crap.
@darcylett486
Жыл бұрын
He doesn't want an equal partner to love and share his life with. He wants a doll that is perfect and that he can control
@dashopepper
Жыл бұрын
I heard it more that he had certain kinks that his real life partners weren't into, but that his online GFs were. The people who are scammed never appear to share their sexts, or Catfish doesn't reveal them in videos. So, he could be getting his kink itch scratched via sext, and since he believes they're real when he meets them they'll do it in RL.
@custardgannet4836
Жыл бұрын
@@dashopepper I'm pretty sure it was revealed he has a crippling foot fetish.
The young lady whose pictures were stolen was very kind. Trying to give him tips on how to talk to a woman in person if he is socially awkward
He literally falls for scams and then says "I knew it from the getgo." 🤦♂
I have no pity for these men, they are just creepy, that Donez whatever his name is the first guy, such a creep! Talking about that girls body, these men clearly can't meet real women in the real world and just go for these fake porn star looking women, if they are so stupid to get scammed it's their fault! And to get scammed multiple times is CRAZY! They need to take a long look at their unrealistic expectations of women, they aren't all that..
@Maki-00
2 жыл бұрын
Yes! Also, the woman is often decades younger. These men are incapable of having real relationships with women their age and in their league, so to speak, because all they want is a fantasy. If you can’t attract women like that in real life, why in the world do you think they’d be flocking to you online all of a sudden? If they’re dumb enough to keep getting scammed over and over, then I don’t feel sorry for them at all!
@GioMero4Eva
2 жыл бұрын
Yes ma’am they living in a fantasy. Can’t be mad when you wake up and realize it was all a dream.
@Michael-mt6yb
2 жыл бұрын
You sound jilted and bitter lol clearly you’ve been looked over.
@jbrown8601
2 жыл бұрын
They don't want to wake up! They love the fantasy and probably turn their noses up to the real women around them.
@vellmaliuy3974
2 жыл бұрын
You’re creepy ra cist
Well, I got "scammed" by Donald's initial video! I remember watching it and thinking that MY smoke detector's battery was on the blink. So, I took the unit off of the wall and disabled it. I finally realized that it was his smoke detector that was problematic so I ruined a completely good smoke detector and spent $40 for a new one!
@MissWhiskers
2 жыл бұрын
LOL omg! XD
@doyenneself-care9480
2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣 best comment 🏆 because me too 🤣
@justynetubbs211
2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@CatfishedOnline
2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@AjasAura
2 жыл бұрын
Well if you’re a pretty girl he’ll pay to fix it! 😅
Jody is so far down the rabbit hole there's NO pulling her out. I think she enjoys what she has with her pretend bf.
@marym2632
5 ай бұрын
I'm surprised his name isn't George glass😂
Even before they start messaging, the picture of the person that messages them is the red flag these doughnuts should see straight away!
1. GET REAL. Insta models ain't checking for them. 2. LOOK UP THEIR PICS 3. REQUIRE VIDEO CHAT 4. DON'T SEND MONEY
@LindaMadisonPR
Жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@tessaroma1970
Жыл бұрын
Yup, require good quality video chat, long chat. Ask to wave their hands or do somethings you would like them to do to prove that the chat is real, without excuses that the internet is weak on their side or camera stopped working well. Internet works everywhere even in 3rd world countries. Still don't send any money because they can still fool you with their names
@FC-hj9ub
Жыл бұрын
I'll just shorten it for you. Don't send money. Ever. The end
Donald just lives in fantasy land.
"Go to clubs" is bad advice actually. You're better off trying to meet people through mutual hobbies or other friends. Clubs are another great way to waste time and get finessed. Have fun at clubs sure but don't expect to find a GF.
$28,000 he sent to scammers and Matchmaking Service cost around $600. Smh.
The fact that someone would send someone they've never met or even had a voice conversation with thousands of dollars never stops boggling my mind.
@ridinwithjake
Жыл бұрын
Cmon, I’m a sweet guy. I think I really like you. Could I have $50 as my mother is sick and needs medicine? (😅😅 )
@shirleyanthony5840
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@bassssaasuuuup
Жыл бұрын
I’m in the wrong profession
@CarpeNutella
11 ай бұрын
Oh, my King, I really need gift card please
I struggle to understand how people can see a model or xxx star & think they are going to reach out to THEM on IG to hit on them.
@GrubbinwitKeisha
Жыл бұрын
Lol dumb especially if there a 3
@smachael07
Жыл бұрын
Denez is like a guy that thinks all the strippers actually like him. So bizarre.
@stonehengeconstructioncc1705
Жыл бұрын
I think in some of these cases it is the other way round; the so-called victims hit on these fake profiles and initiate the communication because they see the fantasy that they go searching for online in the first place,
@14catsand1human
Жыл бұрын
Power of money. He thinks he can buy love.
@beckydavis4958
Жыл бұрын
It's just like men from way back when who actually believed strippers really liked them when they were giving them money. They have no self-awareness at all. Adult entertainment is a job, sex work is a job, and scamming is a JOB. They're just using them. Fools.
Haaa I can't believe anyone wants Donald. And he has the nerve to be picky! Get outta here man!
I suggest to have a psychologist present to help them sort out their love addiction.
The problem with these people is that they are trying to date out their league , looking for 10’s and models smh ! They probably have nice people in their communities that they wouldn’t even look at . They want fantasies not relationships .
I’m curious as to why someone who was scammed out of thousands of dollars TWICE, would be so willing to get into a third situation that looked just like all the other ones. Is the pattern not obvious? Does he enjoy throwing his money away? Why not just give it to charity? Or save it for retirement? Hell, even buying a bounce house would make more sense.
@goldensloth7
2 жыл бұрын
LOLL yup
@qure9128
2 жыл бұрын
It's crack.
@cherrypos755
2 жыл бұрын
Right 🙏👍
@rt66vintage16
2 жыл бұрын
Lol, bounce house! 😄 maybe he'll meet lots of single mothers! They're the ones who probably need his money. SMH
@laj68
Жыл бұрын
These people like the drama, because their is something missing in their lives.
When I was single I never met men this generous lol
Bravo Social catfish, the dude who needed to leave the room before meeting the model, absolute gold .
I was catfished once. As soon as he called me"queen" and asked me if I had PayPal I turned his ass in
These men are hard to feel sorry for. They lack self awareness.
He is a cash cow to scammers. He has money to throw away.
@bhvgcfx459
Жыл бұрын
once they know he is an active mark they will try again and again
@knowbodiesfull5768
11 ай бұрын
A cash cow to scammers. Moo. _(8/5/2023)_
didn't realize how expensive it is to be stupid
There is some type of fear of a real relationship. It is a way for them to have intimacy but at a distance. Affecting the finances makes it feel more real. These people actually choose this. They will stop when they are ready
I hate "babe" as a term of endearment.
You can’t really help the victims that don’t want help!!!!
@shay4ojibwa638
Жыл бұрын
🎯
@KCJSummers
Жыл бұрын
They’re paying big bucks to keep their fantasies alive. 😮
This is what happens when your a grown as man trying to date teenagers. No sympathy.
He sends her money for a bus ticket? You mean his queen isn’t worth a plane flight? I wouldn’t have met him either.
You can't love someone who you have never even met. You don't know them.
I’m telling you. These people need to see a therapist. These scammers know how to manipulate people with low self esteem or past trauma
@tinataylor4618
Жыл бұрын
or narcissists. Lots of these people are very selfish and narcissitic.
My heart and prayers goes out this man. A fake page of my brother was made on Facebook one time. I notified him and told about the fake page and we both reported it. And it got taken down.
There's a recurring theme with these wholesome, churchgoing guys here.
This is why you need to either get a therapist on staff, or find some therapists who do online consultations that you can refer the victims to. They need professional psychological help
@carlahaiduk1878
2 жыл бұрын
They won't seek help I think. They
@lifespanwellnessbeauty-60i64
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly! At least Denez was honest about his insecurity.
@mildredpierce4506
2 жыл бұрын
Catfished did send at least one victim to therapy.
@Greeneggsandham123
2 жыл бұрын
That would be really interesting to have a therapist get to the bottom of why they let themselves be scammed over and over. It’s so hard for the rest of us to understand. They are so obviously scams. A Stranger half your age, extremely good looking falls madly in love with you after 2 weeks of emails. Then wants you to keep sending money for lame reasons. I understand lonely, but I don’t understand stupidity. I would understand a penpal where you pay them $30 a month to be a friend and communicate with you daily. No scam and everyone knows they will never meet and just friends. Someone should start a business of penpals because a lot of people are lonely and need someone to talk too.
If the last girl especially living in the states wanted to really come and see you, she could have paid for her own bus ticket
@SandraSews0108
Жыл бұрын
Women who look like that get flown out
@lilylove2888
Жыл бұрын
Lol please be serious
@junemarshall-kingsley566
Жыл бұрын
@@lilylove2888 LOL. I can just see the pretty thing sitting on a Greyhound bus and putting up with the fumes, all so she can wind up in Donald's embrace.
@Luckimee
Жыл бұрын
Bus? 😂 paid for her own? Lol oh boy 😂😂
Dinez sent thousands to 3 DIFFERENT women??? Lawd, pray for him. He is…special 😕
When a scammer trick a narcicist nothing of value is lost. They both deserve each other
Easy: don't send money. Facetime. Meet in person. That simple. Stop focusing on looks.
I think these guys could prevent all future problems by investing in a mirror then compare the reflection with the picture of these models….problem solved!
@terimorris6394
2 жыл бұрын
Biggest LOL!!! That’s what I think. They are so delusional and must have very high self esteem because they think young beautiful women will fall in love with them, they’ve never seen themselves on a video? They should film themselves and see how awful they look
@farapipsqueek636
Жыл бұрын
eh. I know couples in which one person is way hotter than the other
@msjujuz266
Жыл бұрын
@@farapipsqueek636 that's rare
I know it's a bizarre concept... but going out to meet people is more productive.
@theartistcherrypi6454
11 ай бұрын
They will never do that because it makes too much sense.
Ring ring : “scam likely” Donald : **answer immediately
Listen stop going after people that you could never get in real life!!! Have standards yes, but if a model looking chick or dude doesn’t approach you while at the grocery store, but only hits you up online, it’s a scam, come on people stay in your lane
That was sweet of that girl to talk to him and give him tips, but these people being scammed are very shallow. Even if that man went to a club to meet a woman it still probably wouldn’t be real.
@ginajoseph8776
2 жыл бұрын
Yes, it really seemed to help him.
Wow the girl who called in was so kind and encouraging to the victim
Why do people not get that people that hot won’t ever date anyone online? They don’t need that.
I really want to know what Dinez does for a living because I need that kinda money to spend on myself much less online lovers
@NarnianLady
2 жыл бұрын
Ditto..!!!
@Maki-00
2 жыл бұрын
Damn near makes me want to catfish someone if it’s this easy to get suckers to send you thousands of dollars! 🤣
@krislatoya7556
2 жыл бұрын
Yesss! On top of that the USD is doubled in my currency so it would be welcomed.
@chocha4438
2 жыл бұрын
Probably an engineer. They think they’re the sh1t 🙄
@sanaaniz
2 жыл бұрын
@@Maki-00 same 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 a fool and his money will part
Wow. If they CAN'T let go of their scammer,.. then I CAN'T feel bad for them. They are clearly getting something out of it that they want, even if it's destructive for them.
@i.cant.sleep.anymore
Жыл бұрын
I've learned that men LIKE women who treat them badly. You see it in these episodes, they throw away a good woman for a fantasy online. They don't actually want good women.
lmao "I know you just got paid, MONEY PLEASE"
The scammers are heartless. If the person gets scammed, their name is put on the list and then targeted again by multiple scammers and scammer schemes.
I'm honestly a bit of a loner, so I prefer not talking to people. I would accept friend requests on social media, and the instant I accepted their request, they would send me a message. It was irritating to me because I don't feel the need to talk to people, especially ones that I don't know. And then when they act like I'm their girlfriend, it creeps me out, because I never said I would be their girlfriend in the first place. So I stopped accepting friend requests from people I don't know for that reason.
@hellekimery9537
2 жыл бұрын
Yes! If you didn’t want to talk to people, why would you ever accept requests from strangers? That’s really not smart, for thousands of reasons !
@cristibaluta
2 жыл бұрын
@@hellekimery9537 What she meant was that she doesn't know how to talk to people. Communication is a basic need, everybody needs it
@hellekimery9537
2 жыл бұрын
@@cristibaluta no I disagree, she states she gets irritated that people wants to talk to her as soon as she adds them as friends on FB! First don’t add strangers, then they won’t message you, or at least you don’t have to answer. But in general you add friends on FB so you can chat. My point was to never add strangers, unless you decide they are safe. But people expect to get to know you better when you do this, and I learned that the hard way myself, as I don’t wish to chitchat too much either!
@gigiarmany4332
Жыл бұрын
best decision
@liliacastellanos921
Жыл бұрын
Usually people send friend requests to friend u as in chat not just oggle over your life or stalk your posts and photos that's even creepier
Why keep fishing in the same pond (online). Once you're marked as a sucker your info is sold to any and every scam organization.
@ebonyjackson3198
Жыл бұрын
I don't believe these men can meet women, especially the type of women they seem to be attracted to, irl. They seem kind of socially awkward and probably don't know how to approach them.
"How did u figure it out" after scamming someone for 10k is crazzzzzy!
Jodie disgusted me when I saw her originally. SHe was obv. addicted to feeling important and loved by the scammers and didnt want to stop. She loved the attention of both the scammers but also those trying to prove it to her. She is hopeless. Let her sink into depravity and fantasy, she loves it.
You need to get an addiction specialist on board if you're gonna help these people break away from the ACT of talking to their scammers
@wilmasmith9689
2 жыл бұрын
I second that
When people who are OBVIOUSLY being scammed refuse to acknowledge the reality of their situation, then there is nothing you or anyone else can do for them. Telling these self-made victims to stop sending money and break off contact with the scammers just falls on deaf ears.
The disconnect in this one is wild. Why do I feel like he’s doing this because he’s weirdly in denial about his sexuality?
He was going to send her a BUS TICKET. No, not an airline ticket. A BUS TICKET
So Jody says she's not sure she can video chat because she has "no clue" how to do it yet she can video chat with this site 🤔🤔
Dear Lord, these people seem to want to be Catfished, as the dream of a hot chick online is better than an average person in real life. Just BLOCK anyone who asks you for money ever.
He loves younger women but when the woman that he thought joined video call, he got all nervous and had to leave out of the room. Smh!
Take away all their electronics and access to their money.
Dinez isn't bad looking, he's young and seems to have a promising career if he works in a college. He'll find someone out there to appreciate him. But it's not gonna be online. Being insecure sucks but you gotta put yourself out there because nobody is gonna do it for you.
@amyeastman8764
2 жыл бұрын
He doesn’t want a real person. He wants a fantasy and he pays for a fantasy.
@denezstallworth4549
2 жыл бұрын
Amy Eastman are you whoever you are you don't even know me that's exactly why I didn't wanna do this shit in the first fucking place because I knew drew and the other guy that works with social catfish was gonna put this video out there I wanted love real love at that but the Bitch kept lying to me too make me think she was real and she wasn't tried doin a reverse image on this particular chick and nothing popped up wish people would learn to mind they own fucking business instead of been in mines
@jip230
2 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing - he doesn't seem to want a real woman. He seems to want some Instagram fantasy woman. That's why he keeps going online looking for love vs giving up his online search and looking for someone real and local
@keciaaskew5166
2 жыл бұрын
@Budgie is definitely agree, it’s definitely not going to be online.
@sammnew
2 жыл бұрын
It can be really hard to meet people in person if you’re really shy! Dinez looks like a really lovely guy to me, he just needs to work on his shyness. ❤️
He works at a community college. I mean, it's not ok to date students... but ex-students are OK, and admin staff, and teachers... He's in a great place to find a real person!!
@rt66vintage16
2 жыл бұрын
Lots of middle age women attend interesting classes too, usually at night. I took a class called Useful and Edible Plants.
@custardgannet4836
Жыл бұрын
@@rt66vintage16 he ain't looking for a middle age woman though and that's part of his problem. He wants a young bombshell to flash around.
He said she “knew when he got paid”… OMG! Saddest thing ever… if he has watched this channel how does he not get that he’s talking to a dude in Africa. How in the hell did he miss that point? But I felt sad when he said he was insecure