This is not a real story of my life but an example of the life of someone who has this Saturn placement. Don't forget to check out the Saturn introduction video (as usual) ! 😘 kzread.info/dash/bejne/mqOd06eglLSvY6Q.html

@destinychild4659

2 жыл бұрын

So where is your Saturn? 😏🤭😏

@miajhaj

4 ай бұрын

Tan, I’m very intuitive & have a gift of clairsentience. I can feel in my entire being that this is in fact your real story, and as a Saturn in 7th house native NO ONE could “act” this type of life & feelings so deeply. You nailed it & I’m sorry that you feel you have to hide your truth but I’m sending you bigggg hugs my girl 🫂

What were our souls thinking when they signed us up for this Saturn 🪐 in our 7th house shit??? 🤣🤣🤣🤣

a parent who drinks heavily and is an alcoholic is absent, even though they are physically there.

I'm only 21 and having this information has changed my life. I've been researching and practicing astrology and tarot for two and a half years now. I've done the shadow work I have realistic expectations for my father, I'm committed to myself first. I am walking on my life path because of the work I've done and I know what ever challenges come my way I know me.

Tan, this story hits HOME! Are you serious this isn’t your actual story bc it was so believable. You make a great actress! I also have my Saturn in the 7th house and relationships have been ROUGH my entire life. Nothing has ever worked out however I recently started doing my shadow work and know I am now on a much better path for myself. I don’t really care anymore whether I end with someone or not bc I’ve come to a place of finally surrendering being by myself and embracing all the gifts that come with that. It’s pretty liberating once one has come to this place. I recommend it for anyone struggling. I do however deeply feel for us Saturn 7th house ppl! Relationship nightmare placement until we do a LOT of growing. We can however gain such profound lessons and soul expansion from this energy.....but it’s a bitch.

if you have Saturn in Libra, and you are a man your relationship with your mother will be challenging, if you are a woman then the relationship with your father will be challenging, due to this you are searching for what you have missed from your parents in your partner. There will be delays in getting married, if married early or at right age, then that marriage mostly breaks up. For the people who had a delay in relationships or marriage, you'll find your long term partner after 36 years of age, and also this relationship would be probably long term, all in all this is a challenging position for relationships, there is lot to be learn here, the biggest lesson here is, you are your source of happiness not your partner.

@TheBeccasol1

2 жыл бұрын

🙏🏾💜

@laurea756

2 ай бұрын

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I think the fear of being controled/rejected, is the core of it. The resisting part I totally feel it!

Same girl! Difficult and extremely hurtful relationships all my life. My Saturn is in the 7th house in Scorpio. Thanks for sharing! 💚

@Fantasyisland25

4 жыл бұрын

Same. Saturn in 7th house scorpio. 34 and still single

@vanessaroper3028

4 жыл бұрын

I have it the same, relationship feel like a burden! At time’s singleness would be preferable

@jenniferzuiff8517

3 жыл бұрын

I’m Saturn 7th house Sagittarius and I’ve had a tumultuous time with relationships my entire life. I sometimes think it’ll just never workout. I’m just thankful for finally coming to a place of accepting being with myself and not placing this pressure on being with someone. I feel for all of us Saturn in 7th house ppl. It’s just heartbreaking. And it never ends

@themoonbleu627

3 жыл бұрын

@@vanessaroper3028 why ??

OMG, I'm dealing with a 7th house guy...now I can understand why he has this commitment phobia. Bad thing is he's not aware of that

This is the greatest video ever made about this placement! Thank you!

Thank you so much for this video! I’m a libra sun, mercury and rising - and my 7th house has my Saturn in Aries. And your explanation is so spot on. Even about the source of everything possibly being an imbalance of freedom & commitment.. I denied myself of getting into any relationships before anyone could tell me I’m too clingy lol but now that I’ve been in one for about 2 years I’m so solid on me marrying myself first before I outwardly marry my partner. And I would hope my partner is married to them self before hand too bc why would you want to marry someone (OUTSIDE) who has a crappy marriage so to speak with themself (INSIDE) ? The answer is you don’t - or you will marry someone who deflects all their own inner quarrels onto and you’re stuck in 20+ marriage disconnected from yourself so bad u don’t even know yourself & your partner will be so controlling you don’t even control your own life anymore... buuuut thank goodness for astrology bc I’m learning about myself and it’s helping me not waste a recipe I try to make bc I’m unaware of (my own) ingredients. Forgive me if any of this doesn’t make sense- I’m a bit scatter brained but aaaaaalll of what you said heavily resonates & for anyone still reading w this placement PLEASE know that the relationship you have w yourself comes before everything and everyone else - also sets the tone for all your other relationships. ALL IS SELF. Crappy relationships w people on the outside? Fix the relationship w yourself. And start w what you can 😁 Happy Astro Diving!😉🤩

@TanAstrology

4 жыл бұрын

I love what you said about the partner also needing to have THEIR inner marriage done (not just the saturn in 7th person)! Thanks for sharing your insights ❣❣

Also a 7th house Saturn. Not the same as this example story, but my dad was absent in a way. My parents have a good marriage and he was there, but I think his way of showing care and love was more acts of service rather than words (which is my love language), and he went back to school when I was a kid so there were some weeknights when it was just me and my mom. My mom was emotionally abusive and only focused on my physical appearance. I think the lack of verbal affirmations as a kid pushed me to have unrequited crushes in my teens and 20s, and then being rebounds. Now that I've passed 30, I've become more discerning and slightly reclusive, I don't go on a lot of dates. It's easier to not respond to every guy who asks me out because I know what I want and don't want. I've always been alone and I'm used to it, even though sometimes I get hit by a worry of being alone forever. I've pretty much grown to accept that there's a high chance I'll never marry, and I might react badly if someone was seriously caring/interested in me because I'm so used to being independent now.

Saturn 🪐 7th house Pisces ♓️. My dad was in and out of jail , he use to give me and my sister beer , he hit on my mom . My recent ex was jealous and very controlling ( I share the 7th house w Aries as well ) cheated a lot and was always in and out . I’ve took him back and forgave him countless times and he repeated the same actions . We haven’t been together since March of 2019 and since then I was asking myself a lot what am I doing wrong ? Why I can’t have the relationships I desire? I’m put in so much work and left with no results just a bunch of heartache. But honestly until recently, I really don’t care anymore . I enjoy being alone and my solitude. And 2020 absolutely gave me no choice lol . If you have fears of being alone .. dont . It’s a blessing in disguise.

Astrology has always been my light since I discovered it when I was younger. It started out from basics and just for curiousity sake. It's only until last year that I went full on it because I left law school and my best friend is now into this thing too. My Aquarius Saturn is in the 7th, chiron in the 1st, Pisces moon in the 8th, and Scorpio stellium in the 4th (pluto was there too). I had a painful childhood since my dad died when I was 7 and my mom was there but she felt like she was never there. We were in a survival mode. I went through a lot of abuse while growing up. My chiron in the 1st made me have a lot of issues in my physical body as well. I was bullied because of my size and nobody wanted to be my friend. It was terrible and i felt really alone. When I finished my college (I was 19 at that time) I decided to turn things around. I told myself I wanted to 'try' having a boyfriend. And much to my surprise, I did! We lasted for 3 years and 10 months until I decided to break it off when I figured he cheated on me. I have known then that I was just forcing myself to be his ideal person and there were a lot of conflicts going on in my life. The cheating issue was just the last straw and it helped me not feel guilty at all. The guy I dated wasn't exactly successful but i felt like we're going somewhere as a couple because he's ambitious and very hard working. But then I wasn't attracted to him at all. I just stayed because we had the same goals. I'm 26 now and I'm nearing my Saturn return. I'm dating my boyfriend for 2 years and 6 months and I'm in a better shape. I think I'm 'almost' ready to face Saturn. I'm more authentic with myself and I found someone who complements me. All I need now is to work on my shadow issue on my own by placing my 7th house in my first. I need to be more driven wth my goals and more responsible with myself. I realized that I was kinda scared with my shadow was because I was afraid of failure and I want someone to do the job for me. Being a leo rising, i felt like my path to my career just went smoothly and more than being alone, i was more afraid to fail and not be good enough. But yeah, little by little, I will try to face that fear of failure and not being good enough. I hope the next time i visit this video, I'm over my Saturn return and I'm the person I always wanted to be--with my partner who is also stable in all aspects too.

God bless you! I feel this so much, too. Thank you for showing so much vulnerability and helping us through this tough placement!

This is hands down my favorite video in 7th house saturn. Also possibly the most triggering so far

Wow.. amazing video. I appreciate you sharing what you learnt. It’s so valuable.

I have this placement Saturn in 7th house in Scorpio! My dad was there but I realised he was absent. I realised this as an adult! Relationship does feel burdensome. My mom is passive. Got married before 28, still together.

@ChrisRaymundo

3 жыл бұрын

This gave me hope 😂

Saturn in Leo in the 7th and this is scary accurate. New subscriber here! ☺️

Thank You for sharing, I can relate!!

My Dad wasn't exactly a piece of sh** but for some reason at my most vulnerable moments he got really really close to it...

Thank you for sharing your experiences. It's not the easiest and I really admire your courage to open up to hundreds of people. Even if it's online.

@destinychild4659

2 жыл бұрын

This is not her real story, she wrote it in disclaimer.

Yessssss!!! Go girl... I love it💝💝🎉🎉

Omg I’ve been waiting for this video!! I read that his placement also means potentially marrying an older partner

@flymilo904

4 жыл бұрын

no, you have to learn the lesson which is to marry your suitable partner and not settling for anyone less than what you want and what is good for you. this is what it's about.

@vanessaroper3028

4 жыл бұрын

It is related as well to older partner, I did. But best marry after your Saturn return

@themoonbleu627

3 жыл бұрын

@@vanessaroper3028 no not older just mature

Good story! 😏 You are great actress!

Oh man I needed to hear this 😊 Im at a place now where im trying to realize and accept who i am after so many ups and downs. I just need to find my way 😌

Be proud of doing that shadow work!! Not easy!! ❤

Sending you a lot of love, sweetheart. You are loved. 😍😍

@destinychild4659

2 жыл бұрын

This is not her real story, just an example! 😂

I enjoyed watching this

My 10th house is Saturn in Gemini. I'm Cancer Sun, Taurus Moon and Scorpio rising w/ Aquarius in Noth Node. I had a alcoholic/drugs mother and a stepfather who was never home, but when he was, he was abusive. Mother when drunk/drugged also abusive. I did much of my raising up in the streets and was gone from home as soon as I could. Those years made me who I am today!

As a 7th house Pisces Saturn with a Leo rising, it's so hard and I could totally relate to what you said especially an emotionally absent father.

This is so relatable

Thank you for your beautiful vulnerability & authenticity. 13:56 SO GLAD YOU LISTENED TO YOUR INNER KNOWING! Interesting…very similar story. Right now Uranus is conjunct my Saturn. Learning & letting LOTS go! Oh also smack in my Chiron return. Fun times! 😂😮

That was powerful

This was very good and amazingly clear to the point.

I have saturn in the 7th house mu fiancee died in a motorcycle accident 6years ago... I'm now 38 and single

I have saturn in 7th in Aries and Mars , when im drunk I don't know ima like a stubborn and more agressive i donno wat happen yesterday when im drunk * and that morning people around me something not really look happy or see me like that when im drunk so Saturn in 7th need to careful sp when it comes to partying and drinking alcohol

I have Saturn retro in cancer in here. I’ve always had issues with friendships and have never been in relationships. Healing and learning to love myself. I have trust issues and fear of commitment due to the fear of hurt. Its good to know this so I can find my soulmate sooner in life but if not that’s ok:) God has a plan for me.

I think marriage is unattainable for me as saturn in 7th house

@Fantasyisland25

4 жыл бұрын

Same. What's this karma? Damn

@nickb3345

4 жыл бұрын

Same but I don’t want marriage

@jenniferzuiff8517

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly how I feel 🤣

@betsygirl488

Ай бұрын

It's not - we are destined for true love- serious and conscious. After our first saturn return is supposedly gets q pit easier... I feel I've learned a lot of lessons in my 20s x

I have a Capricorn Venus, Capricorn in the 7th house even though its cups is in Sagittarius. This is hella accurate.

i have retro saturn in aries in 7th house i never really got a proper love from my father he was a drug addict and he passed away 13 yrs back i was like 10/ 11 i never really knew what family meant and i still don't do and they say 7th house is for marriage whatsoever and it's lord in 10th house (mars in cancer people say i am doomed because of this placement but i really hope that i will get the meaning of a family when i get married..... i just wish my hopes wouldn't get crushed :(

@ShiftingCar

3 жыл бұрын

as a retro saturn in aries too I feel for you.

Your story is simular to mine- my mother is still with him. Ans I barely have a relationship with either of them.. seems we had to learn a few things about what a real relationship involves, healthy self love and boundaries

Girl… I met my husband in college (he controlled me from going with my friends, only library, school and boarding house. We got married when I was 25 but 10 days after our wedding he married a second one because he got her pregnant. I have this position and I’m really thinking I’m gonna grow old alone.

Thank you really! The key is shadow work obviously. I'm doing it since my 25 and I'm 29 now. I still meet resistance in relationship even if it is weakest. Do you think the power of Saturn closes doors before your return at 29 even if you did the work?

This is accurate. I feel stuck in this relationship/prison. Currently 28 yrs old. Got married young.

@vanessaroper3028

4 жыл бұрын

I got married young as well, it does feel burdensome

@ladykhustle

3 жыл бұрын

@@vanessaroper3028 Are you still married? I have Pisces moon so i'm codependant af 😑

@ecat1111

3 жыл бұрын

Don’t stay too long. I got married at that age and I’m still here. I will be out and completely divorced by 40.

@alexusss94

3 жыл бұрын

I don't have this placement but my 1 year old son does. I worry if I don't get out of my relationship now, this will wind up being his story :( I got married young too.

Saturn in 7 house scorpion ascendant! I don't know why I don't want to be in relationship & it's funny I never fall in love I have very good and true friend If i like someone something stops me so hardly that Noo it's not your work you are born to be single & it give me strength to be alone!

@priyankadey2620

Жыл бұрын

That's what I think too

Saturn in Aquarius in the 7th house

Saturn in Aquarius in the 7th house and this is spot on. I’m here, and I think my Saturn return was sometime this year. This ish is tough 😅

find someone with scorpio or cancer or even Taurus they like needy

Saturn in my 7th house in Taurus 9 degrees away from Jupiter in 8th house. Sun sextile Saturn and Saturn injunction chiron. This is so tough

Tan, i owe you many cups of coffee!!! In SeTswana, we say "Kea leboga". Loosely translates to, "I am thankful". God bless.🙏

What if you have Saturn and Venus in the 7th? (In Aries)

Very powerful

Oh my exactly my thoughts on my father and his relationship and why my parents didn’t divorce ..

I have this placement and the only thing I agree with is true marriage is within not outside with a physical man or woman. My Saturn is retrograde and Mars. My father was never around, my mom died when I was 20 and father years later.

@ao1920

4 жыл бұрын

Sorry! You're blessed!

@Crvenaaaful

4 жыл бұрын

Hello sweetie. You're not the only one. My dad died when I was 5 yrs, 3 mnts old due to heart attack. My mum died when I was 19 yrs 1 mnt old. Now I am 28. I have no siblings. No alcohol addict, not any bad reputation, done the university, working. Without any of them. Family would say they are very proud what I have done. But a little bit odd and reserved to people. I have a few friends from my childhood, but not in mood to trust a new one. Yep. Still single.

@Crvenaaaful

4 жыл бұрын

Oh bay the way, Tan. @Tan Astrology You could be an extraordinary actress. Your talent is great. Don't know weather is that you just know very well what are you talking about and than you can put it in the performance but your approach to identify with each situation in whole series of videos one by one is awesome.

I have Saturn in the 7th in Aquarius 0 degrees. I’m 28 now. I want to get married but I have a feeling it’ll be years from now unfortunately

@Crvenaaaful

4 жыл бұрын

Why?

@SweetLolliepopjuh

4 жыл бұрын

Yes it will be years later, your lesson is to want nothing when it comes to relationships. To feel whole within without outside forces. When you don’t want nothing, you attract everything. Manifest it and let it go.

@Ashley-tx3nn

4 жыл бұрын

SweetLolliepopjuh I really like this!! Definitely something I’m working on and since my Saturn return began last month I do feel like I’ve been slowly shifting my thoughts. Out of no where I have so much more self love than ever before. Tan told me to marry myself and I feel that it helps.

@SweetLolliepopjuh

4 жыл бұрын

Yess ive watch that vid too and exactly that part hitted me, Marrying myself!

This scary accurate. My pops and I really dont have a relationship and he was a drinker who had a auto accident and it shook him up so much so he slowed down alot...

Well, my parents broke up when I was like 4, so from that point on he was pretty absent. We saw him like every two weeks but it was just something we had to do, there was no real meaning behind it. As for relationships, I only had one when I was 21 and it lasted for 8 months because he was insane, so I dropped him after I lost the last of whatever love and care I had for him. I should have dropped him after the first month tbh, after his first rage fit. I would like to have a partner but I don't feel sad about being alone, because I don't feel lonely. It's having no reason to do anything what seems is gonna make me off myself one day. Because there really is no point in anything at all. Edit: btw, I'm 28 now

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Saturn in pisces, 7th house

Everyone is talking about the astrology aspect of your story but I want to point out how strong you are and that you'll get through everything ❤️

@destinychild4659

2 жыл бұрын

But this is not her real story, just an example what it could be for a person with 7th house Saturn.

I appreciated that you shared your story. But then, you'd put disclaimer that this isn't really your story. It saddened me to think this honest revealing of wounds is just made up.

@destinychild4659

2 жыл бұрын

She was just acting, and told different story in different Saturn videos to explain what Saturn does in different houses.

Replace the story with pills and bing bang boom