Kehna boht asaan hota hai but sehna boht mushkil wo bi daily basis pr specially jb apko ese insaan ke sath ak hi ghr ma 24 ghante rehna prta unki wja se apki zindagi ma koi khushi na rehe subha uthe to wo ese batein kre bs apka dill hi na kre uthne ka ..... insaan b ak waqt tk ye sb brdasht kr skta hai .....

@scienceconcerns

Жыл бұрын

insan kabi bi yak dam karab ni hota. Asay banday k sath pehlay hi distance rakhain.

@spookyraja9495

Жыл бұрын

​@@scienceconcerns Aisa banda Husband ho to phir kiya kare?

@komalali2377

Жыл бұрын

​@@spookyraja9495 phr akhirat ka soch k apni qurbani de den, after all life is a test.

@-who-cares-

Жыл бұрын

Aurat apni he qurbani de deti hai susral mn. Ye sochte k sb sahi ho he jaega..jo kbi nhi hota

@M.Abdullah._

Жыл бұрын

Jav sabar Allah ky liye ,aur Allah ky hony py yaqeen kr ky kia jaye,Ye samja jaye hum yahan musafir hai tu sab Asan ho jata hai~

Start feeling sympathetic towards them so that they start taking you for granted and get worst

علی بھای جو لوگ دوسرے لوگوں کے ساتھ اچھا کرنے مے لگے رھتے ھے ان کے ساتھ وھی لوگ برا کرتے ھی

wohi baat k khena bht asan jota hy jis per guzerti hy wo hr lemha merta aur jeeta hy

@mehreenmalik6536

Жыл бұрын

U r 100 % correct ..kehna bahut asaan hai..aisay logoan ko deal karna bahut mushkil hai

@aafreenjahan1663

5 ай бұрын

Sahi baat he ...but jesa wi behave krte unse unhi ki language me baat kare taski wo smjhe....​@@mehreenmalik6536

Meri life m ase logon ka dher h or unka koi ilaj nahe la ilaj han bardasht b krti hn Halan k m darti b nahe samjhana asan h sehna mushkul h Allah muj jese tmam logon ko sbr de ameen

@ummeali9355

Жыл бұрын

Ameen

@faridauddin2827

Жыл бұрын

Ameen

@ovaiskolia8522

Жыл бұрын

Ameen

@AliAli-mn1me

5 ай бұрын

Mri life me b boht hyn 😢

@aafreenjahan1663

5 ай бұрын

Sahi baat kayi baar tu ghutan hoti he aise logo ke beech me rehkar jinka nature .mijaaz language or 😊 thinking mentality sb kuch totally different or opposite ho .. tb... 😢😢😢😢.. but Allah se dua krte rahe kuch na kuch rasta zaroor nikalega wo .. beshak ALLAHU AKBAR

Bohat mushkil hota hey aesey bandey k Sath guzara Karna..... Khush rehney he to nai detey na khud khoosh rehtey HAIN....

@faridauddin2827

Жыл бұрын

Bilkul sahi

@periwinkle25

Жыл бұрын

True

@ovaiskolia8522

Жыл бұрын

😢😢😢😢😢 Same same

@aafreenjahan1663

5 ай бұрын

Jo dard ki dawa hoti he wahi dard ki wajah bn jaye tb bahut takleef hoti he

@humairaimtiaz3920

5 ай бұрын

@@aafreenjahan1663 to phir KESEY jiyain ...... Choti si Zindagi hey Hans k jeelo

Yeh log bohat difficulte hotay hain. Simpathy kay liay bhe akheer kar daitay hain. Piar sai counceling karnay par or sir par char jatay hain. But yeh nahin mantay , kay ham ghalat hain.

Best thing is don't focus on the problems, you will have more problems. If u always think situation will not changed then it will never. Focus on Allah that u can change my situation show me a way. Dua changes everything

@talatafzal9202

Жыл бұрын

Just amazing thinking ❤

@mariabano8617

Жыл бұрын

Dua qabool na ho too bs ,apni zindago qurbaan kr doo kio kay ..bs sb yehi chahtay hain k aaorat aonay piece kr ky plate mai rakhay or shohar ko pesh kr day🤣

@saadiaadeel2535

Жыл бұрын

Agree

@maslam2524

Жыл бұрын

​@@mariabano8617 so true sirf shohar ko nahi uski behno ko b

*اے اللہ مجھے آنے والے بہترین دن عطا فرما، اور میرے نصیب میں ایسا لکھ دے جس سے میرا دل خوش ہو،🤲🏻 میری تمناؤں کو پورا فرما، مجھے ذہنی سکون عطا کر اور میرے معاملات کو آسان کر دے..* *آمین * 💞💞

@user-dj5eh4hv5o

7 ай бұрын

Aameen summa aameen ya rabbul alamin ❤❤❤

@aafreenjahan1663

5 ай бұрын

Ameen summa Aameen ya Rabbul Aalameen

Asey logoun k sath rhna apny uper zulm krna hy

Jazakallah ap ne yeh bht achy se is topic ko samjaya hai kyu k aj kal her koe kahen na kahen isi tarhan ki situation ko face ker raha hai baqi ALLAH humari madet farmaye or hum sab k leay asaniyan paida kery hamare mamlat zindagi mai Ameen.

best strategy to deal with toxic people is to ignore them. it kills them. some are so toxic that they emit negative vibrations from miles away

Mai bhi is situation me guzar rahi hoon.... Bahut mushkil hota hai apne dil ko sambhal na aur bar bar apni insult karana .. hum unke sath chahey kitna bhi acha peash hona jaye.. aur kitna bhi sabar kerna chaye.. jitna sabr karo utna hi lamba ho Raha hai mera sabar .. ya allah hum seb ke liye aise logon se door rakh ... Ameen

@aafreenjahan1663

5 ай бұрын

Aise logo ke shar se bachaye Ameen sumameen..jitna jhuko utna hi zaleel bnate he .. self love or self respect bhi koi cheez hoti he

Perfect councils. It is very hard to live life with toxic life partner. We can away us for some times from rude persons in around us but it's very hard to secure ourselves from life partner. We don't know which time they attack or make complicated situations for us. It's solution is always be keeps humble and talk politely with them to make invirnoment peaceful.

@faridaaali6170

Жыл бұрын

Life partner toxic sykopath they can make your life hell u have to make peace with them just so you can be safe

@adilasharif9383

Жыл бұрын

each and every word is true

@maslam2524

Жыл бұрын

What if they trigger u in a way that u can't keep quiet and polite

@sanazahedi5317

Жыл бұрын

Zabardast

Pleeeeeze sir make a video about narcissistic husbands...how to deal with them

Esy. Logoo ko khamoshii tohfyy me do

I started watching this video with a set mind that no matter what happens, you cannot live peacefully with toxic people. But by the end of the video, I think it is indeed possible. Just like they said, you cannot work on them, but you can work on yourself. Work on things that are in your control(how you react to certain situations, whether or not you take things personally),and leave the rest to Allah. Yes, it does require lots of patience but sometimes patient is all you can be because you can't leave those people. They can be your parents, your siblings, your children, your spouse. May Allah make it easy for all of us. Ameen.

@OnenessofAllah-sb7vz

7 ай бұрын

Summa aameen

Ali Bhai aapki baaten bht hi himmat Dene wali hoti h

@ramzantalha8938

Жыл бұрын

Bt practical life me kaisy apply kry jb hmry samny some people aisy hon Jin ki thinking ye ho k wo perfect han wo sahi hon hmri study hmra kuch nai Kam ata in k samny .

I so needed this, I'm also dealing with a difficult person, and its true I takes time but your taqwa becomes stronger. I recognise me more and the positive strengths that Allah has given me Alhamdulillah

It's about time, ki Pakistan is cheez ko recognise aur acknowledge karen. bohot sare log hai normal nahi hai aur accept hi nahi karte. problem yeh hai ki jo problem wala banda hai woh khud nahi maante ki un me problem hai. ghar barbaad hote hai toxicity ke wajah se. Allah pk himmat den aur sabr den

Mashallah aap ka bat bahot tarika se bolte hi

Susral wale bout nafsiyati log hote hain

Jazaak Allah❤

ماشاءاللّٰه

Or Allah pak ap ko hemesha Khush or Abad rakhy ameen ap jesy bhiyun ke hum bahno ko bohat zarorat h

😭😭😭😭

Atention seeker bhe bohat zalil kar daitay hain. ALLAH 1 waqt lata hai, aisay logoon ko door kar daita hai. ALLAH sab daikh raha hota hai.

MashaAllah

Explain bhut acha kartye hu aap ❤ aallah aap ko khush rakhye ❤

Han bhai humare saath bhi aisa hi ho raha hai.

Aik ghulat insan ki wajha sy baqi aur log bhi wohi zaban bolny lagain k ye ghulat hy tou Kab tak insan khamosh reh sakta hy aur haqikat batany per bhi ghulat insan ko hi durust jana jaai tou kaisy in baton ko faramosh kar k aik sahi insan khush reh sakta hy us mahol main 24 ghanty, Reaction sy kaisy bachain apny ap ko ....?

Bhot bhot shukriya ji aapane bahut badi mushkil HAL kar Allah Khush rakhe aapko ISI tarah hamare liye acche acche videos banaen

Please sab duwa kare ALLAH mare maa bape brothers sisters husbande mari or all Muslims ki sari problems hale kare de jalde aze jalde ameen or ALLAH hum sab ko hidayate de ameen

Bahut khub MashaAllah

Alhamdulilah 🌷🌷🌷

JazakAllah

Great....

Jazakallahu khair

👌👌

jazakAllah

I never find this auntie giving Islamic solutions, I feel she always puts herself in the matters and then give the answer, because she is a SaaS too.

@CSGO_gamer69

Жыл бұрын

Sir mara shwhar b asa ha 😥

@komalali2377

Жыл бұрын

@@CSGO_gamer69 then pray a lot alot and also recite surah tehreem for the settlement between husband wife nad better relation

@rubyummehasnain

Жыл бұрын

Because she is very wise , intelligent and has wordly knowledge at the same time. She gives the solution in a very practical way masha Allah

@komalali2377

Жыл бұрын

@@rubyummehasnain what if someone is fed up from her SaaS and no longer can live together, no where in Islamic history says to keep SaaS bahu together. Once in a video she said shohar, biwi ko control Kare aur maa to samjhay. I'm not saying she doesn't give solutions but they should be Islamicly valid too and also tell about the worst case scenario

@rubyummehasnain

Жыл бұрын

@@komalali2377 biwi ko control kare muhabbet ke saath, I was hearing one of her lecture when she said every women or business has her self respect given by Allah. But we shouldn't stoop down to the level of toxic people.

Zbrdst boht important topic

ALHAMDULILLAH Alhamdulillah first 👍

Mash Allah beautiful

Amazing thaughts

Right

Bht behtreen

Good video

Very nice 👍

Bilkul bilkul mery hasbend

👍👍❤❤

Right 👍

Zabr ds

SubhanAllah, love this discussion

Very good informations are given.....Excellent video

U made my life jazakallah

Thankuuuuuuuuuu soooooooooooo much

right

mashallah

@hinakhan-qy6bh

Жыл бұрын

Masha Allah Ali bhai n auntie.. aap dono ka conversation hume bhut support keta h toxic people se deal krne me.. plz aise hi videos banate rahiye.. Jazak Allah

❤👍

Varey good talk useful

I needed to watch this video. Learned so much otherwise I was going to become a pathetic person

Nice sharing

Be patience

Assalamu alaikum Rahmatullahi barakatuh

Allah Subhanahu wa T'aala ap sub ko jaza e kher ata frmaey aameen Ap ne har tarah ka hal bata diya Alhmdulillah ❤️ Allah Pak hmey ap k bataey huey solutions ko implement karney ki taufeeq ata frmaey or Allah Pak hm sub par Apna Khaas Fazl o Karam frmaey aameen Allah Subhanahu wa T'aala 70 maa se zyada pyar karney wala...hmey takleef mei kesey dekh sakta hai..beshak Jazakumullah o kheran kaseera

❤

Pray for my family.

Beshaq...yahi hora hai mere sath

Bht bahtreen mozuo pe ap gugtago karahy hai hamary erd gird log hai aisy

😢

Thank u soo much mujy bhut kuch samjny or sikhny ko mila insha'Allah it will help me in present halat pray for me ignorance is the best way to handle everything

I dealt a very toxic person in my college. He used to always create difficulty on my way only in my whole class. Atlast he become to humble for me within two year .I did one thing I took help from Allah Allah plan soft his heart for me i saw this result personally.

Aese maa baap bhi hote hae Or bache bachiya itni Kam umer hote hae ke un ko ye sb samajh nhi ata unko lagta hae hum hi galat hae phir wo Dar dar ke khud zahni mareez ban jate hae

Plz give lectures on passive aggressive behaviour of husband

@aafreenjahan1663

5 ай бұрын

Namaz ki Pabandi kare sure yaseen Shareef ki ayat no.. ko 9 ko 12 baar pdhkr khud pr dam krti rahe or husband pr bhi ho sake to paani pr bhi dam krke pilao roz in shaa Allah zaror Kamyabi milegi aapko

Sir hm bhi bahut positive the but har koi Nagetiv h kis ko smjhaye koi ni smjhata positive.

It is very difficult to come in peace if you are continuously living with toxic person and you can agree with him and counsel him to a limit ..it is not easy..this topic should be discussed more in detail.

Kabi kabar hum accha krne jaate kisi ke sath aur rishtey door hojate hai

Is pr plzzzzz or vedios bhi bnayein.

Allah questuions k difficulties k kesy reply dety hy..thanks for this vedio

Indeed all the things maam said are correct but unfortunately not applicable to every human being. A simple innocent person can be strong and caring towards such people but in the end we all are humans...not all of us can think like a psychologist. Different people have different capacities...may be we should be more sympathetic to the people who always try to comfort such people. But often fail to be successful.

@maslam2524

Жыл бұрын

Well said

Aap sare bayan urdu me Diya kre mujhe aapke bayan bahut achhe lagte or inko sun kr mujhme bahut badlao aaya he bas aap urdu hi bole please please please please please

Assalam alaikum Allah aapko hamesha dono Jahan me kamyab kare

I am living have spent 8 years with toxic people and doing good with them and once you start trusting them they stab you what to do may allah guide us to stay on right parh

This topic need more stuff to explain in the light of quran o sunnah

Aslam o aliqum bhi ap sub log bohat achy Sy samjaty b hn or btaty b hn k hamara deen kesa h plz bhi muj Jesi Kafi bahny or bhi b ap ko sunty hn or Kuch to Meri terhn zaida patrhy lkhiy nhi hn to bhi plz request h k ap zaida Urdu main btaya Kary

Bhai aap log bohat hee positive rehnay ko Keh rahay hain Jo log 20 saal 25 saal toxic logon mien guzar daitay hain wo full mareez ban jatay hain wo baycharay Kya tabib banen gay wo toxic log kha chukay hotay hain un ki zindagi un ki khushian ..qabar ka Haal Murda Janta hay . Platform per bairh ker this is very easy to deliver positive positive lectures. Reality is bitter.

Mai bhi in logo se ghiri hui hu aur bahot pareshaan hu

Waqai negtive agrad mn power hoti hy

Bhugtna in beautiful words se zyada mushkil he

I stayed with narrescist person for 28yrs of golden age but he always toxic at every moment finally I leave him to merry with maid I mean these perns never never change

Madam g aisy shohr srf syco ni hoty In me munafqat b hoti hy Ye aurat k piyar or twaja ka b najaiz faida othaty hain

Un logon ka Kya Karen Jo dherh hoshiyar Hain, sympathy BHI gain kr len aur Apko aur apkay marital relation ko musibat me dal de.

@kousarkhan9767

8 ай бұрын

han yar mere sath bhi aisa hi hota hai

she is saying right upto some extent .

Jab hum kisiko change krne ki koshish karte hai wahi humko change karta hai....apni baaton se...yaa fir adaton se darakar dhamka kar

Agr dono log aise hun phr

Meri nanad hai jinhe hamesha mujh se problem rahti hai,bahes hone k bad maine unke bade hone ka lehaz karke maafi mangi,to u ka attitud aur badh gaya salam b karo to kahti hai mujhe se bath karne k liye ye tadap rahi hai,tap maine unse doori banali,ab to mai unhe sslam b nhi karti,aise logon ko kaise treat karsakte hai

@ummeali9355

Жыл бұрын

U r right dear Ache akhlaq or sabr ka na jayez fayeda uthaate hae or zyada zaleel karte hae

It is a Jihad…. To live with a toxic person……..,it needs too much tolerance to handle these people. they are very very smart and know how to let down others….. and then justify it..

Toxic person ko Kitni bhi izzat do wo nae change hote in se distance rakhna zarori h

I had face same situation in my in laws.. now I get divorce after six month of marriage.. they r all high level of phyco pith n narcissist.. n I always do conflict in silent mood.. or silent act . Bcz I have no idea about all these.. even I couldn't able to understand them in very short period of time... 😢

@haramfatima5963

Жыл бұрын

So sad

@faridauddin2827

Жыл бұрын

Sad sad