At 45 you saved my life with this wisdom. It’s been 37 days since I broke a very toxic sou-tie after 22 years of hell on Earth. A light came on the first day I heard you, and that was it. This is the very first time in my life I have not been abused and used, and able to see clearly who I really am as a queen. 🙏🏽🙌🏽

@pamelamiller1928

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for speaking the truth.

@TiaJoy1372

4 жыл бұрын

God is good and he is able 😊💛

@nikkirowland

4 жыл бұрын

MARIA JANE 🙏🏽🙏🏽

@myne200

4 жыл бұрын

@MARIAJANE MAY GOD KEEP BLESSING YOU. LISTEN TO GINO JENNINGS AS WELL

@neicylove820

4 жыл бұрын

@@pamelamiller1928 when we are ready to learn the teacher always shows up! What a friend we have in Jesus!

“Wanna be respected for your mind? Don’t promote your behind” That’s my next tattoo 😂😂🙏🏻

@shaqj.8197

4 жыл бұрын

Sof A Loaf ✅💜💜✨✨

@October3074

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@Alleycat120181

4 жыл бұрын

😆😆😆

@empresserica

3 жыл бұрын

Yes--!!

@communizia

3 жыл бұрын

😅 Yessss

I wish I had a protective father and brother in my life. Thank you for teaching us.

It is so relaxing to listen to a pastor who does not shout to get the messages through, so I can take them by ears and heart.

@angelaroberts2882

4 жыл бұрын

Astrid wow, I totally agree. His calmness makes me feel comforted.

@queenk555

4 жыл бұрын

😂

@tearrajay9197

4 жыл бұрын

I agree! I have a favorite pastor but I have a hard time listening to him once he starts yelling . Most times I have to turn to a different sermon or stop listening at that point. Pastor Blake’s is calm and I enjoy that part

@shaqj.8197

4 жыл бұрын

True❤️✨

@sheshez4christr301

4 жыл бұрын

AMEN Sister and clearly gets the message across. Beautiful gentleman

When Pastor started singing 🎤 Jagged Edge 🤣🤣

31yrs old, my dad died when I was 2 months old no man has ever had this talk with me except my uncle told me to make my own money so that a man can't control me, I am married now but learned some tough lessons throughout life...thank you for your obedience to this calling sharing this with all of the young and older women in waiting that I know.

@RCBlakesJr.

4 жыл бұрын

Ms. Nique Thank you for sharing this.

My father killed himself when I was only 14 years old. I’m 39 years old now and my life has been hurt so deeply from the absence of my father. I’m so broken. My children have suffered from it also. I pray God would rescue me

@latonyamorgan7447

4 жыл бұрын

CC... So sorry to hear about your father just keep looking and listening to this powerful man of GOD RC BLAKES his Teachings are the light of everything we go thru in life I listen to him every single day even at work on my break I put my ear phones on and go to KZread look him up and start watching he make you want to be saved and live for Christ Jesus.. I wish you all the best. But I guarantee if you continue to watch RC BLAKES he will change your whole perspective and how you view life. You will see things in a more positive way.

@_i.am.dionmari

4 жыл бұрын

🙏🏽❤️

@BBC4.0

4 жыл бұрын

God will rescue you right where you are his word say he’ll never leave us nor forsake us....

@debrabenavidez3382

4 жыл бұрын

Sending healing prayers 🙏🏻❤️

@happylindsay4475

4 жыл бұрын

CC may you someday know peace dear one. Blessings and love

My daughter is 7 and unfortunately I can see the affects of my husband’s emotional absence pretty much all of her life playing out in her behavior now. I have filed a divorce but unfortunately with the current pandemic we haven’t had our day in court yet (courts closed here) so we are stuck in the house with a man that treats us like we are invisible. At 7, she truly doesn’t understand why she is not the center of his universe. He doesn’t love himself! That’s what my head screams! But to her I just tell her Jesus loves her and he will be her daddy. At 7 of course it doesn’t resonate! Lord help me and my baby especially my baby during this time, as I use the word and daily encouragement and affirmations to tell her who she is IN GOD. Lord help us 🙏🏽

@tidbitsofmotivation1403

4 жыл бұрын

Praying for you.....keep the Faith...get closer to God and see what He says.....He may even place you somewhere in the time being....Trust God...He loves you......

@rshelly

4 жыл бұрын

Ibwas raised without my Father and he was outside the home. I cant imagine whatvits like if hes there and you daughter doesnt understand why he isnt loving her. Continue to set the standard of Christ's love for your daughter. Dont try to be the "Father" and allow God to fill that role. Not even a biological "Father" can fully fill a daughters heart to the Lords intent unless instructed or being led by God. Its hard, but God knows how to love and reveal yourself to your daughter. Continue reading the word of God, be that example of Christ and trust God to fill the gaps. ❤ God healed me, allowed me to love my father despite abandonment since childhood and its all because of Christs love in my life from a young age. Praying for you🙏🏾

@user-tk4qd8dj1p

3 жыл бұрын

Some advice as someone who grew up as your daughter. Ensure she has positive male role models in her life. Coaches, church leaders, camp counsellors in your community. Don’t have to leave her alone with men you don’t know obviously - I’m speaking in soccer matches if she has a positive make coach who encourages her and her team. That’s been impactful for me. Also male therapists. Kids help phone is a free option. Encourage her to share her feelings. Validation isn’t attention seeking in a bad way we all need it for affirmation of our reality, for certainty in ourselves. You’re clearly an invested mommy she’s blessed - she needs a mans influence so in a positive SAFE community I hope you can give her that. Best of luck mom remember to love her, be warm, physically affectionate and affirming. Don’t be too alpha and distant afraid of being close and her projecting anger on you. Set verbal boundaries, and be emotionally physically affectionately available for her. Physical touch and discipline helps. Don’t be guilted. Take care of yourself mom. Don’t rage at her. She needs a soft place and discipline. Best of luck, will pray for you 🥺❤️

@user-tk4qd8dj1p

3 жыл бұрын

And obvi church, check out elevation youth church and Steven furtive online. She will have confidence from you, however if she’s not being treated well by the man in her life right now show her the gospel so she knows the VALUE she has as a daughter of christ. I grew up confident in my physical abilities and physical beauty however even with high confidence and self esteem, not having a dad gave me a scarcity mindset. Without low self esteem I still stayed in bad relationships out of fear I asked for too much thus would always be alone. Being in environment of god, I’ve learned my VALUE is separate from my confidence and how much I can tolerate without taking personally. God says I’m his daughter and deserve to be protected. I’ve lesrned even alone, I can know my value. Meditation and a deep persistent relationship with god role modeled by you so she can have that for herself - that’s a huge gift. Will help her mourn and understand life people earthly things can fail however god will never and that’s where our faith and know loved as his child. 👸🏾☺️💕

@cr625

Жыл бұрын

You know exactly what your daughter is sensing! Remind her daily who her true Father is. She may not understand yet but she will someday. Don't put her father down in front of her especially. Have a gentle talk with her that our society has lost it's way and her life choices will shape her future. Remind her of her inner wisdom. Remind her to rely on God's guidance and how to interpret life's sign posts from The Word/Bible ❤️💐👍

Just when I think your enlightened talks couldn’t get any better, you go and prove me wrong. I’m so thankful for your awareness and willingness to teach us how truly precious all women are even though they might not see it right now. I love how you always back up the truth with the word of God. Did I mention that you are also so funny. God bless you and your beautiful family.

Never sugarcoats, always straight to the point 😍

Rev!! These men are 35 plus. They already grown... the men in this generation can’t seem to get it right. Men are lost Rev... thank you for loving us women I appreciate it very much. But someone needs to help these men... especially black men. ♥️

@katrinabeatty4372

4 жыл бұрын

Yes everybody talking about the women! Some of the women are too lose. Some women will go with a married man or vice versa. Secondly, Some Men are not living Holy Lives they are camoflauging basically they are liers. Some men play Games!

@mrc7627

3 жыл бұрын

Men are in calculated packs we are hunters, standards must be raised

I love how your teaching is grounded in the Word but I don’t feel preached at. Thank youuuuu for doing the Lord’s work!

@shamequaepting8544

8 ай бұрын

Yes!!

I think it’s because we have been taught that if a man findeth a wife, he findeth a good thing! So there is pressure to be found! It is also better to marry than to burn so as a result many of us want to be chose in order to be a “good thing”! Thank you Pastor! I have to unlearn what I have learned!

This is gold! This is exactly how I feel about things! I have a father wound and I am slowly healing and understanding. It took a second relationship with a narcissist to make me realise that this was the issue!

alot of men need to step up and be real kings

@mrc7627

3 жыл бұрын

We waiting for the feminine women not feminist

I’m 53 and I’ve never had a dad ☹️☹️, the older I’ve gotten the more I feel I missed out on so many things that I believe would’ve helped me in relationships and other things about life that a mother couldn’t do,,, My dad was killed when I was 2-3 years old....🙏🏾🙏🏾 I love listening to you Pastor RC BLAKE🥰

Most men don't teach their daughters + the women in their lives "The Game" because they're secretly playing them. They haven't reached that level of maturity to see they're ruining lives + the level of accountability.

I'm moved more by action not words...it takes time to get there. I know by now men will say anything. Men respect things they have to invest in and work for.

Soul ties can be severed when we realize what we've been involved with and in.

Thank you for using your downtime as an opportunity to share your fatherly wisdom with your spiritual daughters.

Thank you Pastor! God sent me you!

Pastor Blake I am a middle aged woman who has been successful in life with everything but love. I'm one of those PhD women...lol.. love is the one thing I have only ever cared about. I have been in toxic and narcissistic relationships all my life. I have done a lot of work but I find myself in this position of letting God do for me but I find myself depressed and unable to shake it. Dating is so hard. Men either want something non committal and/or sexual. Listening to Gods word thru you has literally saved me from myself. I am breaking soul ties and valuing myself but it's hard. It's been 17 years since my divorce and it's been a battle. I feel like my time will never come. Thank you for your words that will help me when this battle in my heart.

@chasingclouds7101

3 жыл бұрын

I'm in your shoes and I know how painful it is. God sees us through and pastor Blakes is a Godsend.

@janegreen191

3 жыл бұрын

i hope life is better for you now

@Redfox-1984

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you. I am single and I love me. I'm happy and content. I have given up on the dream of partnership. I'm just going to live my purpose. Stay on the journey.

@TIGRESSA73

2 жыл бұрын

Thats the issue right there. You said it yourself. You've basically been looking for love in all all wrong places. You should not priorities having a man or being in a relationship. Let that go and live your life one day at a time.

@eviealexander4904

2 жыл бұрын

.... father wound

If the energy from a man makes you afraid,you gotta call your dad and brothers. This needs to come to an End....my long awaited confirmation!! Thanks RC Blakes Jr.

I really needed this book, I've never had this talk nor did my 2 grown daughters (daddy in their lives). I purchased one for each household including my own! Thank you Pastor RC Blakes😊

My father died last year. He left so much damage behind. 12 kids. 8 women. No financial stability. Substance abuse. Violence. My life has been a testament to all of that. So so damaged but now healing. Thank you RC for being the father we all needed and guiding us home.

On point!! My father & my brother's NEVER taught me the game at all. However I did learn quite a bit of the game by watching my brothers & how they interacts with women. Exactly more & more mother's & father's are NOT emotionally attached to their children. Leaving generations jacked up & moving farther away from our ultimate FATHER God & his principles. I thank God for you Pastor. Your teachings are sooo NEEDED from the age of 5 -100 years old!! Amen Amen!! YOU'RE absolutely right! Our dress is our ARMOR & advertisement!! How we dress & carry OURSELVES is part of representing ourselves!! Amen Amen!!

I've never had a Father Daughter Talk . At 57 I had to figure it all out on my own . My era was all about just get your education and become a wife, mother and grandmother. I am so Thankful to have found Your Ministry it is much needed Pastor R.C.Blake🙏🙏🙏💖

Nothing good ever came from "underneath the sheets" when it's not sanctioned by GOD! Get outta the bed!!!

Spot on Pastor Blakes! We need to hear this. My father was always so busy working that he was not around for me. I learned that being ignored was normal. Thank you and God bless you 🤗

@shaqj.8197

4 жыл бұрын

Rhonda Walker 💜💜✨✨

I admit, all of this was very painful to hear yet I NEEDED it. Thank you R.C

My daddy told me exactly what a young man wanted, exactly! So thankful that he did!

I wish that I had a father who would have taught me all this. It would have saved me from a lifetime of misery..Thank God for R.C. Blake's. Now at least I can save the rest of my life from misery of toxic relationships. Thank you Pastor!

Be ready to make your own MONEY......yessss I'm going to. Thanks RC Blakes Jr

Amen !!! Wake up QUEENS ..MATTHEW 22...37...LOVE GOD !!! WITH ALL YOUR HEART ...MIND...MIGHT SOUL

Brother Blakes, you don't know how God is pleased with you, thank you, I'm so grateful for your Ministry, thanks, for you and your wife Lisa. ♥

You are heaven sent to my life

Pastor because of your obedience to God, the lightbulb in women's minds are coming on. Sometimes I don't think you really realize how many lives you are saving.

Stay off of your back!! My brother preach!! 🙌👏🔥

I'm melting when hearing this... KINGS DON'T NEED TO CONTROL QUEENS.. love listening to you. Warm hugs from south Germany 💕

This message is VERY much needed these days! I knew my father and even had a step father but both were emotionally unavailable. I’ve learned a lot through my walk with God, but society tries to make people doubt their worth every single day! The Bible literally says “know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own? For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's.” It is best to protect your body, your peace, and your walk w/ God! The selfish manipulation is so real in the real world.

“They don’t want the game exposed “. Yes! Thank you for transparency Pastor Blakes.

Three year old video still brought me to tears again and again only halfway through. You are my spiritual father RC and I thank you for caring so much for all your daughters.

Do not worry pastor we will support you while you are unemployed. Your always employed in God.

Pastor Blake I love you so very much. Please keep preaching the truth. I was trapped for almost three decades and the church kept teaching that unless he was beating me consistently I need to pray. Not only was I abused physically and sexually but most of the relationship I was abused emotionally. I was so scared to leave and wanted to please God. No one was teaching this. Not just that but I became abusive also so I left and then was discarded and left bankrupt and everything I loved kids, dog, household items taken. I kept saying God is going to vindicate me and I forgive. Pray for me.

@richfaith9992

4 жыл бұрын

No More Drama God has you.

Pastor Blake I am married to a Covert Narcissist for 27 years and we have been separated for two years. I would encourage him to take our daughter out on father dates etc but he was emotionally unavailable. After the discard my teenage children wanted to remain with him because he has no boundaries and I was the main disciplinarian. Long story short he allowed my daughter to have her boyfriend stay the night and now she is pregnant as a teenager. He actually undermined every Christian principle I taught. I purchased your book the Father Daughter Talk and share your videos in hope she will one day wake up. Thanks for your message.

@inmyownwords9798

2 жыл бұрын

Will you be getting the children back? I was married to a narc... it's like talking to a brick wall. Unfortunately I had to grab situations by the horns and handle it, no expecting him to step up. I no longer suggest anything & the children will thank you later for training them up in the way that they should go. Love, peace and blessings to you & yours

AMEN..Amen ...AMEN!!!🛏️🛏️🛏️🛏️🛏️🛏️🛏️🛏️🛏️🛏️🛏️🛏️🛏️🛏️🛏️🛏️🛏️🛏️🛏️🛏️🛏️🛏️🛏️🛏️🛏️🛏️🛏️

Keep giving me that truth, I'm better for it. Thank you,

Thank you so much for always taking your time to teach all the broken and forgotten daughters out there. Much needed for the soul! May God continue to bless you, and your family.✊🏾❤️🙏🏾

Thank U....I’m absolutely a queen.... ALWAYS.... HOWEVER.....I WAS PLAYED BY A COUPLE GED MEN

" Don't advertise chicken, if you don't want a line outside your house for wings" (Blake's, 2021). 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂, you go Pastor 😂😂😂

I heard my dad say that line. "Women raise girls and men raise boys." I've resented my dad for years because of this ignorant tradition. He taught my brother how to take care of himself, and left me to an abusive, textbook narcissist. Not only would he not protect me when I told him how my mother was treating me, he would make excuses for her. Looking back he just didn't want the responsibility. He felt he didn't know what to do with a girl and he had no desire to figure it out. It was easier to just let my mom handle it. Yet, he had expectations that I made him proud. I wrote him a letter once about desiring a deeper relationship and how I did not like how he changed once I hit puberty and how he didn't actually talk to me anymore. I noticed that he was mad at me for days afterwards. He never addressed it though. Right after he died, my Narcissist Mother told me that she found a letter that he had written me. After she had given it to me, she gave me the disclaimer that I may not like it and cry. I saw that it was folded with the letter that I had given him over ten years earlier. It was his response. In the letter, he told me that he had never been proud of me. Not only had my mother tried to hurt me by giving me something so horrible right after my father's death, but I couldn't figure out why he was so mad about me asking him for a deeper relationship. I did mention that I was tired of the typical surface father-daughter relationship that we were experiencing at the time, but nothing insulting. In fact, whenever I'd feel the need to write an important letter, I'd always ask God to give me the right words to get my point across without offending, so I'd stick to expressing my feelings, and not accusing nor attacking. My father and many men that I've observed as fathers, or heard about through their daughters (fam and friends), really failed their girls out of non-interest, non-action, and saddest of all, laziness. I'm not saying that their daughters weren't important to them, just not important enough to inspire anything that may require for them to exert any real thinking or effort. Their lifetime of wisdom and not the slightest desire to actually pass any down, yet expecting a well-rounded, well-adjusted, street-smart daughter when all is said and done.

@simplysinqo

11 ай бұрын

I’m so moved by this. I’m so sorry. 💔

You got me laughing so hard...tricked by a bumb! Wow, YEEEES lord.

Only a clown is afraid of a woman making money.

@katrinabeatty4372

4 жыл бұрын

That is hilliarious but True!

@vanessabrandow7052

4 жыл бұрын

And the women who do make there own money,ect look at you as a sugar moma thats the game in my city ive come across.

Thank you Pastor I needed this talk. My father didn't live long enough to have this talk with me.

Bishop I really enjoyed this. Please do some more. Really enjoyed this.

I am so glad you said the spiritually discern before the brain kicks in ...Its fitting advise for me

God bless you, Mr. RC Blakes Jr! Thank you so much!

This is so on point !!! I really love how you incorporate the word of God in every subject you address... God bless you and your family.

You better preach and teach Bishop!!

I Love your teaching all my life ave been abuse physically emotionally Even sexually I lost myself I hated myself so much but listening to u I got to try .n love myself am so broken thank you pastor Blake God bless you continuously

Years ago a pastor said that I needed a husband to take care of me. I told him I don't NEED a husband, what I need is more power tools!

@fionam3735

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂 👍

@ckl5801

4 жыл бұрын

And internet for KZread DIY tutorials!!lol

RC. Blake's, I thank God for you. I pray for protection over your life and your family. You're an anointed man of God. I'm in tears and needed to hear this.

Pastor Blakes Jr. Thank you so much for doing this.

I am a living witness that a woman better have her own money, my husband left, cleaned out the bank account including the mortgage payment that was pending for that month, and tried to leave me and my 10 yr old son high and dry🙄

Thank you pastor for being a vessel for the Lord.

SO MUCH WISDOM AND PERSPECTIVE!

Excellent, Pastor Blakes! Perilous times are requiring that we get back to the basics; the uncompromised, unadulterated, unapologetic Word of God! Wonderful Words of Life!

Yes!

A REAL Queen does NOT need a king to reign‼ MOG say that 🗣❗And a queen does not need to marry the first king she sees. Queen of Sheba was able to admire King Solomon without marrying him.

You are a great pastor and teacher . I’ve been following your page since last year and you open my eyes on relationships drastically. I love it . Thank you 😊 I share your videos to inspire others.

Preach...

Pastor RC Blake's you are my pastor 🙏praise da Lord

😅 at "I done got mad at that all over again. That was years ago. Thank you Jesus. Let me drink some water." Thann you for the transparency and vulnetability.

"Kings don't need to control Queens" They bring their stuff together to create a kingdom. Thank you.

God bless you and family, love you Pastor.

Pastor Blake, you are preaching the word and truth.

I love you so much father Blakes ❤️ continue what you’re doing here. I’m in Fort Worth and plan on visiting as soon as this Corona mess pass.

God bless you pastor 🙏❣️❣️😇

LOL THANK YOU PASTOR FOR KEEPING IT ALL THE WAY REAL. NO SUGAR COATING!!!☝🙏💪🔥🔥🔥

You're wonderful & a blessing. Slavery has done so much damage to the male & female generationally. You've help me so much. You're needed in the schools & prisons, projects.

Life changing, refreshing, just beautiful. 💜

Thank you for being!my serogant father , figure.bless your house!

I appreciate being able to listen while working. To have these principles playing/replaying in my subconscious is the truth.

I'm just curious, why we perpetuate and learn and practice this "game" that men and women play, even though it's been historically destructive and continues to be? I'm wondering why men aren't taught integrity and responsibility more often, but women are or aren't taught how to deal with a lack of integrity from the opposite sex? I'm curious why there are more times than not, something a woman needs to do, to change, to fortify, but rarely are men sanctioned to have to do anything but enjoy themselves? I wonder why things like birth control are made for women and not men, the seed spreaders? I've wondered why it seems like dad's and brother's don't teach their daughters and sisters, but that question is answered in the fact that a lot of them were just like the men we're taught to avoid. They'd rather not endure potential disappointment.

@sachamatthews9708

4 жыл бұрын

@Marsh E Thank you very much for your comment. I agree, a relationship with and identity in Christ does help, a lot. It is that very popular saying however, that "a man will only do what a woman allows him to" that hits a wall. I used to hold that belief, until I realized that people in general tend to do what they want to do. It's unreasonable for women to carry the responsibility of both her character's develop and the men she encounters or dates. This turns a woman into more of a man's mother. But, each person and relationship is different. There will be personal boundaries set, but a lot of basic things shouldn't have to be taught to a man seeking a relationship with a woman and vice versa. If a man mistreated a woman for example maybe with physical violence...the first time was probably not welcomed or allowed, but it happened. Yes, a woman may stop or flee a situation afterwards, but the initial strike was something that he chose to do. (Yes, women can mistreat men too). My point is that each person's character can be reinforced by those we encounter, not nessecarily built from it. He are each still responsible for our own choices. Men and women learning how to love respect one other, outside of any games because we are people deserving of respect - not because we've "earned" the right to be respected.

Thank you for being my spiritual father unknowingly. I keep learning from your wisdom every day of my life. Stay blessed Pastor RC Blakes.

I needed to hear! this. Message!I feel like,it was! just for me!

You're a blessing from god preach Mr.blakes

I love this One. The Best Motivation A lady Needs..

I am 41 and I have learnt so much from your messages in the last 12m than the rest of my 40yrs on earth. You and queen Lisa are an absolute blessing to me, my family and friends. ❤ As I progess through the journey of life, listen to messages, apply the principles I feel a sense of contentment and many questions answered. I am healing everyday and believe my children will positively benefit from this journey. I am more focused on the things that matter, I am winning and look forward to a brighter future. Thank you and God bless!

I will be replaying this one along with many other of YOUR teachings God Bless YOU!!!🙏👑

Your teaching on this is a classic!!

Somebody got to teach this Pastor. You are a God sent 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽.

" Never allow yourself to live with a man that makes you afraid" (Blakes, 2021).

Amen amen love that real talk

Amen!! They need to get from between the sheets, if we do not accept God the world influence us big time. I been there done it and fully agree with Pastor RC Blakes.

Thank you Sir

Thank you for looking out for us Pastor. You have truly changed my life.

Thank you for this message. It was exactly what I needed to hear. I feel attacked but in a loving way. I appreciate you for this. When you know better you do better. God Bless

I thank God for you and Lisa. You preaching, teaching, and blessing us with your message. You go too deep for most my Brother 💯

Don't give up pastor!