6 THINGS A QUEEN CONSCIOUS WOMAN WORKS ON AS SHE WAITS FOR HER MATE - RC BLAKES

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  • @FunintheSun813
    @FunintheSun8135 жыл бұрын

    This was amazing!! I am a Queen. I was not acting like one because I am 40 single no kids never married and felt like why was God not sending me my mate. After watching this I am going to improve in my personal development--lose 15-25lbs; finish my Master's Degree. I have my own home and very good career and was ashamed that God blessed me so much financially without a mate. I used to feel so sad to attend church and seeing husband's wrap their arms around their wives during the sermon that I would hold into my Bible and cry. Now I will no longer cry about being single; but I will be thankful for God's many blessings! I will roll up my sleeves and get started on weightloss and finishing Grad school! THANK YOU JESUS for this teaching!!!😀😀😀 5/23/19 Update:I just got married!! God sent me a good husband❤ We were friends ONLY prior to marriage then got engaged then married. I am so glad I learned to love me first before loving someone else❤

  • @TheMonica82

    @TheMonica82

    5 жыл бұрын

    Congratulations! I felt the same way while viewing Pastor's video! My eyes have been opened. I too can Truly see the Lord's Hand working in my life. What a Blessing~

  • @nikkyshamz2696

    @nikkyshamz2696

    5 жыл бұрын

    You got this 👌

  • @lashawnward340

    @lashawnward340

    5 жыл бұрын

    bless your ❤

  • @deanagatlin4388

    @deanagatlin4388

    5 жыл бұрын

    Amen lets lose weight together as soon as you lose ten pounds email me please Lords will

  • @makeitcount2985

    @makeitcount2985

    5 жыл бұрын

    Just because woman are married it does not mean that they are happy, don't envy others you never know what they are battling with?

  • @indiboom1331
    @indiboom13315 жыл бұрын

    “You don’t need to be obsessing over a man, you need to be obsessing over your credit” 😂🤣 Teach Sir! 🙌🏽

  • @hollylove3251

    @hollylove3251

    5 жыл бұрын

    Facts 100%

  • @allesschwarz_liebe5871

    @allesschwarz_liebe5871

    4 жыл бұрын

    indiboom1331 lmfaooo 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @YellowBoneRN

    @YellowBoneRN

    4 жыл бұрын

    classic

  • @wondernelms2064

    @wondernelms2064

    3 жыл бұрын

    I love this

  • @maryannrussell7263

    @maryannrussell7263

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm at 789 for now...never married, retired and making sure my dollars are covered over my life, home and be responsible...I'm celibate and proud, healthy and living my life in joy and peace and spoil seniors and work on myself and my purpose everyday...

  • @mississippitoafrica
    @mississippitoafrica5 жыл бұрын

    I was working on me and my husband appeared..He's like the duplicate of me...

  • @cjsmomom

    @cjsmomom

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's wonderful, congratulations! How's it going?

  • @MjMyi

    @MjMyi

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes God is good

  • @helena3631

    @helena3631

    3 жыл бұрын

    I have heard and seen this happen.. that’s what I am doing now not rushing the process

  • @Dr.JudeAEMasonMD

    @Dr.JudeAEMasonMD

    2 жыл бұрын

    Amēn and won’t He do it when we get out of His way?! 🙌🏽

  • @christineribone9351

    @christineribone9351

    6 ай бұрын

    Magically he appeared before you AND was a duplicate copy. Yeah, sure.

  • @dimphomakenete1117
    @dimphomakenete11174 жыл бұрын

    "If you don't fulfill your purpose, you will never be fulfilled" 👏👏

  • @NessaCat444
    @NessaCat4445 жыл бұрын

    Working on myself, credit, education, spiritual cleansing. I realized my downfall was making a relationship status my goal. This came thru in divine timing. ❤❤❤

  • @amyandy3655

    @amyandy3655

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sure same with me. Am gonna work on my personal growth from now on. Thank you Pastor R.C Blakes for this message

  • @editholasanya7452

    @editholasanya7452

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same with me.

  • @Mia-ei4mh

    @Mia-ei4mh

    Жыл бұрын

    Same here.. Now when I'm in silence I'm realising many things which was wrong but I paid blind eye. Thank god for removing people who doesn't serve anymore.

  • @myainyadaniels7774
    @myainyadaniels77744 жыл бұрын

    So glad I’m seeing this at 22 growing up without a father and in an unstable home. I’ve had to learn and do a lot on my own.

  • @whistyg7068

    @whistyg7068

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same here🙏🙏

  • @AjwaB23

    @AjwaB23

    3 жыл бұрын

    You're lucky God brought you here so young.🙏🏽💐

  • @VintageAfro91

    @VintageAfro91

    3 жыл бұрын

    🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @marajmystiq6731

    @marajmystiq6731

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same but I wish I had this at 22 😪

  • @lyndiamims898

    @lyndiamims898

    3 жыл бұрын

    GODmorning younglady Please note that, while you hearing Pastor Blake's work and words stay prayer,keeping your eyes on the prize. which is the high calling of Christ Jesus... allow GOD to do the rest. Glory to his name

  • @tonwasht2121
    @tonwasht21215 жыл бұрын

    Find your purpose so you can leave a legacy and an inheritance!!!!

  • @kidistaynalem2352
    @kidistaynalem23525 жыл бұрын

    The six points dat explained here are the following ... 1. Hv u completed ur personal growth? Or is ur personal growth on schedule? *Queens works on their personal growth! 2. Do u hv a desire for God? 3. Are u financially secure? 4. Do u need shelter? If so work on it. 5. Do u need to express the vision in ur heart? Do u have a vision in ur heart that u need to express? Proverb...when there is no vision the ppl perish. 6. Do u need to be remembered for any thing? U r not going to be remembered for whom u r married to bt with ur accomplishments! May God bless u abundantly for these 6 awesome points!

  • @rahabm2001

    @rahabm2001

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the notes!!!

  • @kidistaynalem2352

    @kidistaynalem2352

    5 жыл бұрын

    Rahab mwangi Wlkm

  • @Sparklez93

    @Sparklez93

    5 жыл бұрын

    You're the best!

  • @anointedstilettos

    @anointedstilettos

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for doing this 🤗

  • @Danielle-lj1zo

    @Danielle-lj1zo

    5 жыл бұрын

    I thank God for you I was dealing with a narcissist!! I need to get me together first! With the help of My Lord and savior 🙏

  • @rhamm2469
    @rhamm24694 жыл бұрын

    I’m 50 & White & I LOVE your advice !!! I needed when I was 19 before I wasted 28 years being faithful to the wrong man !!!!!

  • @angeldeason3630

    @angeldeason3630

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes! I'm 51 and feel the same way!

  • @AmysColorfulCreations

    @AmysColorfulCreations

    2 жыл бұрын

    54,😔

  • @lizakothomolo3593

    @lizakothomolo3593

    Жыл бұрын

    50.....wasted 23 years

  • @charlottekirchner2612

    @charlottekirchner2612

    Жыл бұрын

    57, it was 25 years for me. Trying to get my crown back on

  • @nzingahoney

    @nzingahoney

    3 ай бұрын

    It doesn't feel any better at 42

  • @valerierobertson8303
    @valerierobertson83034 жыл бұрын

    So perfectly said, "why relationships fail is because self individuality has not been mastered."

  • @quinnterry2834
    @quinnterry28342 жыл бұрын

    #1 13:02 - Is your personal growth on schedule? #2 18:04 - Do you have a desire for God? #3 21:10 -Are you financially secure? #4 24:10 - Do you need shelter? #5 25:53 Do you need to express the vision in your heart? #6 29:40 Do you need to be remembered for anything?

  • @JustJacQuaye

    @JustJacQuaye

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for these notes❤!

  • @elayne2237

    @elayne2237

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you❤quinnterry for summary

  • @wintersstar5830
    @wintersstar58304 жыл бұрын

    I was lying on my bed today and I looked up at the sky through my window feeling so heavy and sad. I just whispered "God what do you want me to do, show me what to do you know my heart and fell asleep woke up after picked up my phone and found this video. All I can say is I thank God for using you sir to bring across his message to me. These are my guidelines for 2020 God spear my life.

  • @brendaames6705

    @brendaames6705

    4 жыл бұрын

    Excuse me Pastor I am a Queen and I'm 70 !

  • @the.thandive

    @the.thandive

    4 жыл бұрын

    God is amazing!!

  • @cfcameron7

    @cfcameron7

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@brendaames6705 yes you sure are my sister i am 63 and i am looking forward to getting married Sarah was still beautiful in her mature years and so are we I though some thing on tv a couple who are both 70 who met and got married in a fews months love is ageless And colour less Godbless you my sister

  • @veronika5052

    @veronika5052

    3 жыл бұрын

    Praise the Lord, sister Queen. What a beautiful moment in time!

  • @maggieedwards3951
    @maggieedwards39515 жыл бұрын

    Working and focusing on me solely for the first time , over Three decades of giving of self to men not deserving of my Queendom , if God send an appointed one great! until then , my full growth uninterrupted is all I desire , blessed day to you RC Blakes .

  • @Thefacelessventer

    @Thefacelessventer

    5 жыл бұрын

    Maggie Edwards I’m with u on that one sis! Thank God that He is a God of a second chance!!!!! And bless God for this man of God too🙂

  • @victoriaqueal3266

    @victoriaqueal3266

    5 жыл бұрын

    Maggie, I'm doing exactly what your doing and have done. I'm getting so comfortable with myself and being single I'm loving it more than any relationship I have ever been in. I'm starting to feel like it would be scary to commit to any one now, because I'm so happy.

  • @claudine5386

    @claudine5386

    5 жыл бұрын

    Every single thing you said is 100% accurate!!!

  • @lyrendamoore552

    @lyrendamoore552

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amen this is a very good message and I desire to look deep and ask god for my purpose and work on my self while I'm single.

  • @Pinkgirlyyyy
    @Pinkgirlyyyy Жыл бұрын

    " If you don't know your purpose, you don't know your mate " 👏🏾 This is soooo true! It's easy to just pick anybody when you don't even know where you are going in life

  • @LoganRena
    @LoganRena5 жыл бұрын

    You had me laughing so hard when you said, “You could marry Jesus Christ and you would create problems”...hilarious and true

  • @kellyjones9573

    @kellyjones9573

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lol 😱

  • @tawanaboyd7124

    @tawanaboyd7124

    5 жыл бұрын

    Outstanding

  • @christinagurrola5335

    @christinagurrola5335

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂🤣🤣😭

  • @kizzyrock

    @kizzyrock

    4 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @ayeshaacharya2568

    @ayeshaacharya2568

    4 жыл бұрын

    True say , my ex used to say I would make a Saint Sin . Now , I am 3 times Divorced , much happier and healthier now since I’ve been Healing and in Recovery from Childhood Abuse and Trauma . Yes, Build your Queen Consciousness before entering into any Relationship/ Marriage with anybody else .

  • @TheLilly
    @TheLilly5 жыл бұрын

    You and Dr. Myles Munroe changed my life. I thank God for y'all ministries.

  • @RCBlakesJr.

    @RCBlakesJr.

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lilly N. What an honor for me to be in the company of Dr. Myles.😊🙏🏽

  • @rungamai

    @rungamai

    3 жыл бұрын

    The Lilly those two are my pros too

  • @Abmarp

    @Abmarp

    3 жыл бұрын

    ON EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @AkayshaKay
    @AkayshaKay5 жыл бұрын

    Disney films ruined my life 😂 , half joking. Praise the Lord for this man. I’m getting my stuff together, personal development is number one.

  • @TaeMontana

    @TaeMontana

    5 жыл бұрын

    Akaysha I say this all the time!

  • @soystef

    @soystef

    5 жыл бұрын

    You are not alone. Much love and support to you.

  • @hopekassandra8661

    @hopekassandra8661

    5 жыл бұрын

    👏👏👏🙌🙌🙌🙌YES!! Getting myself together!! Getting my house in order: mental, emotional, spiritual, career, finances, etc.

  • @hopekassandra8661

    @hopekassandra8661

    5 жыл бұрын

    Amen, Pastor!! Security is one of the greatest needs of a woman! I am working on my finances so I can secure myself! I'm putting more towards my mortgage, paying off debt, and looking for ways to increase my income.

  • @stephaniecutts5117

    @stephaniecutts5117

    5 жыл бұрын

    Many of those films years ago and now, feed into a females natural desires to connect and nuture..and lead many females into fantasy imaginations..Music also...many are Just for profits sake...That is where sound judgement and desernment keeps the female standing on a strong mental & emotional foundation..

  • @tmichele8922
    @tmichele89225 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for being that spiritual father 1. I do need to stop wondering if he will show up. 2. I need to finish my real estate classes to add additional income 3. Own home yes.. done 4. Next get my credit report together to clean up old mess. 5. Personal growth. . Got it!!! Well done homework is in place.

  • @godsbutt3rfly

    @godsbutt3rfly

    5 жыл бұрын

    Right there with you Sister Queen! My class starts in January!

  • @darleenthompson3803

    @darleenthompson3803

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes I have a similar list . Would like to have real estate licence under my belt etc. Multi streams of income .

  • @passyk9968

    @passyk9968

    3 жыл бұрын

    👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿🎊

  • @janiceburgess4679
    @janiceburgess46794 жыл бұрын

    I am Queen... Amen! I have spent the last 10 years working on myself. Finally, I can say I'm ready to give of myself to another.... it took a decade of me being authentic to myself and processing all the hurt from my past... I know my purpose in life... and is living it daily with gratitude. Thank you so much!

  • @ms.rochelle7588
    @ms.rochelle75885 жыл бұрын

    Man I knew this was for me I was almost scared to watch it... conviction.... oooo...weeee..just got spanked by the Father that’s how I know he loves me 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Thank You Father in Jesus Name ... Amen.

  • @adannegadison877

    @adannegadison877

    5 жыл бұрын

    Latasha Dunlap Amen lol ! I was like yasss Holy Spirit convict me 😂😭. Be blessed !

  • @chellestephens2098

    @chellestephens2098

    5 жыл бұрын

    girrrrrrl you're not alone lol! i paused it twice and saiD ooh lawd! I NEED TO HEAR THIS LOL

  • @earlinemathis2195

    @earlinemathis2195

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the message praise God

  • @deborah8397

    @deborah8397

    5 жыл бұрын

    Not uh understanding why ther is a question of whether there are references about Queens in the There are several. Queens which are spoken of . Esther, Vashti, the Queen of Sheba to name a few. The Bible specifically speaks about the preparation to become a queen.

  • @fitnfab6522
    @fitnfab65223 жыл бұрын

    "If you don't know your purpose, you don't know your mate!" This hit hard...makes so much sense now. I know my Godly purpose, therefore I know my mate must put God first!

  • @Arela1164
    @Arela11645 жыл бұрын

    Obsess over purpose, not a relationship! I got it!! Thank you!!👑

  • @fowziyyahthepoet1074
    @fowziyyahthepoet10743 жыл бұрын

    THIS VIDEO JUST REALLY CHANGED MY PERSPECTIVE, MINDSET AND MY LIFE! I was thinking all of these thoughts, but not admitting it to myself. I thought I needed a relationship to be happy. Now I know I need to focus on me and let God bring me my King. And I will be a Queen 👑 ready to compliment him. THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU!

  • @sophisticatedmm3632
    @sophisticatedmm36325 жыл бұрын

    God Bless you for posting this. I'm 34, single, no kids, focused on my career & traveling the 🌎. My dad was present while I was growing up but he was very mentally unstable, hence you have become my spiritual dad over the past year 😀.

  • @RCBlakesJr.

    @RCBlakesJr.

    5 жыл бұрын

    Michelle McDonald I’m tremendously honored.🙏🏽😊

  • @Sunshinestarryrose

    @Sunshinestarryrose

    5 жыл бұрын

    same im 31

  • @Afiafancy

    @Afiafancy

    5 жыл бұрын

    Michelle McDonald hiiii girl...best way to go.i luv travelling too...can we get adventurous together?

  • @sophisticatedmm3632

    @sophisticatedmm3632

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@Afiafancy IDK when I'm planning another trip, (I have a paid cruise in early November).

  • @Gloria_All_Day
    @Gloria_All_Day5 жыл бұрын

    Prophetic message indeed. I've been praying to pursue my purpose that God has for me and not to focus on my physical needs for a relationship with a spouse .

  • @kathybeulah2626

    @kathybeulah2626

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thanks be to God for this message I'm also,praying to pursue my purpose that he has for me .

  • @croffittadoo
    @croffittadoo5 жыл бұрын

    God-fearing, Saved, Educated, Single and Content. Next level status in full effect. #fabulouslyFLAWED #queenologist

  • @Saveren_
    @Saveren_4 жыл бұрын

    1. He is talking about self-actualization 🙌🏾👏🏾

  • @yulandatross3110
    @yulandatross31103 жыл бұрын

    Awesome talk. I needed this. I cut off a former friend almost became romantic or intimate, who was juggling me and a younger woman. I found out and cut him out of my life. I had standards that were too much for him i guess. I told him he had to get a divorce before pursuing me ( he is married to another woman, they haven't been together in 10 years). He instead turned to a another woman (who was involved with someone else at the time) then he knocked her up. It broke my heart, i have since earned a certificate in data analytics, i completed a math and python class and i am working on self development and femininity as well as my health. I realize i dodged a bullet. He was never worthy of me. My spirit recognized this last year, it took my mind a while to catch up.Thank you for this wonderful discourse.

  • @darrelesha
    @darrelesha5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much, I'm a work in progress. I don't want a relationship right now I want to get healed. I just love your teachings

  • @sharonanderson6926
    @sharonanderson69263 жыл бұрын

    You and your wife is a Blessing too all Women.

  • @xxmm7336
    @xxmm73363 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful testimony! A man who is for you, is for you in every way Spiritually, Emotionally Physically, Financially... He treats you like a Queen, because to him you are a Queen. He shows you that every day. What a wonderful blessing! All Thanks be to God May His blessings surround you!

  • @torrihoward9729
    @torrihoward97295 жыл бұрын

    That's why my mother named me Victoria. I'm Fully aware of my birth right I'm in Love More and more with Christ Jesus my Only True LORD and Savior 🙏

  • @michav.4663

    @michav.4663

    5 жыл бұрын

    I know about that name...comes with a lot of beautiful responsibilities.

  • @bevill72able

    @bevill72able

    4 жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @s.mcinnis1601
    @s.mcinnis16015 жыл бұрын

    Someone should tell men, who have an issue with women being so independent...this.

  • @elizabethbutler772

    @elizabethbutler772

    5 жыл бұрын

    Right!

  • @shakticreates5630

    @shakticreates5630

    5 жыл бұрын

    I agree ☝️

  • @cavernedmochache4455

    @cavernedmochache4455

    5 жыл бұрын

    Truth, insecure men have issues with women who are independent. When I came to understand this my husband and I found each other.

  • @wynta_roze351

    @wynta_roze351

    5 жыл бұрын

    HE ☝ should do it but he's oddly obsessed with grooming women. There's something very manipulative abt a man that only puts out (truth?) videos directed solely at women (as if WE are the heads.)

  • @flowerjade5938

    @flowerjade5938

    4 жыл бұрын

    Trinna Simmons thats what I started thinking at “power couple” okeeee I can stay powerful by myself then....

  • @soystef
    @soystef5 жыл бұрын

    These words are changing my life. I can feel my queenness re-emerging... and my kingdom manifesting. Thank you, RC, for reminding us and reaffirming what we already innately know.

  • @christinagurrola5335
    @christinagurrola53354 жыл бұрын

    I have massive anxiety from childhood drama and two divorces. I have been praying for purpose and I know a stable career and mental therapy is what I need. I’m 36 no kids but rather than drown in angst I need to work on my issues. Thank you for reminding me me with this

  • @TheJayjo9
    @TheJayjo95 жыл бұрын

    When you open KZread and see God directly speaking to you! This is for me! Thank you Daddy Blakes. ❤️

  • @mimikers7412

    @mimikers7412

    4 жыл бұрын

    🙌

  • @kathleenwilkins1803

    @kathleenwilkins1803

    2 жыл бұрын

    AMEN!! NOTHING BUT GOD. I PRAYED ASKING GOD FOR GUIDANCE AND I STARTED WATCHING R.C.BLAKES A FATHER FIGURE I NEVER HAD..

  • @chosen44181
    @chosen441815 жыл бұрын

    After leaving a toxic marriage this is confirmation I've been on the right track! All 6 is fundamental to awaken your queen conscious. Thank you for this!

  • @MsNobody
    @MsNobody5 жыл бұрын

    As a single Woman right now. I am so happy just being single & trying to be woed by Men who are interested. Having said that I take this time to get to know them & most importantly myself. I don't rush. I am choosing wisely this time I am too old to be with the rush & wrong man. Ladies enjoy being woed by Men. Take care of yourself. Elevate yourself & make sure you put your Values higher than the Men treat you. Do not sleep with anyone who pays attention to you. Only give yourself to the only one who worked hard for it. The only one who deserves it. This is when you fail if you do. Grow in your own life & be with your own company & enjoy yourself. Be busy with things that are more important in your life. There is no such thing as your Bomb is Ticking? The only bomb that's going to explode is your life if you keep rushing & speeding like a car before you know it crash & into big trouble. Be happy with yourself because if you are not happy, you can never make someone else happy.

  • @emerald8169

    @emerald8169

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ms Nobody I love this ❤️, everything you just commented I’ve been doing. Confirmation I’m on the path and I’ve recently started to date and I have been single and celibate for some time and I feel good. I have no distractions my credit has been repaired and good since 2010 i have my one place, two great jobs and I enjoy my friends and family as we all are busy and make time for each other. I know what’s for me will be for me and I know that God will put the man suppose to have in my life. I believe nothing happens before it’s time and I’m not desperate to be in a relationship. I enjoy my time, work and make time for the ppl who make time for me ( family & friends) and I make time for me and I do the things I like to do and I focus on my peace of mind and my inner peace. I work to be my better self and the best version of myself.

  • @sheria_xoxo1631
    @sheria_xoxo16314 жыл бұрын

    I feel like you were introduced into my life at the perfect time. The lord has a way of showing you signs when you least expect it. Thank you!

  • @jamesmcmccray8255
    @jamesmcmccray82555 жыл бұрын

    From a man this is powerful and much needed for the situation I am in with my wife

  • @RCBlakesJr.

    @RCBlakesJr.

    5 жыл бұрын

    James Yasharael Thank you for sharing

  • @feliciahames3511
    @feliciahames35115 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this great reminder, going from divorce to single will have one distracted...

  • @Nasrumii
    @Nasrumii5 жыл бұрын

    “what are you leaving for those behind you to inherit?” yes sir.

  • @sandirichard5461

    @sandirichard5461

    4 жыл бұрын

    Omorose Outkast my father died 2 years ago. This is when I began my journey. I realized that even though he wasn't there for me, with his work, it made me not ignore the gnawing feeling inside. I have a legacy, and I'm excited to start my journey.

  • @diva-nicole9089
    @diva-nicole90893 жыл бұрын

    I knew I had some work to do, boy it's a lot. Building my relationship with God, loving myself, child trauma, education, physical health, emotional and mental healing, building that Legacy, finding my purpose, healing at the age of 44 smh so much time wasted 😥

  • @Metaphysicalmindspace777
    @Metaphysicalmindspace7775 жыл бұрын

    I clicked on the video sooo quick. Loving this series. I’m 47 and loving life. Thank you for continuing this series.

  • @realtruth8703
    @realtruth87035 жыл бұрын

    I have a home to buy! Just the fright of ownership has pushed me back in that shell. I got this! and being a single mother does require me to reach my full potential. I have the lone I just need to go.

  • @DevineMystique7

    @DevineMystique7

    5 жыл бұрын

    Fear not Sis!!! You got this!!

  • @shaybutler3074

    @shaybutler3074

    5 жыл бұрын

    Real Truth I am in the same position. I’m a single mom as well and am currently looking to buy my first home. It is indeed very scary but we got this!!!

  • @strictlyfortherating

    @strictlyfortherating

    5 жыл бұрын

    New homeowner here to tell you that you got this!

  • @lcjones4682

    @lcjones4682

    5 жыл бұрын

    I built a home 6 years ago as a single mom. I was fearful too but God confirmed that it was His will for me. Take it step by step and believe that it will all work out. I love being a homeowner. Don’t let fear delay you. Fear delayed my mom. She didn’t buy a home until she was 59 (the year after I purchased mine). She almost gave up but God didn’t let her. She got more than she desired or expected in a house.

  • @shon5199

    @shon5199

    5 жыл бұрын

    No fears sis! You've got this And God's got you. Stay encouraged!

  • @HannahBee10
    @HannahBee103 жыл бұрын

    Hearing this again after 2 years of healing and personal development, and everything you said is needed was absolutely spot on. You've been so instrumental in my emotional and mental healing Pastor and I can't thank God and you enough. I am so grateful for your heart and your power-packed videos. Keep being used by God and the blessing you are. I love you and Lisa so much xx

  • @n.v.1173
    @n.v.11733 жыл бұрын

    That is so true Pastor, I did not master marriage because I did not master my individuality. Now divorced 12 yrs. I’m 50, I am my best self because I’ve done the work, I’m a professional, self sufficient, purchased my home 4 yrs. ago, two beautiful adult kids, learned patience the hard way and staying in faith that God will bring my future husband. I pray for a second chance. 🙏🏻❤️🌟✨💫

  • @wombwiseway88

    @wombwiseway88

    Жыл бұрын

    This message gives ME hope!

  • @wandahill5242
    @wandahill52425 жыл бұрын

    I did not want to hear this but I needed it.Thank you

  • @EstellaRJF
    @EstellaRJF5 жыл бұрын

    Saw the title and I knew this was for me!

  • @torrihoward9729

    @torrihoward9729

    5 жыл бұрын

    Amen 🙏 I'll be ordering it next week. I can order it through Amazon I hope?🤗

  • @evamcinnis7992

    @evamcinnis7992

    5 жыл бұрын

    Indeed!😘💞👣

  • @crystalcormier3148

    @crystalcormier3148

    5 жыл бұрын

    Fa real another good message I must say!!! Keep it comin my spiritual daddy!!!

  • @sondraferguson5183

    @sondraferguson5183

    5 жыл бұрын

    I must learn to focus on the things I can control. The rest I leave to God.

  • @sondraferguson5183

    @sondraferguson5183

    5 жыл бұрын

    So God put us here for a purpose. I don’t understand my purpose. I have ask and begged.

  • @youneekkreations5729
    @youneekkreations57295 жыл бұрын

    June 12, 2019...just now getting this MESSAGE! CAN I SAY.....RIGHT ON DARN TIME!!!!

  • @queenofthecrossroads2613
    @queenofthecrossroads2613 Жыл бұрын

    OMG!!! Ok this message was divinely sent! Last night as I laid in my bed I was almost in tears as I spoke to God. I said to Her/Him (I am not a Christian) .. “What more do I need to do!?!” I know how to prepare healthy foods and eat well (I’ve been Vegan for over 10 years). I work out almost everyday and keep fit. I already have a close personal relationship with God. I have already developed and working in my own healing business. I’ve finally exited my relationship with my Narc Ex Fiancé and continuously working on emotional and psychological healing, I know how to keep a house… WHAT IS LEFT!!!?? This morning I saw a video come up in my feed that I wanted to watch of Pastor but when I clicked on it THIS video came up instead! I know NOW what I need to do for my final finishing touches of preparation!! Thank You Spirit!!!

  • @sharonmerriweather5369
    @sharonmerriweather53695 жыл бұрын

    This is beautiful ! I’ve been married under pressure, peer, church, ministry!. I’m fine by myself. Not hating but I enjoy being with me!

  • @marlene5494
    @marlene54943 жыл бұрын

    There’s a reason why this man appeared on my timeline. I’ve started watching your videos and they’ve become my personal therapy sessions. Thank you.

  • @tamarasmith5607
    @tamarasmith56075 жыл бұрын

    Go easy on me Sir. I was totally convicted on everything you said. I have a lot of work and a new focus. Thank you

  • @annwamuyu8560
    @annwamuyu8560 Жыл бұрын

    Oh my goodness! What a timely message. Am 30, Kenyan. Waiting for a mate and I feel this a timely message to keep me on track in my waiting. I can't thank you enough bishop RC Blakes.....God bless you for me

  • @fatikay5735
    @fatikay57353 жыл бұрын

    I am only 8:00 min into the video and my mind is blown! Thank you, as a Muslim woman, I enjoyed learning about your perspective on feminine self-respect. :)

  • @womanofgod2948
    @womanofgod29484 жыл бұрын

    Wow! This is deep. Learn to master your individuality!

  • @sheberry2895
    @sheberry28952 жыл бұрын

    Man. I'm. On ALIGNMENT. Everytime I open one of his videos and others sermons I feel so excited.. listening to God is was the best choice ever in my journey

  • @sandraedmonds1955
    @sandraedmonds19553 жыл бұрын

    Thank you RC Blake for allowing God to use you as the messenger for the world to empower people to become better person and Unite with the one that is purposeful in there llife. You are truly a blessing to me for I know God is an on time God thank you so much

  • @reeree-tareem
    @reeree-tareem5 жыл бұрын

    Omg right on time as usual Bishop

  • @RealSpokenPoetry50
    @RealSpokenPoetry505 жыл бұрын

    Yes my vision is to publish my books and until I accomplish that I refuse to be involved with a man because I don't know what that entails as of now and I'm constantly writing to improve my skills.

  • @graciakinyanjui6937
    @graciakinyanjui69373 жыл бұрын

    Personal Economy... thats what am working on currently..., paying my debts, home ownership

  • @Blurbbox
    @Blurbbox5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!! I grew up in the South in Christian tradition and I was groomed to be “cake on a plate”. I started grabbing a hold of my purpose a few years ago and it actually cost me my marriage. What you say is so true. I though I was created to be a wife, but marriage is just a responsibility, not really a calling. I thank God that He brought your teaching to me Pastor Blakes. I’ve asked God to order my steps and I believe this video is informing that prayer. Bless you ♥️

  • @lisap1487
    @lisap14874 жыл бұрын

    And when you do enter a relationship with someone when not healed the man who will "dance" with you will be the one who triggers those wounds so you can finally heal. Thank you for this....and your other video things a queen would never do...wow...I did just about it all...and am now aware and leveling up....thank you.

  • @focused40
    @focused405 жыл бұрын

    Can you please do one of these for men pastor.

  • @soystef

    @soystef

    5 жыл бұрын

    yes yes yes and YES

  • @StandupGirl-ym3ey

    @StandupGirl-ym3ey

    4 жыл бұрын

    Kingology is available!!🥰🥰

  • @andrella7748

    @andrella7748

    3 жыл бұрын

    That’s a good humble request

  • @yummybroadcastvideos9307

    @yummybroadcastvideos9307

    3 жыл бұрын

    Wow this good

  • @ARighteousLife

    @ARighteousLife

    2 жыл бұрын

    I believe this message is applicable to both women and men.

  • @kfrancis1872
    @kfrancis18725 жыл бұрын

    New sub. I just had this conversation with my best girl friend from Junior High School. I had to remind her that we have grown children, they're all doing well thank God, we're both turning 50, and we have money. And both being single after divorce years ago, we have freedom. So I told her she needs a passport, we both need bathing suits, and let's go enjoy life.

  • @foxyloxy5693

    @foxyloxy5693

    5 жыл бұрын

    Krishel Francis my friend of 50 years both celebrated by flying out to Bali....we don’t need a man to make us happy, just be happy with yourself....and whoever comes along can enhance what you already have!

  • @nikkyshamz2696

    @nikkyshamz2696

    5 жыл бұрын

    And you look great ma'am 👌

  • @kcfrancis94

    @kcfrancis94

    5 жыл бұрын

    Olanike Adeyosola thank u!!

  • @kcfrancis94

    @kcfrancis94

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@menlolotololo4901 Thank u 💕...Cuba in February. My gfs flaked; oh well...I'm blowing out my last 35/40 yrs!!! Lol...got a lotta life left.

  • @MsBelleElle

    @MsBelleElle

    5 жыл бұрын

    50 where???

  • @ilanaafrika9767
    @ilanaafrika97674 жыл бұрын

    I am a queen I.always felt unsuccessful but I got my degree on time busy with my honours God blessed my life my business is kicking off I am 30 years old being single for so.many years but know I see why As a Godly woman I empower myself thank you Jesus for RC Blakes teaching God bless you

  • @sarahs7253
    @sarahs72535 жыл бұрын

    Esther was a queen. I believe she was what you call, queen conscious.

  • @Shofargirl1

    @Shofargirl1

    4 жыл бұрын

    ESTHER FOCUSED ON THE LORD GOD.

  • @InspiredUno

    @InspiredUno

    4 жыл бұрын

    She had that focus and carried herself as a queen even before she was made queen in King Xerxes’ kingdom.

  • @sophia16042
    @sophia160425 жыл бұрын

    Amen! I am a woman from France and I've just discovered your channel thank God what a blessing! So wise insightful and helpful. Thank you so much!

  • @lulub5059
    @lulub50595 жыл бұрын

    Right on time Bishop 🙏 I've been waiting for more wisdom like this

  • @sanjananair1702
    @sanjananair17022 жыл бұрын

    1. Personal growth 2. Desire for God 3. Personal finance 4. Shelter 5. Vision to Express 6. Legacy to be remembered

  • @sfab5039
    @sfab50395 жыл бұрын

    I'm so glad I came across this video. You read me very well, I'm embarrassed at how many things I have to work on! I'm 23 about to be 24. I need to change my life, I've been depressed ,and feeling lonely I see why now I don't/didn't try to find a purpose or even find love within me. Thank you RC Blakes, you're out here changing peoples lives ,and you actually have proof to back up the things your talking about which I absolutely love.

  • @angievega7842
    @angievega78423 жыл бұрын

    This message is just amazing as I am struggling in my life with some changes after been married and still for 39 years. So much that I need to learn and change personally. I decided to become a Queen after the last confrontation I had with my husband. I’m a Queen and a warrior. I am fed up with the verbal, physical and psychological abuse, the manipulation and control ruling in my life through my husband’s actions. Is never too late...I’m 57 and I also had a dad that only used to work to provide but never took the time to share with me. Please pray for me. This message touch me to the tears. I need a change!

  • @scripturehighlightsforlife6174
    @scripturehighlightsforlife61744 жыл бұрын

    Blessed me very much. I was so stuck on missing him and doing nothing..but this healed my mind and soul. I'm worthy of my legacy.

  • @mstoyagrant
    @mstoyagrant5 жыл бұрын

    Having a whiteboard or even a slideshow is a great idea! I'm on my lunch break taking notes and steady pausing the video writing down all of this knowledge you are speaking. I have never commented this many time under one video before. This topic and the discussion hits home for me. Glory to the Father in heaven. God knows precisely, what you need when you need it.

  • @RCBlakesJr.

    @RCBlakesJr.

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ms Toya Grant WOW! Thank you 😊

  • @mstoyagrant

    @mstoyagrant

    5 жыл бұрын

    No, Thank you, Man of God for helping us ladies to know our worth in Christ and how to live out our purpose as Queens and Woman of God! 🙌❤

  • @stealth48nurse
    @stealth48nurse5 жыл бұрын

    I'm so glad that you have been obedient to the call. This series been a wake up call and a lifesaver. Shalom

  • @ConnieP.Online
    @ConnieP.Online5 жыл бұрын

    This is THE BEST VIDEO on the internet!!! Thank you Bishop❤👍✔1,000%

  • @tawnyasterling5875
    @tawnyasterling58753 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Pastor, for giving us crucial information. My dad left, when I was two, did not have guidance instilled 8n me, to make goals, invest and focus. I recently took out time, for me, did some growing and still am. I gave up on a man, who did what he wanted and I no longer will settle. I felt heart broken, but turned to God, in prayer, focus on me, fill my mindset with positive affirmations and focus on me. Thank you, this further helps me on what I need to continue to be working on - me, A Queen.. God bless you and to all who have tuned in

  • @priscacharo4718
    @priscacharo47183 жыл бұрын

    Wow...thank you pastor. You have just changed my mindset. Kenyan we love you!

  • @Melly16yr10
    @Melly16yr103 жыл бұрын

    I'm in my mid 20s and thank god I found this channel. Seems to be about the only decent one I've found so far. Still working on only trying to control the things with in my current reach. still working on the educational and money side to life along with social side to life.

  • @AndreaPortley
    @AndreaPortley5 жыл бұрын

    I strongly believe, coming up on this video was not by accident, it's part of my Divine destiny to hear this teaching!

  • @GOP7100
    @GOP71005 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for always speaking to my heart. I trust in God.

  • @luvfilmsmaking
    @luvfilmsmaking5 жыл бұрын

    That last part drove the message home. Thank you! I'm working on all 6 and needed an added motivation to continue with my purpose

  • @HellenofTroy897
    @HellenofTroy8973 жыл бұрын

    Thank u Lord for technology. Am out here in Nairobi Kenya and your videos have truly impacted my outlook on life and relationships. Been working on myself for ten years now, and then I found these videos - confirming and enriching everything I have learned.

  • @Queenbelieveit
    @Queenbelieveit5 жыл бұрын

    You must be connected to the source (Jesus, Our Heavenly Father, filled with the holyspirit) not an option it's mandatory. So true from my personal experience. #deliverance

  • @starrdavis285
    @starrdavis2854 жыл бұрын

    This is so amazing. God made SURE that I found R.C. Blakes and his teachings and I am SO grateful!

  • @ellabelieve-mekamati3330
    @ellabelieve-mekamati33303 жыл бұрын

    I’m truly so grateful to have the blessing of hearing this. I grew up without my Father and Mother and I fought every single day over it because I felt so incomplete, I through myself at men in desperate search for love which for many years I mistakened for attention, ended up with a son who’s father isn’t currently in his life too. I took it all as graciously and so many young women end up coming to me asking how I do it l, deep within me is so much attached to helping the nurturers and uniting them. I’m on my healing journey and loving the blessing that you are ! Bless your soul! 🙏🏾💜✨

  • @artphotography9158
    @artphotography91585 жыл бұрын

    At the end when you prayer over us, God's spirit touched me deeply...Thank you so much Pastor~ God spoke to me through your message here. :) I'm forever grateful to God and to you!!!

  • @jaejaeize
    @jaejaeize5 жыл бұрын

    Anybody up at 2:30am screaming Jesus. my oh my AMEN! a word for 2018

  • @beachlife8168

    @beachlife8168

    5 жыл бұрын

    My favorite hours 2am- 8am

  • @smcdade4577
    @smcdade45775 жыл бұрын

    This was right up my alley, Bishop! I am using my time wisely! Thanks for the encouragement! We have much work to do for the glory of the Lord!

  • @celestep2965
    @celestep29653 жыл бұрын

    Sir Mr. Blake's you have no idea how much that you are changing my life listening to your videos. I've always been some what of a conscious woman but you have given me a renewed sense of importance about changing things in my life. You have a truly blessed soul and my hat goes off to your queen because she definitely has her a Reigning King. Thank you please keep doing what your doing. God Bless you my brother!!!!

  • @hollyleann1825
    @hollyleann18253 жыл бұрын

    44 years old. Your changing my life! Thank you pastor💜

  • @c.l.montoya2972
    @c.l.montoya29724 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Pastor R.C.Blakes❣️🙏🏼 HE blessed me when HE lead me to your channel, Praise the Father Almighty. Thanks be to God ✝️

  • @theresamosher9829
    @theresamosher98293 жыл бұрын

    I wish I had seen this 40 years ago! I am 57 and I truly feel that my life would have been far better if I had seen this. I am working on my personal work. I do own my own home and I have reached the point where I would like companionship but I don't have to have it. I'm still trying to find my purpose. How do I do that.

  • @user-ed4xt4yw2d
    @user-ed4xt4yw2d Жыл бұрын

    I am a white woman. Met the first narsisstic in my life. Ran away. Shocked that such animals exist. Thank you, Bishop! God bless u and your family.

  • @traceykadondo4185
    @traceykadondo41855 жыл бұрын

    This video has been stalking me for a while here on KZread and I've been fighting it cos I knew it would make me face a harsh truth about myself lately. My angels kept nudging me to watch and I finally did. I lived this and I thank you for being blunt and giving it how it is. God bless you xx

  • @ohhighingy6663
    @ohhighingy66635 жыл бұрын

    I thank the most high for guiding me here. This is absolutely perfect. I'm not Christian, Yet the truth is the truth.

  • @nikkyshamz2696

    @nikkyshamz2696

    5 жыл бұрын

    💕💕

  • @sharonwest3248
    @sharonwest32485 жыл бұрын

    Like what you said about relationship and felt that but did not know this to be true. "God did not make us for relationship"Helen Keller said it great "God created us to be in love with Him but instead we became in love with each other."

  • @Lovejoi222
    @Lovejoi2225 жыл бұрын

    This message is a true blessing in my life! I’m eternally grateful 🙏🏾💕

  • @LuvliexXJazzieXx
    @LuvliexXJazzieXx4 жыл бұрын

    He asked could he pray for me but before I could answer he burst out in prayer. 😂😂😂I’m weak. I had a great laugh and lovely reminder! 🙏🏾Thank you for this video. I clicked because the church I attended was in the background at the beginning! 💕Great click bait! I know exactly why you and Pastor Anthony Taplin are friends. Y’all are too cool brothers. Happy Father’s Day to both of ya’s! The mans a real father figure in my life and I Thank God for him & his family. 💕💕💕 -Jazzy