HOW TO KNOW THE RIGHT ONE by RC BLAKES

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  • @memesimone9690
    @memesimone96904 жыл бұрын

    1. Respect you 2. You are Priority 3. Makes you laugh 4. Generous in every way 5. Allow you to be yourself 6. Patience

  • @nayebareolivias3417

    @nayebareolivias3417

    4 жыл бұрын

    Woo

  • @monicajordan9284

    @monicajordan9284

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for typing those notes 😊...re: #5 Allows you to be yourself...Me and a guy were taking baby steps to get to know each other, had a spiritual connection and all the other five qualities u have listed. But he was feeling like I wouldn't let him be himself bc I told him he had to work on his mouth (profanity). I can see one flying out your mouth every now and then but saying the word sh** 3 times less than and hour bf we got off the phone and u said u would work on it. I just feel if he really wanted our steps to go further he would've worked on it. I feel it's disrespectful and I would've had to listen to alot of profanity the rest of my life is I didn't set that standard. I'm not all there but I'm trying.

  • @yolanda5756

    @yolanda5756

    3 жыл бұрын

    🤗Thank you! I always watch the full video but I love to have the "itinerary" 🙂

  • @ashleymoffettnzeribe9353

    @ashleymoffettnzeribe9353

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks

  • @p.s.706

    @p.s.706

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@monicajordan9284 28:30 (Patience) 🙏🏾

  • @lathiemckinney2934
    @lathiemckinney29342 жыл бұрын

    As I listened to this it dawned upon me I've found that RIGHT ONE. Hallelujah!!! He's all of this video. Praise God. At 70 I found the RIGHT ONE.

  • @cynthiajackson2580

    @cynthiajackson2580

    Жыл бұрын

    That's great!!...I'm 60... Was married 20 yrs.... Abstinent 8 yrs....Keep me in your prayers...I pray blessings upon U and yours....🙏❤...I've learned so much from Mr. Blakes teachings...

  • @sunsetstormx

    @sunsetstormx

    Жыл бұрын

    I hope you follow up and let us know how things are going in your life!!!❤️🙏

  • @zelin7460

    @zelin7460

    Жыл бұрын

    Amen 🙏🏾 That’s awesome! I pray all is well ❤

  • @zelin7460

    @zelin7460

    Жыл бұрын

    @@cynthiajackson2580 Amen, I pray all is well ❤

  • @CHOSENWOMAN777

    @CHOSENWOMAN777

    Жыл бұрын

    Congratulations.. Praise God.

  • @Pinkpanda811
    @Pinkpanda8116 жыл бұрын

    If he shows you selfishness at the shallow end, why would you go in the deep end with them? ⬅️That's deep right there!!

  • @jenikajohnson2338

    @jenikajohnson2338

    5 жыл бұрын

    Latoya Hill totally true

  • @PhileceaCerise

    @PhileceaCerise

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yaaas

  • @crystalgrose

    @crystalgrose

    4 жыл бұрын

    SO TRUE!

  • @toussaintan

    @toussaintan

    4 жыл бұрын

    🙅🙊

  • @qatatvip5451

    @qatatvip5451

    4 жыл бұрын

    Very true

  • @aminatasemega-janneh2184
    @aminatasemega-janneh21843 жыл бұрын

    I am a Muslim ; however I admire your teachings. Muslims and Christians have so many wonderful teachings in common. And you advise helps people from all religion.

  • @deebrw52
    @deebrw526 жыл бұрын

    I made a lot of bad choices but I can't afford to do this anymore Thank You Pastor

  • @ameishellbrown1478

    @ameishellbrown1478

    5 жыл бұрын

    Amen me either

  • @nataliesgoodies7184

    @nataliesgoodies7184

    4 жыл бұрын

    Amen agree

  • @christyg487

    @christyg487

    4 жыл бұрын

    This statement is hit me very hard! But I am trying to recognise which one is this for!?

  • @missmlb3842

    @missmlb3842

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm right there with you sis

  • @YS-hw9jr

    @YS-hw9jr

    3 жыл бұрын

    Mr too I'm done...I'm focusing on God 🙏🙏🙏 in my house 🏠 and my life for sure. I meet the worst men. I'm in my 50 + and only when my sprint tells I will run run and running. God bless #MeToo

  • @Clemesha777
    @Clemesha7776 жыл бұрын

    The right one will allow you to be yourself!🙌 Amen🙌

  • @gratitude5740

    @gratitude5740

    4 жыл бұрын

    Have high value behaviour. Love and respect yourself. Done lay on your back for him before I do !

  • @juannagibson1237

    @juannagibson1237

    4 жыл бұрын

    Amen yes U ar right

  • @maggiemoore5800

    @maggiemoore5800

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes indeed.

  • @jamaicanflavor3737

    @jamaicanflavor3737

    4 жыл бұрын

    👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @daijadorsey674

    @daijadorsey674

    2 жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @KittyPurry71
    @KittyPurry715 жыл бұрын

    All of these things to avoid I had in my ex husband for 13 years. He turned his back on God a month into marriage. The way he treated me destroyed me over the years. I foolishly kept giving believing his core nature would change. He didn’t. In fact he got worse. Know your worth ladies and do not make the painful mistakes I made.

  • @Vera-dg3hf

    @Vera-dg3hf

    3 жыл бұрын

    What was the mistake you made?

  • @alishadennis7077

    @alishadennis7077

    3 жыл бұрын

    God's got you love 😘💗👑🙏. You are a blessing & God's got his good plan for your life. Your freedom & wisdom & self love 💖😘 & standards have you in a blessed place now. Your life & all that affects you is important to God 🤣🙏💗👑, queen ❣️ always. As Christians we are of royal priesthood. God's 🙏❤️🤩😀🙏 wants the best for his daughters & you can believe for God's best now & heal the past. Restoration & new good plans are for you!!!! God 🙏💗👑😍😀 bless you lovely lady!!!!!

  • @veedee4424

    @veedee4424

    3 жыл бұрын

    Co-sign @Maxine! Made the same mistake marrying a counterfeit Christian who deceived me & got me during my initial transition into Christianity (e.g I have ownership of my ignorance at that point in time of not being a “Spiritual Fruit Inspector.”). Marriage lasted 14 years before biblical release/divorce based on scripture. Trust..God was merciful to both you & I in the removal of these specific men from our lives. God be praised!!

  • @leleflower2366
    @leleflower23666 жыл бұрын

    It's unfortunate but we are living in a Very Selfish Time and People have found it "ok" to play with folks emotions. Not Cool

  • @Shadow-runner939

    @Shadow-runner939

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lady Dee so true!

  • @alicefrank2234

    @alicefrank2234

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lady Dee

  • @Goodlife36

    @Goodlife36

    5 жыл бұрын

    💯

  • @MissD0829

    @MissD0829

    5 жыл бұрын

    I could not have agreed more. People are so immature it is so frustrating. Say what you mean,and mean what you say and let's keep moving

  • @jenikajohnson2338

    @jenikajohnson2338

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lady Dee exactly ,its not right and one of the most hurtful things to do to someone is play with there emotions

  • @faycollymore9352
    @faycollymore93526 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for building my maturity into a better woman.

  • @empresserica

    @empresserica

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes! Me too! Bless you Pastor Blakes!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @zephomalunga5251
    @zephomalunga52515 жыл бұрын

    I always knew I was not crazy. Finally there is someone who agrees with me. Hallelujah... Great stuff Pastor

  • @dorothymatthews6690

    @dorothymatthews6690

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes! I said the same thing. This is confirmation that I'm not picky, but rather waiting for the right one.

  • @mandlenkosihlazo977

    @mandlenkosihlazo977

    Жыл бұрын

    Can you believe I only learnt of this great teacher only yesterday.?Thru a woman I almost got into a relationship with..She said this guy was her gift to me..

  • @jfreeman3566
    @jfreeman35665 жыл бұрын

    Sounds like a MINISTRY of Helps towards each other. A MAN that shares his treasure/Money WITH a WOMAN is sharing his HEART with her.

  • @itsmelisalee914
    @itsmelisalee9146 жыл бұрын

    This video has me grinning from ear to ear..at the same time I have teary eyes 😩💓 I'm patiently waiting for my husband to-be to find me.

  • @lindaglover580

    @lindaglover580

    5 жыл бұрын

    I am waiting for my mate to find me. But along the way men l have met men who just want to play games an waste your time. I tell they up front l am not interested in sex before marriage. Then they started the game playing, yes me too l love the Lord ect.....but when he sees that l.am serious they may have encouraged some emotional interest from me. How do protect yourself from those tape of men? me.

  • @b.tjesusbeliever4694

    @b.tjesusbeliever4694

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lisa Lee I’m waiting on my wife! In the meantime just stay before the presence of God

  • @lamidom

    @lamidom

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@lindaglover580 Well you are already protected and have wisdom, what do you mean then?

  • @ZaynabSolange

    @ZaynabSolange

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@lindaglover580 Don't tell them about your celibacy until they've proven genuine interest and consistency over a few months. Some men will take your desires and fashion them into a game plan so it best to stay in observation mode and allow them to court you as they see fit. It's the only way to truly witness their character.

  • @gloriaj.jackson7268

    @gloriaj.jackson7268

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@lindaglover580 Good word from Zaya!

  • @LonjeMarie7
    @LonjeMarie75 жыл бұрын

    When I meet a guy and I’m attracted to him and it doesn’t work out I get a little bit discouraged ,it’s videos like these that help to pick me up emotionally, and spiritually because I know God has something BETTER thank you very very very much for what you do!!!

  • @louiseottley4995

    @louiseottley4995

    4 жыл бұрын

    It happens to all of us be strong

  • @wendycollington3279

    @wendycollington3279

    4 жыл бұрын

    Get more rooted in the things of God and before you know it the man God has prepared will find you at God's altar...think upon this, bless

  • @wendycollington3279

    @wendycollington3279

    4 жыл бұрын

    It is good to be healthy but allow a man to be the man...at times we are to step back and remember to be female and not try to control everything. Blessed, just think on this

  • @claudettejackson9676

    @claudettejackson9676

    3 жыл бұрын

    Low self-esteem, is the problem for most people. Teach self-esteem to the ones who needs it. Sex is your problem.we as decent women knows how to handle ourselves. The right one is the one who always leave his wife and go in town but another male and do the do and then go back home to his wife. She doesn't know, but to her he is the right one, and also to you. You cannot be a preacher, not a teacher. When you sees a man, all you see is his face, you cannot see his heart. There's always a sign that you will see and when you see it run. Some women take abuse from men and when you asked them, why are you still with this man? The sex is good, that is what they say. Well, that is their business.

  • @daijadorsey674

    @daijadorsey674

    2 жыл бұрын

    Amen 🙏

  • @moniquezmuda3924
    @moniquezmuda39245 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for taking time out to talk to the women who don't have Dads to talk too. God bless you.

  • @wendycollington3279

    @wendycollington3279

    4 жыл бұрын

    Amen, for many father's are no longer there to help guide us through the different stages of life purposes of its mission. Amen

  • @bornagainchristian3742

    @bornagainchristian3742

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @nicolegreene2208

    @nicolegreene2208

    3 жыл бұрын

    Indeed. Mine passed before I was even born. My blessings from that is that his side of the family is so loving and I'm very close to them. He also decided to name me which my mom allowed because he was so excited to know I was coming into the world. But Pastor Blakes and his wife are truly a couple who follows after The Word. God bless their ministry and that we will take from their teachings and live it and even influence others. ✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾

  • @latarareed5900

    @latarareed5900

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yesss @MONIQUE

  • @MissJayHisDaughter

    @MissJayHisDaughter

    2 жыл бұрын

    IN JESUS CHRIST NAME WE PRAY. AMEN.

  • @phoebenaluggwa7019
    @phoebenaluggwa70196 жыл бұрын

    Respect is the main thing!

  • @dwaynejackson4768

    @dwaynejackson4768

    6 жыл бұрын

    Phoebe Naluggwa Amen

  • @noworneversoulbeach

    @noworneversoulbeach

    3 жыл бұрын

    This so called “gender war” got people disrespecting each other left and right till they don’t even trust the other gender. 🤦🏿‍♂️

  • @alishadennis7077

    @alishadennis7077

    3 жыл бұрын

    Respect for God, himself & for you is an action & not just words too. Trust, honor, joy, commitment, faithfulness, maturity, protection, fun, family purpose, healthy great love, with smart good work ethics all lead by God's leading in him as a man too!!!

  • @simplymejourney998
    @simplymejourney9986 жыл бұрын

    Respect is very important

  • @lindagibson24

    @lindagibson24

    5 жыл бұрын

    Respect is really big with me. I preach about is a lot to my children, family and friends.

  • @jamiejackson1780
    @jamiejackson17805 жыл бұрын

    “EXIT Stage LEFT or Stage RIGHT”!!!! ....So often we MISS our cue to EXIT!!!! 🙌🏾

  • @Carolyn100000

    @Carolyn100000

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes

  • @fatima101165
    @fatima1011654 жыл бұрын

    Here I am gonna be 55 years old this year. Lord knows I’ve made more mistakes than I care to admit. However, I know I’ve grown through the years & the trials that I’ve been through. I praise God for his Grace, love & forgiveness. I’m a work in progress. God knows my heart

  • @SunnySummer777

    @SunnySummer777

    4 жыл бұрын

    Wow you dont look 55....

  • @scarlettthebrave5854

    @scarlettthebrave5854

    4 жыл бұрын

    I’m also at that stage in my life- 52 and still attracted and attracting wrong kind of men( controlling selfish etc) I’m learning that it’s my mindset that attracts them and my low value- finally I’m seeing the light and striving to do better/ better to be alone and have self love than be with a man that doesn’t respect you

  • @decemberlotus

    @decemberlotus

    3 жыл бұрын

    You are a human being.

  • @destinyraine5452
    @destinyraine54526 жыл бұрын

    Must be based on the Spirit and not the flesh because the flesh changes, it's inconsistent, not of God. The Spirit is of God, therefore everything is equally yoked

  • @STNY2012

    @STNY2012

    6 жыл бұрын

    well said.

  • @lulub5059

    @lulub5059

    5 жыл бұрын

    Well said

  • @teresitaplautz1175

    @teresitaplautz1175

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yes

  • @joygraydon8830

    @joygraydon8830

    4 жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @juanitawilliams9263

    @juanitawilliams9263

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@teresitaplautz1175 I

  • @SanFreeman1
    @SanFreeman16 жыл бұрын

    I always feel so much better after watching your videos, Pastor Blakes. Thank you!

  • @cloyettegrant1733
    @cloyettegrant17336 жыл бұрын

    He have to love God more than me.

  • @idealfaith4699

    @idealfaith4699

    5 жыл бұрын

    Please that will be another problem trust me. Everything should have a limit

  • @lyndapeoples8127

    @lyndapeoples8127

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@idealfaith4699 ..not sure I understand your comment here. I'm not trying to be confrontational but just trying to get an understanding.

  • @October3074

    @October3074

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@idealfaith4699 women think they sound so pious and holy when they say that. They don't realize how phony they're coming across.

  • @ladennayoung2939

    @ladennayoung2939

    4 жыл бұрын

    I feel what you are saying. First of all God says that you shouldn't love or put anything before Him. Secondly if they don't love God more then you. They will not know how to love themselves. If they don't love themselves they cannot love you in a healthy or Godly manner.

  • @blessed74God

    @blessed74God

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@ladennayoung2939 AMEN

  • @elizabethc9843
    @elizabethc98436 жыл бұрын

    This came out right on time for me! Been single for 20 yrs after a divorce - when I married back then, having listened and watched your videos now, I can confidently say I married for the wrong reasons and maybe that’s why it did not last. I have by choice not wanted to settle for any man this this time round and I am learning so much I should have known at my age... I now can impart the knowledge I have to my 22yr old son and 20yr old daughter so that they do equip themselves and avoid unnecessary mistakes! I am going on a date tomorrow after a decade 😇 and these teachings have and continue to equip me how I am to be treated and how I should treat the man.. I am not nervous but I feel confident and happy to start again. Thank you for your great teachings 🙏🏾

  • @SunnySummer777

    @SunnySummer777

    4 жыл бұрын

    How did your date go?

  • @noku_nz

    @noku_nz

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes tell us how that date went?

  • @saraifascinetto5437

    @saraifascinetto5437

    Жыл бұрын

  • @joliemiranda5685
    @joliemiranda56855 жыл бұрын

    1) Must respect you 2) Will make you feel like you are #1. Never marry a person who doesn't treat you as his major priority. (People make time for what is their priority) 3) Will have the ability to make you laugh 4) Will be generous in every way (with time, availability, kindness, support and finances). Never marry a man who is stingy with his money. 5) will let you be yourself ,6) will be patient enough to put him together 7) Closes the deal

  • @septiawoman7687

    @septiawoman7687

    5 жыл бұрын

    If you are treated as an option and not a priority? He is not the person for you.

  • @latriceoglesby9340

    @latriceoglesby9340

    3 жыл бұрын

    P$

  • @jumokea2274

    @jumokea2274

    2 жыл бұрын

    q

  • @akc1739
    @akc17396 жыл бұрын

    “Me an my ice cream cone - we good o’er here” 😂

  • @flutteryingflight3098
    @flutteryingflight30983 жыл бұрын

    I’ve never met a pastor that I felt connected too , and I feel like he’s was sent by God for me . I’ve recently gotten back on the path to get closer to my savior . While on my journey Pastor Blake’s page popped up , and I’ve been entangled ever since . A lot of the times when pastor Blake’s speaks ,I’m in tears because it’s a spiritual awakening for me.This pastor speaks well , is a man of God , and when he prays ,I pray with him . Thank you God for putting pastor Blake in my pathway.

  • @RCBlakesJr.

    @RCBlakesJr.

    3 жыл бұрын

    This leaves me speechless. Thank you 🙏🏽 😊

  • @toldbyharlan
    @toldbyharlan6 жыл бұрын

    Your wisdom is appreciated!!!!

  • @maryfrances1307
    @maryfrances13075 жыл бұрын

    “My wife can be ghetto.” Too funny!

  • @realtruth8703
    @realtruth87036 жыл бұрын

    I enjoyed this message and learning these wisdom keys. It’s So sad people out here play so many games it’s so hard to see the scales.

  • @tomikoeaton9786
    @tomikoeaton97864 жыл бұрын

    I had that now I'm a widow of 4 years we are in a wicked world full of narcs we have to focus on God

  • @candace6426
    @candace64266 жыл бұрын

    This will always be a valid classic to me. You are my youtube father pastor Blakes.

  • @gloriaj.jackson7268

    @gloriaj.jackson7268

    5 жыл бұрын

    Truly Amen! 😊🙏🏽

  • @olanikeshamonda73

    @olanikeshamonda73

    5 жыл бұрын

    mine too

  • @DawnPhillips22

    @DawnPhillips22

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes! Same! I never had a Father to speak into me or guide me...until now!

  • @ninasky6767

    @ninasky6767

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me too.

  • @monicajordan9284

    @monicajordan9284

    3 жыл бұрын

    Mine too!

  • @dorispichardo
    @dorispichardo6 жыл бұрын

    Wow, this was my favorite. I am hearing it over and over. I loved it.

  • @reginadright2581
    @reginadright25816 жыл бұрын

    I'm not really into finding the right one at this point. But I just love to hear some Pastor R.C. Blakes Jr. and learn from him.

  • @akc1739

    @akc1739

    6 жыл бұрын

    Regina Dright I hear ya. Me either, and me too!

  • @sharnmonique7155
    @sharnmonique71556 жыл бұрын

    Love how he cracks up over his own jokes 😅👌🏾 #Classic But yes very insightful. Thank you!

  • @lindagibson24

    @lindagibson24

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yes he's definitely hilarious. 😂 Told us if we got to pay for our own food, etc., that he is NOT the one.

  • @NarcSurvivor
    @NarcSurvivor6 жыл бұрын

    A person's value is defined by how much they respect themselves and how much they respect you. If a person disrespects you they are defective. A person of high value will respect their bodies. They will look after their skin, they will eat healthy and exercise often. A person who respects you will be honest, trustworthy and loyal. You will be able to talk about anything to them. A person with no respect is as good as dead. There is no purpose in wasting any of your time or effort with these types of people.

  • @makeitcount2985

    @makeitcount2985

    5 жыл бұрын

    So true

  • @estherphiri764

    @estherphiri764

    4 жыл бұрын

    Very

  • @snowleopard7952
    @snowleopard79524 жыл бұрын

    This is helpful to understand what a loving relationship feels like. This is a good guildline to those who haven’t a clue because they never experienced it.

  • @monicajordan9284

    @monicajordan9284

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes it is a great guide! Thanks Pastor 😊

  • @TracyTranquility

    @TracyTranquility

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sad but true

  • @mariamichelle2318
    @mariamichelle23186 жыл бұрын

    If we were discerning from the start....!!! That part right there will help avoid do many problems. I get now!

  • @monicajordan9284

    @monicajordan9284

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes That Part!

  • @debbiejones274
    @debbiejones2745 жыл бұрын

    Thank you pastor Blake, my husband and I watched your video together for the first time together to strengthen our marriage and it is helping with a mans point of view. We watch a video one each night. Thank you Godbless you and your wife.🙏🏻

  • @toussaintan

    @toussaintan

    4 жыл бұрын

    Awesome

  • @preciousjewel5323
    @preciousjewel53234 жыл бұрын

    There has been some growing pains (both of us maturing or going through the necessary assembling as you mentioned) but I have married the right man...Too God be the glory! ;) #KeepBuildingWithTheRightOne

  • @phurplkyxxex
    @phurplkyxxex6 жыл бұрын

    You know if he's the right one when you have PEACE within your special. Peace that passeth ALL UNDERSTANDING. THE END

  • @salt2420
    @salt24204 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣🤣 "I can't believe you're eating with your salad fork" That got me.

  • @Shamarie0328
    @Shamarie03286 жыл бұрын

    You always seem to upload a video when I am pondering an issue in my life. Thank you for being led by the Holy Spirit. I appreciate it!

  • @ThrivewithJesus

    @ThrivewithJesus

    6 жыл бұрын

    Tappe Hopson !! Same for me!! Thanks Jesus for this ordained man

  • @leleflower2366

    @leleflower2366

    6 жыл бұрын

    RIGHT

  • @loveinautumn3978

    @loveinautumn3978

    3 жыл бұрын

    How are you doing nowadays, sis?

  • @lmoody2825
    @lmoody28255 жыл бұрын

    Thank you to my online spiritual Father. I would have never ready for my Mr. Right with this word. #Mrightfoundme

  • @nola8504
    @nola85044 жыл бұрын

    So much wisdom. Never get your heart broken by a man who is not prepared from the start to invest in you.

  • @shaunierockett4964

    @shaunierockett4964

    Жыл бұрын

    They show potential and give u glimpse of wht life could b like and wheel u in with tht but then completely do a 180 after latching u on smh the games ppl play💔

  • @Princess_Lilly13
    @Princess_Lilly133 жыл бұрын

    I am not a Christian, i am a muslim, and i love you, i love everything you preach ❤️ love from Algeria ❤️🇩🇿

  • @luluoz1
    @luluoz16 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful and true Balance Kindness SpiRitual growth together Amen 🙏 💖

  • @soystef

    @soystef

    5 жыл бұрын

    amen's right.

  • @GOP7100
    @GOP71006 жыл бұрын

    Pastor, I never seen this one. Thank you so much Sir. I'm just done with trying to find the right one. I dont think its our (women) place. I have had my heart ripped completely out my chest. So, If there is truly a man out there for me, then he will be my Boaz sent by God. It's just too painful to ever try love again, but i'm listening to you knowing this truth..... "A man that findeth a wife finds a good thing." I will never look for a man again. Ever!!! It Never works, it only satisfies the flesh. God must be there from the beginning. So, I'm going to love me and take care of me while I wait for my Boaz. Thank you pastor, you have helped me come back from the devastation the man I loved caused me. I'm stronger and wiser now. Thank you. God bless you God's own Princess

  • @akc1739

    @akc1739

    6 жыл бұрын

    GOP7100 Your honesty is inspiring and I can really relate to this type of pain. 🙏 I can admit that I did not understand “my place” for all of my child-bearing years. And I suffered crushing heartaches from ME picking the men in my life, not God. (Grown boys, really. Not grown men.) The good news is that repeating history is not necessary.! There’s nothing wrong with living a great life on ur own, with God, and then seeing IF God plans to bring a true king in ur life. Queens carry on, regardless ❤️

  • @GOP7100

    @GOP7100

    6 жыл бұрын

    Ashley Cook Thank you beautiful for understanding and sharing. It has been the most painful journey of my life. But also the most rewarding because my eyes are safely on the prize. JESUS! Today I touch and agree with you to love God and self and all our dreams shall come true, to have a man that loves us like Christ love the church. A place of honor. Bless you

  • @akc1739

    @akc1739

    6 жыл бұрын

    GOP7100 I finally understand now that it’s really not. about. the man! It’s about ME getting in proper alignment. On a personal note (and this may resonate with u) I will be celebrating entering menopause next month, God willing, with no children having been born to me. I could choose to see this as horrible but I have a different mind-set. “Child-free” women have SO much to offer the world, but we’re socialized to believe that having “our own” (and a man) is the end all and be all in life when, in reality, it is but ONE of many ways to have a blessed, fulfilling life. I say don’t wait for your king. If he’s to cone, he will come. Instead, live a wholly complete life and discern, as suiters come, if they are truly worth your time, attention, and energy. I do not fear “being alone” because that’s not even possible. God is always with me.

  • @elizabethc9843

    @elizabethc9843

    6 жыл бұрын

    Ashley Cook amen! I concur! You learn so much about yourself and about men when you stop jumping into wrong relationships. Someone is out there for the waiting lady, it might take long but I so believe...

  • @Shadow-runner939

    @Shadow-runner939

    5 жыл бұрын

    GOP7100 the mistake we make is loving a man instead of respecting them.

  • @tamelacole478
    @tamelacole4786 жыл бұрын

    GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY PASTOR RC BLAKE'S®💪®

  • @missm1975
    @missm19754 жыл бұрын

    I am not religious but spiritual.. I found your message transformative and captivating. Thank you for your service ❤️🙏

  • @lisabuscaglia1856

    @lisabuscaglia1856

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly what you said, applies here too~

  • @Saramoonist
    @Saramoonist6 жыл бұрын

    I just got out of my poisonous relationship and noticed none of these things you mentioned pertained to him.. this video awakened me and made me realize what I was desiring was solely because of soul tie , nothing more or less

  • @soystef

    @soystef

    5 жыл бұрын

    wow that's deep. i think i'm guily of the same. we are all in this together, learning, growing, and evolving. bless

  • @SunnySummer777

    @SunnySummer777

    4 жыл бұрын

    How are you doing now these days Sara?

  • @travism3307
    @travism33075 жыл бұрын

    I’m Agree 💯% If I felt like I do now! I wouldn’t have been in my last relationship! I have decided to not be involved intimately until I meet my potential wife if it’s in “GOD” will 🙏🏽

  • @jayharvey3441

    @jayharvey3441

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @shakashakur6803

    @shakashakur6803

    3 жыл бұрын

    I agree

  • @marianharden4675

    @marianharden4675

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @deewils381

    @deewils381

    3 жыл бұрын

    🙏🙏🙏

  • @CelesteClaverie1789

    @CelesteClaverie1789

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm curious, why did you put GOD in ""?

  • @lovehatyudo.8466
    @lovehatyudo.84664 жыл бұрын

    I am literally crying... I never got respect bcz i always compromise my soul

  • @nzingahoney

    @nzingahoney

    4 ай бұрын

    You have to earn your own forgiveness. Start with self love

  • @mariaearthangel7251
    @mariaearthangel72515 жыл бұрын

    My husband also knew instantly. We had 4 years together then he died. It devastated me I loved him with all my heart we were very compatible. He lived and protected my heart and soul. I feel that I will never have such a decent man in my life again. I have decided to try date again. Is it possible there is a second Adam that I could ever be as good as my passed husband. I tend to think there is only one eve for a Adam? I know I have to move forward but can’t ever move on from the memories of my darling husband. He was unforgettable. God rest his sweet soul...💔✝️

  • @tracy85777

    @tracy85777

    5 жыл бұрын

    So sorry for such a devasting loss. I pray God will give you the peace that passes all understanding and holds you in His loving arms and makes you whole again. I know how much it hurts to lose someone and what it can do to your mind,body, spirit, soul,just every part of you. I know how you feel lost and uncertain of everything you think,feel or do. It does a number on you. Let God love you through it. That's all I know. God loves you more than even your love did and He is always there. ALWAYS. He promised never leave us or forsake us. This all may sound trite. I speak from a place of live and empathy. I have suffered a great deal in my life. Suffering seems like that's all I have some days. But I have to cry out to my Father, to my Lord Jesus, and I always get through if I remember to seek Him. Blessings. I will keep you in my prayers. God bless you greatly.

  • @toussaintan

    @toussaintan

    4 жыл бұрын

    🙍 you're so strong. 💞 Don't force it. Just let it happen in God's time.

  • @ghs9725

    @ghs9725

    4 жыл бұрын

    It heart breaking and scary that the rships where we are compatible don't last so help us God,

  • @c.l.montoya2972

    @c.l.montoya2972

    4 жыл бұрын

    Sorry for your loss Maria🙏🏽 Sounds like your man was a treasure & you are also a treasure. Your man is building your castle in the sky & waiting for the time our Lord Jesus Christ reunites you two. Honor your memory of him in your dear heart. The afterlife is beautiful beyond our comprehension, have faith you will be together again & don’t forget to live & love your remaining time on earth. God Bless you always sweet lady.💖🌸💖😘

  • @monicajordan9284

    @monicajordan9284

    3 жыл бұрын

    That was a blessing to have had a "Adam" in your life 🥰 and trust and believe God another Adam will find you if it's in God's plan! Jeremiah 29:11 🙏🏽🧡

  • @missvanria7174
    @missvanria71745 жыл бұрын

    Life changing! Where were you when i was in my twenties and thirties :)

  • @benitaflynn7283
    @benitaflynn72836 жыл бұрын

    Simple and deeply fascinated by your profound words. God Bless you and your loved ones, ALWAYS! Panama city Panama - Central America

  • @Zarasha1
    @Zarasha15 жыл бұрын

    He is so funny. " My wife can be ghetto" I love that. She can be herself.

  • @Aracely_Lopez
    @Aracely_Lopez2 жыл бұрын

    I never comment on videos but I have to say, you are like music to my ears, literally the voice of a father I never had. Thank you.

  • @gummybear4011
    @gummybear40116 жыл бұрын

    🙌👏👏👏Thank you Father Blakes! I needed this! You just confirmed that I made the right decision...to walk away! Thru this message..I realize my guy is not understanding,a lil tight on a dollar, doesn't have the mind to provide for me (he ALWAYS talking about a woman working n making money),has no patience,only wants to move at his pace,n simply don't know my value. WOW! He is the wrong man! N I feel good that I truly know it now!🙏

  • @e.l.lucychiron
    @e.l.lucychiron5 жыл бұрын

    When you were talking about your partner having basic respect, and then you just stopped and looked right through the camera lens at me, I felt that. 😂

  • @gigiirias9797
    @gigiirias97973 жыл бұрын

    14 years with the father of my child...no marriage...God is good and showed me my worth. I wish him well and wait until God leads me to my husband! God bless you Pastor and protect you and your family! You are a blessing and I came across your videos recently. Stay blessed in the name of Jesus! Amen!

  • @nikenikao6747
    @nikenikao67476 жыл бұрын

    Pastor is always on time. Thank you so much for such wisdom his words always aids me with my own confirmation. I'm so excited!!! 😌

  • @bettygathee6456
    @bettygathee64563 жыл бұрын

    Sometime I wish I knew you 10 yrs ago things wouldnt be the way they are in my life ..made wrong choices ended up as a single mother ...thank you pastor

  • @whitneynettles3830
    @whitneynettles38306 жыл бұрын

    "You'll be so proud of the man that he becomes on your watch.". Amen!! In Jesus name!

  • @prettybrwneyez7757
    @prettybrwneyez77576 жыл бұрын

    This is one of my favorite ones from you...

  • @lyndreal.mcneill2774
    @lyndreal.mcneill27746 жыл бұрын

    I married a man who declared all he wanted to do was treat me like a Queen & take care of me and 6 months in he suggests that I get a part time gig. I couldn't fathom why in the world I would need to work a 2nd job when I married this man who brought a 2nd income to the household . . . needless to say, the marriage has run its course. Thank you for this powerful and much needed Word!

  • @purrcoy1717
    @purrcoy17176 жыл бұрын

    Everything about you reminds me of my dad as far as your mannerisms and demeanor...reminds me of a really great side of him that i didn't get to witness a whole lot and you remind me of the kind of a relationship with my dad that i never had thanks so much

  • @kamarafavour4935
    @kamarafavour49354 жыл бұрын

    What a wonderful teaching by pastor RC Blake's jr am so tuach by your teaching sir more grace more fire fire fire in your life

  • @idealfaith4699
    @idealfaith46995 жыл бұрын

    Every thing you said reflect in my life, from the beginning go the end. I can't wait to start all over again. I made so much mistake picking the wrong one and it has cost me 15 years of wasted life.

  • @walkingwiththemosthighgod4507
    @walkingwiththemosthighgod45076 жыл бұрын

    Totally agree with "Being Patient"

  • @suite467T
    @suite467T5 жыл бұрын

    You are hilarious!! 🤣🤣 But I appreciate your knowledge. Bless you Bishop!!

  • @MsDeshoun
    @MsDeshoun6 жыл бұрын

    This was a very powerful lesson and I thoroughly enjoyed it. Thank you! Had me cracking up. I love your humor in your messages.

  • @happylindsay4475
    @happylindsay44753 жыл бұрын

    The patience piece... this was powerful.🙏🏽❤️💯

  • @catherinebroadnax4089
    @catherinebroadnax40893 жыл бұрын

    Bishop Blakes, you are literally saving my life. I have been experiencing some issues with my husband and all of your lessons have been on point. We are separated at this point. Now that he is out of the home, the Holy Spirit has been revealing so many untruths. God Bless you and Lisa.❤

  • @RealEstatemarie
    @RealEstatemarie6 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much. I really needed to hear this message at this exact time. ❤

  • @zayasnaturalhairhaven3451
    @zayasnaturalhairhaven34514 жыл бұрын

    I'm more interested in a man whose spiritual muscle outweighs his physical muscles. he better understand kingdom things and live according to God's ways and lead me to God

  • @pjbachelor1123
    @pjbachelor11233 жыл бұрын

    Praise God 🙏 ... I'm so grateful to find your ad ... I listen very carefully, very enlightening ... THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU

  • @Vera-dg3hf
    @Vera-dg3hf3 жыл бұрын

    You are such a big blessing in my life. Your videos are so timely. I found you and don’t know how. Thank you for all the wisdom shared. May God continue to bless you and your family.

  • @renitatyree4252
    @renitatyree42524 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for being my spiritual father. I'm 48, been divorced and single almost 17 years now. My Father passed away 16 years ago.

  • @ingridmarrero8470
    @ingridmarrero84706 жыл бұрын

    Amen!!! I Agree!!! Thank God for You and You Tube!!! Yes!!!♥️♥️♥️😍😍😍

  • @aporschegirl
    @aporschegirl4 жыл бұрын

    This was a good reminder dad! I’m glad it popped up. God knows what you need when you need it!!!!

  • @zahraamanah8366
    @zahraamanah83665 жыл бұрын

    I like the vocabulary you are using sir, coming straight from the ancient times. My favourite words are: Covenant, spirit of generosity, and altar. Thank you for sharing universal wisdom that seemed lost...

  • @LonjeMarie7
    @LonjeMarie75 жыл бұрын

    My ice cream cone ha ha I love how he laughs at his own jokes

  • @channychan2182
    @channychan21826 жыл бұрын

    Thank you. You are speaking to me. I'd like to date but have not seen anyone that I'm interested in. The days of courting seem to be a thing if the past. Texting and no phone calls are what some people I've met seem to like to do. I know someone is out there but I don't want to settle for less. We might not end up together by simply dating but old fashioned courtship and respect can go a long way when dating. Dating is figuring things out.

  • @kathythomas8825
    @kathythomas88253 жыл бұрын

    Thank you pastor iam 56,learning how to do the right thing in my life,you never get to old to learn, every man and women should know their self worth,thank you in the name of the lord

  • @makishacox6100
    @makishacox61005 жыл бұрын

    Right man will you feel like you are number 1 , like you are the only ☝️ beautiful inside and outside! Priority

  • @tamelacole478
    @tamelacole4786 жыл бұрын

    YUPERS WE IN THAT DAY AND TIME I'M TOO OLD FOR THE DRAMA......GIVE ME STRENGTH JESUS®💪®

  • @convertibletan7950
    @convertibletan79506 жыл бұрын

    Bishop Blakes you are Preaching! PREACH. Praise God this is good word.

  • @realrosesforever3847
    @realrosesforever38473 жыл бұрын

    I thank God for you Bishop Blakes. Thank you so much for your messages of truth and thank you for setting a good example and being realistic about life's problems and issues. Its so refreshing to hear the Word of God not a carnal feel good message to tickle the hearer ears with worldly easy way outs. God Bless!

  • @angelgatlin9285
    @angelgatlin92853 жыл бұрын

    I believe you know when you meet your soulmate because it's something about that person spirit that attracts you its beyond understanding. When you meet the RIGHT one everything comes natural ......

  • @Bakari02
    @Bakari025 жыл бұрын

    lol! PASTOR you have me at work literally Laughing out Loud-You did this...

  • @patriciavallerycampbell2033
    @patriciavallerycampbell20336 жыл бұрын

    OH WOW!!! Somebody that really gets it. thank you for sharing pastor / first-lady Blake's

  • @amourah3132
    @amourah3132 Жыл бұрын

    Pastor Blakes what can I say but thank you for your words of wisdom and encouragement. You are so funny too! Your videos are loved by me! 😊😊

  • @soystef
    @soystef5 жыл бұрын

    This teaching never goes out of style.

  • @steffanygourley1926
    @steffanygourley19265 жыл бұрын

    This one was SOOO GOOD! Thanks pastor. Needed this on a bad day.

  • @jbillford6791
    @jbillford67914 жыл бұрын

    LOL! He had me cracking up laughing throughout this video. So thankful for Pastor Blakes and all of his wisdom.

  • @walkingwiththemosthighgod4507
    @walkingwiththemosthighgod45076 жыл бұрын

    Love the message. Praise God

  • @tiffanyjones1857
    @tiffanyjones18576 жыл бұрын

    you're so full of wisdom. thank you for allowing god to use you. you're such a blessing to God's kingdom.

  • @teachers.higgins2150
    @teachers.higgins21505 жыл бұрын

    Wow I'm a Jamaican so it's good to know that your wife is Jamaican born

  • @kp7223
    @kp72236 жыл бұрын

    Powerful message, thank you.

  • @jezreelestrera3611
    @jezreelestrera36114 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Pastor. Your videos have taught me a lot of things about relationship. These videos of yours keep me company during quarantine. May God bless you more ! Your health, household, and ministry. Jezreel, 28 female, from the Philippines

  • @lyndapeoples8127
    @lyndapeoples81275 жыл бұрын

    The right one..."assembly required "....has the right parts..a job, loves God and has a vision.