Return to India Mental Trap - Chakravyuh - Hindi Video Straight from my heart.
This video is about Mental trap some people stuck in while want to return to India.
In this channel, I talk about my return to India experience after spending 15+ years in the USA.
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Im so glad to see you came back to India and when you said yahan dhool hai traffic ho par sukoon yahin milta hai. ❤️ true sir, I agree with the point that kids raised in India are far smarter and learn to deal with pressure and hard work! Very very good decision.
@no-oneknows9236
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Sehaj ji for your comment and appreciation. Nothing like mera desh.
You summarized everyone’s feelings and emotions in words who are outside of India. After 12 years in Canada, we are planning to move back. Our daughter is 2.5 years old. It’s the best time to make this move. Thank you for this video.
I cleared all my USMLE exams with scoting in top percentile after becoming doctor in India. Would have gotten post graduation at a decent Hospital. But I left it my USMLE journey. And have started my NEET PG preparation ( Indian post-graduation exams for doctors). Your video had been of great help. Keep making videos, with much more deeper thoughts. Grate salute to you.
@no-oneknows9236
3 ай бұрын
Thanks 🙏
Thanks Dear ...
Thanks for the videos. Very useful for who are in dilemma. As you rightly said it is a chakravyuh and we want to come out of it. Beautifully explained.
Bhout he ghazab awaaz aur delivery hai!
@no-oneknows9236
4 ай бұрын
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You talk from your heart.
@no-oneknows9236
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Latika ji 🙏
True and agree with you.
Eye Opening. Dil baat kahi apne.
@no-oneknows9236
Жыл бұрын
Thanks appreciate it 🙏
Mann ki baat kar di aapne!!
@no-oneknows9236
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Tushar bhai 🙏
Thank you for posting this and your channel. 13:20 onwards really struck a chord. I’ve shared this with my friends now. Really appreciate Pawan ji your honesty and you taking the time out to make these videos. Really good to see your daughter happy in India after living in the US!
@no-oneknows9236
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Kishor appreciate it.
Loved your perspective in terms of things. So rightly summed
@no-oneknows9236
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Rahul
Exact feeling and realization....
@no-oneknows9236
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Praveen
Amazing talk sir. I have true respect for you
@no-oneknows9236
11 ай бұрын
Thanks @superstar 😀, nice name .. All the very best to you and family.
So awesome !
@no-oneknows9236
Жыл бұрын
Thanks!!
Sir I’m in Canada n analyse this trap daily in my mind. I have huge respect for u after watching this- as u spoke from heart, bahut kam logo maine itne guts hote hai 🙏
@no-oneknows9236
8 ай бұрын
Thanks 🙏 , All the very best.
Thanks a ton
@no-oneknows9236
4 ай бұрын
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Thanks a lot for making these videos sir.
@no-oneknows9236
7 ай бұрын
Thanks 🙏
thanks alot!
@no-oneknows9236
5 ай бұрын
You're welcome!
Its called Matrix Brother. We all are stuck in it
it's actually sad that we middle class lndians had to look west few decades ago as our nation had no leadership no vision and hence we kept exporting our iq to the west
we are in 2023...the process of dedollarisation has begun quietly and next 10 years l see more snd more lndians returning back....
@AkshatJha
Жыл бұрын
Dedollarisation? What are you smoking mate? India continues to make progress but it will be a while before India comes to being developed. Indians returning to India is no doubt a great thing.
@rohittalwar5602
Жыл бұрын
@@AkshatJha DE dollarisation is part of the ongoing geopolitical shift from unipolar to multipolar world its a slow process but irreversible
we are living in times when after ww2 ....the world system is undergoing a change ...being in lndia is a better bet
bahut sahi bola , mien kud video bannane walla tha but i dont think apseh acha bana paunga u have covered all things
@no-oneknows9236
5 ай бұрын
Thanks 🙏 Please share your perspective it may help people.
You not rong you're so right
@no-oneknows9236
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Bhavin bhai 🙏
Hi Pawan , After hearing you looks like we have been pressing the snooze button for 10 years 😢 You are so clear and hats off to you . Each and every thing you said is so true .Emotional well being is something that kids are missing out and it is so crucial for their development. You are right that this is a trap , we keep delaying and delaying till it’s too late . You spoke from the heart , I agree with kids angle which is what me and my spouse are facing . How did you convince your daughters Especially Elder one to move back ? My only child girl is 10 but not open to returning to India but happy to visit . Please advise . Keep making more videos , you are helping those stuck in this dilemma of returning back 🙏🙏🙏
@no-oneknows9236
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Jyoti ji for your comment and appreciation. To be honest with you I was also confused and in dilemma so went through exactly what are you going through🙏 I told my daughter honestly what we are trying to achieve and we need to help each other during this process. I am thinking about making another video about similar topic as few other requests are there.
@Calijyot
Жыл бұрын
🙏thank you Pawan . That would be great and eagerly looking forward to that . Adjusting to India especially from a girls perspective on how daily life has changed for them would be wonderful. Thanks for taking the time to respond !
but anyways very few get green card and citizenship...majority are on h1b...so always on tenterhooks till the employer wants you.
Can you make a video on how much many is enough to come back?
@mannysinghmrsinghinvests7033
Жыл бұрын
I would say you should atleast have a 1 lakh rupees per month to live a good life
I dream of settling in Usa. I have never been there but it is tempting . Pls enlighten why u went to usa. What are pros and cons etx?
@no-oneknows9236
10 ай бұрын
Thanks for your comment. What you do and how are you planning to go to USA?
It was amazing listening to you. Where can i get in touch with you?
@no-oneknows9236
Жыл бұрын
Hi Vedant , thanks for your comments. Let’s start at nooneknowsr2i@gmail.com
What’s your thought on someone who has citizen ship of Australia?
@no-oneknows9236
Жыл бұрын
If NRI is a citizen of Australia or any country they are living in, they definitely can come and see if they like to live India after spending few years outside. Few of my friends are US citizen and living in India for a while and their kids going to college in India as well but some have returned back to US after 4-5 years in India. So different people different priorities but unless you try you won’t know at the same time leaving comfort zone and readjusting to new city would have some challenges. But again you are born here so you will figure out and would love to be back. Thanks Nisha for your comment. Please let me know if I can help with anything else.
@NishaKumari-ig6ho
11 ай бұрын
Thanks for your reply .Truely appreciate your videos .
Hi Pavan bhai. I am 40+ ( soon will be 41). Come from a small-town in India. Started job in Mumbai and left India in 2008. Till now i always have the zeal and inner wish to go back, but was missing the trigger. Almost simar to you. Things changed recently. I am getting the trigger now.. i feel my root is getting disconnected slowly. I have already lost my parents, but siblings and in laws are thr. If i want to go back to my home town, how can i cope with the job? How did you manage to get your IT job in Indor?
@no-oneknows9236
Жыл бұрын
Hi Iquest, Thanks for sharing your journey. Return to India will come to every NRIs mind given the situation and trigger. IT job in home town comes with adjustments, which mean low pay. I am also not in home town and trying to be in home town as much as possible, but being in India gives you flexibility to go to home town and meet people more often then from US.
@iquestfind-ut1qm
Жыл бұрын
@@no-oneknows9236 thanks for your prompt response. I have many options in bangalore and hyderabad. That will be a better situation than in abroad. But I have the fear that life in these places will still keep me far from my town. If kids start living there, moving them again to my home town would be difficult. I feel that kids can have a stronger root and attachment in their home town.
@ravishingravi
9 ай бұрын
@@iquestfind-ut1qmI dare say your fear is creating another Chakravyuh.
@iquestfind-ut1qm
9 ай бұрын
@ravishingravi Yes, I agree. It could create agin a chakravyuh. I am getting myself prepared. We decided to go back in the next educational season, be it bangalore or my hometown, wherever i get whatever role.
@ravishingravi
9 ай бұрын
@@iquestfind-ut1qm I am in the same phase. I have to move Bengaluru and life will be good. But mind playing tricks. I dont have children. I have possible cititizenship if I stay for 1 year. But then that was not my goal. It can be a challenge to let go at times. Soometimes, the intangibles in your environment change you. "Moh" ban jaata hai. Its not just this decision. In life, we keep getting entangled.
After hearing you,i felt like I am loosing my values for some extra dollars
@no-oneknows9236
Жыл бұрын
Hi Rahul ji, Sorry my intention was not to make you feel bad about your decision. USA or any other country you live in is equally good but I was not able to fit and was not content. II am just sharing my experiences and it may help you or someone else in some ways.🙏 Again the decisions we took to go to abroad was right at that time , to become financially better and career was. Today we may need to take some other decision based on conditions and our feelings. Thanks for your comment and hope you get what looking for.
@rahuls1374
Жыл бұрын
@@no-oneknows9236 Thanks..I understood 😊
I am in India only but away from my home town.... living in different state due to job ...but i feel same as u...as if i live in foreign country...
@no-oneknows9236
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for your comment @vinu552 , There is no place like hometown and you would always feel alienated in other towns but that feeling exemplified when living in other countries. You won’t be able to relate to many things in other countries like you would do in India.
@Vijay55234
Жыл бұрын
@@no-oneknows9236 Yes sir i totally understand the way u feel in other countries... As it is a totally different world....at young age one can cope up .but after one reach 40..or up..and once family starts growing over there.. feel hard to live over there..one or other day one wants,( in worst sinerio atlist before dying) return to Home country...
@Vijay55234
11 ай бұрын
I watched your videos repeatedly....i. feel sukoon listening.. someone speaking from the heart......
@no-oneknows9236
11 ай бұрын
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Thank Christ......don't forget to renounce your foreign citizenship!
Thank you Sir for this video. If I can talk to you….that would be great. If it’s ok…please share your number.
@no-oneknows9236
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for your comment and understanding. You can reach out to me at nooneknowsr2i@gmail.com and we can go from there.
You summarized everyone’s feelings and emotions in words who are outside of India. After 12 years in Canada, we are planning to move back. Our daughter is 2.5 years old. It’s the best time to make this move. Thank you for this video.
@no-oneknows9236
2 ай бұрын
Thanks appreciate your comment.