This is was so helpful for me. I met a guy, within the first few weeks he got upset cause I told him no to something he wanted from me. He threw a temper tantrum, much like your husband described. I’ve never run faster from someone. Don’t let people tell you you’re over analyzing when you notice these behavioral patterns in people. They are real and if they are showing a side of themselves that is different from the things that they are saying, take heed to that.

@berdhanya

7 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing!

@2brainylike

7 ай бұрын

Running away is not always the answer unless he was asking something morally unjust of you, but having the language to communicate to him what you were feeling and what your idea of a healthy relationship is may have been helpful. He may not have been fools Gold, he could've just never experienced a woman like you. Eh, nevermind me...just another perspective.

That’s how you know- that he can’t answer it. Because he’s independent in his actions so whether you are acting in a certain way or not it’s irrelevant. Great video gracias x

@createa.googleaccount713

7 ай бұрын

❤

I love that you call it "babying" and not "mothering". Emphasizes how unflattering that is to him.

“What you see is what you get” wow! I like this phrase. So true. Men especially are the least out of the sexes to be changed. If you want a strong, confident and masculine man as a husband, if you are not seeing it in your now boyfriend, cut off the relationship fast and remain happily single till the kind of man your heart desires comes by. Talking from experience. Thank you mam for inviting your beautiful love to contribute in this episode.❤👌

Basically dont feed his childishness! Don't entertain that part of him. Give attention to the man traits and focus on praising them than the childishly behavior

I am not perfect and know that I wilbever be but something I wish to work on is being secure as a woman. I find my past trumas stealing the joy of my present romance. I also feel like I have not acquainted myself with my true self as I have allowed myself to change to suit the needs of those in my life. This was very insightful for me and I appreciate the time you've both have put aside to share this wisdom.

@queenmi274

7 ай бұрын

Tyfs

Amazing! Please keep it going... most people, including me, hold a distorted view of feminine and masculine energy, and we suffer greatly. Thank you!!!

@Eboni-J

7 ай бұрын

To acknowledge that is so profound and says so much about your self-awareness. I commend you ♥️ This is very true and because so many of us are looking to heal and reconcile this part of us, I believe there is hope for humanity and our future.

As a woman soon to be married, this is right on time. I needed to hear and see what that looks like in real time, thank you for bringing him.

@friktermind

7 ай бұрын

All the best! May everything best you need in life guide you!

@minkz002

7 ай бұрын

All the best 💫💕 wishing you both well.

This is a energy exchange both me and my partner has had. We both have co dependency attributes so we have needed from the other what we accually shoulf give ourselfs... He wanted me to be his mother and I wanted him to be my father. This has destoyed our intimacy and sexual attraction... Thank you for this knowledge. I know where to begin changing this dynamic, if its even possible.

He was basically like "I don't know. I'm not a baby that needs to be babied so I wouldn't know how to answer that" 😂

There's a lot of cleaning up to do, we have become so dysfunctional by the traumatizing stuff that has been put upon the human race for so long... At the other hand: you are explaining all this in such a beautiful manner, it makes it all a lot easier to understand and to do! I hope many people will find this way of living with themselves and others soon, so that this beautiful planet will thrive! Thank you Berdhanya!! 💗

This is the type of talk I wish I could have with my parents/family about what I'm experiencing with my partner/child's father. Thank you for the non judgement and the loving approach you take to this topic. Thank you for taking time to do this because women like me, who are experiencing this, especially on an abusive level, so badly need this!

Just by sitting next to each other and having this conversation you can feel the energy they both exude which basically speak for itself and speaks very loud to me, you both are such a gift just by being; and then the teaching, so rich!! Amazing, thank you both!

@berdhanya

7 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing!

What you see is what you get. Take it or leave it. Not cganging to their expectations. So needed to gear this video. Thankyou such calm wise people

The maiden, the mother, the crone.

@nyasha4964

7 ай бұрын

The harlot?

@chelseafisher6881

7 ай бұрын

Persephone, Demeter, Hecate

Thank you, Mr. Matthew.

Thanks guys - these are invaluable 🙏 this knowledge should definitely be shared ❤

thank you both ❤

what a wonderfully relaxed couple! enjoyable to watch these two beings..

@berdhanya

3 ай бұрын

You are so kind

I really enjoy this series and looking forward for more wisdom teachings

Great couple Inspiring tips thank you for sharing

Very interesting, I don't think I have seen any information like this online. I also think it's great that there is both the male and female point of view. I look forward to more videos in your relationship series. What is your view point on males cheating?

@berdhanya

6 ай бұрын

thank you for sharing and for the suggestion on the male cheating

That is very beautiful video and so honest sharing. Very helpful. Thank you so much ❤ bless you both 🦋

appreciate your discussion shared - thank you

You have our undivided attention & I can easily clearly hear you! Thank you so much for considering your listing audience ❤ 😊☺ I very much appreciate your channel, it's nice to have 2 Wise People Sharing Wisdom 💫🙏🏻

@createa.googleaccount713

7 ай бұрын

Yes, most helpful. Gratefully 🙏🏻

I love this! So simple and clear and revealingly about the traps we fall into ❤

@berdhanya

7 ай бұрын

Yes! Thank you!

Thank you for your good good questions. They really enrich my perspective and attitude!

@berdhanya

7 ай бұрын

Glad to hear that!

❤ Thank you so much!

@berdhanya

7 ай бұрын

Any time!

Oh so beautiful! Thank you for another fantastic class❤️🙏🕊

@berdhanya

7 ай бұрын

You are so welcome

Powerful video

Thank you❤❤❤

@berdhanya

7 ай бұрын

Welcome!!

Hi very interesting and beautiful to listen to you two , i think every person loves in his own natural without thinking and analizing this things couse love is love and that's it if is functioning is from God !

Thank you so much for these! You both are sooo reminding my grandparents ❤ such wisdom, sending love ❤

@berdhanya

5 ай бұрын

You are so welcome!

Awww I love this

Beautiful

Yes! Very helpful`❤️❤️💯! -💚*🙏🏽

@berdhanya

7 ай бұрын

So glad!

Internet parents ❤

I like the what you see is what you get :)

Thank you for such an open discussion. What does it mean for a woman to be insecure? I have seen my borhers being adult babies who expect thier sisters to even act like mother, so I have learned how to baby men around me, and even have learned how to over-burden or blame them for not considering me a baby. Any thoughts about it...

I wish for more men to find this video as well!

How do you support a man when he is sick or in need without mothering him?

@Tashi298

7 ай бұрын

Good question. I would like to know to.

@GigiSupreme

7 ай бұрын

Nurturing/caring for (as when sick) is not the same as mothering.

In every woman there IS a baby as well!

@Berdhanya. Prepare your husband before or write script that way his thoughts flow and he expresses himself best

@berdhanya

7 ай бұрын

That is precise a modification I don't need to do, he is what he is, any " preparation" takes away what he need to learn by himself.- not because I have a vision he has to follow.

@africancat2740

7 ай бұрын

@@berdhanya the script that he writes on his own too . They are his thoughts and words . Maybe note down key points . If I ask you to mention your favorite artistes on the spot you won't be able to. But if I ask you to write them before and discuss it's better

@kenyarodriguez3853

7 ай бұрын

@@africancat2740 who's youtube video is this? It's hers. They can do as they please with their channel. A lot of us understood what he said and we appreicate his wisdom. If you don't like it, watch something else. Simple.

So much peace u two emanate. Clarity in peace🤍 thank you 🙏🏻